Yuri Got Kicked Out of Her Dance Team

It was a really difficult decision but we had to make that decision. It took me some time to actually let you know the news because it was really hard for all of us to accept the reality and the decision.
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[@바리깡-o1h]

아이들 아빠의 법정양육권을 뺏으세요!! 아이들이 체조나 댄스를 그만두기까지의 아빠가 끼친 영향과 과정들을 다 기록하시고!!

[@lynni4430]

도데체 저렇게 잘하고 애정있는 일을 포기하게하는 아빠가 ... 아빠가맞는지.... 아이가너무안쓰럽고 힘드네요...애기때부터봤는데 저 춤출때 저자신감과 행복감을 잃게하는게....엄마로서라도 다시할수있는힘을 주시길바래요 🙏

[@honeyn.c2440]

아빠로써 자격이 없네요. 그 사람이 더이상 릴리가족을 힘들게 하도록 놔두지 말고 포기하지마세요. 항상 선과 악중에서는 선이 이기니까요 !!

[@hadorihamtori]

진짜 너무 기기차고 어이가 없는 상황이네요. 상황이 정말 슬퍼요. 그 분은 그냥 아이들과 릴리님이 힘들고 짜증나는 상황을 만드는 것 자체를 즐기는 거 같아요. 대체 왜그러는건지 😢 힘내세요

[@ayung31]

아동 학대 아닌가요 ㅠㅠㅠ 아이들의 미래에 지대한 영향을 끼칠 수도 있는 일인데...

[@Greentree805]

Yes. His manipulation and level of control are crazy. He would rather hurt those children to obviously punish their mother.

[@안나수이-f8j]

보니까 엑스가 애들한테도 맘이 없는거같은데 양육방식을 간섭하며 사사건건 훼방놓는건 사이코같네요. 애들 보기도 싫고 아버지로서 맘도 떠났다면 양육권을 온전히 엄마한테 넘기고 부녀지간의 연을 끊는게 나을듯요

[@Mia---]

명백한 아동학대 아닌가요.. 제대로 양육하지 않은 부분에 대해서 고소 가능하다면 고소하셨으면 좋겠다 싶네요.. 릴리님 얼마나 답답하실지.. 유리와 다소미... 얼마나 슬플지 마음이 아파요...😢 부디 좋은 일들만 릴리네 가족들에게 일어나기를..❤️

[@lystramcburnie3297]

Maybe you should get full custody of the kids and move on without him. As much as we want the kids dad in their lives, sometimes for their mental health,it’s best that he’s not

[@Ash-bn5bn]

This! Lily needs full custody for the kid’s and her sanity.

[@TheVintagePoint]

I did the same and now my kids are 20 & 15 I made it love.

[@truthspeaker8863]

a judge is never going to do this over extra curricular activities lmao. also this is probably not good for her mental health. every mother needs a BREAK!!!

[@laurab6418]

Why isn’t anyone asking why she’s not getting full custody for the kids? There has to be a reason for this

[@mysticloverfairy1]

That's what I was thinking too she needs full custody. Chris is a better Dad to those girls.

[@alksdjhfgqwerty]

유리처럼 재능있고 댄스 사랑하는 아이한테 무슨짓을 하는건지..응원해주지는 못할망정?? 릴리님 속상하신 마음 이해돼요 아이들이 상처받지 않았으면 합니다..

[@jj9141]

저도 유리처럼 한국에서 무용가를 꿈꾸며 컸는데 엄마아빠의 불화, 별거, 이혼으로 가장 사랑하던 것을 포기하고 결국 다른 꿈을 꾸게되고 다른 직업을 갖게되었네요. 어렸을때 내가좋아하는 일을 자발적으로 포기해야한다는게 얼마나 슬픈일인지 겪어봐서 그런지 제 감정이 이입되서 너무 슬펐습니다..

[@말티푸코비]

릴리님 영상에 댓글은 처음이에요 마음이 아파 댓글답니다 유리의 댄스에 대하는 마음 즐기는 자세를 보고 응원해왔는데 그만둔다니 마음이 아파요 릴리님이 아이에게 많이 힘이 되어주세요

[@sunghwajeung535]

유리의 끼와 재능은 어디가지 않을거예요. 언젠가 그 재능이 빛을 발할날이 꼭 올거예요. 웅원해요

[@hr9310]

제가 너무 마음이 아프네요 , 자녀가 원하는것을 아빠라는분이 막고 있다는것을, 부모에 마음으로 전혀 이해가 안됩니다. 유리에 춤을 보니 , 탁월한 재능이 있는것 같은데,,, 참 특이한 아빠 마음입니다 릴리가족들 마음이 많이 슬프겠어요.. 어 ~~ 휴 화납니다.

[@sweetpaw_]

??? 저 지금 방금 들어왔는데 유리 댄스그만뒀다고요? 그 사람 욕 그만하고 싶었는데 정말 선을 넘네요. 릴리님이 아무리 미워도 딸 교육을 막는건 진짜 아니죠. 자식 그만괴롭히라고 말해도 계속 저러네.. 내가 생각하는것보다 ex는 더 최악인 사람이구나. Ex옹호하는 사람들은 그 사람 인간자체가 좋아도 어린아이들이 ,그것도 자기자식들을 망치는 행위를 옹호하면 안되죠. Ex의 행위를 어떤 변명을 대서 옹호하는거 자체가 어린아이들의 인생을 망치는 걸 알아두시길 제발! 그 인간 맨날 하는 행동보면 🤯🤯🤯1.크리스와 릴리가 자기를 못살게 굴어서 자식을 돌보지 못하겠다! 온갖 변명을 대는데 -> 실상은 ex가 올린 영상중에 ex가 크리스로부터 접근금지명령을 받았는데 자꾸 크리스와 릴리가 우리집을 찾아와서 자식들을 못돌보게 하려한다? -> ❤❤X ,절대 아님. 그 영상보면 다소미가 엄마집에서 아빠집갈때 안경두고 와서 엄마가 다소미보고 제임스 접근금지 명령 있어서 다소미만 엄마 차에서 안경가지러 가게 했는데 제임스가 다소미 안경가지러 못가게 막음. 이걸 제임스는 영상을 올려서 교묘하게 릴리가 자신을 괴롭혀 양육권을 잃게 하려고 한다고 모함함.❤❤ 거기다가 올해 여름에 한달가량 제임스는 아이들을 돌보지 않았고+😅😅😅 이번 가을,겨울에도 돌보지않음. 그런데 저런 영상올려서 변명 대면서 내가 양육하지 않는건 다 릴리때문이야 뿌에에에에엥!!! 😅😅😅 맨날 변명만함! 제임스, 이거 말고도 다 이런식이였음 제임스는 거짓 정보로 애들 엄마 괴롭히고, 아이들까지 괴롭힘. ㅋㅋㅋ 남의 인생 그리고 어린 자식들 인생 망치는 제임스의 행동을 옹호하지 말아줬으면 제발!! 릴리님! 제발 힘내서 제임스를 인생에서 끊어주세요! 본인 인생을 위해서, 아이들인생을 위해서요 ㅠㅠ 응원합니다❤

[@mirikim8692]

너무 속상하시겠어요. 왜 애들이 마음이 다쳐야 하는지... 곧 방법을 찾기를 바라겠습니다. 유리는 계속 춤출수 있으면 좋겠네요.

[@박파랑-n6k]

댓글 처음 달게 되네요, 너무 화가나서. 전 남편 정말 나쁜 사람인거 같아요, 유리 춤추면서 행복해하는거 보고 잘 하는것 보고, 멋지고 잘될꺼라 생각했는데 너무 마음이 아프네요,ㅠ

[@sofie0415]

유리가 꿈을 꾸는 것이, 꿈을 이뤄가는 것이 잠시 쉬어갈뿐 영원히 끝이 아니란걸, 어떤 것도 유리의 재능을 막지 못한다는걸 마음에 잘 간직하고 있으면 좋겠어요. 유리의 마지막 댄스 과정에서 선생님과 주고받은 메세지가 참 영향력 있다고 생각해요. 선생님이 하신 말을 가져와 봤어요. "Don't be afraid to let it out.", "Your confidence, passion, emotions.", "All the matters are that you are doing your best." 유리뿐 아니라 릴리님에게 전해지는 메세지이기도 한 것 같아요. All the matters are that you are doing your best, Lily.❤

[@whitegreatpitch]

유리 댄스에 엄마 나레이션 들으니 주책맞게 눈물이 나네요~ 저도 이제 애기 낳고 애기 키우는 입장이 되니 엄마의 마음을 이해하게 되었네요~ 모든게 해결 잘 되셔서 릴리님도 아기들도 맘편하게 지냈으면 좋겠어요 응원합니다❤

[@JollyGoodJewWitch]

You’ve handled it as well as you could. This court case should help out this situation more. It shows his true nature and the lack of care he has towards the children. Also let your attorney know about his neglect of the children and missing visits. I’m hoping you get full custody.

[@JesusChristOriginal]

Yeah!

[@jackmedcalf6254]

It's so sad that the girls aren't supported by your ex. Does he think they don't see what he's doing? This doesn't bring them closer. It's selfish. I'm so glad that they at least have a loving, stable home to grow up in with you and Chris. My ex was like that with our daughter, but she eventually got bored and just stopped coming around. Don't be discouraged. You are so strong!

[@Cinjo6]

Some suggestions. Dasomi can get a tutor to teach her Korean which would be more flexible. On "off-weeks", she can study alone by learning new words, reading books, listening to music or just speaking with Yuri. The best way to learn is to speak it at home, anyway. James said he objected to the long hours that Yuri needed for dance and wanted her to have a more balanced life. If it's Yuri's passion, let her continue dance lessons whenever she can even if she can't compete for now.

[@enderless6055]

Yeah, there's tutors she could hire for dasomi to study and I feel that's a better option. For Yuri she could do the same depending on them as well

[@stacybarnes8428]

Listen girl am the same situation and definitely understand the frustration with coparenting we as mothers can only do our part we cannot play the role of the father just do your part and trust me when the girls grew up and become adult they will thank you Try me dear put your energy towards your girls. Don’t even put any energy or stress with the dad. Trust me it’s not worth it. 💕🙏🏾

[@NetterForest]

Yuri is an elite level gymnast and an amazing dancer. She has already found her passion in life and it's a real shame she has such a big obstacle in her way. When she's a mega superstar and gained fame and fortune she's going to remember who had her back and who tried to hold her back.

[@janedoe7820]

You're absolutely right,

[@tikusblue]

How do you know that this is Yuri's passion?? It's possible she's just being pushed into it by a fame hungry mother like many other little girls. Maybe their father is allowing them to skip the classes because they aren't interested in it. You are only getting one side of the story here. I think Lily displays some narcissistic characteristics personally.

[@lenaramoon4617]

@@tikusblue for someone who tries to appear intellectual, you accusing people of narcissism is insane. Not everyone you disagree with is a narcissist.

[@tikusblue]

@@lenaramoon4617 I'm not trying to appear "intellectual" but thanks I guess for perceiving me that way? I said she appears to be one, or have tendencies. Just my opinion. And it's not because I disagree with her ( I disagree with many people who don't seem to be possible narcissists) it's based on observations of her character from all the videos she's posted over the years. I've noticed a lack of empathy, a self obsession, a childish attitude / emotional stunting, an inability to compromise or admit fault.

[@royaltigercaraudio9282]

@@tikusblue Because her husband was acting immature and childish.I’ve been following them for years and James sometimes would dress up as a woman jokingly,dude have some mental health issues. I haven’t seen much of anything from Lily side for the most part she’s normal.

[@hikalu75]

너무 안타깝고 슬퍼요 아빠가 아이의 꿈을 접는다니 세상에 아빠자격있나요 법으로 해결해야할듯해요

[@해피쿼카-i3d]

충격적이네요.. 이혼은 했지만 애들 아빠잖아요 ㅠㅠ 애가지고 무슨 밀고당기기 하는거도 아니고 ;; 진짜 싸다구 마렵네요 ㅠㅠ

[@Tetranodal]

Lily, I'm sorry it's been a rough time. I hope that you find your happiness. You and your girls deserve the best

[@tyshawnparries5957]

Hi Lily, sorry I was driving earlier while I was trying to reply to your video. I do hope you can find a good lawyer to help you and your situation with the ex situation because right now, he’s really making my heart boil He is just really taking things too far and now I’m very irritated with him he’s showing zero cooperation with you and the girls. It’s just unacceptable to me and now he’s trying to take them away from their culture and from doing things that they love and that’s just not right. He should not have that kind of power to do all of that. So I hope you collected most as you can of his behavior and say he’s doing like keeping the girls away from their education culture activities and just have your lawyer Take care of all of that. Because your ex is getting out of control and you need full custody so your girls can go back to doing things they want to do That way you can get all the stress out of your life because of him. Sending you lots of good night Hugs I really hope things will start to get better. I haven’t done it. Praying in a very very long time but but I want to give you my biggest prayer and I hope you get full custody of the kids Because your ex needs to get his act together and his priority straight him whatever sorry I’m really tired of him and whatever it is he’s trying to do and I really hope his nonsense does not get the best of you because I know you’re a very strong person and the ex is just another ridiculous obstacle course that you will push away to make you even stronger person than you are now

[@sanquisharawlinson]

Stay strong Lily I have been watching your videos for awhile. You’re a great mom and you will bounce back. Do not let his bad character steal y’all’s happiness . He is just bitter and upset that he has no control over you anymore and he is trying to do everything in his being to make you unhappy. If you ignore the pettiness he’s doing, then your daughters will soon ignore it too and maybe he’ll change his ways if no one is given him a reaction. You got this Lily! 💜

[@cococo_cococo]

미국은 양육권이나 그에 대한 부모의 책임도 엄격하게 하지 않나요?전남편이 지금 하는 행동들 하면 바로 양육권 뺏기는줄 알았는데 다 미국에 대한 환상이었나 싶은...ㅠ 정부 관련기관에 문의 하시고 전남편에 대한 양융권을 빼앗을수 없는거죠?소송까지 가야하는 사안인것 같아 보는 사람도 안타깝고 답답합네요ㅠ 딱봐도 릴리님 괴롭히고 싶어서 딸들을 괴롭힘의 수단으로 사용하는 게 보여서 화가나고 전남편이 딸들 양육할때 딸들에게 좋은영향이 가지 않을것 같네요 릴리님께서 증거 많이 모아 어떻게든 빨리 양육권 가지고 오시길 바랍니다 그리고 제3자가 봐도 전남편 행동들 보면 너무 위험한 느낌이 있어 항상 조심하시구요 (이사 가셨음 하지만 쉽지않겠죠 ㅠ ) 멀리서나마 응원합니다

[@RenCurrymusicalseoul]

This just makes me so sad and angry. I hate to see you all dealing with this mess, but I can understand your thought process. Even my sister had to get full custody because of the crap her kid's father pulled. He also doesn't see them much. Maybe once or twice a year. Usually around Christmas and then maybe his birthday. If there is a big event...he usually just sends a text. It is very sad, but when you don't do what you should as a parent, you don't deserve that spot. People always ask me why I don't date and the reality is, that I like the my freedom with my child. The thought of having to get permission from someone else or even go over something with someone else before I do it frustrates me. I'm just a really independent person. Anyway, I'm praying that things get better for you all. Maybe Dasomi can do some online Korean classes that allow her to go at her own pace.

[@tyshawnparries5957]

Hi Lily, I’m very sorry, but this is insane. Even I have to say enough is enough the ex who shall not be named it’s taking this way too far and I really hope you take this to court as soon as you can. Not sure what his deal is or what he’s trying to do at this point, but I you should definitely get a lawyer and have all this taken care of right away. I’m sending you and your family. Lots of hugs and I really hope things get better I’m very sorry you have to go through all this nonsense especially with the ex

[@호이얏-o6q]

애들이 다 컸고 자기 생각을 말할 수 있는데 아빠한테 내가 하고싶다 이거 할 거다 시켜달라 말해야하는거 아닌가요?? 외국은 한국보다 아동학대 이런경계가 더 높은데 저 정도면 아이들이 아빠를 아동학대로 신고할 수 있지 않나요?? 아이들은 아빠에 대해서 어떤 생각인지 궁금하네요 조종하는걸 다 알면서 왜 조종 당하세요 그리고 아이들을 위해 싸우셔야지 왜 포기하세요 아이들 안보여주는걸로 무기를 삼으셔야겠네요 양육비 안내면 당연히 면접권도 없어야죠

[@새벽-h7e]

너무 화가나네요! 전x가 아이들을 통제함으로 아이엄마를 괴롭히는 야비한행동..아이들의 아빠로서 아이들에겐 관심도 없고 오직 이기적인 전부인에 대한 자신의 분풀이를 아이들을 이용해 하는 이행동은 법정에서 이런 상황을 진술해서 애비의 권한을 박탈하게 해야할것 같은데 얘들도 그런 아빠랑 같이 격주로 봐야하는 그상황이 너무 싫을것 같은데 법적인 방법을 꼭 찾아서 아이들이 더이상 저런 스트레스를 받지않았으면 합니다!

[@rebeccayeon]

저희 어머니께서도 저희 자매가 아버지를 싫어하지 않도록 많은 이야기를 숨기셨는데, 아버지의 역할을 제대로 하지 않았다는 사실을 뒤늦게 알게 된 것이 더 큰 상처였어요. 내가 왜 자격없는 사람을 믿고 따르고 의지했을까 하는 자책과 나에게 사실을 숨긴 어머니에 대한 원망으로 괴로웠고요. 제 역할을 하지 못하는 어른에게 아이들이 불필요한 감정소모하지 않고 소중한 사람들하고 사랑하며 살아가는 방법을 배울 수 있도록 올바른 길을 만들어주는 것이 릴리님 가족에게는 더 중요하지 않을까 조심스럽게 의견 드려요.

[@lilebegum5939]

Take your kids wherever you want. Become the full time parent and allow him to do what ever he wants. He's clearly having a negative impact. Let the girls do their dance and Korean!

[@SierraRomeoh]

Seriously, she needs to stop posting these kinds of videos on here and take him to court. These videos she's posting could gain a very negative outlook from the court. It can come off spitful.

[@kumiriley5602]

​@@SierraRomeohTruth. Lily is being too nice about this. Her children are suffering from their father's behaviour. I really can't understand why she has not taken him to court. All these videos may work against her. She needs to build proof of his actions and just take him to court. America actually leans towards women in most cases involving family. She has a better chance here than most countries.

[@SierraRomeoh]

@@kumiriley5602 Agreed! Not sure if this court case she's talking about is exactly about her gaining full custody or not and she just can't talk about it right now. But whatever it is, I truly hope she considers 100% custody.

[@dorisaikamaringa1403]

Follow Just James you will know why

[@nky.z]

The fact that he’s trying to hurt you by hurting his little girls and their education is so sad and bizarre. I hope the court can help settle this ❤️

[@jessicagrover402]

I’m so sorry Lily. I’m more sorry for those sweet girls. I’ll never understand people like that. You’re doing an incredible job mom. Keep doing what you’re doing. Keep showing those sweet babies what true love is❤❤

[@jamesjohnson2737]

Hi Lily... It's your follower James Johnson from California. I'm not exactly sure in which state you reside but, in California, if you are having these kinds of issues which you're currently experiencing with your kid's father, i.e., not continuing to take them to events or activities they attended while you were together, and as a result, the kids are suffering mentally, one or the other parent can request a 730-custody evaluation. In California, this is done through your attorney filing a motion for the presiding judge to issue a ruling that forces both parties to comply with the 730. Basically, the two opposing litigates (your lawyers) and their clients will agree on a neutral third party to evaluate the children, both parents, and others who play a direct role in the children's wellbeing. The other parties that I'm referring to are the parent's boyfriend or girlfriend, grandparents, sitters, counselors, teachers, etc. The 730 evaluation is performed by a licensed psychologist or MFT, (marriage and family therapist). The evaluation is extremely comprehensive, and MOST judges will utilize the results of such evaluations as a bases for rendering their decisions. Those decision tend to determine which parent gets 51% custody and which parent gets 49%. In family law cases, that 1% makes a huge difference because it gives the 51% parent a more favorable outcome, as that parent's role often supersedes that of the other parent in most cases, so long as the decisions made are "in the best interest of the child." Talk to your lawyer to find out the equivalent of a 730-custody evaluation in your state. By the way, here's a tip... courts tend to favor the parent that resides within the school district from whence the kids attend school. Here's a link to get more details. www.utahattorneys.com/family-law/utah-child-custody-evaluation-process/ www.orangecountyfamilylaw.com/california-family-law-articles/dos-donts-preparing-for-730-evaluation-california/ Hope this helps, Best of luck, James

[@elpink5424]

They're in Utah

[@joannebaker4925]

Nice of you to offer, but they're in Utah.

[@jamesjohnson2737]

@@joannebaker4925 Yeah, I hadn't watched that far enough into the video before I commented. I did leave her a link to a Utah based attorney's website where she can find out about the equivalent process within the state of Utah. Thanks for noticing though. 🙏

[@honeybunn.03]

Hey Lily I’m so so sorry about what ur going through I know it’s not easy at all and we are all here to support you because we see that you care about your daughters and you want what’s best for them unlike James

[@esbizzze]

I don't know what kind of lawyer you have. Sounds like it's time to reopen the divorce settlement and file for full custody since circumstances have changed and the agreement is not being met.

[@valjolly7469]

I would sue the pants off that man. There is absolutely no way I would allow him to have that much power over the girl's life. I would be his worst nightmare.

[@tikusblue]

Sue him for what? Not wanting his kids to do dance and gymnastics?? There may be valid reasons for it. Both of those depending on context can actually be pretty toxic for little girls

[@userjk36egsif7sg]

사람 맞아요? 자녀들 꿈을 볼모로 전부인한테 복수하는 느낌... 뭐라 할말이 없네요. 정말 다시 한번 이혼한거 축하드려요....

[@구구콘-s5t]

정말 열받네요… 아이들 꿈까지 짓밟는 아빠라니.. ㅎ 그런 사람을 아빠라고 할 수 있나요? 남보다 못한데. 양육권 뻿어올순 없나요? 정말 유해하고 폭력적인 인간이네요…

[@Lluv-p8w]

You are such a great mom! Don’t give up because of your ex behavior. Your daughter will become a dance star and you all will be free of your ex’s behavior. Stay the course, you all deserve better.

[@donred1693]

BAD MOM. She's putting them kids through hell

[@tikusblue]

Yeah great mom exploiting her kids vulnerable moments on KZbin for fame. So amazing!! The dad seems much more mature so I trust his decision to pull back from dance & gymnastics more than anything Lily has to say tbh.

[@donred1693]

@tikusblue I agree with you. What fool would call her a great mom? More like a hot coochie hoe hoe hoe Christmas is on the way, time to jab at the ex for some funds to support my play and fun, KZbin is not kicking out them benjamins

[@Lluv-p8w]

@@tikusblue unfortunately the dad was apart of exploiting his kids while they were married. This is life and you or me don’t determine how people make their money. Apparently you like the channel or you wouldn’t be watching!

[@tikusblue]

@@Lluv-p8w I don't judge anything an adult does to make money with their own time or body. But yes I do judge when her first instinct is to grab a camera and film when her children are going through really difficult moments. It's just not right. And no I don't like her channel, I did at one point. Then I realized how she treats her kids makes me disturbed so I stopped watching. This video cam up on my homepage and I clicked it to see if she has improved. Doesn't seem like it.

[@뫄뫙-s8k]

전남편이라는 그 놈은 아이들을 이용해서 무력화 시킴으로서 승리감을 느끼고 또 그걸 통해서 쾌감을 느끼는 놈인 것 같아요 진짜 심한 말 입 밖까지 튀어나올 것 같은데 어쨋든 애들 아빠니까 또 오히려 애들이 상처받을까봐 걱정이 되네요… 아이들이 무조건 어떠한 일이 닥치더라도 행복했으면 좋겠어요 물론 릴리님과 남자친구 분도요 🥺 항상 응원합니다..!

[@SheylaGomes]

Why is James acting like such a piece of work? Thankfully the girls will grow and remember all of his useless behavior. One day he'll definitely get retribution for all of this. He's despicable.

[@summerrj1358]

하 진짜 열받아... 유리가 댄스랑 체조 하는 걸 얼마나 좋아하는지 알면서 못하게 하는 것도 너무 짜증나고 ㅋㅋㅋ 공동 양육을 빌미로 조종하고 통제하려는 것도 개빡치네요 ;; 그렇다고 제대로 돌봐주길 하나... 유리랑 다쏘미가 결국엔 해탈했다는 게 너무 마음 아파요... 그래도 잘 해쳐나갈 수 있을 거예요 항상 응원할게요 릴리패밀리 💗

[@carolyn9349]

Your Ex is a bitter man the girls will remember this when they're older. I hope you're keeping a journal when the girls visit him or don't and the times that they didn't go to their everyday make sure you have this to present to your attorney and the Judge you are a good Mother ❤

[@tikusblue]

They're more likely to prefer their father when they're older at this rate. At least he doesn't exploit them online for money on KZbin and embarrass them by posting videos of them crying. Or embarrass himself by calling children ugly.

[@xOmniCloudx]

No one is buying your false narrative on your burner account James. You're screwed in the near future and you know it!@@tikusblue

[@s.h.s.5959]

그사람은 그냥 아이들을 돌보는것이 싫은 거예요. 공동양육이라도 그런 사람한테 아이들을 꼭 보내야 하나요? 양육비만 받고 엄마가 키우면 안되나요. 아이들이 아빠 한테 가서도 시간만 축내지 정서적으로나 심리적으로나 무슨 서로 짐짝 넘기는것 처럼 왔다 갔다 하는 아이들 모습이 안타까워요.

[@silvermink6100]

오랫동안 영상 쭉 봐왔는데😢 같은 엄마로서 릴리님 마음도 알 것같고, 속상해 할 유리마음도 알것같아요,, 전남편은 도와주지는 못할망정 왜그렇게 세모녀를 힘들게하는걸까요ㅜ 진짜 너무하네요

[@노랑-j8i]

공동양육은 일단 아이들을 위한 부분이 큰거잖아요.. 엄마 아빠 둘의 소통이 되지 않는다면 공동양육은 불가능해요,, 아이들을 위해 하는걸아이들을 힘들게 하다니 ㅜㅜ 유리 다솜이는 엄마를 아빠를 이해하는게 아니에요 포기라는 단어보다 꿈이라는 단어를 더 많이 사용해야하는 아이들에게 포기라는걸 직접선택으로 인해서도 아닌 이용당해서 하게 만들고 있는거에요 아이들의 양육방식( 댄스학원이나 교육 등)에 대해 충분히 협의 후 공동양육 약속을 받아내야해요 그게 아니라면 그 과정이 험난할지라도 못만나게 해야합니다 아이들 의견도 반영해서요 꼭 유리 다솜이가 꿈을 펼쳐나갈 수 있길 도와주세요 엄마는 강하고 릴리는 더 더 강하잖아요!!

[@dwood78part23]

I have a feeling that your ex isn't doing anything with the girls when they're are with him. He's such a disappointment. & he doesn't know if he's acting this way to get at you, it's going to hurt the girls even more. It's time you go back to the courts & get fully custody & get him for child support as he's failing on his end of the divorce settlement.

[@alexa12595]

He truly is a disappointment but not super surprised. I remember when he was in videos I always felt like he was off and super irresponsible. It was mostly her doing the parenting / the responsible things.

[@ILandGyurl]

Lily just stop being pitiful and playing the victim for sympathy. You have been bashing your ex, using the kids for clicks and not thinking of how it's affecting their young lives. It has and still is all about you. Both you and James need to be better parents. Period!

[@graceandfavorempowermentch1244]

I am so saddened about this news. Just sad. You are beautiful and a powerful mother ❤

[@LilyPetals]

😞😢

[@Alteori]

This is difficult. From their father's side, maybe because of his culture, they believe in kids becoming doctors, lawyers, and engineers. They think that dancing and some artforms don't have a return financially and so kids should be kids before they study to become those high earning things. It seems like a conversation that should have been had when you guys were courting but it happens. I'm sorry but do not let Yuri give up. Just because she can't do competitions doesn't mean she still can't dance and have a community. I understand James' concerns and yours. It's hard all around.

[@tundeatunrase7400]

As hard as this may sound. I think for the children's sake and sanity, this social media experience needs to end. Both parents fighting over the kids is doing them harm. Im not surprised the girls are suffering at school. Please take a break, get back to living your lives in private and allow everyone involved to heal in their own way. The ex is clearly still processing the loss and seeing another man raise his kids is not easy despite whatever the women here say. Those girls will ALWAYS be his daughters and they will need him as they get older. Carry on like this and things will only get worse.

[@Honeyyhazellemon]

Nooooo Please keep yuri in dance Don’t give up on THAT PART .. She’s too talented .. she’ll find plenty of studios that want her But she can always continue dancing at home but TRAINING is very important Him being around is not benefiting the children . It’s hurting them it seems like, First desomi with online school Now this

[@Honeyyhazellemon]

You said it exactly .. this is a form a CONTROL unhealthy to still be in .. get this energy away from you and the girls Hopefully the court will see the kids r not happy with his behavior either

[@Chrissing69]

There are things in this world you can't control but we control how we react to it. Stay strong Lily. Fighting

[@richardgentry6996]

Absolutely.

[@atruthbetoldproduction]

A say so what dumb azz, she still will dance, send her to a studio simply such to dance, and be it bi weekly, be it bi weekly, competitions are not every thing, being a within any dance program will be suitable, as long as she dance, dats how you say bye bye to turd boy, another studio, willing to and c him sick, as he wishes a mother simply no joy, and a snagging their affairs accomplishes a begging a for her back wish, a simply wish for Lily to be his to control and stopping her dance, means he wins, maybe sum small cultural dance groups, and such simply learn different styles, any dance, and mommy wins, darkness envy wishes, and such bring light on the matter, maybe in the hood, be there is one in Utah, who will accept her bi weekly, showcase an annual dance event can still be cool, slow the competition frenzy, always a way dear chile, always a way, weirdo azz bammahs, can't show grace, saying was what it was, but no more, rather boo hoo snot face creep about, allow him no joy, such don't remove one's own joy, say stop crying over spilled milk, 1

[@patrickhayson7925]

Chris should take over, not James. The more you diminish James and show you and Chris are solid unit, over time he will comply. Avoid James from getting you emotionally upset. He wins like this.

[@Greentree805]

They are growing up. They will soon be able to choose for themselves and he will regret the way he is treating them now. In the mean time, do what you can with them. I don't see how a father knowing what his kids passions are can make them miserable about it. Just continue to pray it will work out in the end. He knows what he is doing and all he is doing is anything to punish you. I wish you could get a good lawyer that can fight for the best interest of the kids (if possible, a lawyer that would ask the judge for the kids opinions on their living situation and happiness before making a decision). Their happiness matters more than his bitterness. Stay strong for your kids.

[@몬스테라-d5n]

너무 슬프기도 하지만 이렇게 또 엄마를 강하게 강인하게 만든다고 생각합니다. 엄마가 아이가 진심으로 무엇을 원하는지 그 모든 것을 사랑하기에 댄스 학원은 그만 다니지만 유리의 의지는 꺾이지 않을 것이며 그 뒤에 무한한 사랑으로 버팀목이 되어줄 엄마가 있기에 힘내시길 바래요. 또 다른 길이 분명 열릴거에요!! 절대 포기하지 마시길 바래요~ 응원합니다❤

[@우르롹끼-w3k]

릴리님 잘하시고 계세요! 소송도 진행중이고 인스타에 보니까 크리스도 돌아와서 아이들과 행복해하는거 봤어요. 잘하시고 계세요.

[@aa-uj5ve]

릴리님 항상 영상 잘 보고 있어요 댓글은 처음 다는데.. 마음이 너무 아프네요ㅠㅠ 어차피 릴리님이 아이들 다 데리고 있는 상황이면 지금 다시 시작할 순 없는걸까요?ㅠㅠ 유리 재능이 엄청나고 유리도 너무 좋아하는 것 같은데 너무 안타까워요..

[@ursulagopie9445]

Why don’t you go back to court for that, there are many ways to deal with people like that. Don’t let there spoil the children’s future.

[@ursulagopie9445]

Stop crying and take him back to court for the children, their mental stability is important.

[@sanfran59]

재능있고 좋아하는 일을 못하게 하다니 아빠가 나중에 원망 들을껀 상관없나요. 아이의 인생이잖아요. 엄마말고 아이가 직접 아빠에게 춤추고 싶다고 심각하게 얘기해도 안들어주나요. 너무 안타깝네요.

[@Dany-ik1id]

Lily's husband hadn't been James. SNS is her husband.

[@michellewilliams8796]

That Is Crazy,Get Full Custody Of Ur Daughters,He's A Bitter Ex

[@christianbrown1873]

Never give up

[@BackyardSmokeMasterBBQ]

Consider this a temporary setback. You never know what life holds in the future. I believe that the girls will dance again when the time is right.

[@laurab6418]

This was incredibly sad. I’m sorry to you and the girls 💔

[@user-mr5zz7sv8k]

여태까지 공동양육을 성실히 임하지 않은 걸 증거로 남겨놓으셨다면 그걸로 소송을 진행하는 건 무리일까요…? 소송이란 게 지금은 아이들 생각하면 힘든 결정이겠지만 아버지라는 사람의 행동으로 원하는 꿈을 맘대로 펼쳐보지도 못한다는 게 나중에 미래에 더 큰 상처일 거 같아요.. 유리가 재능이 있는데도 체조를 그만둘 때 슬펐는데 좋아하는 댄스까지 그만두게 된다니… 너무 슬프네요..

[@elleburns2445]

You need to go back to court and modify your custody agreement. You have more than enough evidence to prove your case. Make sure that u document EVERYTHING! Get a good lawyer and get full custody of your kids! 50/50 custody is NOT working and will do more harm to your kids than good. Stay strong and take back your power!❤

[@jennyjung5548]

This is so unfair for your girls! I have seen both your girls dance and perform. They have amazing talents in dancing. More importantly, they have a passion for dancing. Just looking at the name of your ex's youtube channel, he is distracted, lazy and selfish. He is not cut out to be a father. I am so sorry for you and your girls. I hope and pray that you find a way to help them get back on dance floor. They love it. They are good at it. They have been working so hard to get to where they are. There's really no reason for them to stop dancing.

[@12J_Suk27]

자식을 둔 사람이 자식에게 이렇게 유치하고 찌질할 수도 있구나

[@뽀잉나갱]

공동양육말고 걍 양육권다가져올순없나요?..애들이 뭔잘못인지..왔다갔다하는것 자체부터가 넘혼란스럽고 힘들것같은데..애들위해서 안정적으로 데리고 걍살면안되나요😢

[@thisisheee]

마음이 너무 아프네요... 유리 재능도 있고 춤 좋아하기도 하는데... 그래도 좌절 마세요.. 홧팅! 😊

[@kingjudah1611]

Yuri don't give up ..I see that you are a great mom..nobody will ever take that from you may GOD bless you and your family 👪...❤

[@kingjudah1611]

I'm here...

[@JR-bm6of]

He's just being mean. Your life is happy and he can't take that so he's trying his best to break you down. Thank God Chris is holding you all down.

[@ineslopes3758]

I can’t imagine having my life exposed like these kids have. Family vloggers should think about what they’re doing to their kids, crazy world

[@NaNachacha84]

그냥 엑스와이프 한테 복수를 애들 괴롭히는걸로 대신 하는 걸로 보여요. 아빠로서 자격상실이네요. 진짜 아이 아빠라면 아이가 뭘 원하는지 뭘 하거싶은지 존중해줘야지 그걸 못하게 막고 컨트롤 하거 그건 진정한 사랑이 아니죠. 그저 이혼하거 잘살고 있는 엑스 와이프가 꼴보기 싫어서 애들 가지고 통제권 가지고 이리 휘둘 저리 휘둘 하는 거예요.

[@Kitcatcat]

I hope everything goes better for you🥺 you don’t deserve this!!

[@charissejohnson2068]

Yuri is so talented. ❤❤❤❤

[@djoy4ly]

Lily, stand strong and commit to the project of getting full custody or designated majority custodial parent for your daughters. James does not get to refuse to care for the girls when he has agreed to the court visitation schedule. This is emotional abuse of your young daughters. Get a good lawyer that can help you navigate and win this custodial case in the best interests of your daughters' mental health.

[@miguelkennedy9520]

Lily Petals World makes the best videos ever 😊

[@abundantlyblessed9201]

Indeed she does, an amazing woman and mother!

[@miguelkennedy9520]

@@abundantlyblessed9201 I agree 😊

[@andrecureton6862]

It sounds your ex is being spiteful towards you because you moved on in a relationship. Now he's being spiteful towards his daughter to show power over you and his daughter's lives smh ! He knows how important dance is to his daughter! He needs to learn it's not about you and him, it's about your daughters

[@heeyeonchang800]

I wish Yuri keeps on dancing. Her talent is too precious to throw them out like that… 너무나 큰 재능인데.. 날개를 못펴본다니 제마음이 너무 아프네요. Could you consider taking full custody instead of 50/50? Maybe Ex can just support them financially 50/50. Is that not a thing..? 그냥 평생 보석처럼 빛날수 있었던 원석을 버리는거 같아 마음이 아픕니다ㅠㅠ

[@dpayne6516]

You guys shouldn't be making your own adjustments to the scheduled time with the kids outside of the court order. Meaning, if it's 1 week on, 1 week off, one person cannot just unilaterally take more time, regardless of the reason. If ever that happens that should be an immediate emergency ex-parte to address with the judge. Maybe because I'm on a 50/50 with my child, and have an ex who I feel does not look out for the child's best interest, including school. You have the option to have the kids do things on your time and that's it, again unless you get it court ordered. I'm not sure why it's hard for you and James to put your issues each other aside and realize this. If the dance studio said they were ok with 50/50 schedule, but then took it back and kicked her out, shame on them. Find a dance studio that is truly accepting of this, and then talk to the kids and let them know they are only doing it half the time. Don't try to make trouble and play with the kids' emotions blaming the dad, when you already know he doesn't agree to it. Just focus on what you can do and your family life with them on your time. That's all you can do.

[@chilledkat]

I’m so sorry girl. Things will get better I promise. Just give it some time ❤

[@paularyan35]

Omg this video broke my heart, I'm crying & so speechless 😢Stay strong Lily, love you guys❤

[@maolor1603]

Please don’t give up! He sees your video and you’re letting him win. Have proof that yes no spending time with the girl such as picking them up! Use it against him in court. If the judge sees that he’s not spending time with the kids it’s possible that the judge will give u more time. My kids dad use to not pick them up and it would make them so sad. I went to court and won more time with them. The kids see and knows when they are being neglected and it’s sad but it’s more important that they’re at least with someone who cares and love them truly ❤

[@breeze3596]

엑스 왜 그러는지 진짜 이해가 안되네여. 미국에서 대학갈 때 extracurricular activities도 중요한데... 아이들 자존감에도 그렇고.. 재능이 없는 것도 아니고 아이들이 이렇게 재능이 뛰어난데 협조하지 않는 엑스는 왜그러는건지 -

[@sancraft1]

You need to take his trifling back side back to court! Stop letting him hurt his children becasue he wants to punish you! James is a narcissist and a bully. He only cares about himself. His goal was to have you all miserable. There is no working with him, but the court can make him.

[@saleemahfareed4495]

It’s so sad when you have a parent doesn’t want to cooperate with you and brings more drama into y’all life and I hope his wife is watching what James is doing before they a family on his own and James doesn’t believe in karma and lily I am praying that you get everything straightened out for you and girls, thanks for sharing, James need to know there are children wants to a father in lives 💜💜💜😊🙏🏾 7:33

[@samueloparah1692]

I hope this issue is resolved amicably by an arbitration court. Goodluck to you all!!

[@Everyoneknowsuniverse]

I hope you feel better I hope it gets better by time

[@whatfayesay6607]

You have to go back to court and fight for full custody; you have receipts/proof, and witnesses. This cannot go on, until the girls are 18, this will drag you down into despair and ruin everything good you have going in your life.

[@arianakim5699]

Lily I know you're such a sweet person and I love you for that but you really need to get full custody of your daughters I know in your heart that they need their father in their life(they do need their dad in their life but since he don't care screw him) I love that you really want him in his life this just really shows that he doesn't give a F about his kids yes other videos clearly shows it but you saying he doesn't even answer the door when he's clearly home and just drives away he clearly don't gaf so please just get full custody he might think he's hurting you just because you moved on(Even though he did too literally 3 times)but he's hurting your girls it's sad to see and hear you say you all cry all the time but hopefully this is a wake up call to get full custody it's so disgusting going on his KZbin channel now to see that he's going all over America and dating all these girls yet you can't even go to South Korea to visit your family and it's also nasty to see all the big fat egotistical men in his comments siding with him like those men have or will do the same things with their kids and I won't be surprised this man is sick in the head especially since he doesn't want his daughters to have a education I was scared for Dasomi because I thought she was going to get left back because she hasn't showed up a lot of times for class and now that she's in public school just like her sister and now he brings them 1 hour late to school it's disgusting even when I watched one of your old videos when you guys lived in SK at the time when Dasomi needed glasses and he was getting upset just because the comments said she might be crossed eyed like ya I agree you shouldn't always listen to the comments but 'm glad you did because her eye site would be way worse if she didn't get it checked especially at that age but anyways I rambled on to much about nothing but anyways I hope this is a wake up call to get full custody of Yuri and Dasomi before you hurt yourself and those girls more they are old enough to understand what their horrible father is doing so sense he doesn't care you should get full custody let him live in his horrible lifestyle by being a man in his 40's acting like a man child because if you do get full custody then it would be a wake up call for him in a few years(hopefully) I hope your family has a good day

[@colorfulsin]

Narcissist want to destroy you (every time you show suffering it turns them on. I know sick! 🤢) They will try to punish you through the kids. Best advice stay emotionless. Accept you might not get your perfect life. As long as your kids are healthy and happy with you that’s all you can control when co-parenting with a narcissist. I speak from experience. You are co-parenting with a sick individual that wants you to equally be sick. When the kids turn 18 you will be celebrating 🎉

[@tikusblue]

Feel so bad for the kids being stuck with two self absorbed childish parents like this who care more about their egos and about "winning" than they care about their children. This video is lame. Pretending to cry on camera over forcing your children to drop all their classes? The teachers were all fine with them going every other week. Lily needs to suck it up and realize that she's not the only parent with input now. Maybe their dad doesn't want them in dance. Whatever. She still could have continued to bring Yuri every other week, instead of making her quit then playing victim. Why did she even make Dasomi quit Korean for no reason at all. Punishing her children. "Giving up". She views it all as a competition with her ex

[@tikusblue]

I'm sorry you dealt with that btw you sound like a strong loving parent. I just don't necessarily believe that Lily is like you. I've seen a lot of indicators that she's super childish and self absorbed and manipulative after following her channel for years. To be honest, she comes off as a narcissist to me...

[@yujeonglee9772]

이것도 일종의 아동학대 아닌가요? ㅜㅜ 정서적 아동학대 같은데 이런건 미국이 더 강력하지 않나요? (정말 잘 몰라서요) 그런 대화들, 영상들을 수집에서 양육권을 뺏는게 좋을 것 같아요

[@maxamillionfrontiers9768]

First here.Lilly, you are a real champion.You have a besutiful family.We stand with you always..NEVER forget that.