Steve’s Best Fatherly Dating Advice! II Steve Harvey

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[@diankreczmer6595]

Thank you to the lady who said she is not giving her cookie untill marriage and Steve said you need a church going person. Thank you, Steve for giving direction.

[@preetbrar5903]

Yes,not all get this.

[@renah6249]

With a real relationship with God for REAL ❤

[@cherylandrews804]

​@@preetbrar5903k 59o3k

[@kajalbrahma9711]

What's cookie?

[@lythiascanlon2131]

That is Uncle Steve's lingo for sexual relations.@@kajalbrahma9711

[@AllThingsSoul]

I agree with Steve, when a guy doesn't call you like he said he would, call him on it and see if he corrects it. Tell him, "Yesterday, you said you were going to call and I didn't hear from you. It's important that the people around me be trustworthy, so do you have trouble following through on what you say?" If he apologizes, give him another chance. If he makes excuses or blames you, change his name in your contacts to "trouble calling" and when that pops up, don't ever answer it again. And I don't believe in the 90-day rule, sorry Steve. I believe in the "not until I'm married rule." If I'm good enough for the cookie, I'm good enough for the altar.

[@Red_1976]

Well said! Love it!

[@user-rb5jm9rh8e]

❤

[@TheMotherOfNations]

Ditto....So on point!!! No hitching a ride before you put a ring on it.

[@chuksokezie130]

Check up on him if he promised to check up on you and didn't keep his promise.. His reason my be genuine, anyways .

[@nadiawahedy9639]

FACTS 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

[@Pacifica74]

What Steve is saying is you don't tell a man what you want him to DO for you - you tell him the character traits you're looking for.

[@mermaidkiss0711]

I love Steve and agree most of the time. The *only* thing I don't agree with here is the "cookie" being the prize. Sir, I'M the prize. Me as a person is the prize. A life with me is the prize. My cookie is a bonus. Other than that he has wonderful advice. I realize a lot of men's goal is the cookie, but if that's what you want then get a temp, because I'm not open for business unless you either show me you're in it for the long haul, or God drops you outta the sky and says, "Here he is." I was casually dating somebody for about 8 months. I asked him one time "what are we?" His answer was, "I don't know." I knew right then it wasn't going to last, so I enjoyed his company while I had it. He recently found the woman he had an answer to that question for. I'm so happy for him. But when they're not the ONE, they'll have those kinds of unsure answers.

[@cloboecolombe5688]

I need more of these Uncle Steve. I wish I had knew a lot of things from this video few years ago. Thanks for everything

[@rohandas6626]

But margaie took 50%

[@jollymollyramram9702]

*known

[@GoldenAngel-]

Thank you Uncle Steve , We Love you ❤

[@jenifernyamallom3237]

Thank you Uncle Steve, for all you do for us ladies……. We love you ❤

[@good.life1]

Steve Harvey is one of the wisest men in the universe. That's a gift of God's Holy Spirit, for certain.

[@eonvrede9143]

That’s why in life you u don’t give up. All the struggles and heartbreak he went through was to help people not make those mistakes

[@good.life1]

@@eonvrede9143 I wish I watched his advice videos seven years ago, before I got with a narcissist.

[@eonvrede9143]

@@good.life1 i am glad you came out alive. Your experience you need healing and move on to pass it through. We just don’t know what the future will bring you

[@Trust_Chukwuemeka]

​@@good.life1 I'm sorry about that. Always take good care of yourself. I wish you happiness and good health always.

[@good.life1]

@@Trust_Chukwuemeka Amen, and I wish you well, too

[@MyWayWendy]

"One bad relationship could make a woman never want to fall in love again"

[@bahiziwilliam8232]

But one bad boyfriend or bad girlfriend doesn't represent all.

[@veryslowenglish]

I think Steve Harvey is the most brilliant advice-giver on this topic.

[@phyllis9750]

On ALL topics!

[@CaptivatingHope]

My friend B gave me this same advice about not revealing the specific keys to your heart to any man in the early days, and he's a straight man too. He didn't need to be honest about it, but he cares about women not getting conned and hurt; knowing the way most men are going to do women. Don't enable men to use or hurt you. I'm a woman here to say that many women do men the same way. It's so very wrong, but it's our world. B and Steve are definitely correct!! Heed their advice.

[@AllThingsSoul]

The last girl who's divorced with a child and dating, she's beautiful - looks like a model. Keep moving forward, get your finances in order, own some property, and look for a man who's in the same boat as you - handsome, owns some property, maybe has a kid himself and build a new life together with him. Keep your standards high.

[@esb3169]

I ALWAYS listen to Steve Harvey. Although my father has always been in my life from the time I was born up until now, he never talked to me the way Steve does. My father was a awesome provider and that was how he believed he showed his love however I needed these talks from the most important man in my life. I believe if I had these talks, I probably would not have made all the mistakes I made when it came to men. Now that I am much older, I apply alot of what Steve says in my life...."I'm the prize!"

[@evelyncalilan7129]

Sir Steve I am from Philippines watching your video I find your advices and ideas are brilliant.

[@ginajohnson1679]

It happened I just click on this show and boy I learn a lot from Steve!

[@preetbrar5903]

Steve should have a dating show - i would come down to be set up by him 🙏🏼

[@GabrielWilliams-qn9kv]

Really

[@honeyboo7549]

Three months was the standard back in the days, to get to know somebody, and make sure you had a common ground. These days, it's Tinder and all that crap. I am glad, being an 80's kid and knowing now that I would rather focus on my kid and myself. Feels way better and is really true LOVE.

[@wendyhestick8514]

Thank you Steve this is so needed, you can make an industry out of this, helping women, especially black women.

[@justinyoderallison5998]

You single?

[@mwajumabinwa604]

❤❤

[@name9601]

@@justinyoderallison5998 Lol story u tell the kids 'we met in youtube comments . . . "

[@justinyoderallison5998]

@@name9601 hey I wasn't talking to you,and you're so disrespectful,

[@wendyhestick8514]

@@justinyoderallison5998 Mum of 4 grown beautiful, intelligent, single women.

[@sabrinarene6909]

Love this

[@pinktrain30]

This is great advice! Thanks, Steve.

[@curlysue7906]

Not having an uncle of my own, I really find this advice so comforting and helpful.

[@Trinny256]

Wow, I too never have a close relative to tell me the sweet words I here from uncle Steve. Am from Uganda 🇺🇬.but I have made him my mentor

[@jonathanfactor6688]

Great video thanks

[@hadijaalli8173]

Thanks mr Steve for the show ❤

[@thewise2443]

you better talk Steve !!!! WHEWWW I NEEDED this !!

[@anahidartinianjamgotchian3181]

Best advice ever, I will share this with my teenagers. Thank you.

[@user-rb5jm9rh8e]

Wow

[@user-rb5jm9rh8e]

How are you

[@chuksokezie130]

Very lovely, indeed ..

[@rae-remastered1300]

Oh yeah señor Steve Harvey always the best

[@natarajkhushbo]

I love you Steve come back

[@RosaLopez-zw2ff]

Such an amazing show today. I wish I can save this video for my grand daughter to view when she's old enough to date. Thank you Steve for your life advice for all these young people.

[@deniseobryant302]

Thanks for profound message we need more open dialog like this 🙏

[@jaychan225.]

Thank you so much

[@hakimtamwenya2422]

Uncle steve I really enjoy your program

[@irenediego5676]

He ain't at the club 😂😂😂

[@juana9633]

Hi there superb post

[@maureenironlady1988]

Thanks Sir Steve I didn't knew you are search an encouraging guy in all fields I will continue watching your channel for more super brain 😁

[@Trinny256]

Wow, learnt alot from this show 🤗. shout outs from Uganda 🇺🇬 to everyone

[@angielucido8045]

Love when Steve goes into Uncle Steve mode

[@oluwatosinolayemi7319]

Quite insightful. Love this.

[@Bdphonorat]

Love Steve best advice

[@aidawondel1238]

Thanks Steve, a lady from Suriname.

[@theresabennett915]

Thanks for the advice. Your kid is # one! If a man can't accept you have a child , move on. Never be scared to discuss your child from day one. There are good celebate men outside the church, please hold on to your values. Dating isn't easy. However, set standards and demand respect. Blessings to all single ladies , looking for that one. Mr. Harvey blessings to you and your advice. I love when you talk about your mom upbringing 's . She raised a great man. 🙏🙏🙏

[@ConstanceMwale-ws1ym]

This is Constance from Zambia Africa I had lost my phone now I've just replaced everything I really really get inspired by your show and how you help others may God continue to bless you Mr Steve Harvey as you are helping others and may God bless your family too🇿🇲🇿🇲🇿🇲

[@luganoessom1464]

That is the problem with Africans, why you guys are disclosing too much information about your personal issues, to people who don't even know you, who want to know about your phone, be precise just say I'm Zambian I real appreciate your work, is so inspirational to me, period. Thus why even in job interviews, you guys are tripping!. Too much unnecessary explanation.ok now you got a phone,so next time are you going to tell us about internet problems,?😊

[@siyethabasibiya8832]

This is good🎉❤

[@janomesteve3129]

Love from Cape Town South Africa 🇿🇦

[@jaydeebulje4493]

Can't get enough of Steve, as a relationship expert, I have learned so much from him over the past 25 years. Doctor H has to be the best relationship expert that ever lived, like Dr John Gottman. Very impressive.

[@brinexc]

I am single as well, 28years old. I hope to find a kind person

[@trillionairetv7666]

Single lady? If yes let's talk

[@thetwobrotherskigali389]

Greetings from Rwanda 🇷🇼 we love Steve you inspire the whole world

[@factsabouthealth667]

This man is so funny 🤣😂!

[@jacquelinegibson6181]

I need Steve to have these more and one in Chicago with me included.

[@justinyoderallison5998]

You single

[@asharamsamy2307]

Wish I knew these advices when I was 18

[@kivemaleonard2757]

You rock Steve!

[@SonicRacingEPt]

Uncle Steve preach on! I thanks to the Lord found someone who by God's amazing grace is first off God fearing and puts the relationship in God's hands first.. and it's going perfectly Thanks for the great advice Uncle Steve 🙏🏼.

[@COCOCHI143]

I truly enjoyed watching, LISTENING, and reflecting. EXCELLENT show. Helps a lot of WOMEN. Yes. Mr. Steve. 🤝👍👍🙂

[@wendyhestick8514]

He reminds me of my Dad!

[@oliviaginsbourg6541]

Woooa the guys are pulling their socks up

[@adedejiadewale9270]

Thank you Steve we love you. I like that woman in pick sitting by your left side....

[@MyWayWendy]

Uncle Steve is fatherly when you needed advice..

[@mohammedadamjr7056]

Hi Ella

[@Voduyendoidien]

My dad died when I was 10. I was the oldest. No boys in the family. All girls. It was had on us. We had no guidance from a man’s perspective. I wish I had met a father figure like Steve. I would’ve been successful in my marriage life!

[@MyWayWendy]

Why made your comments down here, make your comments at the comments section, I'm not Steve Harvey..

[@MyWayWendy]

@@Voduyendoidien Don't say your dad died, say your father past away..

[@trinasanford7738]

❤ Big brother I know you 👀 I just wanted to shake it up a little bit 😂 I know the Power that GOD has given me I know who he has for me

[@StellasScrappyCrafts]

Wow I love the girls boots at 4:00 after Steve says "What you won't accept" ... Sorry Steve, yes I did hear everything else, but those boots , damn. lol

[@fatoludamilare6037]

I just love ds man❤❤

[@zubenthungkingkikon1606]

10:36 it's alive style 😮

[@simonKihiu-bq1mz]

Big fun watching 🇰🇪

[@NurseNessey]

I don’t even tell them anymore, I just let them know that I like a man to be themselves whole heartedly because I don’t have a preference. I don’t own anyone and this is just an experience so, I’d rather just experience thee experience in its totality.

[@EMP_Hakari]

Love from Nigeria ❤

[@brotherthegreat3617]

We are human beings and should treat people as people, some are compatible and some aren't you gotta date and figure out who is compatible and who is willing to be with you and work out problems with you

[@beachbum-mk1cu]

Not only are you not gonna find it out in your teens you’re not gonna find it out in a year or two either, stop moving in and giving these men what they need to “earn” if they ain’t marriage material they sure ain’t roommate material

[@pippilangstrumpf4329]

Great Therapist Steve

[@taylorpresley4604]

I wish I had this info back in my day, I had no clue as both parents were narcissistic

[@EdungsChild]

I sure need some advice.. it's going really hard. Too much expectations and I'm drowning 😭😭🇳🇬

[@wendyhestick8514]

So sorry you are going through that, he is saying, work on self and ready yourself for the real good men, hunting out there, for good women.

[@princesslyne1]

I love this guy,if I was young again I would like a husband like him

[@mohammedadamjr7056]

But I'm right here for u my name is Mohammed

[@chuksokezie130]

You can recreate your love life. I can help you make that dream come through. We can have a life together, pretty lady...

[@astherrf]

Hi Steve,I’m always glad to listen to you. I have found that you are a man of wisdom on earth by the grace of our Lord Jesus Christ. You are chosen vessel of God and such a blessed man of God. May God bless you and family even more and keep on giving you strength and His favor to continue to do His work ❤❤❤

[@shishirthapa1950]

Love from nepal 🇳🇵

[@RoseMary-uz6sk]

Hello Steve am chatting from Uganda single and searching need your help. Thanks

[@nancyhoward7005]

Focus on your self

[@HendersonThynne]

Absolutely

[@shansherdel8344]

👍 uncle Steve saved me

[@janetkirsten6233]

You shouldn't have to coach a man to introduce you as his GF. If he isn't proud to introduce you with the GF tag, he just doesn't see you that way. Don't ask him to, just let him go and find that guy who can't wait to call you his GF and is puffing his chest because you his

[@user-br2tg4ev5f]

wheres the next video

[@user-lm3kn1rm3k]

I been divorce for 20 some years. Been focusing on me and ejoying my oneness. Lately, I been wanting to date again scared. I have no house, no job since 2007 on disability I have nothing to offer. Lost all that when I could no longer work. My ex left because I could no longer work his true colors came out. I believe a man should be the provider! If a guy I date doesn't accept that then I am moving on till one does.

[@bassirouthiam4172]

Steve I’m Senegalese but I want one day I will seee you 🙏

[@nikhilramphul2766]

Am a man and 25 and still single and enjoying it

[@marieazrak1951]

I am

[@myrtellelee2857]

Listen up people Steve knows his stuff.

[@berniceaddeibofa8681]

I need your advice on this I have dating to a guy for the past 6 month at the beginning of the relationship he use to call or call back when he missed my call but now he doesn't call back he only short text only the morning and sometimes in the afternoon to check up now when I complain about he said he's busy with work And he has come to meet my parents 3months when we got into the relationship now I don't what to do I can clearly see he is not interested again What pains me is that we only ones every week that's in the evening we have something to eat then go to his house that's all I have been doing for the past 6 months I don't know what to do He only calls when he needs sex for that he is not busy He doesn't know how to apologize when wrong me

[@thumper6425]

💜💜💜

[@zubenthungkingkikon1606]

6:35

[@elhamkadkhoda3028]

Why wait this long😮😮😮

[@5and150]

I can’t believe Serene is 48! Like what?! How?

[@kizimaalicia4270]

Hey, Uncle Steve my name's Alicia from Rwanda, I've watched most of your shows but especially this Fatherly dating advice. So i wanned an advise from you. Steve i've been in a relationship for almost 4years but i'ven't been feeling like am loved deeply in my heart tho the guy tells me that most of the Times and he's so romantic and whenever we're with his friends he makes sure that am his woman but like am not satisfied cause i want something else but he seems to not understand it and he always postpone things either apologies or other things that counts for me what should i do for him to understand my heart?

[@verenamaharajah6082]

Four years and you’re not married? He’s either already married or he’s just stringing you along ( and maybe a few others too) until ‘something better’ comes along! Life is short, stop wasting your precious life on someone who doesnt really care about you! Remember, it’s not what they say, it’s what they do that matters.

[@abrahambobby4767]

Great

[@jordansteenveld3041]

Hi Steve, been trying to get into contact with you literally. I need some advice and I feel you the right person to ask. I hope you see tjis message.

[@panhawong]

I’m the only one who always broken heart when I’m started dating and I love his advices ❤😊

[@marilynwhichard75]

Hi Steve what about a woman that feel for a guy just for complement

[@lee48lee68]

Serene is not a single mom of 3, she’s a divorced mom of 3; BIG difference.

[@justinyoderallison5998]

You single?

[@lee48lee68]

@@justinyoderallison5998 -No, I’m married.

[@justinyoderallison5998]

@@lee48lee68 can we still be friends?

[@metoo4444]

Steve needs to be giving some of this advice to his daughter. The way she go through these men. But better yet he needs to warren the men before they date his daughter specially the good men she be running through and hurting/breaking their hearts 💖❤

[@muslima9599]

His daughter just know her value and don't stick with men who don't know her value !!

[@natarecreations1990]

Dating doesn’t mean sexual

[@1jenniferlala]

Where was Steve when I was growing up?!

[@Shonda-vj7qb]

👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@sheilahendrix5935]

May 💛God 💚Be ❤️With❤️ You💙 Always💚 Much❤️ Love💙 Blessings 💜Always ☺️ 🎇 🌈 🌐 💖💯✌️💙❤️💜💛💚💚💛💛💛💛💛💜💜❤️

[@renah6249]

From what I'm seeing he's not at the church either🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@BarefacedPrincess]

I just got out of a serious relationship that was emotionally abusive I want him to change he says he’s changed I was in a shelter for the last week and now I’m back in here living with my ex he says he’s changed but I don’t trust him and I feel like I already met the one for me last week but he’s in a different city where the shelter was located I’m ready for marriage and a baby but I’m scared I’m making a mistake if I give my ex another chance because he’s selfish and unconsiderate of my feelings.

[@zara198522]

@BarefacedPrincess... I don't know how I came across your msg but I did. Do not give your ex a chance. For you to go into a shelter, things were bad!!! Today it might be emotional abuse and next week it could be another type of abuse. Leave while you still can. Abuse escalates and fast and you can't come back from death. Do not give this other dude a chance either. You need to heal. Heal by yourself, sit by yourself and write out a list of all the good and bad things about your ex. Cut that contact, make goals for how long time past since you last had contact. You don't need closure- especially with an abusive dude. You're never going to get it. Learn to become ok with that. Sit in that dark and hurting place, don't fear it. Give yourself time, I can guarantee you within a year or so, you will never want to give abusive dusty dudes anytime of your day. You will be in a place where you will become the picker and will attract the one meant for you, when YOU want it. ❤

[@BarefacedPrincess]

@@zara198522 I believe he can change I already gave him another chance . I told him about my boundaries and things that bother me and he said he won’t do it anymore . I told him if he does it again I’m leaving. He told me he will put my name on the house and he’s been going to church with me he’s going to buy me a car next week and he’s helping me get to my new job. I went to the shelter because I told him I won’t accept disrespect any longer so I asked him to drop me off. I opened a bank account in my name just in case things don’t work out again and I can use it to save money and get out of here in a house next time instead of a shelter .

[@BarefacedPrincess]

@@zara198522 I don’t have anywhere to go and it’s hard living together and not have sex so I decided to have boundaries and we have sex and we hold hands and it feels good to do both I just want to cook and clean and workout and be happy. So far nothing had happened besides me telling him yesterday that he needs consent to touch me sexually because it feels bad when he just touches me when I’m not horny it makes me irritable. So he said he won’t do it anymore ever I’ve told him multiple times to stop that it’s like he doesn’t get it until I leave and he knows I can leave again so I’m sure he won’t this time. I like the way respect feels it’s something I never get. He knows he’s on his last chance . It sucks reading things like this or hearing things like this because I love him and I want him he didn’t know he was emotionally abusive I’m his first real relationship so he doesn’t have much experience I’ve helped him with his debts and I helped him with getting his life together. I told him it is my turn so he has vowed to help me get on my feet by getting me a car and helping me become more independent. I think I need to get on birth control though I’m scared to get pregnant because I’m also on a weightloss journey I’m trying to recover from the years of emotional abuse. It gave me a eating disorder I’ve passed it now and lost sixty pounds but I still have forty more to lose. I don’t want to think about this, I feel he can change.

[@apurple86]

I wish pink shirt would be quiet with the right right right comments.

[@alilyahmignott5388]

Same here 😭 I don't know what to do

[@reginaharrigan7454]

Why Steve telling them he wants options