You'll Regret Letting Your Husband Have A Hall Pass

[@MsSHINeeTVXQSuju]

"then why are you married?" amen, steve.

[@AK33M]

For the financial benefits.

[@naria2224]

Best answer.

[@kbanghart]

Cuz people can be married and sleep with other people if they want.

[@nothumanff5900]

@@kbanghart no

[@Alex_Aramayo]

@@nothumanff5900 yes

[@MatthewCoast]

If you haven't talked about whether you're exclusive or not, just assume you're not.

[@shaylaterkalas768]

Exactly

[@Norfolk212]

The very idea makes me sick to the stomach. I will never share my husband and neither will he want to share me with another man. That is crazy!!

[@snlescaille]

Life is Short what does that have to do with the Bible?

[@blastinkaps8826]

Life is Short shut up

[@snlescaille]

Life is Short I know the Bible very well, I study it. All three of those are clearly condemned. Don’t twist around scripture as an excuse to hate it.

[@chrisgarzon7245]

How about for a million dollars?? #indecentproposal

[@kbanghart]

Sharing can be hot

[@kimwright6377]

Women we tell too much! A male friend of mine told me long ago to stop tellin other men what I’ve gone through in my past relationships.He said that it gives them too much info about you.Ladies! Learn to do more listening.

[@octaviaoctavia6445]

So am learning that right now

[@KizzMyAwezomenezz]

Learning this now

[@alfredpardoe3795]

Holy crap. I am about 14 months into a relationship and I know (as far as I am aware) everything about her past interactions including some details. I wanted to know at the time, but I regret it soooooo much.

[@ryanedgmon1497]

So essentially lie to your man to get the man you want? How is that ok? He has a right to know. A relationship, a serious one, means you share everything and trust them. If you cant do that, whats the point of a relationship?

[@martinigasolini4062]

Only reason he'd tell you that is if he knows you've banged tons of dudes.

[@GodsDe]

I establish from the get-go that swinging and cheating will not be tolerated in the relationship!

[@yahainHotPink]

1. No hall passes. 2. Tell the man the status of your relationship.

[@alipasha382]

Disagree with Steve on the last point. If you begin by lying about your past, that gives me sanction to lie about mine. I couldn't care less how many men a woman has been with. She is with me now. That is what matters. I wouldn't tolerate somebody lying to me and then telling me later that the number was different. Start honest, stay honest.

[@jaejae5782]

Ali Pasha that’s sweet. But u r in a small minority. Unfortunately most men care n we all have the experiences to prove it.

[@UrbanDecayLova247]

Men that care so much to ask about how many men you’ve been with are straight up naive..most PEOPLE are going to either lie or never answer the question. And tbh like Steve said it’s really no ones business, you clean? Alright..there are people who have STD’s that have only been with one or two people..I’m not advocating lying but it’s such an irrelevant thing to ask, asking about past serious relationships is fine but sexual partners - NONE OF ANYONES BUSINESS

[@lametriusbutler8559]

Ali Pasha I agree

[@AfriNaija12]

Agreed

[@creating1_c1999]

I agree with you Ali...also I think one should avoid asking questions you do not want to know the answer. Everyone has a sexual past even it is zero.

[@ranip7644]

That's nuts. I'd be turned off if my man even wanted to be with someone else. Like why are you with me if I'm not enough for you?

[@bbloodyangel1]

"I'm 75 years old been married 4 times, only been with 3 men" lmfao

[@starlight-kw1dn]

ilikemonkeys lmao i saw this comment when he was saying it! 😂🤣👌🏼

[@Mstees1]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@rasport7584]

I like that hhhh

[@hannahstokes4856]

😂😂😂

[@princessbc9791]

😂😂😂

[@indigobeauty1]

I believe in communication and honesty.i expect the same back.

[@pattimcb31]

I believe in it but it rarely comes back

[@1505yonni]

@@pattimcb31 this!

[@Tawilliams1980]

Never let the devil in bc you can’t control what he does!

[@kbanghart]

Who is the devil?

[@7spider391]

SMH why does everyone keep using the devil as an excuse for everything

[@Tawilliams1980]

@@7spider391 well the Bible says he comes to steal, kill and destroy so if it falls into that category I’m blaming him!

[@7spider391]

@@Tawilliams1980 I don't live by the Bible I'm an agnostic

[@plsrematch4071]

I think partners should just be honest with each other it’s not that difficult lol

[@because0011]

Swing no thanks! I feel sex is sacred.

[@SuckerPunch92]

because0011 it should be

[@pinkplight9992]

Sex is not casual thing... This is coming from a man who has 44 partners.

[@tom7601]

If you're so "Committed" why the heck aren't you married? Don't give mu the new age garbage; if God believed in permissiveness, He would have authored "The Ten Suggestions."

[@SammySam316]

lol good one

[@anonymousperson3772]

🤣 love it!

[@SIXTYZmusic]

"The Ten Suggestions."🤣🤣

[@citygurl0105]

🙌🙌🙌🙌

[@tomswill9189]

This is so true. Agree

[@creating1_c1999]

Kim Gravel is on point. The sisters are drama queens. No one tells people who they are dating unless they are testing temperatures in relationships. Shut it and date. Let a person choose you because of you, not lock you down so others cannot access you. This is another reason why some women end up in longtermwastingtimeships.

[@shelly8965luv]

Absolutely in agreement!

[@hunniization]

I agree!

[@lovexoxo251]

I agree unless you really like them and only want to date them, it should be your choice not his. When it gets more serious and people are catching feelings then you can have another conversation just to make sure your not hurting them.

[@trennahs4322]

Right!!! How you gon come at me with the “how many ppl you slept” with question when you done had at least 12 by the time you 20??? Like no, if they want you, then that info is basically irrelevant. Idc how many you had so how many I had should not be important enough to make a decision on how you feel. If it is then you with the wrong one honey! ✌️

[@nanapearlpearl2696]

SParkApCider m

[@conjunction7959]

They're all clapping about lying, why lie cause a man can't take the truth? What a way to start a relationship smh

[@marvinscottjr.4310]

Lala layla ..100 percent agree

[@lovexoxo251]

Right! We are all humans, clearly we've had sex and dated, especially meeting in your mid 20's into 30's or older like be real. Obviously this woman has been with more than that, it's just life. Doesn't mean she's a hoe. It's these unfair biases still in effect.

[@conjunction7959]

Love XOXO exactly, and if she's uncomfortable giving out a number she doesn't have to, it's her body it was before him, a man should just not even bring it up unless your looking for a virgin like it's just corny 🌽

[@conjunction7959]

Super19900991 that's a very cynical way of thinking, I'm sure it'll get you far

[@rikanejose2611]

Why is it anyone's business to know your personal life? If you don't want to lie just ignore the person and not answer the question. Men lie all the time to get into your pants so why not give them a taste of their own medicine.

[@CrystalB0912]

Steve is nothing short of a living amazing person

[@lorrainegonsalves3322]

All the ladies wearing nude shoes....nice

[@tamitatangoto5134]

I can’t imagine anybody not absolutely adoring Steve Harvey. He’s funny, he’s somewhat moral. He’s just a really entertaining person and I guess that’s why he’s in the position he’s in. Whatever he’s doing now (July 2022) I hope that he’s happy.

[@douglasmarshall2747]

No never as a man in a 34 year relationship with my best friend I wouldn't want a hall pass

[@maniamathurin1776]

Who’s the white lady ? I love her ❤️

[@RoyalMasterpiece]

Kim Gravel. She's amazing!

[@catlingross7217]

She sells stuff on qvc!! She's great

[@brittneyreigns]

Yessss i almost always agree with her! She is a strong black woman 😂 😂

[@truerosie]

Chris Dean that is idiotic. The term was used descriptively, not in a prejudicial way.

[@shalanathomas7751]

IKR!!!! Me toooo lol

[@brooklynforever1990]

I'm with the white girl. Sorry unless we have had the "We are exclusive" talk. then I consider both of us dating other period.

[@journeytoloveparis]

Who is Pandora and y is her box open

[@Fatima-px7qc]

Paris Woods 😂😂

[@kylemynamejia5155]

Hahahahaha

[@NGANSTURR]

Lol

[@anydae]

Are you for real? Or are you joking

[@boluwatiferaufu6502]

Pandora is from Greek mythology the box contained all of the world's fears. She was told not to open it or fear would be born. She did not listen.

[@jonord84]

3 words on everything...COMMUNICATION IS KEY! 🔑 👍

[@richdude8150]

Hall pass is a joke. I wouldn't even want a hall pass from my wife. I would be quite disturbed at the fact that she doesn't care who I sleep with.

[@mr.v1475]

I love how he encourages lying to a potential soul mate

[@kbanghart]

Nah it's not the same, it's none of my business how many partners a woman has had

[@freckles3705]

I have been asked that and my answer is "as many as you" or " as many as I wanted, just like you". No one is going to try to project their pious beliefs on me when they aren't virgins either. I do not deny my past like a lot of people because it taught me to value myself above any man.

[@keishawilliams7546]

I don't answer how many partners have you had question because what I did before you is none if your damn business. And let's be clear I only had 2 but it's still none if his damn business and I'm 36 years old.

[@joepytrykow6937]

Eh, kinda a whole different story if you've had some choo choos if you catch my drift.

[@AK33M]

I don't even bother to ask. I just assume she's going to lie anyway. Her true character will show in due time.

[@pinkplight9992]

I disagree with this because some one sexual past tells alot how the relationship is going to go.

[@ericstewart517]

@@pinkplight9992 How EXACTLY will the 'number' of sexual partners TELL how a current/potential relationship between two ppl new to each is going to go. Also does the frequency of each one matter and whether or not the lights were on or socks stayed on or who won the Super Bowl that year...please connect how the 'number' automatically decides the fate of a new relationship ( sounds like the EXACT judgement Steve is recommending lying to avoid)

[@prncessbaby16]

Lol Keisha then why did you tell us?

[@edithroxana5734]

First talk on date # 1. It is never a relationship until BOTH have verbally agreed to be in one and only then BOTH owe each other exclusivity and fidelity. "if any of us develop feelings and would like to be in a serious relationship where we want exclusivity we both must have this talk and take it from there. A kiss or more than that means nothing."

[@MONSTERaider]

Kim Gravel looks like the female version of Alec Baldwin!

[@laurenc2976]

An open marriage, threesomes, no strings attached sex, swinging couples, a hall pass or a marriage that’s on a break is NOT a marriage. Such foolishness.

[@najayrose1343]

If the dude get better sex then ur marriage will be damage for a longtime bcuz the dude will go for it again

[@najayrose1343]

Jasmine M only life I can think of

[@urbanrises1044]

Najay Rose step your sex game up then!

[@T1Oracle]

It doesn't have to be "better." Men are not that discerning. They don't have the burden of pregnancy, wired into their brains.

[@campbellcampbell1784]

I never talk about ex with another man ,I dont even mention names not compare, no ladies be smart ,cause if y'all start accusing him of anything, he's gonna say do you think I'm like your ex ,ding, ding lol

[@kiminseattle3476]

If he really in to that, then he is not really into you. Which meant you are not for him nor he is not for you.

[@alfredpardoe3795]

What if you are into it as well?

[@truerosie]

It's immature and a distraction whoever is into it. You'll just hurt each other with it when you're having a quarrel.

[@kbanghart]

Actually open relationships can be fun

[@ronyasarebediako2567]

Marriage is a commitment not a contract, hall passes should never be an option.

[@Hollins23]

It would not be a good idea! Don't do it.

[@ianriker5996]

Messed my last relationship up because of that never doing it again

[@selemawit9411]

The women in the red suit is a knock out !!

[@TraciJehan]

Selem Medhane Garcelle Beauvais. Former model turned actress.

[@breaking7x708]

I've watched nearly all your panel segments because I can't find your show on my TV channels. Thanks for uploading them.

[@karonkommedal4612]

Well you know .. temptation s out there only if you re looking for it 。。

[@zerog5109]

A relationship built on dishonesty will crumble underneath the false support.

[@alisonhall4403]

If you have to lie about your past to keep a partner, YOU'RE WITH THE WRONG PERSON. THE WRRROONNNGGG PERSON.

[@martinigasolini4062]

Lol yeah you need to find someone else who's screwed everybody and their momma. No normal person wants a nasty mess for a partner.

[@peridozq9390]

Alison Hall Personally I think it’s a red flag when a man asks you that question, it won’t end well.

[@shalanathomas7751]

I lovvveee blondie!!! She's REALLLL and mature! Love her!

[@michelegreene2905]

I love this women on the panel. Heck No. He can’t bring no one in.

[@martinigasolini4062]

Yeah and then they go and say it's ok for a woman to lie about all the men she's seeing at the same time she's supposedly dating. Theyre all hypocrites.

[@BossBattleHub]

Fellas need to STOP asking the question!! Trust me!! "All you need is a blood test."

[@peridozq9390]

me That’s why you date someone for a couple years. You study them.

[@metalheadlass9868]

As much as having too many partners is bad for women, lying is worse.

[@JimmieWright-dy7xp]

Facts...Id respect u more out the gate if honest .because the worst thing to do is lie N I find out more we got issues we didn't half to have

[@beverlyrhame3692]

I always say that when it comes to sharing info about yourself if it's public knowledge or it can be detrimental to the relationship you can't hide it , otherwise if it's not going to enhanced your relationship shut up, neither he or she will never tell you everything, and some things during an argument will be used against you and thrown back in your face....FACT.

[@junehoward3923]

Treat others how you want to be treated!!!!

[@bettymiranda9129]

I love Kim, she's so real

[@SchlyceMitchell]

I agree with the blonde lol. Don’t tell no one anything.

[@zikimma]

Steve is sooo right...men can't handle a number greater than 3 trust me... they can't!!!!

[@DBaker-zz8eu]

Y is that?

[@kbanghart]

I can

[@michellerichardson3090]

They really cant. I told my man my number and he was hurt. He told me he only dated 3 other women and I gave him a look. I asked how long they dated and the longest was 3 years. I looked at him and said "if you've been in dating world for 25 years, what in the hell did you do to only attract 3 people? Either you're lying or I'm gonna in for a rude awakening". And now I realiize why hes only dated 3 women lol

[@saggyjose8572]

i don’t want any woman that’s been with more than 3 men

[@T1Oracle]

Marriage isn't for everyone. If you're not about that commitment, then don't drag someone into a pretend marriage. Someone always gets hurt when you play those games. That's why Will Smith slapped Chris Rock. Jada's "hall pass" broke that man's soul, and he snapped on the wrong person.

[@lucretiaharris5069]

Steve is right, because at that moment we don't know how he thinks, and we are teaching men how to treat us. The number create a certain type of respect for some reason. "THINK LIKE A MAN"

[@martinigasolini4062]

No Steve is way off on this one.

[@S3r53]

Ahahaha 75 years old ,married 5 Times and bene with 3 ahaha Thatcher was hilarious

[@JoseMartinez-tq4wt]

I’ll keep preying for that friend “PRESS IT” 🤣 for when he at work , ahi& any and everywhere

[@WildBison74]

If a woman says 3 men now you can assume they are lying lol.

[@shirin8609]

LOL he also said say 2 "if you can get away with 2." I think people should try to keep it at zero until they're married, and then only one after that. That makes this question (and relationships in general) so much easier and less stressful.

[@kbanghart]

Only a douchebag would assume a woman is lying without any previous evidence

[@cheryl95622]

So she wants to give him a HALL PASS as a reward for being good. That’s what he’s suppose to be GOOD AND HONEST. If he asked you can that happen then you need to re-evaluate your relationship.

[@kbanghart]

My wife and I gave each other a hall pass once, it was great.

[@The_Mysterious_Saiyan]

I don’t get why adults have to ask for relationship advices from another adults? I don’t get it where did Steve got his license to give life learning lessons? From his house? From the experiences he goes through at his house? Exactly…. We all become smarter with life experience, but do people really have to ask others how to live their own life? That’s why we are divided as humans, we have the one that achieved and become successful and then we have the ones that are lost in this world and for some reason they make everything complicated when its not.

[@tamitatangoto5134]

I’m not telling a man about my past you kidding me. God has forgiven me for the things I’ve done wrong in my life. I don’t need to get forgiveness from a future relationship partner. There is nothing that can change your past it’s written in stone. But it doesn’t mean you have to go around apologizing to everyone for the rest of your life for it. As long as you’ve repented and God has forgiving you, then it’s over and done with. No shame in my game🙅🏼‍♀️

[@surjeudi2249]

#1 NO hall pass! #2 Don't lie about your partners. Be honest because things could come back to bite you.

[@maryhazlett]

The mom of a friend of mine was married 3x. But the current husband was married 4x and forgot about one that didn't last more than a few months. Truly.

[@jessiealba4591]

That man ain’t for you if he’s willing to do this, there’s no way he loves you if he’s trying to get it on with someone else.

[@kbanghart]

Not true

[@gedogdarker7211]

Well i wont say he doesnt love you but its not healthy

[@milcaerasmus7135]

Yes he can have his hall pass....as long as I can have mine....

[@lilpastor3042]

This is why relationships fail. Dating is the first step to a relationship, there's already suppose to be an exclusiveness to dating. Because if your dating a man (or woman) you're telling that person your interested in him to be a potencial partner, and if your dating more than a person a the same time you're giving to strong messages. 1 that the person your dating is just an option to you. 2 that the person your dating has to compete for your interest. If I'm dating someone and I'm treated like an option I'm out. How can you trust that person to be faithful later on if while dating you he was being dishonest and treating you like an option?

[@TraciJehan]

Just dont ask. Im 37 lets be reasonable here. I'm committed to you, you're committed to me. No one else is in our relationship now so it doesn't matter.

[@kbanghart]

Cuz it's fun to ask and find out

[@charity9660]

I think you should be honest and make sure the person knows this isn’t a commitment yet. We are getting to know each other first we are dating first so if I’m dating other guys and he isn’t dating other girls it’s not a problem cause he already knows. Plus he could be the one at the end that i choose to commit to

[@xoangelicaf0523]

Hell no my husband not getting a hall pass ever!

[@1rkhachatryan]

I think as long as ya'll are both on the same page about not being exclusive, then you don't need to tell everything to each other but at the very least have the exclusive or not exclusive convo so no one gets the rug pulled out from under them.

[@sarahidrissi6407]

dear Steve , you have viewers from all over the world, j'aime ton programme xo

[@vicmarshall4524]

POOR ADVICE STEVE!!! THOU SHALL NOT LIE!!!!✋ How is lying ever good? ? What's the next lie going to be about??? If a person who's claims to be interested in you can't accept your past then maybe he or she is not the one.

[@bethelight8300]

Hell to the nah on a hall pass‼️🙅🏽‍♀️ Hall pass my a$$.🤨

[@wtroupe64wt]

I’m sorry for the 2nd question .. Hell yeah you better say what it is. Don’t be lying and having me thinking it’s me and you (only) and my boys see you out here and got me looking crazy..

[@tikax2085]

Thanks uncle Steve

[@Sp-gh8gk]

You Want A Hall Pass Take Yo Ass back to High School!!

[@kristinaclark9979]

Sorry I don’t agree with Steve on this point, I’ve been with a lot of men and my husband has been with a lot of women but we were open and honest about that and secure enough in our relationship to know that what’s done in the past is the past. I just think lying would be worse than being open and honest.

[@rikanejose2611]

Well you ideology doesn't always work. Its like jumping out of a window 30 feet tall and just because your friend made it alive, you think everyone else will. When you give too much info about you, the person can use it against you one day. And you can't get mad at them because you're the one who opened your big mouth. Stop playing with fire.

[@rosazchka_0542]

The ladies look gorgeous 😙

[@michellemarie2590]

Bruh 🧐 Love these ladies! Good advice Steve!😀

[@yogaflame4128]

Garcelle is one fabulous black woman.

[@sonyastewart7825]

I will always give my parter a hall pass because if they ever take it, I don't need them in my life.

[@earthangel6858]

Never realized Ms. Empire was this pretty.

[@SahvonEdwards]

Don’t lie about your past - it’s not what you say, it’s how you say it.

[@ethanporto1745]

Ladies don’t let men even think about that. Please them before they even have thought by dressing up in the bedroom 🤷‍♂️ wear a wig and change your look. He’d be very surprised and love every moment of it. It pleases his desire to get with anyone else before he ever has the desire to even think about it.

[@mellisagreen7801]

Hell no. Then he starts comparing or going back for more and you end up being the ex.

[@lisasilversmith]

I read the title as 'husband has a hell pass'.

[@prince223681]

Encouraging girls to lie about number of partners is a no go

[@Yvonne390]

75 been married 4 times but I've only been with 3 🤣🤣🤣

[@biggmonie]

Loving these panels!

[@Christian80806]

Don't share unless asked.

[@rolorobbins2933]

Lie to me about who you have been with, I’ll lie to you about who I’m currently with

[@bellarose8511]

1st question: Is seriously asking that?! 🤨

[@googlekutty5650]

I like when it's only Steve.

[@anydae]

What madness is this? A hall pass.... let him go sis

[@c.m.2973]

Lmaooooo I've BEEN telling women just say three! 😂

[@fabulouslifeinchrist1349]

My husband likes to flirt with his ex in front of me. I told him before we got married I won't let him stay friends with exs. I don't keep in touch with my exs and guys I liked either. He flirted with her in an event last night. I asked him and he got all defensive and raised his voice. I know he does not cheat on me but it bothers me when he flirts with her in front of me when we run into each other. They have no kids together so that is why I told him before marriage that he can't talk to exs. Period. I have not spoken to him since last night when he yelled at me when I asked if he was flirting with her by sneaking up on her and tapping her shoulder or whatever in front of me. Am I being too much or would this bother anyone else? Honestly, I think married people should never touch the opposite gender when flirting. It is too much for the significant other and I felt disrespected since it was in a room full of people. He got so mad and told me what he always says when I get mad about the situation. He said if he wanted to he could cheat but he never does. I told him to "do it" coz I am tired of hearing him say he is faithful whenever I get upset about the ex. They are not friends on fb or on their phones. I won't let him do that...no communication.

[@shantell4847]

Is disrespecting you that kind of behavior can lead to cheating if he ain't did it already you need sit down with him and have a talk with to see where yall marriage is at and talk about how yall feel about different things that going in yall marriage

[@876tisha]

I would not answer it

[@Lil08103]

money has done W0NDERS for the girl from empire (on the end). she looks great.

[@AuthorJanaeMarie]

lime light Damn you right. I didn't know that was her until reading your comment. WOW

[@StrongnBeautiful]

Umm...that's not a girl, that's a *woman*, and she been in the industry wayy before Empire. Grown people know her. Look her up! 😃

[@JohnSmith-nm4zd]

Marriage should only be between 2 people who have the same values

[@TheSophisticatedSavage]

She wants the HallPass for herself

[@vicki-alanarasmussen8544]

HaHaHa 😂 That would be a big fat NO!!!

[@HerminiePA]

She didn''t say husband. The questioner asked about spouse, which could be husband or wife.

[@kp6042]

I do not understand these "single" marriages and situationships.