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YOU ARE TOO BLACK TO FIND A MAN IN CHINA.

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Uche Obuekwe

Uche Obuekwe

Күн бұрын

In today’s video, I share with you guys some of the comments that were said to me by some Chinese kids. It was a really random and interesting conversation and I’m so glad I was able t capture it on camera. #blackinchina #blackgirlinchina #chinaliving #findinglove #honestopinions #dating

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@ucheobuekwe
@ucheobuekwe 3 ай бұрын
Hi guys! Welcome to another vlog. I hope you enjoy it and it’s an insightful one for you. Please be sure to answer ALL the questions I asked in this video. Thank you 🫶🏼🫶🏼
@my_warm_Africa
@my_warm_Africa 2 ай бұрын
My experience is the opposite - white in Africa for the past 25 years. I remained in Ghana(West Africa) forever.This experience motivated me to start my own KZbin channel from Africa.
@ECINADGIRL
@ECINADGIRL 3 ай бұрын
Omg!! It's so shocking. The ignorance at such a young age 😅 hope they learn from this experience.
@deborahquaye3483
@deborahquaye3483 3 ай бұрын
Yeh i was expecting the mum to say something to the child but hearing from her seems to be a lost battle 😔😔
@ucheobuekwe
@ucheobuekwe 3 ай бұрын
Haha I hope a lot of people in China gain exposure especially about people who look different from them 😁
@columbuschokpa8791
@columbuschokpa8791 3 ай бұрын
I expect ignorance to be associated with young people. It is the same here in Nigeria. The problem is when young people refuse to enlighten themselves and remain ignorant until adulthood 🤔
@columbuschokpa8791
@columbuschokpa8791 3 ай бұрын
​@@deborahquaye3483The mum is as ignorant as the child. She too doesn't know that there are different races in the world. Many people never learn or know anything beyond their village, city and country. 🤔 You can find a lot of people like that in Nigeria.
@gwendolynestrada3017
@gwendolynestrada3017 3 ай бұрын
They are not taught about other cultures, they will be shocked if ever they leave their country
@alphaglucopyranose6928
@alphaglucopyranose6928 2 ай бұрын
I’m Chinese and I like black girls. I live in Chengdu. If you ever come here, remember to enjoy the food!
@MackenzieMackazana
@MackenzieMackazana 2 ай бұрын
Ahh I’m black and I love Asians! (All)
@AmbientofLight
@AmbientofLight 29 күн бұрын
😂same, same. Respectful asians*
@User-kjxklyntrw
@User-kjxklyntrw 2 ай бұрын
China is vast country so Chinese so diverse and had five colors : white, reddish white, yellow, light brown, dark brown black. Doesn't matter what color people are, they all welcome in China, China is open and friendly country.
@herstorylives7405
@herstorylives7405 3 ай бұрын
I think it is shocking for Black people from African countries because you are not accustomed to dealing with the issue of Race. Sadly as a Black women from the United States, I would be surprised if there were no encounters similar to what you had with that child. He is a child with lack of exposure. You handled it well. Hopefully you will be able to see that family again and continue the conversation. You educated the mother by telling her we "work" and we can be a "lawyer". Small steps to tearing down walls.
@kgreen8527
@kgreen8527 2 ай бұрын
It's not possible for them to not know they are just good at ignoring it! They know that they are poor because these nations are stealing from them! They have no since of self also they dont know that God is black!
@GrooveyRain
@GrooveyRain Ай бұрын
I don't have the patience to deal a child or adult views on the shade of skin.😒
@leeshaoloung7302
@leeshaoloung7302 3 ай бұрын
You are always very beautiful. It’s very easy for you to find a boyfriend. And he would be a very lucky guy to have you.
@ucheobuekwe
@ucheobuekwe 3 ай бұрын
Haha thank you 😉
@leeshaoloung7302
@leeshaoloung7302 3 ай бұрын
@@ucheobuekwe Any guy should be so lucky to be your boyfriend that would make other guys jealous.
@Gamerzombiepro1
@Gamerzombiepro1 3 ай бұрын
@@ucheobuekweignore racist kids they are just dumb
@raven1always
@raven1always 3 ай бұрын
Children are a reflection of their upbringing. If they are a reflection of ignorance, it stems directly from their parents. Hopefully they will learn that outward beauty pales in comparison to inward beauty. And from the looks of things, you are the most beautiful in the village by far. Both in and out.
@olubunmigiwa5255
@olubunmigiwa5255 3 ай бұрын
A distinct thing to notice is the neatness/cleanliness of the environment despite being a village
@ucheobuekwe
@ucheobuekwe 3 ай бұрын
Indeed. It’s clean especially for a village
@Mysweetpuppiestobiandchimo
@Mysweetpuppiestobiandchimo 2 ай бұрын
I'm an old lady from Puerto Rico, with all respect you are beautiful...those children they repeat what they hear from adult conversation...Blessings to you..😊
@bktan3111
@bktan3111 3 ай бұрын
❤u are really something. I would have been hurt by their direct comment but then i guess u realised that they are kids n its their honest opinion. Love the way u hand it. I guess u know u are beautiful . Keep up that spirit. China loves u.
@ucheobuekwe
@ucheobuekwe 3 ай бұрын
Lol yeah I don’t take a lot of comments personal because it’s a reflection of their knowledge and not necessarily about me as an individual. But I can’t even lie I was taken aback by that comment 😂😂 I never saw it coming
@qwertybirds
@qwertybirds 3 ай бұрын
Yes they're children but it also shows they have limited exposure to outsiders in the remote/countryside of a homogeneous society. Even the mother seemed quite ignorant as well. A child brought up around more diversity would surely never say such a thing. Its definitely more about environment than the fact that they're kids in this case.
@butjay11
@butjay11 3 ай бұрын
@@ucheobuekwe That kind of language from kids is what they were taught by adults. The adult standing right there and not trying to correct them tells you everything you need to know. What she said about her house and how you instead complimented the house was very nice but she didn't even say thank you. You're a sweet person and black people definitely need thick skin in this day and age (something I thought I would never have to say in 2024) especially when visiting foreign countries. You have a beautiful soul, lovely skin, and a sweet smile. Enjoy the rest of your trip.
@blackolantern5666
@blackolantern5666 3 ай бұрын
@bktan3111. Toughen up! Get some pride n self-esteem. Everybody ain't gonna like you🤷🏿‍♂🤷🏿‍♂ Gosh.🙄smh. We think everybody around the world is supposed to have a Martin King/Civil Rights mentality...we think everybody is supposed to love us.
@pcrummer1
@pcrummer1 3 ай бұрын
They should show pictures in school with people of different colors. They need to be taught people are different.
@mamahlolimasipa9901
@mamahlolimasipa9901 3 ай бұрын
You are correct, It seems China is still closed up to the rest of the world especially in the rurals.
@ucheobuekwe
@ucheobuekwe 3 ай бұрын
Very important 👏
@WallflowerCat7
@WallflowerCat7 2 ай бұрын
​​@@Jazz-fg2dm We don't need other people to accept us. But exposure and their school system educating the children about diversity can't be a bad thing.
@zwethandie
@zwethandie 3 ай бұрын
This was very lovely, I like seeing the countryside as well, I think the way you handled the children and mom was perfect. Your wisdom and beauty and grace is what they will remember the next time someone who "looks" like us shows up in their village.
@ucheobuekwe
@ucheobuekwe 3 ай бұрын
Haha I wish I was better prepared though 😂😂 I would have educated them some more but i just wasn’t expecting that. And yay all the countryside lovers gather here 💃🏾💃🏾
@typay7448
@typay7448 3 ай бұрын
They need to teach all of themselves better! Because everyone is discriminated against no one is perfect!
@_dybaIa
@_dybaIa 2 ай бұрын
Its passed down from generation.😅 Hopefully the next will not be racist
@Waridi23
@Waridi23 3 ай бұрын
in my village in Kenya we make wooden houses as well since we are in the highlands and its very cold. so from the foundation to a quarter height is made of stone to keep off termites then the rest of it is wood then the fireplace is made of stone of course. We also paint the wood black with a tar mixture to keep off the termites. I saw inside the room and it looks just like inside a typical room in our village even the beds and the bedding😁. For the little boy , he's just a product of his environment, he lacks exposure and mostly such mindsets are typical in people who are raised to think in one particular way, it is sad that at such a young age even his choice of a marriage partner has been influenced. Unfortunately it is a village mindset, that is the downside to villages...village life is really calm, natural and easy living but singular mindset is usually the downside...
@ucheobuekwe
@ucheobuekwe 3 ай бұрын
Yes the little boy is definitely a product of his environment and what he has heard people around him saying. Oh interesting that they’re similarities between this village and Kenyan villages hehe. Kenya is definitely on my travel list. I can’t wait to explore Africa 💃🏾
@Waridi23
@Waridi23 3 ай бұрын
@@ucheobuekwe Karibu sana Kenya!!
@maryg5982
@maryg5982 3 ай бұрын
I would not care what the child said. He is parroting the ignorant words and attitudes of the adults around him. You were very gracious when you said that the woman's battered house was good. Graciousness is something that the woman and her family have yet to learn. Although their words may have been disheartening, you handled the situation with restraint. elegance and grace. One day that family's opinions and attitudes may change or they may never change, but the important thing is not to let it change You. God chose to make Adam and Eve from the good, rich soil of the earth and upon completion he was well satisfied with the work of his hands. Go outside and see the color of the soil.
@AmbientofLight
@AmbientofLight 29 күн бұрын
Sad that the child took in the concept of race so early...if he can say that about her, he will look at his house and say "how can u be happy when you are ugly?" then never be content with the house he is in. Sad .
@agastyamon3008
@agastyamon3008 3 ай бұрын
I think you explain well. I remember when I was in Germany, It was the same issue, from Namibia 🇳🇦
@weifan9533
@weifan9533 28 күн бұрын
Just found your channel today. I'm a Chinese Canadian man who knows a bit of Tai-Kradai language. And you look 70-80% similar to a Tai-Kradai girl from Yunnan that I met on Douyin. She works as a model there and I really like her, but I know she'll never be my girlfriend and I'll never take her to Canada. Those kids are so ignorant and rude, please ignore them. The vast majority of Chinese are friendly to foreigners, and I hope that this rather unfortunate experience won't change your perception about Chinese people. Enjoy your stay in China, cheers!
@leeshaoloung7302
@leeshaoloung7302 3 ай бұрын
It’s always a joy to watch you.
@ucheobuekwe
@ucheobuekwe 3 ай бұрын
🫶🏼🫶🏼❤️❤️
@clever627
@clever627 3 ай бұрын
Your response was appropriate. Ignorance is worldwide and cannot be irradicated overnight except by a miracle. You are beautiful!
@l.a.w.79
@l.a.w.79 3 ай бұрын
Kids say what they think and China values very pale skin. It’s amazing what kids absorb in terms of values and view of the world from their environment.
@Gamerzombiepro1
@Gamerzombiepro1 3 ай бұрын
bro but arent they racist? in the begining of the video?
@l.a.w.79
@l.a.w.79 2 ай бұрын
I think they have biases based on the values they’ve absorbed from their short time on earth. They are kids. They can only think and believe what they’re exposed to. They value pale skin in many Asian countries.
@l.a.w.79
@l.a.w.79 2 ай бұрын
@@Gamerzombiepro1 personally I don’t think so. If you are referring to the children, they believe in & mirror what they hear. I don’t think they have formed the biased ideas on their own. They have to grow and mature and have their ideas challenged before suggesting that they are entrenched racist ideologies.
@learnTableTenis
@learnTableTenis 3 ай бұрын
China has a huge population, and guys' idea of ideal girlfriend vary dramatically. Even though when choosing Chinese girls, Chinese boys would consider character, values, income, family, education etc first, then when it comes to how his girlfriend should look like, good looking, nice curve figure and light skin are some popular choice. However, in TV dating shows, African girls have been very popular. African girls have unique and attractive points compared with Chinese girls, they are usually hard working, have longer and thin limes, and attractive female body shape compared to Asian girls.
@yunusaminbari3060
@yunusaminbari3060 3 ай бұрын
When people are not comfortable with their creation they will always look for someone to bully so they could feel good and better.
@ChildOfGod028
@ChildOfGod028 2 ай бұрын
Just found out a lot of them including Koreans hate Filipino people calling them monkeys and ugly saying they have dark skin. So imagine how they feel about black people
@Zaina-yh9kc
@Zaina-yh9kc 3 ай бұрын
Hello, you handle that situation with kids very well. You are smart and beautiful young lady!
@tovia-lk7yw
@tovia-lk7yw 3 ай бұрын
Love your videos,uche obuekwe Watching from Nigeria 🇳🇬🇳🇬🇳🇬
@tessypeters7789
@tessypeters7789 3 ай бұрын
Excuse me !! Black is beautiful and being black, Chinese people are not better than black people in any shape or form period. Be proud of your beautiful blackness ❤
@latiendaca1773
@latiendaca1773 3 ай бұрын
@tessypeters; Let’s not forget, “blackness” as a thing is everywhere, from dark skin to pale skin, areas. Amongst only Chinese, there’s the “blacker” ones. And as well amongst only Asians, only Africans…. So it’s not Chinese vs blacks!
@ladybirdlee3058
@ladybirdlee3058 3 ай бұрын
I watch a lot of black in china youtubers (I'm a black woman and would like to visit there one day). And I notice that the general public seems way more standoffish, unfriendly and rude to black women vs. black men, no matter whether they are in a city or village.
@ucheobuekwe
@ucheobuekwe 3 ай бұрын
Hmm really? I haven’t noticed any difference in the treatment of both black men and black women in china o. I do have my fair share of positive experiences and I’ve shared a couple of them here 😁
@Gamerzombiepro1
@Gamerzombiepro1 3 ай бұрын
@@ucheobuekwe Bro you should move to sweden there i live its rich and idk why many black youtubers calls chinese kids white???? also i thougth that chinese kids were smarter than asking dumb questons like"你为什么怎么黑"like its the dumbest queston to ask right?
@shaunc.8747
@shaunc.8747 2 ай бұрын
Black is beautiful, God love all his children, Amen 👋🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿
@olubunmigiwa5255
@olubunmigiwa5255 3 ай бұрын
I guess just as we have people who are not exposed to the wider world in africa, its same for the villagers here too. They are not aware of the many races there are in the world
@godswillogbonna9507
@godswillogbonna9507 3 ай бұрын
Hi Uche, Buying chicken for family and relatives in the villages in China is akin to buying bread for family member at home when travelling to the village here in Nigeria. Nice adventure. Enjoy.
@ucheobuekwe
@ucheobuekwe 3 ай бұрын
Oh yes this is a perfect example of. Thanks for pointing this out😁😁 we would always buy bread for neighbors when going back to the village for Christmas 🎄
@ivieanita6352
@ivieanita6352 2 ай бұрын
Even the way the duck kept moving its head, I'd be scared to carry it too😂😂😂
@jodi-.-
@jodi-.- 3 ай бұрын
very ignorant...id take so much offense! kids are one thing but the mother is there just smiling saying she dont wanna get to close to black people?? im going to china next month and im so scared to experience this. its upsetting
@ucheobuekwe
@ucheobuekwe 3 ай бұрын
Haha. Tip : Don’t take anything personal. Focus more on the positives, be open minded and try and have fun/ make memories. ❤️
@jodi-.-
@jodi-.- 3 ай бұрын
@@ucheobuekwe Yea i know i cant take it personally, its just ignorance. If i ever encounter such a situation i think id just tell them what they said wasnt nice and keep walking haha
@LoveLifeJoy24
@LoveLifeJoy24 3 ай бұрын
In Asia you get two kinds. The one that doesn't want to get close, and the one that gets too close! There is no balance 😂
@chinelougwu6819
@chinelougwu6819 3 ай бұрын
Beautiful Uche doesn't have to worry about a boyfriend anyways. She is hot cake!
@Gamerzombiepro1
@Gamerzombiepro1 3 ай бұрын
@@ucheobuekwe but why arent you moving to america?
@marialoves2talk
@marialoves2talk 3 ай бұрын
Thats what is taught at home and in their hearts. I thought they said Chinese folks had manners and trained their kids to ve respectful? The mom never scolded the kid or made him apologize. Your so called friend didnt say anything? Please be careful. Sad.
@anacarpenter9254
@anacarpenter9254 2 ай бұрын
2024 Mother nature spectrum woman with all the appeal of a standout BEAUTY. "atom sized brain with so much insecurity they are so jealous of you my dear." Good on you ❤...😊
@topgurl9313
@topgurl9313 3 ай бұрын
You could have just said Black people have husbands and wives with different skin colours. It's true and it shows that people do want to be your spouse when your skin is dark. They can't argue with that 🤷🏾‍♀
@user-kv7gs4je7n
@user-kv7gs4je7n 3 ай бұрын
Uche the village girl 😂😂
@ucheobuekwe
@ucheobuekwe 3 ай бұрын
Haha 😆
@alfonsowillock5801
@alfonsowillock5801 3 ай бұрын
I would have ask him if what he is saying we thought to him by someone and also ask him if he knows that there is more than one color of people in the world. I believe his mom said that u was not allowed to come close them. So this is thought at home. The ignorant is just on another level. Teaching children to hate at a young age crazy.
@GloriaEjay
@GloriaEjay 3 ай бұрын
For someone who comes alive when she sees a chicken you sure did great trying to hold the chicken and duck 😂😂😂😂
@ucheobuekwe
@ucheobuekwe 3 ай бұрын
Nne 别提了🫣😆
@GPIduh
@GPIduh 3 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@user-rizo4ykyd7vstl4w
@user-rizo4ykyd7vstl4w 2 ай бұрын
Godspeed, And Also God Bless For Being Ettiquettedly Mature, As Well As Emotionally Poised,When Being Confronted By A Child In China Mentioning About Being Difficult For You In Finding A Soulmate, It Really Sad Thing That Individuals All Around The World Perceive Soulmates With Seeing Hitched With Having Similar Nationalities,As Well As Religious Sects ,And Also Cultural Creeds,With Racism Being Foremost Imprinted Inside Their Minds, And Not Actually Emotional Compatibility,Or A Inner Goodness Of A Person,It Changes Only Cultures As Well As Nation's Are Really Concerned, Are Actually More Broad Minded To Address The Problem's In Lacking Of Marital Proposals In The Dating Market's, Furthermore I Believe That Indian Men As Well As Women Are Reseptive When When Dating Or Marrying A Black Men,Or Women Are Actually Is Really Concerned Here,Likewise,.....
@wombmate1669
@wombmate1669 17 күн бұрын
Lovely, you handled that racist family with dignity and grace. Their ignorance is a result of being raised by an illiterate, xenophobic mother. God bless you and may you continue to be full of God’s grace,humility and wisdom ❤
@keturahleecoulibaly9267
@keturahleecoulibaly9267 3 ай бұрын
Education is key, educating kids is important on the different people of the world. They don't know what makes the skin a different shade. So its good to give short explainations about skin tone, melanin and how the world is vast full of different shades 😎 so you can find a husband easy. Who knows it might inspire some to travel when older. ❤
@konpeitosama
@konpeitosama 3 ай бұрын
Exactly.
@esnartliboma4062
@esnartliboma4062 3 ай бұрын
Uche make a video showing different children of colour. Those kids are innocent and lack exposure. It's all right.
@lohnansamson5015
@lohnansamson5015 3 ай бұрын
Wow the village is actually nice though
@misomar7193
@misomar7193 3 ай бұрын
i’m in korea and i just tell kids that im a chocolate person. i would just tell those kids that ill marry someone who like chocolate 😅
@Gamerzombiepro1
@Gamerzombiepro1 3 ай бұрын
no korea isnt a racist country only america is becuase america is full of racist white dudes lol!
@Flexed_qt
@Flexed_qt 2 ай бұрын
I told them I drank too much coffee as a kid 😂
@musicfan300
@musicfan300 16 күн бұрын
I think the little boy was thinking you are a local girl in his village until you told them you are a foreigner....when you are that young, you tend to assume everyone you see is from your little neighborhood, unless you are told otherwise.
@kittyadventuresvlogs
@kittyadventuresvlogs 3 ай бұрын
I'm so sorry you had to deal with that!
@ucheobuekwe
@ucheobuekwe 3 ай бұрын
lol thank you but it’s honestly fine. It’s part of the effects of living in China
@Gamerzombiepro1
@Gamerzombiepro1 3 ай бұрын
Sorry to hear that the kids is Kinda racist so racism in China exist
@jazziequeen88
@jazziequeen88 2 ай бұрын
I appreciate your videos so much. I’m in China now. There are lots of teachable moments and much needed exposure to differences. You’re a clever, funny, a beautiful representative of those things! (Hello from Chengdu!)
@ucheobuekwe
@ucheobuekwe 2 ай бұрын
Oh hello from chengdu! I should visit soon 😁
@jazziequeen88
@jazziequeen88 2 ай бұрын
@@ucheobuekwe That would be amazing! I’m a professor over here (& most likely the only Black westerner/foreigner in this province😩🥹🤭😤) Your vids are so refreshing & real. 💕
@ucheobuekwe
@ucheobuekwe 2 ай бұрын
@@jazziequeen88 Oh wow a professor in China? That’s amazing 👏
@rimshaali9562
@rimshaali9562 2 ай бұрын
U are so kind.and ur communication level is so great. Come to Pakistan also 🙃i will hug u my sister
@peggyclio1199
@peggyclio1199 3 ай бұрын
The child wonder about he never saw, like you wonder when you were told houses around you are made with wood. The we have to consider that pale skin, in some area, mean you are noble as only who worked in the fields had burned skin. For this reason in rural area a dark skin is value as sign if modest economic situation. You reacted right, explaining, speaking. The family seems very modest and rural. Mother wonder your mother is a lawyer....they can't even Imagine where Africa, not even that black people exist. I could say I'm sorry for them.. but they simply are living their life
@harlee2191
@harlee2191 3 ай бұрын
How do you expect them to be any different. Some of them don't go to school or are exposed to international people? Parents didn't go either nor exposed. It's an educational experience.
@Truthseeker12332
@Truthseeker12332 3 ай бұрын
Villagers are ignorance , not expose to foreigners
@user-eo7vc9uz3c
@user-eo7vc9uz3c 2 ай бұрын
It was because you're not prepared but was nice how you explained to children it's a form of education.my people are destroyed because of lack of knowledge that was what the holy book says since you have explained it's ok.youre doing a wonderful job.am watching you from Nigeria 🇳🇬
@Sitbannon132
@Sitbannon132 3 ай бұрын
I would have told them more about Nigeria and the jobs we do here. You were amazing ❤❤
@user-ti5um5ek1t
@user-ti5um5ek1t 3 ай бұрын
I told you, they learned that from their moms
@ucheobuekwe
@ucheobuekwe 3 ай бұрын
Yes they basically consume and ingest what is said around them
@user-ti5um5ek1t
@user-ti5um5ek1t 3 ай бұрын
And their mom was saying she wouldn’t want to come close to you.
@konpeitosama
@konpeitosama 3 ай бұрын
Do they not teach human anatomy in schools? Human anatomy gives a thorough explanation on why some skin tones are darker. It even explains the fact that white/pale skin is a genetic mutation.
@columbuschokpa8791
@columbuschokpa8791 3 ай бұрын
Uche nice to see you again ❤️🤓The children and many adults know very little Geography. So when people in China or anywhere else ask about your 'blackness' teach them a little human geography. There are 5 major races in the world: Mongoloids eg. Chinese, Japanese etc., Caucasoids eg. Europeans, Arabs, North Indians etc., Negroids eg Nigerians, African Americans etc , Australoid eg Aborigines, Papuans, Melanesian s etc. So the black/dark skinned races are Negroids and Australoid Others have shades that go from pale white to pinkish to brownish and pale yellow. If you have images of each of the races, that would be very helpful. Good luck Uche because that little boy just said indirectly that he wouldn't marry you 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@randomlyamazing58
@randomlyamazing58 3 ай бұрын
I also love village life a lot. My dream is actually to build a house in my farm and just live there with my family, rearing chickens, goats, and cultivating crops. Glad to see that you are a big fan of village life Uche.
@erinlevere6881
@erinlevere6881 2 ай бұрын
That was hurtful
@Sarah-v7x
@Sarah-v7x 21 күн бұрын
Uche you are scared to carry the chicken keh? 😂 The same you that was chasing the chicken saying you will catch it.
@user-ezrabook
@user-ezrabook 3 ай бұрын
He doesn't know that we are waiting for you to bring to London ❤❤❤❤ love you
@MissTree82
@MissTree82 2 ай бұрын
I would tell him marriage is about love and happiness not skin color. I would tell an adult, relationships are about compatibility not skin color. He’s a kid, he doesn’t know.
@BlackDagestani
@BlackDagestani 3 ай бұрын
I don't think the child was being evil. Light skin is seen as beautiful in their culture. I think there was an opportunity to simply say "in Africa I can find husband easily and even here in China some people find me attractive". The mother wasn't at fault either, she grew up like her kids, you are the first black person they've met, so of course they have questions that are rooted in ignorance. I was surprised you didn't correct them but I guess you were so shocked.
@justinphillip5416
@justinphillip5416 3 ай бұрын
He probably learned that from colorism. Where I live in Asia, bleaching agents are in everything. I believe it is a nuanced phenomenon, but we can only learn from each other. I hope the children are able to meet more foreigners of diverse backgrounds.
@fegormudiaga3839
@fegormudiaga3839 3 ай бұрын
You are very beautiful.
@ucheobuekwe
@ucheobuekwe 3 ай бұрын
🫶🏼🫶🏼
@KinWong-uw5xz
@KinWong-uw5xz 3 ай бұрын
Don't worry you are beautiful black lady, you will find the right guy when affinity arrived.
@GloriaEjay
@GloriaEjay 3 ай бұрын
10:04 Ah ah ah ah! what I’m I supposed to answer to this, very relatable 😅😂 some of the questions just leave you speechless, like a lady who told me Chinese women can’t marry African men because the men are too 厉害 😅 I was speechless for a little while
@bevbecks1
@bevbecks1 3 ай бұрын
Awww chicken run.😂😂😂😂
@ucheobuekwe
@ucheobuekwe 3 ай бұрын
😂😂
@Par_Avion1
@Par_Avion1 3 ай бұрын
I would say that you should expect the unexpected at all times as a foreigner in China. Why? Because for many of them, its their first time seeing someone of your complexion, especially for those living in rural communities. Kids will say crazy things anyway.
@ladybirdlee3058
@ladybirdlee3058 3 ай бұрын
How much longer do you think you will stay in China? Do you have more schooling?
@ucheobuekwe
@ucheobuekwe 3 ай бұрын
Nope. I’m done with school. Will be here for a while for business.
@rhonda5056
@rhonda5056 3 ай бұрын
You have to realize that there are many people in the world who have never been out of the village, their city, etc. and have no experience with other cultures, ethnicities, etc. Poverty and lack of education keeps many people ignorant of the world. My response would have been, no problem there I will find a boyfriend who loves me because I am smart, and I have a lot of money...haha
@jacquelinestpaul4931
@jacquelinestpaul4931 3 ай бұрын
You for me in their village many it’s the first time they saw a black person . I saw many blog some places in china they surprised when they see a black person
@AntAnt-mr7lc
@AntAnt-mr7lc Ай бұрын
I would say am black cos i ate all the chocolate 😂
@ThatsEunice
@ThatsEunice 3 ай бұрын
They don’t have enough women, they will be running to you.!
@shaunc.8747
@shaunc.8747 2 ай бұрын
Africa is the origin of mankind, Africa is in the bible, In the bible God said love each other, There's ignorance and hate around the world, God is coming back, Amen👋🏿👋🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿
@georwoogle
@georwoogle 3 ай бұрын
Like your videos. they are all so real. You always present real pictures wherever you go. Great job 👍BTW, you are very pretty.
@ucheobuekwe
@ucheobuekwe 3 ай бұрын
❤️❤️🫶🏼🫶🏼
@farhiankirote3521
@farhiankirote3521 22 күн бұрын
some parents need to show their children some manners don't they know that EVEN THE WHITEST MAN ON EARTH HIS SHADOW IS ALWAYS BLACK
@kimberlywilliams9422
@kimberlywilliams9422 3 ай бұрын
I guess stupid starts young. 😒🙄
@pearlfavor5043
@pearlfavor5043 3 ай бұрын
Omalicha thank you for sharing this video.
@shonaswaby5927
@shonaswaby5927 3 ай бұрын
Hi Uche, What’s the name of the song , in the vlog? ❤
@FolukeKehinde
@FolukeKehinde 3 ай бұрын
Hi Uche, actually, it is lack of exposure. You know the woman can be considered to be illiterate, and the boy was a child. You know I was soliloquising when I was watching the video that none of them can withstand you in beauty...😂. Black is beautiful.❤
@k.c1126
@k.c1126 3 ай бұрын
Re the marriage comments, i would say to him, people get married for different reasons, not just because of their color... And black people get married to all kinds of people. And I might add, it's not whether they will marry me, but whether I want to marry them... 😂
@josephlokai4013
@josephlokai4013 3 ай бұрын
May i ask how is their education system...i think in Africa we are tought about different continents and different peoples...bt outside world seems not exposed ,
@ayah812
@ayah812 3 ай бұрын
I hate that my daughter has to grow up around this ignorance
@jacquelinestpaul4931
@jacquelinestpaul4931 3 ай бұрын
I saw people from the village doesn’t eat beef or goat they eat chicken and pork
@Gamerzombiepro1
@Gamerzombiepro1 3 ай бұрын
they eat dogs and cats
@yttelbruinsma9503
@yttelbruinsma9503 3 ай бұрын
The woman is a kid herself.
@jeremybanks182
@jeremybanks182 3 ай бұрын
That woman that was with the child at the beginning of the video should have reprimanded him for making that ignorant comment.
@jacquelinestpaul4931
@jacquelinestpaul4931 3 ай бұрын
How they warn the house
@PL22-JudgeDredd
@PL22-JudgeDredd 3 ай бұрын
He didnt say that. He said you are so black, how old are you??? I listened 3x and he didnt say what you said.
@ucheobuekwe
@ucheobuekwe 3 ай бұрын
Nope nope. You must have missed it because they were two people talking (mum and boy) at the same time. Listen to the boy on the right side and look closely, his brother said something which I didn’t catch, so he repeated it, also you can tell I’m right by the follow up question I asked him.
@PL22-JudgeDredd
@PL22-JudgeDredd 3 ай бұрын
@@ucheobuekwe i watched the beginning of your video 3x and stopped watching after that because i thought you were exaggerating :). I heard Ni zenme hei, ni duo shao sui, this is the boy on the right.
@ucheobuekwe
@ucheobuekwe 3 ай бұрын
@@PL22-JudgeDredd Lol. I have no reason to exaggerate neither will I lie in a video and say what wasn’t said.
@PL22-JudgeDredd
@PL22-JudgeDredd 3 ай бұрын
@@ucheobuekwe my bad, i only watched the beginning of your video, maybe should have watched the rest.
@ucheobuekwe
@ucheobuekwe 3 ай бұрын
@@PL22-JudgeDredd That’s okay! 😌
@chinelougwu6819
@chinelougwu6819 3 ай бұрын
This says a lot about internet restrictions in China. I mean you don't need travel to know there are different types of people and races out there. You handled the situation very well, Sis. Like you, I would have responded with a smile.
@ucheobuekwe
@ucheobuekwe 3 ай бұрын
Yes the restrictions definitely have a role to play in what they are able to consume about the outside world..
@preciousthoughts4674
@preciousthoughts4674 3 ай бұрын
I would say im black because the Universe made me this way so i can be protected from the sun better than people with lighter skin(i bet he wont ask that question again😅😊and that my melanin is worth more than gold(i would give him some schooling😅😅
@Tigerex966
@Tigerex966 2 ай бұрын
Mom and dad made you
@preciousthoughts4674
@preciousthoughts4674 2 ай бұрын
@@Tigerex966 in my book the universe made all of us
@Tigerex966
@Tigerex966 2 ай бұрын
@@preciousthoughts4674 the book of life says your Mom and dad made you not the universe. Through a thing called mating or sex the union of sperm fertilizing the egg pregnancy and birth nurturing raising. And who cares for you who raised you. Let's give credit to the truth not your book but your mom and dad.
@gwendolynestrada3017
@gwendolynestrada3017 3 ай бұрын
They are ignorant to anyone other than themselves because they are not taught. If they ever leave their country they will be shocked that there are more than they in this world. Sad they shelter themselves only in their own country even in 2024
@aro-ndizuoguokebata445
@aro-ndizuoguokebata445 2 ай бұрын
if you cannot find husband in china please come to American
@OLUWAFISAYOMIADENEKAN
@OLUWAFISAYOMIADENEKAN 3 ай бұрын
Wow😂😂
@georwoogle
@georwoogle 3 ай бұрын
👏👏👏
@sisteralluyudah1902
@sisteralluyudah1902 Ай бұрын
You're in the wrong Province because their are SO many African Woman Chinese Man marriages and they have channels here on KZbin.
@conconazarcon6682
@conconazarcon6682 3 ай бұрын
Interesting
@konpeitosama
@konpeitosama 3 ай бұрын
You could've handled that better by educating them that there's different types of people outside of China and that there isn't anything wrong with your skin tone. You could've said that people that look like you also get married all of the time or have boyfriend and girlfriends. You lacked explanations and educating.
@D_E_R_A65
@D_E_R_A65 3 ай бұрын
What the little boy said was actually true though it is rare to find a bride as a black in china It's just there way of life
@konpeitosama
@konpeitosama 3 ай бұрын
She doesn't need to find a husband in China and a lot of Chinese people are going to Africa and marrying African women. Tbh, Africans marrying Chinese is becoming more common.
@ayah812
@ayah812 3 ай бұрын
Lots of black and Chinese marriages
@tastesweet9027
@tastesweet9027 3 ай бұрын
Oh please if nobody was having relationships/marriage with blk women then the blk race would've been existent
@sinalbertckwong6406
@sinalbertckwong6406 2 ай бұрын
Come on, Uche! "You so black, who will marry you", meant he us in love with you, will married you. BUT you have to wait for him to complete U in a couple of year. Thus, you have to be honest and respond NO, I'LL NOT WAIT FOR YOU MY ❤! BUT I 'LL ASM MY KID SISTER TO COME TO CHINA AND WAIT FOR YOU. 😅😅😅😅😅
@Ramonafloyd
@Ramonafloyd 3 ай бұрын
Free the duck and the chicken
@jjsparksshow4772
@jjsparksshow4772 2 ай бұрын
I would ask him how he is so yellow
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