Tone Deaf Christianity | Ep. 326
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21 күн бұрын
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@stephaniemalischewski2634
@stephaniemalischewski2634 14 сағат бұрын
Thank you for coming on Uncle Wade!
@AEH-c2x
@AEH-c2x 19 сағат бұрын
hahahaha, I always thought of your uncle wade being in his 50's or so. That is so funny.
@underconstruction778
@underconstruction778 22 сағат бұрын
Its always amazing how many women go out of there way when they're single to look good and exert confidence. But once they get married they become the most insecure beings known to man.
@audreyloewen1506
@audreyloewen1506 Күн бұрын
Congratulations!! All your sentiments are exactly my thoughts, except the genders are reversed. We had 2 girls, then a boy (Malachi!), then 3 more girls, and we found out baby #7 is another girl! We will have 4 girls in a row! I also laughed out loud at the ultrasound because I couldn't believe it! Our identity as a family is that we are a girl family. We joke that we live in a sorority house 🤣 and honestly, I love it! I'm very comfortable with raising girls. Our one boy is a very good one, the perfect son for our family. I had similar fears that if this baby was a boy, it would kind of "dethrone" Malachi and make the dynamic weird (they would also be 13 years apart, so definitely not in the same "gender pack"). He would love a brother, though at this point it would be more of a mentor type relationship, not a true brother type relationship, so just not the same. BUT having all these girls is incredibly fun and I'm so thankful! So I'm thrilled for you guys to be having another boy!
@anniec.9531
@anniec.9531 Күн бұрын
It shocks me that they only have 22k subscribers. They deserve so much more. Their podcast is packed with great content, I binge their episodes as I clean my house or go through my day. You guys are fantastic 👏
@Fearlessly91
@Fearlessly91 Күн бұрын
Is anyone a little sickened by how she’s saying she wants a break from pregnancy and he’s dismissing her like “nah I’m enjoying it, I’m happy” SIT DOWN, BOY. You are not the one going through it. It’s not up to you. You aren’t even the primary decision maker about whether to get pregnant again behind God. You are third in line so please act like it.
@raywynter3395
@raywynter3395 2 күн бұрын
🙏
@alittleheavenonearth
@alittleheavenonearth 2 күн бұрын
kzbin.info/www/bejne/mYW2iZ6CapJqoNUsi=0emi4hZ7ahVwfZit We did this in Portugal 🇵🇹 👏 🙌 ITS NOT FOR EVERYONE...
@hannahbaker2856
@hannahbaker2856 2 күн бұрын
Loved the undercurrent of virtue ethics in this episode! That may be a new concept for some listeners--a good starting point (though it takes some work to wade through!) is Alasdair MacIntyre's book After Virtue.
@emilygracephotographer
@emilygracephotographer 2 күн бұрын
YALL HAVE ME CRACKING UP SOOOO HARD🤣🤣😭 (the beginning!!) yalls personalities and how you just play off and make jokes on your mess ups or tongue twisters is hilarious and brings such lightheartedness and fun to the episodes!!❤️
@maywhittington9319
@maywhittington9319 2 күн бұрын
When I saw uncle Wade i was like the genetics in that family are insane or I need neolife vitamens(totally kidding)😂🤣😂🤣🤪
@JuniperLynn789
@JuniperLynn789 2 күн бұрын
Love this episode so much and I’m only half way through it!
@NaturalWifeyandMamaBear
@NaturalWifeyandMamaBear 2 күн бұрын
Also my hubs sisters are 9 and 10 years older than him, so his nephew who he’s close to, and feel like not that far apart in age, he’s his uncle haha. It’s weird when he calls me Aunt too. But fun!! So I get it. 😜
@NaturalWifeyandMamaBear
@NaturalWifeyandMamaBear 2 күн бұрын
Fellas like Uncle Wade is awesome! Love him. Gosh, hubs and I would have a blast hangin with y’all!!
@Kesingletary0617
@Kesingletary0617 2 күн бұрын
Research Aristotle’s “Golden Mean”. In short, the golden mean is a philosophical concept that emphasizes finding the appropriate medium, or middle ground, between two extremes. It’s a great explanation of where a virtue might fall in line between two vices (the excess vs the deficiency). i.e. if courage is the virtue (the “Mean), then recklessness is the “excess” and cowardice is the “deficiency”.
@RebDan17
@RebDan17 2 күн бұрын
Why have I always envisioned a Phil Robertson-esque person when hearing of "Uncle Wade"? 😂
@shelbyputnam2354
@shelbyputnam2354 2 күн бұрын
Uncle Wade is hilarious! So glad you had him on!
@Emily_Rudolph
@Emily_Rudolph 2 күн бұрын
What the world?!?! How is Uncle Wade so young?!? 😂
@azaliasimon1425
@azaliasimon1425 2 күн бұрын
My son ( also 7) heard your son talking and he came to see who it was and said "That is craaaaazy! (That he also homeschooled)" Then quickly followed with " Can we go to his house!?!? 😂
@hannahthehomesteader
@hannahthehomesteader 2 күн бұрын
I know you are not focused on peddling your fashion but could you please share where you got your green sweater or what brand it is? It's really cozy and cute. Thank you!!
@laurens8623
@laurens8623 2 күн бұрын
Dark chocolate wirh raw cocoa does have health benefits. I dont know how it got a bad wrap
@crystalspiritosanto168
@crystalspiritosanto168 2 күн бұрын
Thanks for this video! I have a question about a video y’all did a while ago. The one where y’all show what’s in your “go” or “grab” bags in case of an emergency. If that video is still up, will you post the link for it? I can’t seem to find it anywhere! 🥴
@ThomasSmith-z5q
@ThomasSmith-z5q 2 күн бұрын
Just finished reading ‘Raising Warriors: Preparing Your Children For a Godly Life’ and it really opened my eyes to some new ways of guiding my kids in their faith. Highly recommend it if you’re looking to strenghten your family’s spiritual life
@laurens8623
@laurens8623 2 күн бұрын
Is a vice a stumbling block
@RCGWho
@RCGWho 2 күн бұрын
52:00 A vice is something someone might judge, or something someone might be stumbled by, like your children?
@RCGWho
@RCGWho 2 күн бұрын
51:00 You either listen to and allow cussing or you don't. You either smoke and drink and teach it to your children or you don't. You either read trashy books or you don't. You either listen to trashy secular music or you don't. Don't expect to have a double standard and be a hypocrite and expect it to go well with your children. You're children will take your double standard and justified vices and run with them.
@laurens8623
@laurens8623 2 күн бұрын
How did your father know you kissed
@laurens8623
@laurens8623 2 күн бұрын
Is this katies mother or fathers sibling.
@funmiOni
@funmiOni 2 күн бұрын
This is so helpful, I know I am in track with this
@RCGWho
@RCGWho 2 күн бұрын
Really odd to use "reading the Word" as an example of a vice. And who do you know that does this? That's an almost imaginary problem. The vibe so far at 12:00 is of a hipster influenced by emergent culture who watches a lot of Pints with Aquinas and wants to justify smoking cigars and pipes and having a large collection of fancy bourbon and probably a bunch of tats. Oh, and also cussing because Pints with Aquinas is like Joe Rogan for Catholics. Am I wrong? So, vice here is having questionable habits that make you culturally relevant and hip. Hip=Pride Big vice. I'm halfway through and it's still pretty vague what vices are being legitimized? Are we talking rated R movies with skin, secular music, cussing, bourbon, tats, smoking? The only vaguely touched on vices were excessive Bible reading, football, movies, and I think alcohol. But none of these were unpacked. Cussing was touched on and avoided.
@mf3610
@mf3610 2 күн бұрын
Do you comment a negative comment on every one of their episodes? Seems like it
@RCGWho
@RCGWho 2 күн бұрын
​I am finding you and other commenters are now marginalizing and bullying me for not fangirling. I'm not 12, and I believe firmly in free speech. Try bullying tactics with someone else. If you'd like to discuss or debate a specific point, I'm down for that. ​@@mf3610
@wadejohnson7962
@wadejohnson7962 2 күн бұрын
Hello RGCWho, This is Uncle Wade. Nice to meet you! Sorry if I give off a hipster vibe. I honestly don't know if I am one, or if it would be bad if I was one, but from the tone of your comment I am pretty sure you don't like them. I admit that have watched exactly one episode of Pints with Aquinas and I really enjoyed the Aussie accent and thought provoking conversation. I have no desire whatsoever to justify smoking anything or cussing. Unfortunately, I already drank my fancy bourbon collection years ago, but thankfully God has delivered me from the vice of alcoholism and the accompanying headaches. I don't have any tattoos, and have no currrent plans of getting one, though I do have a close friend who has some and I still spend time with him. This is dangerous I know, but he hasn't mugged me yet. (Just teasing) If I thought I was hip that could absolutely become a point of pride for me, but fortunately I am quite unfamiliar with the modern milieu and enjoy my distance from it. I do have pride in my life, and it is a vice that I take seriously and want to grow out of continually. Praise Jesus for his power to save and sanctify! I need his grace in that and many other areas of life. I completely agree that reading the Word is not vice at all. It is not even an imaginary problem. Perhaps you cannot relate, but I have seen and experienced the use of good things for the intent of justifying the absense of something God is specifically calling me to do. This is like a parent telling a child to clean up his room but instead of obeying (because he doesn't feel like it) the child sits on the couch and whips out the Bible to justify sinful slothfulness and disobedience. Obviously neither sitting on a couch nor reading the Word are vices, but the slothfulness and disobedience are. If you have never seen or experienced that, then I applaud your lack of duplicity. You are absolutely correct in your observation that we were not deeply discussing specific activities, but rather the term vice itself and how to discern what would constitute a vice in the heart of a person. I really appreciate that you took the time to listen. It seems you found the discussion thought provoking. I hope you continue to seek and find the Truth. Have a fantastic Day! Cheers! (with water and certainly not bourbon) -Uncle Wade P.S. I would hate to watch an R rated movie without skin as that sounds horrifying! (Just teasing again)
@RCGWho
@RCGWho 2 күн бұрын
@@wadejohnson7962 I've been listening to emergent Christians justify their vices since about 2006. It's probably inadvisable to use the word vice and then dance around what exactly you're getting at. And coming on here with sarcasm and a mocking tone isn't helping. You say you like thought, but then don't like actual questions and push back. That is what thought is. Belittling me and then adding pleasantries? Do you listen to Douglas Wilson? You definitely give his vibe.
@amygoldenberg8822
@amygoldenberg8822 2 күн бұрын
An example of a vice (I really like the definition given in this podcast that refers to activities that keep us from doing what the Lord intends for us to do) could be listening to podcasts with a critical and judgmental attitude and perhaps a spirit of contempt? Perhaps this is more a distraction (a vice) than a help. Potentially, since the interest is clearly there, the podcast critic might refocus their energies towards their own online platform, and focus on helping ( as Katie and Elisha [and Wade] do) rather than breaking that which is good.
@Dest8554
@Dest8554 2 күн бұрын
This is not what I pictured when I heard “uncle Wade” in previous episodes haha
@WalkingwithLaura
@WalkingwithLaura 2 күн бұрын
Yes I totally he figured an older man hahahahhaa
@ABCDEFGHTrouttfamily
@ABCDEFGHTrouttfamily 2 күн бұрын
Same lol😂
@alissaartavia3940
@alissaartavia3940 2 күн бұрын
Me neither! Glad to finally know lol
@ellaagasaro496
@ellaagasaro496 2 күн бұрын
@@WalkingwithLauraSame! I knew he was Katie’s uncle so thought he was much older.
@HomesteadHealing
@HomesteadHealing 2 күн бұрын
Haha, no, not at all! Uncle Wade is younger than me! 😅
@nellifriesen7080
@nellifriesen7080 2 күн бұрын
Which one of the the charlotte mason books would you recommend reading?
@Draftingalife
@Draftingalife 2 күн бұрын
Y’all are a blessing ❤
@PeaceBeStill39
@PeaceBeStill39 2 күн бұрын
Ah the infamous uncle wade! Haha excited to hear this. Love yalls ministry here ❤️
@die5plaas
@die5plaas 3 күн бұрын
Well spoken for a seven year old 😍I wholeheartedly agree on giving boys their space. You'll be amazed at what you get from them when they can get rid of the extra energy. Boys need that father figure to "rattle their cage" every so often. They need the rough and tumble that a dad or other fatherly-figure can provide, otherwise that "manliness" can get out of control. We had a situation with our son when he was 6 years old and we were still in public school where a boy was bullying him. When I dug a bit deeper, it was a single-mom home with no real father-figure in the boys life. There are other single-moms who just rock their situation by getting that side of their sons development from other men in their lives they know can be a positive influence.
@RCGWho
@RCGWho 3 күн бұрын
42:00 The book is written by Gothard's organization, only sold on their website, not Amazon, with the sole purpise to defend Gothard. The case against him was dropped because of statutes of limitations and probably lack of proof. How do you prove (or disprove) footsies and weird conversations and grooming, and even rape, if you don't have semen stained clothing that you saved. Scripture says in the mouth of 2 or 3 witnesses let a thing be established. There are more than 2 or 3 bringing these accusations. The claims have not been proven false except for by authors writing on behalf of Gothard and His organization. Why would I call it a cult? The grooming. The lining up pretty girls all in a row, stepford wife style to display them. The secret materials. Secret anything like the Masons is 💯 red flags. The asking hand pucied girls to come live at headquarters. 43:50 You keep saying you are not defending him, but also you do. You don't know what form of abuse took place. These were kids. They didn't have cell phones and the internet for many years to run and call 911. Their parents believed Gothard over them anyway. Gothard had at least 34 accusers. That's not a conspiracy. It goes to his character and a pattern of behavior with many women (girls) over decades. It cannot be discounted.
@alishapotts6423
@alishapotts6423 3 күн бұрын
37:10 “what am I actually valuing” Such a crucial question that needs to be answered honestly and humbly. Such a convicting thought.
@toriiilee123
@toriiilee123 3 күн бұрын
I absolutely loved hearing from your son. Absolutely beautiful words! And congratulations I loved this conversation!!
@NaturalWifeyandMamaBear
@NaturalWifeyandMamaBear 3 күн бұрын
Also on the question, what are you feeding your child? Lots of sugar? Processed/fast foods? Or Are they getting loads of real whole foods like fruits, veggies, greens ?! Giving food dyes? Even just red food dye has been linked to adhd! And like Katie said, God didn’t make them to sit most of the day in public school. And let me say, we do public school (very small town community else would home school and might one day but so far happy with) and our super healthy kiddos, they do great because they eat real wholesome foods (they take their healthy lunches daily Mama makes them-don’t eat school food 😳) and get the supplements they need, we don’t go out to eat (rare) and majorly watch sugar. Mainly have natural from fruits and like maple syrup and trust me, they don’t miss out! Will have some occasional with organic sugar like YumEarth brand etc. and they have like 3-4 recesses, and when they get home they play outside-we’re in the country, 15 acres, but even if in town….but yah, try all those things and see!! 💪 🍏🍋‍🟩🫐🍍🥑🫛🥥🍈🍌🍎🍐🍉🍒🥝🥦🥬🥬🍊🍅🍇🥬🍑🥒🍋🍆🍓🥭🫒🥕🌽🫑🌶️🍠
@KatiePhenton
@KatiePhenton 3 күн бұрын
Hi, thank you for what you’re doing, I love listening to your podcasts. I would love to hear more about how your housegroup works, I am considering starting a family house group for our church! Thank you, blessings! Katie x
@asimon8313
@asimon8313 4 күн бұрын
Great podcast!
@LauraLittlejohn-c4l
@LauraLittlejohn-c4l 4 күн бұрын
My dad wasn’t very involved in homeschooling my siblings and I. He was however an amazing spiritual leader. Very consistent and faithful to teach us the word. He was very busy with work and deaconship. My mom took full ownership of our education. My dad left it up to my mom but they didn’t affect my education negatively. Also, my brothers did very well academically.
@caitiecook3805
@caitiecook3805 4 күн бұрын
Wow, your son was so confident, well spoken, and aware. What an amazing example after everything you just talked about 🤯
@emilyslittlebooknook-8043
@emilyslittlebooknook-8043 4 күн бұрын
Loved seeing leon hes very well spoken
@elsamartin8165
@elsamartin8165 4 күн бұрын
We bought a puppy for our homestead and I regretted it. UNTIL. Unfortunately she was hit by a car. My husband and I agreed that we will not be getting another dog until we have a fenced back yard. That was…until the coyotes were howling right in my back yard, critters coming in from all over, I spent a night alone out here in the middle of nowhere and stray dogs started digging through trash! I said, “husband! We are getting a puppy!” 😂 and yes, again. Super stressful. Still building our house, the toddlers have to deal with being bit and jumped on all over again. But I have found on a homestead cats and dogs are essential and worth the hassle.
@LaurenSheehan
@LaurenSheehan 4 күн бұрын
The hardest part about sending kids to school outside your home is that you dont have control over what happens in the school and you dont see every moment ans habit that your kid has in school. Im with yall. I homeschool my boy, but I require a lot of self control and manners from him, and I spend a lot of time helping him learn to focus during lessons, to expand his capacity to give attention to things... I dont allow him to come to school (in our kitchen), in his PJs, or slouch, or fidget during lessons, speak to me poorly, etc but i also get to plan the time of our lessons and etc. I try to run a rigorous classical homeschool but i also am always looking for effectivness as well and at him as a whole person. I know that if i didnt require these things he would be one of those kids that constantly interrupts everyone and is disruptive in class with others (at cc, at church etc) Our lessons range from 10-30 min max. And we move from various subjects that give space for mental rest and physical movement etc. This year we are focusing on handwriting and it is teaching me a lot about quakity over quanity. But the headline is that my sons handwriting is awful because i never have required it to be excellent. I thought it would just naturally get better as he kept writing. But its actuallt gotten worse the more he writes because his habits of writing are lazy and careless and I allowed it. And I think this applies to all other things. I resonate a lot with Katies way of doing and thinking (and that striving for excellence and effectiveness) so its refreshing to hear.
@mf3610
@mf3610 4 күн бұрын
Loved seeing leon! He seems like an extrovert for sure!
@janettemarabella3221
@janettemarabella3221 4 күн бұрын
He is cute reminds me of his Dad.
@patfromsac7951
@patfromsac7951 4 күн бұрын
Oh my gosh your little boy was the cutest thing ever. That minute right there showed how well you are working with your boys. First of all you asked if he’d like to say something and he didn’t just run away and bury his head behind something… that’s a win! 👏👏 congrats on all the hard work you’re doing. So so encouraging!
@shelleymusleh439
@shelleymusleh439 4 күн бұрын
I considered home school with a lot of thought and I still do consider it. For now my children are at a private Christian school. I will say I am SHOCKED by the amount of play time both indoors and outdoors, as well as specials, singing worship songs breaks, snack times, etc they have. Both my boys have three 30 min recess times, an indoor play time, 2 snack times, getting up to sing and wiggle times, indoor play time. As well as gym class, music class, stem class (usually involves creating some amazing goo you can play with or something fun), walking to the library, walking to art which is also usually messy and fun. I feel like they get so much opportunity to get all their energy out and it’s been so surprisingly wonderful.