ज़िन्दगी बच्चो के बिना । Life Without Kids

[@ShashiBala-wh9gi]

I m 56,but i inspired by you. Mere 3 bachche marriage k baad chale gye. Same feeling se m bhi gujri hu. Dheere dheere mind spirituality ki or ja rha h. Kabhi bhut loneliness feel hoti h but unki bhi apni life h. Aaj ye video dekhkar kaafi emotional ho gai. Mere koi friend nhi h but m aapko hi friend maanti hu. Love you Vini.

[@archanajadhav3789]

Exactly bacche studies ke liye bahar jate hai ya marriage ke baad us period me menopause period chalta hai. So tension or cate bhi hoti hai. So aapne liye jina sikhe dhire dhire meditation or kisi hobby ya bhajan grup join karati hu me. It really works

[@vandanajain8731]

Bhahut heart touching video hai...aapne bdhi khubsurti se apni aankho ko jhlalkne se roka . Unki nami as a mother ham feel ker pa rahe...I m also a teenage girl ,and 9 year old son mother. Jo job ke keren bachho se dur rahti hai...felling same pain ..

[@neerumalik8816]

Mein ittni jayada hyper sensitive hu isski wajah se meri family bhi pareshan rahti hai aapki video se bahut help milegi dear Vini ❤

[@rountaarts528]

M bhi😢

[@Budh...]

Me too

[@dadipotechannel8666]

बहोत बढ़िया बात की है आपने इस बातों के बारे मे तो कभी सोचा भी नही था मेरे दो बेटे है अभी दो बहु के साथ जोइट फेमली मे है पर आप जो कहे रही है वो वक्त भी आ रहा है अब वो धिरे धिरे अपना घर बसायेंगे तो आपने वो वक्त के लिए जो बाते बताई वो दिल को छु गई धन्यवाद🙏💕🙏💕

[@mamtapaithankar5876]

Vini ji nice topic.Aap baat karte huai bhi kitni emotional ho rahi thi.meri beti bhi 25 saal ki hai uski studies puri ho gayi hain aur next 1 ya 2 saal main uski shadi ho jayegi though I am working as a primary teacher in private school par aapne sahi kaha ki ek khali pan aajata hain.nice video vini ji.👌👌👌👌👌👏👏

[@swatiswati4598]

❤ se banaya to ❤ tak pahuch b gaya di,same struggle mera start hua abhi 1 month pahle hi,working on my self now😊,love u

[@sumansingh-ku2pu]

Wonderful video straight from your heart unfiltered...thanks I would be facing the same in future

[@sunitagusain4334]

Last one year se I'm following you, n I found you as a confident n strong woman but today I saw your another face, your expressions were enough to describe you❤I loved the poetry in your shorts but today I got to know that all these are written by you, amazing🤗one line you said that a few people in our surrounding suggest us about how to live😅very true n these people ruined our lives. Anyways I love today's video n appreciate you for sharing also u r a good poet too, keep growing 🙌🙌🥰

[@shhonavinocha8555]

Same thing I felt abt Vini ji today..

[@shobhaiyer1853]

Very nice Vedio mam...All the 5 points makes sense...Acceptance,Hobby,Music,Friends,Breathe....I am 53 now & have a grownup son who is doing his master's in Biotech...shortly he will also be leaving me😢and the passion I had for music & singing was suppressed in my life...couldn't share it with anyone..so I just used to listen some gr8 film songs...then luckily we got in touch with all our school friends & started Whatsapp group and it's here I started singing now...already 200 songs I have recorded...that too multi language & my friends are enjoying & supporting me...am also gifted with a good voice...finally I became vry.calm now....that's only music which made me busy & calm.❤❤thank u for sharing your story....it made me emotional and to share mine too🙏🙏

[@sarojmevada8488]

Very nice video.. very inspiring..me bhi isi situation me hu.. himmat mili.thank you

[@charupahwa3225]

Deeply Deeply touched🎉

[@seemaarora5943]

Lonley rehna achha h bcho ke sath rehne se behter h...kyonki ek age me dil bhut heart hota h..look up to bhut achha h❤❤.hmare bche to hamari jaan hote h hamesha 🎉

[@Shilpakarmakar4250]

Where is your husband ma'am?? After kids became big and saperated , at that time husbands are our soul mate and best friend.

[@reemaarora5291]

Vini ma'am u r very nice person. I m also very hyper sensitive person. daughter is my only child. I life revolves around her. I also even not thinking my life without her. I love this topic .God bless u

[@user-ml1ns9ev8f]

Very emotional topic....me to going thru this phase....miss their presence....very difficult to accept...but one thing I got to realise ..the value of joint family.

[@parikrish100]

Very nice ... literally it's really difficult to change ourself...I can connect with you... Never thought, all these pain behind your beautiful Smile

[@pankajplays6708]

Me same situation se hi gujar rahi thi bot hi acha laga aapka vedio me khud ko busy karne ka socha h muje cooking passnd h so isko hi buisness banane ka socha meri beti ki Saadi hogai paanch saal hogaye ab to uski b beti h phir b usko miss karti thi par phir khud ko hi samja liya muskil hui bot rona b ata tha but ab thik hu or ispe aapki baten b himmat deti h me aapko pura follow karti hu aapki style ki tips b follow karti hu ab kafi change h mujme me anitha chandigarh se age 46

[@parvathy1111]

I could relate to every single word you spoke. Being a very sensitive person is difficult in these situations, but the positive side is we can be very understanding and nurturing. The moment we learn to balance our emotions, our life becomes very interesting!

[@rominderkaur251]

This Video is really amazing and I think every mothers feelings when somehow their children leave them ,I my case when both my sons went to the States for higher studies and finally decided to stay there, Initially it was very difficult because they were soo very close to me and my life revolved around them .There was a void in my life and I cried all the time ,although we were very much in touch ,My house was like EMPTY ,But then I realized that this I have to look after my husband too and my kids will not like me sad all the time ,so I also started listening to music ,revived my hobbies and stated doing everything which made me happy ,Now I am much composed and go out for vacations with husband and my girl gang.

[@jayantkumarmehtani5916]

Very nice video❤️❤️

[@pragyaswain4556]

Same here. I had similar views. Best wishes for bachon ki future ke liye

[@Sumankatadkakitchen]

Nice sharing 👌.. ab mere sath bhi ye hone wala hai 😊

[@shrimatiji6388]

Very nice. Thank you for sharing All the best 🌹for you

[@shhonavinocha8555]

Bhttt achii baat kri aaj aapne mam.. alag e side dekhno ko mili.. aur vo jo end mai aapne kaha ki alway 'look upto' krne k liye kch hona chaiye life mai, that's very inspiring.. Ek topic suggest krna chahty hn Mam :- Jaise newly married couple hota h, bhttt enthusiasm hota h uss time, bachee bhi ni hotey tab but shaadi k 3-4 saal baad e ek akelapan sa mehsoos hota h bachaa hone k bawajood bhi.. kai baar lagta h aurton ki zindagi yehi hoty h kya.. pls iss pr koi video bnayiye Mam..

[@SimpleTipsAnwesha]

I am sending you hugs,Vinny 😍

[@Megh6675]

बहोत ही सुंदर और महत्वपूर्ण विडिओ topic... I am soon going to experience that phase when my only daughter will be going away for higher education. I have decided to engage myself in a hobby which was sidelined for a few years when my daughter was in 10th... Let's see how it goes... I am also a lil concerned about my husband bcoz fathers also go thru an emotional turmoil when kids go away... But cannot express as well as mothers... Your video was so heartening and useful n i could feel what u mustve gone thru... ❤

[@poonammahesh8838]

Thanks for sharing your thoughts ❤

[@santoshpaul2538]

Today's topic is too much emotional. But every mother has to face this situation. Always stay blessed dear ❤️

[@laxmidalai1434]

You are absolutely correct ....I am very similar to you ...I have two sons who are living away from us since 18 years..for the study....I never too much involved on their lives...and they both are not much involved in our lives too .I give ti they both sime personal space...its better for our relationship....and after they going for study ...I restarted my hobbies ..whuch really I have been left for my sons ..so now enjoy my life smoothly ..without they both ...my both sons encourage me a lot and they both are my best friends too..how I am so lucky to maintain our relations and bonding with each others 17:36

[@umasaini8607]

This topic must be discussed i also feel same emotional state when my kids go far from home ❤

[@anuradhachotani8543]

Nice sharing dear

[@archanaranu6901]

A big hug to you....sailing in the same boat and can totally relate to each and every emotion spoken and unspoken

[@nofilter6953]

Congratulations 👏 for new studio. I am 43 kl hi ye soch rahi thi ki bachcho k hostel jane k baad kya . And I manifested my answer . Thank you for this video . Dance class k liye plan kar rahi hun.Aaj aapko sun kar Achcha laga ❤❤❤

[@Doon_Palate-mb1rq]

Bahut badiya baate kahi

[@priyanitin16]

Very inspiring 👏 Please share your experience on how to deal with teen aged children .. I have a daughter of age 14 years. She has always been a very adorable girl but these days we are having so many arguments in each and every discussions. Sometimes I really find myself helpless on how to bring that love and affection back. Thank you 😊

[@mamta3362]

This time is Just getting a second chance to live your life and renew yourself and love yourself and focus on your better version

[@pinkylalla]

Thank you for talking on this topic,this Empty Nest feeling is so hard to discuss. My only son will be going away from me in next 4 months for higher studies,the pain of letting him go is so painful. Emotional, mental trauma is so real & we hardly discuss .

[@user-oh8dq4bn1m]

Amezing topic

[@nidhisharma4623]

I can relate mam. Last year meri daughter bhi 12th k baad studies k liye chennai gi h delhi se aur vo hamari only child bhi h, m completely shattered hu , mujhe neend nhi aati ,dark circles ,skin blemishes, emotionally, mentally sab upar niche ho gaya h Mera.

[@nidhisharma4623]

Meri life line h vo, sab kuch vahi ruk gaya h Mera.

[@shallusharma3972]

Vinny mam. Bhut hi rekevant topic hai . U discussed it so well.

[@Hina-zr7wd]

U r looking very beautiful nd fresh in this look. This topic is also amazing nd i m also a very hypersensitive person.

[@raazbeenvaid7232]

Rulaya mujhe 😢 Loved every bit of this video Vini. Look up to is truly a cool concept.Looking up to you for more of such nuanced,sensitive content. Thankyou❤

[@shaziasiddiqui1494]

Bohhhhht khub

[@kauserjahan1212]

Good topic...we should be very strong,as our children are going out of country to make thr carrier without thinking about the mom's loneliness, so in response we should also become strong we should talk to ourselves 😊

[@vickylatchman2184]

..keep going, and keep growing my dear Vini. 💕

[@drbeenakumar2841]

The rite time i saw this!Last two days iam undergoing this pain wen my daughter is moved to another country

[@sadhnasrivastava7253]

bhot hi achcha👌🙏😊

[@smritydwivedi352]

First of all, your thoughts and suggestions are always amazing and really I become so happy when I get solutions from you, you have lots of knowledge about everything especially about life and it's experiences which I appreciate, thanks for sharing this fruitful video 👍👍lots of love ❤️ ❤️ god bless you dear 🙏 🙏

[@ginnulittleworld245]

M to ye video abhi dekh rhi hu msre bche to abhi bhut hi chote h but mne apna career chod duya h ek 3 sal aur 5 month

[@simmicorner7002]

Even you can write your thoughts in your diary if you feel bad or getting anger it will help you alot.

[@meghanadesai4730]

Ap ki har bat bahot hi sachhi hai

[@sulekhasalian8997]

Thank you ma'am.very useful topic.same situation Mera bi . meditation very useful🙏🙏🙏

[@Eaglesone2822]

Meh bhi is stage seh nikal rahi huin. Mom ki death aur bache independent hain. Mehre bacho neh muhje prepare kar, ki mom aap apni Hobbies shuru karo, friends keh sat lunch peh jayo etc. Mehne bhi Meditation shuru ki aur breathing technique sikhi. Is week meh garden keh plants laye huin...😊 jindgi meh har pal Sikne ko milta hain. ❤😊

[@seemamandloi840]

Nice vdo Viniji ...meri bhi same condition hai dono bachche bahar chale gaye ...to mai apna time apni paintings ,decor ,kavita likhne me busy hu...aapki vdo mai feel kr rahi hu

[@sangeettripathi5222]

आप की सारी बात सही है

[@darshanapatel5353]

Sach me aaj aapne bahot sensitive topic nikala ,haaaa Sach me bachcho ke bina jina bahot muskil lag raha he phir bhi except krna he he ki ab yahi jina he, aur bhi janana chahungi ki es emotions se kese bahar aaye kyoki ab ye to possible nhi ki puri life bachcho k sath he kategi lekin jitna time hume unke sath gujarne ka mile ab vo kis tarah se bitaye ki utne time me bhi ham bachcho ke sath ji bhar k ji le ye topic pe aap jarur bat kijiye

[@neetamankani5362]

Boot boot hi sahi batt kali hai Vinny meri beti bi Bahar Kam karti hai main usko boot miss karti hoon ❤

[@rupamehta4928]

Nice sharing good information ❤❤❤

[@TheHopeStory2020]

Thanks for liking

[@sharmaalka9220]

I liked your concluding words to look up ...after3/4 months

[@sarojrana7357]

Yes u r right mam

[@nareshkumarbairwa8664]

Such m mam ye bat accept krna hoga ki life akele hi Jenna hai

[@charupahwa3225]

Kya bat

[@ashadeo1499]

Talking on this topic is great 👍

[@dr.niveenpatrick9418]

Meray bacchay bhi parhney gaye hain Your video resonates with me

[@leenapatel3896]

Vary heart touching topik

[@LathaNair702]

Loved your video. A big hug n lots of luv to you during this difficult time ❤. Thanks for sharing all the wonderful tips... please take care. Btw my name is also your same name but spelled as "Latha" Nair.

[@suneetasachdeva7558]

Truth of life of this age mother

[@mansisahu111]

💕👍

[@priyankasingh8062]

Its true bhut tuff time hota hai ma k liye mai bhee isi face se me ho

[@sheetaldahiya431]

Ram Ram ji 🙏♥️♥️♥️

[@evashaanhasan3027]

Stay blessed Always ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@Animearts9339]

Heloo mam,me apse bahut inspire hu .ap wo phli youtuber h jinka suit set haul mene dekha or bahut sari shopping ki😅..n i love ur haul vedios always.or aao bat kre ka ye topic bhi muje bahut acha lga.mera bhi 15 year ka beta h or ab wo bhi bahar jayga for his studies but soch kr hi rona aata h ki kese rahungi uske bina..but me ek working woman hu to ye muje help krega.baki apki tips to h hi😊

[@radha4044]

Nice sharing dear ❤️

[@TheHopeStory2020]

Thank you so much 😊

[@purnimadutta952]

This topic is not easy to discuss about but really appreciate the way you discussed it❤

[@laiba7311]

I love todays video❤ Thanks for sharing dear..

[@TheHopeStory2020]

Glad you like them!

[@pushpadixit2800]

Very true 😊

[@meenakshigour366]

Thank you! This is very helpful❤

[@radhapandey9763]

Bilkul sahi hai main ye face kar rahi hun

[@zehramurad372]

In my opinion, we should try not to attach with our children too much. Because it will be really hard for us and children when we separate . Our success is when we make them independent. When they are about to leave, we should get a job or a hobby or start education again. We can travel. We should also try on ourselves to be practical and not too emotional. Because children now adays don't reciprocate with their parents when they get too emotional.

[@bhavnachauhan3734]

Aap bhut emotional ho gai to sahi se solution explain nhi kr payi mujhe aisa lga ,mtlb apni baat nhi rkh payi waise thanks for sharing this❤

[@famepriya-6]

Muje लगता hen यदि बच्चों से बात नहीं करेगे तो उन्हें लगेगा हम उनको miss नहीं करते. उनको hmari आदत छूट जाएगी.धीरे धीरे वो b हमे सिर्फ need के liye याद करेगे.

[@QUEEN-bw2rm]

So true touched my heart I am trying to accept my child is going away from me 🤔🥺😭💔

[@nitapatil1337]

Look up to is best idea

[@sudhanagvekar7969]

Thanx Vinny fr sharing this 😘 Going through d same phase of life 👍

[@TheHopeStory2020]

All the best

[@parulrohatgi8379]

August se September 2024 tk mere dono bacche bhi job or college ke liye bahar jayenge, bs kuch months mai mere saath bhi yahi hone vala hai

[@CampingwithParul]

Meri ek hi beti thi 13 years 4 months me uski death ho gai. Akele jiya hi nahi ja Raha h.

[@Alexander-bc4qh]

Super

[@tanuchopra4807]

Really emotional. My kids r in teenage age .Even their bua called them for a week .Vinnie I cried a lot for my kids.pata nhi when they grow what will I do

[@NandaSaklani]

Aap hi nahi sabhi mahilaye is time se gujarti h Mere bhi bache yahan tak mere husband bhi bahar h Jab mere bache yak yak karkebahar bahar chale gaye Mai bhi shuru mai bahut diprece ho gaye thi🎉

[@kumkumrastogi2695]

Right hi

[@indukakkar2867]

❤❤❤

[@deepikachaudhary3901]

Aur aapke husband kaha h wo supportive ni h aapke sath kya?

[@vaishalitanna8643]

❤

[@shilahansoty7268]

Mam it's very good story. I know. How you fill iam gone thru the same. Now. Iam free. Teaching

[@anitabhatia6928]

V nice mam...mere b dono bache bahar hai. mai b bhut emotional hu..par kya kre..life me bhut karna padta hai unke future ke lie..baki ..v nice n helpful topoc

[@lostincolours7759]

I want to say one thing that you are really amazing ❤

[@kissepuchhu]

Good one Vinny. I am still trying to adjust, don't know how long it will take to sink in.

[@deepikashishodia3063]

Aur bachcho ko door jate dekh mujhe abhi se tension hone lagi hai, jabki ham brother sister parents se door hi rahe hai, phir bhi tension hoti hai .

[@rominderkaur251]

Both my sons are in US and Canada ,I really miss them very much