The best thing I ever read about narcissism is this… ‘an accusation from a narcissist is actually an admission”. I remember this every time my NM throws a nasty comment in my direction and I can quietly smile to myself and go about my day knowing a little bit more about her and feeling a whole lot less guilty because of her mind games. Healing is a wonderful thing ☺️
@NakedNarcissism2 жыл бұрын
YES! I love this!!!! Thank you so much or sharing!
@kingsagenda Жыл бұрын
So true. They also restate over and over again positive attributes that they don't possess. For example, my son's father always says, "im a great father" or "im a great man of God," or " I've done nothing but try to work with you." He tries to convince himself of these things, and i believe he is delusional and actually believes it because he is not self-aware and has zero empathy for other people.
@terrigelbaum80662 жыл бұрын
Thank you for helping all the helpless and ill prepared people against these monsters.
@NakedNarcissism2 жыл бұрын
You are so welcome! I really believe that I am making beauty out of the ashes in my previous life during and immediately after a relationship with a narcissist. It is my passion to help others reduce the impacts of narcissistic abuse and lengthy and complicated custody battles.
@yvonnevaldez58172 жыл бұрын
I used to feel it was my fault. He called me lazy and useless 😒
@NakedNarcissism2 жыл бұрын
I am so very sorry that you have had to deal with this!! So you can best believe that the narcissist in your life felt that he was lazy and useless, but he projected that onto you. I hope you are taking good care of yourself and not replaying this abuse in your head. Try hard to replace his words with words of affirmation.
@yvonnevaldez58172 жыл бұрын
@@NakedNarcissism I am healing from the abuse. Divorce final this week.
@NakedNarcissism2 жыл бұрын
@@yvonnevaldez5817 Congratulations on the divorce being final!!! I know that must feel amazing to have it behind you. Healing can take a long time, so be gentle and kind to yourself as you heal. I have a video on healing from narcissistic abuse you can check out to assist you on your journey: kzbin.info/www/bejne/jnapYqOwmpJng5I
@demigaines56442 жыл бұрын
THANK YOU SO VERY MUCH FOR SHARING THIS I NEEDED TO HEAR THIS.MY LIFE WAS DESTROYED BY A MALIGNANT OVERT NARCISSTIS. I WISH THAT I WOULD OF NEVER MET THIS PERSON/👹 MONSTER.THIS PERSON DESTROYED ME WITH MONTHS AND YEARS OF THE SILENT TREATMENT...IM TRYING TO GO NO CONTACT IT IS THE END RESULT..
@NakedNarcissism2 жыл бұрын
I am so very sorry Demi! Using their own projection can be so helpful for protecting your sanity and peace when you have to deal with a narcissist. It is great that you are going no contact now. That's awesome!
@demigaines56442 жыл бұрын
@@NakedNarcissism Thank You 🙏
@robertsafari1678 Жыл бұрын
Too many red flags.... I wish i knew this before i got into this mess!!
@NakedNarcissism Жыл бұрын
YES!! Hindsight is 20/20!! So many red flags that I ignored. I am sure your heart was already invested and that is hard to overcome.