‘You’re Acting Just Like Your Mother!’ 10 Things You Should Never Say When Arguing with Your Spouse

“I hate the way your dress!” “You’ve really let yourself go!” We break down the 10 things you should never say to your significant other when an argument gets heated. Plus, while many use their time in the shower for deep thinking… Adrienne reveals she uses it for napping!
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[@Nakiyo11]

I would greatly love if the new season had longer clips like these.

[@breeisking7791]

Yes I agree, I want longer clips

[@Tan87ful]

Agreed 💯💯👏🏽👏🏽

[@munmun1263]

Ughhh yes!!! I'm watching from Germany, so KZbin is my only Source to watch the show 😭

[@christellejoseph9089]

Yess!! With time stamps for each topic 🤞🏽

[@Matthew-vp9rh]

Y’all should apply to be a producer on the show! 😁

[@jasminewestbrook7183]

Adrienne tells the best stories!

[@faredsharudden]

I love that Jeannie will always try to back the girls up. On this particular clip she backed up Tam Tam and i love to see that! I miss Tam Tam so much!

[@sydney8108]

I disagree. Coming from the child perspective, my mom NEVER posted me as a MINOR, unless it was my birthday- Because of my protection, of course. But growing up I did have some close friends whose parents posted them almost every day on Facebook and they would be highly embarrassed and hated it. Every friend I had who’s parents did that, HATED IT. So much. It really is embarrassing though. Especially when the parents start posting their friends too much too.

[@misswinter5329]

I’m literally in LOVE with Adrienne🥰

[@AA-bm3hf]

"Not that daddy!" - Jeannie LOL

[@lilliegibson7131]

Adrienne, us shorties are scarier when we get quiet. My hubby would agree with you 100%! I'm barely 5'2" and he said he'd rather me yell and throw things than go quiet.

[@daughterofchrist550]

I really miss this set up with these ladies...I miss them together so much.

[@lilliegibson7131]

I don't share my kids pictures without their permission EXCEPT for their birthday. That's the day I can post a pic without embarrassing my kids. And my kids have only asked me once or twice not to share something. I give my kids the respect they deserve, and in turn I get amazing respect from them. But they don't care if I send a pic in a text.

[@MistakenDeVil55]

Lol if someone told me im acting like my mother id reply with, 'well my mother has been to prison so be careful' 😅🤣

[@meaganbianca2978]

The discussion about marriage arguments I remember seeing before while I was in a relationship where my partner was abusive in speech. I have family and friends who consider it normal but it really is a serious tell

[@lynnramadan9855]

Adrienne was my favorite cheetah girl . I had a major crush on her ! ❤️ur beautiful Ade!

[@kathleenweinberg6442]

I think best to listen to your children because their feelings count

[@stephaniebaileyc.g.i7059]

5:07 "Geez ya'll gasp, what ever"🤣 7:36-8:41 Jeannie is the best 9:42/12:35.13:55/15:09🤣

[@larissadeoliveira]

I am my own lawyer 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Loni is too much OMG

[@jadealexander8233]

Loni laughing at her own joke at 8:10

[@hajaarsmith5930]

Who else thought that Adrienne looked like Maya Rudolph in the thumbnail?

[@MajesticMyronn]

Sharenting ----------------------- I personally think there’s a difference in being someone with a reputation and is known for showing off their life as it is apart of their “ job “ especially bloggers that are moms… Versus… a person who is literally sharing their children’s business on social media just for the help of it without that child’s consent & I think it goes for even real life situations I hate when I’m Over someone’s house and they feel the need to catch me up on their child’s business ! Like I don’t care to hear that if I want to talk to them about I will ask them… I don’t need u to do that ! That’s why children and teens barely talk to their parents now cuz they feel like it’ll be said to everyone in their family and their parents friends ! Sometimes be quiet !

[@lauraintheskywithdiamonds9185]

Ah I miss Tamera

[@4everfaithful32]

Something I always think about after seeing friends and relatives post photos of the children at any event is how did you ever spend a minute enjoying the event or your child when you obviously just took photos? There will be sooo many of them! Spend quality time with the children and enjoy the event - if you want a photo - do it like we did - at one moment get them all together and take a photo!!

[@PassionateFlower]

I guarantee you I was 100% miserable in every family photo where I'm "smiling". Dead inside from an early age. Parents SCREAM at their kids to STAND STILL AND SMILE FOR THE CAMERA OR ELSE YOU GET PUT IN TIME OUT!!! Basically your own parents objectify you against your consent when they take your photograph because almost always you are totally engrossed in the activity you're doing and the LAST thing you want to do is pose awkwardly with family members you don't even like or get along with and stand at uncomfortably close proximity to them and all you're thinking about is hoping you're not going to be the ugliest person in the photo and how many more minutes are we going to stand here smiling.

[@esther8436]

John 3:16 For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten son, that whosoever believes in Him shall not perish but have eternal life. Here’s a reminder of how much God loves you! God bless you🤍

[@ranitagadling4312]

There's 1 more thing that you should never say when arguing with a man which is ...by the way the kid/kids isn't/aren't yours .

[@ellandecampbell6279]

Absolutely. Both genders should NEVER say that they cheated, & women should NEVER tell a guy that he's not the father. I can tell you that I wouldn't be able to just blow that off if a woman said that to me. Certain things are inexcusable to say, no matter how upset/intoxicated you may be

[@babycakes91100ify]

I can’t take any more pictures from parents and grand parents. I stopped Facebook and any social media for that reason.

[@nai6474]

I know this is an old episode but Loni talking about discipline and embarrassment online??? Never thought Araya was ugly but she’s always saying so l started looking at things about her straying from my that little girl is cute

[@thismoment4life1]

Adrienne’s broken teeth story sounds traumatic.

[@sharonjohnson1661]

Ikr and it's Loni tryna look for the cracks in her teeth🤣

[@azariahmichelle6457]

Lonie is a comedy from Detroit so she's got it made to be real

[@deewani5847]

i remember her 3lw days she would always hide her front tooth, bless her she is so cute ♥️💜

[@janwoburn447]

I think getting to meet the president in the oval I would want to ask a mill questions and find out as much as I can since that is a once in a lifetime opportunity to divulge and get details that'd be voluntary. However, getting into the lives of people and share stories that are not mines to tell is overstepping and says a lot of a person's occupation. Everything does not requiring revealing if just to show and tell. Very bold line between following and stalking one would be voluntary and the latter involuntary. If I'm not in a person's close circumference of knowing their family members and meeting them in person I would not take it on myself to think giving info of their private lives is proper..............

[@lifeisbeautiful9455]

If I’m following someone, like an artist..I’m interested in what you’re doing not your family life. I have nothing in common with kids. I think parents like Tamera and Tia.. it’s fun and not really annoying.. but I can do without it. I just think people overshare so much of their lives online. Enjoy that moment for you and your family. It’s not sacred anymore when you share with the whole world. Then some people get mad, but you are putting your business out there. Tia and Tamera they take after their father with their facial features like the teeth and oval long face. I can see the resemblance with their mother but I can see their father a lot.

[@trinigrl09]

some people get mad ppl are putting their own business out there...... That's weird to me because why does the angry person care so much about what someone else chooses to share about their own life.....stop trying to control what someone else does....if you don't like a certain kind of post don't watch the video or click on the pic just keep scrolling..........it annoys me when either side complains about what the other is doing......who are we to tell someone stop posting about your kids?? if you are private don't post, that's completely normal......but I also think it's fine to be transparent and post anything u want...... people really do complain about the dumbest things these days...they hate watch just to complain.............the only problem I have is when parents disrupt or invade their child's privacy in an effort to gain huge following and make money......if you are using your kid as a meal ticket that's exploitative and a huge issue especially if they don't want to participate ......

[@lifeisbeautiful9455]

@@trinigrl09 Hi 🙂 when I said “some people get mad ………” I meant that the parents posting, when people put up a post and other people comment….if they are embarrassing their kids or if it’s something that’s not meant for social media they get mad at their fan base for having an opinion. But I agree, don’t look at the post if you don’t like it, scroll pass it 😁. But you know this world we live in, people gotta be negative. A person has a right to post their life if they want to, I don’t have to look or comment. Thats true like what Gabrielle Union did when came to Wades son, she wasn’t ready to come out with her life style as a girl and they put her out there to be a part of the society that excepts that kind of lifestyle and their child was not happy with it. He wanted to do it on his own timing… but they did it for him. He said in an article. Gabrielle said she didn’t know and that she was sorry. I don’t understand parents who immediately when something is going on behind closed doors they pick up the phone and share it with the world🤔 I love it when the Mowry twins do cooking videos and the kids are in the kitchen, I think it’s amazing that they are in the kitchen. I know Tamera said a few times… on air…. that Aiden was annoyed when she picks up the camera and you can see the look on his face…. Like Mom please lol. I do think that sometimes parents are not thinking 🤔 Does my child want to be on camera? Should I save this moment for us and not 8 million people. I’m just a very private person and when things happen in my life, I don’t reach for my phone. I’m in the moment. But if someone wants to run and get their camera, go right ahead. I can see if you get your phone and you want to take pictures to capture memories… it’s just when you post it…. Now it’s forever on the internet. You ever see those post where people post…. Then delete it… then a fan or media, screenshot it or record it immediately….it’s like damn… these people don’t waste no time, saving the pic, because they know it will be deleted. 😐😂😂😂 you have some fans that they are so involved in another persons life online it’s almost scary. They spend their whole time on social media. One time a fan said to Tamera “how come she wasn’t on live during the weekend?” When she stopped. And Tamera being sweet answers, that the weekend is for her and her family. This girl was mad because she was waiting on the weekends to see her and felt entitled to have her on, o the weekends then got mad. It’s honey, find something to do with your time on the weekends.

[@innocentiabongiwenkosi259]

"I was cute and you will enjoy it." :)

[@hannahwalmer1124]

Got clickbaited by the thumbnail. Was NOT expecting this to be an old Girl Chat

[@MajesticMyronn]

He thumbnail literally says “ Girl Chat Vault “

[@MsMak03]

@@MajesticMyronn LITERALLY

[@PamelaKonjevod]

whose gonna rewatch all of these shits untill forever :(

[@guadaluperamos8064]

Didn’t Jeannie say in an old video she sold her wedding dress? Tejer stories don’t be adding up sometimes!

[@jmaa1743]

I though jeanni sold her dress she said

[@cynthia3536]

Miss Tamara come back

[@MrMojo23100]

1:40 The kids are being dramatic? Having consent to publicly post embarrassing and personal photos/stories is being dramatic now? Especially when it's just to stroke your own ego.

[@nneka...16]

I miss Tam Tam

[@naomiblack21]

Loni is so funny

[@nadiastewart30]

😔

[@divine-aliharris4553]

Hi

[@chickenback997]

I had a feeling her front teeth were fake

[@RackyNdoye]

I miss Tamera🥺🥺

[@heyheyhey40]

It’s NUTS. Because if everything you post is of your kids, we all get tired of seeing it.

[@charlesaveryjr9084]

Its called tifetmitus to. An emotionans😤🥶😫😱😆

[@gracef7948]

Here

[@kennyray4883]

is the misplacing piece

[@smelaerts3095]

😭 leave the kids out of the media

[@doneecemcneil7826]

Gm edagdwg telling the truth is real respect yourself and your children Linda j. Peace

[@jeromebaxter2987]

5:14

[@lifeisbeautiful9455]

As much as I love my favorite artist or public figures…. I’m tired of seeing their kids online. I don’t care for peoples kids. Kids can’t mKe their own choice. They do t understand social media like adults. I mean I get tired of seeing their kids.

[@azariahmichelle6457]

Out side of lonie yll used your beauty to get nice things

[@doneecemcneil7826]

Gm edagdwg how you can't take it back sad pay attention to what god you do and say to your husband thnk before you speak Linda j. Peace

[@albertheijn9874]

Uhh you talk about your kids 24/7 allll the timee, miss.