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Hello my name is Derek Wilkins and I just recently found out that I suffer from overactive bladder and incontinence and I am looking for advice on how to wear diapers discreetly in public without people knowing also what are some good brands and I also have trouble changing in public

Has anyone had any dreams that they had to go #2 and wake up realizing they have Pooped in their Pants?

What about people that poop in their pants sometimes?

I want to be on YOUR team! Thanks for your great advise!

Thank you for this video. I just finished my 5 day Axionics and I am now missing the results in less than 5 days.

I've gotten a few abdl diapers I really think they are better it's like they put way more thought into functionality.

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Back in the early 1980's I was watching a talk show that had Joe DiMaggio on and he was talking about his life with Marylin Monroe, he had mentioned that she was a chronic bedwetter and at times had leaky bladder in the day. During the time she was alive no one talked about personal things like that so it was never mentioned. But after the 1970's things were starting to be talked about like this.

Thank you for this video Olivia! It is very rare. Like you said, so few people are willing to talk about OAB - and this means that many people are not getting the help that they need. Urinary incontinence, has been dubbed "one of the last medical taboos" by the World Health Organization. On average, people with OAB wait at least 3 years before talking with their doctor about it. It is time that it comes out of the closet. There is no shame in OAB.

The only thing that has ever truly helped me is when I was on Wegovy. And now with the shortage, I haven't been able to be on it anymore. I literally have not ever had anything but that help me. It's a (figurative) demon that haunts me through my dealing with trauma journey. Edit: I never went to sleepovers as a kid, partially over bedwetting.

Hi Would you ever consider being in a relationship with another bedwetter?

Do you sometimes (every once in a while) have a poop accident too?

I would love someone put me in diapers for bedtime as i soak my diaper mama ❤❤

I have the same problem when going to stay in hotels

How are you doing with bed wetting now. I like your videos. Keep working at it. You got it.

Is everything ok?

Don't think I would be satisfied with a 50% reduction of symptoms, I'd be asking my doctor about using botox inconjuction with the OAB device, I am not keen on taking medications, because of side effects.

To recharge Axionics one can either wear a belt, or use an adhesive disc, to recharge it, if one does not wish to use the belt method. At least that is my understanding of what I read. I intend having Axionics rechargable method, which means I need to be referred to a different provider by my Urologist, because she is only a provider for Intrastim. I also wish to have both procedures done under Gen. Anesthetic, because I nolonger, trust a doctor to do it under local anesthesia, after reading horror stories of patients saying the doctor injected local anesthetic, and came back to the patient when the local anesthetic had worn off, and not just one patient is saying that. Also, after reseaching, I tend to believe Axonics remote is simpler to use, and patients say it provides results that are more satisfactory than Intrastim, according to an Axionics study of patients who had both.

Well, if I had a 100% improvement in my condition, I would be over the moon with joy! Imagine what a difference in quality of life that would be. I am going with Axonics. The only issue I am now dealing with is getting a referral to a Urologist who uses Axonics for her patients. Where patients rated the care they received from her, some are much less than encouraging, even though she is an Assistant Professor. I am going to meet her in person to decide for myself. I wish there was a comparison chart of the two technologies Intrastim vs. Axonics to make comparison easier. One's relationship with one's Urologist is also important to me. I am in a quandry, because my wonderful Oncologist ref. me to a Urologist who only prescribes Intrastim, which means I will need to change to a different provider. Thank you for your videos, I am finding this one particularly helpful. And, it is good to know that Axonics staff were so quick to reach out to you. I also wish it was easier to educate oneself about the choices one is about to make. Making information in writing available would make things easier to read and re-read, and share with family and/or friends. I talked to Ben at Axionics and found him patient in listening to my questions, and genuine in his approach to answering them. I hope their patient service continues , on a pleasant footing, once the device is implanted. I would also like to have the names of more than just one doctor who installs Axonics in my area, so that I could have the opportunity to decide which one I felt the most comfortable with. I am also wondering about the amount of pain that is involved at the appointment when the leads are inserted under local anesthetic. Sorry to say, experience has taught me that with the exclusion of my wonderful Oncologist, the medical profession is not always as transparent as they could be. At least one KZbinr mentioned that in her case local anesthetic did not work during the procedure, and the pain she felt was pretty horrendous. One could say, " Everyone is different," true, but I am not fond of surprises, I want to know what to expect, so that I can prepare myself.

from what I am reading it mostly works for people with oa and leaky bladder

why do they do a two week or several day trial period if you may not get results for 6 months or more? I just dont get that! How do you know to take it out during the trial or wait six months with a perm implant hoping it will work?

Just discovered your channel, and glad you're sharing. Not really sure why I discovered your channel, but it's good to hear. And honestly while our incontence issues are "minor" it's nice to hear that people are at least finding community.

I struggl with bedwetting since im like 12-13, and i personally never was accused of beeing a diaper lover or smth like that, when i told someone abt bedwetting. I just notice that people are really discusted of bedwetting/diapers, like they look at me and sometimes go like: "Wait. So you pee yourself?" With a look of discust and then i need to explain, that its not on purpose and if i could stop, i would. But i feel like they dont see it as a medical issue and more like something you do "cuz ur too lazy to get up"... and thats really not fair.

Do you have MS?

Do you wear Goodnites then?

Olivia where are you?..we miss you

I had put that I was a bedwetter on my profile and got so many nasty messages, and not the fun kind of nasty. In my serious relationships it was never a problem, but I am currently single and feel anxious of havjng to reveal my secret to another potential mate.

I am in the trial right now and was questioning the surgery, after I read your video I have decided I'm going through with it. Thank you you have been very informative and the company should be paying you.

When I Travel I Pack SHOWER CURTAINS. I Put Them Under The Sheet When I'm At A Hotel, Or On Cruise. I Usually Tell The Housekeeping Staff What I Do And They Are Appreciative For My Help.

I was bedwetting constantly, almost every night before I started using my BiPap a week ago and I haven't wet the bed every night since then! Words cannot describe how happy I am with the results because it was demoralizing. Back story, I started bed wetting in April 2021 and I had no clue what was causing it until just recently when they diagnosed me with obstructive sleep apnea. I'm glad I found out why and finding out the BiPap not only works for making me sleep longer and not waking up constantly, but it completely stopped my bedwetting. By the way, I also wear the full face mask. :)

I have diabeatis & UTI ?

Sleep apnea is related to bedwetting

I peed in the bed with someone and I want to dieee. I didn’t say anything at the time bc I was so embarrassed, I apologized a while later but I still can’t get over the shame. I feel so bad.

Have you ever tested for liquid volume?

I’m an ABDL and sometimes I have these dreams. I rarely wet the bed when it happens and some of the times I am diapered. But mine, I am in a stall when it happens. I don’t wear all the time though and when I do wet myself, I catch myself. But I have them as well. You’re not the only one

Olivia, haven't seen you for a while. I hope the big, black, nasty hole (AKA depression) hasn't sucked you down. Perhaps the global situation has given the black hole more pulling power. Please post a vid or even a comment to allay worries. Take care of yourself!

Olivia, haven't heard from you for a while. I hope the horrible, big, bad, nasty black hole, AKA depression, hasn't

I love your earrings where did you get them?

Olivia we miss you . where are you

I have 2 children that bed wetting as well as daytime issues. We are going on a 4 day retreat in JULY. Thanks to your video, I know where the coin laundry machine is. The reminder to pack bags and Frebreeze. I don't know what to use as a mattress pad??? At home we have water resistant mattresses. The "chux" pad and diaper doesn't always work.

Were you able to get Axonics?

Thank you 🙏

If you travel to the mall or store do you take a bag of Dipers so you can change

I'm 44 and I have wetting issues I have had times wetting myself before getting into the bath room and I also wet the bed also do you wear Dipers all the time I'm useing the tranquility Dipers and booster pads I would like to talk to you more about stuff

Why do you wear Dipers? Do you wear them in public and how do you go to public places such as the mall and change when you need to you have a nice utube channel

Do you wear Dipers

I agree with you, I am 33 m and been suffering bed-wetting every single night for the past 30 years, it is none stop, went to many doctors and nothing ever worked over two weeks, the longest I went without wetting my bed is six month, due to anti-depressants I started taking due to my ocd, anxiety and depression, I have never spent a night outside my home, I have never had a relationship because I just can't have a wife drowning in my urine every morning, it is mortifying, it should be a disability, and it should not be stigmatized, I honestly have no solution for it but forced dehydration and even that doesn't work all the time ...

Just stumbled across this tonight as I was going through reddit and I saw your name and I remembered the videos you did about bedwetting..I also messaged you a couple of times a few years ago because I still struggled with the issue of it and still struggle with it nightly at 37...so good to see your back..please keep going...its so good to see your videos and know I'm not alone in this ❤