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@pancitoconpaltar 6 минут бұрын
We love you guys hence why we prefer listening to you talk rather than a preach of someone who’s not relatable at all 🤷🏻♀️
@ZazaLynn 50 минут бұрын
I don’t think her “let them” theory is as revelatory as Mel thinks. Jordana and Jared made a lot of good points and Mel dismissed them. I’d take advice from J and J over Mel any day
@alainajacobs7838 Сағат бұрын
Having flashbacks of the awful Nancy Jo episode. Very tough to get through. J&J tried several times to prompt a thoughtful discussion but Nancy Jr only wanted to hear herself talk and refused to have her “advice” compared to other similar ideas.
@ZazaLynn 57 минут бұрын
Totally. She’s got a very know-it-all mentality. It wasn’t a discussion
@pancitoconpaltar 5 минут бұрын
@@ZazaLynnright?! Felt like a preacher
@djestouff 2 сағат бұрын
Lol Jared and Jordana were clearly exhausted by this guest
@ZazaLynn 57 минут бұрын
Me too
@Xbonales1843 19 сағат бұрын
Jordana’s sigh was all of us 😂1:00:02
@tenzintseringg Күн бұрын
laughing at a woman’s pain is not a cute look… she dodged a bullet and the downplaying of his actions by you guys is not it.
@SueD.-rx7jl Күн бұрын
Sounds like the guy was giving her some options. She sounds incredibly difficult.
@gabagoolybababooey Күн бұрын
DX hat on point
@TommyHarkin Күн бұрын
29:00 Honestly sounds like the guy was just trying to come up with fun date ideas. In my dating days I used to see lots of profiles that say "don't just ask me for a drink." Museum sounds lovely to me, especially for a non-drinker. The caller sounds totally rude and could just pick the bar he suggested if that's what she is into.
@A.shiekdon Күн бұрын
I know right, people that put in the effort are dogged on….. it’s like what do you want?
@chelseagraham9484 2 күн бұрын
We’re still judging people by their COVID vaccination status lol. Cool!
@A.shiekdon Күн бұрын
It’s wild 😂
@chelseagraham9484 Күн бұрын
truly 😅🤯
@Hrbb1 Күн бұрын
Wow, I am so not on the same page. I heard the writer asking about how to set a boundary. She wasn’t judging this person, she was saying “that’s not for me.” We don’t know anything about her health status or values, or why that matters to her. I thought J and J didn’t really read/understand her question. She wasn’t asking them to judge the worthiness of her boundaries, she was asking how/when to express you’ve realized you’re not a match, when you find things out before a first date. Also yes! It’s a turn off for people to continue to be unvaccinated. The entire reason Covid is chiller now is bc enough people got vaccinated. This is an ongoing issue, Covid itself hasn’t changed - it is a public health issue that has to be managed in an ongoing way, just like polio or the flu.
@Hrbb1 Күн бұрын
*I guess I should say it is a valid turn off for many people, tho also totally fair if it isn’t a turnoff or boundary for you (or J and J). It would be a boundary for me, for example - I was a community healthcare worker throughout the pandemic working with vulnerable populations, and am now a therapist.
@esikazemese 3 күн бұрын
I mean, mind you my boyfriend has 3 hoodies and two pairs of jeans, that's pretty much his wardrobe and still has one knit to wear for occasions - like our first date, which was at my house :D But still, if the date is fun I wouldn't care if he shows up in a hoodie :D Just buy him a nice knit later :P
@winterwaffle16 3 күн бұрын
Great episode! Love Logan! I've been waiting to hear from her again!
@littlebeebs1 3 күн бұрын
I didn’t like Stephen or Monica from the get go . Stephen was way too agreeable from the start . I knew he was hiding something immediately! I’m so glad that I can see through people. But when I was younger, I might have fallen for his crap . The way he brought up sex constantly in the wrong context . I think the fetishes were butt stuff . For sure . Cuz he even alluded to that because he tried to claim that his conversation the night before with Monica had something to do with him sexting that woman . He’d begged for anal that night. She’d told him not til marriage. Eew . He was lucky she’d even entertain anal . But I’m a prude compared to today’s people. Exit only for me . Anyway, I think he’s a sex addict for sure ! 😂
@littlebeebs1 3 күн бұрын
Had I encountered Leo in the pod , I’d have called him oh his bullshit 😂
@littlebeebs1 3 күн бұрын
Leo was boring as hell . And his lack of looks made Brittany cringe . It was entertaining and I’d have loved to watch more of the train wreck 🤣. He talked about nothing but himself and his money . 😂
@littlebeebs1 3 күн бұрын
Loved how Marissa’s mom whispered to Katie and said , “ She made you feel like shit for a year !” , regarding how Hannah had made her feel like crap for a year over flirting with Nick 🤣🤣
@littlebeebs1 3 күн бұрын
Nick n Vanessa are dorks 😂
@littlebeebs1 3 күн бұрын
I think that Tim may be like I have been before. I think because I feel a certain way about things or that I’d never nap while my in laws were around, I feel like I shouldn’t have to tell that person not to nap when my family came so far to see them . Plus , he was looking for an excuse.
@littlebeebs1 3 күн бұрын
Tim made himself seem so wonderful with that letter to Alex’s dad ! It blows my mind that a guy that seems so sincere and eloquent with words could be that same guy who runs away over the slightest argument. I think maybe he was looking for a reason to break up with Alex . She was kinda dry and boring in my opinion. She kept getting mad at him for goofing around and talking sweet about his dawg. I thought the dawg thing was cute ! He did it in the pods too . Why was it such an issue afterwards? She harshed his mellow too much and always had a sour expression on her face . Not sure if I’m the only one who noticed that .
@kumite2787 3 күн бұрын
Definitely understand @jaredfreid saying that the only thing that can ruin his life is a woman. A bad relationship can easily take someone’s comparatively good and fulfilling life and trash it. I don’t blame people who are actually pleased with what they built being a bit guarded about who to allow near it, but I hope they trust that built a life that can resist some low-level shit before cutting it off entirely.
@esikazemese 3 күн бұрын
I am with Jordana, let's keep dating personal! Please normalize saying what we are looking for and also normalize understanding that it might not be us! But don't say "I don't know", "we will see", that is the biggest turnoff after the age of 30.
@ningyding 4 күн бұрын
Dubious that Jared is a catch… he sounds like a toxic player.
@jaredfreid 4 күн бұрын
I’m going to start selling “Toxic Player” merch.
@ningyding 4 күн бұрын
@@jaredfreidI’ll buy
@invertir34 4 күн бұрын
Love Logan. She's a huge addition to this pod.
@emilyduitsman7233 5 күн бұрын
love to see ramit again! i love his podcast and content. it changed my financial life!!!
@shani1928 5 күн бұрын
Before I even start listening: Jordana, where did you get that gorgeous jacket/blazer?? 😮😮
@91frankthetank 6 күн бұрын
Ok folks, I'm not an expert, but I have dated an avoidant. I DO NOT RECOMMEND. you will need the hospital afterwards. Break it off. Save yourselves.
@nickch_80 6 күн бұрын
Logan is the best! F_ck the spark should be Hinges slogan
@GarrettLexell 6 күн бұрын
I’m slowly aging into an LAT!
@Forgan_Mreeman 6 күн бұрын
people sleepin on this podcast 🔥🔥
@karagillis5739 6 күн бұрын
Logan - you are looking incredible! Congrats on the show!
@SL-xk5pd 6 күн бұрын
Fwiw, maybe encourage people to identify themselves geographically. Because 45 in rural NC versus NYC, like your dating pool really can’t be the same. People are really out here in their mid to late thirties being grandparents 🫠 So the emailer really may be facing ‘an older dating pool’.
@carolynmayhew4878 6 күн бұрын
*subscribes immediately*
@brightsidegirl 6 күн бұрын
LOVE this i really enjoyed later daters and was wishing J&J would do a recap because i thought jared wouldve had some hilarious takes and jordanna as well. I reall like Logan. Subscribing for sure ❤❤
@annadancen127 6 күн бұрын
100% agree and fun idea re: the recap!
@AllisonIntheCity 6 күн бұрын
Love Logan so much. 'How to Not Die Alone' is one of the best dating books I've read. Jared, I don't know what to think about you anymore - You've gone back and forth on this podcast and your podcast about wanting or not wanting a relationship. I think you need to also ask yourself what you could bring to a relationship - maybe in therapy?! - before you start dating someone seriously.
@SL-xk5pd 6 күн бұрын
I hear this take and don’t disagree re the flip flopping from Jared but I don’t think he needs to wait. Just be authentic about what you feel when you’re feeling it, no one is perfect, so honesty is all anyone can really demand.
@AllisonIntheCity 6 күн бұрын
@@SL-xk5pd Right now he's thinking about a relationship in a totally selfish way though. 'I need a relationship' to keep him on track and maybe help him drink less. Come on, what is he bringing to the table? He doesn't need to be perfect before he starts dating, but being aware of what you bring to a relationship when you start dating makes you a better partner.
@annadancen127 6 күн бұрын
I came to the comments to say as little as 4 words (lately Jared feels off) and I'd agree with your take as well
@SL-xk5pd 6 күн бұрын
@@AllisonIntheCity I don’t listen to his solo podcast so I’m sure there’s more you and others have observed about his attitude than I have been exposed to just listening here, but he’s only months away from a milestone birthday and been going into a time of year (holidays) when a lot of people get weird or depressed. I’d almost expect him to be on the precipice of some crisis and be a little off accordingly, but I’m no therapist. I’d guess some of the things you raise may even be voiced by this guest in that benefits episode lol. Anyway, being of a similar age and also un-partnered, I appreciate the perspective he brings. Sometimes I think he reads a whole lot more into emails than exists (like the person said ‘older’ not ‘old’ but whatevs) and that’s a bit annoying but sometimes it’s also helpful as it can make the discourse more broadly relevant.
@NSN749 6 күн бұрын
Fantastic episode. I love hearing Logan on the pod. I might just have to finally become a benefits subscriber just to hear Jared’s intervention 😂❤
@laurag7530 6 күн бұрын
Haven't finished yet but just had to say Jordana looks extra gorgeous 🔥
@amberzable5608 7 күн бұрын
Jared I totally get you and feel you are completely genuine. It’s why I was lured to this podcast. Thank you for your candor and honesty. Jordana you are such a good friend! Happy new year to you both
@Southside2825 7 күн бұрын
Wtf is that poem lol
@essidoesit 7 күн бұрын
Please come to Tampa! I'll bring friendss
@gonurseyourself__ 7 күн бұрын
I second this ❤
@MissMal92 8 күн бұрын
❤ I love Dr. Drew. I'm his childrens' age. Absent father; I admire him, his wisdom, knowledge and huge heart. 🥲
@shani1928 8 күн бұрын
Vision boards came after "Lucky Girl Syndrome" was drained. Have a good new year 🎉😊
@takethebird 8 күн бұрын
Happy new year J&J and to the whole uup team! I am so grateful for all those hilarious and insightful episodes of 2024! ❤
@cozy_sundays 8 күн бұрын
Hahaha I could never see Jordana and Mike doing a vision board together. I would totally do a vision board with my partner. I feel like that would be so fun though. But I’m really big on resolutions and mood boards and stuff. My boyfriend is whatever about it, he would do it if I made him hahaha but we didn’t end up doing it. I def would want it to be individual though! Interesting you guys didn’t think it was a fun idea. lol makes me think about it deeper
@cozy_sundays 8 күн бұрын
Jared - I agree, do what you need to do to make dating comfortable for you. Even if it goes against what the crowd of girls say. Everyone is the villain and someone’s story. And the only way you can find a lover, is if you are completely yourself and do what you need to do to make it a fun experience for you. At the end of the day you’re a good guy. You don’t need to follow the exact good guy recipe to be a good guy, which you already are!
@nicolepineda697 8 күн бұрын
That "older" woman in her mid 40s needs to let age go. You aint dead yet! 😂 Just be you, and what attracts will. I've never dated people my age (early 40s currently) because they have been 4-6 younger than me. I agree with Jared, we shouldn't judge age.
@esikazemese 3 күн бұрын
Except when it's a very unhealthy / unbalanced age gap. Let's keep judging those.
@jaredfreid 9 күн бұрын
A great way to start the year!!!
@samsl3497 9 күн бұрын
If every red flag/dealbreaker is asking what is wrong with men,I wonder what’s the gender split with this podcast’s listeners. I always thought it pretty evenly divided.
@the_modern_victorian 9 күн бұрын
Jordana, tell Jared that if he wants a PITA, she’s gonna take a minute to get her coat on! 💅🏼 😂
@shani1928 10 күн бұрын
There's Margot Robbie, so I guess there're lots of babies named Margot now. I know onw more Jordana, she's also a Jew (Canadian), but in Israel we have Yardena, which is the Hebrew equivelent to Jordana (feminine Jordan). That's a pretty common Boomers' name.
@taiinajordan7059 12 күн бұрын
Jordana’s facial reactions to Jared’s poem were everything 😂