🙏 Dear Elle. Thank you for your service! LOVE your bravery & important channel, and been following you since 2020- the beginning of your detransition. This fight for protecting women/girls is incredibly painful, but we can all pitch in, in small or big ways. I recently told a lesbian friend (I’m a lesbian) that I appreciate JK Rowling’s work for Women’s/lesbians’ liberation, and she responded condemning JK’s “harmful transphobia”. She’s not a demonic TERF like me. But she also told me she respects JK’s right to free speech, especially as a Woman. And she told me she was glad we could have an open discussion and disagree without name-calling. And she still likes me. So there’s hope yet! I had a niece born a few days ago. Goddess help you if you’re born female. Being raised/socialized as female is inherently traumatizing. I binded my breasts for a year at puberty due to trauma from sexual harassment. For many of us little girls, our introduction to womanhood (puberty) is unwanted sexual attention. One of the many reasons “transition” to NB/boy/man is so alluring to us.

Gosh you're so beautiful inside and out Truth is the most intoxicating thing for me. Living in a world so fake and manipulated has been so depressing to me. Thank you for being so real.

You really are beautiful just how you were born to be! My voice is lower too and I'm a woman from the beginning. I'm glad you are learning to love yourself as you are. 😊

I think you have a very dexy voice. That's actually the first thing I thought about you. It turns out the video I was watching was one where you talked about not liking your voice.

Your voice is fine. Have you heard Miley Cyrus talk? Kathleen Turner?

Your true tribe won’t care about what you sound like. They will love and appreciate you for who you are. People judge others out of their own insecurities.

Many women have a husky voice. So go see a good voice doctor just to chat. You look and sound totally like a pretty young women. The more we give back to the world the less we worry about ourselves. We have to get back to why we’re really here and that is to just serve our purpose and help humanity become better. You can take this mess and change it into something really good. I just helping 12 year olds and other age groups not have to go through this again. We need to let the parents know that this is not right and their their experimenting on our own children. When they’re young, they always think they’re different than who they are so let them grow up and decide for themselves. By then maybe this will be a blur. love you. You keep going, keep fighting. Keep believing in yourself and never give up. That’s all God wants. Thank you, Sandra.😊

Ok lemme tell you, sing jazz. Also, contraltos are well sought after many musical circles. Especially classical. Plus, you really don't know if this is permanent. I don't mean to be invalidating. But there's so many health conditions I've had that doctors told me were permanent and somehow through meditation and visualization and working on trauma issues, these chronic conditions I had completely cleared up. AND Men who transition to be women figure out ways make their voice higher.

There is a reason paths are double sided, so we can walk back the other way

You are looking so very pretty and sounding fem, too.

Hope you are coming to love your voice, as I feel it is quite wonderful. I would love to have a deeper and richer voice. Holding good thoughts for you on this journey to being yourself, regardless of others’ opinions.

I don't understand how anyone believes people can 'transition'. And then call that affirming care.

We all make own own choices!!!!

Have you ever heard of voice feminization surgery

Thank God you came back to your senses.

The big pharma and medical industry cult is making a killing off the typical low self-esteem and narcissism of teenagers who need attention. It used to be mostly street criminals would try to addict vulnerable kids to illegal drugs. Now it’s big pharma, Planned Parenthood, expensive surgeons, media propaganda and legal drugs to use kids as “lifetime cash cows” who are hooked on hormone drugs and provide a bottomless pit of medical and psychological complications. Convincing gullible teens and tweens to work against their own biology and to mutilate themselves to their own detriment is BIG BUSINESS, and the poor kids have almost no clue of the manipulation until it’s too late. They are medically F’d up just for being impressionable kids following superficial hype that is fed to them. It’s evil. It’s child abuse. Gender confusion is sold as trendy and kids don’t have developed brains to figure that out. Big pharma knows it trashes your health, and that’s the the whole point.💲

It is an unfortunately reality that testosterone has permanently lowered your voice so that you do sound male. When I look at you, you do look feminine--so I discard the masculine sound of your voice. But, yes, you got damaged as a result of your transition. As nearly all people will be damaged with the hormone treatments and surgeries. Often multiple surgeries are needed with adverse reactions such as sepsis, constant bleeding, pain, discomfort. Thanks to you for sharing your experience. Best wishes.

Have you tried turning to Jesus Christ? I believe a born-again experience is what you need.

I remember watching some videos of yours back when I started transitioning around 4 years ago, and now have returned to them as a detransitioner. I'm glad to see you have been taking care of yourself, despite the struggles and I hope to have the same strength as I move back towards reality myself

Honestly, your voice sounds fine to me. Really. I guess you’re comparing it to the way it used to be. But don’t! Some women have deep voices. To my ear, your voice is sultry. If you want to make it even better, take up singing. I enrolled in a chorus class at a community college about ten years ago, and it’s done wonders for the sound of my voice.

Some women simply low voices, and some men have high voices. Some men are 5’6” and 130 lbs, and some women are 5’10” and 160 lbs. if you can accept who you are, others will accept you too. And those who don’t - don’t worry about them.

Ye must be born again! Read the Bible. John 3

You were born with female DNA sweetie. You are a woman. You are not pretending. People who are concerned about your "pronouns" need to get a life and worry about themselves. We as a society have become so unbalanced and overly concerned about being "woke" that we've forgotten how to just be compassionate human beings who care about other people. Keep being positive and if you do believe in God, go to him in prayer and ask him for guidance and support. I wish the best for you.

I haven’t seen you in a long time, I am so happy your voice is basically back to normal. And you look great

Thank you for sharing your story!

I’m so sorry you went through all this mess . I’m beginning to see a lot of people who realized they made a huge mistake speaking out , I’m hoping and praying you are ALL making a difference in the prevention of others who would be doing this . God Bless you all for speaking out and helping others 🙏🏻. Your a Beautiful Woman and maybe God let this happen to you so you can be a strong voice to help Many innocent young people to get brain washed to do this . Your voice can and will save MANY . Be Strong . Your amazing ! Your story can change lives and this can be your purpose ! You are a Real Woman ! 🥰💖

Your a beauty.

Think 💭 f the costs to our health care system

You're lovely Definitely feminine. Don't worry.

choose your surgeon and SRS type wisely!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! if you had no issues post-op, would you still de-transition prob not? ive seen many stories and its botched work that led to a detrans

as a post op trans woman , there needs to be a trans category for all sports for fairness!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! MTF trans woman are stronger/faster than a typical woman even with lower T levels. I can prove this at 5'9 170 lbs i can squat 460lbs for 3 sets of 10 i can do more and that's record setting weight amounts in the 170 class for a woman. I can close a captains of crush 2.0 gripper and only 2 women ever have done this on record. I am doing this with little to no training and a T level of 0.03 NL/ML which is alot lower than a cis womans so T level matters none i had 46 years of being a man before HRT and i was a power lifter as well as a man in my past. If a trans has a boy parts they go to men's jail no question about that how about dop do illegal stuff to be in jail? hah

It's funny, I always have to ask, "Why would anyone want to be a guy, we are dicks!" Literally and figuratively. lol! I know, I am one. No kidding, sort of. Lots of guys are cool. Some are jerks. I guess we have that in both genders.

My voice is a little bit like that and I never took testosterone. To be honest, when I first heard your voice I heard a tinge of masculine but as you talked it felt more normally female. Also - NO female that has been around an honest to goodness male would ever think she was that or that she could compete with that. Which is probably why certain segments of females absolutely do NOT have high rates of this mind virus or whatever it is. They know they could never be a man no matter how much testosterone they take.

Well done for speaking publicly!

These young people have been really messed up by this evil ideology! All those so called medical professionals involved in thi should pay for their crimes

You were, are and always will be a beautiful woman. God bless you Sweetheart

Did you go through surgery?

If you haven't been in touch with Buck Angel here on YT please reach out to him. He is solidly in your wheel house

Welcome back. I'm so disgusted that adults took advantage of you in all the ways you experienced. You know all those 'phases' of self doubt and social anxiety are normal right? It's ok to explore. It's not ok to be medically brutalized by irresponsible doctors and therapists who were not strong enough to say NO to a child. SMH. You are undergoing a huge amount of hormonal shift. Be kind to yourself. What you are experiencing now is to be expected. You are and were experiencing the baseline anxiety of ALL women in this society. You'll be ok. You will grow into your power identity as a biological female. If you are having negative first date issues it means you are not being fully honest BEFORE the date. At minimum there should be full disclosure and a phone call to avoid any issues. I would immediately dump anyone who did not disclose because that is really emotionally abusive toward me. Don't blindside someone. At minimum it's just rude and disrespectful.

And who, prey tell, is paying for all the medical costs???? Certainly, at 20, it's NOT YOU. It's the public at large and we want our $$ back. How are YOU going to pay us back? I hate that you were SA'd online, and that the current laws allowed this to happen to you and children or anyone under 25 which is the minimum age that the human brain becomes fully developed and able to understand complex decision making. You are and always will be a female, not 'cisgender' just simply a biological female. No hormone or surgery will EVER change that. You are one of the lucky ones! Keep up with your therapy. You have a loooooong way to go. You will get there. Destination: emotional maturity.

I recently saw a video of a man who had vocal cord surgery and his voice definitely became higher afterwards. Idk if that could be for you but might be an option. 🤷‍♀️

Looking into autism might (or might not) provide answers.

You are still you, you are still a woman and you have natural beauty. Look up Carly Simon, she has a deep vioce and she's made a living from it. Your unique and most woman and men forget this. We all have our feminine and masculine traits, an that's what these governmental cruel agenda's have distorted and exploited. You are showing your bravery in sharing your storey, you are hopefully sparing others some of your pain, an for that we all thank you. I'm so saddened we I see the damage these lies told to our youth have done. Wishing a happy life to come, beauty is feeling comfortable and confident in your skin no matter what you look like. Give it time and you will find that in yourself. Don't let others decide your value.

You are very feminine in appearance. Your voice is fine, it is lower than it would have been, but it isn't extreme.

I found this today, Elle. You are a beautiful woman. I posted this to X and I hope you see my positive message to you. God Bless You. ☺🙏💖🕊✝️

Thank you for sharing your perspective

It sounds like you were dependent not "co-dependent"

Elle Palmer, you seem like a very insightful young lady. I hope eventually you will see that what other people think of you is not nearly as important as what you think of yourself. You have nice features and beautiful hair. But none of that matters. What matters is your character. To be loving, thoughtful, kind, compassionate and grateful...those are the characteristics that please God and will inevitably make you happy. You're chewing too long on things that only serve to undermine your confidence. Kick out the negative and keep the positive. You are the captain of your thoughts. Correct course!

It makes me so angry that there are professional people who encourage transitioning without proper consideration. The truth is most young people go through this questioning phase about who you are, where you fit in, and the ridiculous and extreme role models presented by the media just add to the confusion. This is when the right mental health support is needed. You are maturing into a lovely, thoughtful and attractive young woman. Believe it. I wish you all the best. (Not all women have higher voices - you don't sound like a man to me.) I also wish for you the ability to get out of your thinking mind and into the present moment. I recommend looking up Eckhart Tolle for that.

They should show yuri bezmenov lecture in schools for a balanced view