You'll NEVER *OBSESS* with a Person After This Video [ Life Changing ]

[@Bhargavi_RauT97]

Brother, if I had found you a year ago, today I would never being a dropper..

[@Ishitakchoudhary]

Ab mujhe lg rha ki bhagwan ji sachmein chahte hain ki mai apni life ko shi direction mein leke aau. Tabhi mujhe is saal ki shuruaat se phle hi aapka channel mil gya. Thank you so much bade bhaiya ✨️

[@ShashankThisSide]

ty buddy

[@amogh930]

Us

[@ShreeKanhu-pl3sd]

Koi kisi se obsess nhi hota . Bas dimag vella hota hai 🥰👍🏻kaam dhandha kare sara obsession nikl jayega thodi si life bhi savar jayegi

[@ShashankThisSide]

i feel hota to hai !! or kam dhande me hi distract krta h !! its a real thing. but yea perceptions !!!

[@Drishtigarg1]

I was obsessed with someone who dont even know i exist i was spending my emotional energy so much on my delusional world but then i was like its over now. Its my life i should be the one in my life on padestal. I let myself feel the sadness the harsh truth to finally heal. I finally accept my past mistakes and promised myself i will work on my emotional intelligence i will be my own emotional support system. Cause my parents are toxic so.. am on the journey to finally heal and validate myself.

[@aleeshazehra8984]

What if someone is obsessed with the person in this video 🌚

[@Yubee-q7d]

Lol

[@diptimayeesingh7061]

😂

[@Its.her.content]

Baat to sahi hai 🤭

[@mishbahfatima2729]

So this video is specially for that someone

[@HS-df7ld]

dude thankyou for this chaged my life . todays actually my birthday and this is my best gift!

[@divyasaini4685]

Just a few minutes ago i was thinking about THAT person . And here I'm getting direction from god through Shashank bhaiya . Thank you so much And also pls make a video on book recommendations

[@ShashankThisSide]

glad it helped you 🤘. soon vid on books

[@sriparnasen2960]

Thank you bhaiya❤

[@StudG-f4q]

Bhai jab aap bole te ho toh lagta hai ki ye sab pata tha pahle se buss koi bol deta hai toh confirmation ho jati hai Bohot badiya video banate ho aap really helpful 🧿🧿

[@ShashankThisSide]

yep bro !!! heard it from close ones tooo

[@ASushii__11]

12:50...ankhon se dur dimag se dur .

[@ShashankThisSide]

frrrr

[@YouTubeSpark]

Thank-you bhaiya❤

[@ShashankThisSide]

welcome bhai

[@Baklollog-i5j]

Shashankk dadaa.....cannot thank you enough yarrrr!!! Seriously I'm dheere dheere improving in all terms of my life You are just so relatable and i actually understand what am i supposed to do in life!!❤

[@nerdyaviator.123]

I have begun to notice the change in me . Thank you for guiding me through your videos and yess they are the best ones . 2025 definitely had a plan for me !!

[@AkanshaSingh-ii7xr]

Thankyou, this changed my entire mindset. i am sure there is no looking back now. Upwards and onwards. Thankyou so much

[@ShashankThisSide]

welcome akansha

[@Adya-k2b]

Solid points, boss. Loved the video and working on this! Thanks.

[@vanshikanarain]

Fixing yourself is your job primarily!!! This line ❤

[@anjli9705]

14:54 Actually this is route cause ,recently I told one of my friend about this (VOID) ,because they told me about their situation and I told them that their is void in you u need to fill this ✨ 🌿thanks for mentioning this think in video ,I will send them this video 😊🤝🔅

[@Ashmitaspace12]

Grateful.. extremely grateful ❤

[@ShashankThisSide]

means a lot

[@shrutichaurasiya2067]

Thanks a lot and Grateful to your channel 😇

[@TwinkleShukla-s2s]

My takeaway from this video: 1.life is 'Judna and Judaa hona' 2.try to understand ki woh void kya hai jiske wajah se obsession hoti hai ..(it can be anything from childhood trauma to self critism etc..) 3.special banana hi hai toh unhe banao jo permanent hai i.e,god. Some add on from my side, Like zaroori nhi ki aap obsession pe work koi relationship khatm hone ke baad hi karen like I am going to be in a relationship and the other person also loves me but zyada obsess hoke mai future mai relation kharab kar sakti hun since it only gives anxiety toh isliye practice detachment,needy mat hoiye and ye obsession bas humare andar ka chhota sa voice hai toh be firm with it and try to explain this that it's not productive its just anxious rumination.. And ek aur important chizz kisi ko bhi the most important thing jis pe abhi dhyan dena chahiye bolne ki zarurat nhi instead work on this obsess hone wala habit warna I have been Through it ,pehle jo person the relationship mai woh imp lagte the and abhi jo hai woh lagenge😂..toh try laughing over it...

[@ShashankThisSide]

appreciate you taking notes + provinding your view.... appreciable !! girl

[@TwinkleShukla-s2s]

@ShashankThisSide thank you,☺️

[@tbbotgamer1916]

Thanks bhai this means a lot to me i will try to overcome it and change myself

[@ShashankThisSide]

you got this

[@yash_611]

Really life changing. Thank you bhaiya

[@Ashmitaspace12]

Thankyou so much buddy ❤

[@StudG-f4q]

Aap bhi yaha 😅 or mai bhi video kab ayegi bhai btw koi nhi focus karo apni study pe 🙂

[@ShashankThisSide]

welcomem

[@Rudra-il8ii]

Bhai awaz solid hai tumhara!!

[@vanipanwar2995]

Yesss sirr!🎀😂 consistency level 📈

[@ShashankThisSide]

aint stoppin bef we all best

[@AlinaHasan-sb5mm]

You really have a very good understanding of life .. 👍🏻 what's your age ?

[@ShashankThisSide]

24

[@Drishtigarg1]

For anyone who wants to develop self love from the very basic level to advance. Knowing the real meaning of it, healing,growing,creating boundaries and more. you can read the book 'BUY YOURSELF THE DAMN FLOWERS' BY TAM KAUR. ❤

[@mohanmeena5851]

Thank you yehi video chahiye the I am so dependent on my friend. Me sirf us se baat Krna chahata hun idk y . Wo meri bahut achi dost h

[@HustleWithPriya]

Tysm bro😩

[@snehamauar4344]

Thanku broo really needed this❤

[@anshumans.r.k8508]

LONG LIVE BRO

[@ShashankThisSide]

u too bro

[@-Borax]

You said in one of your videos that you prepared for JEE and even took drop. Can you please share your story and experience of that phase of your life? Because Recently You gained attention of so many JEE and NEET aspirants, Including me. I really wanna know your journey amd stuggles.

[@ShashankThisSide]

cool soon

[@KavyaSharma-t2b]

Kya mtlb I m obsessed with this man😂❤

[@vanshikanarain]

Wow, how factual mind❤😮

[@StudG-f4q]

4:45 💯 true

[@shrutiroy925]

But I'm obsessed with you 😅🤭😉😶‍🌫️

[@UjjwalRastogi-ej2rk]

What if someone is obsessed with me .....

[@ShashankThisSide]

send them this video ;)

[@UjjwalRastogi-ej2rk]

@ShashankThisSide Good Idea 💡🫡

[@anjli9705]

@@UjjwalRastogi-ej2rk Actually I send them 👍😊✨

[@UjjwalRastogi-ej2rk]

@anjli9705 👍🏻

[@Kanikasinghh-92]

❤

[@sradhanjalimajhi5510]

Very nice 👍.Bhaiya Mai compitative exams ki prep kar rahi hu.+3 final yr Hstl me rahti hu.but jab ghar jati hu to Ghar me thik se padhai nahi ho pati time waste hota hai.family me v bolte hai ki itne jyada time kya padh rahe ho.padhai ke bich me koi kaam ajata hai.plz bataye ghar me ache se padhi kaise kare

[@cyan3047]

If you have joint family or family of more than 6-7 members then sadly you just can't study at home. I'm preparing for NEET. And this is one thing I have come to conclusion after wasting 4 years in preparation ki ghar par padhai nhi ho sakti yaar no matter what. Too many distractions are there to deal with and waste our time. And this constant dilemma ki yaar agar koi kuch kaam bata raha hai toh wo karlu pehle phir padh lunga just breaks our flow. And it's even more difficult if your family is taunting you about studies. You should join a library whenever you go to home. Just do your breakfast, pack your lunch and leave your house as soon as possible. And return home after 8-10 hours of peaceful study. My sister used to do this. Hope it helps✌🏻

[@sradhanjalimajhi5510]

Mere family me 7 members hai.koi library v nahi hai us area me.but iska kuch to solution hoga🙂

[@cyan3047]

@@sradhanjalimajhi5510 see library agar door bhi ho toh go there it's the best way to study peacefully while at home. Second option is 3-3 hours ke 3 slots bana lo. And make sure ki in 3 hours me koi tumhe disturb na kare. Tell your family members ki koi kaam ho toh abhi bata do pdhte time disturb mat karna. Then choose a separate room and switch off your phone for 3 hours. Abhi winters hai toh roof pe padhna bhi easy hota hai dhoop mein 😁 you can go there as well just make sure koi disturb na kare.

[@cyan3047]

@@sradhanjalimajhi5510 see library agar door bhi ho tb bhi go there it's the best way to study peacefully while at home. Second option is make 3 slots of 3-3 hours. Tell your family members agar koi kaam ho toh abhi bata do padhte time disturb mat karna. Then choose a separate room and switch off your phone for 3 hours. Abhi winters hai toh roof pr padhna bhi easy hota hai dhoop mein😁 You can go there as well just make sure koi disturb na kare.

[@Trinity0209]

Shashiii❤.......in the near future buddy!!! You are going to write a wonderful book....!!!! ~meenu

[@ShashankThisSide]

i got plans... gotta be a game changer for sure

[@Trinity0209]

@ShashankThisSide Shashi ❤️...UPSC Prelims is on 25th May....my inner calling asking me to go in complete isolation....but some unknown fears or lack of courage stopping me doing sooo......I need a video related to this instance....

[@Ashmitaspace12]

I'm first❤

[@javabrain8480]

How can I personally contact you? I have no insta

[@ShashankThisSide]

soon via some way , even m less active on IG ! ! will do something !! for personal contact.. making sure... i provide value

[@javabrain8480]

@ShashankThisSide thanks for the response

[@PriyankaKushwah-x8o]

Bro love you from my side your videos are amazing and i love your videos and i want to overcome my lazyness and i am addicted to porn i want to change these things pls helpe out

[@ShashankThisSide]

made vids on lazyness.. kindly bingethrough channel you'll find !!

[@sid2k7]

🫡

[@shreyasingh3378]

I think aapki behen ka bhi bahoot yogdan h aapke thoughts to shape krne ka... Aasha h ki aap unhe bhi kabhi apni videos me laao ge

[@khushishrivas9779]

Bhaiya please check your dms

[@ShashankThisSide]

i am barely active on ig , jb b time constraints arn't there. i try to check...also comments are best way rn to contact.... soon gonna come up with one on one , kinda thing. just making sure,.. I bring more value to the table.

[@She.theNeetdropper]

Im amazed by your Maturity level. Idk how much you've gone through 🥲 but i hope you're in better situation now!