Your Real Family | Comfort for Childhood Emotional Neglect (F4A) [ASMR]

[@isabelletorres2220]

Thank you for this, its really comforting to hear all this as someone who was neglected her whole life. You are wonderful ^.^

[@kayjasmr7174]

I do my best :) I'm glad this helped you out

[@hugonobody3352]

If by "neglect" you mean your mother tearing you down for each and every minuet flaw you have. Lord knows I've never heard the words "it's ok John, I forgive you". She always raises her voice as us. Every damn chance she gets she always takes the opportunity to make us feel like garbage.

[@CCgivemeawedgy]

It's okay friend, we're here for you ;)

[@odin9628]

““Neglect”” more like abuse damn I feel bad for you

[@ETTeRWRH_OG-]

Hey we both need a hug so let’s give to each other hope you feel better man

[@ExperimentThePaladin]

I feel you big man. Times will only get better

[@positionalprelude2579]

Don't worry comment sections are usually nice and calm filled with empathic humans and not bastard's

[@ireallydontknow6078]

Such a sweet audio 🖤 I really sympathize with people who had to go through stuff like this, and it honestly makes me so grateful for my wonderful parents. My ex girlfriend suffered a lot from neglect, but when we started dating in middle school she basically became a part of my family, even through most of highschool. I don't miss the relationship we had romantically, but I do miss the feeling of giving someone a home and a family that they never had. Even though we don't talk much now, I hope she knows she's always still welcome in our family.

[@kayjasmr7174]

Times change and people come and go, but considering how kind you are I'm sure they know that :)

[@Sillimant_]

Well, judging by the way I reacted to this, I was emotionally neglected. I guess I just thought it was normal, apparently not

[@kayjasmr7174]

There's always going to be some relatability in those feelings. Don't worry though, you're not alone :3

[@Sillimant_]

@@kayjasmr7174 I guess all I can say is thank you for this

[@kayjasmr7174]

@@Sillimant_ you're very welcome :)

[@buttznstuff6510]

Chromulous I hope you’re joking, but even if you are joking, very, very bad joke dude

[@ooooh892]

Same

[@skullibones178]

I’m a scapegoat in a narcissistic household with parents who always made me feel less and abused me physically mentally and emotionally as a child and was often forgotten about. While they took care of my younger sister when she was ill they completely forgot they had an older daughter and I’m 21 still living with them and it’s still toxic and I feel trapped this made me escape thank you

[@allmakotosarebestmakotos4261]

I hope both of you are doing better now. Hopefully your happier or your happiness is right around the corner. I can't understand both of you completely (everyone is different), though I have dealt with this myself. Hopefully your both doing okay. May your smiles shine the brightest when your safe enough to. May you both find a way to experience pure bliss, perferably, for the rest of your lives. I wish you both all the best, dear strangers :D

[@RU5TY82]

You had me at "floofy tail"

[@kayjasmr7174]

Floofy failed :3 hahaha

[@flyjuicymango3780]

I haven’t watched this yet I’m saving it for later tonight but I’m sure this will get me really emotional so thankyou for another great video

[@kayjasmr7174]

You're very welcome :) and watch when you can ^-^ no need to rush

[@lucifersangel151]

*sees the title* *c r i e s*

[@kayjasmr7174]

*BIG HUGS* 💜

[@collector6457]

@@kayjasmr7174 can i have a hug

[@kayjasmr7174]

@@collector6457 *big hugs!*

[@collector6457]

@@kayjasmr7174 thanks :)

[@SinfulSys]

LITERALLY ME. OH MY GODDD

[@SS_BAJA]

I’ve never really had the best relationship with my father, so I guess this made me feel a little better. Thanks.

[@Voidling_System]

"Snow Leopard" My idiot brain thinks that Leopard Seals are being mentioned, gets confused with the agile description.

[@kayjasmr7174]

Hahaha it's ok! That's adorable to mix up :3

[@barns612]

There both cute and very adorable, and let's not mention they are the perfect emotnal support animal

[@michelle-er7eq]

I love listening to this. sure my parents give me stuff or objects, but they really don't give me emotional support or advices about life

[@oasis8172]

Listening to this, I wasn't expecting myself to cry. And I never knew I have been emotionally neglected for years until today. So thank you for this!

[@kayjasmr7174]

Aweee *hug!!* It's alright :3 i hope you're loved and cared for now!

[@oasis8172]

@@kayjasmr7174 *hug* Thank you! I really needed that hug more than you can imagine

[@fizzlepoppy7098]

Even though this doesn’t apply to me at all (I dropped out of school and my parents do tell me they love me), it still puts me at ease. Thanks 👍🏻

[@Sillimant_]

I'm jealous

[@her6645]

Aren't you lucky....

[@barns612]

The English language has not progressed enough to describe how much I needed this today

[@barns612]

I've bearly watched any and I'm already crying out of shear wholesome content

[@Edwin-dl9lv]

Your doing a great job. There are not a lot of youtubers ive seen consistently upload and have quality content. Keep up the great work.

[@kayjasmr7174]

Thank you so much for your kind words :)

[@fan-banana2174]

Alternate lines for 3:14 : Flowers are growing. On days like these, lonely bois like you... Should be getting comfort and tingles.

[@スクイリアム]

Although this video doesn’t apply to my childhood, it made me think about how lucky I am that even though I had a bunch of siblings, both of my parents did everything they could to keep us all happy

[@kayjasmr7174]

I'm glad you had parents like that :3 even if they can be a little bit of a headache at times, they love you

[@mostlyjovial6177]

Well. Though I'm just now finding this. This is wonderful. I have Borderline Personality Disorder due to a diagnosed bipolar father who was abusive one day, and a wonderful dad the next. It definitely affected my livelihood. It's a fight against a completely untreatable mental health issue, every day. But we all have to keep fighting the good fight. Cause one day, you will find a reason you'll want to fight. Dont wait until then, when you can be ready before then.

[@TyroneBruinsmaFilms]

...I'm not crying...IM NOT CRYING

[@kayjasmr7174]

Awee but it's okay to cry *hugs*

[@TyroneBruinsmaFilms]

@@kayjasmr7174 *hug* ok...I'm crying. this hit like and emotional sledgehammer

[@strider1trigger]

This video was absolutely amazing I loved it

[@kayjasmr7174]

Thank you so much!

[@strider1trigger]

KayJASMR your welcome

[@MarcusGondhai]

I've been through it, childhood is the worst position to be in if you think about it. You cannot legally leave until you reach a certain age. And you are trapped in the same place, and can only wait and dream that one day you can actually find true love and happiness. So much time is wasted that you cannot get back

[@iamaloafofbread8926]

I'm just a loaf of bread... thought anyone seeing this should know.

[@catcher881]

This is vital information. Thank you, sweet loaf.

[@iamaloafofbread8926]

@@catcher881🍞 c: 🍞

[@TerraHardcore]

a loaf of cute (:

[@iamaloafofbread8926]

@@TerraHardcore not as cute as you ;)

[@mroneill1000]

I enjoyed toast... Buttered... With melted cheese... Ripping the bread with my teeth... I also like sandwhiches... I thought you should know.

[@ivykushhh]

As soon as I heard you say “aww” I broke down crying... I don’t know why..Thank you..

[@beeleaf4507]

Your voice is so beautiful and calming!

[@pokiro1698]

im so happy u make videos after 2years wOAAHH ur underrated :D

[@adeade45]

"Her and her girlfriend" god okay. I, I just, can I appreciate, just how much inclusivity and how much I really, it just helps and makes my poor little lesbian heart leap hearing that and just how you always do keep it for everyone instead of just for guys... just. Thank you. You've really helped on my worst of days.

[@kayjasmr7174]

I'm so happy that it made your sweet heart leap ^-^ I'm glad I can help you, thank you so so much for continuing to listen to me :3

[@cardshark971]

I am picturing chihiro saying this because of your profile picture and i don't regret it

[@leontorres7243]

Well, thanks, when you started mentioning all the things, it felt like all the things I've feeling finally got understood, thanks

[@kayjasmr7174]

I hope that means it helped. Remember you are never truly alone, you are loved by many, even if it's not necessarily your blood family ^-^

[@collinbell6554]

Ah yes the sweet release of sleep will begin in approximately 18 minutes Amazing job and thank you for your help

[@kayjasmr7174]

Youre quite welcome :) sweet dreams ^-^

[@xnuka88]

this was a really nice audio, props!

[@kayjasmr7174]

Thank you so much!!

[@masonmatt2145]

It's like you can read my mind! These videos help me out so much. BTW, did you ever consider making the "I Wish I Told You Sooner" videos a series?

[@kayjasmr7174]

I'm glad they can help you out :) and... Maybe I can read your mind haha who knows? I sort of did, currently I have two episodes of "I wish I told you sooner'' :) but I haven't made another episode of it quite yet.

[@masonmatt2145]

@@kayjasmr7174 Hopefully you'll make one in the future. Until then, I guess I HAVE to enjoy all of your other fantastic videos, lol

[@kayjasmr7174]

@@masonmatt2145 I'll definitely think about making another episode soon :3

[@robertlombardo8437]

Don't neglect your kids. Love them. They will do some F'd up stuff either for your approval or to lash out at not having it. Trust me... I've seen it myself. It's not pretty.

[@mrSmoky111]

My parents hate me so much and they make sure I know it. This is helpful

[@georgetd8623]

Just came over, so I thought why not make it 170 likes even though this video deserves so much more...

[@kayjasmr7174]

Awee thank you! I just saw this comment :3

[@korihikari21]

I lived with my mother for about 14 years, and I learned at the end of those 14 years that she was doing drugs for about 13 of those years, starting after my dad left when I was about 1. He moved very far downstate, too far to see as often as I needed. When I was 14 I was put into 2 foster care homes due to the drugs my mother was doing for about three months, then was put into my dad's care for the last 3 years and 9 months, who had a another son and daughter (I got along with them thankfully, and sometimes we'd have feuds but that's what siblings do). I was jealous that he paid attention to them but not me tbh, but then again I was a little older, so I kinda understood why but was still upset he had a another kid after leaving me and his three other kids he left behind and decided to stick with them yet couldn't stay with me and care for me like the father he should've been. He was 14 years too late. I haven't talked to him in a few months. But due to the fact he actually came back for me when I needed him most made me forgive him a little bit, not completely, but it felt nice that he didn't forget about me. But when I moved in with him, his wife at the time(THANK GOD THEY SPLIT), used to emotionally, mentally, and sometimes physically abuse me, while treating her dick of a son(my younger brother, I had more arguments than feuds than with my sister) like a prince that could do no wrong. My older siblings, specifically my older brother, acted more like a parent than either of mine did, and still do. And his mother I absolutely adore, she raised her kids right and with respect. I owe a lot of what I have to her, she taught me more than my actual mother ever did. And her husband I also adore, on the surface he looks like a hardened badass biker, when in reality, he's actually one of the nicest people I've ever met, he has an extraordinary amount of patience and love for his kids including the ones that aren't even his kids, such as myself, he treats me like a son, not a friend of his son, like his own son. I was the only one out of all my siblings to be neglected by both parents when it mattered. My older sisters on my moms side had their dad, who I deeply respect, as I mentioned before by older siblings on my dad's side had their mother, and my younger siblings had their *ahem* of a mother that at least paid attention to them and cared for them. While my mom and dad acted like they cared but the second I needed them, they never showed up(except for what I mentioned before). I'm ngl, I'm happy I grew up like that, it let's me know how NOT to treat my kids, what situations I will never put them in, and how to handle separated parents. But it still left scars, emotionally, mentally and physically. I'll never get over them, but I think that's a good thing.

[@korihikari21]

Sorry for the paragraphs

[@qcxrl]

didn't know we were tailoring these to specific people now

[@ComfortsSpecter]

Amazing Coomf VA Great Script and Topic Lovely Perfect Old Audio

[@barns612]

You are a good asmr channel, thank you

[@epicsandvich014]

I thought I had a normal relationship with my parents, but when I talked with others about it, I realized it was not normal. I feel for other people who found out the same way.

[@Cosmic.V0id]

Thank you.

[@carmelaaguilar4434]

Ur voice is soooooooo soothing

[@ohshit9386]

bruh this hit different

[@ninaaaaishere]

Ayyeee...! Much needed.💜

[@brycetaylor2671]

Not a sob story or anything but, my mother didn't know she was pregnant with me until she went to have her tubes tied after deciding she no longer wanted any more children. I was told this as a young child and my mother would often bring it up as a story to tell humorously. It wasn't until about my sophomore year when we got into an argument that she told me the rest of that story. The doctors told her she was pregnant and they weren't going to be able to do what she had wanted she then went outside my father's work where apparently they both cried and wondered what they were going to do with me. In my mother's exact words, "If it hadn't been for this state's abortion laws you wouldn't even be here." My father died when I was 6. This was my only parent telling me she had contemplated aborting me, that she would've if she could've. Ive never been close with my family since, I instead threw myself into a pretty bad life. Tattoos, drugs, booze, crime, the usual suspects. I've met people who've become more like my family than my blood. I'm rebuilding my life now, thankfully, almost a full year sober and fortunately no crime record. There is family that's not blood, and there's blood that's not family. I'd truly die for my friends now, and I'd trust them to do the same for me. Stay strong people, things can get better, we can get better.

[@pokiro1698]

im gonna sleep good tonight :D

[@Ogichida3867]

When I was a kid I bounced around homes a lot, never staying in one place for more than 2 years at most. One day my grandmother was angry at me for some reason I don't remember and she yelled at me "This is why nobody f#####g wants you around, not even your dad"

[@pokiro1698]

omg THANKU

[@rulate9577]

why do i feel down after hearing this video ?

[@ersikaQT]

Comment for the algorithm. Real family ey...? Hmph I like that...

[@totallynotcarter]

Well, not only did I get comfort, I was given an *education*

[@suicidalrezboy4969]

Thank you

[@kayjasmr7174]

Anytime, dear friend ^-^

[@bewilderment9167]

Hey friend :D Stop that, you're making me feel things that i;ve kept away for a long time and I don't like that :D

[@kungfugloves2099]

too real

[@aldenwynne3617]

Good one😇

[@barns612]

Is it just me or as a result of this audio found out that they have never felt real affection in their lives

[@xxxuziwrld9999]

thank u i feel like no one truly cares

[@typingcat]

What's JASMR, Japanese ASMR? But it's in English.

[@kayjasmr7174]

J is one of my initials ^-^

[@user-ob9fi9hv7r]

Wow this in a way hurts because I've been verbally abused since i was 5, im 15 and it still hasn't really stopped but i don't care anymore, when my mom screams at me i don't cry i just sit there because im a husk of a human being now. The fact that im not even really human anymore and im still young says something. Suicide hasn't been an option, I've tried to kill myself 3 times now but friends talked me out of it but what's the point if i still think this way.

[@deathbyzergling]

Fuck. I guess I was neglected. I wasn't even clothed, haha.

[@Ruby_Eve]

Everyone here talking about the neglect (which is important mind you) but I'm also concerned about the dangers of having a pet Snow Leopard. In the wild, you don't find one. It finds you

[@dxnnvr7107]

Whoever is this persons soul mate is gonna have to spend a fortune on best partner ever trophies

[@gabiigamer7691]

Hi! ^^

[@kayjasmr7174]

Hiya!!

[@Killball69]

Bruh, Id get a pet duck

[@kayjasmr7174]

Same they're super adorable

[@heyimyolo9782]

I wish I was planned I wish I had a proper father. I wish I never got hit I wish I never got verbally abused I wish I don't happen now but it does. I'm lonely in depressed and it there fault.

[@kayjasmr7174]

Im so sorry all of that happened to you my friend. :( However I know you can move forward from it, and remain strong. It won't happen forever, and you can do better than them ^-^

[@wolfiadarkangel]

Then why dose it feel like it..?

[@PiizzaTime]

Poggers

[@jasonenglish3713]

Your voice is lovely and relaxin and smoothly as always,Here a ⚘for a beautiful and gerougus amazing ASMR girlfriend. Could always fall asleep in your lap,Your kisses and cuddles are always is the best.

[@kayjasmr7174]

Why thank you! I'm sure the ASMR girlfriend appreciates it

[@jasonenglish3713]

@@kayjasmr7174 maybe you can be the one I been looking for

[@aparanoidandroid8939]

Wow, a year later and still replying to comments

[@MrLolwut88]

snow leopards belong in the snow ma'am. good video though.

[@calvinb2965]

I could not finish the video. Too much effort standing up for the parents. Just because they kept you alive does not mean they loved you.

[@phoenix_guard0019]

Wanna see something cute? Look up “Harp seal pup”

[@TheGaboom]

Seems I'm the first person to dislike the video. Sorry about that, it wasn't bad. It just, sort of missed the point i guess in my case. I'm not sure what my childhood and whatever was, I don't think I was neglected....maybe emotionally "manipulated" is more apt in my case idk. But everything after and having my work exploited by family, and all then hearing this person tell me that my parents must've loved me as if it was supposed to be comforting....just pissed me the hell off Maybe it's better in the second half, but I was too pissed off by that point to continue listening

[@kayjasmr7174]

Hiya! Hey, it's perfectly fine to not like a vid. I'm sorry your family was so awful and manipulative and I hope you got out of that situation. If not, keep at it and I'm sure you'll be free from them in time! ^-^

[@TheGaboom]

​@@kayjasmr7174 It's nothing you have to apologize for! Just happened to land right in the middle of "close enough" that it felt like I was being heard, but also being completely misunderstood. Run of bad luck really, nothing else. And yeah, can't say it's fully resolved, still get calls from them about how they miss spending time with me or love me or w/e which usually ends up with them needing money from me. -_- Can't cut the relationships completely, since there's a considerable financial debt they have I'm not willing to forget. But with things as they are and as they have been, it really pisses me off listening to them talk about how much they admire or love me. But I've moved out and am on my own, which has made things easier to manage. Trying to figure things out as I always have P.S. Sorry for rambling haha :)

[@karinapeters829]

I need a shh shush vedio for a disability friend calming down with shush people calling me retarded and dispastic and I crying its not my fault I got a disability

[@josezamora2290]

Ha....HA....HAAAAAAAA

[@kayjasmr7174]

O.o?

[@josezamora2290]

@@kayjasmr7174 don't worry about lol

[@josezamora2290]

@@kayjasmr7174 also, love your content

[@sukhoisu-24fencer3]

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[@josezamora2290]

@@sukhoisu-24fencer3 lol

[@tampaburn2527]

TuT

[@joshuabrock4459]

🐧🐧🐧

[@normal_guy1771]

You're just playing right? Your parents didn't actually tell you that???

[@ohshit9386]

bruh this hit different