Your story isn’t over yet.
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you are more than your identity
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healing can be painful and lonely
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@grawakendream8980
@grawakendream8980 8 күн бұрын
relate a lot to your words, it's great you're sharing like this
@DVNLYHealing
@DVNLYHealing 8 күн бұрын
I’m glad you can relate! Thanks for watching :)
@alienoverlordsnow1786
@alienoverlordsnow1786 8 күн бұрын
😎❤👍✌💯
@matthewbisso8852
@matthewbisso8852 8 күн бұрын
Hi Aldina-another great video. I liked the points you made about the importance of loving yourself (very important) and cultivating greater awareness about how your ego can sometimes be a hinderance to your progress. I also agree that most of the negative reactions we get from other people is a reflection of their own issues and has nothing to do with us. Finally, I really loved your emphasis on doing what you want regardless of what others may think, which is a huge part of living an authentic life. I hope you are doing well and thank you for posting!
@DVNLYHealing
@DVNLYHealing 8 күн бұрын
I’m glad you liked it! Thank you :)
@PhilosophicalWarrior
@PhilosophicalWarrior 19 күн бұрын
Powerful message. Keep it up.👍🏻
@DVNLYHealing
@DVNLYHealing 18 күн бұрын
Thank you :)
@road.1
@road.1 21 күн бұрын
Every moment is whole and complete. Wasting time is just a thought. :) Do you play guitar and write music? I'd love to hear you play someday :D All the best to you too!
@DVNLYHealing
@DVNLYHealing 21 күн бұрын
I absolutely agree :) I’ve been trying to learn how to play, but it hasn’t been going so great
@road.1
@road.1 20 күн бұрын
@@DVNLYHealing :) I can relate to that. I tried to learn a couple of times years ago and ended giving up. I think I'll try again someday, but with a new strategy. The other times I tried too hard and got tired and gave up. Next time I'll go slowly, like 10 minutes a day, even if I don't see any progress at first, to create a foundation and a habit, effortlessly...:D
@myhseyoum
@myhseyoum 21 күн бұрын
i resonate so much with your journey and energy 🥲 thank you for showing up 💛💚💛
@DVNLYHealing
@DVNLYHealing 21 күн бұрын
Aww I’m so glad, thank you for being here 🤍
@jujusmagicalmoment
@jujusmagicalmoment 21 күн бұрын
amen sister ❤
@potatowithabattleaxe3970
@potatowithabattleaxe3970 22 күн бұрын
Do you have any advise for someone who's in a conflicting situation? As someone with only 1 parent left how can I better explain my boundaries to them? I'm in my early 20s but they're very toxic & I want to have a good family relationship with them. But I can't let what they do & how they act slide. I guess what I'm saying is it really hurts that the only parent I have left is someone I need to separate myself from. Hopefully only temporarily but I'm having some trouble coping with these conflicted feelings. P.S Your time reading this if you do is appreciated.
@DVNLYHealing
@DVNLYHealing 21 күн бұрын
I understand it can be difficult to set boundaries with family, especially when they see you as the person you were before. I’ve learned that saying “I” statements really helps so people don’t feel like they’re being attacked. For example, “I feel very scared and uncomfortable when you raise your voice at me.” A lot of times, people aren’t going to understand your boundaries, and that’s ok. But if it really becomes an issue for you, you have to decide if it’s worth dealing with or if it’s best to distance yourself a little and still have some relationship with them. If you have to lay it all out and explain that you want to have a good relationship but that there needs to be an effort made between both of you, then lay it all out. It’s really tough with family but that doesn’t mean that you have to suffer because they’re blood. Hope that helps a little!
@potatowithabattleaxe3970
@potatowithabattleaxe3970 21 күн бұрын
@@DVNLYHealing Thank you & It did help I just needed an outside view so I appreciate it!
@road.1
@road.1 22 күн бұрын
So great! Thanks for sharing❤
@DVNLYHealing
@DVNLYHealing 21 күн бұрын
Thank you for watching 🫶🏼
@matthewbisso8852
@matthewbisso8852 22 күн бұрын
Well said. I would also point out that it's easy to call out other people and admonish them for feeling a certain way. I will admit I have done this in the past but have gotten better at catching myself, as I don't have the right to tell other people how they should feel in any given situation. But as you pretty much said in your video, everyone's emotional experience is unique and valid for them. I also think that having a positive outlook is a good thing, but it is unrealistic and inauthentic to have positive emotions 24/7, which is why I like that you brought up the issue of toxic positivity. Another great video-thank you for posting!
@DVNLYHealing
@DVNLYHealing 22 күн бұрын
Thank you! Absolutely, I’ve struggled with that too. But, we can’t expect people to feel differently than they do. We can accept people for who they are and what they feel.
@mannyfragoza9652
@mannyfragoza9652 23 күн бұрын
I know this is cliche but all our emotional problems come from the Ego. The Ego is the devil inside (although the Bible doesn't use the term Ego) Ezek. xxxvi. 26), "I will take away the heart of stone out of your flesh and I will give you a heart of flesh." (7.) Joel calls him the hidden one; as it is said (Joel ii. 20), "I will remove far from you the hidden one," i. e., the tempter who remains hidden in the heart of man; "and I will drive him into a land barren and desolate," i. e., where the children of men do not usually dwell; 7 NAMES FOR THE DEVIL The Tempter is known by seven distinctive epithets:--(1.) The Holy One--blessed be He!--calls him evil; as it is said, "For the imagination of man's heart is evil." (2.) Moses calls him uncircumcised; as it is said (Deut. x. 16), "Circumcise therefore the uncircumcised foreskin of your heart." (3.) David calls him unclean; as it is said (Ps. li. 10), "Create in me a clean heart, O God!" Consequently there must be an unclean one. (4.) Solomon calls him enemy; as it is said (Prov. XXV. 21, 22), "If thine enemy hunger, give him bread to eat; if he be thirsty, give him water to drink; for thus thou shalt heap coals of fire upon his head, and the Lord shall reward thee" (i. e., oppose him with the law. The word rendered bread, is metaphorically taken for the law, Prov. ix. 5, so that give him water to drink means also the law, Isa. lv. 1--Rashi. And the Lord reward thee, read not reward, but cause him to make peace with thee, not to war against thee.) (5.) Isaiah calls him stumbling-block; as it is said (Isa. lvii. 14), "Cast ye up, cast ye up, prepare the way, take up the stumbling-block out of the way of my people." (6.) Ezekiel calls him stone; as it is said Ezek. xxxvi. 26), "I will take away the heart of stone out of your flesh and I will give you a heart of flesh. I don't believe you can remove the Ego without help from the All-Powerful God.
@eloquence3354
@eloquence3354 23 күн бұрын
❤❤💜💜
@angelm8921
@angelm8921 23 күн бұрын
Your videos always give me comfort. Thank you. Empty yourself and let the universe fill you ✨️
@DVNLYHealing
@DVNLYHealing 22 күн бұрын
I’m glad I can help in some way, thanks for being here!
@alienoverlordsnow1786
@alienoverlordsnow1786 23 күн бұрын
🙂❤👍✌
@Расулчинит
@Расулчинит 23 күн бұрын
@Расулчинит
@Расулчинит 23 күн бұрын
❤❤❤
@ServantAleksandar
@ServantAleksandar 25 күн бұрын
As always, extremely relatable. Thanks for sharing sharing your wisdom.
@DVNLYHealing
@DVNLYHealing 25 күн бұрын
I’m glad you can relate. Thanks for watching :)
@Gt11369
@Gt11369 27 күн бұрын
To be honest the journey of healing can take a lot of time (if you let it), from my own experience if you want a new reality.....it can't be JUST "About that healing" or "when I heal from that" I'm gonna get this . What I'm trying to say is...Healing is not overnight so don't overthink it, you are healing right now so move on to your reality creation part also things can change for you in seconds . You have to listen to the universe and do what you love and use your mind the right way(imagination), only you have the key to your life not me or anyone else. There are infinite possibilities for you in this life don't worry about it.
@DVNLYHealing
@DVNLYHealing 27 күн бұрын
I completely agree! Life doesn’t just stop when we decide to heal. It’s all about enjoying every part of the journey and not holding ourselves back.
@morninglory8988
@morninglory8988 28 күн бұрын
holy smokes you are very pretty
@DVNLYHealing
@DVNLYHealing 27 күн бұрын
Thank you!
@alienoverlordsnow1786
@alienoverlordsnow1786 29 күн бұрын
Yes, good points, very true! Its a good attitude to remember that everything is always the way that it is supposed to be. Happiness depends on acceptance of what is. Suffering comes from demanding that we always get what we want, and expecting to never get what we dont want! Cheers!
@alienoverlordsnow1786
@alienoverlordsnow1786 29 күн бұрын
😎😎😎❤❤❤👍👍👍
@matthewbisso8852
@matthewbisso8852 29 күн бұрын
Welcome back Aldina! I like where you talked about the non-linearity of life and healing and your insistence on being unapologetically you. I also noticed your guitar in the background-you should play in one of your future videos!
@eloquence3354
@eloquence3354 Ай бұрын
❤❤💙💙
@Humble.Genius1
@Humble.Genius1 Ай бұрын
But I love my ego, my ego is better than yours.
@vonsopas
@vonsopas Ай бұрын
OMG thanks for sharing....once again I am here trying to sort out my emotions since once again I am fricking crushing and hurting for this girl and your sharing really helped me, at least it put me at peace for the moment. I am finding that my pride and my ideas about stuff (relationships, marriage, etc) are being tested and also I don't like to be vulnerable, to be at the mercy of someone who I feel don't give a flyuing fig about my feelings, so I am also terribly mad at her. I feel cheated. Blessings Aldina.
@LionhartM
@LionhartM Ай бұрын
I know how you feel
@RickyOConner
@RickyOConner Ай бұрын
Love your pretty face and eyes ❤❤❤read my text said to you love ❤
@Madhava23
@Madhava23 Ай бұрын
Hey, I've been thinking to quit my job to become an entrepreneur like you and would love to discuss this with you about youtube. Love to hear your response.
@DVNLYHealing
@DVNLYHealing Ай бұрын
Hi, I currently do have a job and just do KZbin for fun on the side! I’m not sure what you would like to discuss but you can always reach out to me on my email :)
@Einheitsbewusstsein
@Einheitsbewusstsein Ай бұрын
Thanks for this divine message❤Everything has it´s time😇✌
@experiencelifelittleone
@experiencelifelittleone Ай бұрын
Im struggling in a environment that is very stressful to me and I hear all sorts of negative things and things people do towards me, but I don’t want to let it stop me. Do you have advice for me?
@DVNLYHealing
@DVNLYHealing Ай бұрын
I’m sorry that you’re struggling :( the first thing I would do is try to get out of the environment that’s negative for you. That’s only if you have the means to do that! It’s hard to heal and grow in the environment that hurt you in the first place. You seem to already have the strength to keep going, which is great! My main advice is to start putting yourself first even if it makes other people uncomfortable. Learn to set boundaries and stand up for yourself. You don’t have to explain yourself to other people and you’re not here to live for others. What is going to make you happy? How can you incorporate the things that make you happy? Start journaling and allow all of your thoughts to flow without judgement. Start doing the things that make you happy everyday and don’t look back. I hope this helps! You can always reach out to me through email if you want to talk about anything in depth :) wishing you all the best!
@experiencelifelittleone
@experiencelifelittleone Ай бұрын
❤❤❤
@experiencelifelittleone
@experiencelifelittleone Ай бұрын
How do you put in the work?
@experiencelifelittleone
@experiencelifelittleone Ай бұрын
It sounds so much like me :( I want some help too
@Roofers-Nail-Hardest
@Roofers-Nail-Hardest Ай бұрын
Women everywhere with thousands of units of Botox are asking God why they can’t have lips like yours 😂
@saulruiz2954
@saulruiz2954 Ай бұрын
You just described one of the thoughts that makes me overthink a lot ( why bad things happens to good people) I fell it comes from what we learned on catechism where they encourages you to behave on life, but as you grow up it seems that it doesnt apply on real life and i cant stop this on my mind. This is the first video i watch on your channel. Thanks.
@lilian9002
@lilian9002 Ай бұрын
I would like to listen to a podcast of yours 😊❤ keep going
@AidanVeritasTheAmazingDeist
@AidanVeritasTheAmazingDeist Ай бұрын
I know I’m going to piss off every modern woman ever, but imagine if you were a virgin for this person: your Ultimate Love. And you gave that to them as a gift on your magical wedding night. It would be 1000X better.
@angelm8921
@angelm8921 Ай бұрын
Empty yourself and let the universe fill you ✨️🤍
@sofiane1unique
@sofiane1unique Ай бұрын
Thank you for this powerful message🎉 Much love 😘
@Duppydrubmusic
@Duppydrubmusic Ай бұрын
I love u
@matthewbisso8852
@matthewbisso8852 Ай бұрын
Right. I take solace in the idea that what is meant for you will be for you. Everyone is gifted certain people, things, ideas and experiences that are uniquely for them.
@horaciomaidana1055
@horaciomaidana1055 Ай бұрын
Y couldn't understand the name of your disease. Y got that is an auto-inmune disorder. I listened carefully, but I coudn't get the words.
@Расулчинит
@Расулчинит Ай бұрын
@alienoverlordsnow1786
@alienoverlordsnow1786 Ай бұрын
😎❤👍👍👍✌
@pawkyyy
@pawkyyy Ай бұрын
thank you
@joseflores38
@joseflores38 Ай бұрын
time heals all "whys" .
@mannyfragoza9652
@mannyfragoza9652 Ай бұрын
It's like going through a labyrinth you think you see the way only to come upon a blockage then you have to find another way. Most of the things I really immersed myself in weren't right for me and a lot of these things I had put my heart and soul into. It's tough to give up stuff you love to do, but God has a way of nudging you in a different direction when he sees it could cause you stress or harm in a way we could not foresee.
@godsway8501
@godsway8501 2 ай бұрын
You are so Beautiful, I love your Energy, 777 views as I’m watching this. Thank you for being you, You are Enough mama and I would die for a shawty like you. Keep glowing Goddess. I know I’m Crimgy but idgaf, it’s Authentic. Love you and stay Blesseed. 😂😁🩵⚡️🤞🏾
@DVNLYHealing
@DVNLYHealing 2 ай бұрын
You’re sweet, thank you 🫶🏼🫶🏼
@santovaldrumachine8391
@santovaldrumachine8391 2 ай бұрын
the voice that is telling you to return to your comfort zone.. i think everybody hear that voice but do we have to follow it?.. i'll speak from personal exp. long ago i had to make an important decision about my job future. After listening to some inspirational music AND some Kobe Bryant quotes (if i am to be literal xD ) i decided to drop out of my comfort zone and believe me when i tell you, it 100% changed my life for the better!! not only i sort of became addicted to not afraid to take chances but i also realized it's rewarding. ofc it's not always like that..we'll sure take some wrong decisions and 'fall down', but if you took the first step in risking, you'll soon realize it's so much easier to 'get back up'.
@Animal12353
@Animal12353 2 ай бұрын
Fuck acceptaaance