Big Ed The Narcissist Should Focus on his Fitness and NOT Hurting Women | 90 Day Fiancé

[@yourwetsock]

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[@Ryx1990]

Big Ed - Oh Bilal... I will do anything for you. "ANYTHING!" (Big Ed gets on his knees and opens his mouth) 🧔🏿‍♂🍆💦💦💦😍

[@dmore335]

I really hate how people still act like Ed is some goofy little gnome when he’s actually a serial abuser. Let’s call it what it is!

[@jessicamerriman2336]

I know a woman he sexually assaulted in the workplace. Big Pred is a sexual predator, period.

[@kennakellon8852]

Exactly. Shoulda been noticed since at least the first or second time he did shit to rose. I’ll never understand

[@fredziffle5219]

How is ed going to go out in public after this.

[@jessicamerriman2336]

@@fredziffle5219 Big Pred can go out in public because he really believes he is in the right. It will take an attack, or close attack, on him to wake him up.

[@mytruecrimelibrary]

And a liar and a creepy weirdo

[@kristennieto7785]

Being raised in survival mode versus love mode explains how Rose was able to leave Ed and Liz is still addicted: Rose was surrounded by a strong, loving family who valued her. Clearly, they taught her how to value herself in a way Liz never learned.

[@ChrisMari23]

I’m curious on his relationship with his mom.

[@sabir1208]

There's too much empowering content and ability from women for this to still be an excuse. Especially when Ed's whole family is against the relationship and I'm sure she sees the comments online. Liz is pathetic and worthless, just like Ed

[@kristennieto7785]

@@sabir1208 And you're profoundly ignorant! Coercion and abuse tactics don't just get wiped away because somebody reads a girl power blog.

[@wolvie1618]

@@sabir1208 that's very ignorant for you to say. Liz needs therapy, she's been very badly hurt and needs professional help. As someone who has been in a bad place mentally where I thought I was worthless, I can tell you that no amount of pep talks or supporting comments or positive posts can help. It falls on deaf ears. She needs to seek help from someone trained to help, not randos from the internet.

[@KittenLynxARI]

@@sabir1208 I ended up reading every warning sign and enpowerment post I could find, and I still ended up in mentally abuse relationship. Abusers and manipulatiors know what they're doing, they know how to use your weaknesses and trust against you. Which makes them dangerous.

[@Vasilia4]

*This is exactly how he acted to Rose during the first Tell-All. He acted like he had done absolutely nothing wrong and his lies and paranoia were justified*

[@mikecynic5167]

That's been his entire life.

[@GolgappaUwU]

Yep she was smart to leave love rose ❤️

[@Helljumper_Fanatic]

Hey in the end Rose came out on top with her youtube account. Big Ed with someday lose all that attention and it will be glorious.

[@Marzzy01]

Yes and he treated Rose like garbage and was horrible to her. Good for to leave him at the resort

[@Sunny-tc3ul]

Yes they all treated her wrong

[@mikehuff9793]

Ed: “Can I have MY ring back?” That says everything you need to know about how Ed sees marriage; like he owns the ring and therefore whoever wears it

[@ms.littlelady4132]

I would have thrown that ring and made him get it. Miserable old troll.

[@splitraven7060]

It’s a power move from Ed and manipulative behavior

[@jenzombie7625]

They call Ed out, yet continue to let Angela get away with abuse

[@LaciRae]

because Angela might lunge at You & rip your hair out if You say anything. Ed is just a passive aggressive lump…

[@Danxethenightaway]

This is so TRUE!!! She needs to be fired as well

[@parsonsmarcus]

He's done several videos on Angela.

[@endearmentthedoe1191]

They’re probably scared of her in a way. Or, more so the outbursts. Ed will just fuss and whine. Angela will explode

[@melwhite2023]

@@parsonsmarcus i think they mean the cast members

[@fileana]

I’ve been in Liz’s place and it’s hard. It’s so f-king *hard* to walk away from the narc. They will train you to make your entire existence about them and you can have every person on the planet tell you to walk away and how god awful they are but you will continue to stay rooted and under the false impression that you’re in love with this person until one day you’ve finally had enough. One day she will have had enough too.

[@emilyspector2728]

You should feel proud of yourself for getting the courage to leave. She needs to get the same courage.

[@tinam761]

Your compassion as a person was used against you. You walked away. Celebrate that you did the next right and healthy thing for yourself. You can do it again… and again… continuing to take the next healthy step. ❤

[@iright36]

Had a relationship very similar to their’s I was in it for 2 years before I said enough is enough

[@lizzay6731]

I’m currently in a narcissistic relationship, I can totally relate to where your coming from and I feel for Liz. It’s hard when you feel stuck to walk away.

[@kyyyyyyyyym365]

I doubt urs looked like Ed ... there's no positive about this man! None he gives nothing

[@astronautviolet153]

Been loving the fact that everyone from the show calling Ed out on his BS🤣

[@JjG347]

He doesn't care what people think and say about him because he thinks he's the smartest one in the room.

[@Redmist-se7ld]

That’s worth watching him being called out and showing his true colors watching him fail is entertaining

[@ElLawlietRR]

@@Redmist-se7ld his true colors are blue. He’s good.

[@okoala62]

Except for Angela 😒 she was way too soft on him

[@KaeAudhild]

@@JjG347 oh, he cares deeply.. lol. Rejection is one of a narcissist's biggest fears.

[@sockmonkeyjg]

"I had 6 couples jump on me" dude if everyone in the room tells you that you are wrong, there is a good chance that you are wrong!! who asks their fiancé to defend them against being caught cheating ON SAID FIANCE

[@southerncatlady]

I knew Ed was trash when he talked about cheating on his ex wife and then played the victim. Naturally, him cheating on Liz would be the same kind of situation. What a little goblin!

[@marknewton6984]

Ed is trash. Liz is an airhead. Nuff said.

[@theresacoy9881]

I dont get it, how the hell did he find 1 woman much less 2 or more..👀🤢

[@southerncatlady]

@@theresacoy9881 money. And fame.

[@luxbeauty4952]

Liz is dumb

[@muffinsdawg]

Thank you Mr. Cage 🙏 I appreciate you too

[@ascendednightingale2456]

My ex husband did a lot of this “Oh, I don’t remember that” bullshit. Even when I had saved an abusive text he’d sent me and showed it to the counselor we went to. He just looked sheepish and said “I don’t remember sending that”. He did a lot of things that Ed does, and I’m so happy I got away from him and can live a normal, happy life.

[@jenniferlloyd9574]

My narc ex was so good at gaslighting that it started to feel orchestrated and pre-mapped. It wasn't, he was just so deep in its pathology that he was textbook. After a couple years of this, I figured out his entire MO; every move by writ... I knew what he was going to do/say before he knew. At this point I was so frustrated and angry that I'm a little bit ashamed to say that I started to dish it back to him. Not my proudest moment, but he'd really mentally damaged me by this point. Got me fired from my job... Convinced key people that I was crazy... I worked for a non-profit and he wanted me to quit my job to stay home. He was retired military. He decided to volunteer as a fundraiser for my organization. He went around the entire state fundraising as an excuse to talk to people about me behind my back (I found out later)... Character assassination. He'd show up and invite my boss to lunch _without_ me! Anyway, by the time I left I'd gotten back my dignity and _he_ was broken...

[@tonichalchi8890]

He brings absolutely nothing to this relationship, she needs to just stand up for herself and say no more

[@Cristina-Ortiz]

But that TLC moneyyyy (probably)

[@ScreamingDucksShotMyMother]

@@Cristina-Ortiz Im wondering how much she makes because that’s the only reason I can think as to why she wants to continue with this.

[@atlasjojos]

@@ScreamingDucksShotMyMother right ! Plus she’s still struggling and if she was making a lot wouldn’t she already be in a stable situation with her daughter ?

[@marknewton6984]

She is dumb but should move on.

[@toriladybird511]

She needs Therapy that maybe TLC could invest in for her and Michael as both need it with the dog water partners they have.

[@kerenrosales1324]

The fact he said “I wanted you to stand by me whether right or wrong” and Liz’s face didn’t change 😭

[@selinebre]

I feel like Kim only said “no one is gonna judge if you went back to him” is bc she’s thinking about doing the same with usman

[@bribri0786]

💯

[@nishisalott1839]

However, we are judging lol

[@shihsgiggles1948]

100% def agree

[@mayomuslim5855]

toxic advice tbh

[@nerdee89]

Thank you!! I had an ex who would tell me straight to my face that I am “overwhelming” and that I was “not as pretty” as his ex but I have a “better personality” than her so I will do”. He will also chastise me for apparently being loud when his friends are obnoxious. He also thinks he’s better and smarter than everyone else, including his own mother. It was mentally exhausting to be with him because I have no idea what will set him off. The last straw was when he told me he wanted me to change my personality because he doesn’t like it. And surprise, when I told him what I think about him, he thinks I’m wrong. So we broke up. 2 years later, I met my husband who loves everything about me. And we’ve been married for 4 years now.

[@toriladybird511]

Way to go 💯❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@oreocookie8498]

If a toxic person was in a similar relationship like this but decided to walk away, would it be wrong?

[@BaddieBunnie]

"I broke up with this girl and was constantly going around behind her back and emotionally treating her like trash. WHY IS SHE ACTING LIKE SUCH A VICTIM!?!?!?"

[@MOONSLIFE36]

You are literally saving me from a narcissistic relationship it's extremely abusive. Thank you so much

[@spacecookiez67]

Be sure to give yourself credit too honey, the only person that can truly save you is YOU. You got this and we all believe in you. You deserve happiness and love and to be safe ❤

[@joanneclarke952]

What @spacecookie said 🤗

[@MOONSLIFE36]

@@spacecookiez67 Thank you so so much for your kind words. Means more than you know

[@tomcruisesmiddlefronttooth9221]

Hope you’re doing well! Leaving is incredibly hard but it’s such a relief once you’re away. ❤

[@MOONSLIFE36]

@tomcruisesmiddlefronttooth9221 Thank you. Its been 2 months but really hard. He keeps coming over unannounced,keeps the manipulation going. Sends pictures of us dailt.Its exhausting and I do fight feelings to go back!

[@dangalanga6941]

I love the look on his face when he asked for the ring back 😂😂 what a POS

[@lornahughes7706]

Ugh that look made me want to punch him in the face so badly

[@chibicreepypasta]

He looked like he was holding in a massive fart 🤣

[@ElLawlietRR]

@@chibicreepypasta big Ed is always good

[@ericnorthman9410]

He's worthless

[@ElLawlietRR]

@@ericnorthman9410 nope. He’s valued

[@meowmirrr]

This is so reminiscent of my relationship with my ex (who is a psychopath and a narcissist). You've got it spot on, for Liz it's all about recreating the relationship she had with her parents in an attempt to solve it. Which never works. It's clear Ed has a personality disorder that I'm sure at least partially stems from bullying about his physical appearance. That doesn't mean he deserves sympathy by any means, though. I feel bad for her daughter.

[@darter81]

Projective identification (thanks Dr. Honda)!!!

[@meowmirrr]

@@darter81 Kirk is the best!

[@marknewton6984]

Walk away. It is not hard.

[@AJDaniels5298]

Liz 100% needs to leave Ed, but I doubt she will. She WAS caught walking and holding hands with him somewhere, so I don't think they've broken up for good.

[@ilovegoodsax]

No sympathy for Liz. Who can respect a woman who prioritizes a boyfriend's needs above those of her young daughter's??? As a mother, LIz is clearly UNFIT. Staying with that possum-eyed troll, Liz deserves what she gets.

[@ShadowGirl1126]

Clearly she must not want her daughter if she keeps choosing Ed. He's got a huge chokehold on her

[@blobbertmcblob4888]

@@ShadowGirl1126 She's apparently not even raising her daughter. She either lives with Liz's sister or her parents.

[@defyjayy8335]

@@ilovegoodsax what did the possum ever do to you??

[@adamjaxn3156]

@@ShadowGirl1126 she's never wanted that kid. She just mentions her for sympathy.

[@RaeKayJay]

The fact that Liz is repeating the cycle of the absentee mother in her child’s life, the same she experienced in her own childhood, was such a great point. But due to the fact that she never worked on her own trauma with this issue, she’s blind to it. It breaks my heart.

[@marknewton6984]

What a mother.

[@chipotleparty]

When you've been broken for so long, seeing things clearly can be very hard. I have experienced feeling like nobody loves you and would get attached to the people that would give me a minimum of attention, no matter if they were toxic or not, it was even worse with broken souls, trying to repair them and defending them while they were stabbing me in the back. Liz probably feels like nobody loves her and Ed is the only person that has ever loved her because he made her feel seen and heard. It's hard to get away from someone like that, especially if your self-esteem is so low. She probably loves him and that's why she's so blind to the situation. People can keep saying how bad he is for her, but the louder voice will be Ed. He really has his nasty little claws deep into her skin and it is scary to see. It makes me sad to see how he's getting away with being such a toxic pos, trying to normalize his actions by trying to gaslight her. Noticed how he kept saying that everyone was against him without bring up why they were. I really can't wait for this little gremlin to become irrelevant so we can all move on from him.

[@BambiLena666]

Not to mention Liz has a whole crew of people following her around normalizing the abuse that is happening to her. Its hard enough to fight for yourself and resist the manipulation and gaslighting from your abuser, now imagine having a whole group of people there acting like what is being done to you is completely normal and legitimate.

[@snooganslestat2030]

If only both of you ^^ were in Liz's life rather than people from TLC & if course Ed. I empathize (unfortunately) & think you made really good points.

[@thethe4665]

I think past abuse can chemically rewire your brain to seek abuse and abusers. For me, it’s to the point at 30 years old if I’m attracted to someone, they are a clinical psychopath and I need to run the other direction. A crush for me, feels like butterflies, when other people would feel fear.

[@gerryshea3707]

I’m a 71 year old therapist and I think I’m I love with you. 😂 Your commentary on relationships and mental health are spot on. With so much bullshit about the same online, you are very refreshing.

[@haruuuuu1115]

i honestly feel so bad for liz's daughter. she must not have any real idea as to what her mother is going through/the entire tv show and the whole world of youtube videos and commentary that exists revolving around her mother's failure of a relationship with ed. i cant imagine what it'll be like when she has more access to the internet or if people in her real life (like classmates) start making the connection. also, what kind of example is liz setting for her daughter? "if someone hurts you and humiliates you publicly on a constant basis, you should go back to them if they're nice to you a couple times" ???

[@Iamyl4]

I actually needed to hear what you said about being able to find the right person to love you. I grew up with a survival mentality and always end up with the wrong men. I’m taking accountability for that though.

[@ingloriousMachina]

Likewise, I seem to be a BPD magnet.

[@tinam761]

I’ve chosen poorly many times. I was born into survival mode as well and have found myself in those situations much of my adult life. I’m acknowledging that my body and brain have worked EXTREMELY WELL to protect me. I thank my body and brain for saving me. 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼And now that is not helping me any longer. Those coping skills are harming me and the life I want. AND when I get triggered etc. I get to choose my next actions. I’m not going to wait on healing… I’m not going to stay stuck in pain … I am just going to accept that certain things may come my way and I will be prepared to deal with it. I will remind myself daily what I am PRACTICING - just like an athlete trains… I am in training and as a result will heal. There is NOTHING WRONG WITH YOU. Your brain 🧠 protected you in the past … now you can acknowledge the thoughts 💭 you have and then tell yourself the truth and choose life and health for yourself. I recently had a breakthrough in therapy… and it’s just hitting… I hope I encourage you. YOU can be well and choose well and have healthier relationships. I believe in you!!!! ❤🙏🏼❤🙏🏼❤

[@toriladybird511]

May you find a man who values you and is a man of true worth.

[@thethe4665]

I realized I actively seek out psychopath/dark triad men and I have no attraction to men that aren’t. My brain was hardwired from trauma at a young age, so I really can’t date.

[@tinam761]

@@thethe4665 then don’t date for awhile… give yourself rest. And at ANY point you see yourself walking in the unhealthy path … 🛑 STOP and thank yourself for noticing and then make a healthier choice. I recommend writing it down so you can reference basic healthy choices you can make WHEN the time comes … it will come AND you can be prepared to navigate it. You can choose healthy… give yourself what it needs to make that happen… come alongside yourself in support… don’t scold yourself… “you should have … “ … No more. When you notice… that Dear One is a win. 🥇 pivot from there to ANYTHING that is healthy and then another healthy thing etc. I know it can get pretty difficult to change… don’t worry about big changes … just make a little change. When an unhealthy man wants to connect with you … disengage and so anything… clean your bathroom… have a solo dance party… take a walk … take a shower… just do something different to get you out of the rut you have been in before and build on that. 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

[@Suki-bc1dv]

My ex did a lot of similar things like using my insecurities against me, making me feel safe and taking it away etc.. And he was a 10 but I still left him 😂 please Liz you can do it 👏👏

[@toriladybird511]

He was no 10 my lovely... He acted like it but he never was. If he was a true 10 he never could have done what he dud to chase you off.

[@barbieblues7639]

@Tori Ladybird people like that only mean looks when they say that...I mean they're literally reducing a person to a number, of course they're going to be shallow

[@Suki-bc1dv]

Thank you @toriladybird511 🥹💜

[@Suki-bc1dv]

@@barbieblues7639 I was just saying that if I was shallow I would have stayed for his looks or money or whatever but he treated me like garbage so I left.

[@sandytrimble5081]

Ed was "drownding" and Liz stepped on his head - such a drama queen - run Liz run!

[@barbieblues7639]

I've always wondered what's wrong with people who say "drownding" because it's not the first time I've heard it.

[@lee-lee6835]

Liz coming from a domestic abuse survivor, Ed will never ever change, he will always push you away because you are always going to take him back. One day you will wake up, you will have had enough, not a day sooner, or later.... you will know this is the day because you will ask yourself, "am I truly happy?" When you answer back and say "no" this will be the day. I got this advise from an aunt, when she gave me this advise I thought to myself, I love him, il never ever want to leave him. On the day I was ready, I woke up early in the morning, sat up in bed and just made the choice,that I'm done. I never looked back.

[@bribri0786]

I cannot fathom a reality across any inch of the multiverse where a woman actually allows someone like Ed to treat them like he does Liz, all the while looking the way he does and not being rich. Please make it make sense 😂

[@toriladybird511]

Because people like him can smell out a vulnerable woman like a shark with one drop of water. She is a broken soul.

[@barbieblues7639]

Exactly. It's like my brain has no oxygen when I try to make sense of this dumb bullshit. Self hatred is the answer though, that and hunger for fame.

[@hjio3995]

But it happens 😭 I know of people 40 years with someone toxic breaking up every couple months

[@AnalessaPenton]

Really enjoying the more compassionate advice you're throwing in with your reaction videos these days. The jokes are fire as always but I'm enjoying seeing a productive takeaway from a couple like this even if they themselves aren't taking the advice.

[@vexu7366]

Well he set himself up for failure from the jump then if he wants to be "her last". He'll die way before her. If he wants to be a "last" perhaps he should date his own age. Oh...wait, those women are too hard for him to manipulate and gaslight.

[@sunflower4428]

He doesn’t want a partner he wants someone to control and be seen as arm candy

[@bubblegumrose777]

That’s what I was thinking! Men usually die earlier anyways but he’s at least 20 years older. Unless it’s written in the will that he wants her sewn shut when he dies she’s going to be with someone else.

[@GolgappaUwU]

But like i don't judge people physically so much but with that personally how does these women even kid this dude 🤮🤮🤮 idkk he is so ugllyyyyy

[@Kaayc123]

She had the support and pushed it away. At this point she can’t depend on others to steer her in the right direction or to be there for her. It’s draining to those around her. Feels like a slap to the face everytime she vents to a friend and a helping hand is offered for her just to go back to Ed.

[@sarahhollister150]

Man, I really wish KZbinrs like you had been around 15 years ago to explain these things to me. I dated a narcissist and i just couldn’t understand what was going on or the way I was feeling because of the love I was craving. I’ve learned a lot since then and I’ve held myself up to a higher standard now.

[@TeaOnATangent]

Please keep the honest, hilarious, positive advice with direct examples from the shows you're recapping! You have a thoughtful, mature and still petty (when deserved) perspective. Been torn between LOL and tearing up based on your last two lil Ed/ Liz videos. Hope you and your brother had fun!

[@ShelShel444]

“The lenses can be repaired, don’t ever give up on yourself” i seriously needed to hear this. Few weeks into my recovery and it’s hard but I’m not giving up on myself 💕

[@CannonZeroKiryu]

I’d get my lenses repaired but I live in America and healthcare is insane

[@mariamichel6915]

Dude, I started watching your videos maybe over a year ago and I've noticed that your recent work involves discussing mental health and explaining the situation through that lense, totally appreciate it and I always look forward to your videos!! Keep it up my guy!! :)

[@fanta9688]

I found this channel recently but stayed because he's insights are really helpful 🥺✨

[@mariamichel6915]

@@fanta9688 Yes!!! I always enjoyed his videos before because they were funny and entertaining but his recent work is still funny and entertaining and also helpful and insightful! :)

[@Christine-dz6wh]

“He’s really good to my daughter”. Wtf? You don’t have full custody. YOU be good to your daughter. They’re back together, there’s been pics of them walking around their hometown. 😂😂😂😂😂

[@Gooosblabla]

Holy shit dude, you need your own podcast! You are saying everything so many ppl need to hear! 💕

[@ramenn00dle76]

Andrei is hilarious for calling Big Ed "Small Ed" 😭

[@mikecynic5167]

"You are a waste of life and you should give up" perfectly describes Ed.

[@eve-marieouellette]

Thank you for not putting all the blame on Liz and actually understanding why she acts the way she does. A lot of women and men are abused in relationships. Her not being beaten does not mean that she is not being abused. She is caught up in a cycle of abuse and it is sickening because it is textbook. Seeing viewers blaming her is honestly gross. The other couples not standing up for her more is worst. She is being destroyed on TV and TLC is monetizing on it. I see so much of me in her from a previous relationship and I didn’t know I was caught up in it. So glad to be out of it now but it was REALLY HARD to get out. Anyway, thank you for being one of the few to not shame her and focus on Ed’s behaviors! Love your videos ✨

[@gabylebron2858]

the fact that he had no comeback so he just asked for the ring back. if liz gets back together with him for the millionth time after he’s embarrassed her so many times on the tell all ALONE, I'm done with watching TLC

[@askthefrog]

How about the "me no speak English"? I'm not a violent person but I really want to sock this guy.

[@gabylebron2858]

@@askthefrog literally. like what the actual fuck dude? me no speak English was the best deflection you thought of?

[@tammykelsey7877]

Liz, if you read this, PLEASE DON’T GO BACK TO little ed! You deserve SO much better! He is abusing you and tearing you down. Stay single for at least a year and get some really good individual therapy. There is a wonderful man out there for you who won’t degrade, abuse, humiliate you, or tear you down! But just DO YOU for AT LEAST a year. You needs a LOT of healing! ❤️🙏✌🏻

[@spiralhappiness]

Yourwetsock, I really appreciate how much you grew over the course of your channel’s life with now adding deeper commentary about human relationships and psychology. You found a sweet spot between reviewing our guilty pleasure show and making your audience think about intricacies of human behavior in the context of character interaction, such as Ed and Liz. Much respect 💐☀️

[@MsMaryContrary]

"Ed is built to survive a car crash" 💀⚰️

[@baileybrian9560]

"i was drowning and i felt like you were stepping on my head" lol step harder Liz!!

[@stephaniesmith91ss]

You know.. the relationship advice you sprinkle through your videos is actually a lot.. I grew up in a toxic household and it's hard to find good relationship advice now. You're end advice was like everything I needed to hear. It's so crazy how much I needed to hear this.

[@Spinny300]

Recently became a fan because of a co-worker. Thank you for uploading right after I get off work 😭 It's become a recent part of my day to hold off watching your videos on break until I get home. It makes it all the more worth while 😁

[@SuperNuclearUnicorn]

Bro you're so wholesome lmao. I actually love the relationship advice and life advice you give, and you're absolutely right that it's so easy to get caught up in the sweet words and the "I'll be better" excuses but it's whether they actually show it that matters

[@benkeller6027]

Big Ed seems to love disruptions in relationships. He gets off having fights and gets an adrenalin rush from creating these problems. He wants total control over any relationship. He was worried Rose had friends online and was friends with other people. He was worried about her ex partner and that Rose might see other potential partners online or in life. The same is occurring now with Liz. Ed needs full control over Liz's life, be it with her employment or work colleagues and his desire she doesn't interact nor socialise with them.

[@toriglitters]

Yup. And then he gets bored once he gets control and then dumps her.

[@darter81]

Yup, he appears to want total control of “his women” in order to minimize any chance of losing them, and unfortunately that means he goes after women he thinks will need to be financially and/or emotionally dependent on him. And when they aren’t dependent enough for his liking (and desire for control), he ups the stakes and requires that they move in (Liz) and not go out with friends/talk to people and work less or not work at all. That way he holds the cards and if she does something he doesn’t like, he knows he can pull the “OK move out” card and leave her stranded, just like he did.

[@benkeller6027]

@@darter81 so true. Well stated.

[@hanbean]

I can’t believe Ed is still allowed to be on television

[@marknewton6984]

He and Kimberly need to disappear. Forever.

[@redwoodrebelgirl3010]

Abusive POS Ed needs to be deplatformed, as does abusive POS Angela. They both need to be OFF TLC . Cancel both of them. In my opinion & experience.

[@kasslue1877]

Omg! You are so wise! I see things I didn't about my bad choices. I'm in my fifties and I have been done with relationships because I've been hurt too much. Thank you for your insight. I know I do victim roles easily so I have had to work hard not to do that. It helped me so much but I have lots more work. Thank you! Take care.

[@cozyconspirator]

Big Ed that you?

[@LaciRae]

@@cozyconspirator he would NEVER.

[@kasslue1877]

@@cozyconspirator nope I get hurt not give it. But that is funny cuz I'm female and can't stand Ed. He is a jerk! I don't get what Liz sees in him.

[@kasslue1877]

@@LaciRae thank you! Have a great day!

[@ScreamingDucksShotMyMother]

@@cozyconspiratorBig Ed wouldn’t be admitting he needs to work on himself, you’re not even making sense.

[@arykahleigh4570]

U could use this in psych class as a lesson in textbook narcissistic abuse. Gaslighting 101. Liz is a victim. She doesn’t understand what’s happening to her. I hope she gets free of him & gets therapy. BTW Everything u threw down was on point, as was your Penguin reference. I was dead ❤

[@KagomeYasha023]

I think she understands cause she’s been through it before unless they just completely dropped her without her being the one to leave and understand eventually what’s crazy is you can understand you’re in a bad relationship eventually and still have a hard time getting out. Happens all the time you will know you’re in one eventually but getting out is the hard part.

[@therealdj74]

Dawned on me the other day….Ed is the thing Chet got turned into in the Weird Science movie. Another great vid….thanks for entertaining us

[@CreativeCreatorCreates]

Wtf- I was JUST talking about Chet yesterday. I also 100% agree.

[@tanya4691]

I have always thought he looked like Chet the turd

[@toriladybird511]

LolOMG yes Weird Science Ft Kelly Brock.

[@brianprice260]

Man you’re such a smart intuitive young man . The way you broke down Ed’s manipulation of Liz was spot on . The idea of looking at life through a broken lens versus a clear lens is so very profound. You’re very insightful and astute at observing and understanding human behavior. I see big things for you my friend

[@Pseudochick01]

Liz & Ed: It’s called TOXIC CODEPENCY.

[@francesmcstay]

Or is she just with him for the TV exposure and social media fame? I have to wonder.

[@elite344]

lmaoo when he said "he asked for the ring back what was I suppose to do" exactly like Liz.

[@daisychainsknox]

Hearing you talk about CinnamonToastKen and ArthurTV makes me so happy. Y’all are my three favorite commentators on these shows.

[@alexuz93]

I honestly don’t think I can continue to feel bad for Liz. 12 breakups later and people are still giving her the exact same advice and conversations. I can’t.

[@Shonnicole]

Same here. Zero sympathy at this point she is ALMOST asking for this treatment.

[@sabir1208]

None. Tired of the excuses from people

[@averibitter441]

please go volunteer at a battered womans shelter so you can truly see the process and affects of emotional abuse. af the end of the day she is a victim. it might take her 12 more break ups to understand that. but she needs support. she doesnt have anywhere to go

[@nbome2733]

@@averibitter441 she has our own apartment now? Also, it doesn’t matter if she’s a victim. That’s sad she is, and there’s things that come with that, but ultimately it’s her responsibility as an adult to make decisions that are smart and healthy - and she’s failed to do that with everyone in her life telling her the smart and healthy thing to do. The ball is in Liz’s court now… it’s completely up to her what she does now… and she chooses to deny deny deny. You can lead a horse to water, but you can’t make it drink it.

[@marknewton6984]

She likes it.

[@melissamontesano9018]

I had just started watching your videos and I have to say this is my favorite. You have nailed everything. And with things you have said I've been thru it. My ex cheated on me lied about our relationship and thought he was hot shit cuz he worked out and made money. Well I was taking care of him when he lost his job. That relationship was so toxic I almost ended my life. He wasn't worth it. Now I'm dating my best friend who I knew since 2014. He is perfect. He's not rich but he's loyal and faithful. And I'm not sure if Liz just doesn't wanna see the fact that it'll never work or she doesn't wanna admit it. So she keeps trying and trying. Men like him don't deserve 12 more chances. I'm sure the whole world has seen his true self and it's ugly. Very ugly.

[@AsliaxAI]

Your message of the day hit hard for me, after an exhausting 36 hours. Thank you for putting out those vibes

[@scorpionmish]

Discovered this channel during the pandemic and loved the way you roasted people in your commentary and now I can say that your growth is amazing. Love the insightful commentary.

[@GIRru11]

The fact that Liz still says she loves Ed is just unbelievable. How. How can she sill say that after everyone everywhere is telling her the truth

[@marknewton6984]

Liz is brain damaged.

[@theodoratalon5368]

"I don't remember I cheated" and "no. 1, I don't lie." Are the EXACT words my abusive ex used to say. I stayed with that disgusting person for 3 years, just because naive me thought things will change, and that he doesn't lie (since he's told me every time he's cheated on me, right after he went out on a date with someone). But the day I finally caught him right in his lie, only because he finally told me the truth when he was too drunk to lie, I finally gave up fighting for the relationship. A few weeks after that, we broke up. Seeing Liz going through all this, I wish to help her in some way or another. But also as someone who made the same mistakes of going back so many times, I know no one can help her get out, other than herself. I only hope she gets the help and proper support she needs, to finally see her own self worth to get out of that hell of a relationship.

[@smdrmc]

Liz needs to learn to have respect for herself and love herself. Until then she will continue to allow him to humiliate her

[@marknewton6984]

Liz is an airhead. Ed is a creep. Move on.

[@sabir1208]

She's worthless so not gonna happen

[@BaelaNyx]

I genuinely enjoyed the therapy sesh at the end. Thank you ❤

[@LeviAckerman-cb5ji]

27:41 I bet a year's salary Ed wouldn't dare speak to Liz's Marine buddy the way he is speaking to Jovi right now.

[@ragingphoinix9144]

I am glad that people are calling him what he is. I was in the same boat as Liz at one point. It's funny because I would watch her and be like....wtf is wrong with you? Then I found myself in a narcissistic situation and found myself asking myself the same damn shit I was yelling at her. It was really humbling. As to anyone asking how you would put up with it, the abuse gets to the point where you've been gaslit so much, you're not sure what you're seeing is even real. You end up apologizing for THEIR behavior and it's like watching yourself like a movie. In the back of your mind, you do know how shitty it is, but you feel physically chained. Cognitive dissonance is such a pain in the ass to break once you're sucked in. As an aside, Ed not validating her at all then deflecting and flipping the script on her is so triggering because it's what I went through.

[@holliesokol]

Never stop doing what you do. Your insight will undoubtedly save someone’s life some day. So much love xx

[@kenz5432]

hell yes to the cinnamontoastken shoutout, i love that man also, genuinely thank you for the pep talk at the end. i for one needed that. you inspire me Mr. Wetsock. thank you.

[@dejamike88]

You are so right about Ed in regards to every time he breaks up with Liz, he would try to go get another woman, but once he finds out no one would want him, then he will go get Liz back.. and the whole cycle keeps repeating.

[@hollie.duncan]

i’ve been in a relationship where i was emotionally manipulated and even though i loved the dude so much, I am so grateful and happy that it’s over. i can actually be myself and feel alive. i also look alive again. Liz you NEED to leave the Mucinex booger, whatever version of him you met in the beginning is NOT REAL babes it was an ACT. save yourself PLEASE 😭

[@vinnivlogs666]

Number 1 youtuber/cameo artist/person

[@gertrudscollections9813]

And cinnamon toast ken!!!!!!!

[@yourwetsock]

I’m honored you think so 😄🙌

[@vinnivlogs666]

@@yourwetsock my favourite commentary youtuber, should collab with ArthurTV from england

[@Tarrynn]

omg living for the ending pep talk! i feel like you just keep getting more and more authentic and open with us and i love it 🙏🏻

[@ACFraire]

Liz has massive Daddy issues. Her father walked out on the family when Liz was young. She is reliving that situation with Little Ed. She won’t walk away, because she thinks she can “love” Little Ed all better and then he’ll be loyal to her. Just like her father, Little Ed is a narcissist and only sees Liz as an inconvenience.

[@Sunny-tc3ul]

That prep talk was really needed at the end. It’s a lot of women and men needed to hear that. They are walking around living on false lies that’s going to leave a lot of people lonely, broken and confused.

[@lornahughes7706]

For some reason this tell all really has me warming to andrei and Kim... probably because we have a mutual hate for small Ed...

[@Valoelify]

I love your pep talks. I find them so comforting... You have such a high level vibration, such good energy. I was once trapped in a trauma bonded toxic relationship with someone like Ed, on and off for years, he was a Covert Narcissist and I have BPD, but I treated my problems with DBT and many years of therapy, eventually learning how to love myself and to let go of those who don't, knowing I deserved better. I improved myself, while he stood still. In any case I find all your validating observations about their relationship highly comforting. You remind me of friends I once lost, except for that you would have been a Real friend who stayed. You are a good man. May the universe grant you all your wishes! Thanks for everything Nick.

[@aishteaishte7266]

On point! That’s what it is! He goes back to Liz when nobody wants to be with him. Only Liz wants to be with Ed. She has no self esteem and no self respect.

[@juliagulia9224]

I love how you used your insight & depth to explain the dynamics between Liz & Ed. People are frustrated with Liz, which is understandable at first glance. But there's a lot more going on, A LOT. Thank you!

[@roseyrae4320]

The one thing i will always remember someone telling me " i know you see the potential in them but is it ok if they never live up to it" thats what liz needs to hear

[@emilyspector2728]

This is how abusive relationships start. First, lovebimbing. Then, keeping her from her friends by telling them they don’t want us to be happy. They want to break us up. Then…alienate her from her family. And it goes downhill from there unless she can break the cycle.

[@amandaramirez4491]

I really loved yourwetsock’s message today, our society is messed up and we need more people like him that’s spreads positivity instead of poison … thank you☺️

[@jacieleighruts25]

He’s a classic narcissist love bombs make you fell like number one then it shifts and he drags you down, makes you question your self worth, I’m surprised he let her move out honestly that probably saved her I hope she leaves works on herself and forgets him he won’t change

[@kaylinsnyder14]

I know this quote is from a movie but it was stands the test of time. "We accept the love we think we deserve" That's why Liz stays she thinks she deserves this💔

[@bellarina]

Yessss, we love the conversations at the end. I'm taking notes! This year, I am learning to communicate better, and your vids are an inspiration for me to do that.

[@agutz1765]

Dude. Your words are beautiful. I needed that.

[@Spearsa]

The editing in this….SPECTACULAR! 😂😂

[@jasminesmith5447]

Thank you Jovi for standing up from Liz (not that I believe she deserved it 100% considering she is going to take him back or already has) and for saying that men should not treat women the way Ed does.

[@karmagal1796]

Yep! Haven’t changed my mind. I can’t help but think that Liz is enjoying all the compliments, you can do betters and she’s just polishing her Trauma Tierra. No matter what she does, the cast and supporters will give her tons of affection and positive reinforcement. As far as Ed is concerned Liz is not married to, parenting with or financially intertwined with him. If she had to deal with him for real, without everyone tending to her feelings, I think she would leave him in a heartbeat. But, the show must go on. Right Ed & Liz? Hmmm…

[@barbieblues7639]

Yep, except it's tiara.

[@karmagal1796]

@@barbieblues7639 Oops, my bad! Embarrassing Typo. Never trust auto correct. Thanks. 🫣

[@analoinaz2038]

Brilliant!!!! Those last 8 minutes 10 including your comments on Liz and Ed BUT beyond The comments you made at the end BRILLianT!!! Never heard a man put it so clear and correctly. How do we make men be enlightened as you have!

[@ShelleyBean1808]

Loved your positive message and vibe ✨️ ❤️

[@TBen-sx7lt]

You hit the nail on the head and that is the crux of the problem. She needs someone(a professional) to counsel with her before she ruins the rest of her life. Thanks for your insight.

[@samwuensch]

Love your insight on this couple and others on the show. 👏🏻 Feels like a therapy session since I do see some parallels between what you discuss and certain aspects of my own life. I appreciate ya!

[@clarissarose03]

I asked my fiancée that silly worm question. And he goes “yes, honey, I would make sure you have lots of dirt and rotten food, just for you ❤” 😂😂

[@TiPsTeR1967]

I like Andre, good family man. Nobody's perfect but he seems to be an all around genuine guy.

[@ms.littlelady4132]

He made a complete 180°

[@marknewton6984]

Deport the jerk.

[@gigiarmany]

I find myself VERY impressed with your knowledgeability on all narcissistic relationship dynamics👍🏼🔥💥❤️🖤

[@AnnWahlquist]

"im sorry you made me do this to you"

[@shaybayhuffman3291]

Mannnn I love you, almost had me in tears there at the end, seriously 😂😭 I literally wrote down like 6 your wet sock quotes.. I am suffering with leaving a narcissist bf and the abuse is next level.. watching you has helped me so much, it IS therapeutic!! It is amazing how u can be told your entire life how you're beautiful, you're funny and intelligent, you're so talented, etc. Etc.. and how easily a narcissist can make u doubt everything you are, and everything u feel. It is literal hell. So, Thank u for being real, and what you're doing and what u stand for can truly help people.. so, keep them coming pleaseee 🙏💜

[@kelly-k-dub]

The best Andrew Tate impression Ive heard yet 🤣🤣🤣🙌🏻🙌🏻

[@Two_lights867]

The last relationship advice that you gave🖤 I’m going through a horrible breakup, we were together for five years. He has depression and PTSD, I was with him when he was at his lowest. He had liver cancer, I used to cry like a little girl begging my friends to pray for him. He’s cured now, told me three weeks ago that he doesn’t love me anymore because I got jealous of his sister. He gave her so much attention and love, with me he was so cold and blames his depression. Its so hard that I couldn’t even talk about it, even through text. This is the first time and it’s in a KZbin comment. Thank you🖤