What the hell is this guy talking about. Just cause you got a degree doesn't necessarily mean you know what the hell you're talking about. Nonsense

I guess crossdressing should be redirected to be done in a way that is prideful

Is crossdressing an addiction?

1 19:03 Thank you for your supportive message, it validates my feelings and makes me feel normal. I have been betrayed many times,my husband has lost my trust and in part me.

Your videos are so helpful! Thank you for posting them.

Call it what it is: “I have a toddler’s level of patience. I can’t control my urges like a child. Professionals tell me I have sex addiction because telling me I lack self control won’t get them paid.” Your not sex addicted, your addicted to self gratification or validation. Just like eating disorders, they aren’t eating disorders, their mental illnesses based on out of control vanity. Emotional abuse from a parent is a possibility. Your problem isn;t with food or sex, it’s with your inability to control yourself

Awww poor whittle sex addicts getting laid I feel so bad for them. /sar What a stupid stupid addiction. You’re addicted to dopamine. You’re addicted to being validated. You probably have an ego problem. I don’t have any sympathy for sex addiction. What nonsense. “‘I need help! I can’t stop getting laid!’ 😂😂😂

Is lieing about their behavior part of the adrenaline and arousal rush?

My boy cyraxx masturbates 15 times a day! What would you recommend for him?

Is the anus a sex organ ?

100% agree, I just realized that Mario updated his favorite way to tackle ED and it's crazy! Although what he previously talked about was pretty decent, it was difficult to follow, I just go'ogled the latest by Mario Volpstein, it's so much simpler and potent now!

Was SA when i was 13 in 1981. My ex bro in law. It was awful. I identify as gay. I looked at porn in 1979 but always looked at straight porn and some gay porn. i spent lots of money on videos and magazines. I did cruising for 15 years. I was a bottom practicing bareback sex. I did get tested negative. I just had some awakening to stop the porn a week ago and its helped a lot. As for cruising for anonymous one night sex I hadnt done that for many years. Do i still think about that? Yes but acting on it no. I am almost 60 and just have the desire to do it anymore. I blame porn for my sex addiction. Most likely being SA didnt help but been getting help overcoming it by therapy (cognitive) made me stronger. I dont miss it. I feel now that love does not mean sex. Some gay men were pushed into this mentality of the perfect man partner which gay porn has pushed onto men you have to be hot, well endowed, muscular or slim, masculine or mainly white. Gay non porn mags are the same way. Tv shows are to portray that image. I just done with that thinking . I am not perfect and I am glad i am not . Perfection in appearance is sadly dominating gay men in all forms. Thank goods my mind is getting much better

Yup I’m at sex & love addict I used sex to get love because didn’t get love at home 😢 very toxic chaotic home life growing up ! I was sexually physically emotionally and abused I would fantasize about being married and having the perfect life & couldn’t wait to move out and get married Probably still do to this day ! All I want is a normal healthy relationship ❤ I just broke up with someone who has sex addiction alcoholism He says he wasn’t traumatized. He won’t admit it but the things he’s told me - he’s denying it We had a rough relationship because he pleasured himself 3 to 4 times a day bc he said he has bad anxiety and then we didn’t have sex very often - very hurtful for me bc of my addiction

Whilst I understand this, my problem with it is that surely it means everyone who had traumatic or abusive childhoods would become addicts? Which we know isn't true. So if it is not just as simple to focus on this.

I DECIDED TO GO TO A “DEAD BEDROOM “ FOREVER …THIS MAKES ME FEEL VERY GOOD ABOUT MYSELF ….I FEEL MUCH BETTER KNOWING HE HAS NO ACCESS . 🤷🏻‍♀️

Thank you for opening my eyes

My own experience being heterosexual and a sex addict that has acted out with men, for me it's not a arousal issue, men are generally easier and sluttier than woman, more likely to act out as well and all of that falls back into the fantasy that keeps EVERYTHING moving in that direction, just my take

So this considered "leaning into them" emotions/feelings? This makes alot make sense for me, thank you

The question is why don't those states ban porn

I’ve been married 30 years to a sex addict but I only realised it gradually the past 10 years. I still suffer from trauma. He works on big building projets, currently in Lesotho- a tunnel and dam. I cried I pleaded , my hair initially fell out in bushes. We’ve been living separately lately since he drove me away in 3 different ways last time I went to him, one of which was also attacking my health. He had a heart attack and surgery almost 4 years ago and his heart is at 45% now. I’ve never denied him sex and I’ve never been overweight. I am an empath so I was always the one making amends even if I wasn’t guilty. He required of me to always agree with him on everything and never to have my own opinion. Anyway my question is whether it’s unhealthy for a man to have say 8 and even more orgasms per day? He told me a few years ago I shouldn’t hide the keys because’ this is what I like to do” I think it’s gotten worse over the tears

Hi Assalamualaikum, i am from Lucknow..and i am under deep confusion and anxiety..i have been molested by my elder cousin when i was too young around 10 years..when i reached at the age if 15 he had forceful anal sex with me which was too painful and he did the same at various occasions, i was too religious too and asked my brother to not to meet with me.i daily offer 5 times namaz and joined Tablighi jamaat. but when he went to overseas for the job I became helpless, i started looking for sex.. outside through gay apps..i played both top n bot roles..i started doing job since 2013 and started meeting guys through gay apps since 2014..i l went to delhi in 2019 for the job..there too i was very active in gay sex..one person introduced me with drugs.. probably crystal meth..i enjoyed taking it and did multiple times..in 2020 one boy suggested me to go to doctor for check up for HIV..as i lost weight...in ngo which was jn the basement nesr CP area ..they conducted quick test and my result was reactive..then corona came ..i came back home to Lucknow..i went to art centre and my hiv results was positive..i started taking my medicine sicne 2021..i am now undetectable, TND i.e. viral load is 0..now i am realising that i was on a wrong track or it was my destiny..i see my friends living happily and having a very good life..i want to get married..now where shall i find a Muslim hiv positive girl ...can yiu help me out...

I disagree with his view on morality but the other stuff is solid.

Being a sex addict is definitely not fun! Especially when you're single. Porn doesn't help me either😩

Thank you!

What about those men when teens (12, 13, 14ish) who were abused by an older teen male? Someone who also reciprocated the act but then stopped? Later in life took up porn and acted out?

Weiss disagrees because he has books to sell women

I married a sex addict and after I was married he wanted sex all the time I couldn't understand that at the time but I learned about his addiction first I thought it was me but then I learned about myself in this I had to come to a conclusion whether I was going to continue to live with him or not plus he had other women on the side and that was hard he was acting out on me and my body did what he wanted that that would make him stay be faithful to me I learned about this and I had to make a painful decision that I had a divorce him because he never stopped never got help even though I mentioned about help for this he didn't want it I still suffer betrayal trauma from this it's going to be a long process for me to completely heal I'm listening to this because I've had this most of my life with these types of men and now because of what happened to me I'm suffering from emotional anorexia because my walls are up up too much I don't know how to take those walls down I tried to use exposure two different activities in social situations but I'm struggling with all I can ask is for help and prayers thank you so much for your videos it's something I will never stop listening to

What's your view on masturbation?

You say the goal for a sex addict should be to have some kind of active sex life? Does that involve entering a committed relationship? What if due to your situation in life it is challenging to both be able to have and find someone willing to have one with you? It's also a question of priorities and values too. Whether you are willing to spend a big chunk of your time working on making a relationship thrive.

Where is the rest?!

Video really resonates with me

This is closest to what's been happening.

Sex addiction involves dopamine release, & Jordan Thornton, a KZbinr, was spot with his remark about 'stimulating between the legs to send electrical impulses to the brain'!

Guys and girls. Don't victimise yourself. You chose to be with those partners in the first place, it might feel better to blame them but it doesn't solve anything. Take responsibility for your life, forgive them and forgive yourself. We are all just lost children in the sun.

How long and cost to get help from your rehabilitation clinic? And where are you located? And if a person seeking help from this disease can’t afford help at your facility what can they do? I already attend ACOA and dysfunctional families . Thanx

What can I do if I can’t afford your services. I fall under the preverbal category. I am 61 yo. I just act out. My communication skills suck. I t carried on into high school and then the rest of my life. I’d appreciate it Rob if you could provide me an answer as far as who ( the kind of professional) that could help me. I go to the ACOA mtgs online but they don’t help. I need a pro. I’ll sweep the floors of your building because I can’t afford your clinic. Joe

He makes a lot of sense.

the screencap on this video drew me here. "Seeking Integrity" for sure. That fits my life long struggle between my sexual desires and my faith. Feeling the tug of each all my life has kept me confused and locked in bad habits. This phrase ... definitely opening my eyes... Love at first sight? LOL Maybe.

Good insight.. The porn addiction view is way off though..

Me gustaría lo sutitularas al español. Sería un detalle. Gracias!! Desde España!

Is this still available?

😢😊 I want to see gay videos

He ran off for a fix guaranteed.

Hay algo en español sobre esta temática de este señor. Alguien sabe?

Dear Robert, my dad taought me gay sex and ever since i've been emaboured. When he pasd away in 2019 i hav been adickted to gay sex. I luv it, you helped me !!!!

Such a snappy dresser!

Why do all these experts look like they never get laid . Sex ' addiction ' is a Misnomer A zest for life is nothing to feel bad about . Me , I 'm a speed fucker . Sorry got to go.

52:47 exactly 😢

52 years married, had to put up with his porn, he blamed me,said i shut him out when i was worried about breast cancer,or i wasn't sexy enough, or he had gone off of me sexually, after having our second child, anything rather then admit he was in the wrong. I never let him go without sex for long in case he turned to porn again, but he did anyway.He belittled me by saying how silly i was for getting so upset over a picture of porn.

This was my father. Destroyed my mother, myself and sibling. Life long pain and agony for all of us.