Sweet Talk or Bitter Fruits - JEWISH INTIMACY (37)

[@gohnk8473]

Thank you for this. You add value to my life, my family and my future with the shiur Torah. תודה

[@YaronReuvenRabbi]

Baruch HaShem and thank you for learning and supporting our Torah and Kiruv work. May HaShem continue to bless you.

[@plonialmoni0110]

The world would be a much better place if Jews and non Jews took to practice the lessons in this amazing shiur! ❤

[@YaronReuvenRabbi]

Baruch HaShem and thank you for learning and supporting our Torah and Kiruv work. May HaShem continue to bless you.

[@kathleenbell5210]

Wonderful lecture. This is a special lecture . It means so much to a person who has been thru many of the situations that you described .

[@YaronReuvenRabbi]

Baruch HaShem and thank you for learning and supporting our Torah and Kiruv work. May HaShem continue to bless you.

[@avrahammunarov6210]

Diamonds and jewels is how this shiur was put together for real thank you so much Kavod HaRav

[@YaronReuvenRabbi]

Baruch HaShem and thank you for learning and supporting our Torah and Kiruv work. May HaShem continue to bless you.

[@ilanz7378]

Kvod HaRav the part with a meal at the end is so strong. I couldn't stop laughing. BH. It is so true!!! Thank you!

[@YaronReuvenRabbi]

Baruch HaShem and thank you for learning and supporting our Torah and Kiruv work. May HaShem continue to bless you.

[@marcocunha4325]

Thank you so much Rabbi Rueven ❤😊

[@brians5122]

B"H.... 0:00:00 Introduction 0:10:44 Prerequisites; Quality of Intimacy; Sweet Talk 0:15:53 Pious & Modest: Speak Softly vs Arrogant: Loud, Angry 0:19:19 Man's Initiative & Woman's Enticement 0:21:26 Mitzvah of Onah: pleasing wife in marital relations, beyond procreation 0:23:05 Never Talk Arrogantly (Soft-spoken humility) 0:24:38 Wife's pleasure: primary in Jewish intimacy (Man: Prayer before) 0:26:00 Silencing Loud Arrogance 0:27:28 Loud Arrogance vs Humility 0:31:28 Humble Look Down: Familiarizing with Cement (R. Avigdor Miller) 0:34:22 Loud Arrogance vs Humility (cont.) 0:37:59 Arrogant Men vs. Arrogant Women 0:45:03 Mouth can disgrace, but isn't a disgraceful body part 0:48:34 Parts of body that are disgraceful (shameful) 0:51:23 Jealousy, the desire for pleasure, and the craving for honor, remove a person from the world (Avos 4 21) 0:52:16 Promiscuous Men Age Fast: Seminal Emission Weakens (R. Yosef; Rambam; Prov. 31 3) 0:56:20 Excessive Marital Relations-Childhood (Eccl. 11 v. 10; Rashi, Shab. 152) 1:00:59 R. Akiva says: Joking and being frivolous lead to immorality (Avos 3 13) 1:12:06 Dangerous Double Dates (Rotten Fruits) 1:22:06 Big Talker, Big Sinner; Torah Scholars Don't Chit Chat 1:24:43 Judgement for Every Conversation 1:26:20 First year at home: couple's conversations overseen by G-d before intimacy (Baal HaTurim; Rashi) 1:29:10 Rav Kahana hid under Rav's bed and heard him talk and laugh with his wife (Ber. 62a) 1:31:00 Learning from the Rooster (Eruvim 100) 1:33:37 Goal is to Attract Wife's Heart-Confused 1:35:56 Sweet Talk: Love & Desire vs. What Not to Say (Ramban) 2:01:33 BeEzrat HaShem Inc. Donate!; BHSHAS

[@YaronReuvenRabbi]

Baruch HaShem and thank you for learning and supporting our Torah and Kiruv work. May HaShem continue to bless you.

[@brians5122]

@@YaronReuvenRabbi B"H...Amen!...Yasher Koach, Kavod HaRav! 🙂

[@ilanz7378]

Wow. So many deep insights Kvod HaRav. Thank you.

[@YaronReuvenRabbi]

Baruch HaShem and thank you for learning and supporting our Torah and Kiruv work. May HaShem continue to bless you.

[@ilanz7378]

@@YaronReuvenRabbi Amen ve Amen. Thank you!

[@IncelZionistRabbi]

Juicy stuff!

[@YaronReuvenRabbi]

Baruch HaShem and thank you for learning and supporting our Torah and Kiruv work. May HaShem continue to bless you.

[@elva397]

Dear Rav - do you recommend this whole series for single people ?

[@YaronReuvenRabbi]

if they are mature people then yes, absolutely. better learn it before getting married than after its too late.

[@elva397]

@@YaronReuvenRabbi ok thank you Rav . Also any advice you can give on when is the best time / appropriate time for a male to get married ? The Rambam seems to say that man should be somewhat financially secure before getting married is that correct ?

[@elenazerkal1226]

Is Baal Shem Tov is on your list of people that you consider sages? Thanks

[@elenazerkal1226]

Is Baal Shem Tov is on your list of people that you consider sages?

[@elenazerkal1226]

A husband has equal rights with a wife and has to be trustworthy 100% If you lie or cheat on either side it will never work !!

[@elenazerkal1226]

Jewish women are not looking for a man or males, we are looking for husbands!! That what makes us as one organism the marriage!!

[@elenazerkal1226]

Because a male and female are completely different species!! That is why Hashem created a marriage!!