Ep. 14: Women Praying Janazah and Visiting Graves | For Those Left Behind by Dr. Omar Suleiman

[@mimi9644]

can you imagine how many muslim women are denied their right to grieve and seek closure at the gravesite bc of the ignorance of imam's who say women can't visit the gravesite? subhanallah for this series; may Allah reward the yaqeen team.

[@reem2944]

Yes

[@obsessedfaisal9003]

And mostly in south Asian countries. 🥲

[@ZeeArtss]

yess because some women hit themselves and scream just for this.. otherwise its ok to go grieve but there is a limit of everything.

[@mnshaikh84]

They should visit with the intentions that this is where they have to come too after death, and it's a reminder for them to follow the commandments of Allah and hope to gain jannah eventually.

[@navinstrument8353]

Haram police

[@zeenathshiffani1036]

My father passed away a week ago many women kept on telling me not to cry which threw into a rage how could a daughter not weep her dad's death?even worse when my brother took me to see his grave some random man told him not to bring women alhamdulillah my brother ignored him and took me to my beloved dad Thank you doctor this is enough alhamdulillah

[@nazm6621]

Assalmoalikum sister my mum passed away a month ago and women didn't let me cry,I just wanted to hide somewhere so I could cry as much as I wanted maybe that's why I still feel like I want to cry. How can you control yourself.loosing mum or dad is not a small loss. If you are not crying that day when are you going to cry than. May Allah SWT give you sabar and your,mine and everyone's parents a higher place in Jannah ameen.

[@LEARNENGLISH22783]

ALLAH, SubhanALLAH, MashALLAH, InshALLAH and JazakALLAH are written in capital.

[@AlisonNoon-r7x]

It's natural to cry. I would of told them where to go!! Pure ignorance

[@FarhanLifts]

Unfortunately, In India where I live, people almost goes against the hadith, if someone tries to correct them, they call that person a wahabi🤦🏻‍♂️...the people here wail too much...as well as they do not allow the Ladies to enter the graveyard...May Allah guide the people here in India...Ameen 💗

[@poetry8958]

That's exactly true.

[@iqrahaque4398]

That's so true!

[@alimranahmed4116]

What you said is 100% true for Bangladesh as well.

[@MaazKhan-co7us]

Man here, in India women's doesn't pray in mosque, very few mosque allow women. Many women's think they are not allowed in mosque, but I think the main reason is bcoz of population of the country.

[@sumaira393]

This applies to Pakistan as well, ditto

[@mehboobajan5845]

I rarely comment on any video. However, I had to express myself today as my heart is full of joy. This video has enlightened me in a much needed way and has answered one of my most troubling queries. May Allah bless you and keep you firm on His path.

[@Msferedrose]

“True patience is at the first stroke of calamity.” - Prophet Mohammad sws. I cannot thank you enough for sharing this. May Allah swt have mercy on you dear Sheikh and May the Most Merciful have mercy on all of the souls that have left us this past year.

[@hamnamukhtar2178]

It means that Womans can visit the graveyard??

[@ilwada2433]

Ameen

[@naziazaffar8732]

Ameen ya Rab...

[@mrsBainbridge]

@@hamnamukhtar2178 yes, women are allowed to visit the graveyard, so long as they do not wail, or be known as the one who frequents the graveyard (i.e., don't go too often)

[@marwahomayoun1815]

Subhanallah, my whole life i’ve been taught that women aren’t allowed to visit graveyards and i’ve always had this question as to how we can then be reminded of death if we’re not allowed to visit the dead like men are

[@akongvlogg9737]

Same here😅😭thanks to this vedio

[@shepardonly]

Women are not allowed to go to the graveyard....

[@ree3762]

@@shepardonlyyes they are

[@maywin4204]

Visited my Mother, G.Father and my uncle's graves today and prayed. Ameen.

[@AlisonNoon-r7x]

Visit loved ones, I always do.

[@maywin4204]

I'd never had time to wailing weep for my Mother as I'm only one with the responsible to request run for certifying and death certificates to burry her in time. After receiving called my relatives to help me for Janasza., but everything was smooth with Allah help as her daugther responsible. May Mother rest in peace., now I weep for her daily and miss her. Subhanallarhi AMEEN.

[@stayweird99]

May Allah grant her jannah

[@sweet.cookie625]

May Allah grant her Jannat... Ameen.

[@bilkisudiallo8153]

May Allah forgive her short comings and our parents...,I lost my mum to COVID recently I also didn't have that time but I cry every day now

[@musawigatwabi7727]

May Allah grant her jannah

[@raffatshaikh6335]

Ohhh .....was made to believe that women can't enter graveyards .....my sister passed away on the 25th of this ramadan and I find peace that the graveyard is just opposite my house and I can see my sister's grave from my window and pray for her

[@ashrafkhadri4060]

MashaAllah ur lucky

[@therealyousef]

This series is truly amazing. I look forward to my lunch break even more now. Sorry but you cant stop until I retire Sheikh haha

[@TranquilCastlestar]

If you can't spend your break but his teachings, how can you spend retirement without him? May Allah make him more active and successful before and after when you retire:)

[@hamzaotm]

Is visiting grave prohibited during women monthly cycle?

[@fatimaahmad8702]

This was very beneficial. Jazah Khallah Khair Omar Suleiman. I love how you address these topics and grant clarity to us all. Islam is so beautiful!

[@bg5462]

Masha Allah so true

[@NineoClockTaleswithNimra]

Wow, you clear up doubts like magic! Subhan Allah! We are truly blessed to have you as our mentor. May Allah keep you safe and healthy. Ameen.

[@shaikummesalma4077]

Ameen Allahumma ameen

[@padashtbarzanji9690]

My grand ma died one month ago and your videos Dr comforts me sense i have never experienced this before

[@fatmaqaderi9015]

Salaam O Alikum May Allah bless you, beloved sheikh. Glad for having you in Islam. جزاک الله خيراً

[@fathima.iloveallah.3853]

Jizakallahu kheeyr Shiekh Dr.Imam. Omar Suleiman

[@tahzimaferdousbarbhuiya5593]

Much needed series it was. May Allah swt reward the entire team and from the bottom of my heart Jazak'Allah ♥

[@ZM-et7zt]

I have always wanted to understand this, may Allah reward you all for this incredible series.

[@nusrattania8408]

Pls request to all ,pray for the Maghfirah for my grandmother(both) and grandfather(both), may Allah(SWT) forgive their all sins,may Allah (SWT) grant them the highest Jannatul Firdaus,and protect them from the trial of the grave and torment of fire,O ALLAH forgive them and have mercy upon them,Pardon them, surely you are The Most Merciful.(AMIN).LA ILAHA ILLALLAH MUHAMMADUR RASULULLAH (Sallallahu alayhi wa sallam).AMIN.AMIN.AMIN.

[@hamidankhan8096]

Please let us know how to visit a grave when you conclude the series- like how to enter the graveyard, what to say, where to stand, can we sit next to it to "talk". And also not stepping over other graves. I was not able to find any on YT. Thank you Sheikh. Kiss Maryam for me.

[@amiralam8868]

He already did that in the first part of this series.

[@shagaffaridi1530]

O Allah! Shower your mercy upon us out of your mercy, O the most merciful of those who show mercy ! Aameen 🤲

[@theImransiddique]

Jazakallah khair. This clears lot of dust and doubts.

[@amriyahk8108]

I just lost my child 😭 i was just shouting and crying..my Allah for give me

[@fatimabaig5286]

My sister, may Allah grant u and ur family mercy ease. This was a difficult time for you. Your child will be a reason for u to go to jannah based on a hadith. My duas and love towards ur family

[@hinnaamahboob5083]

Ameen

[@shaikummesalma4077]

Literally Sis tough time may Allah bless u

[@ifrah5198]

My sister, I understand it's a really hard time. May Allah hold your heart and give you immense sabr. Ameen.

[@jisa786]

You teach me a lot and make me happy! This is great!

[@developmind8590]

Come and join my channel. It has nice Islamic lessons in Arabic

[@abubibs]

My Muslim Brothers and Sisters... I have been afflicted by evil and only Allah Knows what it is and I have faith in Allah He Will Save me and my children... Please make invocation for us in your prayers that Allah Removes this evil from us... I plead you... Your brother Rani إخواني وأخواتي المسلمون ... أصبت بالشر والله وحده يعلم ما هو و انا أمن بالله انه سوف ينقذني وأولادي ... أرجو الدعاء لنا أن يزيل الله هذا الشر... اترجاكم... اخوكم راني

[@farhanaerum]

Aameen

[@shanzasiddique9747]

This is such a beautiful series, Jazak Allah!

[@shakeerpashapasha2458]

Mashallaha, may Allah bless you all those doing remarkable seen work🤲🤲🤲🤲

[@mardimedia1]

This matter needs more research and investigation and I encourage all of us to investigate it further. Islam is based on facts and proof not personal opinions or citing Ahadieth that are known to be weak.

[@monazaizan947]

In Malaysia, women go through the Janazah with men as and everyone behaved in respectable manner.. alhamdulillah

[@shahidaesa2299]

Absolutely brilliqnt knowledgeable simple series. Allah reward the whole team 🤲 snd from the bottom of my hear❤️💞 Jazakallah

[@aryankhan2534]

Everyone around me only told me that it is not allowed for women to visit graves. and now here in india it is even culturally prohibited.

[@aryankhan2534]

@@bluegarson right, thank you.

[@aliabereka9496]

@@bluegarson 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 💯💯💯

[@shaikummesalma4077]

True words literally for us in India

[@seefarkhan]

As Salaam alaikum Please pray for the magfirat of my marhoom mother Farhath Jabeen who passed away few days ago.. May Allah bless her Jannatul Firdous and protect her from the azab of Kabr and aag of Jahannam.

[@janaansabree2435]

As salamu alaikum can you please do a series where you explain each Surah in the Quran in layman’s terms? I find it hard to understand the translation and sometimes I don’t know what stories are being referred to. Kinda of like Quran for dummies lol. I know that would take a long time, but I feel like it would be great for young children too, to understand what each surah is about and why it was revealed. To know what each verse means in today’s English, all compiled in one place like a series.

[@cookiekitten0969]

yess, i would absolutely love this too

[@fathima.iloveallah.3853]

By Dr.Sheikh.Imam. Omar Suleiman✅

[@sousouhi4972]

This series has been incredible, thank you.

[@brownsugar8709]

Beautiful series...

[@meat6497]

Assalamu Alaikum Brothers and Sisters. Looking forward to this episode.

[@fdazzlyhossain16]

Really thankful to see such useful video since so many people out there are really not sure or bit confuse regarding this women issue... I can tell'em now ! 😁..

[@hamnamukhtar2178]

Please explain me that womans are allowed to visit graveyard??

[@nehasiddiqui6194]

Now I'm glad to know that women are also allowed to visit graveyard... May Allah guide those who ignore the Sunnah of prophet Muhammad saw

[@eyelinkcargo2535]

Mashallah What an amazing episode it is JazakaAllah kheyr ya Sheikh Dr..I love you for the sake of Allah a.w and be blessed ameen thuma ameen....

[@hassanawale3576]

Jazakallahu kheir Bro

[@samanb1268]

Another amazing lecture! JazzakaAllah khair

[@abeerhussain7672]

Very important topic.jazakAllah

[@sonyab.256]

last year when my father passed away i have follow the janaza, they buried him on the firt day of ramadan and i was were, outside the cimitery, it was impossible for me to stay at home when my love one was entering his last home. i came to visit him the next day

[@TranquilCastlestar]

Jazakallah Khair for this series.

[@LEARNENGLISH22783]

ALLAH, SubhanALLAH, MashALLAH, InshALLAH and JazakALLAH are written in capital.

[@lunaahmad9267]

Assalamualyekum dr. Suleiman .. i would like to know the evidence behind the knowledge you have just presented .. for me i am convinced of your way of thinking but i always search for evidence behind every saying .. thank you in advance.

[@SK-nx4dz]

It's nice to know that women also can visit as long as they dont break the rules I.e wailing etc. And how the prophet (saw) had changed it from women not being allowed to being allowed alhamdulilah

[@LEARNENGLISH22783]

ALLAH, SubhanALLAH, MashALLAH, InshALLAH and JazakALLAH are written in capital.

[@AlisonNoon-r7x]

I've been to many English funerals , and never heard women crying loud, it's also quite normal to cry and be sad.

[@SK-nx4dz]

@@AlisonNoon-r7x it happens alot in different countries around the world, less in England but common in other places.

[@AlisonNoon-r7x]

@@SK-nx4dz how do you greive properly? If I couldn't go to my familys funeral or grave side it would kill me mentally..

[@SK-nx4dz]

@@AlisonNoon-r7x we grieve the way our creator has permitted, that is what being a Muslim is, not doing what we feel like doing, but what our creator has ordained. Creator will know what's best for his creation.

[@nabeelmohamednabeel2627]

Salaam. I would like to know the reference of the hadith where aisha (RA) saying that the prophet (SAW) allowed women to visit graveyard. It will be more useful.

[@ajloveslifexo]

What do we read at the grave when we visit? I want to go see my father but I don't know what we are supposed to do when we are at the grave as per our Prophet (PBUH) guidance

[@bellakakkad422]

Can you help with details of the Hadith (exact Bukhari hadith) regarding visiting graves and it's approval by Prophet SAW

[@sababilkiss3771]

Thank you brother for clarifying this. JZK

[@zanubaaminuddin7245]

Alhamdulillah .and Jazakallah Khayran Dr Omar for the clear explanation .May Allah SWT reward you immensely

[@shaikummesalma4077]

Ameen Allahumma ameen

[@abedak1339]

جزاکاللہ ۔خیر

[@0000Konan]

Jazakallah!

[@Mamkubwa]

Thank you so much sheikh. Please re do this topic to reply on "Can women witness Janaza as the burial process at the grave yards? Lets say (those women) who do not wail or even cry. Can they go then? ALLAH KNOWS BEST!

[@abullais0461]

awesome lecture..

[@humadaud3575]

Salam. Please can you do a video on what you should recite when visiting a grave? Jazak Allah Khairun.

[@Snisar05]

I still didn’t get a clear answer about women present at the burial site watching the actual burial. Can some one elaborate.

[@ousmanyaku76]

masha Allah

[@aft0000]

I really appreciate this! thank you!

[@gems1717]

Since my mom died i visit her & many ignorant used to critise me & i responded ok ill not visit urs simple its btw me & my lord thts the only way to stop ths ignorant

[@zaynahsulog798]

Alhamdulillah. .

[@skbasir7501]

Jazakallah Khairan :)

[@LEARNENGLISH22783]

ALLAH, SubhanALLAH, MashALLAH, InshALLAH and JazakALLAH are written in capital.

[@maganhassan2627]

what do you mean the wailing causes harm to the dead? MashAllah great video anyways

[@hudaibamushtaq5483]

thank you !

[@silvernooninthesky]

Is wearing moisturising cream and sunscreen considered adornment?

[@Maria_Khan99]

No

[@hamzaotm]

Is visiting grave during monthly cycle prohibited?

[@kirankhanum7182]

Aslaamualaikum, my husband passed away 5 weeks ago. Do I need a mehram with me to visit his resting place?

[@abdouliemanneh2311]

Salam Sh. Needed clarification on the woman you mentioned crying before Rasoullullah at her son's grave. Do we know if this incident took place at the actual burial scene? Do we know if the woman in question, actually accompanied her son's janazah procession from the salatul janazah to the burial grounds? Is there any other authentic hadith that reported any sahabi, ra, following a janazah procession to the grave? May Allah, swt, reward you abundantly for your time and efforts in sharing these beneficial knowledge. You came highly recommended for the knowledge Allah, swt, bestows upon you on the sunnah of Rasoullullah, pbuh....

[@azraa7110]

Salaam from Nottingham Uk

[@rafiaababulkher1028]

In india it is said that the women who walks or enter the graveyard the people in the grave saw her naked !! It is also said that our prophet Muhammad sallahu alaihi wassalam stoped fatema R.a To enter the graveyard for this reason

[@yasucseau]

Assalamualaikum, Does women allowed to see the burial process of Janaza?

[@Als1822]

are* women

[@ShunitaRahman-xe5xl]

Assalamu alaikum Please could you advise if this is also applicable to pregnant women? I’ve read different opinions on this but mostly told that pregnant women should not visit the graves as they (the woman and the unborn baby) are vulnerable and could be harmed..?

[@msm5626]

Can you please bring references?

[@Doobd6]

Can I please request anyone to translate this series in Hindi/Urdu? So this reaches the people who We know are against this

[@shakirahbintamin382]

As salamu Alaykum Dr. Omar Suleiman. I would like to know. Is permissible to recite surah Ya Sin or any surah in The Noble Quran to the deceased person? Jazakallahu khayran

[@LEARNENGLISH22783]

ALLAH, SubhanALLAH, MashALLAH, InshALLAH and JazakALLAH are written in capital.

[@firozamk9227]

And if while visiting the grave, a few drops of tears happen to fall ... Is this haram?

[@ecai8362]

Give source of hadith when you are saying something please!!!

[@Liveforeever]

So can women follow the funeral procession and be present at the burial then?

[@tasmiarose9330]

Can someone please give the evidence of the incident mentioned here about Ayesha (R) visiting the grave. I really need it to show it to the persons who think its haram for women to visit the grave.

[@Tilly_2023]

What does frequent the graveyard mean?

[@yasucseau]

Assalamualaikum, During the period of Iddah can women visit grave with her son.

[@Layla6793]

Salalaahu caleyhi wasalam

[@SuperSufiSaint]

Salaam, I don't wish to be disrespectful but raw emotions come out, some do wail.

[@areenafarooque9953]

Can u please provide me this narration from sahih muslim ? (Women visiting grave )

[@madinakhamosh3128]

MashaAllah

[@nadiae.2638]

I didn't quite get everything..Is it impermissible to visit a graveyard without hijab? Is that the case for muslim graveyards only or for graveyards of all kinds?

[@pradelelien3267]

Ya Allah, what happened to them?

[@nikkisundori]

❤❤❤❤❤

[@rubaiyaamin8262]

Assalamualykum, my father passed away 2 days ago. It’s been a day since his burial. Is it permissible for my mother to go visit his grave?

[@mrrrrr5158]

Of course yes! For what logical reason should women not visit a graveyard!? There is absolutely no reason that can be justified.

[@fathima.iloveallah.3853]

❤️

[@MdAshikulHoqueAshik]

All praise is due to Allaah, this is a matter of difference of opinion but the correct statement is that it is not permissible for the women to visit the graves and that is because the Prophet [sallallahu alayhi wa salam] cursed those women who visit the graves. Imaam Ahmad narrated this in his Musnad (2/337) and at-Tirmidhee narrated it in his Sunnan (4/12) and Ibn Maajah narrated it in his Sunnan (1/502). All of them narrated from the hadeeth of Aboo Hurayrah (radhia Allaahu anhu). And in another narration " cursed are those women who visit the graves" Imaam Ahmad narrated it in his Musnad (1/229) Aboo Daawod narrated it in his Sunnan (3/216) and at-Tirmidhee narrated it in his Sunnan (2/4) and Nasaa'ee narrated it in his Sunnan (4/94-95) all of them from the hadeeth of Abdullaah Bin Abbaas (radhia Allaahu anhumaa) And the curse does not come about except in a matter that is forbidden and major in its prohibition but rather a major sin from amongst the greatest sins and that is because the general rule in the Major Sins is that when the consequence [of a sin] is a curse or the anger [of Allaah] or the fire or a severe threat or a punishment in this world [then it is a major sin]. So the Prophet (sallallaahu alayhi wa salam) cursed those women who visit the graves, [which] indicates that visitation of the graves by women is a major sin from amongst the major sins. So it is because of this hadeeth specifying the statement of the Prophet (sallallahu alayhi wa salam) "visit the graves because it is a reminder for you of the Akheerah" [the expression found in Muslim (2/671) "so visit the graves because it is a reminder for you of death" from the hadeeth of Aboo Hurayrah and look in the Sunnan of at-Tirmidhee (4/9) from the hadeeth of Buraydah (radhia Allaahu anhu). So this hadeeth is specific to men evidenced by the hadeeth "Allaah's curse be upon the women who visit the graves" and that is the correct statement upon which it is mandatory for the Muslimaat to traverse upon and that is because the women are weak and it is feared that she may express her mourning with Niyaahah [wailing] at the graves when she sees the grave of her husband or her brother or her close relatives that she will not be able to be patient and that she expresses her mourning by Niyaahah [wailing] and that is because the woman is Auwrah [that which should not be seen] and it is feared that when she goes out to the graveyards, and you all know even to the extent of the masjid, which is the place of Ibaadah that it is best for the woman to not go to it [i.e the masjid] and pray in her house. How much more the graveyards and the fear upon her is more severe? So the end result is that the truth is with the one who says: it is not permissible for the women to visit the graves. [this is a translation of the post above submitted by akhunaa mahmoud (hafidhahullah)the original fatwa is by Sheikh Saalih al-Fawzaan [hafidhahullaah] and translated into English by myself]

[@bedd444]

Women are emotional which means unpredictable that's why it is best for them not to follow janazah or witness burial.

[@Hussein-musa55903]

Women can also go to Janazah. Everything is not just for men!

[@nusrattania8408]

Pls request to all ,pray for the Maghfirah for my grandmother(both) and grandfather(both), may Allah(SWT) forgive their all sins,may Allah (SWT) grant them the highest Jannatul Firdaus,and protect them from the trial of the grave and torment of fire,O ALLAH forgive them and have mercy upon them,Pardon them, surely you are The Most Merciful.(AMIN).LA ILAHA ILLALLAH MUHAMMADUR RASULULLAH (Sallallahu alayhi wa sallam).AMIN.AMIN.AMIN.