you can ≠ you should (internalized ableism) 🦖🦕🐄🐖🐑♾️✨
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@sunnfIower 2 ай бұрын
Totally thought the cow was on your nose ring and I was fully on board lol
@Aneva 2 ай бұрын
@@sunnfIower don’t give me ideas 💡 I will do it
@moisestolentino1895 Ай бұрын
I thought u we're making animal nose rings ( idea lol) @@Aneva
@RambleMaven 2 ай бұрын
The taking out the trash thing was a really good analogy!!! Thank you for that!
@Aneva 2 ай бұрын
@@RambleMaven thank you!!
@thedogthatcandraw 2 ай бұрын
I have SUCH a struggle with this. I look to other people for how I should be acting in a situation and it’s gotten so automatic that I inadvertently exhaust myself just by mimicking. Like, yes, I CAN go to that loud restaurant physically, but SHOULD I? Choosing your own needs over other people’s is so hard for me as an autistic person.
@Aneva 2 ай бұрын
It feels like the best thing to do at the time, and it’s the easiest in the beginning. Just takes so much recovery at the end. I definitely get it
@Catlily5 2 ай бұрын
Yeah, I can do certain things but I will pay for it later. And orher people don't always see the price I pay so they don't understand how much it took out of me.
@Aneva 2 ай бұрын
Relating it to prices/purchases is perfect!
@bushidomayfield5784 2 ай бұрын
That’s also why I am able to text people on social media and not be exhausted while I’m texting
@Aneva 2 ай бұрын
@@bushidomayfield5784 it’s the least tiring way for me !!
@michaelxz85 2 ай бұрын
I find being around groups of people is physically and emotionally draining for me
@Aneva 2 ай бұрын
@@michaelxz85 I am comfortable in 1 on 1 so much more than groups !
@Bea-rq1uf 2 ай бұрын
THIS THIS THIS !!!!
@Aneva 2 ай бұрын
Yes!!!