After dating a Virgo for 2 years. So accurate he works in shifts. It definitely takes some adjusting.
@CrystalCormier6 ай бұрын
Patience is the key in dealing with earth signs of the zodiac. Especially with Virgos and Capicorns we have tendency to shut down and hold things in alot. I'm capicorn were very similar to the virgo.
@EnlightenmentQueenElisheBA6 ай бұрын
@@CrystalCormier I am also a Spiritual awakening Capricorn I will say it's much easier for a Capricorn to deal with a Virgo because we are so determined to push forward in what we like and want I don't like holding things anymore only when it is Needed
@CrystalCormier6 ай бұрын
@EnlightenmentQueenElisheBA Well hello there Enlightenment Queen!!! How do you know I'm spiritual awaken capicorn? Lol. I understand where you comin from in response to my comment. 🙂😉
@EnlightenmentQueenElisheBA6 ай бұрын
@@CrystalCormier Thanks 😊 I am glad you understand us
@EnlightenmentQueenElisheBA6 ай бұрын
Hey ladies calm down with the Virgo men you got to understand them it's not easy but adjustable
@shenikafrancis34366 ай бұрын
How is it adjustable?
@EnlightenmentQueenElisheBA6 ай бұрын
@@shenikafrancis3436 First of all you need to understand why do they do what they do and act the way it's adjustable when you understand how to adjust to them and a manner that they understand and you got to have a lots of patience with them and when they feel that acceptance from you they will open to you I know a Virgo that text me for 12 hour's straight just because they feel safe secure and confidence with me my brother is also a Virgo.
@EnlightenmentQueenElisheBA6 ай бұрын
Ladies if you need help with your Virgo men pleaser let me know I do know how to bring some other behaviors out of them that they hold in freeze zones only you can get out if you know how
@Norella8366 ай бұрын
Okay please help me.😊
@EnlightenmentQueenElisheBA6 ай бұрын
@@Norella836 Hi and what do you need help with understanding why they act that way explain to me your situation to help to me better understand first and we will move forward to resolving the problems
@216blessed6 ай бұрын
Why did this video pop up cause I was about to go ghost on his ass! And still might I’m an Aquarius I’m a communicator so yes this bothers me. I might need to exit like I did a few months ago! But when we don’t communicate then we get the text saying damn stranger but you the one being a stranger I don’t have time! I’m out! ✌🏾✌🏾✌🏾🤣🤣🤣
@tashaheidelburg51816 ай бұрын
Girll Aquarius here...and I can relate!
@thatomphafudi6 ай бұрын
Aquarius here lol yep!
@pumkinpie276 ай бұрын
I'm Aquarius and dealing with a Virgo and it's not fun. And this whole "I'm so busy" stuff... They create the business and stress they get burnt out from. They don't know how to balance anything but work. Work work work... That's all it's about. 🙄 It's ridiculous.
@216blessed6 ай бұрын
@@pumkinpie27 Exactly!!! I’m done I pray he doesn’t reach out anymore cause I’m definitely over it! If he does I will tell please don’t waste anymore of my time! Lol
@lovelock19945 ай бұрын
@@216blessedI’m dealing with the same. Did he reach out to?
@AnetteRobert23Күн бұрын
Thank you! I am getting to know a Virgo man and this is so informative.
@ARoss836 ай бұрын
We’re horrible communicators
@sweet_kandyy6 ай бұрын
Thank you for admitting this. Why is it so hard for you all to let go?
@EnlightenmentQueenElisheBA6 ай бұрын
Yes you guys are but at least you admit that some want they just say that's how they is but to be honest it is some emotional disturbance this is a major problem with Virgo's
@EnlightenmentQueenElisheBA6 ай бұрын
@@sweet_kandyy It's hard for them to let go because they really see thing's their way and most people don't understand a Virgo
@sweet_kandyy6 ай бұрын
@@EnlightenmentQueenElisheBA Thanks for the reply. I might have to sit down with him on his time since they’re so busy and tell him we need to talk. He’s flip flopping too much.
@lovelock19945 ай бұрын
@@sweet_kandyydid you get to have that talk yet?
@vernaperkins28506 ай бұрын
(LEO & VIRGO) My Virgo man is the opposite he's a great communicator 4 hours on the phone every day INITIATED BE HIM. He is older which might have something to do with it. I don't know.
@Queenmother25085 ай бұрын
It probably took him a very long time to get like that might’ve taken alot of losses in the past
@BarbieNicole6 ай бұрын
I think when a male virgo finds his match, he will communicate effortlessly and make time for those they love
@MsNellfraser4 ай бұрын
He better because I’d never put up with a man going one week without talking to me or two weeks without seeing me. Hell no.
@PanteraLeoNiger13 күн бұрын
@@BarbieNicole Not even… I was madly in love with a virgo man back in 2004 and I would like to think it was mutual. He couldn’t handle the long distance however, and started seeing someone that was almost like my clone but living in his city. About three months into our relationship we had planned that he was going to fly to my state so we could spend his birthday weekend together, but instead he flew with my “clone” to another State to kick off their relationship; meanwhile I was at home falling to pieces. Needless to say, he reached out to me on Valentine’s Day the following year admitting to me that he actually was in love with me but couldn’t deal with the long distance relationship. Fast forward ten or twelve years after that he finally opened up to me and admitted that of all his relationships he realized that I am his soulmate and he wished things had played out differently. Go figure… virgo men are complicated.
@Manduh-vs2ip5 ай бұрын
My Virgo said he thinks of me every single day, he always loves me and knows I love him so it’s not necessary to hear it constantly. But he doesn’t require talking every day. He only talks to me every day (this could be a call, text, etc.) because it’s something he knows I need for the most part, I mean he loves time with me but it’s not absolutely necessary. And he is always doing something too… he really compartmentalizes everything to manage everything. But he said the same… he hates text/calls. And prefers in person conversations. It took time to understand this. Plus it has worked for me, because I like my solo time and space. It creates opportunities for us to talk about things we had happen outside of one another.
@kirstenpeaco30876 ай бұрын
As a Cancer, I can deal with it mainly because I like to be alone 😭🤣 If anything, Virgo men think I'm uninterested because I barely need attention like that. Especially if I'm working on my businesses, I'm hyper focused and I'll probably forget about the world until I'm done lol If we can honestly vibe in silence, it's a match 🤣
@ThatSherylLafrance6 ай бұрын
Same with us Taurus
@Queenmother25085 ай бұрын
This me for sure 😭 I’m in school I’ll forget about so much so that’s why Virgos are so compatible with me I need my own space.
@carlynduenas59236 ай бұрын
Virgos are ruled by Mercury, like Gemini. Rulers of communication! But they are the worst at communicating! They have to take you in doses! You need to have extreme patience when it comes to a Virgo!
@jessicajackson24386 ай бұрын
Well he don't NEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEED to date lol just saying but I hear you
@216blessed6 ай бұрын
Facts stay single!!! It’s draining!!
@jessicajackson24386 ай бұрын
@@216blessed Right just stay single keep that unavailable energy over there I mean I get we all have our own lives but when you're dating you lay it on heavy so of course we women want more but going silence for days weeks or months isn't cool and then they're confused when we're upset with them 🤣🤣🤣🤣Man get somebody else to do it
@MsNellfraser4 ай бұрын
Correct because nobody is that busy! Go two weeks without talking to me or planning a date and ima block him!!!
@theresagilliam57706 ай бұрын
I probably get more of his volunteered attention than anyone and I do appreciate it. And im definitely on a shift and that’s ok.
@feliciamabry14526 ай бұрын
Love all your videos, but this one is my favorite!!!!!! as you explained I saw my Virgo in my mind, and you hit it .😊
@fashionlifewilliams20 күн бұрын
I love my space. I keep my txt bare minimum with him. I’m a ♋️, but we get each other. Get in my feelings from time to time. I be like o well. Back to reality to getting this money. I be going cold at times with him as well
@Itsmebee2873 ай бұрын
I went through this with a Virgo and I honestly lost interest. He wasn’t consistent but swore he loved me. I didn’t understand it, or maybe I just didn’t have the patience. I moved on and he tried to reach out like nothing happened weeks later. He attempted to pour his heart out, by then I could care less. I genuinely believed he loved me, but the lack of communication made me think otherwise in the moment. I had options at the time, so I gave them my time. I’m not your typical emotional clingy Pisces. Lol.
@EnlightenmentQueenElisheBA17 күн бұрын
@@Itsmebee287 Yes my brother is a Virgo it's all ways been hard for him to communicate and show emotions he the same way today you can say I love you he never says it back all his girl friends complain about it and he was the type growing up he always stay to his self inside his room he did not eat at the table with us or nothing just to say they are extremely shy and nervous and lost for words your Virgo was trying more than others do maybe you left because you lost patients and he was not giving you the attention you needed yes patients and adjusting to there emotional detachment is absolutely key to being in a relationship with them.
@Itsmebee28713 күн бұрын
@@EnlightenmentQueenElisheBA Yes, my Virgo was the same way. You described his childhood as well. Lol…And I’m sure he loved me, but like your brother could not articulate it. I’m very direct and I don’t like gray areas. I like to know where I stand with someone, and I could never get a direct answer from him. I definitely grew frustrated and impatient. I think of him often because despite it all we had an awesome connection. He is truly a great person, just not my person.
@EnlightenmentQueenElisheBA13 күн бұрын
@@Itsmebee287Ok thanks for the share why did you need his validation so strongly they will say they love and lets get married it just they got to really know that they can trust you and you are not out to hurt them it just really do take a lots of time and in the process of time you got to be calm and gentle respectful and loving don't ever point fingers and tell them what they are not doing they do not like pressure and control they like to.make their own mind up you can not tell them what you need if they don't like you enough to give to you at that moment they are smooth sailing learn how to relax with them ladies and stop looking at what they are not doing look at what they are trying to do get to Know you.
@prettymaondemand6 ай бұрын
HORRIBLE COMMUNICATORS! I Had To Walk Away! Wasted Time! Smh
@JonathanRWhitfield6 ай бұрын
😓
@shenikafrancis34365 ай бұрын
The exact space I am in, the bad communication is a trigger for me!!
@straightbacks5 ай бұрын
Yo loss ♍️
@eastbayivy3 ай бұрын
Glad you walk away! Not all virgos but most lol, I had to walk away too, he strung me along for 6 yrs, glad I did cos I’m now married to a man who didn’t waste my time.
@straightbacks3 ай бұрын
@@eastbayivy you still not over him
@LadyL5796 ай бұрын
Thank you for this video Jonathan...much appreciated/I was literally JUST thinking about a particular Virgo man in my life and your video popped up!#TheLordMakesNoMistakes
@JPrueSchmitzАй бұрын
I needed to hear this lol. Thank you
@breanahaustin55586 ай бұрын
I'm a scorpio sun libra moon i'm really feeling this virgo man and this video really helped me out . now i understand it. i really like him too so i hope he will reach back out to me😊💯
@lovelock19945 ай бұрын
Did he reach back out
@christophersmith96836 ай бұрын
Deep down, women love us b/c they love a challenge 💯💯
@annetrabowman65085 ай бұрын
17 years with a virgo and you are correct!
@mysticp49155 ай бұрын
Horrriibbllleee communicators! I’m a Scorpio and it drives me to the edge, but he makes it worth it when I’m with him.. it’s the compromise I have to make I guess
@amykuntzman43364 ай бұрын
Scorpio here too and I feel his highs and lows and his distance so hard. But yes worth it when we’re together.
@spytiriga6 ай бұрын
It's all so true! it's very funny really!!😂😂
@catherinemichel7125Ай бұрын
Yes 🙄 they are very bad at communication
@dhanha5 ай бұрын
This is so true. I met a Virgo last year and he is always working. We communicate every several days but when we are together we have a good time. I realize that. This video confirmed what I realized.
@sailasails5 ай бұрын
My Virgo man will tell you what he wants from you, but seldom follow up to get it. Very disappointed as I'm a Virgo, too.
@nymeria19no144 ай бұрын
I literally feel like a mirror 🪞 lol bc I to need my space and I’m a busy Woman, Mama, daughter, sister and auntie ofc ima be pulled in all directions but I will still make time n communicate just not all day or everyday n I’m fine wit that! I take care of me first so then I have that energy to keep up with everything goin on I’m a ♊️ and I love my freedom don’t be breathing down on my neck
@MsNellfraser4 ай бұрын
So as the relationship progresses he’ll start communicating more? Because idk how a man can love a woman than go more than a day without hearing from her. What if she’s dead hurt or anything
@kingofall926 ай бұрын
Yeah I get nerves when some I like talk to me 😭😭😭what Chris brown say stuttering
@iaby2884 ай бұрын
my ex is virgo, we broke up for 8 months but still go on date and stuff, but recently he is seeing another girl, he only know her less than a month. When i knew it, i pissed off and text her which make he felt bad, i think. Now he and that girl still remain good relationship (i think) but he's kinda ignore me, he want no contact but sometimes he still care about me like he worried about my health and my life. Is that mean he's in a rebound relationship and use that girl to make me jealous or what, i'm really confused right now
@Cancerlady7176 ай бұрын
My Virgo said do you and your best friend really need to be on the phone all the time 🤣 he’s happy about that cause I don’t get on his nerves💀
@jessicajackson24386 ай бұрын
🤣Not his nerves lol I hope the best for you guys
@IttyBittyPiglet6 ай бұрын
What if he calls me everyday, multiple times a day but is really silent on the phone? we've been dating for a year and a half. He use to talk more in the beginning, but he is going through alot in his life right now, so im being patient and giving him grace.
@gigihappiness41186 ай бұрын
My Virgo do the same .. unless he wants to vent then I just listen as he does..
@IttyBittyPiglet6 ай бұрын
@@gigihappiness4118I do the same. There are days where he vents alot and I just listen to understand, so I don't mess it up
@mahoganyshanae61165 ай бұрын
I'ma Virgo woman my dad is a Virgo man.. He goes through a lot and when he's goin through a lot he isolate himself and reflect on his self. I'm the same way about when I'm goin through. I'm in my room goin through my depression and shutting down.. I go in isolation to think about what goin on and what's needs to change. When Virgos go through it they don't talk much.. Very introverted..
@therealpreciousk12056 ай бұрын
Hi I’m dating a Aquarius sun Virgo moon guy I’m a Aries sun cancer moon I can’t figure out why he is so distant with me I really like him please help me!
@theeladyj5 ай бұрын
Hiii virgo moon here , he definitely will be distant until he gets comfortable. Virgo moon needs stability but also him being a Aquarius sun there will always been a level of detachment honestly enjoy your life and he will come around
@MelVidal-cc8mk4 ай бұрын
I understand
@nicoleking16742 күн бұрын
Sounds like a side 🥷 😅.
@calculatedrisk16 ай бұрын
Thank God I have a Gemini moon lol… It baffles me that people run everything off their Sun sign. I doubt 75% of people who are into astrology even know what their signs are for each planet. Not to mention north nodes or ascendants smh…
@colette6352 ай бұрын
I’ve always wondered that myself , never really been big on astrology til I hear it mentioned more n more lol but I was wondering how do you find out your sign with other planets like ur sun n moon ?
@calculatedrisk12 ай бұрын
@@colette635 They have online calculators to figure it all out. You need your time of birth and birthplace to get an accurate read for your rising sign. I’m old so I have a book called”The Only Astrology Book You’ll Ever Need”. I’ve probably bought that book five times because people never return it lol, and I’ve given some for gifts. It’s really detailed. It even goes into which foods are best for your body. Hope that helps…
@fenderson21926 ай бұрын
I agree
@quetalk16195 ай бұрын
What is the best way to contact you?
@sweet_kandyy6 ай бұрын
Definitely bad communicators. I told my friend what was being said on his job and he got mad with me. If I want to end the friendship he won’t let it go?! I’m running 🏃♀️😅