Your Husband Is Honorable But He's Wrong!

Your Husband Is Honorable But He's Wrong!
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[@tishr9670]

I love when he mutes caller when they don't shut up and listen.

[@ChrisInvests]

If they run into financial turmoil, who is going to be blamed and resented? 🤔

[@johnswaim3919]

Exclent point

[@christhomas1708]

Chris Invests - Personal Finance Videos If the financial failure is due to lack of income then it is the husband, if financial failure is due to poor spending then it is the wife. Having said that it is still always the man's fault. Either he made the mistake, or he made a mistake choosing the woman. I don't personally believe this but we are in the cucked christian mind of dave ramsey who issues orders to "man up" while still being a subservient to his domineering wife and makes himself believe that the marriage is "equal".

[@andrewmartin7697]

Chris Thomas yes... just yes... just ... YES

[@jmw1982blue]

"Maybe you wanna be a mommy to a 32 year boy" 😂😂😂😂😂

[@tomassmith2088]

Ara Ara

[@chopperinmylivingroom2335]

She probably wants to be a mommy period & if she's also 32 the clock be ticking!!!

[@salvadorgutierrez4474]

She does otherwise she wouldn't have called. She's lying to herself in saying otherwise.

[@gigi8528]

There’s no way I’d just hand over my checks to my spouse and not monitor or even ask where it goes every month. I watched my dad do this for years while my mom dished out his hard earned money to others! But, that was HIS bad decision.

[@justsaying4451]

Ouch!!!

[@gigi8528]

JUST SAYING Yea! My dad is a huge pushover when it comes to my mom. He knows the truth but he won’t leave🤷🏽‍♀️

[@justsaying4451]

Adam soucie Wow! 😟

[@savannahbyrd7884]

@Ayawrxsti if you want a roommate and not a spouse this is a great idea. Unless you always are making the same amount as your spouse and never have kids this doesn't work well and you lose the opportunity for a partnership.

[@stalstonestacy4316]

I'd rather have her problem than the one I've got. My husband won't get onboard at all

[@sobc2737]

Maybe because you are over nagging. Back off a little bit and give him some space to breathe. He will eventually come around. Mark my words.

[@johnswaim3919]

Leave him.

[@ladybanks9766]

Your husband is a little boy!

[@shachede6828]

@@sobc2737 you know her right? you live with her?

[@sobc2737]

@@shachede6828 I can read through the comments.

[@the30sumdadgamer60]

I'm sure Dave knows not every cop is honorable. I think he "assumes" these things as a positive affirmation for the caller, more so than anything else. He's just being positive. He does this often in other videos.

[@kw-vy5jd]

I love when Dave cut off their calls😁😁

[@cole1219]

Being in law enforcement doesn’t automatically make you honorable.

[@s0lid_sno0ks]

It does when you're a conservative. i.e. a progressive driving the speed limit.

[@justsaying4451]

I agree.

[@godisgood5038]

EXACTLY! WATCH THE NEWS!💕

[@billmath3630]

Sure it does

[@john1425]

There are lots of law enforcement that are terrible people and give the good cops a bad name. Doesn't make you a good or honorable person.

[@Manofsteel519]

She just wanted Dave to give her and her husband FPU for free lol

[@zacksimmons4705]

That’s how I heard it too

[@justsaying4451]

He's a person of dignity and a man of honor based on what he does for a living???Everyone is entitled to an opinion, but I have to disagree on that one.

[@mikenelson8377]

JUST SAYING and what do you do? Go fetch me my cart you Costco greeter you 😉

[@notmebutyou8350]

@@mikenelson8377 👎

[@ethanking4954]

@@mikenelson8377 bro this is such a dumb comment in every way possible. Like it's really really stupid. Do you actually think that just having a job as something defines if you're a good person or not?

[@cammy60467]

I think Dave was saying that to show he's not insulting her husband. And to support his argument: get husband can/will change bc hes honourable

[@john1425]

@@mikenelson8377 Mike your dumb.

[@mrs.carter5524]

I don’t think Dave’s intentions are to be rude to the spouse of the caller. He’s an alpha male and I think it annoys him when he gets these calls with men who don’t step up in the household. It’s annoying to me as well! - that’s not me on the call by the way. 🥴

[@JohnDoe-gc1kt]

Not trying to sound combative but Dave is not an alpha Male by any means

[@mrs.carter5524]

John Doe Okay.

[@LittleHatori]

Marriage is a neverending TEAM SPORT. Like an ice skating duet. I propose some marriage consuling if this becomes a prolongued issue with the husband. Hope everything works out! The woman sounds really sweet and wants to just move as a team on finances! ♥️

[@TheRealHarsjan]

I wish I had that mute button in real life

[@GenExDividendInvestor]

Wow, such great advice! Part financial, part counseling. I bet their relationship and their finances will both benefit!

[@orangeboy97]

Dave makes way too many assumptions here

[@andrewmartin7697]

He always does

[@justinecorrington4106]

Yeah, my dad used to give his entire check to my mom. He got an allowance in cash, had no access to checkbook, bank card, anything. Dad had no idea what mom was doing financially. My mom went to FPU; dad never did and they never figured out why it wasn’t work out.

[@kierah16]

Dave'll hit that rebuttal hush button in a NY minute! 🤣 🤣 🤣

[@kathurtado13]

As I run to the comment section 🙅‍♀️🙅‍♂️🙅‍♀️🙅‍♂️🙅‍♀️🙅‍♂️🙅‍♀️🙅‍♀️🙅‍♂️🙅‍♂️

[@hollyb6885]

I’m better at handling money than my husband. I enjoy it. We are both savers and have over 1 million in retirement so it worked for us.

[@j.rothchild173]

She is ready to bail out! You can hear it in her voice and i don't blame her....

[@GR-uc1gq]

Don't let that cop pull you over Dave

[@SilvioManfredDante85]

Tell your cop husband to 'man up.' That's just asking for a black eye.

[@thefoodwench4848]

If he’s going along with the budget and not fighting it I wouldn’t complain. Geesh

[@shanteschmiesing8718]

I wish I had a mute button like Dave

[@HawkingRegime13]

That mute was so early hahahaha

[@jessecarver9176]

Dave, eat a Snickers cranky pants! Lol

[@habibullah17]

Hahaha so he can buy a boat no problem but god forbid his wife repaints a room. Hes like I'll need to see how much that costs 🤣🤣🤣

[@lmv2.787]

I'm wondering at what amount does he think he needs to involve his wife. 20k boat - yes, 20 lunch - no, 400 shoes - maybe???

[@joshuashaffer3028]

Why would you assume that someone's vocation makes them honerable?

[@dexterm1285]

Some people just dont care about these things...I get it. They see life is short and just going to live it up while here. It's tough to change opinion like making a unhealthy person get healthy. Better to have these type of conversations before marriage.

[@archiealsobrookii4755]

Some people don't care about the what when they don't know or understand the why behind the what.

[@grod805]

Why would Dave be so delusional to think that just because he's a cop, he's a man of honor? Dave comes off as so naive sometimes. Everyone can be a dirt bag or super nice. Your job has nothing to do with it

[@Pruett51212]

Marriage is supposed to be 2 people coming together as 1. Needing to work as 1 but with their own unique ideas. Delegating specific duties but collaborating on finances and how they should be managed. My husband is our sole income and I manage the bills. I also manage the budget which puts added stress on me to make sure we have money and it's harder because my husband won't do budgeting and is a bit of a spender as am I.

[@Pruett51212]

@NurturingTalents we had resentment for a while because even though we would budget and agree he would still go out to eat while I refrained but I totally get what you're saying.

[@darviniquehawthorne3251]

He’s pretty much saying he should be a man of honor with such a title and roll for a career

[@arohawaaka6255]

I dont get an I told you so 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@GUTOMOFFICIAL]

I thought the caller was supposed to speak!

[@nailzius]

I wonder why the default characteristic on a veterinarian isn't being honorable. Or postal workers or mechanics etc.

[@waynekerr2472]

Because they don't put their life on the line everyday they go to work

[@nailzius]

@@waynekerr2472 Really? Says who?

[@alainl1211]

Putting your life on the line and being honorable dont ALWAYS go hand in hand.

[@nailzius]

Alain Leon I believe if you are willing to risk your life and well being for the good of others then that's an honorable trait. But the default seems to be that cops and military have been given the monopoly on said honor.

[@WealthbuilderzTV]

If the husband is bringing the money and his wife should help with paying the bills.

[@Je.rone_]

*Exhale... My husband and I.* 😓

[@wa2k99]

Relax...

[@untouchable360x]

Catelyn Stark calling in.

[@troyn7511]

telling an officer to man up can very likely go south. bad idea for someone in a high stress work environment. IDK if she is working or not but maybe he is so taxed that he gave this responsibility to her and it sounds like he trusts her to do it. Sometimes you just have to do your part.

[@Amandafromappalachia]

Literally my husband and I. I'm 28. He's 32. He lets me do all of the budgeting and handle all of the bills and money, and our 2 kids when he works and brings home the money.

[@ew2645]

Chook P. If I can recommend, have him get a little more involved. Gender aside, in the 8 years I was in banking, I saw how the finance person in the house always died first and the grieving spouse is completely lost in what to do. Makes a bad situation worse.

[@reesercliff]

my father is a multi multi millionaire retired surgeon, my mom was a stay at home mom and she handled all the bookkeeping

[@evangeliamintzai6302]

She should say "I ain't your momma". Maybe playing the song of Jennifer Lopez to his face if necessary!

[@RedTop-yo4ds]

My husband was like that, drove me crazy, now he's my ex, but not just because of that.

[@Caprivlogs]

Why is what Dave Ramsey saying so foreign to people of both genders? He makes sense.smh.

[@cashboy7406]

He needs to man up. Fake deputy

[@joeh2401]

He sounds like a coward.

[@karin0963]

My husband and I discuss the finances when its necessary. I handle paying the ordinary bills, but we discuss outside ordinary purchases. I am sole provider due to his health problems. He is still head of the household, whether he brings income or not.

[@Mary-rf9tv]

karin0963 the head of the home is the person that provides

[@karin0963]

@@Mary-rf9tv I was referring to what scripture teaches.

[@Mary-rf9tv]

karin0963 okay, good that you are living the scriptures, bless you and your home.

[@karin0963]

@@Mary-rf9tv thank you.

[@ErrorPagenotFound-ig1cy]

Hah Kirsten’s about to get replaced.. Personal finance is easy yet she needs her husband to hold her hand and guide her through it.. the guy I’m pretty sure is already burned out in his job as LE and needs someone to hold the house down..

[@JK20239]

12 hour shifts. Probably working OT... lol

[@ErrorPagenotFound-ig1cy]

Josh easily.. unless he just saying he’s at work lol

[@NickPeitsch]

Dave’s gotta be a little bit more compassionate for some people! But does have some good advice.

[@bigtittiedsaint]

Anyone else get the Nicki Minaj Fendi ad before this? Lol

[@nicholasalonzo3499]

What if your spouse is dead weight and unable to get better? My spouse is diagnosed borderline and there ain't no way in h*ll that I'd let her be involved in financial decisions. Guess I'll never be wealthy.

[@SensSword]

The husband carries quite a bit of weight on his shoulders bringing home the bacon and at his job. I don't find it unreasonable to ask his wife to handle making sure the bills are paid. Dave rocking the boat on this one might capsize the relationship

[@fnordiumendures138]

Yeah, it sounds like Dave wants the husband to "man up" and share all of the wife's burdens equally, while the wife doesn't help the man with the bacon-bringing one bit.

[@tugboat2030]

That that's not what Dave is talking about. He has said many times on his show that one of the partners in a marriage could be responsible for doing the manual work of paying the bills. What's he has said is both people in the marriage should be responsible and handling the budget, knowing how much is going to what categories, agreeing with each other on how they're going to spend the money, etcetera. I think Dave's commentary here is good and pretty consistent with what he said in the past.

[@fnordiumendures138]

@@tugboat2030 And how is that not "the husband is responsible for everything, the wife is responsible for half?"

[@tugboat2030]

They agree on how to spend the money together. They go over the budget together. The husband largely makes the money with his job. The wife handles paying the actual bills, and runs the household. That sort of setup would be just fine with Dave. The problem that Dave has with the caller's situation at the moment is that the husband does not want to be involved in making the decisions about how to spend the money. He just wants an allowance. They should be both involved and how they spend their money. The wife can just write the checks or set up the direct deposit to pay the bills.

[@fnordiumendures138]

@@tugboat2030 The husband makes ALL the money, and the wife gets to stay at home like a child... and yet Dave mocks the husband on national radio. Dave does not want the wife to share any burden the husband carries right now. None what so ever.

[@jeremyraber4057]

Dave ramsey you need to man up grow up and start treating others like there another person and stop disrespecting them. The people on the other side of the phone are real people too with real feelings, Treat Them With Respect!!!

[@cathyrowe594]

Courtesy should be given to everyone but respect is not a GIFT, you have to EARN it. The husband dumped all financial responsibilities off on his wife & is content to get an allowance like a 5 year old little boy. Dave nailed the difference between courtesy & respect on this call.

[@rachels594]

Jeremy Raber amen

[@2inchfromtheground]

Jeremy, specifically what would you have done different?

[@KP-mo1hg]

She called Dave for a reason. She wanted his opinion. She knew exactly who she was calling.

[@gregcarlson8438]

It would be super offensive if it was the husband calling in and he was calling the wife the baby, she needs to woman up (whatever that means), and he is her dad. I think society just accepts when a man doesn’t do something right, we can just belittle him. When a woman doesn’t do something right, we still need to respect her. This is one of the things I don’t like about Dave, the sexism he displays.

[@JK20239]

Mommy!

[@laid07]

The worst part about this call is she's married. There's financial mistake number one!

[@Eaglejake]

Dave, please stop quoting the "Jewish Book of Fairy Tales" when offering financial advice. Leave religion and the Bible out of it. Carry on.

[@Eaglejake]

@@nchinth "He can say whatever he wants".....I could not agree more. I listen to him to learn one thing I did not know on each video. Main authors of the Bible were Jewish (Moses, David, Ezra, etc.). There is no factual support quoting the Bible. He uses a fictional book to back up his personal opinions. Financial advice should include critical thinking and factual advise. You would roll your eyes too if I quoted a Harry Potter book to back up my logic and opinion on finance.

[@EmpireTextbooks]

Sorry Dave, you’re wrong to say that you’re America’s most trusted source for financial education. A lot of your advice, especially regarding investing, is wrong and ignores simple math.

[@shamansprout7324]

“He’s a man of dignity and honor” so many people find and offensive and wrong and yes I agree to some extent but man isn’t that what being a cop is all about, enforcing the law, protecting the people, that is at the core what a cop is, like dude it’s even in the name, law enforcement, they enforce the law for the safety and happiness of the people, and I feel that is a job to be proud of, to be dignified and honored of cuz at its core it is, but the part where I agree is yes there will be some bad apples who are personally not at all any of these traits but that doesn’t mean all cops are horrible, I’m just saying the job it self is at its core honorable, dignifying and just

[@kellenmcelrath678]

oh here we go with the bible...i liked it until then

[@LoveMyAbeshaWomen]

Women were not really involved in finances in the older generations but their marriages lasted forever. Not sure why these days that doesn’t work anymore

[@darbymori350]

I disagree. My grandmother and mother were involved in the household finances. They and their husbands retired millionaires. My father-in-law did not share the family finances with mother-in-law and she ended up in a mess when he got Alzheimer's.

[@LoveMyAbeshaWomen]

Darby Mori There will always be exceptions to a general statement, which was what I was making. I’m talking generally speaking the man was the bread winner and controlled the money. The women mostly stayed home. That may not have been the case in your household.

[@thomasreedy4751]

@@LoveMyAbeshaWomen How far back in history are you going? My grandmother's were all providers who played a role in the finances. They were born in the 1920's and 30's.

[@LoveMyAbeshaWomen]

Thomas Reedy I believe you. That may be the case in your family, but statistically speaking, I believe the roles were defined. Not saying that’s necessarily good or bad but that was the case, before world war 2.

[@LoveMyAbeshaWomen]

NurturingTalents well-said

[@ishowyouapple]

Is Dave always this grumpy? He’s grumpy in every video, and has a short temperament. He probably needs to look into that.

[@MsPants1632]

MG not all. Some people really just need that because he can tell without it they will just continue on their same old path.

[@righand]

Incredibly rude to belittle this man you’ve never man. Stop staying he needs to “man up”.

[@KP-mo1hg]

Then she should have called Dr. Phil. She CHOSE to call Dave for a reason and HE WAS RIGHT.