You didn't get a CJO? Congratulations!

[@pinkginaflightattendant5420]

You are right on with everything you said! 👍🏼👏🏻🙌🏼 I went to my f2f in middle of Feb. to Delta. I felt uncomfortable and I’m pretty sure it showed. I tried to smile and mingle and do everything to get the cjo. However I could tell I wasn’t “shining” like a few others... 5 to be exact. Those 5 got cjo. I knew the difference between their extroverted, outgoing personality and huge smiles compared to how I was. I used this knowledge/ experience for LAS hiring event at end of Feb. I turned on my fun smiley personality and (was one of the few to smile and have enthusiasm for fish bowl question) I talked with as many people as possible and continued and remained upbeat and smiled all day (but not over the top)! I got the cjo and it actually turns out this company (I got cjo with) is Way Better fit for me and my family!!! So it always works out!!! 😊✈️😊

[@flightattendantsteven]

PinkGina Flight Attendant that's so awesome! I'm so excited for you! Yes thank

[@leigh4326]

Hello lady and Mr Steven thank you for this video and your comment. It is such an inspiration and great reminder that all works out for our greater good. Stay blessed and congratulation :)

[@flywithshelby]

Something I learned was to TRUST MY GUT about each airline! Each has a different feel at their f2f. If there is any ounce in you that feels like it's not a good fit, don't be afraid to walk away!!!

[@pc9825]

I received my CJO this week! Thank you so much for your videos :) Best advice!

[@flightattendantsteven]

P C, AWESOME!!! Congratulations!

[@flightattendantsteven]

Somehow I'm not surprised to already get a thumbs down. I should have anticipated that...do me a favor and let me know why you'd give this a thumbs down. If it's something I could change, I'd love to know! If it's that you don't like what I've said...let me know!

[@rebeccasaylor1572]

Ignore them. This was the best f/a interview advice ever!

[@onyxhat]

Thank you for the uplifting video.i just had my face to face. And didn't get a job. I was definitely disappointed, but came away that I still work with the airline I was interviewing to be a FA foe, so still have flight benefits and knowing what I know now that i have 6 months to continue to wow my passengers and learn to interview better as well as gaining more experience.

[@ladysantora]

I don't know how I found you but I found your videos so interesting that I subscribed. I am not trying to get a flight attendant job because I already have a career, but I very much enjoy listening to your stories.

[@monicaray276]

Love this video Steven. I went to a JetBlue f2f , I didn’t get the job , however I made new friends and made a friend with one of the recruiters who is a great person. I think to myself I’m so glad I came and met nice people.

[@flightattendantsteven]

Monica Ray, you met great people and got super valuable experience! Keep going! :)

[@mariah_not_carey]

Thank you for this video!! I’m surprised it was suggested to me because I had my live interview today and feel the same way. I’m apart of a Facebook group for prospective flight attendants and everyone always talks about how much they enjoyed their LI and how personable their interviewer was and that it was like talking with a lifelong friend. I did not have that experience and fed off of that energy to the point that I let it get the best of me and I was not myself. I cried to myself afterwards and was so down about how I did that I couldn’t talk because I was extremely disappointed in myself. But like you said, chalk it up to experience and use this as a teaching moment for my next interview!! Keep doing what you’re doing Steven in inspiring people to keep going and look at things from a different perspective. Your videos have been a blessing.

[@audreynova1826]

I just want to say I’ve been watching your videos and I admire you and your dedication. I got my F2F today and I’m 98% sure I flopped. I’m so disappointed but your video helped me see that sometimes the one thing you want the most, is the best thing that never happened. It will take me a while to process the “why” I didn’t get a CJO, I thought I answered the questions to my best ability. It’s a legacy airline, there’s a lot of competition but at the end I know I’d risk my life for every passenger on the flight. I can be almost certain by the feedback I got that I’m not moving on to training. I’m 46 and have wanted to be a flight attendant since high school. Thank you for your videos, I’m crying as I watch this but not all my hope is lost thanks to you. Thank you, thank you!

[@I.Am.Wealthy]

Did you ever become a flight attendant four years after you posted this comment? Sorry if I come off as rude. Just curious that’s all.

[@dzlisag69]

No clue why you would get a thumbs down. I think you ROCK! In my youth being a flight attendant was my DREAM! Now at 59....my fantasy. LOL. But I have interviewed a lot of people and you taught me something here about how to interview as the person doing the interview. Your insights are awesome. Thanks!

[@serenafanlife4226]

Awwwww!!! You are soo sweet! 💕 People need to not give up. Determination pays off. When the timing is right, the right CJO will come along. ✈️

[@aliyahhh5239]

This is so encouraging I applied for a major airline, and everyone on videos and even at the interview saying BE YOURSELF! It really hurts that I was really myself my warm nice self, my outgoing loving self. Just to not get a CJO at the job event, but was told will receive an email 7-10 business days saying if I got the job or a TBNT… I really think if they couldn’t tell me and others if I got a job at the event like they did the rest of the class then I didn’t get it. So now it’s the waiting game to basically get denied… I feel very hurt and unsure. I put myself out there, and this is very crushing, because the interviews made me really feel like I got the job. I wish I never went to the interview this was another pain I didn’t need in my life, but now I know the process and have experience and get to save. I am currently a flight attendant I feel they are judging me for that.

[@flightattendantsteven]

I'm sorry that you feel it didn't go well. As you're already a flight attendant, you already know what they want to hear. Sometimes the people interviewing just don't see the treasure in front of them. Something that also comes to mind...many people apply for years, over and over. Before they get any offer, never mind at one particular mainline. I'd try to enjoy the FA job that you have and keep trying for others if you're not happy where you are.

[@aliyahhh5239]

@@flightattendantsteven Thank you so much! Means so much ❤️ Even though this is a fresh wound literally f2f happened last Wednesday. I cried let it all out. Now I think I’ll be ok. This situation has definitely opened my eyes to enjoy what I already have, I’ll move forward with my head high!

[@kellykelly6272]

“Congratulations! You didn’t get the job offer!” I am laughing so hard. What you said is so true, all of it! I have been networking while I am going through the process. It is so important to listen and observe. What has surprised me is reading postings about “sliding” through on clothing or hair or something that is just questionable. I am really watching to see if they pass. For example, if I had a tattoo that I even thought could be seen, I would be researching coverup and would never think of wearing a 3/4 sleeve shirt with a jacket. My mentor from years ago said, “You will fail.” Later they added, one needs to take an honest look and try to do better and go in and do it again.

[@jamboydc]

Great video Steven. I had two previous F2F before the Spirit F2F and I learned a valuable lesson from each one. Thanks for sharing this information because it will help those who want a CJO.

[@flightattendantsteven]

I hope my videos...even this one...help folks. This video already has two thumbs down, and I expect more. LOL. Mostly because I'm saying some things that some folks don't want to hear.

[@ReadingisMagicTV]

Just interviewed with Southwest and didn´t get a CJO. Wah. Well, what did I learn? To remember to KISS. Keep It Simple, Sweetie! Answer the question and stop talking. Don´t ramble on.

[@mrtodd3620]

I can tell you that the one application process that I got the farthest on many years ago didn't go well because I wasn't prepared with knowledge on the airline, and I wasn't totally honest on the application, and it pains me to this day to remember it. For a long time after the interview, as I would drive to my job, I had to pass a huge billboard for that airline and it would fill me with sadness. I am thankful that I have greater wisdom about those things now and would do things differently if I had the opportunity.

[@ifreakinlovepop]

Went to 2 interviews. First was a European airline (one of the few if not the only EU airline that hires in America). I really wanted to work for this airline so I prepped so hard & got in my head a bit. It was do or die. I came out of the interview feeling like I aced it because I rehearsed all my answers & I made the recruiters laugh here & there & made them see that I was outgoing & had a sense of humor. Got rejected. Second was a mainline. Still sad about my rejection so I went in not really caring that much. Just went in & said fuck it, I’ll just do my best. I caught myself taking a longer time answering the questions during the interview (because I didn’t rehearse). And actually thought I did horrible because I felt like I wasn’t ready. Turns out I got the CJO. So weird. The recruiter even told me in the end that if I didn’t get the CJO that I could still apply for other positions. I thought that was a red flag & most certainly believed I screwed up. Anyways, thanks for your help. Your videos are amazing & I think you’re really intelligent.

[@flightattendantsteven]

Congratulations! Imbalwaysba fan of just being myself at interviews. Any time I try to be the person I think they want me to be...I'm wrong. Why I'm myself, they like me. LOL!

[@genten777]

According to the Buddhist philosophy not getting what one wants can be viewed as a blessing as well. There are several other airlines that this young man hopefully pursues (after he has saved up enough dough) Getting hired as a flight attendant even by second or third rate airlines is very tough because MANY people want this job and most believe they have the skills and education for the position....BUT the hiring process is VERY subjective and your acceptance is solely dependent on your interviewer. If he/she is not attracted to you in any way ie doesn't like your nose or your accent or what ever, you are out of luck unless you have connections within the airline you are applying for.

[@ferretrunner09]

Another idea is to join Toastmasters. It’s a great way to build confidence in public speaking and how to present yourself.

[@danielthompson3168]

I remember watching this vlog. It was really good.

[@hipretty]

Even on the flight coming home from my CJO there was turbulence and "Uh!!!" flew out of my mouth! 😆 So even though I am flying all my life, and not really afraid, I am still reactive...so that is something I need to work on! On another note I filled out an application to a legacy airline I dreamed of my whole life...I got called within days to do a video interview.Then I was contacted re: a phone interview as well, which I did. I did not get the CJO. 😢 They did not say reapply in 6 mos. which many airlines do when you have no experience... but they did encourage me to apply for other jobs that appeal to me (Not clear what this means. Within their company? With other companies? I don't know) The letter is vague, but my hubby thought it seemed like a form letter. I wrote the recruiter asking for feedback, got no response. Resent...nothing. Although I did not get the CJO 😢 I got that far in the process...with No FA experience and no interviewing experience, as I was a stay at home home in recent years! I got CJO's with other companies I applied to, and was able to choose. But I do have mixed emotions when it comes to that airline...because I still do not know why or why not 😩 Thanks for this video Steven!

[@flightattendantsteven]

hipretty what a great story! Thanks for sharing! I know that other folks will really be inspired by what you shared.

[@hipretty]

Thank you! Still waiting for a training date! Thinking maybe April! 🤗

[@stalstonestacy4316]

I'm waiting to hear back from my interview with my first choice airline. Some people have already heard back (at least one). I'm so nervous but trying to have faith that if this is the airline for me then my efforts will be blessed. The interview process made me fall in love even harder with this airline. But I think I may have not answered one particular question in the best way. I'm honest and I'm not great at playing mind games, I feel it's best to be your authentic self and temper honesty with kindness. I catch myself holding my breath daily. The weekend was unbearable. Hopefully I'll hear soon

[@wacytay]

LOL, the vaseline on the teeth comment! I wonder how many people will get that? Sooooo Important! I remember forgetting once and my lips kept getting stuck at the top of my teeth. OMG, it's so bad! Thanks for the reminder. (Yes I got a lot more out of this video but that just stuck out to me.) haha

[@flightattendantsteven]

Tracy any pagent girl will know. LOL

[@ginarobalino9759]

Omg Steve you are definitely my youtube bff!! You have the greatest words of wisdom for a flight attendant potentially soon to be. Thank you so much for your info!

[@flightattendantsteven]

Gina Robalino thanks! Keep going! Grab those wings!

[@topherjoe1]

lol, this made me think about 2 interviews and the surrounding circumstances...Im 64 now but back then was in my middle 20's and was working for a Seattle travel agent. My sales rep for Braniff said I should apply for flight attendant. I applied and was offered an interview in Dallas. End result, no sleep on the flight, walked a block to the hotel in 95 degree weather in a WOOL tweed suit. Had a sit for 3 hours and sloshed out of my interview, one that I cant even remember. Experience 2. United. Local interview. Decided to streak my hair the night before had a little too much wine, my hair turned orange. Dyed it successfully to a beautiful color but was done with that at 300am. Interview at 8:00am. So tired I lost my footing going up the stairs of the hotel and broke my heel (2 1/2 inches of heel dragging behind me). That was all I could think of. Don't remember the interview. I successfully interviewed with Western Airlines a year later for Reservation sales, was dressed in business attire but comfortable for the 80 degree weather and wore flats lol. Braniff closed their doors and United sent people to Chicago (no one who got the job was based in Seattle, a deal breaker for me)so it all worked out well. I stayed with Western/Delta for almost 15 years until the Seattle base for Reservation sales closed and I chose to leave and start my family. I had worked 4 different positions and relocated and returned from SFO in the 1st 5 years with them due to seniority. I ended my career with DL in a supervisor position. The extensive experiences on that job helped me land my 2nd career dream job at 59 as a court clerk, a job I still hold. I will always be grateful I never got those jobs as the universe helped guide me to exactly where I needed to be!

[@flightattendantsteven]

WOW! What a story! Awesome!

[@christinadye2630]

This is great advice!!! Thank you for making this video. I did not get a CJO last month but I met so many amazing people most of who also did not get a job offer (out of 60 people 10 got CJOs) I learned just how little time you actually have to make an impression on the recruitment team in your 1 on 1 interview and in the group interview. But what I did come away with was knowing what to expect next time I go to a F2F, and I don't think any other interview experience will be as intense as going to F2F.

[@flightattendantsteven]

Christina Dye yep! You might have as much as twenty minutes or as little as 45 seconds to make a first impression!

[@PoojaManeofficial]

Thank you Steve for all your information... I got m cjo yesterday ❤️

[@SuperGman314]

Great points to remember - awesome video again! You and Stella are my two faves. Keep up the good work! Fly safe !

[@flightattendantsteven]

SuperGman314, that you even mentioned me in the same sentence as Stella! Wow! Thanks!

[@SuperGman314]

Steven Pereira - yeah you and Stella are awesome! She just says “ you guyyyyys!!” more - ha!

[@flyguy212]

The one thing people notice immediately about the flight attendants when they board the plane is....... you guessed it were they smiling and come across as friendly. That being said don’t give that fake pageant smile. Remember this is the first impression your guests have of you and it’s important that the first interaction with someone you are trapped in a metal tube with views you in a positive light. If something goes wrong these are the people you might just be depending on to help you off that airplane, or the people you know you can call upon to assist you.

[@flightattendant82]

Congratulations on becoming part of the F/A recruitment team!

[@flightattendantsteven]

Thomas Stewart thanks! I love it! One day I'd hope to possibly do more.

[@christophertherealone.7938]

How can somebody just look at you and Decide they don’t like you that’s so unfair what a corrupt world we live in

[@christophertherealone.7938]

I hope I can bring my luggage to the spirit hotel interview.

[@user-qc8co5lj9l]

Going on a interview next week practice what a face to face is like the best time to search for a job is when you have a job…

[@kyleinflight]

Thank you for the advice Steven! Through getting a TBNT at an interview I have learned that I have what it takes to get the CJO even if now is not the right time. I have learned this by going to five F2F interviews and making it to the last interview at four of them, I had what they were looking for I just have to work on perfecting my appearance. I met a ton of great people at these events and learned a lot from them, I got to step outside my comfort zone and talk with recruiters about moments in my past careers that led me to this interview. After I had started perfecting my appearance recently I have received two F2F invites for open applications I had that I had to turn down until I am ready giving me even more positivity!

[@flightattendantsteven]

What a great story! Keep going!

[@chantaledumas7948]

I'm getting my medical check as well as my background check, I need advise on how to get over testing anxiety and also airplane drills my anxiety goes up really high

[@flightattendantsteven]

Testing anxiety...oh, boy, that's something I suffer from. I just study as much as I can so I can walk in as prepared as possible. The drills are stressful, but I just remind myself of how many songs I know the words to... thousands! So why I let these twenty words make me worry is beyond me. LOL!

[@CC-ub5uo]

Unfortunately I didn't get past the assessment! Any tips for that? Thank you!!

[@flightattendantsteven]

The only suggestion I could imagine is to answer the questions with each answer focusing on safety and service.

[@CC-ub5uo]

Thanks! Love your videos btw! :-)

[@sophieacapella]

Wow I love your attitude about facing your fears and going on roller-coasters👌😎

[@goldengirl208]

Hello Steven! I love your vids and you!! I recently didnt pass my VI but I'm using this time to sharpen areas that need attention. By the way, this video brightened my day!! Keep it up!😊💛🌞

[@flightattendantsteven]

Keep that great attitude! Each attempt is a step towards your wings!

[@adrianrodriguez-yx9uo]

Could you let me know what interview is called VI?I passed the video interview and I am waiting to do a live video interview

[@LightTraveler]

I agree with just about everything you said, but disagree about not role-playing. I got a CJO from your airline with help from role-playing. When I didn’t make it through training, it was disappointing, but then I tried again and didn’t make it because of lack of role-playing. This video was great, though, thank you, I appreciate the tips. 😉

[@flightattendantsteven]

LightTraveler I do like the idea of role-playing, but I don't think doing it with family or friends is as helpful as a stranger...one reason I like actually going on real life job interviews to practice. The real life anxiety is a great teacher.

[@tristaleigh367]

Ugh, I dread interviews and talking about myself! Petrifying.

[@flightattendantsteven]

Practice! Besides, there is sometimes very little to talk about on those jumpseats on cross country redeye flights!

[@jeembaymusic5271]

I was a bit shocked that this girl who wasn’t social and wearing black lipstick got a CJO but I didn’t? I was so social, professional, sharp dressed, and made it to the second round, but didn’t get drug tested! I was so shocked 😩

[@flightattendantsteven]

I honestly dont know how some folks get through. I've flown with people who clearly didn't love the job and always wonder what act they put on to get the offer. On the flip side, I've worked with folks I thought were boring and ended up being awesome. Keep trying for your wings. The right people will see you soon.

[@MaxGolden]

No CJO... Thanks for the pep talk! Your the best!!

[@daughterofisrael86]

I think you give really great advice. I know this because I received a CJO with the company you work for. Throughout training I was a nervous wreck. The day of the final and the day before graduation my anxiety got the best of me. I failed the test by two points. I would like you to make a video for people like myself. A person that went through the process but didn't execute. I was told to reapply, but I question if the company would spend money on me again. I would like your advice. Please and thank you Steven.

[@flightattendantsteven]

Nadja, definitely reapply!!! I can promise you that some of the best test takers are not fantastic flight attendants, and folks who struggle with tests are sometimes the best flight attendants! If you had what it took to get there the first time, I'm sure you can make it the next time. I look forward to seeing you on the line.

[@daughterofisrael86]

@@flightattendantsteven it means so much to me that you took the time to read my comment and responded back to me. Please continue this path because you are truly a blessing and delightful to watch. See you in the line Rockstar!!!!

[@adrianrodriguez-yx9uo]

@@daughterofisrael86 if you got the cjo you were and are done.Things happen and that menas that you have what the airline was looking for.You just failed the test because anxiety or maybe you were so nervous

[@DailyDriver.]

amazing advice !

[@BrendaReyes-kt3ht]

Hey Steven I have a question. I did my F2F but i did not get a one on one have you heard of people getting CJO if they didn't get a one on one?

[@flightattendantsteven]

These days, all sorts of things are happening. I'm sorry that I don't have much insight into the actual interview/CJO process right now.

[@serenafanlife4226]

Great Video! 👏👍👏

[@flightattendantsteven]

Nurse Calls thanks!

[@AlexRocks85]

+1 subscriber :))))) u're awesome!!!

[@gil3289]

Ive received the email today at noon saying I didn't get the CJO. The interviewers seemed to like me and gave me the impression I got the job!... Im confused but mostly: D E V A S T A T E D ! ! !

[@flightattendantsteven]

I'm so sorry. I know it really sucks, especially when you know you did well. When I'm at a hiring event I make very sure to be totally neutral with a candidate unless I know for a fact that they're going to get a CJO. The silver lining to this TNBT is that you are that much more prepared for your next interview. Last week I worked with a wonderful young man who didn't get a CJO with my company the first time. He came back and got his offer...good thing too. He's an amazing flight attendant. You'll get there. I know you will.

[@lovelove4086]

Steven I would love to work with you 😅

[@AB-hx9hs]

Go fish bowl ?????

[@flightattendantsteven]

Sadly, they no longer do the fishbowl question at my airline. I thought it was a good part of the interview process.