You Can Be Right or You Can Be HAPPY | The Delineation

[@nocir154]

The least inspiring Cam video be like:

[@MichaelCardell]

😂😂😂 ur good Cam lok

[@Raisin_Girl]

I found this wildly inspiring. I went from, "Oh boy, here's a fun sync", to LMFAO, to shouting preach at a computer. This was brilliant and I hope people hear it and get moving. 🙂

[@Michelle-vs6eh]

I’m just jealous at his amazing loft! 🤷🏻‍♀️🤣

[@tittou34]

worst rage bait. i rate it… 2/10

[@heathenstarot]

Damn that’s some Solar eclipse in Aries conjunct Chiron energy right there 🔥🔥

[@peacepantherproductions]

I was having a horrible trajectory today, , then I swam a mile and happened to listen to this and it’s sooo needed…. I think this is the crystallization of everything we’ve been unraveling this eclipse season. It’s a process, day by day, but catching yourself like this needs to be a new pattern to stop the momentum before it takes over.

[@Themacintheroni]

“I would rather be free (and in love) than be right” -Ram Dass ❤

[@realestaten2418]

Love

[@elmorebalonis8998]

Scorpio full moon squaring Pluto coming right out of your mouth here. This is very much where I'm at. It's all getting thrown in my face, and I'm seeing all the patterns but am struggling to figure out the necessary actions. Mostly I'm just trying to change up my routines, start working out, challenge myself to develop some structure around desire and expression and giving voice to all the things I've let fester in my heart. And taking a swing at being an astrologer. Every day I have resistance and struggle, and some days I do give up. But then I look at some of the steps I've taken, sharing my writing, launching a website...It almost feels foreign and I have no idea how to follow up any of the moves that I'm making, but I'm just doing them before I can talk myself out of it. And I feel like an impostor. All. The. Time. And I just keep going. If I can do it, anybody can. Just keep swingin'.

[@raziel1687]

I feel like I could've written this! I also started a website and want to be an Astrologer.

[@DeeLynn11]

100% spot on!! Horrible events in my life do not define who I am. I do and I choose to be better not bitter.

[@stunning-gems]

Hi, it's Pamela here, this has got to be one of the best KZbin videos you've ever done, thank you. It's so true, one of the problems when you do become mega successful, is that the people around you who've been stuck, will try to bring you down to their level to make themselves feel better. We do 'outgrow' people and situations and if they're not happy for us, we have to cut them out of our lives and move on, however painful that may be.

[@realestaten2418]

Cam speaking to my Gen X heart. Nobody is coming to save you because you are more than capable of doing what you want and be open to asking for help along the way

[@aidanjohnwalsh2129]

Sometimes the double-trick is finding the right people, to ask the right questions.

[@realestaten2418]

@@aidanjohnwalsh2129 True, It can be and I have felt that many times. I wish that you encounter amazing wise people in your life and always follow your instinct❤️

[@ijoeeey]

So I’m an astrologer too and I’m a boxer. I was just at the gym punching the bag thinking “I have a difficult chart but I make my chart my bitch… Everyday” by doing the Saturnian things (night baby) I didn’t need this video from you but It came up and if you ever want to give up astrology and be my boxing coach full time lettsss gooo Cam! LOL great video. Sharing to my negative friends or my clients always blaming their chart. PS also a Leo

[@MichaelCardell]

😂

[@chinchilling92]

Cam, I'm piggybacking off your weather analogy when I say that people complaining about their "bad" charts and that's why their life sucks is like knowing it's gonna rain tomorrow and saying you're screwed cause you don't have an umbrella..well, go buy an umbrella. But some people dont want to buy an umbrella.

[@reverie7628]

I’m sorry but I love how heated you’re getting over this 😂 sometimes tough love is needed and I appreciate you and how validating this video is

[@magickalmoonman]

feelin real negative going into this. going into happiness next

[@townsendtopper]

Love this, brother. Can’t count how many times in my 42 years I’ve found this to be true. The worst times in my life were when I forget this. Thank you for this and keep doing what you do, bro.

[@denise1191]

You're absolutely right, it's a mindset change though which is required. It's a choice. You have to speak over that inner voice with a million positive words and then move forward in complete faith.

[@mysterio1374]

As a Leo rising dealing with this ♏️ full moon in my 4h. I needed to hear this! I might just listen to this video everyday!

[@iiismyfav]

Thank you for posting this Cam. The disease of victim mentality has over taken society. I’m a Gen X’er and was raised to be accountable for my own actions and/or inactions- regardless of how difficult my childhood was. And yes, I have a lot of demons- but have never let them stop me. I’ve raised my kids (who are about your age) to be accountable and persevere no matter the obstacles. I always say - “you are the master of your own ship. (Keep your head up- I hate seeing you angry 😕)

[@johnnewton8017]

I made a lot of really shitty choices in my life, does my chart reflect that? Maybe.. I had several gnarly near death experiences when I was a kid that caused me to live in utter fear for a long time. Those experiences also opened the door to a spiritual life that I would be empty without. Does life still suck? Sometimes. I don’t think I would appreciate life and the little things if I hadn’t gone over the edge over and over. Now its my mission to transmute the guilt and shame. I pay attention to my chart and sometimes I put too much stock into it. That age old ‘fate and free will’ tug of war is always pulling me one way or the other. ❤

[@delusionalpriest9699]

I need you all to pay me $10,000 00 USD first bro, don't play with me, I'm singlehandedly changing the way the world should be viewed. again..please don't play with me. this is about YOU. not me. #ariesnorthnode

[@shanekeenaNYC]

So I had a similar thing happen with this small vacuum that I used to have. Every bad vacuuming job I had was due to this vacuum. Sometimes it just helps to throw that old vacuum away.

[@savannaswan]

People have to learn humility before they can accept being wrong. This is a really great message.

[@Areios1019]

I’m in a place and I really needed to hear this. The timing was sublime. Thank you for sharing 🙏🏼

[@CapnCoda]

I teach random people random stuff for my job and this is a PERFECT way in explaining cognitive distortions and changing your thoughts to change your life. Bravo!!! Not always such an easy topic to elegantly explain in such a straightforward and concise way. Thank you

[@sabrinamera8710]

Cam just set a new standard for passing the vibe check. I’m here for it, preach!

[@Kandeecee45]

You. Thanks Cam. Needed to hear this. Not resistant. Just realized less than a year ago how much my childhood wounds affected me. And I just turned 46. Learning to work through everything as an Aries sun Pisces ascendant and Gemini moon!! Bbaybayy. I'm very grateful for my experiences because I'm pretty awesome! I've been afraid of my own abilities and success.. I have/AM/IS struggled with how to get through the small personal challenges and constant changes in my life as well as accept how great and resillient I am. I am a much better person than I was yesterday.. always work to do. 😮 Thanks so much. This really helped. I enjoy watching and listening!

[@NeinFeline]

We're getting off the Prison Planet with this one Fam!

[@brisay1844]

Thank you for being such a motivator❤ You strive so hard to help people rise above themselves. I truly admire you and your convictions. I am sure this video will help many who struggle with self limiting perspectives and fears. Thank you, Cam, for your dedication to helping people live up to their potential. I send you huge hugs, and I wish you the most positive blessings imaginable ❤

[@lukapetvet6867]

Saturn and Neptune in 12th house Capricorn,been doing what you're saying my entire life and it really does get better when you face the uncertainty and uncomfortable situations.

[@carolannhouston8801]

Well said Cam. My new mantra is:- does this take me closer to or further away from my goal

[@kathrynkiffmann7833]

This is perfect for me. I’ve been wrong.

[@brisay1844]

Thank you for being such a motivator❤ You strive so hard to help people rise above themselves. I truly admire you and your convictions. I am sure this video will help many who struggle with self limiting perspectives and fears. Thank you, Cam, for your dedication to helping people live up to their potential. I send you huge hugs, and I wish you the most positive blessings imaginable ❤

[@leighonicholas]

You’re so right! Absolutely Correct!!!!!

[@christineheinmiller4259]

I spent a good part of my early 20’s being right and I’m thankful because it’s so easy for me to be like fuck that, I’d rather be happy and move in that direction

[@ChristieAphrodite]

Impeccable timing. Well said! Thank you!

[@CorrinaBettencourt]

Cam - I love your delivery and content 👏

[@amandak1360]

In the words of Catatonia; "when faced with my demons, i clothe them and feed them". Thanks Cam ❤

[@dorothealwalker4124]

Im ALWAYS in my way...,was called name when younger....... getting over. Thank you!😊❤❤❤

[@Astralmystique]

You can be Saturn or you can be Jupiter

[@rvarela308]

I loved everything u said. I mean i think we all talk to ourselves n a negative way but we have to start doing the opposite and stoping ourselves from all the negativity and just be as positive as we can.

[@danielledavis8580]

The actual neuroscience behind changing those beliefs is pretty difficult. You’re spot on. But there’s a reason people don’t manifest the lives they want-because it ain’t effing easy. But breaking one’s comfort zone is the key to creating your best life. Do something that scares you and feel the exhilaration! Then get to work. Rinse and repeat.

[@zanyala.]

700th like 7️⃣7️⃣7️⃣ ^-^ anyway, its almost uncanny how you are repeating phrases and concepts from private conversations that ive had with people over the past few days / weeks even. Quite literally validating me and im sure many others in this moment. Thanks cam! ✨️💖✨️

[@shannajones573]

This totally energized me my Leo brother! Thank you!

[@amandaschneikart3711]

It's very interesting how 100 years ago I don't think anyone was encouraging anyone to break free from their personality mould.....now its almost expected.....we must be evolving.....rn it is a daily process, and it can be uncomfortable, but well worth it

[@nokateno]

This deserves a LOT more views.

[@theedspage]

This should be required viewing

[@fortunexflow]

Whatever this is I love it and keep doing it. Love how you use astrology as self development. Paces sun Gemini rising and this is my jam. What can we do now with understanding the narrative of the past

[@shoestring9964]

Incredible. Show-stopping. This is enlightening and well thought out. Definitely keep doing this. I am positively reinforcing you. But I genuinely agree with you and your thoughts. 💪

[@revolutionary_evolution]

Wow... Thank you. I'm gonna listen to this again tomorrow. And maybe the day after.. I resonate with this so hard. Fucking A. 💪❤️🙏

[@cupidboiiii]

Your energy is amazinggg! Everything that you spoke about has been lingering within myself for the past couple of weeks and this really affirmed me, my goals and my happiness. Thank you for your voice and videos! :)

[@greendragon777]

Love this Cam! Was having this very subject conversation with a coworker today. Toxic workplace that I'm trying to shift the energy in with thought provoking and deep conversations 👌💯

[@sky_woman111]

Yes daddy 🫡 needed to hear this thanks!

[@suzigemini]

I am onboard with everything you are saying--it took me a lot longer to realize it was me--holding me back, my Programming--limiting Be"lie"fs. I am rewriting the Code--it is never too late. Much love Cam. Thank you.

[@edexc3187]

🤍🤍

[@kittenhrdr]

You can change the world by changing your mind ✨️. The Universe will say yes, if you ask. Allowing others their views takes nothing away from yours.

[@davidchesar9453]

Reminds me of a poem I wrote a little bit ago … Depressed or depressing We will never know What seeds need sowing Knowing what’s coming Knowing I’m going Honored commitments Let my desire leave Walking it to the door Was done by me Truth never cared for happiness It makes broken hearts jump If I could change the world I would give me more of what I have left of you If I could change I would give you more of me

[@donnasven4433]

What you’re saying reminds me of Joe Dispenza “ rewired” . It’s on the Gaia app and not on KZbin but he does have many video interviews on here. It’s about changing your mindset and how you are comfortable with these beliefs , they are habits.

[@patb.1445]

We appreciate your insight Cam! I consider your input a positive aspect in my life and will strive to practice more of this with my inner voice. Thank you Cam! Thank you Parker!👍😊

[@romeosantos3261]

I needed to listen to this. I have major sun in Sagittarius ♐️ trining Chiron in Leo ♌️ in the 10th house in my natal chart I’ve been reflecting on past experiences to move forward everyday.

[@NeinFeline]

Thanks for this... This is like the advice I'd give others, notice that I should probably follow it to, but don't since I was delivering said advice. So now I got someone telling me the bidness 💪🧐

[@JustJessie_]

My WI high school told me to drop out. My nursing instructor in Iowa told me When I was failing. If they can do it. I can do it. ❤ And who's the mother fuckin RN, me. 😂❤

[@drawingmomentum]

So, how do I expose the teen Nancy that stole the childhood my gmas gave me? Cuz I know I am right. I wish I was wrong and still had all those beautiful gifts and momentos. But she stole them and the sheriffs never did anything and she's still stealing. I'm so tired of not being heard nor allowed any justice. 😢

[@chicagoshedell4054]

Thank you for being honest and upfront!!! I love that you don’t sugar coat shit

[@astro5558]

Well Cam, i told my self 'I CAN ;For many years, but everything else said no- Every time i went for promotion, something swept in to stop me, now its happening again, i wanted to buy a house, and illness stopped me, and i lost three houses in a row, now im trying to do something positive, im hoping nothing gets in my way this time, cos its definitely not me getting im my own way .. !!! explain that ???? however i think youre an awesome astrologer x M

[@CapnCoda]

Some therapists use what i believe is reffered to as narrative therapy to actually do some of this work. And CBT/DBT also do much of this work, so some therapy does help with this for some!!

[@craigkeltie]

Thanks Cam, I needed that. I've been suffering a Lyme co-infection and telling myself I can treat it my own way when there is an established method available and I've got to trust it and go for it. Objectively I get better with the harsher treatment, it just sucks at the time, but at this fork in the road there is pain either way. Stay well.

[@iliapitersky3962]

Thank you from me and astrologer circle I am a part of. Your honesty is razor-sharp, exactly what's needed in this period.

[@Garden_Queen]

Cam, what are your thoughts on sidereal verses tropical? I’m sorta feeling disconnected from astrology due to going down this rabbit hole a bit. Both seem valid but it becomes almost too much to encapsulate.

[@amandaschneikart3711]

And you're right....if u can't get excited bout it, it just feels like anxiety. Everyone still needs comfort to maintain sanity lol, but trying to push yourself a lil farther or at least one thing that scares you every day :)

[@michellecook-hill]

Sag rising feeling that 3h Saturn transit & using his platform. Great talk, Cam ♥️🙏🏼♥️

[@Honey-qp6ti]

Oh you get me on a point here, I am a very mind focused gemini and I like to be right the most of everything. I never thought, of this self sabotaging me 🤣🤣🤣 I think, I should ponder about this. 😂

[@lagringarara]

thank you for the awesome pep talk, Cam! Eff yes, literally just what I need right now!

[@esperanzavencetarot]

💗💗💗💗

[@chartingwithliv]

Saturn has been in opposition to my moon in Virgo, thank you so much because this exact thing is what I’ve been suffering from. It’s given me depression trying to be right vs having hope thing can happen

[@westernmac5944]

Yes! This message is correct and difficult to impart. I have ground this same message to dust and I will force feed it to whoever I can until the day l die. We are not victims people. This is a false narrative. You are whatever you decide you are.

[@eileenb77]

Very direct and so much truth. Thank you. This helps us aim to hear How we need to take responsibility and see the places we need to change… The places we can be wrong because we are always learning… There’s always a lot more to learn… Thank you so much

[@capriquarius9861]

Okayyyyy!!! Hear this message loud and clear and not one single doubt in my mind I was meant to hear it Today! Ty for the direction, ik what I need to with it 🩶

[@annettelauritsen6655]

❤ fantastic video!! Thanks Cam. Now to forward to all my loved ones.

[@DawnRivera-l5l]

What is the work, is there a process? I wasted 22min listening to a rant of 'do better and push past your past'.. Make this make sense.

[@DS-tq5gy]

I wish my mom could understand English, this is exactly what I want to tell her but I can't put the words together 😢

[@aaarti4068]

Keep up the good work Cam ! 🤗 Got me deeply thinking....

[@hillayechieli1648]

It reminds me a thing you said in one of your videos a few months ago! That in ancient astrology mentioned that planets that are in Mercury are in Jupiter - because when you think too much and taking things to logically you can't feel the abundance coming and your faith is getting weaker. It's the same thing like choosing to be right or be happy. Thank you for the inspiration

[@chelsyiorio3001]

Thanks, Cam ❤

[@urthshu]

earliest was my dad walking away from us when i was 3 - took a long time to straighten that out since i thought it mustve been my fault & my bullying sister blamed me too, every day the struggle

[@spiderqueen601]

Being CORRECT makes me happy. There is no other way to happiness.

[@andrearlorincz]

Thank you I really needed this today! This is unbelievable to the point especially today.

[@MrsCyImsofly]

😂😂 yeah, no.

[@sherimathison3236]

I love this! I’ve been diving deep on this subject for the last year and I love how beautifully you articulated this. I got an even deeper perspective from this video as well. Thank you! I just want you to know that you made a difference today. If I’m the only person, you still changed my life and helped me on my journey. So again, thank you so much!

[@ashleynavarro5612]

I love this so much, thank you for your inspiring words.

[@anuupadhyay8662]

There are times where you need the validation and for your story to be heard to move through pain and hurt…and there are times where you need direct and complete access to your own power to rewrite your story. This video is for the latter.

[@KomalJhaOnline]

I think being *rigid* is the root of not wanting to change ... Also, being right is the ONLY thing makes saturniuns happy.... Me, trying to text my Dad multiple times ... but he wont even wish me birthday... Projections - are whats hurting us back even after doing our shadow work.... my issues are coming from outside not from inside.... like men just wanna be friends but not commit ❤... Anyway.... I'm praying 🙏🏻 for God to give me hat i think i cant have 🙏🏻 I want God to prove me wrong !!!! 🙏🏻 I am willing to change .... I need some push .... i will do it

[@generationalmolehill7674]

excellent talk Cam! thank you for posting this

[@st.fiacre6685]

What the hell is this, watered down psychology 101 BS. Your job is to tell me the planetary alignments that are causing my failures, so i can have a valid excuse.

[@dianeaishamonday9125]

Lol what no The planets do not cause your problems, they give you opportunities and you work with them. After a certain age, your problems are your own fault.

[@earthlyblessings5562]

😢This is so true, I'm always blaming my chart 😅

[@TherealMonsterwood]

Another good one that seems right on time as usual! Thank you, Cam. I appreciate it all.

[@lindsaybaird509]

Emotions are also releasing chemicals which we become addicted to.

[@lindsaybaird509]

So good!!! I love how you just said it how it is! I think this is your best video yet!

[@amandabest7364]

How can you be happy when you aren't right? Lol

[@st.fiacre6685]

I don't think this tough love, pull yourself up by your bootstraps lecture is appropriate on the day mercury retrograde goes direct. Please use more discretion in the future.

[@dianeaishamonday9125]

Lol if your feelings got hurt, you're the type who needs the message the most. Listen again.

[@jasonxu8257]

Ironically, I almost always choose to be right.

[@kathrynkiffmann7833]

I needed this. I have really been wrong. This is awesome.

[@julierose4730]

I wanna watch this around kids please less cussing I agree w the message

[@Pjs-1]

Love you Cam. Thanks for this!