We have 50/50 custody. My daughter prefers her dad and it breaks my heart its so painful to be rejected as a mom.

Your advice is spot on! Your approach is friendly, direct, supportive and blameless. You are a wonderful speaker. Thank you.

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I was looking for a video like this. Glad I found it. My 3yr old started preK this fall, and while it's only Day 6, I don't feel like it's going well. She's not happy or excited and prior to this, her personality has always been these things. She's been in daycare (private home setting) since 7mo old and she had no issues. Always a ray of sunshine. Now we're in the big leagues! Real school! And I fear she's not adjusting. Of course this makes me cry as a mom.

Thanks for the video. I have a big problem with high expectations, and it is not easy because I easily forget to meet my child where they are. It is a big challenge for sure. 😢

My little brother he is 6 years old and he tell us he don't have to poop and we put him in a pullup and he goes and hides and poop he likes to squat to poop for some reason

My son is 3 and is very stubborn and persistent. He is learning aggressive behaviors from his classmates. He’s learned tantrums and yelling as a way to gain attention because their student to teacher ratio is high they have to gear towards the most disruptive or loudest child. I guess my question is how do I counter that at home do you have any videos explaining how to counter school influence or even poor coparenting influence

Im a sophomore and people at lunch keep throwing food at me

Thank you for these tips❤ My four years old daughter was very excited for school, but after first week she doesn’t want to go to school anymore and drop offs are so hard, lots of crying😢

Thank you for this!❤

I wish I had discovered you earlier. My LO is turning 4 soon and yikes. We’ve had a wild 2 years. I would love to get your take on some things that are unique situation related to some big changes and trauma. Is there any way to meet about this?

Absolutely loved your ideas! And the way you convey them 😂❤

Girl you had me dancing in the beginning bit 😂 LOVE IT!

Im sorry i didnt finish the video but i disagree. It's same as saying sorry. Even when little kids dont really feel sorry we make them say it because thats just the rule in our society. It's as simple as that.

I find a lot of this helpful for my autistic younger cousin as well. She is 11 years old but this sounds a lot like her!

Wrap it up. Get to the points quicker!

Every word you said is true now how do I fix these expectations? I'm always angry with my kids and husband who keeps blaming their behaviors on me and my anger. I can't tolerate this anymore

To all the mamas here: I love yall, am praying for yall and would give you all big hugs if I were near you. Im currently going through the clinginess with my 2.5 yr old. Its going to get better❤❤❤ Thank you for this video❤

My son started daytime potty training at 20 months and is now staying dry on his own about half of the time at night at 2 1/2. Im thinking about putting puppy pads under his sheet at night to reduce mess.

Love it, SO SO SO helpful to hear you talk about how play is the childs time to take some control.. so helpful, thank you. I am working with pre-schoolers and I love it that you say "it's their time to SHINE", (obviously within limits of safety), very genius, thank you

My lord he cry’s all the time anything that can help I’m willing to do

What if they are being bullied? Do you think they would just become passive without aggression?

I understand some of this but when I tell my kids nicely to not take their food and eat it on my bed to watch the TV in my room a million times nicely, leading to yelling at them not to eat their because I don't want to sleep in their spilled food at night and they blatantly tell me when I tell them to take their food to the table ,"no! Or FFS! Then end up spilling the food on your bed anyway, it's hard to not get in a range. At 12 and 13 I do expect respect. I expect my rules to be followed...off yoir phones at night, get up on time for school, clean up your own mess, help me when I need it. They do nothing and treat me like I'm their slave and refuse to help with most things because God forbid they would have to get off their devices. I've taken them away and that still doesn't work. I don't ask them to do things beyond their level. I could clean everything spot when I was 8. Our entire house by myself. There's no way kids this age can't do dishes.but they refuse. Because kids these days are entitled little AH.

I remind my children to say thank you. I hope it doesnt count as a handicap, constantly reminding them. My oldest is 9 and I suddenly feel concerned about "thank you" not yet being an automatic response.

Who tf made this?

This may be an absurd question but HOW MUCH attention am i supposed to be giving???? Every moment of the day??? I feel guilty for wanting time for myself and my own hobbies. Am i evil for wanting more than a couple of minutes to myself??? More than just the bare minimum amount of time to do basic hygiene and chores (cooking/cleaning). Am i allowed to want my own time??? On top of the away time thats spent up doing chores. Why must i always feel guilty for that.

This was an awesome review thank you so much. It was so helpful.

Hi moms, I wanted to chime in on this one. I haven’t been able to watch the forced apologies episode but I wanted to contribute. So with forced apologies, yes I think they are fake but how should we mirror kindness without guiding and showing them how to apologize. Also, I think with this situation, I would’ve pulled my child aside and asked her what happened. It would not matter why she spat on someone, I would educate her that that is not nice behavior and that if something is wrong, she needs to tell an adult before she spits or puts hands on someone. I also wonder how old the kiddo was, mine is 6 so this would be appropriate for her but I’m not sure how this would work on a younger child

Thank you so much ❤

He was sleep trained since 6 months now he is doing every 2 hours on some nights. Some nights he is fine

Shes a doll

My daughter is recently having tantrums that are more related to teething pain. If I try and validate her emotions, it seems to make it worse since I'm reminding her of the pain. But any actions, words, etc also seem to escalate things. Any tips?

Thank you so so so so much

My son assaulted me a few days ago and he will be 18 next month, I didn't want to press charges because I didn't want him to get a record. But I'm trying to get him evaluated but that's a whole process and he's in therapy but that's a journey in itself. I told his therapist what happened and honestly I feel that she wasn't helpful or sympathetic. At this point, I'm waiting for him to be 18, so my husband can kick him out. I honestly see no remorse or no guilt.

❤This was my first time visiting your channel and I’m impressed enough to subscribe.😊 I’m a grandmother to a grandchild that lives far away. I’m staying with my daughter and caring for my granddaughter for 3 1/2 weeks while her day home is closed. I’m observing my granddaughters behaviour and experiencing her for the first time for this length of time and wanting to know what’s natural for a-year-old. You provided excellent information and confirmed my intuition as a stay home mother of two. Have shared your video with my daughter in the hopes that your excellent tips will help. 😊

Today i yelled at my kids because I gave them breakfast to eat and they have very limited time for their classes and they were doing chit-chat and didn’t see time and not ready for classes after onwards I got started yelling and my angerness is on beyond my level.

1. "Space please" 2. Express feeling or needs, "I'm hungry" / " I'm frustrated" 3. "That hurts my body" / "I don't like that" 4. "I'm not done playing with that. I'll let you know when I'm done" 5. Boundaries "No, thank you" 6. "Help me, please" 7. "Can I have a turn with that when you're done?" "Turn please" 8. "Can I play with you?" 9a. Ask permission, body boundaries "Can I give you a hug, kiss, etc?" 9b. "I'll give you a high five instead, blow kisses, etc" 10. "I need more time" / "I'm not done yet" 11. "I need a break"

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It makes it hard too follow the golden rule

The way you were READY to show your book 🤣🙏🏼 Seriously thank you for all you’ve said. I found you perfectly. I’ve been struggling with my strong willed toddlers 🤡

The KZbin shows that are cheap AI graphics with no education are killing me! My toddler watches a video of an animated tractor rolling balls around for as long as you let him, it's awful!

Can you make more videos about teenagers please? ❤

what about if they being doing in diapers and we try to elimate the diaper and now he wont do it:/ wont be bad for this body? he didnt do it all day🥹🥹

Thank you

My toddler had an epic meltdown because I sent dada to the store.

I can't find app two?

Mindfulness. Thank you so much!

I hear most people will say dont do pull ups as they feel just like diapers, but what if i just put my child in underwear and will still pee in them? What am i suppose to do at that point?

This is so helpful. My daughter is about to turn 3 this month. For the past two weeks she's been very aggressive and angry when things doesnt go her way and when I dont give in to her. She gets very overwhelmed with her emotions and i do also. It seems like her emotions just flips from what im used to with her personality as she is about to turn 3. How do I help regulate her emotions when shes dealing with the agression and melt downs. Also is this a thing as they trans into being 3. I know not all child are the same? Will this phase ends eventually??.

Thanks for sharing. Loved watching this and going to try to implement some with my boys.