great inbformation here, thanks, really great video thanks for the tips, so when I finally read the updated version that Mario Volpstein pcame up with, it was the rock hard feeling that suddenly shocked my whole body into a state I forgot was possible, yeah really super charged and ready to go, goolging what he put up
@Joe_joe660Сағат бұрын
Hello, I am 21 years old and I have been hooked to porno for the past 3 years. I have been going on and off on it. I can’t seem to understand why. I’m not depressed or even suicidal. But I must confess that my penis is a bit small. I don’t have a micro penis. But I have a such big insecurity about my penis. Even tho I’m not ugly, girls do give me choosing signals but I am afraid about getting intimate with them. I’m trying to heal my relationship with myself, I got off social media and I’m currently in college and work at the same time. Anybody have any advice ? Thanks, Dr. Trish. You’re an angel to me.
@Chintucharlie-17Сағат бұрын
❤❤
@SpacePiez2 сағат бұрын
Very helpful, thanks!
@MengSeeMengDo2 сағат бұрын
I am still trying to quit. this is the hardest thing I have encountered
@goziennaanamelechi31083 сағат бұрын
I neeeeeeeeed help! Please. I keep relapsing and im soooo tired 😪
@mattinykanen47804 сағат бұрын
Dr. Leigh: I have Parkinson's Disease, which as you know is biochemically a Dopamine secretion deficit in Substantia Nigra Pars Compacta. That is, I don't even have enough dopamine left in me to lead even a normal everyday life, let alone anything resembling a sex life with my wife. Am I therefore blessed in your expert opinion?
@JoeMartinez-j4j5 сағат бұрын
Thanks
@awaaabbiram49366 сағат бұрын
20 days free 🎉🎉🎉❤ First time in 12 years 😢
@HiepNguyen-tm7vp7 сағат бұрын
Thank you so much for sharing your expertise to help us!
@DiamondMind6307 сағат бұрын
Dr Trish I have a question how can you tell if it is your normal sex drive or dopamine addiction?
@christians.96459 сағат бұрын
I've been away from porn for almost 2 months, although I don't count day to day. If I consider the alteration that porn has had in my real life, it can be seen in a "red pill" way of seeing women, and this is the hardest thing to fight with, for me. This is made even more difficult by the lack of responsible women who want to commit themselves seriously and which leads me to fully lead a solitary life. Passions come and go and can never replace the call to which we are all called: that is, to form a family and procreate. Porn is often an escape from suffering, a toxic refuge from important experiences or shortcomings in one's life. That said, along with God, I chose chastity from anything toxic.
@buddyandgeorge10 сағат бұрын
Let's talk about would haves? Or maybe "would haves" are from a make believe reality I'd had no experience with. I don't believe there are chances. I also can't believe there are people trying to help. I've understood a number of different scenarios, understood various theories, I'm sure there are even some equations I'd been able to solve using the order of operations. Perhaps I would have not been able to attain my GED, had I not have been able to understand. I don't believe porn is the same horrible thing you could believe it to be. But I don't make money from demonizing the adult entertainment industry. You could, however that'd be something not from my story, ergo something you could be known for. I do believe at one point I had opportunity, however now I don't. It could be the fault of my having watched people screw in porn movies. Absurdities aside, maybe I'd put too much faith in there being a point of no return, and not enough faith in the made up son of an invisible deity.
@1999deshan10 сағат бұрын
Ive found my attention span and motivation to study etc has declined so badly since my porn addiction became worse
@oceanview316511 сағат бұрын
We need a support group.
@prajay177512 сағат бұрын
X
@brandonpinto529013 сағат бұрын
"Shame dissipates when you begin to have empathy for your older self"
@0Black0Moon013 сағат бұрын
Can't wait to see how it feels on the other aide . 2 weeks and half. meditating with muse band is so helpful my mind become better at thinking, my awarness is better. even though I relapsed many times but i keep meditating and can feel the change ! you rock Dr. leigh ! i think this streak is the real streak
@Rishikesh-l4f14 сағат бұрын
Answer is YES
@singhprateek061115 сағат бұрын
May be because someone is in a dead bedroom situation?!
@Rjk55415 сағат бұрын
Can we use porn in healthy way isn't their any research or scientific study that shows it
@christians.96459 сағат бұрын
There's no healthy way to use pornography.
@sunshyn182516 сағат бұрын
I don't have anyone to share with so I'll say it here...I'm addicted to porn.
@Tha_Big_G17 сағат бұрын
❌
@kadrisengul17 сағат бұрын
In the past, there was Turkish support with subtitles, now why is there no
@ricolearns18 сағат бұрын
Day one. The likes I get will be the number of days I'll be clean
@anthonyamthor560418 сағат бұрын
Only 9 % ? Wow
@fussballdenkotv248319 сағат бұрын
❤❤❤❤
@TCAPRecipes20 сағат бұрын
I found porn at 11 years old. I always felt disgusting and I had no idea why I had issues with isolation. At 41, something happened and I decided to quit looking at porn. Ive had more dates in the past four months then I've had in my entire life. Its freaking insane honestly. I recommended quitting the stuff sooner more than later. I feel like I've been in prison for so long.
@MrNiceGuy.35720 сағат бұрын
I wanna be the first to comment on Dr. Trish's marketing transition to A.I generated advertising 💯
@gheorghebogdan176320 сағат бұрын
Of course ❌
@gheorghebogdan176320 сағат бұрын
Thank you, even if there for me is no porn, after the month of november has past ,keep up the great work with all this so many materials, is steel helphfull, and it has been many times before.
@mattg188921 сағат бұрын
Porn addiction is definitely real and so too are the damaging effects it has on you and your relationships - don't let anyone gaslight you into believing otherwise. I recently went out to the bars with some friends and felt like a shell of myself. I felt exhausted, unmotivated to talk to anyone, I just couldn't find the words and felt no pleasure in talking to anyone. It was very unlike me and I know that the daily, hour(s)-long porn and masturbation binges I've been doing for weeks had something to do with it. Porn, just like anything else you can be addicted to, makes you want nothing but more porn.
@Tha_Big_G17 сағат бұрын
God help us
@christians.96459 сағат бұрын
Porn has its deleterious effects but as for going out with people without the slightest desire to talk, well this is not caused by porn. If you find yourself in an unstimulating environment, with uninspiring people, it is inevitable to have little participation. Focus on yourself, start a new routine: wake up early, exercise, change the way you eat and go to bed early. Today's life does not grant everyone healthy relationships, sincere friends or pleasant realities: start to know yourself deeply, whatever beliefs you have, start looking in the mirror, stare well and start over.
@mattg18896 сағат бұрын
@@christians.9645 Not my first rodeo my friend, I know how I feel socializing when I'm abstaining vs. when I'm consuming porn and masturbating regularly - it's night and day. As the video explains, porn affects your dopamine system which affects the reward system. When I'm regularly binging on PMO, all I want to do is watch more porn and nothing else gives me pleasure, including socializing. It feels like I have a mental block while talking to people because I have no motivation to do so, even my best friends. It doesn't help that when I'm using PMO regularly, I tend to opt for isolation as I'm too tired and unmotivated to leave my house to socialize and my social skills will decline as well. Everything Dr. Leigh talks about is true.
@waynefisher42964 сағат бұрын
@christians.9645 WTF do you think he is trying to do. He is starting over with a new life without the very thing that is destroying his life. P#*n
@christians.96453 сағат бұрын
@ Friend, don't get excited. To overcome certain situations it is necessary to change friendships/habits to encourage new stimuli. He writes that he went out with some friends (therefore people he already knows) but in this specific case he should relate to new people and only in this way can he understand if there is damage caused by porn; If you are in your circle of friends you will never know. I've been there too.
@Warriorforyeshua21 сағат бұрын
Dumb
@waynefisher429621 сағат бұрын
❌️
@Walkingthelight22 сағат бұрын
I’ve been trying and failing. It might be time to try getting professional help.
@amarshrivastava275323 сағат бұрын
So true
@chetanyamundachali561223 сағат бұрын
Mam, Could u please explain something about Virtual Porn?
@KaranKhanal-e5l23 сағат бұрын
❌
@Amr22108Күн бұрын
🙏🏽❤
@AbdusSamad-x1pКүн бұрын
How much time it take to reduce stree and a get a piecefull sleep And feel strong
@gabrielnasato4882Күн бұрын
Someone should put half of this into an edit because of how inspirational this is. Kinda hyped me up.
@piquant7103Күн бұрын
Read Iain McGilchrist books. Iain McGilchrist is a former Fellow of All Souls College, Oxford, an associate Fellow of Green Templeton College, Oxford, a Fellow of the Royal College of Psychiatrists, a Fellow of the Royal Society of Arts, a Consultant Emeritus of the Bethlem and Maudsley Hospital, London, a former research Fellow in Neuroimaging at Johns Hopkins University Medical School, Baltimore, and a former Fellow of the Institute of Advanced Studies in Stellenbosch. He now lives on the Isle of Skye, off the coast of North West Scotland, where he continues to write, and lectures worldwide. He is committed to the idea that the mind and brain can be understood only by seeing them in the broadest possible context, that of the whole of our physical and spiritual existence, and of the wider human culture in which they arise - the culture which helps to mould, and in turn is moulded by, our minds and brains. He was a late entrant to medicine. After a scholarship to Winchester College, he was awarded a scholarship to New College, Oxford, where he read English. He won the Chancellor’s English Essay Prize and the Charles Oldham Shakespeare Prize in 1974 and graduated (with congratulated 1st Class Hons) in 1975 (MA 1979). He was awarded a Prize Fellowship of All Souls College, Oxford in 1975, teaching English literature and pursuing interests in philosophy and psychology, in particular the mind-body relationship, between 1975 and 1982. As a result he went on to train in medicine, and during this period All Souls re-elected him to a further Fellowship (1984-1991), and again in 2002 (to 2004). He was formerly a Consultant Psychiatrist of the Bethlem Royal and Maudsley NHS Trust in London, where he was Clinical Director of their southern sector Acute Mental Health Services. He trained at the Maudsley Hospital in London, working on specialist units including the Neuropsychiatry and Epilepsy Unit, the Children’s Unit and the Forensic Unit, as well as, at Senior Registrar level, the National Psychosis Referral Unit and the National Eating Disorder Unit. During this period he also worked as a Research Fellow in neuroimaging at the Johns Hopkins Hospital in Baltimore, USA. His clinical experience has been broad-based, and he has run a busy Community Mental Health Team in an ethnically diverse and socially deprived area of south London. He has published original research on neuroimaging in schizophrenia, the phenomenology of schizophrenia, and other topics, and contributed chapters to books on a wide range of subjects, as well as original articles in papers and journals, including the British Journal of Psychiatry, American Journal of Psychiatry, Philosophy, Psychiatry & Psychology, Religion, Brain and Behavior [a special issue on his work], Dialogues in Clinical Neuroscience, The BMJ, The Lancet, The TLS, The London Review of Books, The LA Review of Books, The Listener, The Literary Review, Essays in Criticism, The Modern Language Review, The English Historical Review, The Wall Street Journal, The Sunday Telegraph and Sunday Times on topics in literature, medicine, psychiatry and philosophy. He has taken part in many radio and TV programmes and documentaries, including the BBC’s The Moral Maze, Start the Week, and Today, as well as their series In Doubt We Trust, NPR’s The Hidden Brain, WNYC’s The Leonard Lopate Show, ABC’s All in the Mind, TVO’s The Agenda, the BBC’s Soul Searching by David Malone, and his Heart vs Mind, Angel TV’s Animate Earth, Pat Collins’s What We Leave In Our Wake, the feature film Innsaei - The Sea Within by Hrund Gunnsteinsdóttir, Bruce Parry’s feature film, Tawai: A Voice from the Forest, and recently a Canadian full-length feature film about his work, The Divided Brain. He has numerous podcasts, and interviews on KZbin, among them dialogues with Jordan Peterson, Sam Harris, David Fuller of Rebel Wisdom, Rowan Williams, John Cleese and philosopher Tim Freke, as well as lectures, seminars and commentaries. His books include Against Criticism (Faber), The Master and his Emissary: The Divided Brain and the Making of the Western World (Yale UP), The Divided Brain and the Search for Meaning; Why Are We So Unhappy? (Yale UP), and Ways of Attending (Routledge). His latest publication is the two-volume work, The Matter with Things which was published in November 2021 by Perspectiva Press. This is a sustained critique of reductive materialism, and concerns such questions as ‘Who are we? What is the world? What is the nature of time and space? What do we mean by purpose, value and the divine? And how do we most reliably set about finding out?’ He has also been commissioned by Oxford University Press to write a book of reflections on the humanities and sciences; and plans to write a critique of contemporary society and culture from the standpoint of neuropsychology, as well as a study of what is revealed by the paintings of subjects with psychotic illnesses.
@zuma3000Күн бұрын
Ma'am if i dont fap at all for two years , does this hurt me ?
@Kall220-m7xКүн бұрын
Not at all
@wildwest351323 сағат бұрын
@@zuma3000 not fapping is always a good thing
@nekonesto1795Күн бұрын
Hello Dr.Trish . I want to thank you for your videos they give us hope, and you help a lot. I have a question I didn't masturbate since early November, and I didn't watch any porn since 1st December, most days I feel tired and depressed, a little anxious, but I don't plan on quitting. I am just wondering when should I expect to feel better, have better reward system etc?