You Are Going To Cheat Again Unless You Do These 6 Things

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[@KetMeth]

Being a cheater is the worst. Can't even justify it at all! I messed up and i just want to fix everything.

[@SattickDas2001]

Feel you man.

[@jacobsaunders81]

1. You change your mindset 2. Agree to get help 3. Search out/discover reason for affair 4. Stop the blame game 5. Be incredibly open and honest 6. Continue to work on relationship

[@exquisitejewelrikkei2957]

Also, if you put yourself in compromising situations. For example, putting yourself in a compromising situation with a men or women your attracted too. Also, being addicted to porn which can open the door to a thirst for lust.

[@tracykennedy4589]

@@exquisitejewelrikkei2957 yep numbers 2 & 3...

[@Pastor_Sempa]

can attention seeking be stopped?

[@jacobsaunders81]

@@Pastor_Sempa anyone can choose to change. Then the other partner must choose is they can trust again or not. Trusting again will be essential to start over together.

[@anthonyhalyckyj534]

@@exquisitejewelrikkei2957 m Mm

[@shaylagoogle3097]

If someone wants to keep cheating, they should just stay single! Leave ppl alone who want a serious relationship who are loyal.

[@tiffytoo]

Do you realize how broken ppl are that cheat? Most ppl don't say here let me get in a relationship and then cheat. This is a square comment fr.

[@SippenSomeTea]

100%

[@t.m.6192]

Amen

[@eltrapo913]

A lot of people try hard and go through lengths to avoid cheating… but fail … but don’t want to hurt anyone

[@ryanhicks382]

That’s like saying: “Alcoholics should just not drink.”

[@infidelheretic923]

Minutes of pleasure. Years or decades of heartache. Not worth it guys. Take from someone who learned the hard way.

[@sitiimanina]

How are you now

[@infidelheretic923]

@sitiimanina Alright. I confessed and she's giving me another chance. It'll just take time for her to trust me again.

[@sitiimanina]

@@infidelheretic923 i am facing something like you but it is the other way round. My partner cheated. However, wants to stay but at the same time doesn't know how to or what to do.

[@infidelheretic923]

@sitiimanina That's rough. If you don't mind my asking. How did you find out?

[@sitiimanina]

@@infidelheretic923 confessed to me, did it with someone whom them met in only 3 weeks.

[@Nathan-iq1hn]

I was the cheater and I’m trying everything I can to prove myself and make sure it never happens again.

[@styles2155]

At least you're doing everything you can. My husband cheated and he's not committed or communicating with me. He still lies and keeps doing sneaky shit, so I'm done. He can knock himself out I'm moving on. I hope everything works out for you.

[@coriettapadilla9977]

​@styles2155 Ugh, same here. All I ever here is it was a mistake and it won't happen again so get over it. But his behavior is still the same. He has never ever looked to get help or anything. He just wanted me back and to act like nothing happened. I have given him resources for himself and for us to do together. I even asked what I can do as a wife but nothing. He is an attention seeker and needs validation for every single thing. I wouldn't be surprised if he is still cheating. I am so tired of trying to get through to him. I have wasted my time and energy. I am ready to move on.

[@Saved.by.Jesus.]

@2155 does your husband have a prayer life? first, your husband will have to give his life to Jesus. two of you can develop a prayer life together and study the bible together. you're responsible for your husband as he should be responsible for you. Have you prayed for 3 hours ? A man was designed to live by prayer and the bible daily.. Does your husband pray daily or read the bible daily? pray 1 to 3 hours daily. commit to a church that prays. Jesus is Lord. The fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom. you have to separate yourself from from the wrong things. my eyes and my mind is for the things that brings glory to God. I choose to pray 3 or 5 hours daily, singing praises to Jesus. Psalms 1:1-4. read the bible and pray all day and everyday.

[@styles2155]

@@Saved.by.Jesus. I appreciate your concern and advice. I've been going to church since I was a child and believe me when I say this, I'm saved by his grace and I have been washed in the blood of the lamb. All we can do is pray for him and others and it doesn't matter if you pray 5 minutes or 5 hrs a day, the good Lord still hears us and loves us all the same. We can pray our hearts out but we must wait on the Lord. God bless you 🙏

[@Saved.by.Jesus.]

@@styles2155 Amen! Agreed, One must be willing to live a life that is Holy and acceptable to God. Salvation is personal. I agree that all we can do is continue in prayers. However, it is more profitable to pray longer than 5 minutes to fight the devil the power of darkness. IF YOU WORKOUT FOR 5 MINUTES , YOU WILL GET A 5 MINUTES RESULT. It does matter how long you pray! we are to exercise our spirit. if one can spend on hours in the gym , one can spend time in prayers and the word of God. Jesus is Lord and deserves our time ! Daniel prayed 3 times a day. One have to be willing to spend his or her personal time with God and this is different from going to church. Thank you Jesus for being our light and salvation.

[@recaptrap]

That part about the betrayed diving in and watching videos, reading books and trying to figure out why it happened, hit home!!! That's been me for months... bout ready to throw in towel but this video can be so helpful to anyone wanting to receive it. Thanks!

[@pamelapoe7441]

Hi Jenn, checking in to see how things are going, better I hope

[@weareone5429]

An update would be appreciated.

[@positivek9938]

Funkey Nassau

[@saindelinejeanpierre986]

Yesssss it’s always us

[@njasanie23]

Dont cheat I cheated months ago and now I lost the best thing that happen to me I made one bad decision and I treated her as a queen and that one decision ruined everything and she's never coming back i destroyed her and i cannot forgive myself for what i have done all i can wish is for her to return it's been 2 months since she left and i know she will never return she hates me and one time ruins things love that person who's been there show them that respect a lesson learned I had to lose all to learn and now she will never forgive me

[@Hamilgang]

Least u are sorry my husband done cheated on me so many times and he never took responsibility or was sorry. Hopefully she sees that and give you one more chance

[@njasanie23]

Shanice Fordg I lost the love of my life forever and hurts me till this day

[@dabadguy520]

You’ve learned from your mistake. You’re headed in the right direction.

[@angelsd.o.s.e.andselfdevel8004]

I’m sorry you’re in pain papa ... good luck and God Bless 🙏

[@njasanie23]

Angel Mateo it’s going to be that heartbreak for the rest of my life she is truly amazing I didn’t appreciate what I. Had now I have to live with her loving someone else

[@joshuagabriel-0817]

Today, I realized that I'm a chronic cheater... I realized that my behavior is hurting someone I loved and I'm eager to break this behavior in my life...

[@Atumba_Emmanuel]

I’m a chronic cheater too but I realized my holy wife ain’t a saint after all, the above name gave me complete access to my wife phone without her knowing and behold she was cheating with her ex. So basically do not beat yourself up @joshuamamuri-dq5yw

[@AdaezeDawn]

Growth

[@midasspider530]

10:13. Correction: The affair happens bc of something going on soley within the cheater, nothing else. The decision was made solely by the cheater. That's it.

[@JEJE-xl1wp]

This is so true

[@jessicawalker3906]

It takes two to tango.

[@edwardmylnychuk5774]

yep cheaters are cheaters for life because they are screwed up mentally

[@LITZBEATZ]

​@@edwardmylnychuk5774, you wouldn't understand if u aren't a cheater. Therefore you have no say.

[@Loydstardeli2017]

Once had a taste of very pretty woman learn pretty woman are not aliens & having sex/ lay date with stranger is overated r​@@edwardmylnychuk5774

[@cathycarnes5638]

I am beginning to think it's time for me to plan my exit. He has not cheated in over 2 years but he has lied about every detail the entire 2 years. I know this because I have talked to 4 of the 8 APs. And now he refuses to answer any questions. No counseling. But is amazing at home now. Like nothing happened!! While I am tormented every single day!!

[@njasanie23]

I'm sorry you are going through this I cheated once and my ex found out and ended it with me I am so a shame and wish I did not made the bad choice to have her leave she was the best thing for me and she does not see forgiveness ever happening or is reconciling I have to live with that for the rest of my life now of losing something so dearly to me and now I have to watch her be loved by someone else it's been 2 months and now I'm just an emotional wreck she hates me and does not want to talk to me I learned my lesson

[@cathycarnes5638]

@@njasanie23 take this lesson to your next relationship and don't make the same mistake. How long did you cheat and how many people?

[@njasanie23]

@@cathycarnes5638 it was a one night thing I spoke to the girl I ask her not to tell my girl and that I would tell her at a better time but she told her months later and it destroyed everything I dont want to move to someone else I want her back but she's just cold angry and does not want nothing to do with me absolutely nothing other coaches are saying yes is speaking from hurt but as a person that stayed after the cheating can you give me some insight on her state of mind like she started posting a lot of self love pictures on Instagram she's meeting guys hanging with them I do not know if she's laying them or not she probably is but it's like she is listening to her mother and her girlfriends and she wanted to stay an work it out but I was so irrational when she said she wanted to be friends so she cut me off entirely and it just hurts so much I try to be strong and not think about her but I keep myself busy and I still think of her and she doesn't think about me she is doing all these great things and I'm just here an emotional wreck she has really made her self forget everything we went through she said she does not care about me at all or love me nothing

[@cathycarnes5638]

@@njasanie23 if she is under the age of 27..... she isn't looking back. No kids.... she isn't looking back. She would have had a lot more respect for you if you had come clean to her, but she had to hear it from the other female. Not good. If she won't accept your calls, won't return texts.... try writing her a letter. Not an email....write it. That takes time and effort. She may not read it right away. She might hold onto it and read it when she is able. Tell her what you did. Why you did it. Where your thoughts were. And why you handled it the way you did afterwards. Then pour your heart out to her

[@njasanie23]

@@cathycarnes5638 well I guess it's really over she's only 23 so she's not going to come back to me sigh I really ruined it now I have to live with her in the arms of someone else I wrote a letter and I do not know if she read it but I guess its really the end ......... so you are saying she will never change her mind? Not even with time past ?

[@giftij]

Thanks for this video. Like u said, I'm here watching this and reading related stuff for closure when he shd have been the one hearing this.

[@timothy897]

Man , I did that and here I am dying slowly

[@DeadLetter777]

Wish I would have found this earlier. Instead of owning up to my own problems, I made the dumbest decision of my life. I am taking these words with me for the coming days and hoping we can make our relationship stronger now.

[@ritchelmacapagal9097]

My husband microcheated on me. I was so devastated and broken. You are definitely right, the Cheaters are supposed to do the research of their wrong behavior. Thank you for sharing your expertise. God bless you🙏

[@jonathanchandler8561]

Like some of the other comments on here mention: never EVER cheat. I lost the love of my life, the girl that had my back and I made multiple bad decisions before she called it quits. I am a weak shitty person and it’s almost too much for me to handle. I don’t know why I make the decisions I do, I’m struggling a lot with this more than anything I’ve gone through in the past

[@livasap]

me too

[@PathsyMartin]

I’ve caught him cheating 5 times in 18 months and I really don’t care anymore not because it doesn’t hurt but because I know I can’t control him and everybody cheats

[@sitiimanina]

True, everybody cheats

[@divyayash5858]

Leave already. Very few people cheat, stop fooling yourself. You definitely don't want this

[@Gotoworkkk]

Unfortunately, almost everybody cheats or wants to at one point in the relationship. It’s just human nature for men.

[@rayeintheyard]

Unhappy or selfish people cheat. Don't let someone else's behavior have you believing there aren't faithful people in the world. That's a myth.

[@sudsandstuff7228]

I just came to terms that I’m a serial cheater. I know it’s wrong, I would tell myself it’s stupid and I’m going to destroy my marriage. But I was chasing the high of the excitement to feel good. Didn’t matter if anything happened, I wanted the excitement. Nothing could scratch that itch as much as that could. Now I’m going to be alone. I can only blame myself

[@desmar7945]

This man is 100% correct. I am thoroughly impressed by the things that this man has said. I'm not impressed because it is his opinion or his way but rather because he is speaking the pure truth. Much respect to you sir and Father bless....

[@lovenotjudge791]

This video is 💯 true. Every word! Ty i just sent this to him because he doesn't understand i am destroyed and crushed and terrified

[@maritzamartinez1678]

I was cheated on a couple of months ago. I have been looking at a bunch of videos to help save the relationship. I don’t want to break up with him because I truly love him. He was very remorseful and has done some things to help make it better, however, he hates talking about it and claims that he wants me to just “get over it”. I am at a lost if I should stay or should I go regardless of my love for him.

[@Alyssababe]

Girl ur wayyy too pretty to stick around with someone who left and did things with another woman!! There are loyal men out there girl! Find one.

[@missqlalah]

If he can't talk about what he has done, you cannot + will not heal. Leave him. He needs to grow up + is emotionally immature.

[@sakurasakura2892]

You need to break off with him. He will cheat again if yoy dont. Much worse than before. If he really wants you, he will do everything to win you back again. You matter. He needs to show trye repentance and you need to show strong boundaries. Otherwise the same story will happen again. Im telling you this because it happened to me. I wished I broke off with him the first time. You need to be respected. You deserve it. Be strong for yourself.

[@Morelorrr]

Hes still cheating, 7/10

[@Polyglot_English]

You're going to cheat again unless you become a polyamorous person. Remember, it is cheating if it's not consensual ☝️☝️☝️

[@Appolloscott]

Man bro you are so deep. I think you might save my marriage, thanks.

[@Eaglespy72gmailcom]

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[@kikoalonsoo]

just communicate your desires. work on it, talk about it. infidelity isn't worth the lying, the betrayal, the heart ache, the damage. take it from a liar like myself

[@janiceeverybodytalksabout2019]

I watched your videos when my bf of almost two years cheated on me our first month together. You helped me alot but he did it again. Im trying to get him help. He wants help i showed him this video and its up to him what he does with it.

[@BeautyandtheBarista]

I must know how this goes.... my man cheated for a 2nd time as well. And I am losing hope.

[@camellajay3988]

Very true! The spouse who was cheated on is looking for the reasons he/ she cheated!

[@Dagon-nq1zf]

Thank you I never wanna hurt this woman again

[@taymosley1528]

In my case...I’m not happy inside..but I can’t and won’t let it happen again..I love you ashley condo 😢

[@daeva_beats]

I hear you brother, I'm going through something similar man

[@missqlalah]

Did you cheat?

[@taymosley1528]

@@missqlalah since this post?

[@infidelheretic923]

Probably shouldn't use her real name

[@raquelgray3180]

My God I need some real prayers for my relationship. I’m afraid my husband will continue to cheat we’ve been married ten years and have three children he told me he cheated on me the week our son was due to be born. And told me Christmas Eve while the children were present I couldn’t even react because the children were Present. I’m still waiting on a counselor to contact me I’m 8 weeks postpartum and have no family because I cut my family off for him. I feel so alone.. don’t know what to do. I feel like I can’t even ask him to help with the kids and I just had a csection.

[@Gotoworkkk]

I’m sorry this has happened, but you set yourself up for failure…

[@Eniclac]

She won't do any repair work, and everyeone tells me I can't push her, - so there's that.

[@aarondavis4341]

Wow you are spot on here...I literally just found out my partner of 17 years did it again.......I'm just trying to make sense of it all..I thought things were so good..we haven't really been fighting..sex life has been AWESOME... I don't know...I couldn't ever cheat on her...I'm not freaking out this time..I'm changing my situation with education....and knowing I did my best

[@sunshinem.7741]

This channel has some really helpful advice, but also typically assumes the couple don't communicate at all. "The infidelity occurred, *then* they have to figure out the cause." Never, "the couple has been discussing lacking areas and trying to improve, then one gets impatient and cheats." It'd be interesting to see more regarding otherwise healthy couples who still experience infidelity.

[@somegodlovingdude4869]

Yes !!! Yessss!!! God thank you !!!!! Yes ! You are on point !!!!! Praise be tooooo God!!!!!!! !!!!! Please God !!! Save MY MARRIAGE PLEASE!!!!

[@suzannewilliams759]

THANK YOU so much for this video. I have subscribed in an effort to heal & repair a marriage of 36+ yrs. He cheated the 1st time, & then continued the pattern. This came out in Feb '22. Things have been extremely turbulent since & his violent outbursts have caused considerable damage to our home & our relationship. He threatens Sun ice if I leave continuing the 3+ decades of manipulation.

[@suzannewilliams759]

He threatens suicide if we divorce.

[@Gotoworkkk]

Why haven’t you divorced him? Just wondering.

[@terrywade3696]

Hi, Hasani. I just want to say, Amen! Amen! Amen! Amen! Amen! AMEN! As a betrayed, this is what I fear! You nailed it! Thank you!

[@ClassicMan33]

What is the difference between placing BLAME, and actually finding the ROOT CAUSES/REASONS? It seems like a fime line.

[@pamelapoe7441]

That’s a really great question. Most people don’t want their contributions restated during conversations when issue are being discussed, but they must be restated. They have to be spoken out loud, otherwise , how does your partner know it’s a problem. Also, the other benefit to speaking a problem out loud is that is shows the offender is taking responsibility for his or her actions. Saying to your partner “ I know when I lied to you about texting ( her/her) hurt you and betrayed your trust in me, I’m sorry” is necessary and powerful if a couple wants to heal and properly move forward.

[@ATTENUATOR28]

Worst thing i have ever done... i started micro cheating and got caught.. i am now single because of my wrong doings... currently on the recovery path.. trying CBT and hypnosis to try and change my mind set.... was very selfish of me and wasnt until my EX left until i realized what i had caused 😢

[@ndumisomagubane6255]

Number 4 is so difficult but I truly understand its power. I’m texting this having impregnated another woman at the start of a new relationship. This was the best relationship I have ever been in. I regret and feel so much shame that I have hurt my ex and I am praying she takes me back. Thank you for the video. It really needed it.

[@carolperdro6739]

Hey dear if you want your hubby to stop cheating on you totally, I will recommend you to a powerful man who help me deliver my husband from womanizing spirit,since that day till now my husband is free,he can help you too Message him on whatsap for help [phone]

[@amcgeeflowers]

I pray she never takes you back. Her self with is more important than your weak love.

[@Polyglot_English]

You're going to cheat again unless you become a polyamorous person. Remember, it is cheating if it's not consensual ☝️☝️☝️

[@JESUSCHRIST91126ad]

​@@amcgeeflowers chill out people make mistakes...

[@shaofanger7167]

@@JESUSCHRIST91126adwith all due to respect. He should take some time to work on himself before getting back with his EX. There came a point where he choose to do something he knew would he jeopardize the relationship. I use to have a former friend who did the same. After getting away with it again and again. I busted him he threatened me to not tell so I didn’t and to delete the proof. For his girlfriends my friend as well. Dispite being blackmailed by my body who stabbed me in the back as a brother for months and that of his girlfriend. His girlfriend found out about what he did by a person he told. It’s all his fault. And then when confronted him he lied about and she got ahold of his text messages going back months. And she found oral BJs texts on his phone. She then asked my former buddy if he did it with the girl the main thing he denied. He unadded the affair and she told the girlfriend once he backstabbed the affair girl. My former friend was a horrible person to me in my time of family tragedy I expected him to have my back but he didn’t. His girlfriends still with him on the account he did it only once I found out it was with other girl. The truth is he will never change. That boy is NOT capable. But anyone else can. Reason being my former friend is too selfish and is NOT capable to take responsibility he has blamed me and everybody else for his decision to drop his pants. He brought the girl to our roommate place. He messed up. If you want to change you have to WANT TO!! Stop hurting the guys who you swore to protect. Be a man unlike my friend and be different. Tell the truth and do not lie about affairs to you’re lover. You are hurting her worse. She has the absolute right to know for her health, mental health, and to make sure she doesn’t contract STDs to peoples stupid decisions!!

[@user-di8py6km7f]

My husband’s ex contacted him 6 months after my son of 21 died by suicide ( my son from a previous relationship) via Facebook.They hadn’t spoken for over 15 years. I saw the messages on his phone. There were loads but I only read two. He told her he loves and misses her and doesn’t want to be with me but feels sorry for me. My friend read them and told me to never ever read them. We are still together as I don’t feel strong enough to be on my own yet. He’s said sorry and told her not to contact him again. He slept with a woman 10 years ago and only admitted it 3 years ago. I feel so angry at his ex to. They have a son together and he hasn’t seen him since they split 15 years ago yet she used my sons suicide as an excuse to contact him. Why did she not use their son. The anger I feel on top of my grief is sometimes to much to bear

[@TheKristinals]

I’m so sorry…I pray you get the strength to leave because you do not deserve to be treated like that

[@malidon6160]

Ngl this video really helped me with my relationship struggles.

[@games4music]

Betray your spouse, partner is the choice of the cheater

[@weareone5429]

What about ensuring the betrayer never communicates with the betrayal partner?

[@saindelinejeanpierre986]

Yes he says that in an other video

[@coriettapadilla9977]

I really wish I could show this to my husband. But he literally thinks just by telling me he cheated and said sorry that should be it and I need to move on. I have never even been told why or how all of this even started. All I hear is I was just being selfish. Nothing else. But he literally flipped the switch on me like he never knew me then turned around and was like I love you always. He hasn't looked into anything about why things went the way they did. I have given him a book and videos and told him lets get help together. I have told please let me know what you need from me as a wife but he says nothing, I am a good wife. It makes me really sad and angry because nothing has changed. Just the days. I am just ready to leave. Because deep down I already knew things weren't going to change. I knew the moment in how he asked me back to come home. I was so just ready to make things work because I loved him but he doesn't care about anyone but himself.

[@michellerenee8070]

I feel you...

[@heidils8152]

I hope I can get my partner to watch this.

[@jessewarren2582]

I thank you for this bc I’m a cheater and that’s not what I want to be

[@sugarbabyscandles2350]

I’m really glad I found your videos while going through this difficult time, you are exactly right! I’m the one educating myself on all of this and I doubt he has even looked at one video or website on the matter, 😭😭😭😭😭

[@itzmidc5073]

Id rather get help individually or even as a couple...id rather be someone ik i can be , id rather not b the cause of a broken family.. but whatever my reason was...id rather it b my last

[@teesha789]

If a cheater person goes to a help group they will start flirting there too.

[@justheretosupport3727]

😂😂😂

[@Saved.by.Jesus.]

where did the word come from? sin is what everyone should worry about. You should be teach fasting and prayer, pray 3 -5 hours. I say the lord in my shepherd and speak in tongues. Thoughts in from the spirit realm. Prayer always and fast always. And seperate your from ungodly people, places and things, books. Delete social media from your phone. Because the devil and his witches are using it to promote sin, lust. Jesus is the answer ! Give no place to the Devil.

[@liveturtle]

Oh boy....my husband does not have ANY of those 5 emotions.

[@rkatewinslet6657]

I seriously want to change... like converting religion but converting myself into someone loyal and supportive,...I need serious help....I canr afford a therapist...

[@janeewilson6532]

Absolutely amazing advice

[@user-tv8yy9nm4m]

This should be broadcast over a loud speaker...Do a video on the "bro code" in some churches with elders.

[@abhishes]

Very good video. really helped me.

[@Atumba_Emmanuel]

After doing all that they still would cheat I thought everything was going fine until I contacted a cyber genius to spy on my wife phone without her knowing. Right now I’m in pains but it’s worth it @abhishes

[@CatNip379]

He need to hear this! And I need this for myself because I agrree with you on A LOT OF THIS- "if you are an honest and open person you have nothing to hide!" because I can't live with myself knowing that I have to have a story to back up my life that I just told you you killed me I can't even sleep so that's why I live by an honest life and I try not to do bad for others because it always comes back 360 thank you Karma and I don't like Carmen's Revenge cuz it is so crazy sometimes.

[@blueman306]

Thank you!!! I am going through it rn..I am getting help from your channel 👍

[@kathyakamimi4989]

Please don’t play music in background while you’re speaking. It’s so distracting that I can’t think or focus on what you’re saying.

[@carolperdro6739]

Hey Kathy,I will love to recommend you to a powerful man who help me settle my infidelity husband and deliver him from cheating spirit, he can help you too

[@carolperdro6739]

Message him on whatsap for help [phone]

[@maried5486]

Yeah, I agree. The music takes away from the message. I feel like I'm in a jazz club.

[@James-jx3ro]

It must be a guy thing, it didn't bother me on bit

[@gerrelynbrazle8015]

I won’t hurt him no more

[@randyallen1965]

I hope not

[@gerrelynbrazle8015]

@@randyallen1965work on my mind set and I’m not giving up on him and me working on my issues to work on our relationship changing little by little I believe in us

[@gerrelynbrazle8015]

Change my mind set agree to get help search out / discover reason stop the blame game be honest and open can you to work on your relationship?

[@gerrelynbrazle8015]

@@randyallen1965 Change my mind set agree to get help search out / discover reason stop the blame game be honest and open can you to work on your relationship?

[@VEENYPANWAR]

Thanks your video really helped me to identify my problems , i want to be better for my partner

[@somegodlovingdude4869]

This is like an aha moment for me !!! 🤩I’m stuck !! God thank you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[@scottfuller5371]

My god. Your saying everything ive felt amd known. Bit I had to hear you to get it all. Much thanks my friend.

[@brinalnigli4956]

Thanks for your advice. Will get my spouse to watch it. Blessings to you. 🙏

[@adamsmith1494]

Great information thank you

[@kanekowalski4715]

This video hit home with a lot of people! Wow...

[@jessonbassmcgrath8648]

Yeah... he is going to cheat again... if he does any of the 6 things, it’ll be long after I’m gone... sad for him... thank you for this video... everything I intuitively felt was necessary to mend our relationship was conveyed clearly in this video... doing God’s work...

[@Polyglot_English]

You're going to cheat again unless you become a polyamorous person. Remember, it is cheating if it's not consensual ☝️☝️☝️

[@youtubefans510]

evryone can be a cheater hypothetically so don't be too judgemental , it can be you own brother sister cousin etc.

[@youtubefans510]

for people who preach their religious morality : hate the sin not the sinner , judge others as you want to be judged, treat others as you want to be treated and forgive those that have trespassed against us in short practice your religious doctrine for good not for evil by being judgmental , that is NOT the way of the lord

[@lastnameunknown3762]

Those reasons given are really surface level causes, and something deeper is at play

[@kirkward1055]

Wow on spot sir! I appreciate the guidelines for recovery. Been married 30 years and never would have thought someone else was getting it when I wasn't. Boy was I wrong. These guidelines are a Bible to her opportunity with me and the future. I need to see commitment STAT and continuous. Also want this to be self-motivated and not me making all the moves or finding all the info. Like I said you are spot on I'm sitting at 2:30 in the morning learning about this situation. I am being patient as I possibly can because I do love her. There is only a small window of opportunity though. Not real optimistic since it's been 3 months and really still no true answers or commitment. Sure I'm glad I suggested everything that you suggested in this video. At a minimum it will help her with herself in the future. With or without me.

[@oharrellcoins5553]

Great video, thank you.

[@47juan35]

What happens when they cheat back and things get uglier?

[@miketurany2082]

Thanks brother!!! Good food for thought.

[@myfavshicker]

Thank you for this!

[@RomeHernandez-qd3jr]

I'm about to lose my son over my poor decisions and my inability be fully truthful. She deserved better

[@Gotoworkkk]

You have every right to see your son. Take this to court and you will get partial custody. Don’t give up on him.

[@faithsncube3740]

Hasani you the best... God bless you!

[@LoveFree333]

This was so good! Thank you

[@lashalllovett241]

If someone cheats that means that he or she does not like, love or want their significant other anymore. Stop trying to fix what you don't want anymore. Just leave.

[@evelynchizoba9085]

Excellent content

[@pamelapoe7441]

Numbers 2 and 3 contradicts one another.

[@jonathandavid3632]

I thought I was the only one..he was going good until those...

[@pamelapoe7441]

Jonathan David ha you caught that...

[@carolperdro6739]

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[@Ms1Mina]

Justifying, rationalizing and minimizing. Those are the things he does after every affair. He says he was just talking dirty. Nothing happened. All lies and more lies. He will not and has not stopped nor changed. Sigh

[@kangwamngandu3671]

Thank you for this

[@roxydaqueen572]

I cheated , what i did was seek validation and attention from others , i did no sexual acts , just was try to find "love" and "peave" because of lack of selfworth and lack of attention and me believing i deserved "better". The person i was had trust issues from there past and would often be brought up or he searched for it . But i got into the relationship not completely healed in myself from my last relationship. So i was try to "find " the attention i needed for ky selfworth thay was damaged .I ended up losing this person because i stressed them out and i broke up with him because he wasn't try to change his way of handling jealousy when it was all my fault . I don't know how to recover:( i need advice . Im completely aware that was terrible but i see what i did it was never my intention and im drowning in guilt and shame . Will this ever go away

[@Cmize420]

This was a good video

[@michaelscott2929]

all facts everything you said was how my ex wife was and now wants to work on are marriage I'm good and out 🏃🏃🏃

[@janetharrison6994]

3 years hubby cheating lies got abusive more short temper . Always on internet n txts calls . Even had calls from wives hubbys n even had them come to hse n leave note . Help needed for me please .

[@tomlehr861]

I heard it was addiction due to dopamine and something that may have happened in the past. What did moses say

[@BeautyandtheBarista]

Okay so... first before anyone tells me to leave the relationship, that is not something I am going to respond to right now. Please keep that to yourself! Now... what if, when I asked him how do i know that he will never do it again, he said "because i hated the way it felt and i never want us to go through that again" but then... he does it again?? Did he just know the right thing to say? Can you genuinely feel that way and then cheat again? I want to make the relationship work. I really do. But after a second time.... I am seeing things so differently. After once, there was so many possibilities for us to overcome that and to become stronger. But now, he saw what it did to me, he saw my pain from before... and he still made the choice to do it again.

[@julieknox1682]

My two cents. Stop trying to make people stay. People are fluid. We don't own people. Main reason for people finding others to know is that it's human nature. Unless you are a religious nut, then, just know that he might just like the company of the other women, and maybe you, as well. We can, and do, like/love people simultaneously.

[@BeautyandtheBarista]

@@julieknox1682 are you saying that I should accept it and let it happen if it must or decided to leave? I know I don't own him. I have actually put a lot of thought into what would really make me want to leave him. Cheating isn't as hurtful to me as I originally thought. The pain came from the lies. The unwillingness to change when he said he would. Trust was broken but not because he cheated....but because he said he wouldn't do it again and he did. His words mean nothing.

[@samantacool152]

@@julieknox1682 Wat a nut u are. Unless u are one of those guys who can marry many wives. Then don't bring that bs here. She Clearly needs her partner to be the loyal and committed man to only her" as she should. U are heartless.

[@motherof1294]

​@@BeautyandtheBarista Yes, if you are staying accept it because he will do it again

[@travarusmart24]

Being honest seem to make things worse

[@lovenotjudge791]

☯️Andy, I hope u see this and actually listen to this video!!! After listening to video i have to say, They won't and dont understand how it feels when the other person has been open and honest. It is soooooo tramtic and overwheming and over consuming and all u can think about and the more u learn the more it hurts and EVERY therapist or consluer would say move on but the way I thought we loved and felt cuddling and kissing after 20 years i know that type of feeling usually goes away aftter a year or a few years and I pray 🙏 that im right and we get better but now i have to heal myself because he can't heal me . He was supposed ro be earning back my trust and did and even when my heart and gut said otherwise i still trusted again but this is first time hes acted out on it. Im just so lost. Now Andy if u read and listen ill know ☯️

[@jayward7536]

Would love to do the couples weekend but its just way to exspensive we need help and i cant even find a decent doctor

[@carolperdro6739]

I know of a powerful man who can help you

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[@JopMartin-rn2wu]

hello, so I am in this situation from my girlfriend. I cheated many times and i feel guild. It began when she cheated on me with her best friend and her bf. She told me back then but since then I am struggling very hard and I cheated many times. I feel very guilty I am afraid that I am gonna do it again. I am searching for a psychogist atm. By the way my problem is porn has changed the vieuw that I see women. The worst part is that I am not sexually attracted to my gf. But I love her character without her I would have been it pretty shitty circumstances and she doesnt deserve it. I need help can anyone give me tips how to stop to watch porn?

[@pablokast925]

This is powerful thank you.

[@ugochukwuumoren1531]

What if she is still in contact with the guy she cheated with and still not entirely honest with the whole thing?

[@fredsykes7236]

Ima cheater im still in contact with who i cheated with.but my wife turned me into it she cheated first .she knows im cheating now and begging me to stop but me and who im cheating with enjoy eachothers time

[@stanceynkgowe2709]

Then that's worse. If you caught you need to cut off the person you cheated with

[@debbieking5171]

When a spouse has dementia and goes to a nursing home, is it cheating when the husband/wife seeks out someone else?

[@atkins8644]

Look like the hand of the devil are in all these cheaters.

[@antoniocolman4296]

I’m doing all these things but my partner is still struggling to build the trust back up

[@missqlalah]

Trust is lost in buckets + built back in drips.

[@AbianahTheGemini]

It’s ur fault they are never gonna trust you completely.

[@trinimom7686]

Good gosh this is helpful

[@PeriorBones56]

Wow thank you man...

[@tabithablount2547]

This is so ture. Thank you

[@Game_Changer362]

Show and Tell, not keeping everyone’s secrets. That would Be A Tony Call a Sleasy O.

[@Firevioletfly]

Thank you I need this

[@belovedchild2401]

Right on point.

[@ofs3216]

Great video, thank you. For me it’s been a long time with multiple disclosures learning of the cheating when I thought it had ended. Very sad and painful. On another note - Wonder if we can add if you leave your spouse for the affair partner maybe you won’t cheat again? 🤔

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