Men With Husband Qualities

[@NelsonGuedes]

Putting yourself first doesn't do much. Nobody notices that.

[@StillNotCancelled]

Put in the same amount of energy she does. Maybe 5% more to see if she steps up and matches you (she might be doing the same thing).

[@bhart3321]

This, only reciprocate what she gives you. While I'm not opposed to the 5% rule you've stated I think it's long overdue women hold up their side of the equality contract by putting in the effort up front. It's funny how all these rules they have for average guys goes right out the window for any guy that's remotely conventionally attractive. It shows they have no compunctions about putting in the effort up front they just choose not to for the guys that might actually give them what they want. Sad so many have their priorities backwards.

[@anubhavlive]

We should examine as this can (and likely) also be true in reverse case. That is majority of man do not reward the behaviour that makes good wife. Now considering both of these statements to be true - Can a potential good couple meet each other with any significant certainity (not pure luck and hit and trial) by employing some strategy. That is the qualities which are on display from both sides while looking for potential matches, may not be 1. That visible in the dating pool 2. May change once the search ends We can probably backtrack the behaviour (if we can find history of behaviours of people who are now come under the category of good couple). It'll still be tricky as in societal changes may break the consistency we expect in those behavioural changes across while in search and while in relationship.

[@davidp2888]

Exactly. Put yourself first, she'll find that very attractive.

[@thedarkestowl4224]

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[@X-Prime123]

I've no idea which men have such a false belief. I mean there's no way that's guaranteed, lol.

[@NelsonGuedes]

It's women that believe good men have no problem dating.