YOUR INSECURITIES ARE COSTING YOU YOUR DESTINY by RC Blakes

[@sheenalee7602]

Yes, this video is right on time. I'm just now coming to the realization that for the past 39 years of my life I have been letting my insecurities run my life instead of pursuing my dream. I'm now learning my worth and building my confidence to pursue my dreams so I can live the life God intended for me.

[@teresa28ist]

This blessed me.

[@CodyCole80]

This was me some years back. I’ve come a long way, especially since coming into the truth of TMHY/YAHSHUA. Keep the Commandments, and Upgrade Your Life. 👍🏾

[@Ashley08888]

You're not alone! ❤ congratulations 🎊 on being aware, you're now positioned to turn things around, God is on your side.

[@havefaith697]

I really like what you say. I'm realizing it myself. Thanks

[@LisaBarrow-nj5dm]

Wow…this is a life changing message for me. I am an introvert who happens to be the music worship leader at my church. 12 years later and I am still not comfortable standing/singing in front of a room full of people. I sometimes want to quit, but you just made me look at this from a completely different perspective. Look what we would have missed out on had Pastor Blake’s allowed his insecurities to abort his mission! This is some powerful teaching! May God continue to bless you and your family🙏🙂

[@kesifields9820]

Five ways insecurity hinders your destiny/progress: 1. When you don’t get a handle on your insecurities you will live a life of procrastination and indecision. 2. Insecurity will breed a fear of taking risks. 3. Insecurity always renders it difficult to build relationships. 4. Insecurity will cancel destiny because it will make you resistant to change. 5. Your insecurities are eroding your self confidence. Solution: Remember you can do all things through Christ who strengthens you!

[@celestineshamala1593]

Thank you

[@sarahpeyton3824]

Not dealing with your insecurity erodes you of your destiny. Wow! Shattered realization!

[@catinanunley1111]

I struggle with imposter syndrome, fear of failure, and fear of judgement at times

[@Xbunnixxkilled]

Me too

[@Mines2Yours]

Me as well

[@Alyciah]

Not anymore, coz ur it ❤

[@ambinodagreat]

I love love love love watching your videos. I look forward to listening to them on my evenings when I'm winding down or just simply needing encouragement. My Dad passed away in 2005, so I look up to you for advice from a man's point of view. Thank you

[@LUVTHYSELFQUEENNATALIE2024]

❤️❤️❤️ from Norfolk, Va😊

[@Earthalien89]

Something happened to me when i was 20. It was a call to something i was terrified of. I missed my calling, and i didnt even realize it. my life was terrible for the next 14 years. I just wanna get back on track 😞

[@Tnc874]

"Good enough or not, Im doing this " praise God 🙌🏾

[@PrettyReddTheDoula]

Pastor is always in my business. I've gotta listen again. EDIT: 2nd time listening. EDIT: I've lost count.

[@shraddashradda]

😂🎉 he’s in EVERYBODY’S business!! We all listening again …

[@PrettyReddTheDoula]

@@shraddashradda Woo Wee!

[@julissarivas6992]

I struggle with this every single day and it has become a problem and it has held me back in life. My mother constantly criticized me and nothing was ever good enough for her. I was never affirmed and my father was absent which brought upon many other challenges in relationships. I'm 52 and I can't get her negative words out of my head. 😢 I have been putting in the work to fix this but it has been quite challenging and I have to put in the work every single day.

[@gingerfierce9873]

You are enough just know and rehearse that daily. All is well. Just keep saying it until you believe it sis.

[@julissarivas6992]

@@gingerfierce9873 Thank you so much! You're very sweet and I appreciate your response 💗

[@SdW.8]

Whew! This is SO good. I'm sending you a big hug for sharing this with us. I'll be listening multiple times to keep me on track. Much love from the Midwest US 💖

[@BelleMaria267]

I grew up in a very verbally abusive household, with no father, and a mother who was very narcissistic and very judgmental and critical. She has said a lot of hurtful things to me over the years, and we have not spoken in almost 5 years. I used to be ashamed for feeling not worthy when good things came into my life whether it be material things or positive circumstances, leading to job, advancement or advancement in other areas of my life. I felt insecure on how to accept good things and appreciate them, but now I know that God wants me to have nice things, God wants me to be secure in my self through him and God also wants me to prosper so I’m able to help others. Pastor Blakes, your messages have been so profound and uplifting in my life and I am grateful for you and your lovely wife, Lisa. It’s funny because a lot of times what I’m thinking or not sure about, you’ll seem to answer that question for me at just the right time and confirm things for me that I wasn’t sure about. I’m so thankful that God led me to you. God bless you and Lady Lisa always. 🙏🙏🙏❤️❤️❤️

[@claricesmith9528]

God placed me on your heart to give this message. Due to my upbringing, and past relationships, I lost myself. To God be all the glory! Thank you so much Pastor. God bless you .❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@teresa28ist]

I know whst loving yourself feels like. God bless you!

[@LocnKe]

Right on time! CHANGE is the ESSENCE OF LIFE✨️

[@cee1164]

This message is right on time for me. Thank you God for leading me to it, and thank You for R.C. Blakes. ❤🙏🏽

[@darciborelli9153]

Even with my visual impairment. I am consistently walking forward, attempting and conquering things in spite of the impairment. I do not let it stop me. If it ain’t meant to be it ain’t meant to be.. one does not, will not know if one does not take a step forward.🥰

[@sinnamynnbrown9179]

Can’t tell you how much we appreciate these impromptu sessions Bishop. So grateful for your leadership & guidance in my life. Much love.

[@grittygoddess]

RC boutta spit fire

[@jayshaun87]

I love the quotes you share! Thanks for dying to yourself and walking in your purpose. We are blessed from it

[@CodyCole80]

I’m just like you pastor. I was naturally an introvert before I became a professor. My job is to lecture students, so that pushed me out of my shell.

[@jenmarworld940]

"It's not jealousy, it's a sadness for yourself", thank you, thank you, thank you Bro RC. You are literally the first person, I really mean the first and only person, I have ever heard say that in all my life. All my life while growing up, and into my adult life, all the people I looked up to, after telling me all the wonderful things so and so's daughter or mother or Aunt had done in their life, would then tell me to stop comparing myself to all these other wonderful people, and just be thankful with who or where or what I was or had, when I knew from the depths of my heart that there was something wrong with this message and with what my life was becoming, which was nothing resembling what my heart and soul desired.

[@adrianaarthur]

I suffer from imposter syndrome, but taking actionable steps to overcome that and embrace my destiny.

[@rhondachristensen8619]

Always Enjoy Your Teaching Classes !! 🙏🙏🙌🙌👍👍☕☕

[@sarahpeyton3824]

That is so true…. Monitor what we say to little children.

[@kaleema1987]

Listen the “am I good enough” that really resonates with me that’s just in general oh my goodness I can so relate. I’m not going to front that part brought tears to my eyes.

[@kathythompson6724]

Pastor Blake's, this is a awesome teaching, this has been my problem. I was abuse as a little girl, the trauma from make lack love for myself and allow people use me, thank you for sharing.

[@DanniNarcisse-co7fu]

Thank you Jesus!

[@LisaBarrow-nj5dm]

So powerful I’m listening for the third time.

[@catrinabrooks2450]

Ouch! You did everything but call my name. Well done. May you be blessed for your dedication.

[@sarahpeyton3824]

Insecurity will make you cancel destiny, because of resistance to change

[@rhondazstylepage]

Amen!! This is such a Powerful message! I’m learning to take the risk, because It’s okay to fail, just don’t give up! I learn the most when i accept the challenge and step out in faith and fear, trusting GOD the entire way. Thank you!! ❤❤❤

[@julissarivas6992]

I Thank God for this channel. I have been listening to you for about 4 years now and I have learned so much about myself and had multiple aha moments and epiphanies. I am so grateful for you. Sadly you are the closest thing I have had to a father. You have no idea how much you have helped me. I have come a long way and each day you help me go higher and higher. God Bless you and Thank you so much @RcBlakes.

[@outsidethebox8406]

Same story as mine. No father. I have learned so much from Pastor. I swear he's a father figure & exactly what I needed to become the Queen that God designed me to be.

[@julissarivas6992]

@@outsidethebox8406 💕

[@rhondachristensen8619]

Amen..Thank you, for " Being Real "...👍👍

[@faithwalk.]

Im convicted by the title alone🙏🏽

[@alexismatthews3486]

Glory Be To The LORD GOD ALMIGHTY!!!!! Preach-It! I stand in full agreement with all that you spoke!

[@SheyB-sl5kg]

Thank you Pastor. My insecurities have already cost me so much over the years. Thank God for healing. Thank God for Pastor Blakes

[@Ebonyshepard-r8e]

Such a blessing to hear you minister to Our community,you are greatly appreciated Pastor!❤❤❤

[@sarahpeyton3824]

Insecurities can stem from lack of Affirmation

[@lindag.5688]

Bishop, can you please speak on the subject of being secure and the problems it causes. Throughout my life I’ve had people tell me that I’m, “stuck up”, think too much of myself, etc.. I’ve had many females befriend me, as I thought, only to try and destroy me out of jealousy. I’ve had similar issues with males, including my ex husband..I’ve never been afraid to relocate, speak in public, talk with anyone, take on setting up businesses from scratch, take on challenges in a heartbeat, never been a procrastinator, yet, I am somewhat of a perfectionist, and I’ve been told this as well.

[@QueenSamiyah]

What a blessing

[@SacredEarthEssentials]

I don’t understand what I am supposed to do. Thank you for praying for me. I love public speaking, not shy about that. Not sure what I am doing wrong, Bishop. I’m just worried about day to day stuff and getting myself together so that I can present more publicly and sell my workshops, books and services. I can’t do it all alone, yet. I’m still trying to get my house clean & my homework done. I need help and mental health professionals don’t help with housework or as a personal assistant or carpenter so my plan is to make money to pay for help, but I haven’t been able to get out of this level of financial poverty, yet. I definitely struggle with insecurity, procrastination and indecision. Lack of consistent positive affirmations growing up. All resonates! Thank you. Thank God. Amen. 🙏🏼

[@schlindaflynn8854]

I feel the same way at times

[@audreyandrea460]

Same. I’ll pray for you.

[@RhondaR4]

WOW this video is right on time. GOD has been speaking to me all day in KZbin video's today. Earlier I was watching Stephan Speaks video and the word insecurity came to mind. I said to myself to watch your video when I left out to exercise but I seen it was so many people out so I decided to listen to music. I wanted to get in and out of others way. You got me laughing. Bisphop you are on point. My problem was I would do my best to be seen. Childhood abuse from everyone and in relationships made me work hard and do my best to feel accepted other. I didn't work for me.🤣 Today, I don't care what people think of me. My peace is very important. I love me.❤

[@joannehalsey1619]

Thank you Bishop Blakes. You are so down to earth and on point. I'm thankful you follow the Holy Spirit! Blessings to you and your family!❤🎉🌞

[@shraddashradda]

😂 Euro Afro lips!! LOL my lord I do love our dear Pastor!! ❤

[@loveneedandwantu]

This was for me, thank you. My gift is being held prisoner to my insecurities.

[@outsidethebox8406]

Same

[@NTATHUMAPHUMULO]

Powerful God bless you always. I thank God for you Pastor.

[@QueenSamiyah]

I really needed this message right now thank you

[@lindalove]

Thank you Bishop I needed this 😊

[@rhondachristensen8619]

Thank you..👍👍

[@ketoles7777]

TY TY TY for this. I really appreciate you.

[@ReineEstee]

Pastor RC & First Lady Lisa, You both just don’t know what an encouragement and awesome inspiration you both have been to me! I love you both so much! Also, Pastor RC, it was so uplifting to hear you say you’re more so an introvert and once had quite a problem with public speaking, but you’ve pretty much conquered that. That’s what I’m working on right now. Yet, I know if you can overcome with GOD’s Strength, I can too! Wow! This entire sermon was a winner! Thank You both so much for being such a Powerfully Anointed couple and for being there!❤️🌹👏😮😊🤗🤩

[@sarahpeyton3824]

Be willing to surrender what you are for what you could become

[@theblissfulknowing]

Thank you, thank you, thank you for all that you are and all that you do and share, R.C.! Your presence in my life has been a tremendous gift of healing and empowerment… I am blessed beyond measure and so very grateful for your wisdom and generosity. 🙏☺️

[@tracylondon844]

It's all about receiving and understanding the message

[@stefblanco3887]

Pastor I can totally relate to being a loner and introvert! I’ve been this way my whole life! 😩 I am so glad you’ve overcome that insecurity. I absolutely find it a privilege and honor to listen to your wisdom. Love you much 💐♥️🙏🏽

[@outsidethebox8406]

💯same. I embrace being an introvert & a loner. It's the best, most peaceful life.

[@queenkeesh8660]

Good advice it’s true we all must get solutions

[@alphaandomega1332]

Amen 🙏🏾. Thank you Bishop for this message because I don't anything getting in the way of my destiny.

[@sheliasmith2884]

Thank you so much I'm the same way being in the ministry I have to stand before people it causes me a lot of anxiety and I am a introvert

[@lienelubgane]

I cannot wait to listen to these messages on podcasts so that there is a chance to listen in once on the go!

[@chayilevents7979]

Thanks for this video,it was very helpful.

[@ValerieLangley-yw8xw]

Thanks UU lord!! thanks messager for the update on the train !! thanks 🙏🏽

[@reginekhon4242]

I love watching your videos it always hits and it’s what I need to hear. ❤

[@kitaevans8686]

I needed this message. Because I'm fearful of failing🙌 Thank you Bishop

[@outsidethebox8406]

Same. Praying for us to break free of that. 🙏🏽

[@valencialscott5873]

I struggle heavily in this area, and have lost close friendships and potential mates due to my insecurities. I'm sick of this having dominion in my life, blocking my blessings. This message has truly blessed me, thank you!

[@outsidethebox8406]

I needed this so much Pastor. It's as if you're speaking directly to me. My God. Thank you Lord for the message & thank you so much for our amazing messenger Pastor Blakes Jr.

[@sarahpeyton3824]

I am definitely a perfectionist…THAT’S A KILLER

[@shalettashumpert9522]

So good!!!

[@kimberlysanaa25]

Thank you Bishop! Another great one!

[@sarahpeyton3824]

Hi Bishop & Lady Blakes, New Home Family and Everyone!

[@pelkieroberson5511]

Walk n your confidence. Amen

[@lindag.5688]

AMEN & AMEN Bishop‼️

[@sarahpeyton3824]

Spot on!

[@sylviahunter-sr4is]

Thank you 🙏🏾

[@thequeenmidas]

Thank you for the reminders, Sir👌🏾

[@sarahpeyton3824]

God’s Blessings to you & Lady Lisa ! 🫶🏼👌🏼

[@ladyzinada5341]

I needed this message 😢

[@schlindaflynn8854]

Thanks Mr. and Mrs. Blakes

[@zephanieflippin9206]

I have a ton of insecurities! thank God for what He has blessed you to teach us.

[@lakendraadams1077]

Yes RC Blake’s Jr. When I look in the mirror 🪞 I have feel insecure 😟. I gained so much weight. I know I need to lose weight. I start working on my diet for the last 4 weeks. I need physical strength to get into the gym it has effected my health unfortunately. I was abused as a child once I grew up I attracted the wrong type of guys and girls into my life. Self sabotage drinking and smoking 🚬 my pain away. God has brought me a night long way. I’m under an emotional strain. I lost my only daughter and her ex boyfriend who was like a son in 2018. Pray 🙏🏼 for me my dad died too. I been through alot

[@rhondachristensen8619]

I had a toddler, in tow...I looked for benefits in jobs; to help build a stable foundation...So, 9 years, at the same employment, praying for better salary and promotion opportunities...

[@rightway4113]

Yes, I feel insecure with my abilities. I feel like I don't have anything going on for myself. I have a master's degree in Education. I am working on overcoming this lack of self confidence.

[@outsidethebox8406]

Sis you're very rare. Do you realize how few people in this country hold a Master's Degree. That's amazing. Celebrate yourself! I'm proud of you & I don't even know you bc I know how difficult it is to achieve.

[@rorojones59]

I always love your videos. And that song…wow…it is so beautiful. ❤

[@ChelseaWest-xm3iz]

God bless you Pastor! This was certainly an on time word!

[@PamB72]

This was good. I will be taking notes have to listen twice.

[@resteralexander3891]

I did enjoy your program

[@jennifersmith1886]

Thank you, RC! This was on point! ❤❤❤

[@pelkieroberson5511]

Being comfortable with rocking by yourself

[@nkeirukaanyadufu3607]

This video came at the right time 🙏🏻 . Thank you so much Sir 🙏. God bless you 🙏

[@Alicewunderimland]

Oh spiritual father thank you for sharing your wisdom. We really need you to make peace with ourselves and other and grow inside and change what is changeable for our benefits and the changes which just happen because of life learning to live with it with a positive good or neutral ❤🙏

[@schlindaflynn8854]

Childhood insecurities

[@irenecdn]

¡Gracias!

[@sarahpeyton3824]

Embrace your own humanity!

[@tamterell]

Yep! never felt a need to fit into a group.

[@darciborelli9153]

I know that I am only able to do what I do, accomplish what I’m able to accomplish because of my Lord savior Jesus Christ All the glory goes to my father God thank you thank you Jesus thank you Holy Spirit thank you

[@patricewarner1514]

Thank you for this ❤

[@1977angelinflight]

Thank you for this. I had to come back and watch.

[@gloriagarris1574]

That is so true Pastor. I really need God to help me to be able to endure potential failure 🙏🏽.

[@chaniawillow]

So good as always. Thank you Bishop. And yes, we shall see you in Kenya yay!! Your words of wisdom are touching our lives here!!

[@RhondaR4]

One insecurity I struggle with is when I speak. People always assume that I act like I'm better than others. When that is clearly not what I do or who I am. If they only knew my background and how I even became to use my voice they would understand. Oh but when I speak in a community setting for the residents it's different. They like me then. I don't have time to be telling my life story to every one I meet so they understand me. People mistake my kindness for weakness and hurting themselves disrespecting me. This is why I enjoy my alone time. People today be doing too much and I don't have time or the patience for drama. I see too much in people, their eyes, to be wanting them around me. I'm enough for me right now.😂

[@outsidethebox8406]

💯I know exactly how you feel. I stay to me and I'm so much more at peace than I've ever been.

[@danitragoss1070]

Needed this!❤

[@lwarfield52]

Thank you Bishop and First Lady Lisa. 💖 I definitely needed to hear this message. 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🌷