Big Ed and Liz are Already Back Together | 90 Day Fiancé: Happily Ever After | TLC

[@yourwetsock]

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[@BaddBriiOfficial]

You should do love after lockup up

[@olivia5024]

you are right though I am a whore for communication

[@assiahakemanlasbay5509]

I like so much your videos thanks to you I am working on my English trying to catch up with the flow the speed of the way you talk you’re very pleasant respectful good looking I feel a kind of deep affection my little brother is your age keep it up you have a sister watching you from QC

[@goofykitty286]

Great job on this video and relationship advice. My hubby and I are high school sweethearts and we have been happily married for over 13 years supporting each other through all the ups and downs. And I genuinely care and love 💕 him more than anything on this planet 🌎. Thank you for knowing there are good normal ppl out here . 😊🫶🏼

[@DivaliciousbyDawnn]

I think I’m going to get this!

[@Tamarind525]

I hate how Ed just shouts over Liz any time she tries to express herself. I also hate how Liz keeps going back to that troll because she thinks she can’t do any better.

[@myrtleborodziuk7163]

That's bull she wants the money and the storyline .

[@diybronwynsmith263]

He’s a Humpty Dumpty it’s unfathomable any woman would Ever Date him his outside is showing his inside ! I’m so amazed and sickened at the same time he’s disrespected her time and time again yet she goes back! Omfg Woman ! But I feel like she did really love him he was lucky a cute woman did love him yet he has never loved her ! (In my opinion )only the tv fame bottom line . Such a Troll of a man uuugggth iccck Ed Uugh lord ! Who would want Ed?? Omg headset narcissist is wrong women do care about men he’s such a Andrew Tate wanna be I’m thinking 😂😂😊 great channel I like your perspective .

[@diybronwynsmith263]

Ed’s a Troll lol 😝I hope to never walk over his bridge😂😂 lmfao but no seriously he haha he is a stereotypical fairytale troll under the bridge probably down by the river ! Lmao Chris Farley was funny sorry lol it jumped in my mind 😂😂

[@davidratcliffe3710]

She's having her moment in the spotlight

[@toryb5212]

Some people are addicted to toxic situations.

[@Kageoni187]

I thought it was absolutely sweet when a guy I was involved with brought me coffee and a muffin on his way to the job site we were working at. Also our best day was one Sunday where we played some video games, he turned on the radio and we just vibed while he went through his mail and took care of bills. It was so chill just being there together and not feeling any stress to do something or be something. I don’t think coffee is a friend zone moment. Sharing coffee can be intimate it is about sharing a connection.

[@AmazingRebel23]

I dont know why people can’t just meet at the park for a date and walk around instead of involving money with someone they have only met a couple times. Makes no sense to me lmao

[@thevillagejoke]

Calling him out perfectly. All his actions as a narcissist, especially the “I don’t know”, feigning innocence

[@kingayy9267]

Ed is so annoying with the clichés. "I don't know how to be in a relationship" "I've never felt love until now" "I'm giving up on love" et cetera.

[@tpoole7573]

He's disguesting...he can't be held responsible for any of his actions and calls everyone on theirs. He becomes defensive and won't let anyone talk...jerk to the highest degree - Liz LEAVE!!

[@lilacscentedfushias1852]

Sara, can you remember the covid tell all and he didn’t know his daughter was there too? He started saying he’d choose Rose over his daughter? Then…oh I didn’t mean that, I’m some a clutz 😤 All the times (I only watch clips) I’ve seen him say something, then throw in “I was only joking” when he realises it didn’t have the desired affect. He’s just all around a toxic, horrible and abusive person.

[@she_sings_delightful_things]

My God. Ed is a mirror of my ex. I had to stop watching the show because of how triggering their relationship became. He is EXACTLY like my ex. Once I finally figured out how fraudulent of a person my ex was, it's as if a switch finally turned off. I stopped thinking about him entirely and it was soooo nice! Well, watching this show has resurfaced all those negative emotions. Watching someone get repeatedly gaslit causes a literal physical reaction. My palms sweat and I feel a tightness in my chest. I'm happy you're covering this butt fkk circus and are calling this abuser out. Many, if not all narcissists, refuse accountability so its mighty refreshing to see that normal people are able to see through this madness and manipulation.

[@dottie9366]

🤜🤛

[@Julia-b9x]

Mine too, he’s a replica of my ex. My ex was over 20 years ago and watching Ed, I have ptsd flashbacks. It’s triggering. After our split (very short marriage), he later married someone who died by suicide (probably because of his abuse) AND then he dated someone who he broke up with (similar to Ed’s stunts) and he was so “hurt”, he killed her. He’s in prison until 20-40something. Ed is a sick, sick person who can’t handle women if he doesn’t control them…..just like my ex.

[@she_sings_delightful_things]

@@Julia-b9x SO glad you got out! That's crazy!

[@Julia-b9x]

@@she_sings_delightful_things I'm glad you got out too! It's too bad we can't help Liz:(

[@jacobhoward1884]

damn g stop dating trolls then

[@Mayfloweralways]

I’m not surprised because she kept saying “but I really love him.” As long as she’s saying that, she’ll go back. She’s basically resisting that she should leave, because she doesn’t really want to.

[@sfr2107]

I agree. Also it takes on Average, 7x to leave an abuser for good. Liz is on the higher side, but it doesn't mean she'll never leave. Going back is part of the process 🤷🏽‍♀️ Hopefully she's keeping track of how little has changed each time she went back

[@Kayrunningandcoffeeaddict]

Yup!!!!

Yess! I kept saying this in my toxic relationship too, and I was really lucky that eventually he kicked me out for good, I literally thought that it was the end of my life, but in time I realized that everyone around me was right.. he was toxic af. It's just so hard to see while you're inside the relationship.

[@MrMaxflores11]

I know there is the trauma portion and don't want to downplay that but she is also being paid to be on the show.

[@marknewton6984]

She is basically dumb.

[@prennie4654]

Your little rant at the end of the video was amazing! It's men like you that still give me a bit of hope, you sound very caring, educated and mature. It made me really happy, especially since all of my experiences with men have been absolutely terrifying and it's hard to believe there's some like you out there, thank u :(

[@Valoelify]

Precious comment.

[@marshakelley3506]

Just listening to your “rant” answered a lot of the questions I still have about my X-husband. I finally kicked him out after 15 years of marriage. You definitely helped me to understand why he did some of the things he did to me & also understand why he didn’t do some of the things that he should have done for me. I thank you for that!!

[@Ljounieh]

Did you notice when he said over 80% of the audience is female? So..

[@kenterminateddq5311]

@@marshakelley3506 If your former husband doesn't give a crap about you or treats you like crap, then I'm happy for you to have the COURAGE to kick him out. On a different topic, what do you think about the meathead who said "women don't care about your feelings"? He sounds bitter or went through 100 divorces himself.

[@ClaudiaMedeiros]

I don’t even feel bad for her anymore. She’s also at fault now.

[@yourwetsock]

I’ve never felt bad for liz only other women that find themselves in similar positions. Clearly they are both about the clout life

[@peculiarpixils8777]

You want to still feel bad but at the same its hard to cause she keeps going back. Her mom and possibly previous relationships must really have messed her up. She just needs to wash her hands of him, do therapy, just concentrate on building herself up and being there for her daughter so her daughter doesnt have the same permanent damage Liz has from her mother.

[@peculiarpixils8777]

Also in so many of these shows you see the kids in at least a few scenes of the shows. But from i remember they only show a photo of her daughter.

[@ClaudiaMedeiros]

@@peculiarpixils8777 apparently her kid is living with her dad so I guess it makes sense why we don’t see her. Liz had to send her away when Ed kicked her out and she was living in her car? Something like that. And if that isn’t an eye opener, I really don’t know what will be.

[@ClaudiaMedeiros]

@@yourwetsock true! I really don’t understand why they’re still on the show. They’re not even an international couple. Do they really bring in that many views compared to other couples? I’m just so tired of seeing them

[@Heliophobic]

A therapist I had years ago showed this to me and I found it to be so, so, so accurate that everytime I find someone that is with a narcissist, I share it with them: The Narcissist's Prayer That didn't happen. And if it did, it wasn't that bad. And if it was, that's not a big deal. And if it is, that's not my fault. And if it was, I didn't mean it. And if I did, you deserved it. --- Definitely Big Little Ed wrapped up in a few lines. Narcissists will never apologize because to them, they never do anything wrong. Whether it's cheating, abuse, anything that any rational person knows is wrong, it isn't wrong to a narcissist. To them it's justified behavior, so no apology is needed. Something really sad with the Ed and Liz soap opera, if it's true, eventually any friends she has left are going to finally have enough of the flip-flopping and consoling her when she gets dumped again, so she's absolutely alone....with only him. The end goal. And she can't even see that.

[@gypsymoth8977]

Ed summarized their relationship best: “DON’T RUN AWAY” (5 seconds later) “WHY DO YOU KEEP COMING BACK?!”

[@mdee860]

Exactly! 👍👏👏👏 Narcs are exhausting that way. When you stop giving them compliments & adoration (which they need like oxygen) they will then resort to picking ridiculous fights & argue back with word salad. They know exactly what they're doing because they have been 'honing' their skills for years, if not decades. Note that they all use tactics from the exact same playbook, such as: Love Bombing (at the start); then onto Gaslighting; The Silent Treatment; Lying Overtly or by Omission; Selective Amnesia; trying to Isolate you; Emotional Abuse; Verbal Abuse; Financial Abuse; & sometimes, even Physical Abuse; Rage & Anger problems; Devaluing (by trying to Shame you - trying to break you down even further); often there is Infidelity; and a major one is their Projection. Please understand that they will NEVER CHANGE, just run & never, ever go back when they try to Hoover you back in. The main reason Liz fell for & stayed with 'Little Ed' (& why most other victims stay) is simply because the Narcassist felt so familiar to them. Either their Father or Mother or a person of influence in their childhood. It's complicated but people can go on KZbin & learn about the many types of Narcassists. Dr. Les Carter 'Surviving Narcassism' and also, Dr. Ramani are 2 of the very best, IMHO, at explaining how they Narcs operate. Once you learn & see it.... you can't unsee the patterns & damage they do - on purpose! People stay because they think the person they fell for during the 'Love Bombing' stage will revert back to that person. Magical thinking! Sadly, it was all a ruse just to lure you in - it was all just smoke & mirrors🪞 from the start. They are among the most insecure & defensive creatures you'll likely ever meet. Run, Run, Run. 🏃‍♀️

[@lijo4518]

Hypocrisy at its best 👍

[@YouKnowImOnMyPeriodYah]

@@mdee860 Narcissism and abuse makes me so mad and sad. I just wish everyone could be decent

[@dottie9366]

She couldn't answer the question. 🤪

[@gypsymoth8977]

@@dottie9366 of course not, the constant state of confusion is both of their drug- I do think of the 2 of them Liz is the only one with a shot at getting clean and I hope she takes it!

[@clairefisher3132]

I’m so digging this positive energy you’re serving!! So rarely do we hear men talk women up like this, and men who talk about wanting a partner not a face, men who talk about growing in a relationship, not demanding a woman take care of them, etc. I love it and I’m going to keep coming back! 💜💜💜

[@thelucywho3983]

"Stop losing your mind over a man who doesn't mind losing you" 😲 🤯

[@mackenzie95]

The irony of how Angela called Ed a good man 🤣🤣🤣 narcissists always wanna boost eachother up

[@luvbeinghiswife1148]

The ones I feel bad for in this relationship are Liz's daughter and the two dogs. 💔

[@Heliophobic]

SAME

[@NotYourAverageGardenHo]

Honestly forgot she had a kid.

[@kimnichols129]

Me too!

[@gabriellemadrid2831]

All three of them need to be rescued and given to good homes...

[@annmendes1361]

@@gabriellemadrid2831 luckily liz’s baby dad has full custody of their daughter so at least there’s that

[@uselessusagi]

To everyone saying they don't feel sorry for her anymore, this is common of someone who grew up in an abusive household or had a traumatic upbringing is searching for a relationship that gives that chaotic feeling because that feeling is your normal. It also has to do with how manipulative Ed is and likely the money.

[@UnchaineDL]

Thank you for saying this. I am not super invested in THIS relationship, but like many of us, I have been abused my whole life by Narcs as well... it's so heart breaking to see everyone get is fed up and eventually abandon her. which is exactly what these narcs want. and it's so soul crushing that you're right... that's all people like her know. I hope she does find SOMETHING no matter how tiny to latch on to that will propel her to get counseling and find support so she can gain the confidence and the strength to start over.

[@emmagatewood3898]

Lots of us grew up like that, and ended up in relationships like that. The difference is that for many of us, at some point we felt disgusted by the chaos and decided we didn't want that anymore... That's why people don't feel bad for Liz. It's not that we don't understand how she got into a situation like that. It's that we don't understand why she decides to stay, day after day, year after year, fight after fight, public humiliation after public humiliation... Even with people reaching out to help. Even with a child looking up to her as a role model. It's just gross at this point.

[@UnchaineDL]

You, know I am inclined to agree with you. I similarly went back and forth with my ex for several years. But the thing that is different between me and Liz... Is that I was being gaslit by literally everyone around us. My ex was so quiet and he did not hit me and I spent my whole life being violently abused by my narcs. My ex is extremely dangerous and unhinged but for the longest time he was able to uphold that mask and everyone from his family, my dad (red flag because he's a narcissist), my now ex friends and strangers/aquatintinces all convinced me my husband was so agreeable (he was but only to your face he did not handle confrontation at all so he agreed to anything anybody said with a smile but literally within seconds or minutes of they person being gone he would do the exact thing he just agreed he wouldn't do and then people thought I was trippin and toxic when I would claim this) and just "confused" and he's trying and I'm too aggressive and pushy and I start fights with him (none of this was true) and i can't expect change overnight, then he started up with religion (I believe in the Christian Bible) and that's how he turned the last of my friends against me because he would talk about learning how to pray and the love of God and would send me and other people Bible verses and would use and twist verses against me and seriously (I didn't know religious abuse was a thing at this point in time)...just to get to the point... Liz doesn't have that. She is being abused and gaslit by ed and partially his daughter or whatever...but the majority of people are constantly trying to tell her all of this and support her and then she has thousands maybe millions of fans also do this. So from my POV... Her actions are not longer justified and that's hard to say because I never want to diminish a Victim... but I just shared surface level trauma of what was happening to me (of course it goes deeper) and I had no where to turn that wasn't gaslighting me whether knowingly or unknowingly because my ex husband did a wonderful job acting sincere and ignorant for many years. So idk... I wish I would've had the support and constant people telling her what's happening and that she deserves better and to leave and some people even standing up for her to Ed...I've NEVER had someone stand up for me in real life and my "best friends" watched me her beaten by my dad and my husband watched too... While I'm holding my baby in my hands. Ain't nobody ever supported me like that. so I hope she stops leaning on this and gets help. Even I took responsibility for my ignorance and trauma and been getting help for years now.

[@asteriasheria2053]

I honestly believe that this whole thing has been fake since Liz was disgusted by him, then turned around and was ready to be with him for the next episode. I think rose was real. Liz is just acting this way for fame and money. She's the type of mother who would let man SA her daughter just for cash. Women like her need to be sterile.

[@carlycullen4373]

I’m thinking that because of her child it must seem like being with Ed at least takes care of her

[@celiab2307]

What's funny is that Eds daughter is very quiet. She must be embarrassed by her fathers behaviour after she defended him and was acting pissy to Liz on the last tell all. I see no reason why liz puts up with Ed, not even for clout.

[@miryamamar5442]

She will always defend her father.

[@marknewton6984]

Not to mention Liz's daughter..

[@ShanaJahsintaWalters]

So there is one man on the planet who knows grabbing coffee is not a date. THANK YOU.

[@jennifergorges72]

Why would we expect anything more of Liz? She's fine with looking pathetic because she gets paid to do that.

[@pinkcatflowers4141]

AGREED. its so embarrassing but the money must be great. GOD BLESS her child hopefully her ex husband gets custody. there is no steady and loving home on her part

[@ReneIsSoCool101Yes]

@@pinkcatflowers4141 If I remember correctly the ex husband has been having custody of her daughter. Which is a good thing cus that means she doesn't have to be around Liz's mess of a life...

[@superman1865]

@@pinkcatflowers4141 Liz is a good person. I still like her.

[@adamjaxn3156]

I actually look forward to seeing how much lower she can go.

[@jennifergorges72]

@@pinkcatflowers4141 If she was my daughter, I wouldn't let Ed near her. And it wouldn't surprise me one bit of she won't get custody. All the court has to do is watch him on this Tell All. Ed's lucky that he was around people and the cameraman and Andrei waiting on his green card all of the time for the Tell All. 🤣🤣🤣

[@starsigngirl9789]

I feel like not only are your videos hilarious it’s like free therapy 😂❤

[@1NikkiV]

I was married to a narcissist and it is the HARDEST relationship to try to escape. It's constantly being in survival mode and every day is like trying to diffuse a bomb depending on their emotions. I have SOME sympathy for Liz BUT she's beautiful and has options and loved ones around her to help pull her out. I was in it for 13 years & the trauma afterwards is REAL. LIZ THERE'S STILL HOPE FOR YOU!!!

[@denine5232]

💯Accurate description of what being in a narcissistic relationship is like.

[@ashleylucas6627]

Yep I was trapped for 4 years. It took a jail sentence and restraining order to get away. Even with my family I was too scared to tell anyone about the abuse and narcissism going on. All it took was him going off at me at work to stop this pattern. It fucking sucks and is sooo hard to get away from someone like that.

[@monicaconstantin5625]

Yes it really is true that you don't know unless you have experienced it! It looks so easy to everybody looking in

[@eileensnow6153]

It’s hard to watch these commentary videos because everyone is so angry with Liz. People are going so far as to say she’s equally at fault as the man who is _literally abusing her._ It hurts to hear people blaming her, knowing firsthand how harmful that can be to a victim of abuse.

[@kierra5893]

I have a narcissist mother, I don’t think I’ll ever truly escape

[@joselynhernandez8760]

The crumbs of affection a narcissist gives you are so addicting so I understand why Liz stays. It’s very very hard to leave a mentally abusive relationship because the very least of efforts feel extraordinary. You logically know you deserve better but you just can’t leave emotionally. It really sucks

[@penguinZ85]

I was married to a narcissist and when Ed called Liz a drama queen, it triggered memories of him accusing me of being dramatic and playing the victim. He also played the tactic of trying to provoke a reaction just like sock said narcissists do. He got pretty bored when I stopped reacting.

[@boogermaiden]

It's called gaslighting. You were gaslight. So happy you got out.

[@vjdrive1230]

Sorry you went thru that. It's traumatic. My ex narcissist bit off more than he could chew when I found him cheating and instead of freaking out, I went all Buddhist on him and 11 years later, he's on wife 3. He knows he lost the good one. Or he's still an ass and didn't learn a thing lmao. I just wish him well and live a great life..I'm glad you got away from the toxin.

[@DonnaRupinski]

They either call you dramatic or crazy. That's their go to put down.

[@debbiejohnson7862]

I know at the tell-all, Liz may have been bolstered by all the support she was getting but I knew the second they got back home, she'd go right back to him! Liz just isn't strong enough to resist Ed's charms, whatever they may be. For the life of me, I can't imagine what those could be because I don't see any charm or anything appealing in Ed!! Ed is just all about Ed and he'll never change, he's proven that over and over again! Really Liz??! 😳😳😳

[@dottie9366]

I just want to know, what the fk does she see in Small Humpty Dumpty Ed?! WHAT?!!

[@bathos22]

Liz doesn't love Ed and never did. Same with Ed. They are all about prostituting themselves to be on the show. I also think the "business partner" bit is fake. Just a marketing move for the restaurant.

[@tesnoterror1944]

@@dottie9366 OMG too funny

[@marshakelley3506]

@@dottie9366 $$$$$ from TLC!!! That’s what she sees!! Ed too!!!

[@dottie9366]

@@marshakelley3506 🤮 Not even for $$$$ would I even be seen with Humpty Dumpty Ed, even the sound of his voice is annoying.

[@allysonf419]

You are SOOO spot on - that garbage they consider "advice' is distorted beyond belief. Of course women care about a man's feelings - unless she is a narcissist or a sociopath. That guy clearly doesn't have a clue. The world just needs more men like you... (and better parenting like you clearly have had) Thank you for being you!

[@Calculusofboobs]

That’s a lie. Woman are apathetic af . All woman are. They only care for their own feelings

[@lizzzarduh]

Truth

[@anyacameron01]

You're amazing at breaking down unhealthy people. Refreshing to see you speak up and coach others.

[@FriendlyNeighborhoodUnclePete]

I used to feel sorry for her, about how Ed treated her. Not anymore, they deserve each other. They just want to get on another show for the clout and money.

[@shadmahuda]

I stopped after she basically called him a pedo and THEN GOT BACK WITH HIM. As a mother As a woman As a HUMAN BEING how???????????? I’d take a murder of adults then any sexual predator

[@bribri0786]

@@shadmahuda THANK YOU!!! I’m so tired of people claiming abuse when she literally said she believes his SA victims but right after that she’s so in love with him and everything is okay. 🙄

[@hojeapeteceme]

@@biancajade728 She's right about not being like Rose. Rose sent him packing and Liz is still with him after everything

[@FriendlyNeighborhoodUnclePete]

@@shadmahuda that’s disgusting on her part. She’s just as bad as him. I hope TLC don’t give them a show. But they will, they support this toxic crap. You’re right she accused him of SA a minor. But she gets back with him. F her.

[@shadmahuda]

People always bring up mental health with her and if your mental health issues are anxiety or low self esteem destructive behavior, whether it be yourself or other close to you, not bipolar or ptsd or depression or a ED. The best thing with Liz is for her to take HARD accountability ESPECIALLY when people Dont change. She is not a child she is not impoverished or physically unable. She doesn’t even try

[@yorkaz4278]

I love how this is low key therapy as well as a bomb video 🫶🏼

[@babsbunny_]

THANK YOU for this, it’s highly triggering watching him twist Liz around with his narcissistic ways yet no one seems to call him out

[@denine5232]

Agreed💯

[@sarahkathleen6752]

Right? It's SO FRUSTRATING! Like sure, the other castmates are calling Ed out on how he treats Liz, but then they let him twist things. I'd be calling that crap out left and right if I were on the show. TLC hit me up! Maybe they need to take audience comments during the next tell all . THAT would stir Ed up to see how hated he is.

[@themysticlotus]

The sunlight shining down on Nick while speaking undeniable facts is so poetic ✨️ 😌 love it!

[@tinafilipina]

Thank God there's a new season coming, new cast. How long do we have to be subject to this guy??

[@dhglowlightblue]

So refreshing to hear that kind of relationship advice from a guy. 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 Usually, I see a lot of macho dudes online talking about throwing money at women to keep them in their lives, but that’s a wrong way to go about it. Like look at Liz. When she was arguing with Ed, not once did she mention money to him. She only wanted him to validate her feelings. 🫠 I feel like a lot of men miss this point and then get upset with the women for leaving.

[@ian7064]

What little sympathy I had left for Liz is completely gone. She's a willing participant in this sham of a relationship

[@starryeyedtarot8876]

“A high value man honours his commitments.” 👏 👏 👏 And I’d like to add that this goes for women, too. HONOUR YOUR COMMITMENTS, FOLKS! Otherwise, don’t make them at all. Bravo, Johnny.

[@zaylinstar8883]

You’re becoming one of my FAVORITE KZbinrs. Mostly bc of your amazing advice, heart to heart talks, empathy, spiritual guidance and understanding. It’s refreshing. 💕

[@Chey521]

What sucks is that a lot of cast members were so genuinely concerned for her and tried to help her and know her worth. Yet she just goes back to the guy who broke up with her over 10 times. We don’t feel bad for you anymore, girl.

[@marknewton6984]

Advices from Kimberly? Haha hahaha

[@oliviamartin6963]

I love how he doesn’t care when his fiancé is rightfully hurt because of something he did but when ANGELA comes up and tells him she’s disappointed he cries?!?! Like what the actual f

[@klc96]

Narcissistic people care more about how they're perceived to others than to the people close to them/their victims. They have a mask up to the outside world hiding who they really are, when people figure them out for who they really are they can't cope

[@YouKnowImOnMyPeriodYah]

Who would even take Angela’s words seriously regardless 💀 She could call me every slur and insult in the book and I wouldn’t give a f*ck

[@fawnieee]

People like ed try to curry favour by behaving in such a way to "strangers". They care more about how they are perceived by strangers than they do their loved ones, my grandmother was the exact same. She would a buse my mother and I to no end but suddenly she was the picture perfect matriarch when people outside of the family were around. When he tells Liz she's being a performer, he is massively projecting onto her.

[@ElLawlietRR]

@@fawnieee there’s no such thing as perfect family…

[@Valoelify]

@@fawnieee It's also because evil supports evil. Narcissists supports narcissists. I have seen this everywhere... Ed is affected by what Angela says because she is of the same "breed"... Just like the way Ed was fangirling over Bilal, they are also of the same breed. High Narcissism and/or fullblown NPD.

[@thekimcat4259]

I know this is a funny video but the breakdown of narcissists truly made me feel very validated and no longer thinking I was the one to do everything wrong despite their lack of respect or change. That part stuck with me and will hopefully help me with future relationships thanks man ✌️

[@tomcruisesmiddlefronttooth9221]

Hope you’re healing well!!❤

[@thekimcat4259]

@@tomcruisesmiddlefronttooth9221 I’m great now! This was nice to look back on n realize how much I’ve grown lol appreciate ur kind words

[@hugznotdrugz1234]

Ed uses the we were broke up like Ross used we were on a break!!! Lol

[@SamSam-jn2rw]

Ed’s like a fisherman using burnt underwater to catch something…. Lol 😂

[@josephbons1]

Ed's the type of person that doesn't go to therapy to get better. He goes to learn how to manipulate people better.

[@YoucancallmeMarcie]

Dude you are awesome. It’s nice to hear a guy who gets it! I bet your girl is head over heels for you❤

[@QueenCocoVT]

The end is literally the big brother talk I needed at 26 🥺 love and light to you!

[@tesseivers6737]

I’m so happy I found this channel I love the way you describe how narcissists abuse people

[@LeanDoughnut]

Sock is actually giving healthy relationship advice.

[@shandel499]

She is making a terrible case against herself in regards to gaining custody of her daughter. Ed is abusive, emotionally. Not someone who should be around, be responsible for a small kid. Remember, he is a dad who still does not have a decent relationship with his GROWN DAUGHTER

[@js2art1]

Dang, you just dropped some of the most correct, mature relationship advice I have ever heard in one place! You need to be a couples counselor not a you tuber, lol! You said so many true points! That was so refreshing, thank you!

[@js2art1]

I had to immediately suscribe to your channel!

[@Ensorcelless]

lol she’s not ever going to get custody of her daughter once they see this show.

[@emeeeeyy]

Something I've learned about narcissists (& I currently live with one) they seem to remain in a child-like state/mindset. They throw tantrums and then come back 5-10 minutes later as if nothing happened. It also may not seem like it, but they do understand that what they're doing is wrong, they just don't care because it's not THEM being wronged. When it comes to arguments the things they focused on are stupid and never make sense, while constantly trying to push your buttons so you're the one who explodes and looks "crazy". Narcissists are exhausting and take it from me, ignore them until they acknowledge you because it bothers them that you're not up their asses 25/8.

[@LHP069]

It’s better to get out of the relationship while you are still functioning , he will drain every bit of you…I’m talking through experience. Good luck for the future. ❤

[@Chey521]

Now let’s talk about how Jenny called him out 👏🏼

[@Arista177]

Wetsock your videos have been next level with dating and relationship advice. You have been knocking it out of the park.

[@opulentzinger]

I checked out her insta and they went to a wedding together in Dec 2022. And the tell all was filmed in the fall. So they are back together. And its gross.

[@muffinsdawg]

Liz puts little Edward & reality TV fame before her daughter

[@FriendlyNeighborhoodUnclePete]

That's what I find most disgusting, even more than listening to Ed.

[@superman1865]

@@FriendlyNeighborhoodUnclePete Liz is a good smart person.

[@smachael07]

@@superman1865 then explain getting back together with Ed 12 times.

[@NF-hh3qq]

@@smachael07 I think that’s Ed the troll 🧌

[@superman1865]

@@smachael07 then explain to me how to hold space for everyone.

[@nicoleg6284]

Not enough people are talking about how she called him an abuser and a rapist and still went back with him after WITH HER YOUNG DAUGHTER! Liz knows what's she's doing and she's not worth my sympathy or anyone else's anymore

[@vanessamueller1557]

If they want to live like that, together and miserable. Go for it! Just hope her daughter can be with someone her dad; or whoever can give her a stable and emotionally healthy home. Next

[@sgtsantiagousmc79]

It's honestly painful at this point with Lil Ed and Liz. I can't. SMH🤦🏾‍♂️

[@Sugarypop13]

Angela decides to be civil when talking to Ed . Soo ugh

[@PerStepheri]

Damn and here I am wanting to see Angela fight him lol 😂

[@marknewton6984]

Don't believe it!

[@Madkalibyr]

Not only was this entertaining it was also informative, you’re honestly another level

[@JR-gh8lp]

Liz should get her own 90 day single spot

[@sackofangrybadgers]

You couldn't be more spot on about the way women are with men. I told my ex for over 20 years how much it bothered me that he didn't communicate and it went in one ear and out the other yet he was still shocked when I was done communicating myself.

[@paloma3814]

Been waiting for this video and now you make me wait 11 hours 🙄

[@yourwetsock]

🤭 I’m a troll yall know that

[@paloma3814]

@@yourwetsock more like an Ed

[@cuearesty]

Suddenly a finance channel, and I stan. The 'get yout finances in order' is important in a long-term relationship, and that both people in the relationship can move as they please, and aren't controlled by the other financially. Liz being financially insecure and going homeless every time that thumb feels like kicking her out gives me PTSD. I know we shouldnt shame people for their kinks, but for once: I swear, Ed's got a findom kink.

[@CreativeCreatorCreates]

I love your hoodie! I do believe the last of empathy that remained for these folks has drained away. I didn’t have a ton but now it’s more like a full on disengage.

[@bribri0786]

13:42 I find Liz irritating because she’s literally doing this to herself. Ed is trash and everyone knows it but she keeps rolling around in the dumpster and wondering why she smells. She has the benefit of being on tv and getting multiple perspectives on their relationship so there’s no way she’s unaware of her options. She knows about her and Ed’s issues and can seek therapy for herself whenever she wants. She could even try to monetize it online if she’s really just in it for the money, but she does absolutely NOTHING to help herself. She keeps letting Ed walk all over her and then complains about it as if she has no control over her life. And the most frustrating part is that she has a daughter and she should be trying her hardest to be better for her. I’m sure the show is scripted to some extent but the fact that she considered passing on a job that would make her financially stable for the child SHE brought into the world just to make Ed happy is disgusting to me. Why even put that out there? Yes, Ed is a narcissistic dirtbag but he can’t harm anyone if they don’t give him the opportunity. Then again, maybe Liz has a humiliation kink. Lol

[@Dani.J.]

Some day I aspire to be at the same confidence level as Ed, thinking he has other options

[@Sanathias]

After I stopped dating, it was a hard realization that I was trying to be my boyfriend's provider being a disabled woman myself. It was exhausting but I'd never expect my partner to put in the same effort. I'd shower him in gifts and nice things until I realized my relationships were more like 80-20 instead of 50-50. I guess the thought of someone providing for me is terrifying because I know what happens when you let the covert narcissist have control over that stuff. I guess I learned growing up that women are valued for what they can provide to their man and un-learning it is pretty hellish tbh. But we do what we can.

[@vaporeon987]

Slay queen. :3

[@jclyntoledo]

I'm glad you realized you deserve better and you don't have to bend over backwards and constantly prove yourself. You should never have to prove yourself to convince someone to like you, love you or stay. If someone doesn't see your worth, that's on them. Anyways I'm sure you know that now but just reminding you and also so proud of you! 🥰🥰

[@cassandra2968]

Thank you for this video!!! I've always had low self-esteem because I tend to have more masculine tendencies than feminine. I was raised in a single parent household, so I watched my mom earn a master's degree and have a career just to provide. And we still struggled from time to time. I even had to deal with abandonment issues because of my father. I see working, having a career, and getting an education as surviving. Nothing more, nothing less. It doesn't go to my head. So, the fact that me going to school and working is a "problem" in the eyes of "dating gurus" because I'm not "feminine enough" is ridiculous. And it's not only the men. I've had women tell me I need to be more feminine :( what does that even mean because I know someone who dresses very feminine and has a HORRIBLE attitude. She's also a stay-at-home mom, and never went to college. Not saying anything is wrong with that, but she is the "complete package" in the eyes of the "gurus". At the end of the day being respectful is what's important. There shouldn't be a problem with me trying to survive. It would be nice to be asked why I value work and education instead of assuming that I hate men and don't need one. The one thing that studying psychology has taught me is self-worth. I'm not going to disregard seeing my mom having to be mom and dad, experience abandonment, and not having food in the fridge just to seem "feminine". Thank you again for acknowledging that hardship and psychological trauma plays a HUGE role when it comes to career-driven women. Of course there are exceptions!! (This is a message for those who may argue against my post).

[@niax782]

Sis *do not* listen to what any of those failing weirdos say! And, “date out” NOW 🎯

[@starryeyedtarot8876]

These supposed dating gurus sicken me. I wish they could be silenced because their rhetoric is truly vitriolic. It helps nobody but themselves. A relationship is two people loving and supporting one another, and each person and situation is different. And your mom truly raised a queen. ❤

[@1_star_reviews]

Dating gurus pop up on my feed? “Do Not Recommend channel” button. EVERY TIME. As a 30 year old woman I KNOW that most of what they say to be bull.

[@ketabean975]

You are spot on with everything. Especially your end comments. ESPECIALLY about strong independent business women. Thank you for what you do.

[@MSNYC123]

People in abusive relationship take 7 or more times to attempt to leave the relationship before they actually leave for good. The dynamics of these relationships are very complicated. I pray for Liz to find her way out and heal. No person deserves to be treated how little Ed treats her. Little Ed is a Big monster and every woman should stay away from him. 🤮

[@sfr2107]

Thank you. I don't think enough people are aware of it. This is actually part of the process

[@michellew512]

I agree. It took me 4 years to leave an emotionally-abusive relationship so when everyone keeps talking about how many times they broke up, it doesn’t surprise me. I lost count of how many times my ex broke up with me to assert even more power over me. People say they don’t feel bad for Liz - I do because I’ve been there.

[@superman1865]

@@michellew512 Liz is cool for sticking with Ed

[@Baldjotarokujo]

This is my favorite comment

[@michellew512]

@@superman1865 lil Ed, is that you?!

[@jauntycommander1065]

Yourwetsock, It’s been a beautiful experience seeing your growth as a human being. Thank you for sharing this window into your life. Your insight has been a catalyst for more introspection and is definitely on point 😂 I wish you all the best and prosperity buddy.

[@thaynagh]

When I was in a relationship with a covert narcissist it was really hard to let it go, because we were both sick. I had to go to therapy for a few months before I had the courage to leave him, because it was really hard. But I believe in her case maybe they just want to stay famous and need to be together for that to happen. That kinda sucks for other victims of abuse like that. I don’t understand how they can have a show that depends on people being sick in the head to be entertaining, but I love watching these commentary videos 😂

[@Honey_Daddy]

Codependency can be a real bitch. I hope you're doing a lot better now than you were at the time. I'm sure you know, but you deserve better than anyone who will use manipulative or abusive tactics (im guessing, based on the personality disorder you've mentioned). Nobody who isn't a horrible person deserves that, and it's important that we remind ourselves and others of how much value we each have and should believe we have.

[@traceyfitzgerald6424]

Same! My drinking was next level but as soon as I got that under control, I was able to finally cut that trauma bond!

[@superman1865]

@@traceyfitzgerald6424 evil doesn't exist.

[@Maredie1]

Honestly, i am not sure that they aren't orchestrating all the fights and drama to stay on tv.

[@danysanerd2383]

Girl- Same! 😅 I don't have cable & haven't for decades & so the only way I keep up on any of this trash tv, is through commentary channels like this! I don't feel as icky inside as when I'm watching things that can be edited to be very intense & I darn well know, that there is something; that is really freaking wrong with it all . But I think maybe because I'm neuro-divergent, I really can't ever seem to quite pinpoint clearly all of the intricacies of it all, it feels like it's just on the tip of my tongue. Besides if wetsock's just showing bits of the 'action' with commentary, because when I watch the show which is heavily edited to be bigger, badder, worse by the production crew. So sometimes will get all worked up inside, because of what I'm watching, like I'll I feel physical/emotional feelings of stress and/or anxiety pretty easily when watching intense things, obviously I mean like; more so than most 'normal' people... I think I just prefer being TOLD about the drama (especially if the person has a good sense of humor), not to actually watch it for myself first-hand, my heart doesn't need the stress! 😩

[@ic3671]

Omg I was dying at your comment about coffee dates. So true! I had a guy ask me out for coffee (yet I picked the place and paid for it) and then he complained about how "females" stop talking to him. Needless to say, I told him I just wasn't interested and felt like I was hanging out with a friend.

[@Ken17-b8g]

You're so spot on about narcissist. I had to work with two of them in the same office and it was a small space. Made me hate going to work even though I loved my job. Whenever I'd react they would play victim and make me look like the crazy one. Glad they are out of my life.

[@DJ-ue3zq]

YES! Thank you! I LOVE the healthy positive vibes ❣️

[@jenkies89]

Such a great episode! You hit narcissistic behaviors and what women want in a relationship on the nail!! 👏

[@luisianaramos3032]

I came for the drama and ended up crying and rethinking my life choices 🥺

[@ando1135]

*surprised pickachu face*

[@yourwetsock]

Who is your favorite Pokemon? mines Snorlax

[@kims.eokjin4839]

@@yourwetsock lucario

[@KrivellaDeVille]

@@yourwetsock lucario or noivern. Zebstrika is cool too.

[@Pearlangeldream]

@@yourwetsock you r my fav. Pikachu 😘😹 I love hamtaro

[@Lisa-hw1vo]

Excellent explanation on how narcissists operate. You nailed that!

[@princesapoza95]

You were on FIRE at the end! Every point you made was so spot on and valid.

[@shanemoua2446]

I love it when you make videos like this! With honesty and genuine advice!

[@GIRru11]

I already didn't feel sorry for her, but now I feel like all the shame and humiliation she endures is fully deserved

[@KarissaKayne]

OR, shes in an actual abusive relationship where she is getting emotionally manipulated. But sure.

[@christinemerritt974]

She doesn’t deserve it. She will leave eventually. It’s a cycle of abuse, and it’s a real thing.

[@Lalaaudrey]

You crack me up 😂 “you’re a disgrace to our species” lmao

[@daynasafranek7807]

I would be in jail if I were Liz and Ed said the “Me no speak English” line because I would have assaulted him. I don’t know why, but that really triggered me.

[@marknewton6984]

Go for it!

[@emilyspector2728]

Same! I wanted to smack the shit out of him. You want your ring back? Just tossed it across the room. GO FETCH!

[@ayeeeerin4999]

Dude I needed to hear the ending thank you!! A lot of things in my life have been changing and not for the better. I need to get back up and make the change. It’s hard to remember about taking care of yourself first when life is so hard. I’m trying to keep it vague but it’s appreciated your wet sock ❤

[@Pammyj63]

I pray they don’t be on any other show. Liz deserves everything she’s getting. It’s all about the money for both of them. Photographer doesn’t make a lot of money

[@sfr2107]

It could be about the attention. Money could be bonus, but I think Ed would do it for free, and Liz would do it cuz Ed told her to. She also seems like a big people pleaser. I really don't think money plays as big a role as people are making it out to play.

[@blondesense1708]

@@sfr2107 I think Liz is a people pleaser too. I don’t get ‘clout chaser’ vibes from her social media, she doesn’t seem to have an entrepreneurial bone in her body. She could be doing paid interviews or selling skinny tea but she is pretty private outside of the show.

[@sfr2107]

@@blondesense1708 Seriously. It hurts everytime I see comments like this that people assume so easily, if they can't figure you out, they slap some common shitty label on you. It doesn't help towards normalizing speaking on these feelings.

[@carlena4300]

I hope they don't appear on another 90 day. I can't listen to much more of liz squawking about how abusive little Ed is, his lies and excuses, her leaving, and then getting back with him.

[@ellecee425]

I absolutely agree! I have made more money and been more educated than any man I've ever even spoken to so 'money & providing' isn't it for me. Listening & quality acts of service are where it's at! Thank you for your words !

[@catspjs6229]

Idk why this was recommended to me but glad I did. You have narcissism down, I dated one for years and it was awful. New subscriber now!

[@PerStepheri]

*Pretends to be shocked and surprised*

[@nicholassanabria6493]

The definition of insanity is repeating the same thing and the same result keeps happening It’s basically big Ed’s relationship with Liz

[@froonamission1013]

They deserve each other. Keeping them out of the dating pool is a public service.

[@marknewton6984]

Not to mention the genetic pool...

[@sademcfadden1374]

Thank you for explaining this so well! It took me 4 years to pull myself out of a relationship like this. It’s hard. I do feel for Liz, but I also understand peoples frustration. I am sure I had friends that felt just as frustrated with me as the audience feels with Liz. But yeah, this is very obvious narcissistic abuse and it sucks. I hope she gets herself out soon, I can’t imagine the tv life plus the abuse is good for her and her daughter. Also it seems like you’re really up on the personal development, ayy get it! 😂 😊

[@Moon-0777]

Why did I hope and felt that Liz would fully completely exclude Ed from her life? I-

[@boufadeez6915]

i’m not even surprised at this point, liz does this to herself. even after the tell all, the disrespect, the ignorance, the arguing. i can’t believe she doesn’t have the common sense to finally just WALK AWAY !!!

[@Bianca0326]

It’s for the 💴

[@pclady95]

No. My ex left me for someone he met playing Dungeons and Dragons (he was 29) on-line. I filed for divorce (had him served by someone I was seeing--take that!!!), and he asked "Are you SURE you want to go through with this???" I busted out laughing because he was living with the 'love of his life' for 2 years, and I finally had enough money to get an attorney to get on with my life. Men can be such assholes..... He also didn't want me to change my last name back to my maiden name--I told him that if he ever married that woman he left me for that I didn't want to have two "Mrs Assholes" out there.

[@pclady95]

I also pay my own way, and ended up completing College after I was divorced from Mr. Asshole. Made me more independent and STRONG!

[@dottie9366]

🤣🤣🤣🤣👏👏👏👏

[@BeeMo310]

I love when you call them the "broken toys", not to be hateful but because it is so accurate. Love your channel

[@L3jandra]

tbh I don’t want to see them or Angela anymore if liz is truly doing this for money is one thing but at the end of the day they shouldn’t even be qualified since both of them are citizens

[@buttarain27]

Wow, your mindset and wisdom on relationships is so beyond your years!

[@just_.b.]

i love being a wet sock, that little segment at the end where father wet sock talks to us all and just kinda regroups feels so nice. thank you for being a cool guy, father sock

[@carolehankinson4969]

Spot on, a good relationship is a must for a couple and most women need to know that a man can talk about his feelings. ❤️

[@mariamayub212]

I watch a lot of relationship coach videos are here on KZbin all the time, and I'm so excited that you're delving into this category because you always been giving such great advice and such great insight on what you see on the show. I think it's so awesome, and I agree with a lot of what you say although I don't mind helping to pay for an expensive dinner or just go somewhere like simple and not too expensive. In the past, I would meet at the food court and have a meal with them so no pressure LOL I'm a food court and Mall kind of girl anyway but I totally get what you mean. Got to make sure that you don't make it too easy on them or they take you for granted that's one thing I've had my whole life for sure. Looking forward to more videos!