@@neilaleksandrov2655 Colorado, near Telluride! Epic place to visit for sure!
@neilaleksandrov26554 күн бұрын
@ blessed place
@robertphillips937 күн бұрын
Good discussion and review -- thanks! Got mine through an official Kovea distributor here in California. Did get a sale price off of what was likely a slightly higher original markup (a pretty common experience), but the customer service is worth something more than just peace of mind sometimes! I like the product very much, but there is one thing about butane fuel that users should be wary of -- even though I haven't had to experience this with the Kovea. From my backpacking days, a cold cannister of fuel would sometimes produce an unexpected flareup before preignition fuel flow is established after a short period of operation. Put simply, liquid butane doesn't behave like the gaseous version -- you can easily singe your eyebrows, or the curtains! In extreme cold it might be a good idea to pop the cannister into a sock at the bottom of your sleeping bag so there's no surprises in the morning . . .
@freereinveterans5 күн бұрын
@@robertphillips93 Thanks for the comment and the helpful tip! 🙏🏽 Glad you’re enjoying the heater so far and I hope it keeps working well for ya on all of your adventures 🤠.
@MS-ih8tg18 күн бұрын
Did 12 naval officer. Didn't resign my commission. IRR indef works for me
@freereinveterans16 күн бұрын
@@MS-ih8tg I’m still in it right now and just got promoted to O-4 last year. Still totally bizarre to me since I did nothing, no board packet, no DA photo, nothing. And I’m almost to the stage where I’ll start actively looking for IMA positions in the reserves. IRR has kept my options open. So far so good!
@Patrick_Medina24 күн бұрын
I can't wait to collect my honorable in a few weeks after 4.5 years in the Army. Being in the military makes me want to snap my own neck. If I hadn't signed an Option 40 when I first joined, I'd have been out a year and a half ago.
@FilamNation29 күн бұрын
take showers at the gym on base
@freereinveterans25 күн бұрын
@@FilamNation yup, a great benefit of having the ID card for sure.
@vi498Ай бұрын
Does anyone has a problem were the mechanism inside won’t rotate to secure canister into place ?
@workingfolkАй бұрын
Yep, research tells me that it's not uncommon. Just got one off Ebay and the canister won't turn a lick. It's going back to the seller on the slow boat to Korea. Also, the instructions included were written in Korean which, like a fool, I didn't study in school. I took another chance and ordered one of the few on Amazon. Easier to return if that one is also a dud. Edited: Somehow, my replies keep disappearing. vi498's follow-up post cleared up a lot of confusion and shows that the first one I received was not defective as I thought. When the canister would not turn and lock, I did not dare to ignite it. After seeing that post I took it outside and gave it a try and it worked beautifully. I now have two of these, since I ordered another, but not from Korea,. The second does not have the magnet but has the turn and lock function. That locking function inspires more confidence, but I'm not too worried about the longevity of magnet one. After a brief search, Mr. Googlepants tells me that while permanent magnets can lose some magnetivity under certain conditions, time is not one of them. Nor is normal use. Not sure if I'll just keep both or sell one, but now I'm glad I hadn't gotten around to returning it.
@freereinveteransАй бұрын
@@vi498 Damn, sorry to hear you’re having that problem. Good information to know, thanks for leaving it in the comments.
@vi49826 күн бұрын
so thank you guys for feedback,after a lot of reserch specifically on chat gpt it looks like the company has made two different versions of kovea cupid. one has the push and rotate mechanism to lock canister into place like you are watching in most of youtube videos and the other has a magnetic type were you just have to push the canister gently on the magnet. wish i knew that before purchasing this product only because magnets usually getting weaker over time. overall quality product and poor awareness due to the fact is a korean company and not too many informations online
@workingfolk25 күн бұрын
@@vi498 Well, you've cleared up a lot of confusion. Thank you. I wish the company had been responsive to my two requests to send the instructions in English. When the canister would not turn, I did not dare try turning it on. After reading your post, I took it outside and and tried it and it worked great. Now I have two of these heaters as I took a chance and ordered another off Amazon. The second one lacks the magnet and the canister turns as we expected. That locking method inspires more confidence in me than the magnetic connection but I'm not overly concerned with the magnet becoming weaker. (Mr. Googlepants tells me a permanent magnet shouldn't become noticeably weaker under normal conditions. Certain factors can cause a weakening, but time doesn't seem to be one of them.) Not sure if I'll just keep the magnet model or sell it. I hadn't shipped it back and now I'm not going to.
@freereinveterans25 күн бұрын
@ Ugh, well that’s unfortunate but I’m glad you figured it out. I wonder if the model I have is the “older” version or something and the magnet was meant to be an upgraded design. I wish I could go out and take a look at the heater and manual, but I currently don’t have access to it. Anyway, sorry to hear it’s not worked out for you!
@M.W-t8iАй бұрын
I saw this video when it first came out. Now having experienced many of the things you mentioned, rewatching it resonates that much more. I hope you are doing well and havent had any regret for the decision to get out.
@freereinveterans29 күн бұрын
@@M.W-t8i Hey man, thanks for leaving a comment, and glad (also sad) to hear you could relate. Just curious, when you first saw the vid, were you on the front end of joining the military? Yep, I’m still out here living free, although in a much busier season of life. Looking forward to getting back on here more. Hope all is well with you too 🙏🏽
@M.W-t8i29 күн бұрын
@freereinveterans I appreciate the reply and Im glad to hear you are well 👍 I was just starting off when I saw this video and was very naive (probably like most). Im thankful for the experiences I have had so far, but am set on doing my seven years and moving on to something else
@freereinveterans25 күн бұрын
@ That’s basically the same conclusion I came away with 🙏🏽
@wolfgangromine8341Ай бұрын
I'm not military (though I've been thinking of joining) and its interesting to hear so many complaints that I feel apply to regular civilian jobs: No meaning in daily work, burnout, mental health issues, long hours, bad management, having great friends that quit and you never see them again. Just my perspective but it feels to me that work itself always sucks, doesn't matter where it is, we just all have a case of grass-is-greener thinking there's got to be a way out of this misery. Maybe there's a job out there that allows a great life, I haven't found it yet.
@freereinveterans29 күн бұрын
@@wolfgangromine8341 Totally valid points… and it’s always scary to hear how similar some of the problems are in different sectors. There’s no escaping it. One thing I’d say about the military is that those problems may be amplified by the fact that military owns your ass 24/7. So I think there’s more potential for some of those problems to impact your life in a much more pervasive way. Obviously there are other jobs and civilians professions that could do the same, I’m just speaking generally. But ya man, I hear you. I don’t know that anyone’s work or job can completely fill that void. Perhaps for a very small percentage of people. Most people in the world are trying to provide for their families.
@freereinveterans29 күн бұрын
@@wolfgangromine8341 And I wouldn’t let this video deter you from joining, I think it’s just good to know what you’re getting into, but there are so many interesting off-the-beaten-path ways to serve that work for you and your family, it’s just a matter of finding the right fit. Wishing you the best 🙏🏽
@MaacAbraАй бұрын
Wonderful! 😍✌️
@Changeyourlif3Ай бұрын
love it how raw this, its surreal to me how amazing it is to be a civilian. To leave on a good note I have 4 more years left which is a good chunk of time and i’m not saying it’s all that bad but I will never forget the nutrition, freedom, fitness, ext that I had and still somewhat experience as a regular human. I’m subscribed now keep being awesome your beautiful
@freereinveterans29 күн бұрын
@@Changeyourlif3 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽 Wishing you the best in your last four years and thanks for the support!
@Changeyourlif3Ай бұрын
I love how smart and beautiful you are
@freereinveterans29 күн бұрын
@@Changeyourlif3 Thanks for the love 🙏🏽
@tim8468Ай бұрын
This should be required viewing for anybody wanting to join the military, but especially the Army. Everything this soldier says is 100% true and is presented objectively and plainly and would help anybody avoid the ever so many pit falls that we often find out too late after enlisting and signing up for things. Keep up the good work and keep them informed.
@freereinveteransАй бұрын
@@tim8468 Hey Tim, appreciate the support and kind words. We’ll keep doing our best. Hope life is treating you well and best wishes to you!
@motovate12552 ай бұрын
Thank you for this!
@freereinveterans2 ай бұрын
@@motovate1255 Thanks for watching!
@kaiwenhe55182 ай бұрын
I don't know why KZbin pushed this to me. I just turned in my gears......
@freereinveterans2 ай бұрын
@@kaiwenhe5518 best wishes as you go on terminal leave
@truckerdan20022 ай бұрын
Ok I’ll say this it was around 10 years on active duty. I finally got a really good chain of command. And I was loving it. After the new commander came in thank god I was ETSing to Fort Hood.. and right back into any other shitty unit. It’s been 15 years and most of my career I have been fighting being over weight. So I got out due to I was done fighting. It had its toll on me. Mentally,physical and emotionally…..
@freereinveterans2 ай бұрын
@@truckerdan2002 hope you’re finding your way on the outside and your health is doing better.
@truckerdan2002Ай бұрын
@@freereinveterans I am doing ok I guess. I miss the military at times. Hope you are doing good as well
@freereinveterans29 күн бұрын
@@truckerdan2002 I find myself missing people and camaraderie, but not the bullshit. I think that’s why it seems a lot of people try to find ways to build community and camaraderie in other ways on the outside.
@BHeyUSA2 ай бұрын
It’s sad to see that the recruiting & retention dilemma is self-inflicted. Thank you for your service!! I hope you are enjoying your time as a full time civilian 🇺🇸❤️. 91B here as well..
@freereinveterans2 ай бұрын
@@BHeyUSA appreciate it! And yes, I agree it’s sad… thanks for your service and best wishes.
@BHeyUSA2 ай бұрын
@@freereinveterans thank you!
@t.r.stephens75472 ай бұрын
She sill on FTX.
@t.r.stephens75472 ай бұрын
Military is the best job you can get.Best benefit and retirement package. Got me off the streets back in the 80s when crack cocaine destroyed my community and stayed in for over 25 years. Actually enjoyed deployments to Iraq and Afghanistan and Desert Storm best damn job I ever had. Met my wife in Germany had 3 kids all who have graduated from college debt free thanks to my GI bill. Joined the army with a GED but now have a master’s degree in mental health. Retirement and disability checks, free health care for life for me and my spouse. What’s to complain about. I just think this generation has seen the real struggle and I feel a lot of the people who are so anxious to get out will probably do no better as a civilian. I am 55 years old but look much younger due to all of the physical activities and good lifestyle. Yet I understand that the military is not for everyone but it definitely was for me❤ Actually miss it and would gladly do it again if I had to. Certainly miss my brothers in arms and kicking ass world wide HOAH! Suppose you can be happy living out of a van in the woods, but some of us have families to feed.
@freereinveterans2 ай бұрын
@@t.r.stephens7547 love to see it! glad things worked out for you and for some it ends up being a great fit, like you said.
@t.r.stephens75472 ай бұрын
Military is the best job you can get.Best benefit and retirement package. Got me off the streets back in the 80s when crack cocaine destroyed my community and stayed in for over 25 years. Actually enjoyed deployments to Iraq and Afghanistan and Desert Storm best damn job I ever had. Met my wife in Germany had 3 kids all who have graduated from college debt free thanks to my GI bill. Joined the army with a GED but now have a master’s degree in mental health. Retirement and disability checks, free health care for life for me and my spouse. What’s to complain about. I just think this generation has seen the real struggle and I feel a lot of the people who are so anxious to get out will probably do no better as a civilian. I am 55 years old but look much younger due to all of the physical activities and good lifestyle. Yet I understand that the military is not for everyone but it definitely was for me❤ Actually miss it and would gladly do it again if I had to. Certainly miss my brothers in arms and kicking ass world wide HOAH!
@t.r.stephens75472 ай бұрын
ARMY best damn job I ever had!
@Isaiahsenders17882 ай бұрын
Your a very beautiful woman I see peace and life in you ♥️
@Master11d2 ай бұрын
How old were you when you joined ?
@freereinveterans2 ай бұрын
@@Master11d 18 years old!
@lifelight78212 ай бұрын
I wanna do tht stuff. 😅😅
@reverend20piece2 ай бұрын
💯👍
@freereinveterans2 ай бұрын
thanks for following along!
@reverend20piece2 ай бұрын
@@freereinveterans Yeah, this old ass 1SG knows there's a better way to live. I appreciate what y'all do, showing us de wey..! 😉👍
@sophiehilaire2 ай бұрын
Freeeeeee bird! 🦅
@freereinveterans2 ай бұрын
the only way to be!
@trapbois45732 ай бұрын
Before joining the guard I had a plan, I already did tons of research and planned out 80% of the next 6 years. The 20% was really the unknown that I couldn’t plan for. My final year of college was also when I ets’ed from the guard and then I got quite a lucrative job before graduating. I just used the military as a stepping stone to provide me some life experience but that being said I definitely would not go back. I do believe most people who stay in “need” the military. Many people also stay in because civilians tell them randomly they wished they had joined when they were younger and so those who joined are really lucky. Others have this fear that they can’t adapt to the civilian world. The civilian world honestly is not that bad, it does take a little more effort but the opportunities are much greater for success and a healthy life.
@freereinveterans2 ай бұрын
@@trapbois4573 agreed on a lot of what you said and I’m glad it’s worked out for you! Hope life is treating you well.
@poglifeactual79362 ай бұрын
GRADSO sounds good for people who want to make the Army a career. I spent 9 years in the Marine Corps, then I got out in 2018 and joined the Army in 2020. It has its ups and downs, but overall, I've enjoyed my time in the Army. When I came back in, I had the intention of retiring. What I will say, is that I do enjoy what the Army has provided me, but I also understand some people do get shafted, and its not for every one. You earned yourself a sub. Also, I will say, that I am a SSG that works at a Regimental level right now. I have a bachelors and I did think about going the commissioned route, but when I considered it, I had too much time in service. Now, based on what I know, what I've observed, I respect officers, but I am glad I am enlisted. I do find fulfillment in what I do.
@sophiehilaire2 ай бұрын
Wheeeee let’s get more vets outdoors and finding purpose in new ways! 💪🦅
@somoza23073 ай бұрын
I regret on going to BT minutes before leaving MEPS, Best decision ever! That was 13 years ago!
@Paul-uw7us3 ай бұрын
I got out in 1980. It sucked back then.
@freereinveterans3 ай бұрын
@@Paul-uw7us Fortunately, we have access to so many more resources now than back when you got out… but it still seems to be a struggle for many.
@sophiehilaire3 ай бұрын
Woohoooo let’s go! We freeeee 🦅
@kelvingutierrez41983 ай бұрын
Thats the only thing keeping me from joining the army, the time is alot people say 4 years is not alot but it is life is too short, you can't leave, and your not in control of your life
@freereinveterans3 ай бұрын
@@kelvingutierrez4198 That’s all true. At the same time, I can’t say I regret anything and I’m very thankful for how things I’ve turned out. It was just time for me to go. I think many other people in the military would say the same thing. But it totally depends on the person and their situation.
@ivanabreuluciano3 ай бұрын
I definitely was ready to go. I also planned it and made sure we as a family were ready. My wife left first, two years later I left. I think it’s smart for service members to look at their long term goals and start planning towards them early. The military gives you the safety net of doing so. Start now, and even if you think you’ll stay in, have a plan just in case things change overnight, because sometimes they do.
@freereinveterans3 ай бұрын
@@ivanabreuluciano 100% man. Glad it’s worked out for you guys and you were able to make a solid plan and start working towards it. And like you said, it’s worth it to start planning early because things change and also time just seems to fly by.
@Michael.Outside3 ай бұрын
Yo. Was this through skillbridge or something else? Might try to do it at my base.
@freereinveterans3 ай бұрын
@@Michael.Outside yooo - it was actually through Career Skills Program! And if I’m being honest, I’m still unclear on the difference between CSP and skillbridge. Reason being, I got to circumvent that whole thing with an MOU (or maybe it was an MOA, I’d have to go back and look) between my BN CDR and the base Fish and Wildlife office. If your CDR is cool with that level of informality, it could work, but I get the sense that it isn’t that simple most places. They want you going through all of the motions and bureaucratic hoops. First thing I’d do is find the Fish and Wildlife office on base and just go chat with them and see if anything like this exists. If it doesn’t, maybe they’d be willing to do a one off type of thing. If not, maybe you could arrange something with local conservation nonprofits, county, or state agencies? I’m probably telling you things you already know, but just throwing it out there. If it’d help for me to go confirm with the JBLM guys if it’s through Skillbridge or CSP, just let me know and I’ll go ask!
@IsaacKJ7573 ай бұрын
Im getting chaptered out soon Im nervous but my mental is going insane and I cant sacrifice my family no more for this
@freereinveterans3 ай бұрын
@@IsaacKJ757 You gotta do what you gotta do, hang in there. Good luck to you and wishing the best for your next chapter of life.
@walkerdarin20033 ай бұрын
Got out of the Corps in 09. My company commander tried his silly tactics and I informed him I had recently finish my bachelors and had started my masters. I had already accepted a contracting job in AFG at 250k a year and I had 60 days of terminal leave so I’d be getting double paid. He attempted to tell me I couldn’t work overseas while on terminal. I simply smiled and said yes sir and didn’t anyways lol. I was in AFG with an active duty Sergeant CAC and an army contractor CAC. Everything worked out just fine.
@freereinveterans3 ай бұрын
@@walkerdarin2003 sounds like you figured out a sweet deal for sure. And smart move to not argue lol. Smile, nod, move on. Glad it all worked out for you!
@MrLilc09843 ай бұрын
Idk about that... for the most part, these days the military gives you PLENTY OF TIME, from 12 to 18 months to transition out and get everything figured out. If you don't get on the ball, you WILL fall behind because there is so much more that you have to deal with in civilian life. You don't have the military keeping track of your appointments and shit like that anymore. It's just like graduating high school. Most that take a break before college, never end up going at all...
@thealliedspy41703 ай бұрын
True, the military would remind me a lil too much about something mundane like a dental appointment. Like bro, I wrote the date down, no need for a third email about this lolol
@ivanabreuluciano3 ай бұрын
There is a big difference between being completely off military duty, and being on a legit sabbatical. Time off is more of a “now I’m done officially, without anything looming over me, let me relax and change pace.” At least for me and countless others taking a full blown sabbatical was a complete game changer.
@freereinveterans3 ай бұрын
@@MrLilc0984 honestly, I personally didn’t see a lot of people getting anywhere near 12-18 months with brigades needing bodies for CTC rotations, random garrison details, and other exercises like CPXs or Warfighters, etc. If anything, I’ve seen more people get denied the opportunity to do a transition internship or TAP opportunity. I don’t doubt that some people do get 12-18 months though… I got 3 months and I felt extremely lucky in comparison to the experiences of my peers. But, I also took two years off after ETSing it’s worked out for me. More than anything, I think it depends on the individual and making a solid plan. One disadvantage I see of going straight onto the next thing is the danger of rushing into something that’s not a good long-term fit and wasting time, effort, and energy on that path. If you’ve got financial and family obligations, you gotta do what you gotta do. But at the end of the day, I think time off is objectively healthy and helps veterans reset and think about what they actually want to do with the rest of their lives. Your experience might be different! I do agree that people who need the military to keep track of their appointments will probably struggle regardless lol.
@freereinveterans3 ай бұрын
@@thealliedspy4170 yeaa, I agree it’s annoying, but it’s also probably annoying to STILL get appointment no-shows every day lol.
@freereinveterans3 ай бұрын
@@ivanabreuluciano Exactly what I’m sayin
@sophiehilaire3 ай бұрын
That deliberate time to take a step back was the most important chapter of my post-military life, for sure 🙏🏼🩷
@philchurch11153 ай бұрын
1982 to 1988 AZ2 VS-41 and VS-33 two west pacs, after 7 years and making second class petty officer and the two west pacs I was on where the USS Ranger CV-61 burned in the I.O. for 12 hours 6 died 48 hurt and that was it for me.
@freereinveterans3 ай бұрын
That is so heartbreaking to hear. I hope life has been much brighter since you transitioned out
@lifelight78213 ай бұрын
Im up for it
@freereinveterans3 ай бұрын
@@lifelight7821 just copied this link from the reply to the other comment below. Let me know if you have trouble accessing the info! acaptainslog.com/jblms-fish-and-wildlife-internship/ You might have to open this on a desktop device (vs phone) to be able to copy and paste the link easily.
@txduck3 ай бұрын
As a NCO with 12 years in I was given this chat by my squadron commander back in late ‘07. I just kept my reason short and simple and told him “I’m leaving for the same reason I joined, I want to.” and left it at that.
@freereinveterans3 ай бұрын
Nice! Sounds like it was more awkward for him than you :)
@rubyredgrapefruit14543 ай бұрын
Nobody wants to join the Army these days. Those have been in are working on their paperwork to get out. One of the main reasons is the toxic and political leadership from the top who are secretary, CGs, brigade commanders, and battalion commanders. SFAC, SFAB and Army South are examples.
@NomadKev3 ай бұрын
Counseling statements officers have to sign before their ETS...The same with the NCO's..When I transferred from TPU to IRR I was counseled to advise me of losing Tricare benefits. I learned I'm eligible to pay for Tricare Dental in the IRR at a higher premium $28 a month vs $11.00 a month in a TPU single soldier no dependents
@freereinveterans3 ай бұрын
@@NomadKev is the dental still a thing? Could’ve sworn it wasn’t possible with IRR last time I checked… which would’ve been early 2021 if I remember correctly. Either way I’m going to go look again now that you mentioned it!
@NomadKev2 ай бұрын
@@freereinveterans not sure for coverage FY23, I was eligible to purchase Tricare Dental at a $28.00 monthly single soldier rate. I wasn't eligible to purchase Tricare Medical as a IRR soldier. Transferred into the IRR 2017...transferred into IMA 2019-2021. Transferred into the IRR 10.01.21. My retirement order was published by HRC 12.01.22
@sophiehilaire3 ай бұрын
You're so wise.... :)
@freereinveterans3 ай бұрын
@@sophiehilaire Working on it lol
@NomadKev3 ай бұрын
Good to see you get on the road and be a nomad
@freereinveterans3 ай бұрын
@@NomadKev appreciate it!
@AuContraireMonFraire3 ай бұрын
I ETS in a 1yr and change. Found your “Why I got out the military and you should too” video years ago and just came back to rewatch it. It always helps me put things back into perspective. Keep doing what you’re doing.
@freereinveterans3 ай бұрын
@@AuContraireMonFraire Really glad to hear that, and thanks for the support. Congrats on approaching the end of this chapter! Lots of opportunity out here in the free world. Wishing you the best and hope you take full advantage of all of the resources out there for you!
@NomadKev3 ай бұрын
Awesome...I like to receive more info
@freereinveterans3 ай бұрын
@@NomadKev Linking an article here with everything you need: acaptainslog.com/jblms-fish-and-wildlife-internship/ You might have to open this on a desktop device (vs phone) to be able to copy and paste the link easily!
@NomadKev3 ай бұрын
Good brief Kayla! I retired from the IRR December 1st 2022, I was opting out of the unlawful mandate...I was also an IMA soldier in DC for 6.5 years..The IMA program was the best kept secret in the Army..I served 10 yrs Active..12 yrs Reserve!
@freereinveterans3 ай бұрын
@@NomadKev No way! I’d always been curious to finally find someone who’d actually retired out of the IRR haha. I knew it was possible but had never heard it from someone who’d actually done it!
@NomadKev3 ай бұрын
@@freereinveteransso the main thing is to check your retirement points through your DA 5016 - HRC portal my records also to make sure you received a 20 year retirement letter from DA... And then submit a retirement packet same as TPU /IMA...for reserve officers do not resign your commission until until they receive a retirement letter first
@NomadKev3 ай бұрын
Correction: Reserve Officers do not resign your commission until you receive a retirement order from HRC
@freereinveterans3 ай бұрын
@@NomadKev ok gotcha, thanks for sharing!
@NomadKev3 ай бұрын
@@freereinveterans likely your first and last soldier you know to retire from IRR 😅 🪖
@NomadKev3 ай бұрын
Free agent soldier - IRR! Soldiers can have a credible service year from active duty tours and assignments..& get promoted..perform IDT in the IRR for retirement points
@freereinveterans3 ай бұрын
@@NomadKev Still hard to believe this is even a thing haha, I don’t think most people have heard of this.
@IffyEdem3 ай бұрын
I am 23 and new to active duty, currently an AIT soldier, and I have a three year contract, and so far, I don’t see myself re-upping after my contract. Yes AIT isn’t the real army, but I don’t think 20 years of this job(which is a cool one in a tech field) is something I wanna do in the army. Maybe a different branch, but even then, I just am in for the benefits, full time work experience, and clearance. So far the army is fine.
@freereinveterans3 ай бұрын
@@IffyEdem Best of luck as you begin your journey! It ain’t all good and it ain’t all bad, that’s for sure. Hope it goes well for you and you make some friends along the way.