Is It Romantic Or Creepy To Track Down An Old Match? || U Up? Podcast || Ep. 602

[@Eggg977]

The “somber music” had me laughing, would love more bits like that in future episodes 😂

[@daniellepaleafico3392]

Am I in the minority that I thought the last email was completely unhinged?! Asking other girls for that guys number after one interaction seems insane. If someone did this to me, I’d run.

[@mirandah6348]

That's what I was thinking! Maybe we have different standards for what's creepy for a man vs. a woman to do. As a woman, I'd be terrified if a man went to those lengths to track down my number. It also sounds like this guy did the bare minimum to be nice, and now she has completely romanticized him.

[@Southside2825]

It def was weird AF. Did they go on a date or was it just messaging on bumble??? If there wasn’t a date it’s def unhinged behavior. And Jared encouraging it like “men don’t care” it was lack off self awareness on all sides.

[@esikazemese]

It is totally creepy.

[@jpolancoj]

I would be more turned off by being ghosted than having her search for me on Facebook. But that’s just me. 🤷🏾‍♂️

[@esikazemese]

Absolutely! She didn't watch the movie " He is just not that into you".

[@badbeginnings101]

JARED!!! You’re a freaking Pisces? That explains so much 😂 coming from a Pisces lol

[@uuppodcast]

he gets this a lot 😂

[@mmmwendy]

😂 pls share what this explains!! - a Scorpio

[@cozy_sundays]

I feel the coasting thing too Jared. I think it’s a mid-late 30s thing! Like life is good. Maybe enjoy the chillness and plan for something.…

[@gonurseyourself__]

I’ve been listening religiously for 6 months and never heard an email i relate so hard to !! I almost felt like I could’ve made that girls music video myself, with a few big details changed. Like my ex was legally still my husband when I uprooted my life from chicago to TN for him, only to have him dump me & hand me divorce papers 3 months later. It was oddly therapeutic to listen to this episode 😂❤Love you guys !!

[@esikazemese]

It's insane to me how many women are worried before even going out with a guy - how to let them down gently if this doesn't work. Meanwhile guys: yes, I am okay to risk all your finances and career even tho I am not even sure I want to be in a relationship anymore. But good take, women need to be a lot more confident communicating what they want in the relationship as the time passes, but they grew up being told "don't be needy, noone will date you" ...

[@esikazemese]

Someone who knows what Prada is not knowing what Mango is is just ridiculous :D

[@chrispytinita]

Love y’all

[@poochieshomeplanet1649]

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