Cole is immature and needs to grow, but he was 25 on the show so that’s relatively normal. Zanab was 31 on the show and while I empathize with her trauma and issues, she behaved terribly. Cole certainly did annoying things, but he was earnest whereas her utter lack of respect and total contempt for him was unacceptable. If she hadn’t had so many issues a couple of days into meeting she would’ve done the right thing and just told him it wasn’t a match because they’re at different life stages. Instead she built escalating dominance and superiority and she tore him apart to feed her own ego. While I think they weren’t a match, he didn’t deserve that. And at the reunion it was pretty clear she was gaslighting him re: the imaginary girl at his bachelor party. Hopefully Cole can grow from here, I have a lot more hope for him than her but they both deserve better. I wouldn’t be surprised if she has BPD or NPD, and I hope she resolves the deep-seated issues that led to all the negativity and contempt.
@gardenoflifefinearts71778 күн бұрын
He is better off without her.
@silviacapetillo405912 күн бұрын
I have just fimished watching Season 3 and I can say I never liked Zanab.
@LipiAktar-h4q23 күн бұрын
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@sophiao589725 күн бұрын
I know im pretty late to watching the show. I only watched it last night. I went to bed angry and woke up with the same anger. Cole you didn't deserve what Zay did or how your cast mates treated you. I hope you are doing well were ever you are. Sending you all the love ❤
@lorraineaguirre920126 күн бұрын
She's so passive, condescending, and fake!! She knows what she dud to Cole, and took advantage of his heart, and apology. Cole is too good for her!!!!!! Her and her minions are a joke, and bring shame to women who do care and have insecurities.
@CHunt-rb6leАй бұрын
Posty straight ball’n
@TheKatarinaGiselleАй бұрын
Cole is a fantastic young man and he dodged a bullet! I hope wherever he is, he is happy and that he ends up with the sweet, sensible, care-free, down-to-earth woman that he deserves! And Zenad, I don’t believe she is bipolar, I think it’s worse. I believe she is a narcissistic sociopath. Yes, she has trauma..but she always wants to be the passive aggressive victim. She is manipulative and twists EVERYTHING. She is mentally ill, and not the kind that medication can help. With her, changing has to be an intentional choice..and she doesn’t want to change! Yes, she is insecure, but it is a result of HER actions and living in her own fantasy world where people are out to get her. But she gets some joy out of being the “victim” and telling them off. It literally feeds her dopamine.
@ZANAB58693Ай бұрын
Why did you just use my name to and video???
@Julie-hf4chАй бұрын
is this the same guy that interviewed Cole? shocking how fake people are..not a single one true and trustable
@Julie-hf4chАй бұрын
Cole should cast for Hallmark movies. Go Cole !👍🏆
@Julie-hf4chАй бұрын
I will never understand what were her true intentions with Cole? why did you do what you did publicly to this man? you don't deserve forgiveness or support. well, we learn from the people that pop in our lives, some are not there to stay, can be toxic and there are always lessons to learn
@patriot-hj5vxАй бұрын
Way to eat her as* dude. So cringe lol
@ElbebegrandoteАй бұрын
when are you guys reacting to Peso plumas or Fuerza Regida's album.
@Alyson5422 ай бұрын
As a brown girl i really wanted to be team zanab but good God, is it hard to side with her on this. I think she needs therapy. I say this as someone who struggles with projecting and resding into things because of my own insecurities. I rewatched the show and maybe its the edit, but i dont think cole was intentionally trying to hurt her, i think he said dumb things (and granted thats not ok either) but if 80% of a person is showing how much they care about you but 20% is just them being immature, then trust that they care. I get its easier said than done though. I will say its incredibly frustrating to see people come at her looks. Some of you people need to get a life, hatred is an ugly color on you
@kathybrown10642 ай бұрын
This was a good conversation, good to see him moving forward, he really did get treated so unfairly, wishing him all the best.
@veruskapastran70522 ай бұрын
What a fake guy! Was this interview before the reunion aired? I am coming from Cole's interview and I am very confused.
@Xander_14143 ай бұрын
Are yall gonna react to ÉXODO?
@TothanCrawk3 ай бұрын
She's a typical covert narcissist.
@Nevaeh-ut5bc3 ай бұрын
Yes indeed
@janethomas783 ай бұрын
Zanab tried to eat him alive!! She is a Psycho Emotional Abuser!!! 100 percent LIES!! COLD BLOODED!
@ManuelMorales-gq8ch3 ай бұрын
Love y’all’s videos!!
@alessandrapanella85914 ай бұрын
What I mean is “this is no for me” where are you telling her that you were going to say no at the altar?
@alessandrapanella85914 ай бұрын
I do have a question for Cole. I saw the moment right before she started the speech you said something in the line of this is enough for me or something like that. Were you telling her that you were going to say no at the altar that’s why she went off on you. ?
@alessandrapanella85914 ай бұрын
Be you and don’t let those negative and easily to be manipulated, people treat you badly. I really felt bad for how you were treated during the reunion.. know that it’s very hard to deal with a narcissist and the people she manipulated to understand the complexity of dealing with a narcissist. Been left at the altar. It was the best thing that have ever happened to you. Not the worst thing I can guarantee you.
@michelem.saumberfield17434 ай бұрын
I think Cole is one of the cutest and nicest guys on "Love Is Blind". I think the whole cuties thing was NOTHING. I think what it comes down to is that Zay could never recover from knowing that Cole thought another girl on the show was a 10. And that stuck in her mind and she held it against him. She could have said to herself, "OK, some other girl might be a 10, but a 9 is pretty good too....AND I also have the personality Cole fell in love with." Zay also could have said to herself, "Well there are people who I have met who are cuter than Cole, but that doesn't mean I love them as much or more." HOWEVER, It is really hard to get something like that out of your mind once you know it too. It would be like if a guy says "I think your sister is hotter than you are." Because your sister (or another contestant) is someone you have to keep hanging out with. So that "better option" is always right there. You can't walk away from them. But I think that Cole seems very nice....and he is my personal favorite look, which is blue eyes and dark hair and a combo of handsome/cute.
@plutolife32474 ай бұрын
Alex, you definitely make me laugh.
@rrspotato55745 ай бұрын
you handled this interview TERRIBLY. instead of sucking up to her, ask the questions we want to know!! you’re a two faced suck up. you told cole how amazing of a person he was 4 weeks later. you suck at this.
@simmytom76845 ай бұрын
This host sucks man. What are you trying to do?
@simmytom76845 ай бұрын
She's crazy & will never find love.
@showchavo5 ай бұрын
Chao
@leoalbertoastorga34885 ай бұрын
That girl was the Biggest narcissist on that show, crazy how she switched from one stand to another opposite in just seconds several times.
@Higher_human15 ай бұрын
She’s a snake
@cLuna3875 ай бұрын
We are all flawed in many ways. Z has a lot of healing and growing to do I pray she leans on God for that and Cole I pray you meet a woman who will love you whole heartedly and will love God with you. God bless you.
@coolnessap5 ай бұрын
#welovecole2024!
@HeyTripleJ5 ай бұрын
ZERO SELF AWARENESS😢😢😢 SO SAD
@JozefinPerez5 ай бұрын
aww, Cole is literally the type of guy I've been looking for, and seeing him being treated that way during the show broke my heart
@yuaquino19425 ай бұрын
She's giving gone girl vibes. She wants to be seen as confident and bubbly im sure she going to look for men just like cole, someone confident cool happy, we always look for what we're missing. Thats why we call it my other half, the ying to my yang. she said "im a whole person" yes She's too much to handle her and her other personalities she should marry herself because thats the only person she cares about with her selfish ars she's full of poop
@yuaquino19425 ай бұрын
Cole dodge a bullet with her insecure self. I get we all have insecurities but she went over the top and blamed a man she met 4 weeks into the relationship you destroyed my self esteem she didn't have any to begin with she needs to seek a therapist not an interview
@carolkimbell51745 ай бұрын
Zanab will never have a husband. She hates men and I am sooo glad that she didn’t marry Cole. Cole is a great guy and deserves the very best!
@TalkativeHands5 ай бұрын
Really telling when a video has only 3 comments, 14 likes, and is almost a year old.
@TalkativeHands5 ай бұрын
27:21 I had no idea thats how they did that... That honestly changes that scene for me. And of course they had you liquored up to relax you.
@tenseventeen37745 ай бұрын
That shit is hard my boy 👌👌
@iuliandan3636 ай бұрын
Why do you think she had no emotion, no empathy when Cole cried when he said he was sorry at the reunion? Because she is a sick person, literally. Think about how atrocious she was at the wedding ceremony. Think about how much malice and venom one must have to play such a theater until the last moment and then to crush that person and look into their eyes rejoicing in the pain of the one in front of you. And all of this comes from a script she has constructed in her mind parallel to reality. She is obsessively paranoid. I feel sorry for Cole and for any man who will enter into a relationship with this woman.
@samanthas83406 ай бұрын
Zay is in no way innocent but I dont think her intention was to hurt him and blast him - even though that's exactly what she did. I just felt bad listening to this interview that Cole may now have the perspective that women are just out there to harm and be vindictive. Sad situation all around.
@memeolivas37676 ай бұрын
You guys need to do a full reaction of the songs. Great reactions just wish they were longer 🥲
@OB467366 ай бұрын
There’s me being 15 and look way younger then him😂
@jrmuro47806 ай бұрын
didn’t they say pesos pluma and tito double p songs trash 💀
@gulperisalman69666 ай бұрын
she is a horrible person, but the show is too for making them wait until wedding day.