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[@betterideas]

Just want to say: I used 90 days as an example of a manageable amount of time to make a change. But there is nothing magical about 90 days specifically, and I actually don’t like that type of thinking, which I’ll talk about in the next video ;)

[@therichbuddha3277]

It actually is magical in real estate as that's usually how long before a commission is paid out! :)

[@oregano19]

I can't wait to see it

[@indrautama3648]

The only KZbinr video im looking forward on my notification, the only notification i set it on. No woo woo (i have no idea what it means). Simple and encouraging for self review for improvement

[@Mkube1999]

Is the next video coming after 90 days?

[@singwings]

I love the first question at start of this video. Great premise and it forces you to focus on it. 💙 Great channel!! :)

[@a.rad_music]

One of the greatest pieces of advice I have ever gotten is "5 years will pass regardless so if you keep saying you want to learn something just learn it now, in 5 years down the road you'll either have learned the skill or learned you didn't want to learn that skill"

[@jdubs2113]

5 years is sucha long time tho

[@a.rad_music]

@@jdubs2113 it is but it also isn't. It's 60 months or 20 periods of 90 days. It flies by faster then you think it will. So if you want to do something but keep putting it off start it today. Keep with it even if you suck at first. You'd be surprised at the progress you make when you stop putting excuses up.

[@BreadPeed]

@@jdubs2113 it is when you are 10-15 or even 20. But when you're 30, time flies so fast that it throws off a cap

[@Fekuchand_]

@@a.rad_music ❤️❤️❤️

[@henrikduende]

That’s like me and star Wars on Ps4, i’ll never learn how to do it. I’ll always be average 😂

[@TheDoomerGoGetter]

90 days ago I was depressed, falling back into smoking weed and drinking alcohol after being sober for so long, now I'm happy, sober, hopeful for the future, consistently working out, eating healthy, spending a lot of time working on my self improvement KZbin channel, stepping out of my comfort zone, and going to be enrolling for college soon, if you're down right now, keep moving, it will get better as long as you don't give up

[@uniicorniumx]

Inspiring!! 🙏🙏🙏

[@helenivanova5440]

90 days ago i felt inspired and full of energy, but 45 days ago i had a deep apathy. Today i feel fairly optimistic but in 45 or even 10 days will have apathy and no willing for life again, and in a month more i will feel enthusiastic for starting a new life again. And it's an endless situation.

[@TheDoomerGoGetter]

@@helenivanova5440 we go through the waves, just keep surfing

[@helenivanova5440]

@@TheDoomerGoGetter yeah, i keep, looks like this is the only option for me:). I think, i had faced it already.

[@hannahboebanna]

@@helenivanova5440 I am so with you!! My therapist put it like this, and it’s stuck with me; “sunshine, all the time, makes a desert.”

[@charliegunthers]

wow seeing that life chart and seeing a visual representation of a person's finite time on earth was kinda terrifying. definitely got a lot out of watching this video thank you

[@Hope0fHumanity]

That thing freaks me out. Like a lot.

[@nazaryn]

@@Hope0fHumanity What's scarier is not everyone gets the entire chart. Yours, or mine, might stop suddenly halfway through, at like, Age 46. At which point, you'd spent far more than 50% of your lifetime thusfar.

[@julius43461]

I have one on my wall. I used to try to motivate myself to do things that way, but it didn't really work. It freaks you out though.

[@sakmadik69420]

and then i thought i was going to waste more years in college lol

[@sleepn_on_me2473]

Calculate the hrs, and thatll really scare you

[@TDBRICKS]

I live in a part of the country that gets constant rain and little sunshine this time of the year. There’s tons of fog and clouds as if I turned my render distance on Minecraft down to 1. I generally find it difficult to get out which makes this time of the year challenging for me because I love exploring and being outside. To hear you speak these powerful messages inspires me and makes me want to work every day to be a better man and help those around me. You’re changing peoples lives bro 🔥

[@hypocriticalgrammarnazi]

Broski I did not expect to see you here

[@theofficialpollo]

Nah

[@coreyw5981]

Seattle citizen here experiencing The same feeling 🙋🏻‍♂️

[@mrs.quills7061]

New Englander here, this time of year is awful for me too. It’s dark when I wake up and dark when I go home. The sun starts to set around 3pm so I get anxious and it throws my sleep cycle off. It’s so draining how this time of year is. I also tend to not be as active because it’s too cold and dark outside the mornings and evenings are below freezing and there’s ice everywhere. Seasonal depression sucks and I’m sorry you’re going through it.

[@youtubereview8176]

Hi @TDBRICKS, From your videos, it sure looks like you are living quite an awesome life. I'd love to be in your position, and I'm sure a lot of other people would like to be too. You put in the work to make an awesome channel. If you still have any extra LEGO, I'd appreciate some LEGO technic or whatever you have left.

[@MrSandManGiveMeADream]

"We all make choices, but in the end, our choices make us" - Andrew Ryan.

[@whythis-]

Starting has always been a struggle for me. Distractions, excuses, unexpected changes... I know I can create better habits for myself but it's just hard. I'm trying my best to be less self doubting and I hope I can change myself for the better long term.

[@alexmurphy5289]

I’ve been working towards switching careers for years but finally got into school three weeks ago. I am 31 and I was studying algebra and writing essays all summer, it sucked but it worked out. My last day is tomorrow, I’m FINALLY leaving the career I’ve loathed for years. Never give up on what you want, life is way too short for that

[@V0ID_beats]

congrats man! This would be my dream moment in life

[@yearginclarke]

It's important to learn marketable skills of some type that will give you a decent job, and never stop learning. I didn't do that. The only 2 reasons I didn't go to college or further my education was because of my struggles with math all throughout K-12, and some social anxiety issues as well. I was probably the worst student of anyone I knew at math from multiplication onward. I struggled to memorize times tables or do simple mental math, which made everything afterward very, very hard. I barely passed high school because of how horrible I was at math. I think the only reason I did graduate is because it was a very tiny school and the teachers seemed to like me, and probably took it easy on grading my math exit exam so that I could graduate and move on. I did develop skills in my particular industry, but it requires long hours, and unusually long commutes in my particular situation. (it's complicated, too much to explain here) I've been sick and tired of the commuting and lack of home time for years, but have been stuck because I don't know anything else. I figured I would have found an apprenticeship or someone willing to train me for a different field by now, but I haven't. So I'm gonna have to figure out something to get out this rut somehow or other.

[@NoName-cd5ft]

Congratulations man!!

[@rahulmistry5019]

I am 30 and am trying to get into math again. I gave up due to past trauma from a professor. Thanks for sharing, it helps. It is not as easy with bills to pay but we are going to age regardless and life is indeed too short.

[@FolliYt]

Few things that helped me understand what needs to be done to actually achieve what I truly desire: Stop believing in motivation, depression, boredom, days off (not counting the gym, muscle needs rest) Understand that you need to be present as much as possible, like handsome bald guy said, time really doesn’t care, it will still go by very quickly. It’s up to you to figure out if doing average things, therefore having an average life, is something that you can be satisfied with. With everyone so asleep in social media, this fake reality, not a lot of people will understand you, including your friends. So don’t second guess if cutting them off is the right thing to do. I don’t know you or your situation but it most likely very much is. Don’t waste your very limited time and energy on nothing and no one that’s not deserving it. Do 100%, 100% of the time. If you can follow these steps, you aren’t even gonna find this so hard to do. Since it would be way harder for you to settle with entropic ‘lifestyle’.

[@NYKIRA]

"And I have a role to play to shape the next 90 days" This is so true!! Often we try to jump to new goals without looking at what we're currently dealing with and acknowledging our current 'momentum'. This is why transition is so powerful; we need to allow ourselves time to 'get there' and it starts with recognizing who you are today 🖤

[@gabyoo]

I remember how I was feeling exactly 90 days ago, it was a very difficult time for me and all I wanted was for time to stop. Nowadays, I feel some peace towards the situation I was in, but I haven't really done much to make my life better either. 90 days from now, I will have celebrated my 26th birthday and I refuse to be stuck in this same spot!!! Thank you for waking me the fuck up yet again Joey. I'm holding myself accountable publicly commenting this and I hope to have updates worth sharing from here on out 🙏

[@RedShirtMenace808]

as cc-(

[@ghostrecon3834]

How’d it turn out?

[@aly-dr2lh]

This is a great way to think about every action that you do in life, thanks a lot for the advice!

[@tuesdayallweeklong]

Dude, your cinematography skills are some of the best on YT, period. The shots of you alone on the road perfectly convey the feeling of "okay, I've come all this way, and here's where I've ended up," and they're always so fkn clean and crisp 👌. Top-notch stuff, man - love every video more than your last, for real. Thanks for caring about this channel so much - it definitely shows in your work, and YT needs more positive, male "self-improvement" guys. Too many of them have this "Andrew Tate Lite" vibe that makes me worry about teen guys, and what effect that'll end up having on them, y'know? So just thanks for being so good at this YT thing that they can't ignore you, and putting out healthy takes on self-improvement and stuff - you're a real one, man 👊

[@PedroBlazeArt]

Omfg. I thought it was all stock footage. I just realized it's him!!! 🤯

[@gera_eb2588]

I agree w/u Tuesday Nevins. He’s one of my favorite KZbinrs and I’ve learned from him. Hope he has helped u like me on your personal development journey.

[@PedroBlazeArt]

@milesdoyle tldr?

[@alexsrson]

Thank you for another year of brilliant content! The B-roll footage in this video was so cinematic and impactful. Goes very nicely with your helpful words. All the best for 2023!

[@plushpilot8023]

This guy has inspired me, very down to earth lad.

[@plushpilot8023]

@Don't Read My Profile Photo ok

[@gera_eb2588]

Another astonishing video at the right momento in the right time. Thanks for the 90-days visualization. Keep it up the good work, loved your minimalistic, beneficial and self-help content. Saludos desde Mexico.

[@TwistRemiss]

After watching so many of these types of videos, I really do think this might be the only one that actually sat right with me and gave me a completely different way of thinking about my life and what I want from it. Thank you for this.

[@perseusgeorgiadis7821]

It makes my brain hurt, how little I've accomplished the last 90 days, and what a tremendous shift my life took. I went through travel, crazy amounts of anger, fighting, but also forming relationships. I damn changed the entire stream of my life by deciding to apply for a different major, in a different country, because of these very experiences. What has kept me from accomplishing as much as I would have liked, in these past 90 days, largely has to do with the fact that I let my overwhelming expectations and anxiety, dictate and micromanage my every decision. Time pressure from school to study and turn in projects, as well as my parents acting like I'm a disappointment at every turn. I watched an old friend of mine who took off when I fell into a deep state of anxiety for months, take off and get into a really good uni, and right now, I even think I'm better off. 90 days ago, I'd think the "me" of today is crazy. My friend got into a top 50 school in the US and she's gonna be paying 80k a year on tuition, while I'm applying (and will probably get in) to a top 6 school in the world, and not even pay half that, just because I decided to abandon the mindset we both had. Evidently, the last 7 months of crippling anxiety are probably the best thing that could happen to me. 90 days ago, I was studying for a math test (procrastinating actually, but let's stick to the story here). Had I not done as well on that test, I wouldn't have gotten a top grade, and wouldn't change my future major from CS to Mathematics. Admittedly, despite my anxiety, had I managed my time and psyche better, I could be a lot further in many aspects of my life than I am now. I'm setting a reminder. I'll be back in 90 days

[@tnijoo5109]

You’re doing way better than you realize. Just doesn’t feel that way when you compare to where you think you are supposed to be. I’m 43 now and wish I could go back to tell myself to enjoy myself. Really, you’re a beautiful person with a beautiful mind and you should enjoy getting to be you, instead of getting down on yourself. Everything is perfect exactly where you are now. All of your imperfections and seeming failures are also perfect. You are perfect. Meditate with that every day if you can. And if you can’t, don’t get down on yourself. LOL. Good luck to you. 💚

[@iPostiPodiEatiYuri]

who cares about top schools and things like that, there’s about a million things more important

[@sleepn_on_me2473]

Its ok dude. Cus if you were perfect, then you wouldnt of even wrote this. Try and study the “dialect” by engels and marx, that might steer u in the right direction

[@MotionArrayTutorials]

Top tier info as always. Thanks for the insight Joey! Love this! 🙏

[@BB-or9lz]

Thank you so much for the encouraging message. Your thoughts totally resonate with me. I’m ten days into building better habits and I’ll use your clip as a reminder if I have to 😊

[@christhornham]

Great job. Clear, concise, and visually appealing explanation of a great concept.

[@Rise876]

Thanks for the inspiration and new ways of looking at things. Hope you have a great new year. 👍🏻

[@girlsoup01]

This perspective is brilliant! Thanks!

[@nickmordente3844]

Joey! Been watching for years man and I always make sure I carve time out of the day to sit, watch, and reflect whenever you drop something new. Appreciate all the guidance -

[@coopj7706]

90 days ago, I was at the beginning of the police academy, full of dread, anxiety, and facing a complete culture shock and having to adjust to it. Spending most nights wondering if I can continue. And 90 days before that, I was in the selection process and spending every day and night wondering if I was going to be selected and getting ready for the academy. And 90 days before that, I was applying for that department, thinking "there is no way I'm getting selected, but what if they do?" So I did and now I'm actually at the beginning of the career I have always wanted. It's insane, I could've never seen myself here. A year ago I was devastated, depressed, severely overweight, had no ambition, was heartbroken, and would spend every day doing nothing. So, for anyone out there struggling, know you can change your life around if you want to. Take a risk and continue to always keep going forward.

[@astitvatiwarii]

This is one of your best videos. Thanks Joey! I really needed this right now.

[@joshuab1046]

Always keeping it on that fine line of professional and “I’m just some guy makin videos”, love you brotha.

[@josuecarranza7735]

I really enjoy Joey's videos, not only inspiring, but also so cinematic, really apreciatte your work bro, much love :3

[@hnnhml]

Incredible video once again, both film and content wise - thank you Joey, you're a true inspiration 🙏

[@gagank478]

Needed this right before my workout. Cheers brother!

[@corinnemuir1542]

Thanks for this moment of clarity. It's exactly what I needed to hear at this moment in time.

[@ed9059]

I’ve been watching you for a while now dude and I’ve actually never commented from what I remember. Being that it’s about to be a new year may contribute to me being able to relate to this video so much, but thank you. This hit so close to home I had to make sure my doors were locked. 🙏

[@gera_eb2588]

You got this, Ed. Keep it up, buddy.

[@peterivan22]

This was an amazing video and much needed! I really had not thought about it that way. I have been meaning to get my own channel, this channel started, and I kept putting it off, for various reasons, and then justifying it. The choices I was making, led me to now, thank you Joey!

This was such great, no nonsense motivation, thank you ❤️

[@Tyoxy]

Another great video from you! Thank you!

[@thejessica-est]

90 days ago I was on track. Today my mood has tanked, has been declining over the last 3 weeks. I've got my gym bag packed today and told myself "Just do it, even if you don't want to. Do it for future Jess". Your timing is perfection. Thank you ❤️

[@juststee]

I reckon most of us here know exactly how that feels... Just do it as easy as it is to say, is actually not so easy a lot of the time

[@JA99]

Exactly 365 today I was infected with covid and have been ill since then. But as I look over the past 12 months I can see the ups and downs and really down times...breaking this up by 90 days or a month at a time actually helps me to see the progression. I am visualizing being even healthier 90 days from today. Thank you 🙏

[@rozwize505]

Really good point and well delivered. Thank you

[@stefdazzle3075]

Thanks dude! Love the perspective!!

[@Andoz_MP3]

This video reminded me of a quote that I like from Hamza which I will paraphrase "Regardless of the discomfort, time will move anyways, so shouldn't you spend it on doing the habits that will make you proud of yourself?". This video is a lesson on making the most of the time that we are given and I appreciate your wisdom Joey.

[@DjSoulsaver]

Love this. Great b roll and representation on this topic. Easily digestable and to the point for those with shorter attention spans. Well done. Love the catchy titles too, inspiring for the upcoming channel. ps. Also shocked you're only 26.. is it the bald head? Not sure, but I was sure you're closer to mid 30 my man. eitherway knowing we're the same age, you've come far. Love the content once again.

[@iamthestormthatisapproaching69]

I really needed to hear this. For the start of the new year, I'm having it pretty rough. From me having to deal with a flat tire to actually needing new ones to to replace it, It's making me think about my financial decisions and the decisions I've made to get to where I am today. I'll confess that I am experiencing gacha hell, and I even have a planned trip this year to Malaysia; I'm currently residing in the state of Tennessee. This trip is set in around spring or early summer, but I know for sure that it will be expensive. But I also plan to make this my "biggest year," as I have plans to enjoy it the best way possible. That all sounded great, but recently my other dog is weak and I will have to go through putting him down eventually 😔. And this is all happening at once entering the new year. But I guess I have to remind myself that I have 11 more months to go through it, and I can set 80-90 days to recover from this and I can hope it goes better. It just goes to show that one person's year can be their worse while others might have it better. I mean look at 2020. It may seem like everyone's year was bad, but my 2020 isn't that bad because then I didn't think much since I was in school.

[@roachspray]

Cool, I'm Malaysian! Hope the trip worked out for you, and I hope life's going great for you so far. I've had my fair share of trials this year but finally turned it around by starting a new uni major. All the best from one self-improver to another :)

[@amgod40]

Love your videos. I usually download them to listen to over and over. Wise beyond your years!

[@josepollo419]

90 days ago I was living through one of the worst periods of my life, constant drug use, couldn't get a job because I didn't have an ID or birth certificate. I was wandering through life without any plans whatsoever. Then I was forced to change, I was getting evicted and I had to move. Luckily my cousin has let me stay with her in this past 90 days. In this past 90 days I've gotten my ID and Birth certificate again, gotten my grades up, a girlfriend who loves me, I've enlisted in the Marines and I'm to ship out in August. This video helped put my last couple months in a picture, if that makes sense. I hope to make the next 90 days all the better.

[@WesAKAthemilkman]

Hyd man?

[@autoaero3201]

90 days from now will be March 29th. Thinking of it that way and it being the beginning of spring definitely helped to put things in perspective. I think mentally viewing things in terms of X amount of days even if it's only 30 can sometimes be too abstract but thinking of it as a set date helps. I've been dragging lately so I decided to make a goal list to work through over the next 90 days. Definitely some things I would like to have different by spring time.

[@bilalvasty6044]

I have never connected more with any channel than yours. Thank you for all that you do! Happy New Years!

[@sumitsarkar52]

thank you for such a great outlook on life. thank you

[@GoldenMushroom64]

Thanks Joey and happy new year

[@henrychealtv8945]

Thanks for this. I’ve been delaying going to the gym for over a year now because of fear. But going into the new year I want to change that. 90 days is a realistic goal and I’m starting bullet journaling to track this habit too. Also in 90 days I will almost finish my dissertation, so this video came at a perfect time.

[@theofficialpollo]

You need no gym, excersise at home

[@labdian]

Go today, you'll be a step ahead before January.

[@labdian]

@@theofficialpollo a surprisingly narrow-minded comment.

[@medicalmonkfish3576]

Amazing dude! I started going to the Gym in September and I can promise it improves your confidence, health and focus. Don't forget legs tho ;)

[@mrs.quills7061]

@@theofficialpollothat’s silly some people don’t have the space and others like the environment, there’s a lot of motivation being in an environment where people are doing something healthy or productive. I used to go to the gym and then built a small at home gym over time during the pandemic. My local gym was talking about before hand anyways and their hours sucked.

[@matthewmartin9313]

Thanks man. Very helpful motivation

[@AugustusAsgeir]

Needed this thank you

[@OmotenashiWineDiary]

I like the message which is “the life you live was already decided for you by you”. It’s probably the basic way of thinking to get to know who you are.

[@Kevzult]

I’ve decided a new life for myself already. So excited for this journey on KZbin!

[@helenivanova5440]

I've decided a new life a hundred times already. But never succeeded in attaching myself to some new habits or so for 90 days, not once. Maybe 2,5 months at best.

[@niklikes7646]

i rlly like how you cut your videos its really enjoying and helpfull af

[@49HEALTH]

Watching this on January 1st is probably one of the best things that’s happened to me in a long time. I feel extremely motivated to be better and I will check back in with y’all in 90 days!

[@mafifi360]

This has been something on my mind for so long now, and now you’re making a video on it, I love hearing your takes on things like this, they’re always very interesting and thought-provoking.

[@pixelcreators4425]

yeah thats why you didnt even watch the video first XD

[@mafifi360]

@@pixelcreators4425 there’s something called a title, which I read

[@pixelcreators4425]

@@mafifi360 oh yeah and you already knew what exactly will he tell you about just from the title

[@mafifi360]

@@pixelcreators4425 yes? that’s what a good youtube video does

[@zobabahider9820]

90 days ago l was in a relationship with a man who l though he will be my future husband, now he getting married his ex next month ... That makes me think how much things can be changing in a very short time .. How much our life jumping a very big steps in a tiny period .. I spend the last years without any serious relationships, when l decided to enter in one in less than 6 months that's what happened !!. I will move on in the next 3 months and also gets the one who i really deserves, believing in that 🌷

[@_o6629]

You deserve better.❤️ He wasn't meant for you

[@karishmadiaries4824]

The calendar thing was awesome!! Thanks again !

[@psychepeteschannel5500]

My main problem is, that I do not form habits, or rather, I form them too easily. It is basically equal. Because once I build a habit, I have it, until I build a habit that un-does the previous habit. And while in many cases, the period of time I did something might have been too short to build the habit, I have many examples in which the period of time was enough. Like Being vegan for 9 months, before slowly drifting away from it for no reason. Or not playing PC games for 6 months, and slowly drifting back into it. Or losing 60 pounds over a period of 7 months, only to get all the weight back. Or finding time for active hobbies like sailing, hiking and riding horses, only to drift away from it for no reason... The struggle never ends, there is no 90th day at which I can savor the results... not meaning savor results as in seeking mindless pleasure, but just from the acquisition of a new, better habit. Because the habit is never safe. There is no "result". Every day is the first day and no day is the 90th day... at least for me.

[@stevec404]

Linking a 'better you' to a (doable) time frame is very helpful to me. Otherwise, the effort required to reap a benefit just seems so difficult to maintain.

[@allan1448]

Thanks Joey! The Life calender is a nice tool for the mind monkey to see that our time is finite. Keep that bold head shard and shiny (like I do ;)) and see you in the next video :D

[@sunpi]

Just found your channel and I HONESTLY appreciate you do much.

[@rzuku97TV]

your videos always hits so hard. They're so thoughtful and motivating! Love it Joey

[@krithika744]

The moment I saw “eating takeout “, I immediately got off my couch and made dinner! Thanks Joey - you motivate us in a different way!!!

[@TapiTalk]

90 days. It's strange to say that I think I've massively improved. I've finally fixed my sleep, I've been at the gym and pushing my limits, I fixed my diet fully, and I'm breaking free of my burnout.

[@Devibaba]

✊Many thanks for sharing!!

[@ScheilaFleitas]

thank you so much for this, I needed

[@michaelsutherlandsk8a4life]

In 90 Days I want to be in a millionaire

[@itssslashhere5245]

I find your videos to be relatable and very encouraging rather than watching some other guy with millions telling you to change you life all together right now

[@theofficialpollo]

Nah zZz

[@owensofcode]

Thank you I needed this

[@navyanair3222]

You make myself and others so hopeful for our futures by putting forward thought-provoking, convincing, BETTER ideas every video. Genuinely so thankful for your content and in awe of their effect on me. Happy new year! 🥳

[@marcoraydiaz]

I’ve been journaling 10 pages a day for the past 10 days, and I said to myself that I’ll do it until the end of the year, to enter the new year with a clean sheet, a clear mind. It’s working wonders thus far, I feel much better and actually start doing things that were impossible for me before. (I even thought this journaling thing would be impossible, lol) So I leave this message here for future Ray to see - in 90 days you have to have completed everything you wrote down you would. I’ll come back to this comment at the end of March, and reply with what I was supposed to, and what I actually ended up doing

[@juststee]

What do you write on 10 pages ? I struggle to fill one page

[@tnijoo5109]

I wish there was a way to set a reminder on a comment to come back to it. Is there an app or something for that that you use?

[@juststee]

@@tnijoo5109 save the video to its own playlist is something you could try? You will at least be able to find the video then

[@marcoraydiaz]

@@juststee I just sit down, put on a Abao in Tokyo pomodoro sesh and start writing about my day, my thoughts, my fears, I pile up some questions, then I answer them. I’m currently listening to Can’t Hurt Me by David Goggins and that book is amazing, something I couldn’t comprehend before was his “this scares me, which thrills me” mentality, but now that I have this daily challenge, I think I know what he means

[@juststee]

@@marcoraydiaz sounds awesome, time for me to try get into a good mindset too :)

[@malkulaas6380]

Everytime I struggle the most and my life is about to change drastically, you put out the right video for me. Thank you for being out there!

[@iPostiPodiEatiYuri]

everytime I struggle the most my life changes drastically

[@AJR352]

I needed this video. Thank you

[@kevensilva6343]

Well done man! Thank you

[@forestduffe5576]

Enjoy the present moment , no matter what you do the essence of time goes by , so make that change.

[@jacobmoney]

To the ones reading this: you're actually 88 years old but you have returned to your current age to take away all the regrets. So...life was not already decided for you. You can still make that change now, and enjoy your 80's without any regrets.

[@B----------------------------D]

I hope I'm dead at 80, don't want to live through dementia and all that shit.

[@the_archon]

@@B----------------------------D Well only if your family has had dementia before, you have nothing to worry about. Also, look at the small percentage of people who do have it. What do they do? Keep living.

[@B----------------------------D]

@@the_archon nah bro, if I start going then I will just go to a country where I can get euthanised, living isn't something that I value without control over my life.

[@murilofranchini7217]

@@B----------------------------D shut up

[@Traxotetir]

@@B----------------------------D take care of yourself.

[@solarbiter5446]

Thanks to your great content [and my own indomitable spirit lol], the past few months were probably the most productive in my whole life. All the changes I've gone through as I watched your content whether as reminders, warnings, or teachings, came to an initial fruition. And even now I can see a vast space to improve upon.

[@chrismorris4985]

your videos are always terrific, thank you!

[@thekajalflaneur]

Ninety days or a season, yeah that's how I am starting to live and will next year. It's beautiful in its simplicity and elegance. A cycle four times a year. You can try again and again and again. I plan to get much fitter, to travel finally and to make more: music, a novel, painting, a book of poetry. And practice appreciation daily, be grateful for all the good but also learn from the 'bad'. Thankyou for uploading.

[@Luke_MoonWalker]

EVERYTHING in this universe is cyclical. Paying attention to and living based on this cycles is the best way to evolve.

[@Psych2go]

Those shio ramens though, definitely was part of time's decision ;)

[@dedicatedtzy]

Psych2go 😁!!!

[@madelineDaMiddle1]

This is SO USEFUL. I'll be using the idea that "Time is gonna spit me out at the otther end of things, regardless of what I do' to keep me on track in 2023. Thank you. Blessings.

[@venomus9286]

Thank God this channel exists. Always on point with videos. Much appreciated.

[@aastha_riya27]

Wow, how far we are but how similar! I live in India. Preparing for an exam for college. Just a week back I got the same realization I thought that whatever deeds I am doing in the present is my past like sacrificing stuff and my present is where I wanna go the college. So logically I am already there, I have decided my future (present)

[@mindsetofthefew]

You could leave life right now. Let that determine what you do and say and think. -Marcus Aurelius It's a powerful thing to remember that our time in this world is limited so we have to do things that we think will be good for us. Thank you for this Joey. I love your film making style. ❤️

[@ScottRogers]

I love your content, its message, and the time you put into these.

[@smokejc]

Very interesting concept. The drone shot of you choosing which path to take was dope too.

[@tnijoo5109]

So, what was the point he was making? To be uncomfortable and put ourselves through pain because we won’t remember all of the pain and discomfort anyways??? I guess I need these take aways broken down and made very clear or they really won’t motivate me. I kind of wish he would give a very clear break down at the end. I still don’t know what his point was about comforting ourselves when we are feeling bad. Is it to not do it, because we won’t remember feeling bad or being comforted anyways? This is confusing and I’m not getting if he’s saying to avoid this for 90 days and just let yourself be in pain like a stoic 90 day challenge. I guess I like the idea of it but seems like he needs to flesh out the concept more, especially for people who have anxiety and spend extra time to comfort or console themselves just to be able to function. The idea of not doing that and just letting yourself be in pain and anxiety and do everything you’re scared of seems exciting, like a transformative challenge, but I wonder if it’s realistic. If anyone is doing this, please tell me more.

[@jonahhare2150]

dude this guy has changed my views on life. thank you

[@helenivanova5440]

To change views on life is something good. But does it mean to change life itself or all changes will be limited with views only? I often know what is my best to do for now but don't do it.

[@jackiec498]

@@helenivanova5440 so true. Tho it is undoubtedly in the mind that change first takes place. A very wise woman once said it this way; "what we think 🧠🤔💭 about is what we talk 👄🗣️💬 about, and what we talk about is what we bring about.🧭🌎🤲🏼"

[@smartwater598]

@@helenivanova5440 wtf u talking about

[@helenivanova5440]

@@smartwater598 wtf do you mean by your rude question?

[@Clyde.artwork]

I watch a lot of these types of videos. This one was fantastic.

[@bensherman2499]

Actually such a good video.. have been lots of things going on lately but this helps me realise that although its uncomfortable to overcome these challenges it will be worth it

[@layerp]

Do you feel grateful for the decisions you made 90 days ago? Are you proud of what you've made in the last 90 days? I want to come back here 90 days from now and thank myself for what I've done in the next 90 days. Haha bald guy from a far away land making me feel weird and kinda inspired again.

[@w23.]

Fun Fact, from the age of 20-70 you can only think of ''90 days from now'' 200 times. so every time you think of 90 days you should see it as 0,5 percentage of your lifespan. goodluck

[@theofficialpollo]

Gh

[@_luciferrr____1]

Thanks a nice perspective, appreciate that

[@casbakker]

Such a nice perspective. Hadn't thought about it in this way before. Thanks!

[@HeyMishkaTV]

I may not be the target audience here, but I've been willing the universe to send me a hint on how to live well with some of the chronic pain I've been experiencing and I think this is something like that. I want to look back and say I made the most of X amount of time whether or not I was in pain (so I can emotionally crumble under it or try to thrive despite it). The idea that the pain won't matter, but I will still have yielded certain results based on daily actions, is inspiring.

[@DanielL143]

150 years from now you will have nothing to show for your life. Time to just relax and let go. Why all this striving against our nature to get something that You Tube tells you that you need. Just live. Desire is the origin of suffering. Just be happy. Stop comparing.

[@JeffNixonComedy]

Great video with an important message as always. Cheers

[@itsfikree]

Thanks for making simple yet powerful videos like this. This make me feel motivated again and this is very helpful 😃

[@gerardlamour6418]

The rich stays rich by spending like the poor and investing without stopping then the poor stays poor by spending like the rich yet not investing like the rich

[@anthoniohenderson4635]

This must be an investment with Mrs Margaret Kathleen

[@helgapataki2282]

She has really made a good name for herself, please how can I contact expert mrs Margaret Kathleen.?

[@marcosedehei2669]

I'm a long term investor. I withdrew my profits of over £56,000 during the covid-19 pandemic