I’m curious to know your thoughts on people who like yourself, have their own business and feel as a neurodivergent person that it is part of their identity, how would you sate the two so that somebody is not deviating from invisible rules that you seem to have set out for them? Genuinely curious because I didn’t mean to make you upset when I felt that what I do was relevant to something that you were saying. I don’t know if you’d be willing to get on camera to discuss it with me

I really agree with this. I'm having a hard time finding resources in my area because a lot of resources are specifically catered to children

I hope this video provides some useful information about different aspects of the AuDHD. If you have any questions yourself, feel free to ask me directly!

Depends on the stimming, I guess. I generally call it rage stimming lol because it's stimming but extra

ATLUS games good too

My audhd has affected my relationships by not being understood, being accused of being rude. Being misinterpreted to what we say. People and family didn't want me around. To them I am frustrating to be around. I always felt like Noone gave me the option to understand me. It ruined a lot of my relationships especially with family with my mom & dad which are both gone now so I can't fix our relationship.

Tell me how AuDHD has affected your relationships and if this discussion has helped you.

It was a kind of masking. Trying to do what you thought society expected. I had a similar experience growing up without guidance and trying to fit in with people I didn't fit in with.

I really enjoyed this conversation and while it did deviate from the base idea of overall identity, it did explore some important topics. This was a pretty vulnerable conversation for me because I am openly talking about a lot of the past behaviors I had to deconstruct and address. It hasn't been an easy journey and I had to really look inward to make changes and be accountable for who I used to be.

Missed the stream on twitch, so glad you posted this on yt!

Hope you enjoy this breakdown of RSD! Did you find this conversation helpful? What kind of topics would you like to be broken down like this in the future?

I don't like change! Great points though

Interesting! Also, interesting choice to have you in the left channel and Spaz in both, almost has the Perception you are being Rejected

I started putting mail directly in the recycle bin from the mailbox. Unless I can tell it's a check or a document I need to prepare my tax return. Ironically, right before I saw this video, I commented on a video that I went two years with untreated sleep apnea because the doctor who ordered the sleep study told me I didn't have sleep apnea...until I found the report from the sleep lab, in the bottom of a stack of mail I was too tired to open, thanks to waking up 30 times per hour and not breathing while I'm asleep.

LOL I love this so much! And your reaction just makes it better!

Noooooo! I have 4 bills and something for student loans in there, I'm scared!

Lol ded

huh?

No!

Thank you for the reminder

Hahaha, no, I have a microwave box full. I don't want to

N-no...YOU CAN'T MAKE ME!

Fight the Ableism! Love the dramatic music - it felt like you were going to have fireworks or something at the end 🎉

😂😂😂😂😂

"Rose petal lenses" don't have actual rose petals on them

This is very true. It is sometimes difficult to find the happy medium between self care and self coddling ... having said that, I don't know how many times I've also lacked self care to prevent self coddling. It's hard to get in a good place but you've alao gotta surround yourself around the right people

Community has made a big difference and has helped me grow. Thank you for that and thank you for your time and energy in these videos to help

Unmasking is hard and terrifying in the beginning, but it might be the best thing I ever did for myself

This is very true

I am terrified of giving criticism since I feel like a dick doing it, but I would like to be criticised if I was being a jerk. Same thing with coworkers. Its arguable that our political landcape is the way it is becuase people can't give constructive criticism, and instead do mudslinging.

Yes, 100%...would you be able to do one about how we can safely bring up say an issue with friends' videos? (Eg: we are not comfortable with what they said or did. How we could talk to them healthierly). It's totally fine if can not

Thank you so much for the videos you do!

Thank you! I'm still working on it!

You have to remember you are an awesome human being, and not to only judge yourself by what you do. You are perfect just the way you are, your work doesn't need to be.❤

I totally understand this. I asked my GP about an ADHD assessment and he was so passive aggressive about it and even did the test as well to prove it wasn't a big deal. Luckily I've recently gone back and asked about an autism assessment and I saw a different GP and he was amazing and totally understood where I was coming from. It's just total luck about who you speak to. I've found the younger doctors to be a bit more understanding because neuro diversity doesn't exist for the boomer generation 😂

😂😂 lmao

That's funny cause I'm autistic and that's definitely relatable! 😂😂😂❤

Love this😅

No lies detected

Thank you Druid! I love the no shame piece since today I threw out pieces of projects I felt guilty not getting to and it felt great!

Thank you for the information on this

Chef’s kiss

Kleptomaniacs also take things literally

Fellow autist here

😂

You are being introspective about being introspective, introspection squared!

Why these people think the public needs to know/care/sympathize with their snowflake issues is beyond me. Some people have sick family members and don’t put videos out looking for likes or sympathy. Social media is pathetic.

Or public display of affection

Okay with this description I realise that I probably am pda. I have had many accounts where I have been stressed out with how many instructions someone has given me and decided “you know what, I’m in control. I’m just gonna go on a walk”. It’s not that I can’t complete the task or I don’t want to complete the task, I just get this weird frustration when someone tries to order me, especially when they give me orders one after another rather than all at once (likely since it takes away from my knowledge of my schedule which is a part of my autonomy.)

People just making shit up. I’m a high functioning person with autisum with papers to prove it and can say this is full of shit coming from someone who is autistic