You Have What They Need

As I have journeyed through my time of standing for marriage restoration I have learned so much! My heart's desire is to share those lessons the Lord has taught me with you. My hope is that you will feel encouraged and grow in your faith as you continue your stand and know that you are not alone. God's ways are always the best ways and may His perfect will be your portion.
Blessings!
Jamie

[@lucindacoca6615]

Love your teachings. You have such a Soothing/calm tone - reminds me of audible app readings

[@alivingstone4Him]

Agree! She is such a blessing.

[@roadtorestoration5371]

Thank you 😊

[@CharlesSc0tt92]

May God bless you tremendously in response to your prayers and desires as well as in amazing, unexpected ways as well. Thank you for your commitment to offering these encouraging and inspiring words.

[@alivingstone4Him]

Amen!

[@roadtorestoration5371]

Thank you 😊

[@CharlesSc0tt92]

@@roadtorestoration5371 you are very welcome; very sincerely appreciate what you are doing as you go through the same journey that we do

[@thejroostheory7831]

Powerful message!

[@tochioriuwa]

Thanks for the message and prayers. Remain blessed.

[@christinasmith3165]

Thank you for clarifying this message it has helped me understand my stand for my husband. 🙏

[@debra9700]

I stand for my covenant ( 1st marriage for both of us ) husband.. after decades of marriage he left and married his affair partner. He’s been gone for many years and is married to her .. I pray for his soul , I remain faithful to our vows even though he divorced me .. very few true covenant marriages are restored . No matter how much you pray , no matter what you do , they simply want the person they left you for and married .. you have to accept that they choose to not return to their covenant spouse .

[@antoinettebranellec5374]

What the Sovereign Lord has joined together can not be rendered asunder. I have been waiting over 22 years, but I desperately believe, more to day than ever, for restoration. The children are grown and successful. He remarried also but had no other children. Thank God. kzbin.info/www/bejne/eZDJiHubntWFZq8si=8uNPJEDUQJy6Qb2F

[@oyato1]

If two agree on anything on this world it will be granted unto them. If one wants a reconciliation n the other doesn’t most Def It wud never come bck together cos God doesn’t force anyone he gives all freewill . Now if the ex agrees with another woman or man in marriage it wud be granted in heaven bcos of the agreement. God myt not like it but he wud allow it since it’s ur choice . Watever comes out if it is ur consequences to bear from obedience or disobedience . If the marriage struggles n they pray God will help but if they dint it will surely fall apart. So my dear it’s best to move on. Once the divorce has been finalized n u stood well. Begin to stand for urself n remarriage dont hang around waiting on them. You as well have needs for a husband or wife esp with kids. If the disobedience spouse remarried there is no more sanctification except of him n his new wife sanctify themselves. Even the Bible says if he writes u a certificate of divorce she is free to go n remarry . Pls consider that .. he will never come bck n it can’t be restored without an agreement just forgive and ask God for a better spouse that won’t let u down as the first n also to prepare u for remarriage clear ur mind heal lose weight n have the good heart for marriage n not repeat the things u were guilty of that destroyed the other marriage.

[@AngelinaParker1]

​@@oyato1I somewhat agree. All the consecration to God and pouring out yourself entirely emptying to the point of agonizing pain in love for the persons soul instead of the want for the person and pouring out so much during the separation ..so much that I r past worldly sorrow and sadness but weep because you were chosen to suffer in this for yourself and them. If God shows a person many confirmations that they are to be restored they will be. Period. If a person wants it so badly and the other person doesn't. Want.is the problem. The alignment your talking about like taking care of yourself etc...should already have been part of the Esther preparation process of God promised her restoration. Refining cleansing travailing praying with a heart that causes you to be dead to self and cry out of pure joy that once again u were chosen for the suffering which Christ shared in. This restoration is much deeper than anyone could understand UNLESS it is your Holy Spirit given assignment.if it is. It will not fail. Gomer did NOT want Hosea. She chose prostitution over and over and over. But God said I WILL LEAD HER WITH CORDS OF LOVING KINDNESS. And HEDGE UP HER WAY. Lead Hedge These are important keywords. It is God who puts the desire in us to serve Him want Him desire Him crave Him. It to me...does sound like her marriage wasn't promised.idk for sure but that's where I said I agree with half of what ur saying. The process is.... A worship unto God This waiting standing believing hoping goes beyond a restored marriage and the longing for Him. It can only be found in Christ...the love we crave attention peace ..feeling wanted desired and needing someone to want to change for....can only be met in Christ WHILE in the preparing process. It's a preparation of us being the Bride of Christ which mirrors the husband and wife restoration process. Obedience is crucial Community to hold you accounts crucial. Holy Spirit led decreeing declaring warring against strongholds and demons that have held you captive as well as him or her ..and ur kids....intercession peaceful soaking time with God..testing in God. There's so much to this. Fasting Getting rid of old ways movies appetites sins secret sins fears and codependency... That God wants from us first. Idk Ive been in this awhile and I'm still being cleansed. I'm still a broken child laying at the feet of my Father while I not ..just wait....but seek Him for the complete restoration in me before any of the re-entering of my husband even begins. My children's healing has just started. So yeh. Idk I hope this helps someone. Truly. I'm imperfect I'm fearful at times But I've come a long ways BY HIS BEAUTIFUL SWEET SWEET GRACE. I use to fear sooooo much Then some of them came true and he brought me through and is bringing me through still. Jesus bless you If God is telling you to let go and He wasn't the One no matter how bad you want it. The key word is...if your still wanting it. Then.....your want hasn't been filled from the Father. Idk I may be wrong. Talk to someone who has experience with all of this.its helped me through the years

[@oyato1]

@@AngelinaParker1 maybe true but God doesn’t move except it’s in his word. He says if two agree on anything it shall be granted. Hood or evil with consequences of course. All u can do is to pray for the heart of ur spouse to come out of deceit and agree or want a reconciliation . God can work on his heart . But if he opposes n refuses God then u gotta keep waiting n praying n years go by n he might never accept or obey God so God puts it on ur heart wen it’s time to move on . By then u won’t even have a want for the reconciliation anymore as u now leak soley on God n his direction n he’d bring someone greater than the stubborn prodigal ex spouse n ull build a better Godly marriage with the new one bcos u have surrendered ur hrt to God n he’s prepared u for a new marriage n u have wisdom from the previous . God won’t force anyone bcos of power of free will. Instead he cont to stand at the gate waiting for ur spouse to open his heart so he can move . Odds are ur getting older n need to remarry can’t be waiting for a stubborn spouse after waiting several years you dunno wen he’d come to Christ. U wud move on n remarry n when he finds Christ God will find him a better spouse in restoration same as you. He knew it wud happen it won’t come bck so he has greater bck up or restorations for the returns of prodigals that desolated their marriage due to their disobedience n prideful heart. Thus the true prodigal son story in the Bible . And if u cont to wait years for this one stubborn spouse he has bcom b idol in ur heart n God wants u to let go don’t control anything submit it to God n move on with ur life. He has the perfect plan for everyone n correction antidotes for the errors we make with our lives n gifts due to sin n disobedience

[@roadtorestoration5371]

It can get confusing when it takes so long. God never gives us a time line which is part of the challenge.

[@alivingstone4Him]

Thank-you dearest Jamie for this wonderful word. 1 Thessalonians 5:23-24, John 17:17 Yes LORD!

[@alivingstone4Him]

Do you have a Facebook group Jamie? Would love to join if so.

[@faithreid5959]

Thank U 🙏 so our sanctification automatically pull our spouse in . So we have to give our life fully to God

[@roadtorestoration5371]

@@faithreid5959 Yes!!

[@moniquea.wilson3291]

I so needed this!! It was confirmation.

[@andrestang6023]

I greatly need prayer that my wife whom I’ve been separated from for 3 years seek God’s grace and guidance once more!! She’s been in a relationship with another man for a year for reasons of the flesh!! I pray for restoration of our marriage the enemy only wants to kill and destroy our sacred covenant of marriage we have with God! Now she’s engaged while still married!!

[@roadtorestoration5371]

God can’t bless sin. Keep praying and believing!

[@AngelinaParker1]

I was wondering how that could even work...being engaged while married? I have one word....good God Almighty.....I believe he wants me to tell u this. It helped set me free from many of the trucks of the enemy. And I still have to remind myself daily of this bc I just got this spoken to me about a month ago pertaining to images in my head and fear of my husband and the other person. You ready? . . . ."It is a MIRAGE" Selah It'll help ya. It helped me. God bless you.pray for me and I'll pray for you.

[@andrestang6023]

@@AngelinaParker1 I will pray for you and all those who are standing and those who haven’t sought the Lord’s guidance and mercy!!

[@andrestang6023]

@@AngelinaParker1 I’ve been praying incessantly for the enemy spirits to leave my wife and I!! So that she can be brought back to the foot of the Cross!!

[@micheleb4095]

GOD BLESS AND AMEN 🙏

[@sailor5805]

I needed to hear this video. I couldn't sleep last night just wondering why am I suffering to stand in gap for my wife who is out there doing whatever she wanted to do. Yes, it is hard to go thru it and my thoughts are leaning toward just moving on.

[@CharlesSc0tt92]

Stay strong, trust in the Lord and wait on His timing. God is sovereign but we must be faithful

[@roadtorestoration5371]

Yes it’s hard!! But when you give God a yes he will strengthen you. I suggest looking into Gerald Benton’s ministry for men. PPK global. Google it…You will find support there.

[@sailor5805]

@@roadtorestoration5371 Thanks. I will definitely look into it.

[@sailor5805]

@@CharlesSc0tt92 Thanks for the kind words.

[@CharlesSc0tt92]

@@sailor5805 You are welcome. We all have moments of doubt and pain, I myself have this evening. However, it is in those moments that we need to turn our focus to God, who He is, knowing that He is sovereign, He loves us , and ultimately His purpose for each of us will be accomplished. May you be blessed tonight by the Holy Spirit bringing forth the peace and comfort of Jesus Christ within you.

[@annielumpkins7840]

Please pray for my marriage

[@roadtorestoration5371]

🙏🏽🙏🏽

[@r.o.b.480]

I'd like to see somebody tackle the subject of God NOT restoring a marriage, and what that implies about His relationship with a believer.

[@roadtorestoration5371]

That is a good question. I think all too often the marriage doesn’t get restored because of our own lack of using our authority, lack of belief, or quitting too early 🤷‍♀️. What do you think?

[@oyato1]

Don’t let this lady cont to deceive the masses . She’s is delusional . Marriages don’t get restored due to lack of agreement. 2 cannot be except there is an agreement unfortunately . Ask her how long she has been standing did her husband ever return.? If he dint why? Is her ex remarried n she is still standing ? Y is that pls? If u need more scriptures TRUTH I will show it to you. She lying with all these standing things . Move on and Go n remarry this is the truthful will of God for divorced n widows

[@debra9700]

@@roadtorestoration5371God is not to be used as a genie in a bottle .. there are so many truly covenant spouses standing for their wayward spouses salvation.. many die in their sin of adulterous marriage

[@DivineBloodWins]

Lord revealed this principle as: ONE-FLESH SPOUSAL SANCTIFICATION 😂😮😅

[@Salomesaville]

Financially it's difficult. God help me

[@roadtorestoration5371]

@@Salomesaville God will always proved your needs. Find a scripture that promises he will take care of you and use that scripture /promise to stand on. Let it be your truth that you claim.

[@Salomesaville]

I'm saying Phillipians 4,19

[@akosfellner5061]

But Paul does not recomend to marry whit an unbeliever spouse. Paul said this to converted Jews.