"YOU Should Help Me" Christian Single Mother Gets FRUSTRATED At Men For Walking Away

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[@The2oFuS.-hr3os]

🤔??????..😡..

[@Bozemanjustin]

Christian? If you were married as a Christian, the vows say until death do us part You clearly aren't dead, is your husband dead? So sick of people claiming they are Christian but they don't follow any of the tenants of Christianity.

[@HonkHonkler]

Both ladies *WEARING PINK...* Barbie has made things SOOO much worse.

[@jonnyjazzz]

Hey man, Hidan referenced that you weren't feeling well, or motivated to keep listening to these brats and their insane tiktoks, but know that we appreciate you enlightening us to this cultural trend.

[@brianlindee4397]

Yeah I subscribed to Odin Men and he has to Walk on egg shells when he's doing KZbin but he has a different site to look into if you are to follow him freedom of the speech my ass

[@jasonvaughn8865]

It’s not our job as men to rescue ungrateful entitled .and narcissistic women from their poor life choices

[@Canbutcant]

Men have a responsibility to themselves to ignore problem people in general, she just has to accept the consequences. Needs to figure it out on her own like the rest of us.

[@sadboi7537]

@@CanbutcantSingle moms by choice can eat shit for eternity. The worst people in the world.

[@JamesGreenier]

But millions of simps are ruining it for us. They make it rain for absolutely nothing in return. 😮

[@KAMFP]

@@JamesGreenier There will be less and less simp blood as the message spreads and women keep proving our point over and over.

[@JamesGreenier]

@@KAMFP Yes sir!

[@sageoldmann5157]

If you wanna have a positive influence on a single mom’s life, ignore her. They’re all strong and independent, and don’t need your help.

[@youtubeshadowbannedmylasta2629]

gotta love that equality ladies. or else lol.

[@infamousduke1455]

This guy gets it 😂

[@lilfairycupcake]

exactly. i ignore all of them.

[@Hutch_Davenport]

Female to male translation: I belong to the streets and now no one wants me and I have kids from the same arseholes who got the best of what I have to offer, then moved on and now lucky you can clean up the leftovers and raise some Chad's kids. Yay, sloppy seconds in the most permanent of forms. I don't think they understand what they are asking of men after crapping on those same men during her prime years.

[@BabyRastasaurus]

Well not all women choose this, but I see why men are seeing that more than good women. It's just like us seeing the idiots more than good men.

[@georgeblair3894]

To suggest that "society" isn't "doing enough", especially in the USA, is delusional.

[@theequalizer9154]

It is a blatant lie. There is no end to such pity seeking women.

[@Maniacman2030]

Oh, it isn't us they need to convince. It's gaslighting for ignorant normies and simps, because they know there's more of them than there are of us. For those who actually do believe it and aren't just manipulating, it isn't enough for THEM.

[@Sketch_Sesh]

“Society” is doing far worse by enabling and funding degeneracy

[@markmccullough5873]

Society just doesn't do enough for her to enjoy an upper middle class lifestyle.

[@NiaLaLa_V]

yeah I live in washington state. When mothers find out I have no kids, I would say probably 80% or more of them start "teaching" me how to have kids for money because our state has tons of help for single parents. They have babies for government assistance. It is so sick. I chose to not have kids because of my disabilities, and they chose to have kids because cash? Women are awful.

[@gxr7777]

So should childless women pay for a single dad's with kids rent?

[@cre8ors1]

Trust me, after you pay her rent the next quick step will be how come somebody doesn't buy me a car or pay for me to take a vacation. It will never be enough nor will it ever end.

[@iati6294]

My wife has a twin sister. But her sister has 3 kids, from 2 different dads and is a single mom. She’s broke and now doesn’t even resemble my wife at all.

[@1234kingconan]

Never paid and never will

[@jjp0707]

So she gets knocked-up by some lowlife thug and she wants society to pay her cash money for her foolish decisions. Hell no!

[@Simoss13]

Are you asking her to take accountability for her poor life choices and suffer the consequences? This is the Western World you are talking about where being a female and victim is celebrated by law not condemned

[@theequalizer9154]

When you really think about it, her situation is funny😅😅😅

[@disenfranchised2.073]

We all already pay for it.

[@jjp0707]

@@disenfranchised2.073 not directly

[@jjp0707]

@@Simoss13 only celebrated by imbeciles

[@USMC6976]

A church I attended about 25 years ago, took a collection up for a single mother. She was behind on rent and other debt. They gave her $750. She went on vacation for a week. When confronted with not using it to catch up her rent, she said that people had no right to tell her how to spend "her" money. So if you want help, be sure not to abuse it, otherwise that help is going to dry up.

[@kmilli0313]

Amazing….and that was 25 years ago and women have only gotten more entitled since then! Crazy

[@USMC6976]

@@kmilli0313 nothing is new under the sun.

[@daviddrabick9018]

Incredible. The only reason why people gave her that money- which she understood perfectly well- is because of her claim to need it for rent. She lied. She lied, and had her excuse ready. She planned it all in advance. That's why people are wiser to offer specific items like diapers, formula, and food- not money. If money, record the transaction and agree on the terms of repayment. It is a test of the authenticity of those asking for help. Are they deserving of a boost, or do they want their incompetence subsidized and rewarded? By their works- including their behaviour- ye shall know them. Those that gratefully receive help always want to help others when they can, because they know what it is like to struggle. I've been there. I know. I'm grateful. Christians were counseled by Jesus to be wise. This makes caring about others a merit, not a way to be exploited. It's a shame that people can be dishonest and untrustworthy, but how do we discern between truth and falsehood, unless we experience them?

[@w8stral]

Why you NEVER give money to someone. If you are going to USE your money to "help" you WALK it to the "need" without it EVER touching the person being "helped" hands. That is our Church's policy. That and has classes for those who need "help" on how to live their life...

[@daviddrabick9018]

@@w8stral Very wise, since a lack of budgeting skills are a major part of the problem...handing over more money, without any conditions or budgeting skills, makes the situation worse. Specfic help for specific needs is indeed the best way Continual handouts- not just for survival's sake, but as a lifestyle- teach and reinforce bad habits; as with other creatures, it damages real-life abilities and skills.

[@ABQSentinel]

So, let me get this straight; a single mom--the very symbol of a strong, empowered, don't-need-no-man feminist, is e-begging for someone to pay her rent. I'm trying to see the part where this is "stunning and brave."

[@gertexan]

Well, the problem is you don´t understand "womanese". It makes perfect sense in the empty space between her ears.

[@anotherunknownpoet1162]

If a single dad asked us to pay his rent, I would feel shame for him. I can't imagine asking another man for money.

[@jonjacobjingleheimerschmid3798]

Imagine how much gall. ....( Stunning and brave). You'd have to be to even ask for such!!!!

[@sergeipohkerova7211]

If a man asked for free money, he would be correctly told to get a fucking damned job and work to solve his own problem. But of course, women can't be treated like actual, functioning adults.

[@ABQSentinel]

@@anotherunknownpoet1162 Exactly, because we don't. I am a single father, having lost my wife to cancer. It never even occurred to me to ask anyone for help. I took care of my family before my wife died, and I will continue to do so. Men solve problems; we don't fall apart at the first sign of adversity.

[@mikelmeadows6254]

I was attending a small church. The sermon was about giving and receiving with the proper attitude. The pastor spoke about giving to widows and orphans and then said "and everyone knows that includes single mothers right " Myself and another member both blurted out. No it doesn't. We became great friends

[@thepackable]

Sound logic. The widow and the orphan didn't choose their fate. But 9/10 chances the single mother did.

[@carlrood4457]

It's almost like bitching on TikTok ISN'T the best way to provide for your kids.

[@andrederosier6458]

Taylor, once upon a time you would assume a single mom was a widow. Now everyone just assumes they are 304s and are correct 99.99% of the time. Society is fucked.

[@kevinobrien3888]

As Just Pearly Things says… Women used to just chase the bad boys. Now they have their kids.

[@icecold9511]

Literally

[@SoySlayer-im7fd]

Wow

[@genek8630]

How to avoid any of this heartache, never ever bother with a single mother. You will always be second-class.

[@Maniacman2030]

Any Men below a 6 figure income is second-class. Any working class Man is second-class. Not just to Women, but society in general.

[@siunami6432]

You come third, after the kid and her

[@tjhookit]

Especially if she has daughters.

[@laptopdragon]

agree but we will not even be close to 2nd class...more like 5th class, behind herself, her ex, her favorite pet, then her kids...then, the food delivery guys and maybe, if you're lucky, you can bask in her greatness and finance everything to stay on her good side....no thanks.

[@tobias6013]

Actually you're third class... because the child/children come before you.

[@matthewschalow161]

Be a responsible adult and pay your own damn rent. Ladies, you're not a victim of circumstance. You're a product of your decisions.

[@shanewilfon6860]

This ho should go to non western country where moms and kids are in street begging for anything like Philippines so glad I had hindsight to be a passport bro 20 years ago before it was a thing❤

[@simhess9720]

How dare you!!! 😂👍

[@OxyBrodone]

Keeping that aspirin between those knees is free

[@everdash]

Translation: "WHY WONT MEN RESCUE ME FROM THE CONSEQUENCES OF MY OWN ACTIONS?!"

[@Mikedegot]

There's a lot of dads out there that are supporting their adult daughters because she rejected his advice and standards when she was being raised. It's very hard for a man to just cut off his little girl no matter how many mistakes she makes. I know some single moms that are living in houses they couldn't afford, their fathers helped them so that his daughter and grandkids wouldn't be struggling to find a place to live. Ladies, when your dad disapproves of your choice in guys, there's usually a good reason. Trust his judgement.

[@JackieSkellington]

oh, yeah, so many single parents couldn't make it without their parents or an auntie or 4

[@HKST51R]

The entitlement with the first one is STRONG. No one owes her anything. She made the choices which lead to the position she's in now, deal with the consequences. People aren't obligated to save her from the consequences of her actions

[@Matt-iz8wf]

What do women want? More!

[@danielmocsny5066]

True, but she's not responsible for the religious brainwashing she probably was force-fed growing up, which likely led her to have sex without birth control, since religion has likely screwed up her thinking about sex, even while the Sexual Revolution won the contest decades ago and virtually everybody has sex now when they get a nice opportunity. In a just world, people who get screwed up by the lies of religion should be able to sue the religious hucksters who profit by preaching those lies. Granted, some people can overcome their childhood brainwashing, but religions engage in the grooming of children because it tends to work.

[@455buick6]

@@Matt-iz8wf Yeah more cash and prizes because I'm a queen and deserve to be pampered for life😬

[@videohut4445]

They want to be rescued. They need to wake up and rescue themselves. Stay away from women like these guys. They are damaged goods. Th

[@homersimpleton3044]

​@@Matt-iz8wfWhen do they want it?! NOW!!!!!!!!!1!

[@schrodingersmechanic7622]

"Christian" single mother. Where's your husband?

[@sergeipohkerova7211]

Working all day, paying for her home, food, Healthcare, and boyfriend. Little to none of his money will be spent on the kids, who she doesn't give a damn about.

[@Npc1488-wc1kf]

Single mother means NOT CHRISTIANS

[@scotthansen9081]

Dating a real Christian woman!😂😂😂

[@sirtango1]

@1:04 He admits that HE gave her that title and in retrospect doesn’t believe she is a Christian. That being said women (and men) take an oath before God In marriage. The “till death do us part, in sickness and health, for richer or poorer” parts seen to escape their memories. Now they want a divorce at the drop of a hat! Not many people, especially women, take their vows seriously. Now it’s just until I’m not happy and want half of his stuff!

[@schrodingersmechanic7622]

@sirtango1 til divorce do we part

[@Forgiven156]

I can’t believe I just saw a woman more ungrateful than I even could imagine they could be

[@theequalizer9154]

Oh, there are a lot, lot more than this one.

[@rottenanimal619]

Have you ever met a grateful woman?

[@sergeipohkerova7211]

​@@rottenanimal619I have seen a woman accept a fancy handbag from her well meaning husband that he saved over six months for, and less than ten minutes after her fake gratitude she's already berating him for something else. Good news is he dumped her and is doing well now, while she's old, fat, broke, and alone. LOL

[@Maniacman2030]

​​@@rottenanimal619I grew up with four sisters and let me tell you, any thanks you get is simply being polite and then later throwing it back in your face, as if what you did for or gave them, you were obligated to do so by bringing up some old as fck grudge that is downright r-tarded in hindsight. There will always be an excuse for them to never pay it forward after you helped them out. Even a request so simple as help moving something.

[@rottenanimal619]

@@sergeipohkerova7211 I'm 66 and never married. I'm tall, good looking, worked in high tech and made good money. I had many girlfriends and they wanted to marry me as their retirement package. I knew what they wanted and turned the tables and used them for my s3xual pleasure. I always mentioned prenup and they all got angry. When they got too yappy, I dumped them and got another one. Women are greedy, selfish and have no appreciation for what a man does for her. I will not risk all my hard work and struggle I did to get what I have. I will not marry a woman for access to her holes. Stay single brother.

[@PatI-zg9gm]

She did something “small”. Small could mean a variety of things, such as texting her ex, carousing with her single friends, and posting bikini pics online. You know, small things.

[@OldGuy555]

The most critical point in maturity is the realization of the difference between need and want.

[@lunam7249]

wisdom...read the lords prayer..."i shall not want"....if your starving for 30 days, you "want" food.... desire for a helicopter is a desire, not even a need..in the prayer it says. you shall not "want"....."wanting" is in itself a sin....😂😳

[@m.b.boyack2228]

"No Diapers, just Cash and enough to pay my Rent, thanks!" The audacity and entitlement of these people.

[@chuck8094]

My sister, the single mother, joined a church to get free stuff. She was still the 304 who got pregnant at 13, but she learned how to work the state and the church.

[@kittystanby4686]

Sounds like your parents failed her big time.

[@marktwain2053]

​@@kittystanby4686 Maybe, but with proper upbringing, the government may well step in and punish you in various ways.

[@Maniacman2030]

​@@marktwain2053Not just the government. Even just the girls around her influenced what she did and your parents couldn't intervene in anything she didn't tell them. We all know about teenaged girls, their peer pressure, social hierarchy, and secrets. Sometimes your parents can only do so much to mitigate unrefined female behavior.

[@dredgengam4610]

​@@Maniacman2030That's sadly very true. You can only do so much as a parent, it really depends on the type of person the child is. You can be a great parent and your son/daughter still has a chance to become a loser...

[@YouD0ntSay]

​@@dredgengam4610 I've observed that too. Another observation was that the teens who got themselves into these messes were never amongst the brighter candles on the chandelier.

[@ajaxfernsby4078]

Rent for a month?! Don’t sell yourself short. Why not rent for a year? A lifetime. Better yet, a house! A car, a boat, travel expenses, an original Faberge egg, a personal trainer, a pair of Cavalier King Charles Spaniels. What I’m saying is aim for the stars! Your a single Mother! Now climb up on that throne and finish your Christmas list for Santa.

[@ozsteamer2755]

*The throne she's occupying looks like: 🚽*

[@timrankin8737]

You could give them the world. Anything they want. Still not enough. They want the entire milky way galaxy. Amd still wont be happy.

[@brookesmith810hoediaries5]

@@timrankin8737Yes, ask Jeff Bezos.

[@lilfairycupcake]

take take take take, me me me me, mine........

[@moksja667]

Faberge egg.... 😂👊

[@m12345ft]

It’s always he broke up with me for no reason or he’s a narcissist. Never underestimate a woman’s ability to rationalize, bad behavior, and avoid all accountability. They don’t love, they use.

[@thorpminister494]

Classic! Women don't love they use. Wow! So true! A very sad commentary on the female gender. Women don't give a shit about anyone else except their own selfish agenda. Men beware!

[@arminvaresanovic7961]

Something tells me that a man who offers her money and a relationship will soon be labeled as "controlling" and "boring".

[@danw9865]

Chad and Tyrone already made the impact on your lives ladies! It's not another guys job to clean up your mess. Your choices, your consequences. Enjoy!

[@kevinobrien3888]

I think that’s been the biggest reason and biggest turn off for me as I’m 8 years single and 52yrs old now… I’m not her first choice, but she’ll make it seem like I’m the best she’s ever had so she’s taken care of. It’s sad.

[@mark7s980]

If you can't afford your kid, to the point you're begging for help, maybe you should consider surrendering the kid for adoption. Can't do much worse in the foster system than being raised by a single mother. BTW, Cloth diapers! Cheap and reusable. P.S Ever notice you don't see single fathers begging for aide or sympathy?

[@NostyFripples]

A child raise by a single mother is 70% more likely to be incarcerated

[@nexusdrop7863]

Kids are a payday to modern women. They get a whole bunch of benefits and sympathy. It's not like they care about the kids.

[@moose6869]

​@@NostyFripplesthe likelihood is even worse than foster care in regards to that lol

[@elgatochurro]

theyd be mocked for trying, its only acceptable if a womans involved

[@paulmorissette5863]

Medical experiments...

[@GrumpyCat-mw5xl]

If she didn’t have children she would still have to pay her rent. So why does she think people should pay her rent just because she has children?

[@daviddrabick9018]

Yes, seems liike she regards her offspring as leverage for her to get free stuff, and resents the focus not being on her...disgusting.

[@katyb6979]

Yip. It’s playing on most people’s weakness - to have pity for children. Except it’s virtue signalling, cos if you had genuine concerns for children, you’d demand the Epstein list was investigated!!

[@waywarddrifter677]

It will never cease to amaze me how they can just ask for so much with a straight face as if you were holding onto their stuff all along. It's like that old tale, if you give a mouse a cookie, then he'll want a glass of milk.

[@rkgaustin]

If you paid her rent she would complain you're not paying her utilities also. If you also paid her utilities she'd complain you're not also paying for her kid's healthcare. It's never enough. If you paid everything for her and she could lie on the couch all day eating bon-bons while being serviced by hot guys she would complain that the guys could be hotter and you're not feeding her the bon-bons.

[@HonkHonkler]

BOTH men left? Yep, SHE'S the problem. The second man might be more over-emotional, but if HE keeps being the one to break up with YOU multiple times, YOU'RE the problem. But also half simp who's pu$$y-whipped. I agree with Tyler. Husband left and the emotional simp KEEPS breaking up with her. She's the problem.

[@me8751]

If she can't afford her rent, it's her own fault. A- find a cheaper place, B- "settle" for an average man with more stability, C- sell feet (or other) pics.. I have no sympathy for women's financial issues.

[@13Sarim]

Sell feet (or other ) pics 😅😅

[@theoverunderthinker]

I like the inclusion of C- the most! 🏆

[@theoverunderthinker]

@@Autisticwanderer actually I meant as an option women take. I have no particular love for feet; if I have it too, there's no mystery! so not ashy elbows either! 😂😂

[@awshi4369]

bro slipped C in for his collection

[@lunam7249]

b. would never ever happen, the gigachad has to be 9.8/10+ face...

[@unholys1gma159]

Going to bed alone makes me smile because I know there’s one less woman out there not getting their bills paid

[@cervix7667]

😁

[@TravisRhettWilson]

😂😂😂👍👍👍

[@lashanda8977]

😊

[@bones549]

First as a kid, my dad was disabled vet & mom had 6th grade education. I remember the church bringing Christmas presents an loved them and saved at the same time. I was still grateful. It did drive me to be successful and never be that way.

[@maxnum1sgameclub263]

The less you have early in life the more you appreciate later in life!

[@bethmbam4848]

Why would you bring a baby into the mix if you can’t even afford your own rent. The nerve of some women.

[@Jhihmoac]

_"Christian Single Mother"_ ... How I just fall off my chair in laughter with that one! 🤣

[@kevinobrien3888]

Shush. She’s a born again virgin now.

[@gregh2880]

Yeah, my now EX "very Christian wife" totally surprised me with the divorce notice. No discussions. No counseling. Just gone. 2 years later she's broke, and depressed.

[@christopherphillips2708]

Didn't see your comments, but I had the same reaction. This is a joke.

[@ozsteamer2755]

*She's saying because she's a single mother so she's entitled to his money, time and resources... to raise Someone Else's child* And all the guys are running out of her life as fast as they can? *_Gee, I cannot understand why us guys aren't lining up to be r0bbed and h@ted_* It's a mystery to me

[@Stoogie]

Being a mom is a privilege, why should we give you more privilege for being privileged?

[@Npc1488-wc1kf]

👑

[@kittystanby4686]

That is about the dumbest thing I’ve heard today.

[@Maniacman2030]

Being a FEMALE is a privilege. Being a Single Mother puts them on a slightly higher pedestal and we're just supposed to go along with it. I mean, it's not like we aren't already buttfcked by taxes to pay for their bstrds as it is... Oh wait.

[@komocakeps527]

Oh, I heard you like privilege, so I privileged your privilege in your privileged privilege to privilege the privilege of the privileged privilege until we can't privilege any more privilege.

[@Mohawk_Productions]

@@komocakeps527did you give away some of my privilege so she could have some more privileges

[@KelliRocks]

This is why the Superhero Single Mother trope is so dangerous. Women are becoming single mother's by choice and once they have it, they realize that all those voices cheering them on are not willing to help. Only have children for a man that you wish to STAY married. One child can send you from middle class to poverty.

[@jjr1728]

Precisely. It's so sad to see nordic sisters and brothers ruining their marriages and lives.

[@lashanda8977]

Perfectly stated.

[@shadowraider964]

Exactly but this is what they wanted they already tax us to support them so who cares 😂

[@mpa8336]

But I don't WANT To make a significant impact on a single mother's life... I want to live a peaceful life, free of drama. I like peace. Tranquillity. I'm understanding why there are so many Buddhist monasteries, Sufi organizations, Christian monasteries, Native American Vision Quests, and other activities that men engage in solo. Peace is so addictive, and fun.

[@sergeipohkerova7211]

She can easily, EASILY get SNAP benefits, WIC, free Section 8 housing, plus all the other freebies that moms get from the [overwhelmingly male] taxpayer. If anything, she should be paying US.

[@nexusdrop7863]

She most likely has them. She just want more and better.

[@kittystanby4686]

Wow so you know her income? Women pay taxes, too. Limp.

[@kittystanby4686]

You must not know how hard it is to get snap. Also, if I’ve paid into the system my whole working life and I need temporary help, there’s no shame in asking for it. This coming from someone who isn’t in any support except what she makes through work.

[@codydavis1698]

@@kittystanby4686 a XX telling men they don't know how hard getting SNAP is? Stay quiet, you aren't really even welcome in the MANospere. Additionally; Who asked?

[@shanewilfon6860]

She's not the right shade

[@juandedioslanderos1353]

....but i DON'T want to make an impact on a single mom's life.

[@Chad_Hart]

Never under estimate the entitlement of a single mother

[@the_track_enthusiast]

“ help us by paying rent, electric bill, or day care for a month “!?!?!?!!!

[@OldGuy555]

If you ask this woman how much do you want, her only answer is "More, more, MORE!"

[@michaelp5511]

I feel bad for the people that worked hard and donated their money. Some of these women haven't worked or lived a single day in the real world and understand how money works.

[@bigbob3772]

Foolish people DO make me pay- and we are sick of it. Ex- a dummy goes diving off of cliffs, gets stuck- and taxpayers have to pay for the 'rescue team helicopters etc, ex2 drug addicts get addicted, start stealing and doing other crime, taxpayers and private companies pay- and in the end WE pay, ex3 drunk driver kills a family, the family suffers, insurance pays- and WE pay again, ex4, girl gets prego by the bad boy- WE now pay for her raising a criminal/stripper, welfare, sec 8, food stamps, etc etc etc. @ConontheBinarian Foolish behavior hurts EVERYONE.

[@steveouk90126]

Jim pays the bills until he realizes she's wasting his money. He leaves, and she moves on to Bob. After him she brings her sob story to Larry. Rinse and repeat; and all the while she's on WIC, Food Stamps, Section 8, _et al._

[@bobbyhumphrey199]

If only fake purses came stocked full of food and tattoos were scannable for income

[@nickolasgenoff4896]

@@steveouk90126 👍👍👍

[@craigmartinj]

Gosh a woman wants MOAR free stuff while offering absolutely nothing in return while shitting on anything she has gotten for free because it wasn't enough in her eyes. I may faint.

[@HouseMusicNinja]

How many of these single mothers that demand we "step up, be a man and help them" were once childless vvomen who walked out or ignored a good man or men who needed them when the chips were down like losing a job or having some type of family complication or setback and they ran away to Chad(s) the second they were needed? Love and relationships are a two way street, and since they don't know that, the only place they belong is the streets.

[@kekin4562]

Pretty funny you call love a two way street then say she belongs there. Heh heh heh

[@ShaunHensley]

Each and every one of them

[@adamschrader328]

@@kekin4562 Do you hear the Men raising children crying for help?

[@HouseMusicNinja]

​​@@kekin4562 I mean they chose to be passed around by a bunch of Chad's with zero commitment instead of trying to make a life with a good guy who cared about her so yeah, she chose to forsake a healthy happy relationship and chose being for the community. A decade later with kids is way too late to demand a good man.

[@Forgiven156]

Vvomen do not care and have no loyalty. None zip zero. Then have the audacity to expect everything

[@MikeKelsoJr]

Married 2 single mothers in my life treated like garbage !! staying single !!

[@Hamrik_Oswald]

Being a mother, single or otherwise, is a choice, NOT an affliction.

[@theequalizer9154]

Gentleman, also be aware that some women claim to be a widow. I knew a woman who would tell men that her husband passed, and he was the only man she had ever been with. I knew this woman for a while, and the facts are: -Her husband, who did pass away, she was divorced from for twenty years, and he had remarried 15 years before his passing. -As far as her husband being the only man she had ever been with, she had two children with him, and two children before her marriage, from two different men. -This woman neglected to tell men she has met that she is presently married. Her 2nd husband unaware of her dating while married. The 2nd husband found out, and left her. So, Gentleman, beware.

[@bigbob3772]

A woman will selectively give you facts that make her look good in the best possible light- she will NEVER give you the whole truth- NOT EVER.

[@XxGyromancerXx]

Be leery of those claiming to be separated as well.

[@carlrogers1412]

I would never ever believe a woman or a widow as in this case. All of them are lying! All! What about my mother? She's a long suffering saint! All! No exception!

[@theequalizer9154]

@@carlrogers1412 How interesting and somewhat humorous that you brought up the statement of, "What about my mother?" I have had, "problem bound women" use that as a tactic stating, "Would you say the same of your mother?". I would respond with, 'In fact, my mother warned me about women like you'.

[@Lenny_Hondo]

Women lie? What!? Thanks for the heads up.....

[@theequalizer9154]

Beware the damsel in distress, and the self proclaimed struggling mom.

[@misternobody9801]

If she can’t take care of her kids then the father should get custody. These default lotto win divorce laws for women need an overhaul.

[@Forgiven156]

Problem is Chad or Tyrone probably doesn’t want to be tied down with his own kid. He’s got other vvomen to make kids with that betas are going to be expected to take care of

[@kevinobrien3888]

The state awards custody and “support” to women for the sole reason to keep the state from supporting her. It’s that simple. The man will bear the burden. Men pay women for the past use of pussy - Tom Leykis

[@FlowerGurl64]

When I was a single mom I worked 3 jobs to make ends meet. I never expected or even thought to ask a man I was dating to pay my rent. I don’t get where these women’s mind is at.

[@NickDrinksWater]

Dating is not even about love and commitment anymore, it's basically a business transaction for the girl

[@jjp0707]

There’s lots of things these women can do to get money and pay their own bills: wash cars, wash dishes, clean houses, waitress, etc…but they’re too lazy and just want free stuff.

[@user-kcrpine]

Sure, they could do those things but why bother? Such menial jobs are for lowly men. She’d rather effectively sell it to a wealthy man but unfortunately for her she’s devalued herself to the point none want her anymore. Hence the anger…. Because it’s men’s fault we don’t want her. They’re just perpetual victims of the patriarchy, you know…

[@455buick6]

And possibly break an expensive nail, you should probably seek help 😂🤣🤦

[@sergeipohkerova7211]

All of that interferes with their exhausting career of getting up at noon, tweeting, ordering off grubhub, and whoriiing on Tinder.

[@jjp0707]

@@sergeipohkerova7211 so true

[@Maniacman2030]

I'm ashamed of one of my own siblings. She does exactly this, plays woe is me bs and demands money from family as if anyone is obliged to do anything for her. Then if you refuse, she gaslights and insults, because we all know burning bridges works so well convincing others to give you what you want. Then you point out her hypocrisy and she calls YOU the narcissist. She even made a DV call against her own husband, who wasn't even there because he wasn't paying attention to her.

[@HonkHonkler]

Both ladies *WEARING PINK...* Barbie has made things SOOO much worse.

[@jamesa9004]

"When I do something small, he flips a switch.".. spoken like a true bipolar or borderline. She probably had an episode and he reacted, but now she's calm and telling her side. Happens ALL the time.

[@erikhermansen3431]

I've never a woman that doesn't occasionally flip out over tiny things. You can always tell it's something else that's really bothering them.

[@Scott45fl12345]

100%

[@rogerdaly6326]

It never occurred to her that maybe she's doing things to make him check her. Women will test a man to see what they will be able to get away with , if he doesn't check her she will see it as a green light to do whatever she wants knowing he'll forgive her & take her back.

[@gamer61701]

He probably found a dating app on her phone or noticed that her fish hole smelled like latex after being out with the girls one night.

[@Wiganpilot]

Give them nothing because you owe them nothing.

[@notmyname3883]

#2 is whining about being taken to hawaii and "left" there with her daughters. BUT, she says one or more of said daughters go to college IN HAWAII. So, the guy said, I've had enough, I'm leaving. Mama had a return ticket already, so it's no big deal. It's just a plane ride alone back to the mainland. It's not like he took you out in the middle of the ocean in a boat and said "put out or get out" and left you floating on a plank of wood. Just the missing facts from her story tell us who the real problem is, right fellows? You know it is she, right?

[@carlrood4457]

Also note her own words: HE TOOK them to Hawaii. Her, her daughters, and SOME FRIENDS. Flight and hotel is a HUGE amount of money and she pissed him off to the point he paid to rebook his flight to get away from her. He "messed with her daughters' happiness" because he left them behind in Hawaii for the planned duration of their trip!? Unless he made a boss move like checking out of the hotel, he didn't do anything and is probably still footing the bill.

[@aquious953]

Abusive is a subjective term in relationships today. It could mean: he didn't do what I wanted.

[@kevinobrien3888]

It also means he was blunt and as (verbally) subtle as a freight train. He said things she didn’t like… the truth.

[@jai-one2691]

This is nuts. " Date me to pay my rent. Marry me to pay the mortgage on the house I'll take in the divorce " As for single moms, if you have to give, seek other the Red Cross or Goodwill. At least you know where the money is going.

[@DefineHatespeech]

red cross pockets the money too. Never ever give to red cross. It’s been a scam for years.

[@bigbob3772]

Try the Salvation Army.

[@MH-yx1pv]

I have experienced this first hand. I met single mothers who see men as placeholders or haven of safety with ZERO concern for the man. I believe they think men were put on earth to save them, forget his dreams, wishes or anything. Just shut up and pay my bills!!!

[@kobki66]

red cross xDDD u nailed it

[@Killswitch1411]

No one is paying your freaking rent.. How about some accountability.

[@cheriecrettol1620]

I was a single mom and worked two jobs to help provide. My ex was diagnosed with a Personality Disorder so no child support. I survived it. We as women need to wise up to this notion of getting too involved too fast. P.S. Cloth diapers are cheaper

[@EddieCCanegetitin]

Let me guess he was a narcissis?

[@Enelfm]

@Eddie noo he was the best guy and dad and took ownership of his half of things 💯

[@deusvult6632]

If you keep your legs shut you'll never be surprised by an unwanted child

[@Enelfm]

@deusvult6632 yea and your lizard locked in your pants 👖 tooo ... BOTH sexes need to CHILL OUT. I think guys could say no and deny women. Or take responsibility for their bodies if they don't want kids like doing medical procedures.. LEAVE women blaming and shaming OUT of it .. grow up.

[@joediblasio1846]

The second woman made my head hurt... The best relationship she was ever in, how many relationships was she in if she was a Christian but he treated her like crap... Please make it make sense...

[@yehmon12]

The church can be the best and worst place to find a partner. You must be careful everywhere, especially in the church, because people wear masks in broad daylight.

[@kevinobrien3888]

Born again virgins are a problem.

[@johnsmith-ht3sy]

Churches are full of Jezzabells.

[@pwalker1360]

Single mothers had a choice, and they keep screaming and moaning about how 'men' want to 'take it away.' Now that you had the kid, the kid is your problem, not mine.

[@bobbyscalchi4013]

They love using the fathers as a built in baby sitter with the custody so they can go to the spa and go w#oring around.

[@tetedur377]

It's like the bum outside of a restaurant, begging for money because he's hungry. So, being kind-hearted, you offer to buy him lunch, only to have him turn it down.

[@Brookspirit]

Pay your rent? Why? What does the man get for his hard-earned money?

[@Kastigatr]

paying attention to how the second woman described the "little things" that would "trigger" the dude she was dating, she was definitely downplaying doing the sort of things that violated the guy's boundaries. In essence, she was sh3t-testing him, and he'd pass by kicking her to the curb. She'd always come back because deep down, she wanted to be put in her place and to deal with a man with self respect. She was not a victim, she was a volunteer

[@PatI-zg9gm]

Yes, once you decipher their sneaky codes of communication, you know the deal. “Small” means he caught her texting a dude while they were in Oahu.

[@thedalillama]

The last American woman I dated was an S tester. I unfortunately accepted the first two tests. I left a vacation on the third test.

[@MAte925]

It's simple ; single mothers are in no position to be making demands > re. Blokes!

[@OverRuledAgain]

Imagine someone actually pays a monthly rent. Will the woman then ask for someone to buy her a house?

[@kevinobrien3888]

Everything in life is an exchange for mutual benefit. Okay… I’ll pay your rent, but now you’re my employee. You’re going to owe me something for sure. Or something’s.

[@punknoodles0]

"If you want to help a single mom, subsidize her bad choices" FTFH

[@KarlBertyn]

OH MY GOD, this blond lady has the nerve to ask for help because shes a single mother. WOW. shes so entitled, she actually thinks were gonna pay for her mistakes.

[@endofexistence]

I don't really wanna make an impact on a single mom's life. Thanks for the advice. Typed before Taylor even said it lol.

[@danc1897]

I am a Christian. Jesus said that divorce is ONLY allowed for Christians if your partner was unfaithful. According to Jesus there is NO other permitted reason for divorce. However, if you were adulterous in a marriage and remarry then your new partner is also now guilty of adultery.

[@1230mkelly]

Leviticus 21:13 or nothing at all for me.

[@roggie77777]

​@@1230mkellywow I never knew that. I just looked it up. All the best

[@jonjacobjingleheimerschmid3798]

@@Naturalcorpse as someone that's not xain....that's some crazy sh@t their peddling!!!

[@kevinobrien3888]

That’s not historically accurate. I’m not trying to be an A-Hole but there were 2 camps in rabbinic Judaism in biblical times and they had different ideas over divorce. You are only describing one of the two sides.

[@cookncrook6902]

Yep. I’m 38 never been married. I’m guilty of having out of wedlock relations. However I’ve never met a woman worthy of marriage I want marriage and to have a family but that’s a pipe dream. Unlikely to ever happen

[@snarl3027]

I’m always have to rewind to make sure I heard this delusional hubris correctly. The audacity and lack of self awareness never ceases to amaze me.

[@christinebeames712]

Judge Judy says “ if you can’t feed em ,DONT BREED EM “!

[@ferdonandebull]

When some woman says “a real man does…” It means save me I don’t bring anything to the table and I don’t want to put up with my choices..

[@iw_legendary_sayain2215]

These women nowadays are basically marrying themselves with “me, myself & I”

[@jerryholbrook13]

You noticed that too huh? Yeah me too. Damn shame

[@kengaroo5170]

Every sentence is about how I, me, and my feelings and emotions feel to me.

[@DG123z]

If a guy says all his exs are crazy, then people say, "what's the common denominator", implying it's the man who is bad, but when a girl says all her exs are narcissists, people agree that just all men are bad. Could it be, perhaps, if this keeps happening to you lady, that maybe it's YOU that's doing something wrong? Maybe just maybe? 🤔

[@kevinobrien3888]

Women find 80% of men unattractive and they love the drama and butterflies the hot guys bring.

[@cookncrook6902]

All my exes were crazy. Modern women aren’t worth a damn. Two were abusive and falsely accused (1 accusation of grape and the other accusation of domestic abuse, guilty of neither), one became a stripper during our relationship, one committed suicide and I found her body. I’m about done with women tbh

[@DG123z]

@@cookncrook6902 I'm sorry you went through that.

[@jarodjohnson6630]

​@@cookncrook6902sorry for your lose. My deepest apologies for asking this but why did she self-delete? The reason i'm asking is because it is rare for women to actually carry out this act, but it more common for them to attempt with hopes of not completing it (unusually for attention)

[@artawhirler]

I once talked to a young woman who said that her goals in life were to "have babies and travel the world". I told her that she should probably pick one of those and stick with it. 😅

[@josephberrie9550]

thats the childish nonsense that a contestant on miss world would say... back in the day

[@marty906]

Exactly... they want to go straight to retirement.

[@dpeagles]

52 years old. No one has ever paid a bill for me.

[@bobbarker9556]

If she had money She would not pays for someone else’s rent

[@richardbullwood5941]

So if a woman makes bad decisions, and has children with a guy she's not married to, I'm supposed to pay her rent?

[@kevinobrien3888]

Yes. Now pay up sucka.

[@simhess9720]

And her health insurance also.😂

[@laughsinmisogyny8827]

Hol'up wayment, she complaining about the people that gave THEIR resources to help her wanting a pat on the back, while simultaneously expecting praise and sympathy for being an irresponsible single parent? WOW

[@disenfranchised2.073]

No wonder why she's a single mother eh?

[@laughsinmisogyny8827]

@@disenfranchised2.073 That guy had no choice but to leave, she is insufferable, needy and unappreciative.

[@theoverunderthinker]

whenever a sentence contains "...but if you really want to make an impact...." nothing unselfish is coming after that. run... just run!

[@stanhankins3175]

Oh queen !! You are strong and independent and a boss babe / single mother!!!! Oh you QUEEN !!!!😂😂😂😂😊

[@Rabbi_Rabbs]

She takes her kids to Hawaii, gets that dude to pay for all of them. She then makes the entire vacation about her kids, focuses 99% of her attention on them, while throwing him some 1% scraps. She's probably so exhausted from running around in the humid sun with her kids that she's too pooped at night to even do the one reason he invited her. He finally can't stand how much she's controlling him, and using his money for her kids which is the only thing she cares about, so he leaves. Yet, they continue their vacation that he's still paying for, because her kids need that happiness. And then she complains that he's the one controlling. Do I have that right? Am I missing anything? Do we even need to hear his side of the story?

[@kevinobrien3888]

I think you nailed that situation 100%. Now that she “has been taken care of” she’s going to redirect her energy, attention and time to her kinds since she thought she had him “locked in”. Actually he likely told her to kick rocks because she’s ungrateful.

[@kyleanuar9090]

Exactly my assumption.

[@brookesmith810hoediaries5]

Wow, you sound so needy. (thats what a woman would say if you said this to them)

[@carlrogers1412]

Not your kids? Stay the f away! You f ing betas!

[@lunam7249]

not even got to sniff the stale panty's.....

[@jetrink8210]

i find it hard to think a guy would call you names and threaten to dump you because you did something small. could that small thing be he caught you texting other dudes on your phone?

[@kevinobrien3888]

That’s a very likely event. I’m sure she was taking his money, energy, attention and time for granted because she thought she’d locked him in with sex. He saw the rouse and bounced.

[@edwardroecker6015]

How many couples want a child, but for whatever reason can't? Problem solved.

[@cookncrook6902]

They want their own children. Not another couples child 😂

[@mr_ice117]

Good lord im embarrassed to say im in the same situation. She sounds exactly like my ex, i break up with her over and over and she wont leave. I blow up at the smallest things because with her its always more and more and more, the can you do a favor never ever ends. She brings nothing valuable into my life, all i get from her is entitlement, headaches and liabilities.. so i can feel the dudes pain even if i haven't heard his side of the story. But hes right, i should have the self respect to fully kick her out my life

[@deusvult6632]

Yes, you should. If the sex is good just pay her in half hour increments.

[@chemicalmix]

That first girl is the absolute epitome of everything that is wrong with our species.

[@gregorygarcia6542]

I get the feeling that if somebody did pay a month's rent for that first single mom her attitude would be "It's about time!" Like Homer Simpson entering Alaska and getting paid for being there.

[@paulmorissette5863]

If someone pays for a month, he will be sued for eternal support.

[@paulgodin1522]

Yeah it is very sad that people can't be appreciative for what people are willing to sacrifice and instead complain that it is not better. I can spare some money for diapers or something else to help someone in need instead of going to the pub or something else. I can't afford to be out paying rent for people when I can barely afford my own. When is it ever enough? If I paid your rent you would just ask for a new car or something else. Just be grateful whenever someone helps you out when you're down.

[@timrankin8737]

They love moving the goal posts around. That way they never have to acknowledge there thankful for anything u do for them. Been there done that. NEVER again.

[@markmccullough5873]

Found out the hard way that once you start helping someone it's never enough.

[@robertreynolds6072]

That second woman...she never mentions the things she does that trigger him. His behaviour is unhinged...in which case why does she keep going back? Or she's the one causing the distress...and she knows, but won't say.

[@kevinobrien3888]

She can’t support family on her own income. She needs a man’s money.

[@deathwatch76]

Sounds like she got her free vacation with her kids and outright ignored him and showed no appreciation for the trip like she deserved it.

[@robertmeshew1935]

Puts the man on a pedestal then crushes him for having a difference of opinion!

[@EmmyPierz-ek7hi]

Having a child with no income Is like buying a NEW car, while being on government assistance, If you can’t afford it, then DON’T! CB