'You Started It' with Daniel Fernandes - Ep 6 feat Abhishek Upmanyu and Rohini Ramnathan

[@absolutelydanny]

Download the audio version of this episode and listen to it on the go: soundcloud.com/daniel-fernandes-22/you-started-it-with-daniel-fernandes-ep-6-feat-rohini-ramnathan-abhishek-upmanyu

[@bhavyeshupadhyay]

Daniel Fernandes Thank you bro.. m just gonna ask you for the audio link...

[@NischithPJavagal2298]

Daniel Fernandes Thanks mate! :)

[@PrateekSaini]

Amazing content, but I'm still wondering who told you to take tuition from Zakhir khan ! #HaddHai

[@ShubhamYadav-gn2hx]

Try increasing or decreasing the sound of that voice or voices(schizophrenia) in your head

[@harryjacob9179]

What was the word

[@RowdyChocolateOfficial]

I'm a simple man, I see Upmanyu I press like.

[@aditigarg07]

I absolutely love how good a listener Abhishek is. He interrupted Daniel mid sentence just once and immediately apologized for it. Hadn't seen someone like that in a long time. I'm an even bigger fan now :)

[@ziauddin1068]

M glad someone noticed it omg

[@skubydubydu]

Aditi Garg The lady is just the opposite. The interruptions are quite distracting and throughout the show I am left wondering what they guys were going to say. 😕

[@UzairKhan-qd3xu]

@@skubydubydu her job

[@munnabhaiya8803]

Which part

[@improbeer]

Abhishek's accent is enough for the laughter.

[@lostgirl9695]

Exactly

[@someone-mx8ek]

yaaaa totally agree

[@someone-mx8ek]

@@lostgirl9695 you are soo pretty😨😨😍😍😍

[@lostgirl9695]

@@someone-mx8ek go to hell

[@someone-mx8ek]

@@lostgirl9695 you get lost...lost girl😑😑

[@ashitmehta5000]

Abhishek's father: Modiji ki izzat karni chahiye A: ek baat btana papa, kyu karni chahiye? AF: woh... bas karni chahiye

[@ashitmehta5000]

Prasan N A: auuuurr??

[@a.j.8120]

prasan N Abhishek- par bade to advani ji bhi hai😎

[@virajbidkar]

A: nahi kari tho ? AF: daath me keede pad jayengay

[@keshavpandey7016]

nahi to daat mein keede pad jayenge

[@ruudboltz6677]

Ashit Mehta Abhishek: Aur nai ki toh...??? Dad: Are daat me keede pad jayenge... 😵😵

[@PradyumSingh]

Thannkkkk goddd Abhishek is seen somewhere in KZbin after a looonnnggg tymm

[@payaljoshi2907]

Finally someone who realized how good and precious Abhishek Upmanyu is! #lovedannythegyaani

[@achintyaojha6235]

The BrownMan smooth... 😂😂

[@kashyappatel2926]

Rohini is super awesome!!! And it has got abhisekh upmanyu!!! This podcast is great!

[@divyanshdua24]

Can't believe it took me 3 years to find this gem of an episode.

[@ashwinbhat712]

I came here for Abhishek and stayed for Rohini. She was awesome. Please bring her back for more podcasts. Abhishek bhi bura nhi tha waise. ;)

[@nikhilnk7]

Chalo abhimanyu kisi ke to video me to aya warna video upload kiye hue to mahine nikal gaye

[@nischayrathore6873]

*abhishek upmanyu. i get your drift anyways

[@rahuldhakne8577]

Wo youtube account ka password bhul gyaa

[@karancricketer]

HAhahhahaha... good one :p

[@milancbhatt]

Hi Daniel, thank you for lovely show. It is so pleasing to hear someone discussing when everyone have enough space to share their thoughts. Love to hear thoughts from Abhishek and Rohini. I never heard about Rohini before, but thanks for introducing her to us who don't know her. She is amazing and full of wisdom. Love..

[@rajagopalannair2650]

Where was this women all these days...?!

[@rajagopalannair2650]

Ok... Should have waited for the video to end...

[@jonty536]

rajagopalan Nair why ?

[@JaskaranSingh-rn7sk]

1. podcast is amazing 2. Obviously I love both of you guys. 3. Never heard Rohini Ramanathan before but now I am a big fan. Her thoughts, knowledge, experience, prospective, even all technical things like her voice tone, rate of speech ETC ETC. I am in love! thank you guys for arranging this Podcast

[@vishav5470]

Jaskaran Singh 🙏

[@Jayant_klkrni]

Wide Vision Studios you said prospective hehehe😆

[@gauravjoshi4506]

Finally upmanyu 😍 !

[@vadlamudisaikrishna]

What people forget about freedom of expression is that individuals do not owe it to one another, the state owes it to citizens, just like any other right. The problem in india, as Abhishek rightly said is not that people take offence. It's that the state has consistently failed to protect FOE. Governments ought to protect people from threats, violence etc so that they voice their opinions fearlessly. Instead, indian governments have always erred on the side of stifling expression. Thus it is counterproductive to view the issue from the lens of outrage/intolerance. We should instead be talking about how we can pressure the state into doing its duty. When diverse opinions are shared freely, tolerance and a sense of humour will follow naturally.

[@ryderr7935]

Freedom is not absolute in this world

[@p07614010619]

Abhishek Upmanyu has a very logical thought process

[@mahathigunturu802]

Damn. Rohini has either done too much research for the podcast or she in general is so informed. Either way, for the first time I have seen a video packed with insights and so much content. No redundancy, no bitching, no fillers. worth 1 hour 20 minutes of time. Definitely not a TL;DR

[@BrijrajAnand]

Rohini Ramanathan you have found a new follower in me.

[@rishx]

"Our biggest fear is being ourselves" - Rohini

[@aishashaikh5699]

i think she said being by ourselves

[@shubhanshuvishwakarma4451]

I came here just because Abhishek upmanu was in thumbnail 😛😛😛

[@swatimarskole7776]

Thanx for introducing me to Rohini. Her perspective of understanding anything & everything is so empowering. "We need to know who we are outside of our partners, outside of our friends. " 👍🏽

[@frerardforever5445]

Lovely podcast and thank you, Rohini for talking about grief and loss. I am a teenager who lost her dad a month ago and hearing you speak about what you went through really resonated with me.

[@vaibhavthamman]

Rohini we want a youtube channel from you. Or atleast a handle where you are very active with your new fans after this podcast.

[@whostolemyfries]

Wow. Such an amazing episode. It covered so many diverse topics and made sense (as much as one can find, at least) out of a lot of the bullshit that goes on. The last part where Rohini mentions how unequipped we are as individuals to empathise with a person really struck a chord with me. The thing is, some people feel like it's okay to say anything. It baffles me how someone actually thought that it was okay to talk to Rohini about the expense of her husband's cremation. How stupid do you have to be to not see the obvious red signal on that?! No mater how noble your intentions are, there is a time and a way to say things. And that is a nuance that many lack.

[@Adhishree28]

Thanks Rohini for sharing the exact feelings that you feel when you lose someone. Me and my mom were questioned that how can we go back to our daily routine life so fast after i lost my father. They doubted that we really missed him or not . I am sooo glad that finally she spoke the truth, which will really help in understanding our side of the situation. Thanks Danny for giving her this stage . Looking forward for more episodes.it really made my day

[@sumitdongardive2053]

Rohini is such an amazing person. And abhishek & daniel have nice listening skills!!

[@ashwinraghunath4453]

Rohini is amazing! I don't get it why people are irritated by how much she talks. I love it.

[@absolutelydanny]

+Ashwin Raghunath a lot of us are not used to letting a woman hold a conversation na. She's expected to be subservient and silent. :)

[@kristapinto8250]

Daniel Fernandes Maybe it's not that she's female, but the fact that people wanted to hear Abhishek speak. Why drag sexism into this ?

[@ambidextrousTrades]

Krista Pinto you're absolutely right.. it's this attitude of Daniel Fernandez that is a repellent for me. I was here for Abhishek..

[@VeryMohak]

Ashwin Raghunath She cut out Abhishek too many times. Didn't see him doing the same. Too much for feminism, right?

[@dhiresh5980]

It's not feminism it's not sexism. It's just that some people wanted to listen to Abhishek more and some don't like it when someone interrupts. Although I loved to see her talk. And those two didn't mind it too. Daniel, it's not like almost everyone is sexist.

[@morganlove99]

Perfect! Let me grab a cup of tea and chill while watching this. Absolutely love and enjoy your podcasts, Danny. I look forward to them every week. So insightful and witty.

[@amangupta5817]

These podcasts are GOLD !! Daniel please get a member of AIB.... I'm sure they have some interesting opinions and stories on such topics

[@NavalKishoreBarthwal]

Aman Gupta Khamba or Tanmay nobody else....

[@DeepakSingh-mm7bp]

He got everyone from AIB and EIC

[@ayushigupta3915]

Lol all the comments are dated back to atleast 2 years... And here I m... Listening + binge watching these podcasts kal SE 😂

[@youisstupid2586]

you and me both my man.

[@ayushigupta3915]

Haha

[@berserk322]

7 months later and the comments section was in a better condition

[@shrishtykotiyal3834]

Im watching it rn , for the first time😂

[@Rohit-yv3ow]

Regarding the "voice in the head thing" - coming from a trilingual space - my thoughts waver between 3 languages (Punjabi, Hindi ,English) and Hinglish ends up dominating the scene .

[@ashwinraghunath4453]

Rohit Singh Mine's English, malayalam and Kannada 😅

[@rixenjacob]

Great show. Great talk. Keep it up Daniel. Hope to see more of these.

[@akhilanand1108]

Not much of a guy to comment often but I was thoroughly captivated by Rohini's commentary and experiences towards the second half of the podcast on how people are ill equipped in helping others deal with grief. I have personally been the guy who awkwardly has no idea what to say or do to help someone grieving and Rohini has well enlightened me on what not to do. Genuinely inspired by her.

[@MrSarang143]

Thank you Danny for bringing this podcast to us. Listening to 3 different perspective on 1 topic is awesome!!

[@ronak212]

Two important things which I learned from this podcast is 1 . Rohini hosts a retro show on Radio. 2. Rohini has been to Singapore.

[@KattarJ]

ronak chatterjee | Haha! Even these panelists aren't immune from the Indian-ness ("I am went Singapore, I am do the Retro show") God that's so cringy!

[@richardmartin3693]

And Kajol was the killer in Gupt

[@lavishagera1302]

There was a lot to takeaway from the podcast you just chose to take that away from the podcast

[@vimali2713]

Yeaaaah! 😆😆 podcast a day earlier.... this just made my sunday!! Love it...

[@MrJac81]

she made being a woman a complement and that's beautiful.

[@SyaminiKaushik]

The voice in my head is you, Daniel Fernandes, khoobsurat aurat.

[@IamRajanKhanna]

I don't think abhishek copy paste any thing, i actually love abhishek, man!! What a comedian, timing and punches, they make me really laugh, I recommended Abhishek 's videos to my all friends. Amazing Comedian!!

[@krgami]

1:07:45 This was a genuine comment running on the mind of abhishek upmanyu for the podcast..

[@prachandabro]

karyo hahahahaha

[@ShobhitSrivastava-sshobhit]

take it or trash it. umm trash it maybe? exemplary show of patience by the comics!

[@wholesomehoorpari1971]

Actually.

[@gladiators12]

Nice. Rohini Ramnathan is pretty chill and articulate.

[@divyasharma-nx8dw]

I started watching this podcast coz of Abhishek and Daniel but ended up becoming a fan of Rohini. Good job guys.

[@vivek-vikram]

Came in for Abhishek, stayed for Rohini. Thanks Daniel for this amazing podcast. It's always great to learn from people with different perspectives and experiences. Thanks again!

[@muzammilmujawar4951]

Kya masoode hai..😂😂😂

[@pawannagpal7866]

Muzammil Mujawar 😂👌🏼

[@taranghardikar8869]

I love how this podcast lasts more than an hour. There are a very few podcasts or videos that dare to do this and in this one it works the most. I have never seen this kind of emotion especially in an interview. The long time limit helps the conversation to drift to places that you guys really genuinely feel for. Amazing job!

[@StephanieColacoAlwritey]

Rohini Ramnathan, thank you for sharing that with us. *hugs*

[@diptyjha970]

Rohini. ..I must say that I am a newly born fan of yours! The way you talk is amazingly impressive with all the dominant points you put in . And your perceptions towards life ,people and our country India is totally admirable and genuine. You are a completely eminent and spectacular woman .. ..indeed. : - )

[@ajslife3961]

"People often confuse sense of humor with having the ability to laugh." - Daniel Fernandez

[@sohampablo]

This is the best 'You Started It' episode yet. Loved Rohini's and Abhishek's perspectives on matters. Extremely articulate and refreshingly interesting.

[@prachihooda8160]

The melange of emotions, the sage yet funny advice, and the importance of self discovery when dealing with loss could not have come at a better time. Tremendous help. Thank you, all!

[@ishan547]

This is my first ever comment on KZbin ! One of the best podcast I have ever listened to.

[@shivamrajwal]

when i saw it was 1hr 20min long i thought it's gonna be boring but it was very entertaining, funny, bit emotional and i learned a lot so thank you Danny sir Rohini mam nd Abhishek sir

[@ankitshrivastav2000]

the voice in my head is a female voice, because my wife doesn't let me speak even in my mind.

[@qwe9283]

hahahaha

[@aparnasharma2210]

Ankit Shrivastav lol

[@kartikmessner2868]

hahahah..hasa diya bhai!

[@VivekForPresident2028]

Hahaha

[@stutisrivastava4431]

ROFL

[@aishwaryapalshetkar6625]

Absolutely loved the podcast. Didn't know Rohini ma'am before this and it was great listening to her on this podcast. I loved the way all three of u talked about the different perspectives and very unique situation. There were many things for me to learn from this podcast. Also a big fan of abhishek upamanyu and you :)

[@raunak.u]

I am sure you touched more topics then the parliamentary meeting. And it was mind-boggling to go through 3 intellectual as I'd say going through their life experiences may it be professional or personal. Though you went way out of topic each and every time it was this what opened up the real talk. Amazing, thanks.

[@geetgeorge9696]

Seeing the good in things has never been my strong point. I explore new heights of cynicism almost everyday, but after this video, I was just staring at the screen for about five minutes, while my mind encountered this amazing new thing called "appreciation", and I was stunned! I never knew of Rohini before this video, and now I'm so glad that I belong to a species, which has produced someone like her, with such wonderful insights on things. Humanity gives me hope when I see/hear/experience people like these three, and almost all the guests on Danny's show. Just wow! P.S. Danny, someday, if you and I were to cross paths, I would just hope you know how to rescue yourself from a I-refuse-to-let-you-go bear hug!

[@smriti8423]

This was such a lovely conversation yar.. Rohini , if by any chance you read this, thank you. We are taught how to celebrate achievements but not how to deal with grief and losses.. and if it happens to you at a very young age, it may scar you forever.( hey, that's me 😏). It takes lot of strength to open about something so personal. So much insight and clarity. It definitely is going to stay with me and hopefully help me. More love and joy and strength and positivity to you. ♡

[@vinodbanjara8085]

Whoever reading this..please share this video. It's not just podcast. Its a therapy session.

[@radhikarohatgi9677]

Absolutely love the content. Would be nice to watch more of these, unraveling more perspectives and digging deeper.

[@adeshshetty2830]

The previous few podcasts where so one-dimensional that I had decided not to watch it again. But, I am so glad I watched this. Rohini was not like the typical guest Daniel has on his show who agree on everything. There was a disagreement, healthy discussion and less of Daniel's simplistic bashing of others. I came to watch Abhishek and leave in awe of Rohini's talent and level headedness. And, this is not just a reaction to her personal story of loss, it's for everything she said before that too.

[@katrinakaif6979]

dude!!! this is the most intelligent conversation I have ever heard!!!

[@thenepalihipster5491]

This type of podcast should be up every week. In this episode they talked about offends and their comedy groups and genres rather than comments and all.

[@sultan1027]

It's 5:20 in the morning. I couldn't sleep the entire night and eventually I decided to watch this podcast. I do not regret the decision. Daniel, thank you for talking about things that actually matter and bringing amazing people together with different stories and opinions. There is so much to learn from every episode. I hope you will keep bringing lovely people and bring up things that aren't often talked about. Thank you! :)

[@samvegparikh1566]

in one of his youtube videos, biswa has done this "voice in your head" bit so beautifully. it was something I never observed. I guess that is the beauty of indian comic scene nowadays, they make you notice/point things about yourself that you haven't already had. So, even though we are still learning this art form from the western world [with a very limited exposure to global comedy except for very famous, russel, eddie M, robin W, chris etc] I think no other comics as a collective have explore that aspect.

[@citizenofNecropoliS]

Rohini, your views are so fresh and I can honestly say I have taken back a lot of grace from your words here. Thank you from the bottom of my heart. Abhishek, very nice to see you again, I realize this is actually older than the last time I saw you (Bangalore, end of October, 2017) but I'm just getting around to seeing this so this has been a very nice session with both of you! Danny you've got another subscriber since this is the first podcast of yours I've gotten around to watch as I was scouring KZbin for more CLC content. Cheers to all of you! :)

[@himanshukhandekar175]

What an amazing podcast guys. I loved listening to everything that Rohini shared in the podcast. I've personally never been through this kind of experience but just by listening I can say it requires a great deal of mental strength. And Rohini you are awesome..

[@adityadate]

One of the most strongest women i have even heard speaking. So much confidence and absolutely spot on. More power to you Rohini...!

[@TruBlooHustler]

Wonderful episode. You guys are really doing meaningful work using podcast as a medium. Much needed for our over reactive / hyper active janta.. I saw the episode couple of times and told a few friends, ended up discussing as well. Thank you for bringing up these important topics which need to be addressed. Love all the episodes thus far. This one tops for now 👍🏻

[@Lapofsuccess09]

wow this girl rohini has got so fearless flow of speech ....why she is so underrated god knows ! just love to listen to those convo she had ! simply class apart ! abhishek also good at the other side

[@missy6361]

The first first time I was exposed to a penis was when I was in the 9th std, a guy pretended to ask me for directions, he looked down at paper he took out of his pocket, I looked down, and his penis was on full display. I was traumatised, I cried so much. A woman is made to feel like the 'male gaze' is the only form of acceptance she will recieve. It is like some sort of salvation, x number of guys looked at me today that means I look good. Probably the worst way for a woman to live. Needs to change and we need men to instigate this change. Xx

[@laavanyaa7907]

I'm sorry you had to go through it. Really.

[@hrithikraj32]

🙁🙁🙁 😢

[@nihalhey6885]

In my native place we call female "Mai" means sister ! even its small place we respect women, but in Metro cities its worse.

[@anshulkumar-dy9sj]

missy6361 no need... Instead, u continue wearing makeup and flaunt ur beauty....keep the world a beautiful place to live in.....

[@PrateekBagga]

Creeps!

[@justinjose.]

spoiler alert Gangadhar hi shaktiman hai

[@RuchaJiddewar]

Justin Jose no way dude. Now you spoiled it for me😂😂😂

[@Udit_ur_best_frnd]

i wish these kind of conversations could be aired on every television instead of those daily soaps..

[@shubhamnaidu6309]

Thank you Daniel for doing this. These topics are frowned upon as they stem from insecurities and it is nice to listen to Rohini, she made sense and i actually found that insight quite relatable as well as immensely helpful.

[@achalashekar1443]

Rohini Ramanathan you are so inspiring! So glad I discovered you here. Wanted to post this before googling more of your work. Cheers.

[@Phoenix.219]

I too don't give condolences to anyone.....I just behave like I always do with them....I learnt all this from my mom...My mom has too much bad experiences in her life and she told me that offering condolences makes situation worse

[@neel500]

abhishek you are damn hilarious... please upload new videos.. I've watched your videos like 5000 times and I'm rooting for your next video... upload it soon... love from #Kolkata

[@ETIshaTagai]

Wow! Rohini's voice, insights, thought process..everything is so appreciable. Thankyou so much for sharing this! Perfect example of strong minded and gracious women!

[@shruti06oct]

Nice warm chat. Loved all three of you :) Liked that you maturely discussed the emotions involved when you lose someone. Hardest emotion to deal with, I believe. Love and peace to Rohini. Abhishek is always sensible and funny.

[@jashandeepkaur123]

"I'm trying to live the things that I thought I believed in" very wise words by Rohini!!

[@satyajeetgupta7175]

Honestly speaking i am a great fan of Daniel Fernandes and Abhishek Upmanyu and that was the reason i came here i wasn't sure that ill be able to finish the entire podcast am glad that i watched it superb intellectual stuff

[@vamseekotaru9706]

Daniel, I love you for what you do. I've always loved your content and with this podcast series so far, you've put forth a lovely platform for discussing sensitive topics and also sharing the perspective of those usually on the receiving end. I liked this episode the most, followed by the one with Aditi and Karunesh. Halfway through the video, I was amazed by the amount of wisdom Rohini showed. And towards the end, when she discussed her feelings about her loss and how she dealt with it, I had a sudden flush of respect for her. I believe with the support from family and friends, as she said, she has evolved to be a very emotionally mature person. Waiting for more awesome work from you Daniel..

[@amolmishra7891]

This podcast was the best thing I saw on youtube today ! Keep up the good work .

[@shivanimehta5212]

This was really special! Thanks alot Daniel for doing such podcasts. It's amazing to see how life is totally different in the world of comedy. Appreciate rohini for speaking out our minds and totally in love with Abhishek ❤️

[@adityamadan1082]

Danny your podcasts are great, you get a conversation about real topics flowing effortlessly. Its a great mix between humor and real talk, refreshing to see content like this.

[@arpanrathod]

Rohini's voice is amazing.

[@rohitk4799]

Arpan Rathod Generally RJs need to have a good voice.

[@arpanrathod]

Oh, you bet they do.

[@shivanidewan7948]

I so wish this video came last year. you guys are certainly right we all dont know how to deal with someone else's loss. Last half of your podcast was

[@ravindrapawaskar723]

Awesome podcast, this is my first episode; and was great :) True about the Novice Comedy Audience. Happy to see Mr. Abishek Upamanyu.

[@abhinavjain785]

Amazing work Daniel, all of these podcasts. It's really nice to listen to such insightful conversations on these topics. Watching your standup videos I was always looking forward to something like these where issues are actually talked about and addressed on a serious note.

[@ApoorvaaC]

Only a person who has gone through such a loss can understand this. And I did, Rohini. You're an amazing woman. Even though I don't listen to the radio, I might try and listen to you from now on.

[@MARISALOBO18]

a wonderful way to beat the Monday morning blues. Rohini was fabulous!! finding yourself outside your partner was something that struck such a huge cord. So many of us, me included tend to forget we were individuals before becoming a couple and life can go on without them. It may take time, but it will work out eventually. Best podcast so far!! Another thing that stood out is India does not have it's priorities set. We have put the safety of cows before women and give more importance to stupid jokes and memes over more serious issue that violate basic human rights. W e really need to wake up and set our priorities straight.

[@MrAwesomeaditya]

i wish all men would be like a combination of abhishek and daniel, this country would be much more fun to live in 😊

[@madhuradeshmukh6696]

Found this to be the best one so far! Especially getting to know rohini, such a lovely person :)

[@bhavyamittal5000]

The way I look at the world changes after hearing you guys. Your podcasts are amazing daniel😀

[@aditimittal6091]

I have seen many podcasts in my recommendations on KZbin, but never have I ever been able to complete the whole video, but this podcast was strikingly unique with all the in-depth exchange of knowledge on plethora of topics, you 3 brought your own personalities to the table and it was intriguing enough to watch the whole video at stretch. Loved the vibe!

[@ParthChokshi]

Amazing! Upmanyu's accent is enough for laughter! Rohini is so amazing to listen to! Daniel seemed like a delegator. :p Great podcast!

[@sharajsundararaman4834]

Rohini Ramanathan was the best panelist amongst all the panelist you have had in your podcast. She has different perspectives on every topic you guys discussed. Hard to find people with such diverse insights these days.

[@vivaandhammy]

Amazing sir,you should definitely continue with your podcasts :') Plus it's good to see Abhishek finally!

[@adityapasari2548]

Came here just to like. Will watch later :) Love you Danny and Upmanyu

[@mysticroncy]

Aditya Pasari but you commented too! Liar!

[@trixiemachina1517]

Rohan Mistry Are you for real? Oh God! 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@abhijitbasak3904]

it was a fulfilling episode ...full of humor and wit.... started watching the podcast because of upmanyu but she spoke most of it and surprisingly I liked that ....👍👍👍👌👌