"Most Men Are Lonely, Even When Married..." Report Show Guys Are Turning To Other Men, Not Women 😳

[@timsimmons5190]

These two dudes dont even understand what loneliness mean lol. We all have people to call. Thats not what loneliness is lol. Sad how many of us dont understand feelings and emotiosn

[@princemarkied8071]

@@timsimmons5190 yeah they are not very well read. Drives me crazy.

[@memcrew1]

What is emotiosn?

[@juliustaylor9920]

​@@memcrew1u know what it is, stop being childish...damn

[@drizzit2424]

Male emotions are for the weak

[@LordHaveMurcielago]

Society is too self centered to care

[@chrispowers627]

I'm married, but I wouldn't say I was lonely. It's more like I don't really have any friends to hang out with. At a certain age, you really stop trusting people, especially to bring around your family, and you really can't just talk about everything with your wife either.🤷🏾‍♂️

[@josephlowe7064]

Facts

[@ethossavage]

Going through this myself right now. It's irritating, but just something you have to "deal" with solo seems like.

[@sg5720]

Marry your best friend of the opposite sex. I married my best friend. 21 years of fun and excitement in my marriage. My hubby gets invited to an event he knows I would love to go he quick to tell me and we plan our day. He shares eveything to me and I tell him everything . We like a lot of the same things. Compatibility matters. We just have fun together we love eachother and we eachother best friends. He may have a few male friends he hangs with I have two other women I consider good friends but people who know us well, always say I am always with my husband and he is always with me and we always having fun together. I don’t have all the answers but married to a person you love and actually like make a big positive difference. 😊💕🙏🏽

[@schoolboygaming2483]

I would say that's a form of loneliness.

[@JAMARAI.MURCHISON]

The ppl on the panel sound too cool to give straight answers

[@Blocc.caller69]

I said the same thing. They not being vulnerable enough.

[@JAMARAI.MURCHISON]

@Blocc.caller69 I don't get nothing from this

[@malikwilson7387]

​@@JAMARAI.MURCHISONfacts they don't want a lonely Man is or looks like I know dudes that can't call anyone no one cas them either

[@Blocc.caller69]

@ facts! I clicked to another vid early

[@jaydrich8115]

the women anton has on all his channels are li are and chameleons especially Q

[@ammonbrookins6454]

The comedian Patrice O'Neal once said that men like to be by themselves, but don't want to be alone....it went over my head at 1st, but now that I'm older, I totally get it!

[@Krawfordk78]

Unfortunately, society has told men that expressing their feelings is weak or feminine and those unexpressed feelings come out in unhealthy ways like violence or anger. Men have learned how to suppress their feelings so not be ridiculed by others, so they are not seen as fragile or vulnerable.

[@jaykisuke3397]

You been watching too many YT videos has society ever talked to you?

[@bushwacka5187]

It's true but men ain't women either. We don't need to express our feelings like women do, we need purpose more than anything else.

[@Krawfordk78]

@@jaykisuke3397 As part of my psychology scholarship program at the university of Texas. I donate my time and offer mental health support to those who can't afford it. This is what men tell me the problem is.

[@Luke973T]

​@@bushwacka5187 this

[@Krawfordk78]

@@bushwacka5187 Good mental health helps us be better equipped to handle life's challenges, pursue our goals, become more resilient, and make thoughtful decisions for our wives and daughters.

[@jasean21]

38, no kids, divorced (she wanted it), parents are deceased and I'm an only child. I have been trying to find a mate, but its difficult especially with the illusion of choice social media and online dating presents. Male friends I have, are either busy or aren't on the time I'm on.... and now I'm moving back to where I am from and I just looked around.... all of the options available to me are single moms, women who have great personalities but are physically unappealing and don't like the gym or women who look amazing but are entitled.... the gym seems to be where I live. Its a lonely life

[@LordHaveMurcielago]

Bruh, ditto. The dating apps are horrible! Are there any local community programs you could join where you could meet likeminded individuals?

[@RachelKagiorgis1111]

Maybe try meeting women in the real world. There's a lot of positives to it. Mainly being that you see the woman and how she really looks without filters.

[@dreharrison1777]

Bro get your passport and travel. You'll find d what you need over seas

[@beautifulsoul6535]

I was going to shoot my shot but I have one teenager so that puts me out. You’ll find someone soon 💜

[@brewcity2317]

@ first sentence: 😔 damn.

[@davidscott6944]

From my own personal experience with loneliness,This time of year around the holidays is hard for people It can hit you from the loss of family or friends thar held a significant role in your life. People have health issues going on theres a lot that contributes to loneliness In 2020 My only child was killed then in 2023 i lost my mother and it really hurt me and put me in a state of loneminess but it wasnt a bad thing I embraced those feelings acknowledged why im feeling lonely and did some productive things to get through it such as going to therapy

[@princemarkied8071]

Anton is a shrewd type of person, and he thinks it makes him virtuous lol. Some people are just boring ,and simple in their temperament and that makes them able to hyper focus and not get distracted. Think about Warren Buffet.. people study him like he is a genius, and no he is just shrewd. He does not WANT dynamic and entertaining experiences all the time. Anton.. well I can't hold him because it is his show, but EVERY episode is about him finding a way to say "I am just.. different", but he is not.

[@Go_Getter27]

This

[@nikk5002]

Precisely

[@memcrew1]

😳

[@lydiahilliard657]

Damn!!!! This is a word right here 👏 🙌 👌

[@IISuzakuII]

And here you are.

[@IvoryGarner-h7f]

I know the feeling as a divorcee. Bill Cosby said it in a stand up before. Men and/or fathers are chronically unappreciated. And I'm not talking about the kids. Yeah, no need to expect super duper recognition for things you're supposed to do, but don't dog me out. This shit ain't as easy as it looks.

[@31kiloradioraven63]

💯

[@richnewyorker]

My default is thriving in solitude. Libraries are perfect-they let me choose between being social or anti-social. Honestly, one good conversation every now and then is all I need.

[@jaredSR1]

3:12 the two men on the panel don’t understand the question because it doesn’t apply to them. Most of US in the comments this applies to.

[@ThetrueTeddyB]

I woke up one day and realized that i felt lonely. Then a couple of weeks later, i came to the conclusion that, I've just outgrown my friends. Im focused on building my wealth, and most of all my friends just want to play madden....

[@GHOSRYDER247]

Most men live...lives of quiet desperation

[@shakarussanders9911]

Very true

[@RachelKagiorgis1111]

I would say that it's most people. We all have unrealized dreams. Crushed by the weight of marriage and responsibility.

[@jamesholifield845]

Well said

[@dylanmijer2890]

Loneliness means to us men is people not reaching out to us, no sense of belonging, purpose, as men we often have to go through everything alone, society made it that way, it’s the trials and tribulations of becoming a man they say, but that’s not humane, men are not allowed to have emotions or feelings, having feelings is always associated to being a women, loneliness is a feeling, so a man feeling lonely is seen as being weak, “he can’t stand on his own”, men not being acknowledge for the major role that we play in society is the reason why most of us feel lonely, especially nowadays with the woke feminist movement constantly attacking and berating men for just being men.

[@JAMARAI.MURCHISON]

I rocks with Anton. BUT. His cohost panel are always a bunch of fakers. They be acting like unpaid actors and clout chasers. Men and women. The fake energy they bring is a big turn off

[@kavionr4052]

Although I can appreciate the discourse being had on male loneliness, I would just like to remind the audience that “Influencers” aren’t necessarily professionals on these topics, and if you’re truly seeking advice on this, consider a professional.

[@johnbrown-cl6sj]

Gentlemen image that over a three year period, you never had another person call you to hang out to watch sports or go to a social event. Your boss only ask you to complete a task a couple of times a day, and no one else at work never had a conversation about themselves. Put yourselves in that type of lifestyle. THAT is loneliness! Not everyone goes on a podcast or KZbin channel to talk about society like everyone in the panel. The divide of social media has proven to be effective in creating hugh numbers of individuals.

[@Guilla4Life]

A man living in his purpose hardly ever feels lonely…

[@unstoppablesk8300]

Thats some redpill BS you been sold bro, what about anthony bourdain, or robin williams?

[@kojoefante]

I keep telling you to bring intelligent people on the show ..

[@purposedpatience6597]

😂😂😂😂 bullseye 🎯

[@burrosification]

Thanks for covering this Anton. It's not easy for men to acknowledge this. We need this discussion

[@ussssaaabixchh]

Men have moments when they feel “lost” I wouldn’t say “lonely”

[@brandonj1468]

Yall be acting too tough in these comments. Playing semantics

[@CoCoButta901]

It’s clear that the elevator doesn’t go to the top floor on unnamed people talking on the screen😂

[@shakarussanders9911]

One of the problems is that people today don't have best friends anymore! People don't stay in one location like they used to. You can't be like your Grandparents remember they would have the same friends for 30 years

[@arron2lucas]

You can be in a room full of friends, family etc. And still be lonely. If you don't feel loved and cared about, that's lonely. You can feel like the world is totally against you. You can feel lonely none of the people you care about treat you in a way that expresses you have value. Or when being you isn't enough. Or you gotta walk on eggshells just to exist in a safe place rather physically or emotionally. Also, some people don't have a deep or meaningful relationship with anyone. You might be extroverted and reach out and dont actually get fulfilled or trust in the people you meet. There are so many ways to feel lonely.

[@YuhaYurm144]

Being alone is a state of being lonely or loneliness is a state of mind aka its an emotion

[@2MasterBuilder2]

Alone is the absence of people; Lonely is the absence of purpose

[@jlofton52]

For me being lonely means I’m not being heard or included which puts me in a place of being an outcast. Which I’ve learned that it is not a bad thing. Loneliness to me equates to individualism not depression. So enjoy being comfortable by yourself.

[@brandonj1468]

Slimmy and Q answering this question like single men who live in their home city. I never felt it when I was living in my home city but I moved to another city 4 yrs ago and started my own family and definitely feel it now. I could see my friends and fam whenever I wanted back home but now its a couple times a year. Not the same at all.

[@LordHaveMurcielago]

Ya’ll asked a general question about men in society but use your own personal experiences to answer said question. A lot of “I’s” and “me’s” but not many “they’s” and “them’s”.

[@Scentsational-Vdo]

Anton you really should have a mental health professional on this topic to address this issue. It’s not a one size fit everyone type of an explanation.

[@qauzar444]

Slimmy is def lonely AF. You can hear it in his voice. You lonely bro. 😆😆😆🤦🏽‍♂️

[@markrush8071]

I am lonely I have to much and pour none into self so now I am like when it’s all gone who am I spouse job etc u gave everything and don’t feel it has not been given back and excuses are made

[@Straviinsky]

We as humans are not meant to be alone. From the beginning of time, men have always been hunters or explorers which means groups , tribes of men gather to do things, build, hunt, race, fight other villages or colonies, do passage of rites into adulthood. Have elders to talk to, mentors etc..We have lost all that. A sense of belonging to say

[@adaeptzulander2928]

Lonely is the wrong word. I would say many men feel 'disconnected' from many aspects of society.

[@jeremybaker824]

And in a relationship for 22Yrs absolutely absolutely no friends my partner scarred them all away

[@Imma_Gee]

Loneliness exists differently for everyone. Generally, a man or person can be lonely even surrounded by many people. I found that some people are lonely because they’re unable to build deep connections with others or should I say the desired level of connections. Some people can’t identity their circle of friends that like what they like. Part of the evidence is the blow up of social media and the manosphere, a bunch of lonely men came together. This topic is worth exploring with an opened mind. It’s not a simple case of having people around.

[@brewcity2317]

Well said. 👍

[@Peice93]

I think they need to define a friend. A friend is what AC Green was to OJ Simpson in 1994. When all of LA is looking for you they will drive the getaway car. How many people have one of those, how many people are that to somebody? Most people have associates.

[@RoblEsquire]

I stopped listening at 41 seconds in. The first 2 statements after Anton gave his opening were from men who, instead of generally addressing the question, went inward like ao many women do...

[@chrystallee5528]

Anton is correct. Proximity breeds familiarity. In other words: People can grow on you. After some time, you will overlook what you initially viewed as faults and begin to appreciate who they are.

[@Chris-xq7cm]

Great show... I'm an open person and can chop it up with anyone no strings attached. I got my core people who totally get me... and I love and need quiet time as well.

[@leahcummings2131]

This hurts to hear. On behalf of all women, I'm sorry for ignoring the reality of how men really feel. I pray God heals all the broken and show them what unconditional love really feels like.

[@UNLV_TV]

We ain’t got no choice but to be lonely when we always wrong and we’re always the problem. So maybe the best thing is to be lonely as a man nowadays

[@observeandanalyze4591]

13:38 Quiton is absolutely correct! Especially whn he gave the definition.

[@CoCoButta901]

Surface level ass conversation

[@schoolboygaming2483]

Whenever people talk about loneliness they always bring up the idea of "I like to be by myself." Being by yourself isn't lonely. Loneliness happens when you want to engage or be with someone else but you don't have that option. Talking on the phone helps some but it can never replace the feeling of being in the physical presence of someone else.

[@sherondahi11]

@Quentin… Feeling lonely is when you DONT have someone easily available to be VULNERABLE with! Many in relationships feel that they are don’t have a partner/spouse to share their feelings WITHOUT judgment, not be interrupted mid thought and walk away feeling heard! Some men say that they feel like their wives are with them for what their husbands can provide in sense of wants vs needs. They don’t feel like their wives love them for who they are! (Im speaking from what my coworkers told me. I work in a male dominated industry and had to remove my chair from my office because many men were sharing with me what they could not do with their wife… all because I listened to them get their feelings out.)

[@yohanceamir224]

As you get older like myself you appreciate being alone. I don't do relationships and my friends and family are good enough.

[@truthseekingfreethinker5214]

The only man who gets lonely is the man who doesn't know God and lacks an understanding of himself. Most people are scared of the man in the mirror, so they search for something in others that those people can't give them.

[@memcrew1]

Oh please!😂

[@aeubanks0]

I think the men in the video, being older, have experienced more, loss, struggle, and disappointments in life, i.e. divorce, death of friends and family, than the young people on the panel.

[@SeriousBlackThought]

That's what I was thinking. Those are middle-aged/older dudes. Some of their kids might not even check on them unless they need something.

[@robertmarley8852]

There is solitude in walking alone Everything that glitters ain't gold 🪙 Walk with God He is the only strength you need

[@irenapressley4136]

Well I got rejected all my life from black men believe it or not .they would of had a good woman if they wouldn't of rejected me.now it's hard for me to trust and I don't want to be bothered . They can do what ever they want I don't care no more

[@myfitjourneylit5919]

I like my solitude and energy to myself leave me alone all i need is me

[@ty2704]

Loneliness isn’t necessarily about being alone. Loneliness can simply come from being near someone who you don’t trust being honest or open to. It can happen in a crowd. It can happen when you’re surrounded by family and close relationships. Loneliness isn’t always the restriction of human interaction or connection but can come from the restriction of peace and expression. For example, celebrities are always in and around crowds, but lots of them are the loneliest people on earth even with the success.

[@jackstone88]

What was the point of this topic...

[@keithwilliams8124]

Magic words friends, they getting married for bags , not type person they really want

[@xafefyusha]

No phones??!!!..AYYYEEEEYOOOOO!

[@AntroyBeckford]

From personal experience, that’s a fact.

[@4akenarchives919]

I call it Solitude

[@Muzikfreak37]

I don't think that having access to people can fight off being lonely. Most people can't be themselves around the people around them, which to me can still make it feel like you're alone. I also think at least for men most of us lock in the hardest when we are truly alone or feel alone. Most men when they either have had their heart broken, or lost a job and have been down bad, usually are alone and have that drive to lock in and handle business in a different way. That loneliness sucks can often times and be the drive or motivation to help keep you on task, if that makes sense

[@ball4137]

Ladies; you want men to be lonely; take away our video games or else stop the nonsense that men are lonely.

[@InFamousKCT]

People call Passport Bros corny but a lot of these situations are no longer a thing when you start dating overseas

[@michiganpyroaddicts4482]

Y’all need to stop trying to marry dudes baby mommas that stuff is getting old

[@CrankBlessEm]

See the problem with this lonely stuff is Women scared to be alone thats why they can get with any dude so this male loneliness is just saying that we have nothing leave to do or anybody to talk to which is insane bc we don’t look for validation or confirmation of others😂

[@byrdd_]

i think men feel lonely because they arent getting romantic relatinships. I dont think it has much to do with any other type of relationship. Thats just my opinion

[@markanthonyparks7787]

Men need brotherhood similar to what the Freemasons have but without the extra stuff with levels to it

[@randleqgod]

Not going nowhere with 50 men.

[@bryantsmith7696]

Sho u right!

[@G.O.D.Invictus]

But you'll go somewhere that has at least 50 men present lol

[@johnlawful2272]

War

[@tanyamcmorris554]

It's create a male bonding experience

[@mrredpillragemgtow4921]

These two men aren't deep thinkers. They don't have a lot of people depending on them. Heavy is the head. We understand that no one cares about us unless we are provding. It's very lonely.

[@donnawilson1375]

Please….acknowledge age-group differences

[@winbble3]

I think its a trust issue. Most of men has been screwed over by someone from a so called friend,family or women. I know with me Im not lonely Im just dont have the tolerance to trust people.

[@jameswilson1522]

wWOW.... ...Facts Facts Facts Facts Facts !

[@corywatkins190]

Yes cause of this world y'all life women up and bring men down

[@Tytainiousaur]

💯🔥👍🔥💯

[@mrredpillragemgtow4921]

These two men aren't deep thinkers. They don't have a lot of people depending on them. Heavy is the head.

[@StraightGuyStraightTalk]

You can’t do you and lonely. Lonely mean you don’t want to do you. It’s doing you and other people. LOL

[@TerriTerriHotSauce]

Maybe join a sports team. Align your activities with goals in general. Fitness in this example.

[@BlkRob2105]

I understand men's mental health is very important. But that men's getaway sounds zesty...🤦🏿‍♂️

[@kingamir7487]

How? Only black man say some dumb shit like that which why we are at the bottom.

[@Cdot-1110]

Bro you weird for even thinking that ..

[@TimothyMcCants-i9h]

I be lonely so I have Segs with a bunch of women but that don’t really help tho

[@LordHaveMurcielago]

Not gonna lie, that’s gotta suck. We thinking smashing ho’s will cure it all and you do it only to realize your time could’ve been spent better is a wack feeling.

[@briannichols4856]

Unattractive women become more attractive over time

[@nightbreaker6296]

Micca understands men better than Q and Slimmy…

[@ashleyjnobaptiste]

Halfway through this video - what are they talking about, related to "Most Men Are Lonely, Even when Married..."? It is not a big topic with many factors, Anton.

[@StraightGuyStraightTalk]

Slimmy when they say most men they are not talking about your self. Dude do better.

[@princemarkanthony500]

If you have a relationship with YAH(GOD) you’ll never feel lonely

[@foreverzeta6578]

Unfortunately for the men , they were too picky and didn’t want a solid woman. They they gave up so quick to be real.

[@Ntwadumela89]

What?…how is a man picky?..because we don’t want hoes and women with children?

[@steviemak10]

You think it’s that simple to find a solid female in this feminist world where men could be more likely to go to jail falsely accused of, you think it’s that’s easy to find a woman that can understand what men go through?

[@xdscgiefkeef8208]

Can you blame them especially with the women we have nowadays is very few solid women

[@johnlawful2272]

Most women want the same dude these guys are thrown big backs and baby mommas at least in the B community

[@NahshonMark]

This conversation was ass. Yall need to leave this to ppl with experience in it. Yall can not relate/articlate on it, so the whole thing just sounds off as hell. You have to remove your self and be objective. Keri who normally annoys me was the only one speaking from outside her self. Why yall think ppl be commenting so much us niggas in the comment section be lonely with nothing else to do sometimes. Reaching out to your friends to complain or vent about your life can be looked at as a burden. Especially if your friends are doing very well. You do not want to bring them down with your BS that is not their job. Men want to feel useful or like a positive in other ppls lives. Therefore they like to deal with thier BS on their own.

[@wendyeasmon5568]

Find Jesus- Solved!

[@ireviewcomics]

Unfortunately I think the guys on the panel get the point. When you're lonely and don't have the "right person" or "social group" to interact with it can lead to depression and anxiety and feelings of alienation. You can have access to thousands of people at any given time and still feel alone. I didn't feel liked I belonged anywhere until I got treatment for A.A. and I created a Facebook group that has nearly 400k members interacting with me daily.

[@alfamale661]

Here's the thing. I absolutely positively feel lonely as a single guy. Not every minute of every day mind you, but definitely more than I'd like. That said, I've never felt lonelier than I have when I was in uneven/ unhealthy relationships. It took me a while to figure out why that was. It is the mind dealing with the incongruity of the situation. The mind struggles with the idea of being lonely when you have someone. It doesn't make sense and the experience is all the worst for it. I'd rather be alone than to be truly lonely with someone "who loves me"."One is the loneliest number you can ever do.... two can be as bad as one, it's the loneliest number since the number one" these lyrics hit hard but I think they still fell short on the profoundness of the latter half of that lyric.

[@NobodyHasToAgreeAllTheTime]

Yes but how does this affect women? 😂

[@NONCHALANTBLESS]

They don’t care

[@nyc_bk11]

This mad sad 😞 It’s 100% women fault. If a man is single, it’s because these modern women are to picky. If the man has a woman, and feels lonely, it’s the woman fault because she’s not taking care of her man.

[@JamMaster0011]

A lonely man is a weak man. Men should be focused on money and power. Once you get that, you'll never be lonely.

[@JAMARAI.MURCHISON]

What rapper said this? It sounds remedial

[@livefromthemotherland]

@@JAMARAI.MURCHISONword 😂

[@memcrew1]

No, just no.

[@johnlawful2272]

It will happen once you realize you have no one to pass it too

[@tanyamcmorris554]

Not true. More money equals More problems. This make you More lonely