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[@noriking1467]

This is awesome, great to see sg youtubers like you sharing all vulnerable things that guys go thru, i feel that no one talked abt it

[@Dargoyaki]

Tbh I don't think it does too well in the local space, means no one's really found a format that works. Men, Explain seems like the most likely series that covers these topics

[@noriking1467]

@@Dargoyaki yeah, but this is awesome to see like male starting the conversation first ! :) great start uh

[@kristina4894]

Here bc of buzz feed. Saving for sharing later. Thank you for being open about your experiences and sharing your journey

[@sidatl152]

Yup. Nice guys finish last. Common courtesy and being respectful is a good start. I used to laugh at the phrase GTL from the show Jersey Shore, but it made sense (gym, tan, laundry). Also, be knowledgeable and supportive of other people's interest.

[@veergala9751]

Thank you so much for this video , can't express how much I appreciate this

[@x22578]

so refreshing to see such a self-aware take from a guy! keep it up man

[@shyviking]

That has to be some of the best and most honest content, I have seen on the net for a long time. Most guys probably have a least a little sliver of "nice guy" in them. And yes; I agree with Dargoyaki - get rid of that.

[@MebiManga]

Churning out banger videos about personal stuff, and love your B rolls too.

[@ExtraLivesMusic]

Loved this video, loved the video game music you used to score it even more!

[@cy3970]

dude i fking love your channel. you’re so real, pls keep the channel up 🫶

[@cy3970]

the one abt guy friends too also hit deep, dk how u do it but u don’t miss

[@reviewfreak66]

This just proves that in the scene of dating physical looks still trumps personality.☹️ Also I feel just because u didn’t dated at all in middle/high school u should think lowly of yourself or brand yourself as a loser. You are more than just that date/Exgf count. You can suck at getting dates but be exceptional at sth else. I think it is more important for teens to realise different people excel at different things and getting dates is just one of the many things. And from there work on their strong points to built that confidence.

[@silverchairsg]

Make a guide for guys on how to talk about feelings (with guys and girls). Like what you mentioned in your previous video.

[@ZandraKim]

I’m cis-gender female and 65… I’m here because BuzzFeed posted this today. I can say with certainty that I behaved the same way from lack of confidence almost all my life - it’s not just males that suffer in this way. I do believe they may suffer more in some ways than women do, though. Cliché maybe, but the struggle is REAL. Great work, Dargoyaki! 👩🏻‍🦳

[@Dargoyaki]

thank you Zandra :)

[@BANGWJ]

2023 IS DA YEAR

[@goghana92]

Nice Zelda BGM

[@Dargoyaki]

Nice catch

[@larad9180]

@@DargoyakiAll the Persona 5 bgm was what I noticed

[@AbbieChwann]

💛

[@psychiatry-is-eugenics]

Only thing that really matters

[@psychiatry-is-eugenics]

Pete Davidson

[@ysngngys7753]

ask urself when is the last time u squatted down to talk to kids (when called for)...

[@lifesnonintendo]

didnt know you're a nanhuarian as well

[@astronightsprincess]

are u going to find a corporate SWE job or pursue content creation full time?

[@Dargoyaki]

none of them

[@jaredlowky]

so i guess the only way is the to hit the gym get those gains

[@larad9180]

Not really. Some women like athletic guys, but there are a lot that couldn’t care less about “gains”.

[@danielleong7067]

Eh I nice guy to my pioneers y no reciprocation

[@Dargoyaki]

you weren't nice when we bought XDNYJF :(

[@MebiManga]

@@Dargoyaki need to write down the trauma sia. Painful memory.

[@xena2shoes]

I mean, two things can be true at the same time. You can be genuinely nice with no ulterior motives while being disadvantaged by societal norms. And the solution is not to just be happy with self improvement and be content without a relationship. Sure those things are great and highly recommended but that doesn’t solve the problem which is objectively that men are taught by society that being the unattractive good guy gets you little to no romantic attention while being the attractive asshole gets you plenty of it. That’s why you see all of these pick up artist books giving people advice to “neg” the girl of their interest and not compliment them.

[@ignatiusparadenceremony9242]

Nice guys are like narcissistic like this

[@laughandbelly]