Zai Chandler: Facing Heartbreak and Disappointment | Better Together on TBN

[@DreimLove]

Vengeance is a strong word. But do we use this when heartbroken by someone you love , they aren’t a bad person. They just broke my heart

[@only_nene1]

Heart break from a spouse is unbearable. You can be tempted to want vengeance, but time with the holy spirit gives a change of heart, love for the unlovable. The holy spirit gave me this scripture - Never pay back evil with more evil. Do things in such a way that everyone can see you are honorable. Dear friends, never take revenge. Leave that to the righteous anger of God. For the Scriptures say, “I will take revenge; I will pay them back,” says the Lord. Romans 12:17‭, ‬19 NLT It's hard to do, the Flesh wants vengeance but the Spirit wants God's way.

[@suzie-5555]

12:58 “Guard your heart” Zai Wow you really explained this well 💯🙏🏼🙌🏼 Love ALL of you God fearing woman 🔥❤️‍🔥 Thank You Jesus 🙏🏼

[@hkinley55]

Wish I heard this 4 years ago the PAIN STILL HURTS. Praying

[@motheowalerato701]

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[@ArleneDavid_]

5:01 "are we regularly going before God and licking our wounds"🙏❤. Thank you God for this word, having my quiet time with Jesus and wow the wisdom and depth, I didn't know I had wounds until someone pulled the bandaid without giving me a warning and it hurt. Lord, come have your way and heal the parts of me that I cannot see, in Jesus name. Amen ❤

[@BlessedBaeLLC]

This came right on time during my healing of a 7 year relationship to be break up I recently JUST did

[@Rogue0188]

I pray that God reveals your wounds gently and redeems them quickly. I'm 4 years out of it 6 year toxic relationship and i'm still finding out how damaging it was to my confidence.

[@motheowalerato701]

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[@kabaleGift]

I really needed this video 😂😂...I'm ever making mountains and getting upset and I'm learning to forgive people and myself and I know God will help me

[@cr625]

First, we must surrender to God. Truly surrender our will to God. Stop trying to do things without God. Once that genuinely occurs, God will speak in guidance. Second, stop & listen. Slow it done and silence the mind jabber- really listen.🙏✝️❤️God waits patiently on each of us. God loves us more than we love ourselves❤️🤗

[@jeannettegilson3101]

It's all rooted in pride., weather it's vindication or self pity. Just because someone gives an offense- we have the choice not to take it and just leave it in the Father's hands.

[@Listentomusicist]

Justice vs vengeance is so important to learn, amen!

[@lyricsallday23]

I’ve tried to go to my loved ones, express how they’ve hurt me, and communicate about the issue. The only thing I’ve always received is being talked over, spoken more hurtful words towards me, and ghosted (walked away while I tried to talk while crying, hung up in my face, blocked me, etc…). When I’ve done something to hurt my loved ones, I always listen and ask for forgiveness after gaining understanding of what I’ve done. If only it was that easy to receive the same Love (Agape or Godly) and Respect in return… All of this has made it very hard for me to trust others (the words they speak to me). I don’t like that at all, and that’s the area I’m working on healing within myself. It’s hard when you’re still surrounded around those people who say “I love you” but actions show they simply don’t care about me… only what I can do for them as they all use me.

[@brittneyharris-holloway5792]

This happened to me so I merely just stopped opening up to the people that create that unsettling atmosphere, and just start telling God what I was trying to tell them and also tell him how his response hurt me

[@brittneyharris-holloway5792]

tell him how their response hurt me

[@charleneedwards6861]

Amen, I can relate. May God help us all who feel this way. Thank God for this word of encouragement and help us Holy Spirit on how to apply these practices to our individual lives. Thank you Lord for the peace that will come within and the growth we will see. We will give you all the glory! Amen!

[@CherryJ2911]

I’m Sorry to hear you’re going through this because I use to be in a similar situation- I cut those ppl off and allowed God in to heal and make me whole and I’ve been the best ever since. Ask God to lead you as to what you need to do. You DESERVE BETTER

[@teresa28ist]

I understand how you feel. I been there. When people don't want to listen I keep them at a distance. I love them but I won't be around them much . There are people out there who will listen to you. If you think about it people like that cause so much mess, why would you want to be around them? My life is so much better keeping those people at a distance.

[@user-bluetopaz777]

Today is June 2, 2023. Loved today's TBN broadcast singing! I sang along to the Lord too. Please more singing praise in broadcasts! Thanks.

[@tiarahnicole21]

I’ve definitely learned that I need to communicate my feelings more. If someone hurt me, I need to let them know. I used to just shut down and assume this it that, and obviously that makes a lot of room for the enemy to fill your mind with negative thoughts, and even lead you to Un forgiveness. You have no idea how much a conversation can change or fix a situation. ❤

[@hakayi9130]

Off topic, Zai is so beautiful ☺️

[@indira2484]

This was POWERFUL, esp. the focus on confronting the person that has committed a grievance against you, head on, instead of seeking validation & encouragement from the public square.

[@snirks8635]

Lord Jesus... I walked around work today in tears because of past hurts... sometimes it's too much. Just needed to let it out 😢 Wheww, unfair treatment.

[@yourfavoritetiktokers4112]

I am sorry about it dear. Pray about it

[@mhba4866]

😢. 🙏 🙏 🙏 🙏 🙏 🙏

[@motheowalerato701]

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[@belindgo]

Going through a divorce, the heart break is so enduring. It’s hard there were many things. I couldn’t cry for the last 3 years and the the tears are flowing and don’t stop. I’m praying every minute.

[@motheowalerato701]

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[@dhannamangroo3865]

Truth we are to always first check ourselves before jumping in to conclusions 👍

[@discipleofchristjesus]

This was a great video to watch with great insight! We can't guard our hearts from being hurt but we should always guard our hearts from being evil (wrongdoing by definition). I think that's what Proverbs 4:23 means when it is talking about guarding our hearts. Meaning that we should guard our hearts from unforgiveness, bitterness, jealousy, wrath, ungodly anger, racism, pettiness, double-mindedness, revenge, lust, greed, etc. This was a beautiful video to watch. Love you ladies so much with the love of Christ.😊Excited to hear more from you beautiful ladies. Thank you for doing what Abba has called you to do. You guys are impacting many and your labor for the Kingdom of God is not in vain. Keep it up. ☺

[@buyisilemohale2881]

This was so awesome! And very insightful! May God immensely bless you women of God! Thank you for unpacking this verse!

[@lynnheard722]

Pray for BJ he had back surgery asking for prayer thank you 🙏

[@BetterTogetherTV]

Lynn, we are standing with you and praying for a successful surgery and complete healing in Jesus' Name. 💜

[@TolbieTV]

Thank you for this conversation.

[@solecarr9654]

I appreciate how honest you guys are with us. It’s very comforting.

[@Jadegreeneyes17]

Exactly where I am today and I thank you for this message.

[@tenacious1]

Loving the diversity

[@Godisgood507]

Taking Back The Rainbow

[@tarynadams8102]

This is exactly me, all of it and all of what God is trying to do/will do for me!! Thank you for honesty ~ amen 🙏🏼

[@suzie-5555]

This truely blessed me. I thank God for you beautiful woman. Speaking “real truth” 🙌🏼🔥❤️‍🔥

[@brittanyb9292]

I going through exactly what they are talking about in this video this powerful

[@motheowalerato701]

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[@tabreasledge9141]

Lord!! Vengeance is God's.. When we step into Vengeance, we step into God's territory! I needed that... Dealing with being a single mother I struggle with questioning who is going to hold my daughter's dad accountable. I know now, it's not my job. God will take care of it.

[@donnicaduncan1379]

Amen im so glad to listen to this message .

[@tamaria5846]

This was amazing, I was so blessed by this! Thank you, thank you!

[@sophia4christ]

I needed this. Thanks ladies. God bless. 🙏🏽

[@GodsGirl85]

So good ladies. This blessed my heart.

[@natashamwewa9538]

Show me grace Lord 😭🙏

[@finnianfinnian8359]

Such a blessing

[@treasure2behold282]

I think amongst women, we tend to create drama when it's not necessary. I rather live in peace that being in a constant cycle of drama.

[@faithmcherebanda]

Love this! ❤

[@hannahkayira3947]

Amen❤❤❤

[@arlenecharles8762]

Amen

[@QBJournals]

This was great!

[@matimungobeni8197]

Amen

[@dhannamangroo3865]

Hello Hi Ladies good Evening watching from T&T🇹🇹

[@PleaseViewMyChannel]

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[@permijitdunkley1697]

"Think the year 2023"

[@melissagoodwin2602]

Hmm, does the same rule applied to your bishop?

[@prophetesskrishacheatem-cl8666]

Three days ago ..

[@jessicamarsh400]

How does one cope with the bashing of one’s spirit by their spouse who gaslights and puts down his wife continuously. Bashing her for working a pt job. When she has health issues and he has absolutely no compassion to her what so ever.

[@gracemukemba6330]

That why you need to ask the Holly Spirt For help cose Only Are Father JESUS CHRIST can show you and tell you who you can trust you shold trust only the Holly Spirt cose the Holly Spirt is treuly your only Best Friend.

[@uplift56]

Now, these women want to look so modern that they actually has what pass the word modesty. If you look up the word modesty, it has nothing to do with extreme fashion, extreme attention getting extreme accelerating your beauty these women want to be a idol to somebody else. Christ must be lifted up in his nature, and he will draw all men unto the salvation of the cross., not us lifting ourselves, so people can be drawn to us, and continue in the world of their flesh 😢. Now, they speaking on some good strategies of when we are hurt and offended, we must learn how to win when the storm is in our soul.