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@liezacarroll8018 2 сағат бұрын
Thank you for this video. I look forward to watching your other videos. I teeter between uncertainty and being consistently confident.
@jamesross4319 2 сағат бұрын
Fake confidence: It's loads of good--if it is applied correctly. Stress and fear reduce your IQ by 15 points--similar to being drunk.Fake confidence therefore is the equivalent of sobering up. That said, you apply this AFTER you decide that the action is worth a shot, and the logical frame needs to be based on the downside of a critical failure--that the worse case scenario is not that bad.
@RonaldStricklin 17 сағат бұрын
One video? There are thousands. And instead of going after the scientists that call your lane bullshit you went after some lady who got pissed because your whole thing is pseudoscience.
@DamonCart 8 сағат бұрын
Point me to one of these thousands of videos. I went after the psychologist in her video who claims NLP is pseudoscience. He never replied. Who's a scientist who's claiming NLP is pseudoscience? NLP is not a science nor did the founders and developers ever call it a science. Do you want to debate me on this? We can livestream it.
@RonaldStricklin 6 сағат бұрын
@DamonCart Better question, where are the high quality studies that provide evidence that this isn't bunk woowoo stuff? What videos? What articles? What studies? You, an apparent, expert, want to argue with lay people and it's all about your personality with no substance.
@DamonCart 5 сағат бұрын
@ just as I thought, you won't address what I said. Did you even watch my video? She lists 4 studies and links them in the description of her video. Two studies didn't show effective outcomes using NLP and two did show effective outcomes using NLP. Apparently you don't know about any of these studies. Find me a scientist to debate. Or, you can debate me. I'll show you how woowoo NLP is. Let's see if you will finally answer one of my questions. Do you have beliefs?
@tanzelhaamim33 Күн бұрын
Where is the pdf,,,??? I can not found it,,,
@DamonCart 8 сағат бұрын
Check the Description underneath the video.
@divinehearts39 Күн бұрын
Thank you!!! This was so to the point to the psych.
@DamonCart 8 сағат бұрын
You're welcome.
@NordylitoDungo Күн бұрын
Thank you ❤
@DamonCart Күн бұрын
You're welcome.
@sagarghatge6704 Күн бұрын
916 views and only 66 likes. So many people don't hit the like button. Hit the like button to show gratitude to this guy who's put in the efforts to share this knowledge with us!
@DamonCart Күн бұрын
I appreciate your effort.
@babyfacebastard4379 Күн бұрын
@8:25
@mattgia5202 2 күн бұрын
I disagree completely, you are wrong. You simply took 15 minutes to equate confidence with competence, and relabel confidence-without-competence as arrogance. Then you say that determination, as you gain competence, is what you really need. Circular reasoning. How do you have any confidence when you’re a child then? …or before you gain competence and mastery in a subject? Also, horrible advice to the person who commented about his/her daughter who has low confidence. Confidence is an emotional state wherein you feel more connected and situated in the world and with your reality because of your secure connection with others! Confidence has to do with both genes and relationships (nature and nurture). If you are born with less propensity toward neuroticism and/or more genes that aid in the production of oxytocin then you will naturally feel more connected and situated in the world and with your reality. If you had a secure attachment growing up (see John Bowlby on attachment theory) then you will also feel more connected and situated in the world and with your reality. If you don’t have those “confident genes” and you had an insecure attachment (bad parents) - then you’re screwed! Just kidding! But you will have to essentially reparent yourself by forming quality relationships that help you feel connected. This is NOT a matter of “determination” aka individual effort, it’s a matter of your connection to others. The more you experience authentic connection with others, the more authentically confident you will become. The best thing the commenter with the daughter who feels bad about not fitting in with a group at school can do is to be present for your daughter so she can experience the real negative feelings she’s experiencing, sadness and anger, don’t suppress or avoid them. Then help her to experience the loving secure positive attachment she has with you. This guys advice to you is not going to help.
@mattquilici8153 2 күн бұрын
Replay
@DarkSitari 2 күн бұрын
Excellent. 🎉
@AviweZathu 2 күн бұрын
😌
@tina-louiselegere2086 2 күн бұрын
Thank you for sharing. Very informative
@DamonCart Күн бұрын
My pleasure.
@Priya_0711 2 күн бұрын
Perfect timing , I was just working on this with my kids , self confidence Vs self Conscious vs over confidence.. please make a video on NLP for kids ..how to make them confident , Teachers are ruining their Brains ...making teams "Cool kids Vs Uncool kids" ..is that a word? uncool , not so cool i dont know.. my daughter wanted to skip school today bc she was in the "uncool kids" group
@theyesowl 2 күн бұрын
use reframing with kids. Ask her who are uncool kids and who are cool kids and then reframe that uncool kids are actually cool because of so and so and give examples of people who are happy and succesful later in life because they were in this uncool club.
@mattgia5202 2 күн бұрын
I disagree completely, you are wrong. You simply took 15 minutes to equate confidence with competence, and relabel confidence-without-competence as arrogance. Then you say that determination, as you gain competence, is what you really need. Circular reasoning. How do you have any confidence when you’re a child then? …or before you gain competence and mastery in a subject? Also, horrible advice to the person who commented about his/her daughter who has low confidence. Confidence is an emotional state wherein you feel more connected and situated in the world and with your reality because of your secure connection with others! Confidence has to do with both genes and relationships (nature and nurture). If you are born with less propensity toward neuroticism and/or more genes that aid in the production of oxytocin then you will naturally feel more connected and situated in the world and with your reality. If you had a secure attachment growing up (see John Bowlby on attachment theory) then you will also feel more connected and situated in the world and with your reality. If you don’t have those “confident genes” and you had an insecure attachment (bad parents) - then you’re screwed! Just kidding! But you will have to essentially reparent yourself by forming quality relationships that help you feel connected. This is NOT a matter of “determination” aka individual effort, it’s a matter of your connection to others. The more you experience authentic connection with others, the more authentically confident you will become. The best thing the commenter with the daughter who feels bad about not fitting in with a group at school can do is to be present for your daughter so she can experience the real negative feelings she’s experiencing, sadness and anger, don’t suppress or avoid them. Then help her to experience the loving secure positive attachment she has with you. This guys advice to you is not going to help.
@DamonCart Күн бұрын
@mattgia5202 this is a video meant for adults. So you're saying confidence comes from connection, not competence? My confidence in my ability to drive a car has nothing to do with competence and everything to do with how connected I feel with people? Please explain.
@Priya_0711 Күн бұрын
@DamonCart thank you for your selfless teaching .❣️🎉yes of course this post is for adults . i t helped me ...as a Mom to handle difficult situations my kids face in school .love your efforts ,your kindness is so heart warming ❣️🎉
@mattgia5202 Күн бұрын
@@DamonCart Yes, true self confidence comes from connection. Low self confidence can infect every arena of a person’s life, even their “competence/confidence” in driving a car. There are many people who know how to drive a car that don’t because of anxiety issues that stem from low self esteem. As you said, you have client’s who are competent but who also lack confidence - “this is when suffering happens.” …I think you nailed the REAL problem on the head with this comment, but unfortunately you didn’t expound on it. What does it look like when you help your most competent client’s with their low level of confidence?
@brand0n1620 2 күн бұрын
"All parts of you are valid" I can't tell you how much it means to hear and accept that
@AnilPrajapati-lc1md 3 күн бұрын
We are living in a world of simulation governed by our internal representation......great
@bobturano1247 3 күн бұрын
Thanks
@jadonneuhoff6184 3 күн бұрын
Does this work?
@DamonCart 2 күн бұрын
Absolutely
@CoachMilijana 4 күн бұрын
Fantastic interview! Grateful and inspired!
@saeedmukhtarahmad2671 4 күн бұрын
When you are repeating "ideal-self" what if someone don't like their self?
@DamonCart 3 күн бұрын
What if? Your ideal self is who you want to be. If you don't like yourself, even more reason why you would be motivated to be the ideal you.
@saeedmukhtarahmad2671 4 күн бұрын
So, will both images be still pictures? What if someone imagine a video of compulsive behavior.?
@DamonCart 3 күн бұрын
It's usually a video for most people.
@favaro2008 4 күн бұрын
This was awesome. Just one suggestion to help who watches the replay: will you read more slowly or just summarize the questions you're answering to at the end, 🙏please?
@basil59 4 күн бұрын
Can you create a super ideal image by anchoring a bunch of good stuff to the image, yeah you got me thinking. Great video!
@DamonCart 4 күн бұрын
The ideal image acts as an anchor to draw you out of the compulsive behavior. Make the ideal image as compelling as it can possibly be. I don't think you need to add a layer of "super" ideal because an ideal you is as high as it gets, the you who is living your highest ideals. The additional anchoring might be more distracting than it is helpful. The ideal you swished in front of you acts as a disruption of the usual compulsive behavior and guides you toward behavior that aligns with your ideals.
@basil59 4 күн бұрын
@ ok , yup I get it
@jamesppesch 4 күн бұрын
Damn. I wanted to concur. Great editing.
@DamonCart 4 күн бұрын
Thank you. I can't take credit for the editing on this one though.
5 күн бұрын
I mainly listen, while I walk, exercise, between patients. I'm reading some books on NLP and doing exercises so these videos are supplementary as of now :-)
@DavidH-v9z 5 күн бұрын
REPLAY.... Mind blown! 😆 Earlier this week, I committed to your NLP Practitioner course, but I have meditated non-duality for 30 years. Looking forward to this journey, more than ever now. NLP looks to be so much more than I had previously understood. Thank you. 🙏
@DamonCart 4 күн бұрын
You're welcome.
@CoachiRock 5 күн бұрын
Oh, my! I must agree with your video! You said exactly everything I say in my classes... My first impression in your videos was not good. But this video changed it.
@DamonCart 4 күн бұрын
That's interesting. What was your first impression of my videos?
@CoachiRock 4 күн бұрын
@@DamonCart I watched some videos a while ago and my impression was you were relativist. Which is a big issue for people learning NLP.
@DamonCart 3 күн бұрын
@@CoachiRock I've never identified as a relativist, but I admit that I'm strongly inclined in that direction. Do you have a strong argument against it?
@DamonCart Күн бұрын
@@meuserfeliz in NLP, the territory cannot be known. This is supported buy neuroscience. So we are left with only our maps. How do we judge the value of a map? By how useful it is. If lying is wrong, but by telling a lie, you save millions of people, is it not worth telling that lie? If it's wrong to kill people but an aggressive criminal is threatening your life and the life of your loved ones, is it not okay to take their life first before they take yours and your loved ones?
@Viv8ldi 5 күн бұрын
Memo: hopeless people pursue hope
@dubonautik 5 күн бұрын
Replay
@Savesomesorrow13 5 күн бұрын
Taken advantage of until I'm no longer of use and then thrown away....
@DamonCart 5 күн бұрын
You know what you don't want. What do you want instead?
@Cathy-u9m 5 күн бұрын
himself.
@Savesomesorrow13 5 күн бұрын
Gee! Thanks for nothing, Oxford Language Dictionary!!? Identity is "the fact of being who a person is." 😂
@DamonCart 5 күн бұрын
More like the generalization of who you are.
@danieltopman 5 күн бұрын
Keep up the good work, its nice to see someone explain this so easily and the message comes across in very simple terms. once you know the feeling you don't want and then replace it with what you do want a profound effect begins to happens and you shift your view on the outcome, you become a better person through self concept.
@DamonCart 5 күн бұрын
Thank you.
@sophisticatedmorons 5 күн бұрын
Purpose
@aynoor7940 6 күн бұрын
Hey it's my first time I'm watching your video, can u please tell me can we stop loving someone by using nlp techniques?
@DamonCart 5 күн бұрын
Yes you can. Here's an older video that I did some years ago after I had gotten over a heartbreak using NLP. kzbin.info/www/bejne/eJPbZ2xsgMqBl6s
@aynoor7940 3 күн бұрын
@DamonCart thank you so much Damon ❤️
@StuartAshing 6 күн бұрын
Many Thanks Damon. From previous videos you mentioned the three books by Steve and after reading them it’s become more clear. Along with some super deep diving into those structures. This video is even more impactful and simplified what I really need to examine now. With my NLP training we did naturally cover hierarchy of values. This way makes an aweful lot more sense in how the energy flows from memories or experiences into values and then to ultra values and actualisation
@DamonCart 5 күн бұрын
Glad to hear it.
@rhitaakhardid5792 6 күн бұрын
He is talking about influencing not manipulating. Definition of manipulate: "Manipulate" means to control or influence someone or something in an unfair or underhanded way, usually to serve one's own purpose
@DamonCart 5 күн бұрын
That's a more recent definition. You can also manipulate situations and objects without any negative connotation or motive. We are always manipulating. Language is a manipulation of objective reality, for example.
@WoodyMarx 6 күн бұрын
REPLAY
@Savesomesorrow13 6 күн бұрын
My new #1 goal in life at this time is to obtain enough money for multiple in depth 1 on 1 Coaching Sessions with Damon. That will include several Re-Imprinting Sessions!!!
@Savesomesorrow13 6 күн бұрын
I'm sure I am missing the obvious but how do you "Be a value"? How do you "become/embody" your values?
@DamonCart 5 күн бұрын
That's what are training is based on. The simple answer is you learn how you create beliefs so you can create the beliefs about yourself that you value based on your actual experiences.
@azrakhan558 6 күн бұрын
I am impressed by your honesty
@DamonCart 5 күн бұрын
Thank you
@smadmad74 7 күн бұрын
Identity=Values+Qualities
@DamonCart 6 күн бұрын
Actually, when you are the qualities that you value, you experience self-esteem. Qualities are positive and negative generalizations about aspects of who you are. When you generalize all of your qualities together into one big generalization, that's what we call identity or self-concept.
@smadmad74 7 күн бұрын
Self-Concept=Identity
@Kaul_23 7 күн бұрын
Damon, will " Responsibility " be a low level value, mid level value or a high level value ?
@DamonCart 6 күн бұрын
Responsibility depends on how you mean it. Responsibility is similar to integrity. Assume you're going to act with integrity to your values and that you're going to act responsibly. At the same time, you might value responsibility because at one time you weren't responsible and you learned some hard lessons. As a result, you learned to value responsibility and you feel good about being a responsible person. I would place it in the mid-level.
@benbaldwin7558 7 күн бұрын
Damon, I greatly appreciate you. I appreciate how you embody NLP and make it a practical tool that it can be. You are an excellent coach and teacher. Thank you 🙏🏾
@DamonCart 6 күн бұрын
I appreciate that. Thank you.
@avagencheva 7 күн бұрын
You have done justice to your mentor by teaching this so well. I am so grateful to you! So many gold nuggets here.
@DamonCart 7 күн бұрын
Thank you.