‘YOU CAN’T HEAL IN THE SAME PLACE YOU WERE HURT’ FOR THE CULTURE EP 44

[@ip5178]

Respect these man for leaving the roads and using their experiences to positively influencing the youth

[@Herbavelli101]

I P we need more of this these lot telling the truth that the road life is bullshit

[@olliew2932]

theyre however old brudda ofc they left the road olders will always fall off

[@Herbavelli101]

Ollie W yeah true but the point is stopping the youngers from getting into it in the first place

[@ip5178]

@@olliew2932 lol there are enough man in their 30s tryna flip packs still. Why do you say they've fallen off? - they are making decent legit money

[@olliew2932]

@@ip5178 fallen off in the sense they dead/in jail/ realised theres more to life than ends if ur still on road those ages life hasnt gone well for you no matter how much u try stunt

[@TheSincereb11]

lippy has got a lot better at his podcast game ,can hear the growth in his mindset .salute to the brother!!

[@samed4u2nv]

Healing for me is cycling - I've been cycling for over 4 years and it helps me in numerous ways

[@OptimisedHealth]

Physical exercise is essential for good mental health

[@n15ahmet]

@@OptimisedHealth which is why I'm fuming that these incompetent fools keep closing down gyms for this fake pandemic.

[@OptimisedHealth]

@@n15ahmet I’m with u on that but we got to improvise, there are plenty of alternatives

[@jadworld4125]

Cycling has helped me during lockdown

[@samed4u2nv]

@@jadworld4125 keep it going #StaySafe

[@Ky8dinero]

lippy is the hood whisperer fr

[@PJ-po7fu]

Facts 🤣

[@n15ahmet]

I have alot of respect for Lippy's honesty

[@jadworld4125]

I love this talk we need this. I’m not from the roads or nothing I grew up middle class , but I’m autistic so found it hard at school and university& I never achieved as much as I wanted especially to meet my parents expectations (strict Caribbean parents). I got into serious debt gambling and drugs at university and had severe depression jumping from unhealthy relationships and it’s taken until this year (I’m 29) to figure things out. Thank you lippy & tricky 🙏🏾

[@prez_chesspresso]

"you're gonna have to stand on that carpet" he's a poet

[@prez_chesspresso]

16:37 cover your soul 😂

[@PJ-po7fu]

Really appreciate the way lippy bears his soul & talks so openly about real road life. Tricky too, coz too much man act like it's all good in da hood. Nah it ain't. Big up FTC lads👌🏾these conversations are so necessary

[@Majestic1Love]

I So Agree!! 👊🏾

[@jahmersa9700]

It’s so magical!!! He’s the epitome a grown MAN it’s so refreshing

[@Drobinx]

can you two go into schools and start mentoring or speaking to these young boys that feel like they need to get involved wid the roads or males in general 20+! i’m rooting for you both, with this podcast and anything else you both put your mind to 🙌🏾🙌🏾

[@amackemspeaks2284]

if you're over 20 involved in road you're a soggy yout

[@stevenmctowelie681]

@@amackemspeaks2284 there is for sure more people over 20 on roads then younger then 20

[@barbz1234]

It’s not gonna work they won’t listen

[@LONDON80]

Let’s not forget weed. A lot of people deal with their issues by smoking weed which only suppresses how you feel and can actually make it worse in the long run.

[@Vat6ré]

I think that’s true but it’s more of a using anything as a substitute for dealing with your issues,some ppl use laughter to ignore their pain

[@rudyomisore1143]

This is the type of podcast that is needed. I love the fact that they are both so transparent and open up about their own lives and in the same breath attempt to inspire and give as much advice as they can on real topics/situations. - Like another lady said, these two should go to schools or be mentors to the young guys. - Excuse the essay, another great show!

[@scarzwr]

I fully agree

[@Majestic1Love]

Totally Agree!! 👊🏾

[@melissaemmanuel9264]

"You can't heal in the place you were broken" BIG FACTS

[@warreng5257]

There's so many podcasts out there with people who are themselves and talking about their life experiences. But this is the only one that talks to me and relates to me.

[@Thegreatdon2023]

I know some people might not be religious and might find it offensive, but this is from a very honest place. God helped me heal bro. I just came to a realisation that I’m actually limited as a human being, there’s much I can’t control, I make mistakes, and I will defo go through problems. But through everything, it’s just a deep calmness I got in my heart now that someone who is bigger than all problems, has got my back, loves me and actually listens to me anytime I need to speak.

[@n15ahmet]

I'm happy for you bro, seems like you have found some true peace. I have a similar story.

[@yorib5321]

This has to be the deepest conversation I ve seen on KZbin till date. I had to pause the videos a couple of times just to reflect. Respect. :)

[@PJ-po7fu]

Same

[@Majestic1Love]

For Real 👊🏾

[@jubeidu01]

Meditation , exercising and a creative outlet helped me get out of close to 10 years of depression. Reading The Power Of Now by Echkart Tolle was like someone dragging me out of a dark place, within a week I felt better than I ever felt in my adult life.

[@MrD-tu3hp]

Best thing to do to heal is being creative. That could be writing, designing, talking, physical labor something you can think of and make into reality

[@markawhite888]

Black man fi chat and let it out. Keeping it in that pent up madness hurts you. Respect for doing this. RAW for real.

[@jacobwalters5341]

A true

[@KRXOVRmedia]

I was introduced to y'all via the LinkUp content, but I'm grateful that I came across the channel (from NYC btw!). This is a VERY necessary conversation and only Black men can really have these convos. I sent this to every group chat with other guys that I'm in. To answer your question about what works, aside from just letting it out, working out and meditating helped A LOT during my lowest. This actually just put the battery in my back to get back into those routines, so thank you. Side note: as a graphic designer, just knowing y'all need a logo isn't gonna be enough for designers to make something meaningful for your show and your brand; it's going to require a bit more of a conversation and process. If I come across any resources to help, I will DM or Tweet it to y'all.

[@mraudiodrip]

This is the realist “for the culture” to date. I really like these two. You man make sure you keep at this pod cast ting. This episode was Like a counselling session for me #1 uk podcast

[@in-trestinnetwork]

This is a very important topic that black people should listen to as it addresses mental wellness.

[@TheAlkebulanTrust]

True or correct?...For The Culture Podcast definitely should be back on the regular uploads but no matter they give quality each time.

[@Marz2727]

True or correct, I like that

[@user-eg7ce5ps1g]

Why you always asking questions in the comments like this on bare videos 😂🤣

[@SS-lb6wf]

Learning something new like a language helps me, spacing away from friends everyone, appreciating your family and the little things in life, going for walks music, football, find a positive out of negative. Laughing is one of the best cure, surround your self with people that are genuine and make you laugh it’s such a good therapy.

[@Coruption12]

them lows is what will make you or break you, because once you bounce back everything is just a blessing

[@hugo8789]

We all gonna pull through my bro, appreciate the transparency. The realness here is healing. Much respect and love my bros!

[@sinarobyn5252]

Wow, I am so impressed by this topic. This is DEEP, so happy to see you guys cover this. Its up to us to end generational curses 🥂🙌

[@JS-ob2oz]

Big for this episode man, been tryna heal in the same place for about 5 years it’s like you go 10 step forwards then 10 steps back, all I can do is just grind till I have enough to leave for good

[@mrbunny519]

I love watching this podcast for the simple reason everything I'm going through something I can find a ep to watch and chill respect these guys I can't stress this enough

[@Majestic1Love]

I Thoroughly Enjoyed This Conversation!! It Was So Real. I Respected The Honesty & The Vulnerability Which Is So Rare To See From Young Black Men These Days Because Like You Said, They Have To Front It Out & Act Like All Is Well Even When They're Dying Inside! Men Like You Speaking Truth After Experience Is What Youth Need To Hear! Nuff Times They Don't Wanna Hear It From Parents Or Teachers Or Whatever Coz They Feel That They Don't Know About Their Struggle (Road Tingz) When You Said This Was "The Best Convo You Ever Had" I Felt That. As It Was Also Some Of The Best Reasoning I've Heard In A Long Time! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 There Is Something About The Way (Lippy & Also Castillo) Looks At Things From A Man's Woman's Even A Child's Point Of View, That I Find So Endearing! Keep Up The Good Work Kingz! 👑 🖤 👑 Blessed Love x

[@rftv4540]

One of the best episodes. Big factor in people’s depression is social media and how it portays perfection. So many people compare themselves and become depressed. People forget it’s a virtual world and anybody can be anyone on here. Really have to look deep into yourself to heal, hit the bottom then bounce back. That’s how you really heal. You then start to notice and appreciate the ones who are there for you and you start to appreciate them more. Looking forward to the next episode👍🏾

[@niazazad]

Major ratings for this episode, very refreshing hearing this perspective. Hearing the madness that you're healing from even outside the streets is mad real. Props to you both

[@gloriamurray742]

This is going to touch so many people! So many people are suffering and need people that look like them, and have had the same experiences as them to relate to! Salut man dem!

[@mokbusa5302]

What works -No wierd ting but honestly I’m Muslim and when I pray 5 times / day or just say words of praise I immediately physically feel weights coming of my mental and heart. In the Quran god says whoever turns away from my rememberance will live a depressed life and truly in the rememberance of god do hearts find rest ; I’m certain it’s the awnser from mans experience

[@noodlefringe]

The best thing that helped my process is looking in the mirror and fully accepting who you are.All of your mistakes all of your losses all of your flaws accept it.it is who you are and it makes you unique.you have to build from that but if your base level isn’t to love and accept yourself.you won’t and nobody in the world ever will.this is banging podcast. Love 💙

[@brvtherhoodsport]

This is so real. Ultimate respect for you man. Can see this helping a lot of man or at least being the spark 🙏🏾

[@deanlopongo4411]

I really related to this guys... please keep going... you've really helped me move on...

[@TheAwhi]

“A lot of people can’t deal with themselves “

[@faithfuljeremiah8717]

That's facts

[@kyngdavid9]

You can't skip the process. This was the realest episode. Thank you to you man. Real honest conversation. 💯💯

[@MrVocalmc]

I’m at this exact stage in my life now without this podcast I would of stayed obvious to it. For the culture is a mentor to me 👏🏽😅💪🏿

[@PJ-po7fu]

👌🏾They make this podcast for many people like you so it's great that you're tuning in & taking it in. Big up yourself👍🏾

[@AnthonyaNtMusic]

This was Levels...man’s not from the roads whatsoever but we all need to heal from traumas we’ve experienced. Takes a big man to be vulnerable and real, big up you lot for real👊🏾

[@trapnblues6728]

I really felt this episode man. Im literally smoking my spliff watching this and had to put the spliff down and comment because its too real. I'm sat here blowing my problems to the back of my mind every couple hours.

[@khalidkarimullah2703]

Really important discussion and message guys. If more conversations like this happened the world would be a better place. The honesty was great 👊🏽

[@shaymanc7443]

“It starts when you stop” I felt that! Realist duo!

[@novesnovadose2120]

Writing memoirs on certain events, or articles/essays relating my feelings and understanding helps me to heal definitely. Man has to block out the white noise to be able to hear myself... All I'm seeing is growth from you man. Transparency on levels... Honesty is key. Especially self honesty. 💗

[@AdrianLaville]

Powerful podcast episode. When do you get two man from the roads opening up mentally and emotionally about things which are relatable to everyone of us as men who grew up on the roads within the 90’s/2000’s era. Salute to the both of you. The title of this podcast is seriously a powerful analogy.

[@saifalayan4934]

Realest podcast I’ve watched 10/10 👌🏻everyone needs to watch this, keep spreading the wisdom 🙌🏻

[@90sBabyShow]

Serious episode 🙌🏿🙌🏿

[@sangha5557]

Big Up to both of you man... today i really needed this episode. For me, making music is one of the ways I release my emotions. Any creative outlet is good for that, and I think creative outlets should be taught it school. Some other things I do is meditate and yoga. It’s important to do things that make you face your issues and not mask it... and for me weed and booze just mask my issues. For the last month I’ve stopped all intoxicants and i’m really noticing how much i used those things as a crutch for my depression. Just wanted to thank you for this episode... Respect from Vancouver, Canada 🙏🏾👊🏾

[@RichieHardcore]

This is such an important conversation for all the boys and men out there to listen to, thank you!

[@destinydivine6676]

awww Tricky I can relate to you sooo much. So much of what you said resonates. My son & daughter help me through the healing process without them even knowing. They are 17 now & if it wasn't for them I don't think I could have made it here to 36. Being a single mum I never had time to heal from childhood experiences, relationships etc etc but since 2019 I've been on a self healing journey because despite my pain I know I am a Spiritual Warrior! When Boris said "Lockdown" I was elated because I knew it was my time to heal through the power of The Most High & I couldn't do that with the world around me so loud in my head, so I completely understand how you felt. It's so true, other people couldn't handle being on their own, in their own space, being alone because they was afraid of their own mind but I believe that so many people who understand the Power of the Most high overstood what quiet time (Lockdown) meant for them & used it to their advantage like we did. I'm not religious but I do believe in The Most High, so this is not about me following a religion, it's just about me sharing my own experience & knowing that I'm a spiritual Being in the midst of my darkest hours. Blessings to you both. People if you need somewhere to turn too when you need someone to just listen to you, if things get too much then you can contact Samaritans on: 02083686789 Please don't feel less of a man or a woman asking for help because there are people out there who care. I'm not a qualified counsellor but currently studying, so if you want someone to just listen to you, you can always send me your email on here & I'll try & do my best to assist you or give you advice where appropriate. Onelove

[@rogertrill6953]

Rah can’t imagine raising a yute only to be told it’s not mine

[@t1gaming294]

Happened to me g. It’s deep still but you eventually heal from it

[@richtexas4431]

Lippy a real G for putting that out there

[@rogertrill6953]

@@t1gaming294 fuxk that’s fuckries I guess da earlier ur told the better

[@t1gaming294]

@Laura Nwogu 💯💙

[@t1gaming294]

@@rogertrill6953 yeah I agree 💯

[@Izzy-fu9kq]

Proper respect for these guys, real talks

[@call_me_rebecca4136]

This pod was cathartic, very much needed

[@justinbecks9226]

Guys keep going this is so needed, keep pushing this talk was so needed seriously healing is essential big up!

[@jahunitmovement2011]

When your doing road showing vulnerability isn’t an option so even to learn how to heal becomes a harder task than manoeuvring around opps.. generally speaking women heal by going through their emotions, men either ignore the issue or wild out.. as an example females get taught from young to embrace their emotions, men from young are told don’t cry your a big boy.. knowing how to heal effectively is emotional maturity..

[@MrSCHNACK]

The way you two spoke this ep was a blessing God bless you both🙏🏾

[@its_nicha9656]

One of the best conversations I’ve seen much needed

[@KnowledgeExposed]

Another much needed very open conversation, especially in regards to man who have lived a certain lifestyle and are ignorant or dismissive of the past and their behaviour. Big up for the culture

[@Kwm-ur8qh]

Love this podcast man , love the way you guys break things down , im either cracking up laughing or it’s got me thinking deep lol I’ve been through my own mental health issues past couple years , lost my older brother couple years ago (he would of loved this podcast btw aswell , wish he got a chance to see it ) , only a year or so after it happened is when I started getting anxiety and depression symptoms, I knew there was a problem . Before that I guess I was just blocking stuff out , pushing it to the back of my mind like you guys said . I’m the kind of person I find it hard to share my problems , only my mrs and couple close friends know some of the issues I’ve had . Not told my brothers ,parents etc . Dont wanna worry any one with it and just feel uncomfortable speaking about it aswell . I find exercising, routine , avoiding alcohol and being the best dad to my children and try and be a good partner to my mrs helps me feel better about myself . Love the episode lads , keep up the good work .

[@veec4153]

Great conversation again fellas....so enjoyed. And the facing yourself during C-19 sooo accurate.

[@92agayle]

This was some grown man talk. Mad respect to both for keeping it real about shit we all go through coming from places like where we come from, but no one says anything 💯

[@blaqmara1662]

The honesty is so needed and beautiful! , thank you both

[@sebsmith8614]

This was special and amazing. Well done both of you for allowing yourself to be vulnerable. My healing was being comfortable with being by myself and also following my feelings and gut. Also doing things out of my normal and comfort zone 👊

[@AlecPowell93]

This podcast is bare therapeutic. Keep up the great work, you 2 are legends.

[@aishawf]

Powerful convo...I can totally relate...gotta go through the dark to get to the light... but most ain't ready...and you definitely cannot heal via da d/p.

[@lyira2520]

Exercise, conversations like this (talk therapy is real), and learnin to spend time alone and being comfortable wit ya thoughts

[@bellabeautsmusic]

Love this.💯👌🏾 Meditation works for me, lately I been listening to African classical music helps me to feel relaxed.

[@HIQ45]

How can u not love these guys, legends man

[@nutsocharmin2543]

Only TIME and acknowledging your faults and not living in denial will heal you. Exercise and music can help to an extent. All it takes is one sad depressing tune on the radio can trigger off memories. Also taking yourself out your environment and finding a new positive circle does help.

[@musicfootballfatherhood3956]

Love the honesty in the recent episodes. Bigup Tricky and Lippy everytime. For me, healing is exercise, rest, time to myself, working towards my goals and walking the dog lol.

[@lornakelly1509]

Best one yet! Real talk 🙌🏼

[@nicolewilliams3434]

Powerful ❤

[@Supermansour121]

Hands down, the best podcast of listened to.

[@BigRobz1]

I have to say hearing what other men you can relate with go through is self healing coz it makes you realise that you are not the only one and many ppl go through this daily and it does not make you less of a man for feeling weak or vulnerable it makes you human and once your 💯 to yourself that is the main thing. This podcast is the realist and you both always keep it 💯 and I respect what you both do.

[@martinboodukofi3]

The thing that helped me the most, and still helps more than any activity I tried was talking to somebody. The issue was finding somebody to listen

[@berryhigh1432]

To be honest I haven't even began to start my healing process 25 years plus of emotional baggage and damage I don't even know where to start but I know I need to start some where

[@ketty4534]

This was/ is amazing!! You two are a blessing❤️. For me Bible study and prayer lifts me 😁 and a bit of male attention ☺️

[@georgegraham1861]

😂😂😂😂😂😂 bible study & male attention, i rate it

[@PJ-po7fu]

I hear dat 🤣

[@briankapz4889]

Very honest and open conversation. Thank you both.

[@Ola-sp4tn]

10 mins in and theyre already dropping the reals

[@9etherking707]

These man put sense all over this discussion and went one deeper ad expressed their experiences of being in sad or vulnerable situations....Hats off to Lippy & Tricky FTC Podcast!

[@jamesjohnson1898]

I relate to this interview too much, every single word. This is the best "for the culture" ever hands down

[@mznembhard3951]

Nuff respect for this very important topic. This platform is well needed and appreciated.

[@codiee5351]

This is one of the most amazing episode real facts spoken 💯💯💯💯💯

[@raffprag2202]

💯 Lippy & Tricky are being over real 💯❤️

[@BeachChairz]

I love how both of these bruddas are growing with each episode. Keep doing this!

[@grilledupuk]

Couple of times in this video I clocked the things that go through my head and I suppress them are normal and these lot go through it as well ngl just that alone took a weight off me

[@PJ-po7fu]

🙏🏾

[@kisharnnaborland9727]

I wish I could double like this, il definitely be sharing this with a few of my people ❤️

[@my2cents831]

I can admit I smoke to put things to the back of my mind. I’m going to stop smoking from now 🙏🏾. I’ve been thinking about it for the a few weeks now but this talk made me realise I need to wake up and do it now. Thanks guys

[@JahnaviSian]

Respect these two for speaking on these issues 💪🏼

[@meanlens]

Very necessary & authentic

[@user-kh9nm2bx4x]

Best episode yet, very transparent and from the heart. These types of discussions are very relatable and I hope those who can relate.. take action. Well done guys xx

[@rksreal100]

This is what I'm talking about spot on content brothers big urself up

[@noshocktv8826]

This was an amazing topic and I can relate so much. I was avoiding issues with many of these thing and I'm still trying to find what allows me to heal fully. listening to this definitely make me feel better because I know I'm not alone thanks to you both. #REALMENTALK

[@hjassat97]

Lippy's transition is motivating man!!!

[@JayW16]

Great episode as usual! So happy you guys are back and love the transparency

[@MrSCHNACK]

Fam it’s all mad but man needed to see this video‼️ what helped me was gym, been through it similarly with using women as a way to escape. Being honest to myself is something I’m working on

[@IntuitiveReadingByPriscilla]

Solute Kings I’m proud of you ✨

[@n15ahmet]

Hold tight Lippy especially on this one, really mature outlook on this topic. Nuff respect my bro great points made.

[@JaySwarve]

This podcast has come back even better than it was before. Serious content my people, love from Derby. There’s a bag of us in the Midlands and we will all soon link.

[@doublej6327]

Very good show. Respect for this one!!

[@steadyprogressing2829]

I found spirituality & its helping because its teaching me about meditation & mindfulness, being able to stay still and understand my thoughts & emotions.

[@matthewhall8453]

Setting small realistic goals that I can work towards helps.... I ended up spending over a grand on therapy, it definitely changed my life.

[@lololondon9661]

As I said also before well done. You guys have come so far and have matured greatly interms of podcasting and topics. I have also commented before and was serious that these episode should find young people right now in schools etc. I've been watching you guys from early. I'm a 54 year old black woman who really wanted to know what is in the minds of young black men. What are young black men experiencing..and more importantly how are you all dealing with the roads. Thank you so much for your contribution. I'm really learning so much from you guys..I'm saddened and enjoying your real talk all at the same time. Keep going..its needed. 👏👏👏🤝🤝🤝