Your Husband Might Be Having An Affair...

[@stevezelaznik5872]

"My husband moved me out here," is a strange but revealing choice of words.

[@charlesg7926]

Yeah, meaning she moved out there by herself but is blaming her husband for everything

[@gt1r]

Charles Graves ... somehow you’re still blaming the husband for this?

[@Kelaine72]

The husband probably said "yeah, its a good opportunity to move to Texas. I will help move you and get you the eff out of here. I mean settled there and come later on" . Then when she get the there "you know what its no opportunity in Texas. I'm staying here."

[@AlexFlockhart]

It's a phrase that tries to avoid the truth but ends up being the most truthful.

[@enriqueta56]

yes. It means she has no character and is unable to make her own decisions.

[@wk3820]

Six months? What newlywed would let his bride move away without him? He's not even taking the marriage seriously.

[@TheRibofJESUS]

Exactly

[@rebeccashields9626]

Yes. His side chick is keeping him in Florida.

[@beautifullullaby4166]

Exactly, I gave up my job to make sure I moved with my husband. No way were either of us moving without the other. He even said if I wanted to keep my job he would try find a job where we were. That's a real marriage.

[@timothyletkeman]

Leave. Take as much as you can get and move wherever you want.

[@melissasanchez7778]

Right!

[@WhisxBeerus]

You can tell she's 100% in denial right now. I hope she snaps out of it and gets to the bottom of the situation. Life is too short to waste time on people who don't value you.

[@mmww9293]

Its humiliating and heartbreaking to know one has been duped. In a matter of 6 months. This is someone whom she trusted andwas planning on making a future with.

[@barbmelle3136]

Yes, she proved her lack of commitment after only 3 months of marriage. He needs to gat it annulled.

[@helenaville5939]

Can't Afford To Advertise Mister James ?

[@MissKacieDanielle]

She needs to do an unannounced visit on him lol

[@Brucev7]

She needs to get Saved, then the Holy Spirit will give discernment. Hebrews 4:12

[@me_not_me]

6 mos!!! She needs to run before he starts attaching his debt to her.🤦🏾‍♀️

[@coinstacks2455]

What if he's business is successful and he becomes a millionaire.

[@43emmie]

RUN!!!

[@43emmie]

@@coinstacks2455 really?! Are you guys friends? Did he put you up to typing that? The risk is too great. How could he want to be away from her? How could that help him build his business? If it does, either he's in the wrong business, or she married the wrong man.

[@mutedearthvirgo]

"HE ABANDONED YOU" dave is giving it to her blunt and she still isnt getting it. poor girl.

[@wordivore]

Denial is a powerful thing.

[@mesidye]

Exactly why he married her. He knew he could get away with it by being with a clueless one

[@James-vj5hz]

Didn't she move away? lol

[@tvclips6523]

@@James-vj5hz he agreed to move away with her and then changed his mind. So he abandoned her not the other way around

[@bradleymaravalli2851]

Right!? I hope she’s able to really hear Dave’s words once she sat down after their conversation.

[@jessitabonita]

“I wouldn’t choose career over marriage, but I’m afraid he already made the choice for you.” God bless Dave and his courage to succinctly speak truth!

[@tumalditamadresita]

Jessaka Powers she was the one that decided to leave she already made the choice

[@General_Zod99]

@@tumalditamadresita she should choose her career. why throw away an amazing opportunity? he can go or stay its up to him.

[@MundaneGray]

Dave was being diplomatic. I would have said: “You don’t HAVE a marriage. Your husband already ended it.”

[@elainenilsson5472]

She needs a career

[@marilynbartlett1850]

my guess is the affair partner gave him an ultimatum

[@mjbankhead9063]

He probably had the side chick BEFORE they got married...🤔

[@HamiltonRb]

I like a good conspiracy theory, so here goes. What if he has a bf back in Florida & only married a woman for show, so now he heads back telling his family that she left him? Omg, this could be a tv show

[@fmaz1952]

@@HamiltonRb And the business is actually a shelter company for laundering US money for the Mexican cartel. (I just stole the plot from the Ozark)

[@crystalo8603]

Or a kid

[@HamiltonRb]

@@fmaz1952 Love it. I can see the grassy knoll from here

[@Brandon-218]

@@HamiltonRb This ain't the Jerry Springer show buddy..😂

[@acorntree404]

she is delusional. She keeps changing the subject to talk about his business and money when there is a whole different problem here.

[@JacobWinkle]

What money? Hes broke, 200k+ in debt and broke. Lol

[@---cr8nw]

Mz. Happy feet, that's exactly why she is so stuck on money. Denial is her defense mechanism.

[@AngelofHogwarts]

@@lfields9773 In her mind, she's connecting their separation woes to money problems because that's easier to deal with than a broken heart and betrayal from your spouse.

[@ebonyjoseph9489]

I agree!

[@lijohnyoutube101]

Many women are taught culturally to stay with a man at all costs.

[@SusieSue242]

She’s in denial. He’s definitely doing something shady.

[@mikegettinfit607]

Oooh , figure it out , let's figure it out , fbi investigate

[@janellentim]

At 24 she can leave the marriage unscathed. Put yourself first.

[@blank3115]

and only 6 months in... get out!

[@RettigJ]

Put your self firs!?!? That is a way for a failed marriage to start... The two became one.

[@blank3115]

RettigJ you need to care for yourself once someone STOP giving a rats a$$ about your well being

[@Nanubaby3385]

RettigJ yeah well he’s obviously cheating otherwise he’d move in with his wife

[@5000MikeMaster]

blank blank no one can leave that “unscathed”

[@bajablast2271]

My wife and I were driving when I heard her say that her husband thinks there's no opportunity in Dallas (we live here), and we almost wrecked from laughing so hard. What an absolutely stupid excuse, and he really thinks his wife is stupid enough to believe it. He doesn't respect you, and he's most likely cheating. Leave that bum, and stay in Dallas! The sky is the limit here!

[@timolynnmontgomery9436]

L ll m))let 3e3ee2e2dreeeeefdfdddrd0 we

[@LibertyMadison]

I’m from Dallas and almost died laughing 😆 one of the best markets in the nation

[@InvestingHustler]

“If you ever leave me, I’m coming with you” good one Dave 😂

[@jerseynurse6878]

Investing Hustler lol sounds like my husband

[@Jmc989]

I'm not sure she even picked up on Dave telling her he was with a different women.... Such a sad situation. 💔

[@Ryan_DeWitt]

She never really did. Even when he said I don't know what her name is. She lied to herself and thought he was referring to money. She knows the truth, but some people especially women tend to go into deep states of denial when in extreme pain where they lie to themselves and even believe the lie until they finally wake up.

[@wordivore]

@@Ryan_DeWitt Yep, you hit that nail right on the head.

[@natiduenas991]

I agree! Poor girl shes so young 💔💔💔

[@onwednesdayswewearpink2761]

she is new bride, she cant wrap her head around it yet

[@bamagirlce12]

What exactly did you expect her to say to that? Unless she's positive that he isn't and is going to deny it there's not really anything to say.

[@therobinsons7115]

It seems like she still doesn't get it! She's gonna go back😑

[@customershateyou]

She's in denial. She doesnt want to believe Dave

[@tarabentley1704]

I felt the same way!

[@CAsaidit]

She needs to just get a divorce. Or get the marriage annulled.

[@mammothorbust]

Who knows if he's cheating, but regardless he obviously doesn't love her enough. When I was 3 months married to my wife I was so head over heels she could've moved to the North Pole and I would've come with her. Heck we've been married 7 years and I still feel that way! The fact that he's just cool with staying there is super insulting to her. Poor woman. Get out and find a better dude!

[@lala-cx5ec]

@Heinrich Himmler ppl change after long yrs

[@tumalditamadresita]

Your a simp

[@twilightroach4274]

I’d say it’s a guy, who is very jealous, that his wife is actually going to be successful at something that will undermine his perceived dominance.

[@nickwilson3499]

@@tumalditamadresita love someone is not simping. I hope you can understand that one day

[@LuhRen]

@@tumalditamadresita hes a simp because he loves his wife? 🤣🤣 no sir you are the simp because youre too jaded to love someone other than yourself 🤣🤣🤣

[@victoriagarcia5533]

Girl: take care of your career. Stay in Texas. He’s the one that didn’t meet his end of the deal.

[@wordivore]

Exactly...And I disagree with Dave, about not choosing career over marriage. Especially in the case. Definitely don't choose THIS marriage over career.

[@AcidicJO]

Let’s put ourselves in his shoes for a second. He’s young, lacks wisdom that age brings. He’s on a path to grow his business (at least that what he thinks who knows) and she left him to follow a career dream. He tried to be supportive but the truth is he feels betrayed by her, she chose her career over him, over staying and supporting him. And he’s too young and too dumb to articulate his feelings to her. That he never wanted her to leave, but he didn’t want to seem like a pos if he asked her to stay. He doesn’t necessarily have to be cheating, but by now he probably is because that type of betrayal is hard to over come (he considered it a betrayal). It’s a huge problem inexperienced people make all the time.

[@maureeng.obrien9259]

Getting married and having children ruined my life Lol... The Truth

[@daejonmoody3304]

AcidicJO he could have went with her though he could grow his business in Texas

[@DG-dh2lt]

AcidicJO youre way off dude, he’s cheating on her and he set her up to stay in TX

[@offgridjack5779]

He is using her as a side cash supply for his business. Dump him while you can!! Stay in TX and find yourself a pilot!!

[@rachelcrawford1977]

Offgrid Jack I agree and she needs to make sure her name is not on one of those trucks

[@Kelaine72]

@@rachelcrawford1977 right. I'm feeling like 50% of this is side chick. The other 50% is he is using her name to garner more debt.

[@AKR892]

Noooooo pilots cheat so much lol. They have like 3 families 😂😭

[@ktsterlin9304]

I just cried when he said “I don’t know what her name is” and she said “money, greed...” More like Maria or Tiffany...

[@amandanegrete1306]

KT Sterlin “Money” or “Greed” may be her stage name. You’re right though, the other woman is likely Tiffani or Amber.

[@andrewpycke3255]

Reba Nerk you add a Thiessen on there and you really got something

[@amandanegrete1306]

Andrew Pycke lol, that’s right.

[@Sweetness8338]

Hopefully it’s not...for her sake.

[@ladyv5655]

It could very well be about a side piece AND money.

[@Je.rone_]

*"If she ever leaves me I'm going with her"* 😂

[@DaveMcTKD]

Sounds like something Zig would have said....

[@Je.rone_]

@@DaveMcTKD true💪

[@ladhkay]

*ever

[@Je.rone_]

@@ladhkay thanks I'm the king of typos... I want nothing more than to be dethroned

[@ariel-th6fj]

😂😂😂😂

[@jojog23]

Dave and Ken are savages when laughing about the husbands excuse about Texas economy 😂😂😂😂

[@theresa78201]

I laughed at that excuse too! So lame!

[@Jumperman12mac]

Yeahhh like Texas is in bad shape hahahaha

[@genieinabottle2819]

No dear. Her name is not money :(

[@lmarie8611]

Right? Bless her naive little heart

[@erichchan3]

How is she so naive that she thinks the "other her" is money. She is in such denial.

[@ladyv5655]

She is more likely in deep denial about her situation.

[@Brucev7]

@@lmarie8611 Pray for Salvation for her, then wisdom. John 14:6

[@pneron2032]

"Her" name is Mario and he's good with a jack hammer.

[@marlynsantos9677]

Whew.. I cringed throughout this whole call. Poor lady. She keeps missing point and steering it towards finance, career, how much she makes. I hope she gets some help and gets through this stronger.

[@holly3830]

Marlyn Santos I agree wholeheartedly. She’s so in denial of it all.

[@michellerichardson3090]

I think her being focused on her career is one of the reasons she didn't realize what's going on with her husband

[@rachelgooden9981]

Yessssssss

[@danielreeder62]

That laugh though! Dave is a savage.

[@719leslie719]

Daniel Reeder the laugh took me out 🤣🤣🤣

[@kofiowusu761]

Lol

[@kzamora2548]

5:58 it begins

[@alexatfaudavie]

1:36

[@maureeng.obrien9259]

He's a FREEMASON lol

[@kirbierose2589]

She didn't even understand that they were saying the guy is having an affair.

[@M2161]

She knows, she’s probably in denial. She’s still young and was hoping things would work out

[@ChrisInvests]

Poor thing...she must be embarrassed 😳

[@iPervy]

I think you mean... He must be embarrassed once he hears that chewing from Dave (and his wife), haha.

[@wordivore]

She's in a whole ton of denial.

[@jarissanz9349]

I love how he talks to the young ones with such deep care, like they're his kids. It's really nice.

[@Themoment888]

I hope when she hung up, she reflected on the phone call and realized what they were trying to tell her 😰

[@lindap.p.1337]

Hope she listens again.

[@jacobkylacole9533]

Shout out to Dave Ramsey for being the dad some of us need, the dad some of us don't have at all❤

[@friesandcatsup]

I heard this in his podcast and it broke my heart. She’s young and this dude she married hoodwinked her. But their laugh made me laugh out loud on my way to work. Dave is a beast.

[@TheBeautifulKayla]

Same here!

[@serenabell1971]

This brought be to tears. I have children her age. Darling, if you are reading this. Seek wisdom from your elders and I am praying for you. You are a smart young lady with a great future, if you make the right choices now.

[@lindap.p.1337]

Naiive

[@kay-pu7hr]

If she knows his address, she should surprise visit him.

[@becuteforme]

Dave should have a relationship advice segment.

[@Shadowfynx]

I agree they are related. People need help and advice.

[@orphanedhanyou]

Usually every money problem is a people problem not a math problem

[@Brucev7]

Spring Rose. I love when he dresses down the 'Shack Ups'

[@Brucev7]

@@Shadowfynx Always Spiritual First. Too many Americans are Spiritually Bankrupt. Ecclesiastes 12:13 Let us hear the conclusion of the whole matter: Fear God, and keep his commandments: for this is the whole duty of man. 14 For God shall bring every work into judgment, with every secret thing, whether it be good, or whether it be evil.

[@rachelgee7894]

That's why they've dr john to the team as a licensed therapist

[@fitnfab6522]

She's not listening to the bigger picture. She continues to talk about the money, and they talk about the marriage.

[@JakeStewart1343]

Yeah but she makes 51 k

[@kashfortheking]

Did she really say “money” when Dave talked about “her?” She is blissfully naive.

[@iskdude9922]

Stupid

[@blackpinkslave9969]

She's in or really embarrassed about the whole situation.

[@huckleberryfinn8795]

Severe denial.

[@JerimarGonzalez]

Wow!! This is shocking, poor lady ! Hope she gets around this

[@danielb3863]

She sounds 40, not 24

[@KAY-sk6tk]

I thought it was just me. 😂

[@christinam81]

Right? Reverse those numbers.

[@TheRibofJESUS]

I thought the same thing..

[@NonIdealDr]

Probably a smoker.

[@collinsjamillah]

She's 24 and she was crying that's why she sounds that way. That's my sister btw, she's very much against smoking and has asthma. Jerks get off the page

[@gina_ashford3548]

24😲. She sounds like she's 54.

[@edennis8578]

I know. She absolutely doesn't sound 24. One possibility, I had a teacher in elementary school who had laryngitis in college when she she was supposed to sing with her chorus group at a big event. She sang in spite of the laryngitis and ruined her voice permanently. She sounded like Suzanne Pleshette after a lifetime of smoking.

[@mexifaith]

She probably smokes

[@lisafanucchi5939]

No she doesn’t.

[@milkmarie5120]

It’s the Virginia slims. Lol😂

[@allisonwaters716]

Shes a darker girl, if you look up Jamillah Plaugher, youll see shes really 24

[@JesusisKing03]

Ummm I don't think she gets what the guys are trying to explain 😱😩

[@bellmeisterful]

Yeah it was apparent from the get go.

[@queenleo5578]

Maybe it’s just denial

[@amolgill7480]

Divorce him, Simple

[@JoshuaFrick3]

I’ve never been married, but I’m pretty sure divorce isn’t simple.

[@ecclairmayo4153]

They haven't been married long enough to get a divorce. Annulment is her only recourse!

[@alladreamwedreamed]

Annulment. They've been together less than a year. This would be a quick annulment filed under Abandonment or Deception. Hope she got out.

[@patty109109]

Stay in Texas. She has an amazing opportunity. This guy is a dolt, get rid of him.

[@barbmelle3136]

She left him, she is the problem.

[@alladreamwedreamed]

@@barbmelle3136 she has an amazing opportunity with free commercial pilot training! And she is barely 24! Her man is a liar and a loser and she's too young and inexperienced to realise it.

[@samarztk]

Barb Melle if you bothered watching the video she said HE moved her out there

[@turnertwist]

"There's no opportunity in Texas" I am dying right now!

[@cjlive5182]

Wimpy men never tell you the whole story. He will gaslight her until she has no future instead of telling her it’s over.

[@natalata1435]

" I dont know what her name is" 😬😬😬😬 Her: money WTH 🤨🤔🤔

[@luzareizaga2141]

LOl I know she totally didnt get the hint

[@sarahvianna2450]

nata lata 😂😂😂 I nearly died.

[@primordialmeow7249]

Thanks Papa Dave! Poor girl, but she has a nice life ahead of her with a pilot's license...PS: I am an old lady flight attendant pre-9/11 and I always tried to encourage our female 1st Officers and Captains...Move forward honey.

[@DanielIles]

It's pretty wild that people call Dave with this kind of stuff. Good luck to this poor lady, I can't imagine having to make this decision.

[@collinsjamillah]

Thank you Daniel

[@fayejordan175]

It’s sad, but better now than ten years and kids

[@Spaceysgurl]

She's the side chick. He been with the other woman and needed a stable wife.

[@vinnyt.8027]

You need to be independent and dump this clown. He already got a side chick while you're in Texas. But you're not gonna listen to Dave and you'll go back to him

[@wordivore]

I'd bet he had that other woman before moving this woman to TX. The other woman could very well be the reason he took the opportunity to move his wife to TX in the first place.

[@Sara-x6t3s]

She doesn't know, she clearly did not understand what Dave was saying. Tbh she sounds like me at that age. I wish Dave had tried harder to be clear with her about what he was saying. I didn't get it either at that age, it took my nearly 10 years to realize that my husband was just using me. Unfortunately it sounds like this poor girl will do the same.

[@ChrisInvests]

Definitely sounds fishy 🤔👎

[@andrewgutmann9432]

4:39 Dave: “There’s something going on back home, but I’m afraid to say it out loud ‘cause I don’t know what her name is.” Caller: “...Money?” Me: I mean that’s a little on the nose even for a “dancer’s” name but sure.

[@DJiMike1]

Andrew Gutmann “money.” 🤦🏽‍♂️🤦🏽‍♂️🤦🏽‍♂️

[@ecclairmayo4153]

Hahha a dancer's name

[@jaked1902]

“I don’t want to say it out loud because I don’t know what her name is.” That’s great lol

[@alexatfaudavie]

1:36 - Dave is my spirit animal.

[@tiffanyanthony7189]

She sounds like she’s in denial. It’s pretty clear that he’s not putting his marriage first. Wake up girl. I know you don’t want to face the truth but face it so you can start the healing process.

[@LatoyaBB]

Agree!

[@anolani]

“My husband moved me”.....sounds like he moved YOU out of Florida

[@sjohnny8221]

It was hilarious how they both looked when she said the husband changed his mind. Edit: Dave is hilarious 😂 I don't mean to laugh at someone's marriage, but he said there's something wrong and I'm afraid to say her name!

[@briannacollie2742]

What!? I wish my husband would tell me to go live in another state! Drop him, girl.

[@danger450]

3 months after marriage ... BYE! C'mon woman.

[@rjmlakota]

Dallas is booming!!! Once a liar, always a liar! Follow your dream!

[@elgooges]

Once I heard Florida, I was like dump him and run! 😑

[@stargazerlily8451]

elgooges Amen!! 🤣🤣🤣

[@gumarovasquez5825]

Word!!!

[@Adnilas]

I love Dave Ramsey. Sometimes I just go through watching the ones about marriage because I like hearing his opinion about how husbands and wives are the treat each other. He is my source of fatherly advice.

[@HereIsWisdom1318]

4:54-I told my wife basically the same thing. If we ever get a divorce, I’m staying right here (in our house with her).

[@prncessbaby16]

To try and work things out?

[@HereIsWisdom1318]

@@prncessbaby16 Nope. Just to live there!

[@prncessbaby16]

@@HereIsWisdom1318 what did she say to that?

[@ksf9729]

He knew he wasnt going to Dallas from the very beginning.

[@wiiiz3]

this was the most painful secret being revealed since Scar whispering to simba's ears that he killed Mufasa

[@Bibimbapski]

LOL! Getting ready for that Lion King live action movie, eh?

[@DeniseTimmons]

“My husband doesn’t want to live with me” “You have big problems in your marriage don’t you?” “I don’t know” 🤥

[@timcampbell4132]

"The Economy in Texas is bad"....watching Dave laugh is priceless....

[@mikegettinfit607]

Share the joke , I ain't that smart bruh

[@gabbyandadventures8270]

The economy in Texas is probably the best in the country

[@mikegettinfit607]

@@gabbyandadventures8270 aight cool

[@SweetCaramel_1]

She’s NOT listening. She didn’t get the hint at all smh 🤦🏽‍♀️

[@TheEMC99]

Newlyweds. Young bride. Why would he be making excuses not to want to be with you?? You gotta see it for what it is. Do your best to save your marriage but 3 months apart and this is his attitude. That's a huge problem.

[@mickcv4554]

Ohhh man poor lady, it’s gotta feel terrible when she tells an expert about his excuse and they both instantly burst out laughing meaning it’s definitely not a real reason.

[@EverettValdez]

She is in denial. She keeps changing the subject back to finances when that’s not the problem

[@denisenoles3159]

Bingo. She knows what's up but it is too painful for her to handle.

[@rosalynnweaver3295]

He "moved" his wife... Lady move on!

[@lovelylady0765]

Rosalynn Weaver she’s the wife

[@edennis8578]

@@lovelylady0765 Exactly. That was how she put it. In other words, he got rid of her and she won't take the hint.

[@chuckmitchell7454]

I need an update on this in a year.

[@mesidye]

She’s still with him but now she’s moved Florida and he is in Dallas 😂

[@mikeoxlong567]

She sounds dumb, shes with him still

[@peacheskong2245]

@@mesidye whyyy are you like this?🤣🤣

[@LizaLavolta]

@@mesidye l o l oh no no no no no

[@leonardu6094]

Hi, i 'm here from the future in 2021 and sad to say they're still together.

[@videostartsat4464]

"There's no opportunity in Texas" HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA

[@cellogirl11rw55]

Her husband is playing her for every penny and sleeping around. She needs to dump him.

[@BrownBrown270]

He's the one with the money.

[@daisy9910]

No, he's the one racking up debt. @@BrownBrown270

[@tonia.5861]

OMG!!! I’m literally screaming at the video....RUN AWAY!! RUN FASTER🤦🏻‍♀️

[@garyhost1830]

I dropped what i was doing and came when I read the title

[@LegacyFarmandHomestead]

Giggity

[@HoyaSaxaSD]

Way too much info dude. Family podcast.

[@MassiveJetGrind]

I love it when they burst out in laughter; that was priceless.

[@AngelGonzalez-xk8yl]

She said the other girls name is “money”. This is all going over her head. By the time she realizes she’ll lose her opportunity in Texas and her marriage :/

[@PaperMario64]

Yeah, six months is actually good for her. She can start over quicker.

[@KVW110]

Divorce him, stay in aviation. It will wizen you up quick and wipe the green off. Speaking from first hand experience. 24 is too old to still be that naive.

[@lindap.p.1337]

Great, great, great response.

[@AlexaHopkins]

"the economy in texas is bad"..and Daves laugh omgggg hahah

[@kaylynne1583]

My heart goes out to her 😞

[@elainex5666]

Agreed, poor thing is trying to justify her life falling apart without putting any blame on her husband. This was heartbreaking to listen to. I hope she gets the courage to do what she needs to do.

[@FamousWolfe]

Why feel bad for her? She’s obviously closing her eyes to the truth in front of her. Even with Dave Ramsey trying to spell things out, this woman just does not get the bigger picture.

[@kaylynne1583]

Pix-elated it’s called compassion for those who are going thru a hard time wether they get the picture or not

[@tsims1983able]

I was screaming at the phone when I heard this. This chick is so darn SLOW. How many ways can they put it? But then again, if she had just little common sense, she would not need to call. Like, I still dont thing the poor girl understood at the end🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️

[@ahe79]

tlovely1983 It is easy to judge from our perspectives and only having a few snippets of information. Psychologically, people have defense mechanisms in place to prevent them from being in pain and also to fight to maintain the heart’s deepest desires. What looks to us as obtuse is likely just a ramped up system trying to save itself from misery. Like an immune system in overdrive that might cause itself more damage/pain, such as the myriad of autoimmune disorders/diseases out there, such as lupus, type 1 diabetes, alopecia, rheumatoid arthritis, hashimoto’s, etc. We see the car wreck from our vantage point, while she (then) had yet to fully face reality and the glaring possibility of infidelity. When you don’t want to (whether consciously or subconsciously) face it, you hang on to any other explanation/excuse you can.

[@vidaphotography4073]

I'm from Texas-I laughed as hard as they did at that weaksauce excuse

[@roxaneadams6723]

I love Dave! Such sound advice 💚 praying for this young lady.

[@Siferatu]

My sister and her husband made long distance work for YEARS. Boston, DC, Philly, LA, Houston. Every few months one of them was relocating to a new metro for a promotion. They still saw each other regularly. With their income a weekend flight was a non-issue. Dave and Ken were quick to assume the worst, which may be true, but it also sounds like the husband is in significant denial about his business failing.

[@hollystiener16]

Because it is the worst

[@fire12731]

Poor thing. Feel bad for her 😰💔I hope by now she is thriving in her life and her career and anything that makes her happy

[@shesaid20]

Dave you needed to say it out loud ! You needed to say “I think he is having an affair” because she wasn’t getting it. This is one of those calls I wish we could get an update on.

[@didine256]

Ken and Dave immediately understood their was something fishy in the marriage

[@shatikac]

I dont even live in the states and I died when she said there was no jobs in Texas.

[@TERESAFILIPINAINAMERICA]

I love DAVE RAMSEY SHOW VERY INFORMATIVE AND INSPIRING WHEN.HE GIVE ADVICE HIS VOICE IS VERY CALM VERY ADDICTED SHOW.

[@donperrignon]

Texas' economy runs circles (plural) around Florida. Texas' economy is strong enough to be it's own country and make top 15 in the world.

[@j.vosier6786]

Ryan Lewis oh wow, i might have to leave florida and move to texas after i graduate

[@sweetpotatox1007]

I moved to TX from another state, move on down here it's great.

[@bunbogioheo4126]

@@j.vosier6786 I'm in Florida and I can't wait till I graduate to move back to Dallas.

[@goddessmelanisia]

My sister went through the same thing. Her then husband agreed to move for her career, then backed out. They are both married to other people now.

[@AnnMitt]

Basically, they weren't on the same page regarding her move.

[@farhanrahman3609]

5:57 the way he laughs for the next 10 seconds makes me laugh😂😂😂

[@kc8ppo]

Janice: "He says there's no opportunity in Texas." Dave: HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH!!!!!!!

[@ShiaGirl18]

I listen to this from time to time.

[@karen1678]

Janice, you & your opportunity sound AMAZING! Please take care of yourself & ditch him! Be a pilot!

[@codysiebold9790]

I LOVE when he does these conversations

[@myoldvhstapes]

UPDATE: 6 months later, the husband called Dave from Florida. At 2:37:20 of the full show broadcast from 11 December 2019.

[@BrownBrown270]

Well give us the update.

[@JakeStewart1343]

Or the link to the clip??? 🤔

[@myoldvhstapes]

@@JakeStewart1343 KZbin almost never allows links anymore. Comments with links don't post.

[@natiduenas991]

I love Dave! He’s the realist!!

[@Paulsicles]

I'm a single police officer. Holler at me girl!!

[@notmebutyou8350]

😄😄😄😄😄😄😄

[@lauraeriksen8999]

Paulsicles 😆

[@nikkole9951]

People treat marriage like a joke nowadays. I have no idea why people even get married. It seems like almost every married couple deals with infidelity. It’s ridiculous.

[@AwesomeSauceToys21]

Nikkole I don’t know anyone who has been in a long term relationship without infidelity. It’s sad

[@lala-cx5ec]

@@AwesomeSauceToys21 omg :'(

[@lala-cx5ec]

@@AwesomeSauceToys21 r they ur relatives? friends? or?

[@lala-cx5ec]

@@AwesomeSauceToys21 pls tell me cos i wanna convince myself not to get married

[@AwesomeSauceToys21]

MJ YT. Every married or long term relationship I’ve known of has been through cheating lol yes