My Advice to Young Muslims Wanting Marriage (I’m 1 year in)

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Yusuf Truth

Yusuf Truth

Күн бұрын

Thinking about marriage from an Islamic perspective? Let’s talk about how to approach it with the right intentions. In this video, I share advice for young Muslims, focusing on preparing yourself with strong Iman, patience, and sincerity. It’s not just about finding the right person-it’s about aligning your marriage with your faith and what truly matters for a lasting relationship. Join me for a heartfelt discussion on how to navigate this beautiful journey the right way.
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@rue_2pm75
@rue_2pm75 2 күн бұрын
It was kind of a dream for me to get married young and grow together with my spouse but I’m now 27 and not at all close to being married, I want to get married at least before I’m 30 but I don’t see that happening but Allah knows best
@Ayla40902
@Ayla40902 2 күн бұрын
Pray tahajud then? Ik a person with same story like you and years of waiting and tahajud and then one day it took him one day to find a girl and get engaged happened overnight this is how Allah favours
@DandelionSpring96
@DandelionSpring96 2 күн бұрын
@@Ayla40902 tahajjud, lol. i did that before. engaged abt to marry now im single again. tahajjud all you want but if the riq is not meant for you, you wont get it. especially overnight. yes do tahajjud but dont be like this guy who sounds so condencensing and thinks that ppl have no idea abt tahajjud in the first place chill bruh
@Sapere_aude_Trottel
@Sapere_aude_Trottel 2 күн бұрын
@@DandelionSpring96 Thats dumm advise, since no one here knows your personally. Maybe you just weren’t that smart still. Allah doesn’t tell you to pray Tahajjud and be dumb. No offense, but every case is different.
@Sapere_aude_Trottel
@Sapere_aude_Trottel 2 күн бұрын
@@DandelionSpring96you’re prolly just a lil salty/sad.
@HamsaAbdi111
@HamsaAbdi111 2 күн бұрын
@@DandelionSpring96 you don’t know if the rizq is there that’s why you put your trust in Allah and know that he is guiding you..think about like this ur single again now, but it might be because the person wasn’t good for you so Allah may bring someone BETTER to you tomorrow…Allah knows best
@Kingwawa-uv4ud
@Kingwawa-uv4ud 2 күн бұрын
For those who fear marriage or are hesitant due to finance, remember that allah, the most compassionate mentions himself that rizq will come to those who choose to get married. (Surah Nur, verse: 32)
@bachemboop6328
@bachemboop6328 2 күн бұрын
May Allah put Barakaah in your marriage ameen
@sanji546
@sanji546 Күн бұрын
Ameen
@GHURABA_DUNYA
@GHURABA_DUNYA 2 күн бұрын
Yusuf is exactly like a big brother بارك الله فيك
@fathimaheenahasmi6706
@fathimaheenahasmi6706 2 күн бұрын
Unmarried folks out here, here's a bit of hope for y'all. Recite this dua to get a pious spouse in which we all could find peace in. I pray we all find the missing part of ours soon, In Shaa Allah.. رَبَّنَا هَبْ لَنَا مِنْ أَزْوَاجِنَا وَذُرِّيَّاتِنَا قُرَّةَ أَعْيُنٍ " " وَاجْعَلْنَا لِلْمُتَّقِينَ إِمَامًا (“rabbana hablana min azwajina wa dhuriyyatina qurrata A’yunin waj’alna lil- muttaqina imama”) “Our Lord, grant us from among our pious spouse and offsprings comfort to our eyes and make us an example for the righteous.” (Surah Furqan:74)
@GHURABA_DUNYA
@GHURABA_DUNYA 2 күн бұрын
آمين
@Jaabir-h3e
@Jaabir-h3e 2 күн бұрын
I am 17 years old . Does this apply for me 😂
@yamiali1783
@yamiali1783 6 сағат бұрын
​@@Jaabir-h3e if you want to get married some day, then yes
@leenaahmad7860
@leenaahmad7860 Күн бұрын
i heard some violin sounds in the background, please try to avoid that if you can, jazakAllahu khayr, amazing video btw!
@Jusliv1n
@Jusliv1n 2 күн бұрын
I'm 15 years old, punctual with the deen and upholding my value as a growing and learning man, I know that my main priority now is too finish school but I'm socially awkward around women even though I've been raised with ladies without a father figure for my whole life 😂. (Not gay!)
@yamiali1783
@yamiali1783 6 сағат бұрын
I was also socially awkward at that age. I'm also not married so my opinion might not mean much, but life experiences will help you with being able to speak to people
@user2-n6p
@user2-n6p 14 сағат бұрын
Your thoughts on a persons past and what they are now & the time that has passed is so valid. It’s what I think too
@kv-4725
@kv-4725 2 күн бұрын
I love your takes on marriage and what you talk about and I can attest this trying to convince a girl to change her ways is not working, I have been in a few relationships and trying to keep it halal and try to tell them or help them understand what they do is wrong ( No matter my approach is kind or strict) it just ends up with heated arguments or breakups. Today many of us give up and personally finding a girl who is willing to go through the hardships and build something together in a halal way seem to be a hard mission for me. May Allah ease up these situations for us and everyone who have been through similar things or worse❤
@Manciteh999-n6i
@Manciteh999-n6i 4 сағат бұрын
Ameen Sadly marriage is dead in the 21st century Semen retention and celibacy is the way
@Mxstxfaa
@Mxstxfaa 3 күн бұрын
The consistency right now, back to back bangers.
@rizwankhalids
@rizwankhalids 3 күн бұрын
Needed this for a long time. JazakAllah Akhi♥️
@AsmaMirzaRafiUllahBaig
@AsmaMirzaRafiUllahBaig 3 күн бұрын
Was waiting to watch this after seeing your story❤
@aysesaltik5265
@aysesaltik5265 2 күн бұрын
Thank you Yusuf ❤
@moebro101
@moebro101 2 күн бұрын
I can’t lie, this video was necessary but hard to hear. I used to think I knew what I wanted and that I’d be a great spouse. Now I’m going through some hard times and realize that although I’m caring and tender, maybe I don’t yet have all the leadership qualities or even have a general outline of my future figured out anymore. I’m nearly 25, haven’t really been in a relationship, and currently feel this way. I’m sure Allah SWT is saving me from something harmful right now and will give me something better. Any advice brother?
@moebro101
@moebro101 2 күн бұрын
@@fardeenmahmud8866 that’s kind of a harsh approach don’t you think? You don’t know my circumstances but I’ll have you know I’m an engineer with a degree. Please learn to not talk down on others because a time will come where each of us has to question where we are going in life, whether it’s self-reflective or forced upon us. Hence the “anymore” part.
@fardeenmahmud8866
@fardeenmahmud8866 2 күн бұрын
@@moebro101Brother, you know what, I apologize. You’re right, I don’t know your circumstances at all, nor do you know mine. Actually, I’m just as frustrated as you are. And I’m only 22.
@moebro101
@moebro101 2 күн бұрын
@@fardeenmahmud8866 It’s alright. May Allah make it easy for us both brother. May He guide us to what is best for us and replace any sadness that is in our hearts with happiness and true success with Him.
@moebro101
@moebro101 2 күн бұрын
@@fardeenmahmud8866 it’s alright brother. May Allah make it easy for us both. May He guide us to what is best for us and replace any sadness with happiness and true success with Him.
@moebro101
@moebro101 2 күн бұрын
@@fardeenmahmud8866 it’s alright. May Allah SWT guide us to what’s best and make things easy for us both brother.
@ManarBouazza
@ManarBouazza Күн бұрын
one thousanth like. Alhamdulilah blessed to be here.
@ItwasCrimson
@ItwasCrimson Күн бұрын
Assalamu Alaikum Yusuf. Could you make a video on how to journal and plan your days/week in a flexible way. JazakAllah.
@twashington3
@twashington3 3 күн бұрын
Fire Vid bro, appreciate all of this advice!!
@tahreothmane8342
@tahreothmane8342 2 күн бұрын
Kepp going, from 🇲🇦
@KaruiKagetsu
@KaruiKagetsu Күн бұрын
Please enlighten me, Muslims of the internet. I’m 19 y/o and I have been friends with a girl the same age as me for a few months. I have feelings for her. After a week when I realised my feelings for her, my best friend told me that she has had feelings for me ever since we met. Then, literally last week, I confessed to her and I told her that I want to marry her. She’s 100% okay with it. The thing is, we have never seen each other’s faces because we met online. BUT what am I worried about is am I going with the right approach considering we have never met in real life and my age? I really want us to be in a halal relationship soon, but at the same time, am I going too fast with all of this? Tell me if anyone who’s reading doesn’t understand something because I just wrote all of this because of my worries
@alilichesoumia2821
@alilichesoumia2821 17 сағат бұрын
Make istikhara .And the right way to do it is to call her father and talk to him ,then you guys can see each other Nd see if there is mutual acceptance.Keep making duaa Nd ask Allah to make it easy for you
@KaruiKagetsu
@KaruiKagetsu 16 сағат бұрын
@@alilichesoumia2821 The thing is, our place is really far away, so I can’t really reach her Father. She also mentioned that she doesn’t want to tell her family just yet because she’s currently studying at university. She planned to share everything when she’s on her semester break, which is in December. I’ve already told my parents about her, and they’re pretty supportive and gave me some advice. I’m curious to hear your thoughts on this. Insha Allah, I’ll do my best to make duas and do Istikhara. Edit: sorry if i spammed your notifications because i sent this a couple of times but for some reason youtube deleted it
@KaruiKagetsu
@KaruiKagetsu 16 сағат бұрын
⁠ The thing is, our place is really far away, so I can’t really reach her Father. She also mentioned that she doesn’t want to tell her family just yet because she’s currently studying at university. She planned to share everything when she’s on her semester break, which is in December. I’ve already told my parents about her, and they’re pretty supportive and gave me some advice. I’m curious to hear your thoughts on this. Insha Allah, I’ll do my best to make duas and do Istikhara.
@pearleunjoo5439
@pearleunjoo5439 6 сағат бұрын
​@@KaruiKagetsu Tell her to focus on her studies & don't talk to her all these times. Trust me, it can be the trap of saytan leading to zeenah (YES! Normal chitchatting with opposite gender can ruin your life like it ruined mine!!!). Tell her you won't talk to her until she lets her dad speak to you (If she says after her exam, she'll let her dad talk then good but you two cannot chitchat during this period). If she refuses & wants to continue to chitchat then BLOCK her & RUN! She just wants to play around, bro. Don't trust me? Just simply tell her you won't be talking to her till she brings her dad. See what see says.
@omar_vlogs1
@omar_vlogs1 3 күн бұрын
luv ur vids bro
@tawsifkamal88
@tawsifkamal88 21 сағат бұрын
brother please put time stamps. nice video
@IsaacKuchkarov
@IsaacKuchkarov 2 күн бұрын
7:21 assalamu aleyküm Akhi Yusuf just quick question when was your first day ? I mean how old were you?
@khadijaabdulmujeeb8759
@khadijaabdulmujeeb8759 2 күн бұрын
He was 22 when he got married he got married in 7th October 2023
@D1234hacker
@D1234hacker 3 күн бұрын
Bro luv u I am a huge fan of ur
@alexanderwilson3096
@alexanderwilson3096 2 күн бұрын
If i wasnt a male with same sex attraction, getting married would actually be an option. But its a test from Allah just gotta pwoer through it everyone has ups and downs in life, i get ups and downs particularly with this struggle. If people could stop talking about marriage and homophobic jokes it would be a lot easier to fit in with guys and make life a whole lot easier
@kpopersalike4790
@kpopersalike4790 2 күн бұрын
It is a test from Allah , remember the more you stay away from it the more you are getting rewarded. May Allah make it easy for you and give you strength to overcome your struggles.
@alexanderwilson3096
@alexanderwilson3096 Күн бұрын
@@kpopersalike4790 Ameen JazakAllah Khair for the duas. May Allah bless you immensely
@Manciteh999-n6i
@Manciteh999-n6i 4 сағат бұрын
U do realise being gay is forbidden
@naffal7688
@naffal7688 3 күн бұрын
droped in the right time
@ayman___aziz
@ayman___aziz 2 күн бұрын
Very informative video, jazakallah khair. But I have a concern to raise not regarding the marriage btw, but brother yusuf your hands have reddish spots 21:10 , is it fine? if there is some kind of skin problem (I might be very wrong) then may Allah cure you, ameen.
@GHURABA_DUNYA
@GHURABA_DUNYA 2 күн бұрын
آمين
@urwachoudry
@urwachoudry 2 күн бұрын
he has eczema and ameen
@72-bit
@72-bit 2 күн бұрын
someone marry me
@72-bit
@72-bit 2 күн бұрын
im a guy
@warr1or227
@warr1or227 2 күн бұрын
@@72-bit Let's do it vro 🫡
@ahmedm6302
@ahmedm6302 2 күн бұрын
I don’t think KZbin comments is a place to look 😅
@floralfantaisie
@floralfantaisie 2 күн бұрын
Sure (I’m a girl) 😊
@warr1or227
@warr1or227 2 күн бұрын
thanks for letting me borrow that Porsche that was in front of your mansion bro 🗿
@basraabdisalam-p3d
@basraabdisalam-p3d 2 күн бұрын
guys is it only me that first noticed the scars on his arms? lol
@thepowerofnature95
@thepowerofnature95 2 күн бұрын
I think its his eczema
@yacinegannouni860
@yacinegannouni860 Күн бұрын
🔴 Bro never talked about Gaza This is strange!
@pearleunjoo5439
@pearleunjoo5439 6 сағат бұрын
He even got married on Oct 7th 😑
@oriantogaming9654
@oriantogaming9654 3 күн бұрын
Wallahi❤
@bushramalik9062
@bushramalik9062 Күн бұрын
👍
@Manciteh999-n6i
@Manciteh999-n6i 3 сағат бұрын
U say Islam says to get married young The greatest of all time Muhammad got married at 25 The son of Mary stayed celibate until Allah took him to the heavens at 33 years old The great Virgin Mary stayed celibate for life
@hafsamahboobansari3394
@hafsamahboobansari3394 2 күн бұрын
kinda funny but I used to pray to get married to either you or a guy like you😭
@nunyabussiness1055
@nunyabussiness1055 Күн бұрын
This is such a weird comment to make.
@hafsamahboobansari3394
@hafsamahboobansari3394 Күн бұрын
@@nunyabussiness1055 I don’t see that, I didn’t say I’ve had weird fantasies about him, I said I ‘Prayed’ to get married to someone like him which means someone who’s on deen has his priorities set right. Pls elaborate what do you exactly find weird about it weirdo
@Irisesess
@Irisesess Күн бұрын
@@hafsamahboobansari3394let’s be clear, you said to get married to someone like him OR HIM. But I hope this example clears it up: if you were outside with your husband, and a random girl comes up and says she used to pray to marry him, would that be a conversation you’d like to have? 🙃
@nunyabussiness1055
@nunyabussiness1055 4 сағат бұрын
@@hafsamahboobansari3394 Btw that's my other account I accidentally responded with, point still stands.
@Manciteh999-n6i
@Manciteh999-n6i 4 сағат бұрын
Is this the way Virgin Mary used to behave?
@amin-kb6je
@amin-kb6je 3 күн бұрын
hey man whats up w ur arms
@YusufTruth
@YusufTruth 2 күн бұрын
Thank you for asking ❤ i had an eczema flare up the night before filming this. Hence my low tone and mood
@semih6795
@semih6795 3 күн бұрын
4:39 Bro tf is that sound 🤣🤣🤣🤣❤️
@YusufTruth
@YusufTruth 2 күн бұрын
There was a cleaning lady in the lobby, didn’t catch the that haha!
@ayub9009
@ayub9009 2 күн бұрын
😂😂
@halimaomer4121
@halimaomer4121 3 күн бұрын
So sad that the video ended 🤌🔥
@Manciteh999-n6i
@Manciteh999-n6i 4 сағат бұрын
Virgin Mary my god be pleased with her stayed celibate for life Shouldn’t both men and women follow the greatest woman of all time???
@hyhda
@hyhda 2 күн бұрын
Don't recommend for someone who just got married a few years ago to give advice hahahahaha lol
@gganderson7275
@gganderson7275 3 күн бұрын
Bro i really needed this, thanks Bhai. Love from Germany❤🙏🫶
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