Sean Cooper

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@J91Y 14 күн бұрын

come back to us

@thebasedgoddess Ай бұрын

Somehow got recommended this in July 2024, thanks Sean, hope you are doing well and not caring what nobody thinks til this day

@Dmc805 Ай бұрын

Tky

@kadirramazn 2 ай бұрын

I ashamed from girls. I think they would find me extemely defective, weird not good enough. Thats why i fear every girl im interested in

@strangeengine16 2 ай бұрын

8:40 🤯

@fatemabithy8650 3 ай бұрын

❤❤

@user-qe5pz1pc2f 3 ай бұрын

Thanks a lot man. Its really the thing I think people should think when they think too much. Lol. Honestly, being happy and busy helps. But also, it's about how comfortable and interested one is in another person he's talking to. Really. But yeah, this is quite the nail to coffin

@BudderB0y2222 3 ай бұрын

I’m 20 and I never have anything to say to anyone. Even writing is hard because my head simply feels blank, devoid of anything to say. I’m unable to create a connection with anyone, since I’ll just manage some trivial response but have no substance to add to the convo. Can barely communicate with my own family. I feel very stupid.

@kubafraszczyk7517 3 ай бұрын

Now, how do i interlope the new responses into the conversation? How do i go from learning that Bob was at the mall to asking about the movie theater closure?

@nodical802 3 ай бұрын

I have to hms

@FallisLife 5 ай бұрын

I always feel ashamed for my hobbies and achievments. It sounds so selfish but I used to have toxic friends that would beat down on my interests and acheivements by talking bad about themselves. That made me learn to hide the things I'm proud of as to not hurt anyones feelings even though in reality they don't feel jealous. And if they do that's their issue to deal with. But whenever I make or do something that I'm proud of I almost instantly hide it because I'm ashamed to make anyone feel upset or discontent with themselves. Idk :(

@IDFK__ 5 ай бұрын

Idk… it’s a hit or miss for me. Some people are just simply not my “vibe”, so I’m more reserved with certain people I guess. I just learned to accept that I’m not going to hit it off with everyone I encounter, even if a friend introduced me to their friend.

@ca8547 5 ай бұрын

I don’t because I don’t have self condemnation so then I don’t condemn people who are in my sight or/of thoughts. Romans 8:1 There is therefore now no condemnation to those who are in Christ Jesus, who do not walk according to the flesh, but according to the Spirit. Jesus loves you! 😇❤️🔑

@j.j7079 6 ай бұрын

I feel ashamed of my body.I am very short. Also often people laugh at me. I cant get over that pain so i avoid people. I lost confidence to attend for an interview. I was rejected many times not because of my incapability to do that job but my body and appearance.

@AKHIL252 6 ай бұрын

Thankyou 😊

@boatmanmeche 6 ай бұрын

I’ve always disliked people who can carry conversations and seem to be really having fun talking. It all just seems so fake but it probably jealousy

@wounded_rabbit 6 ай бұрын

This is the paradox of the term "self-conscious" which does seem to mean "self-unconscious" in terms of attention directed outward instead of inward. I feel like there's something to say here about introversion and extraversion too, do introverts and extraverts experience "self-consciousness" differently? Thanks so much for this, it's the first time I've seen or heard anything speak to the felt experience of "self-consciousness", rather than the intellectual abstraction of it.

@MiguelExhale 6 ай бұрын

Good tips i don’t know why we make it so difficult.

@chaosfr3959 6 ай бұрын

I got diagnosed with autism last year. Now I know why I can't do anything about that problem.

@natylieful 7 ай бұрын

I should have seen this 9 years ago. Would have saved me from a lit more. I never knew about toxic shame. Thank you.

@hyikun8123 7 ай бұрын

Breakthrough point 5:51

@InspirationLabs-ff8vf 7 ай бұрын

make-believe evolutionary psychology... "when we were cavemen and we had to fight sabertooths [insert any nonsense that is neither verifiable nor scientific]..."

@thegoblonoid 7 ай бұрын

I have never felt so incredibly called out in a video as I have here...

@sarinarahimi2037 7 ай бұрын

Dude I don’t know you would see this or not. Your last upload was about 7 years ago. Are you fucking kidding me?? Just one thing! World needs you.

@sarinarahimi2037 7 ай бұрын

Bro I really appreciate you. I really really do…

@backseateats9513 8 ай бұрын

Same I’m small man short and not good looking small penis have nothing to offer 😮 I’m not shy I just rather not be seen ever

@kremzupa_69 8 ай бұрын

I'm ashamed of myself after any social interaction. Sux

@backseateats9513 8 ай бұрын

Same I’m small man short and not good looking small penis have nothing to offer 😮 I’m not shy I just rather not be seen ever

@mikaelnilsson8041 9 ай бұрын

My rule of thumb in conversations is to be interested rather than interesting.

@mikelastname9583 9 ай бұрын

The information is interesting, but I stay focused on the microphone getting bumped constantly. Maybe it's my sub exaggerating it or something.

@anzilmatrix4149 9 ай бұрын

Are u Daniel labellaa

@YouTubeIsTrashAssGarbage 10 ай бұрын

did you die in india....? lol

@ciro9951 8 ай бұрын

Search up Derek Wydra on google… there’s your answer

@DAClub-uf3br 10 ай бұрын

I can't stand to listen to Joe Rogan. He has the IQ of a 12 year old special ED student and never questions anything.

@mixoh 11 ай бұрын

i have been hiding for tooo long

@backseateats9513 8 ай бұрын

Same I’m small man short and not good looking small penis have nothing to offer 😮 I’m not shy I just rather not be seen ever

@ajanamirei8026 11 ай бұрын

Thank you.

@STAR-LIGHT.1111 Жыл бұрын

Just finding a hobby or doing something i'm not good at in the beginning allready gives me shame. I had a narcissistic parent and a emotional immature parent... 😅

@jazzcaffyn1368 Жыл бұрын

This is an old video but I wanted to say thank you. I feel like I am going through exactly what you're describing - especially the hiding part. This video really helped me to realize that I'm not alone.

@jikuclt7172 Жыл бұрын

i just felt shame and it was bc of my thoughts, im ashamed sometimes by my thoughts, even tho others might see it as not embarrassing i keep thinking everyone thinks its embarrassing

@CozylilB Жыл бұрын

you fucking decent person. shut up

@gotinite1000 Жыл бұрын

This guy represents himself under different name on other platform of himself - "Derek Wydra". Just type this name in Google. He is a total liar and scammer.

@ciro9951 Жыл бұрын

Holy fucken shit you’re right. I bought his course years ago when I was 15 and after much reflection I’m realizing I got scammed lol. Oh well, at least now we know.

@gotinite1000 Жыл бұрын

@@ciro9951 hi, man, I was writing to you in the comments in 2020... When I bought the system, I found it was a scam so I got a refund. And I wrote it here

@gotinite1000 Жыл бұрын

@@ciro9951 Is there a way to take actions against this guy, is it legal to have two distinct identities on different websites? He probably gained a lot of money from all the people he lied (as he obviosly never got social anxiety himself).

@ciro9951 Жыл бұрын

@@gotinite1000I’m definitely looking into it but I’m not sure if we could take legal action, yet. I’m going to do research about it but I personally can’t let this shit slide, he takes advantage of vulnerable people (people struggling with loneliness and social anxiety) and that pisses me off. I’m definitely going to do something though I can’t say. I’m so glad you posted this comment man, thank you

@gotinite1000 Жыл бұрын

@@ciro9951 I absolutely relate with every word you said. You're welcome. I also bought his course very desperate in 2020, and I found it absolutely useless as it just gives some general, oversimplified advice you can find on the net. He mentions mindfulness and ACT (Acceptance and Commitment Therapy) but it doesn't work like that. Yet, he makes you think his product is extremely unique and different from everything else and absolutely lies that he was suffering from social anxiety. In one of his articles, he talks how he helped a friend to overcome his anxiety in just a few hours... Social anxiety can be very debilitating, crippling mental health condition (it can literally disable you in crucial ares of life). And people like him try to take advantage of people's suffering. Even psychotherapists can't help in most cases, doctors prescribe very dangerous drugs, people like him try to scam you on the net... It is horrible. I am not sure if we can take his products down, as he can represent himself under different pseudonyms and still take people's money.

@ianteberovira8097 Жыл бұрын

You are a big stupid, you think its easy for all to get anxiety and shyness, i watched your video about the bottle trick, it was good at start since you started to say to use money for the information, you was pushing for do it, you was trying to make me pay about what you was going to explain, after all you all are the same, all for money and let others pain if they dont pay us

@ianteberovira8097 Жыл бұрын

Also the video is only available if you go in a sitweb

@ciro9951 8 ай бұрын

He’s a grifter search up Derek Wydra on google you’ll see the truth…

@klejimr6965 Жыл бұрын

I remember 3 years ago i watched your videos i could relate, but now i dont find any relation ive Become another person not because of u, i comapred myself to others better than me i cultivated my anger towards myself and used that energy to become more self aware and hit the gym do work and it worked,Im better than most people ive encountered, Your solution is to raw hard physical labor real challenges not reading stupid books about why u are sad and unable to put 2 sentences together,i was there, I know, Being on your phone all the time does that. Do what you want with this information have a great life

@aiiiia9971 Жыл бұрын

Man I really related to this last one because like I have been afraid lately you know that if people I know "really knew me" they wouldn't like me. I have these "secrets" That only one person and my immediate family know about. Everyone else I hide it from them I be vague and dance around it. I don't know why I suddenly care about it so much Or why the first thing I feel when I wake up in the morning every day is shame. I don't think this is helpful but I'm not sure how to stop it

@x-x3898 Жыл бұрын

Wow. This some of this is very relatable, thank you for making me feel less lonely because I feel ashamed of myself due to that and other reasons as well, i now realized most people could actually have the same problem and this really just goes full circle, we’ll fight through it together

@oliverkirkland867 Жыл бұрын

Great video, cried a good bunch. Hope I could give a hug to you and all the comment section. We’ll work though it guys

@lojain-nasser3017 Жыл бұрын

i was always too ashamed to even search this subject up because i thought i was the only struggling with it 🙃and i was ashamed as to how big of a problem i’m making out of it anyway you’re great dude thanks a lot although this video is like 8 years ago i hope you’re still sharing your message and helping people out there

@BellaZella3000 Жыл бұрын

I felt so much pain from shame today, after meeting a manager at work, he kept looking at me weird when I was speaking. I don't know why. I cared too much because I respect him and want him to like me as a person. he ended up abruptly cutting the meeting short. I feel that I might have depressed him because I told him about my cancer, my health problem I'm dealing with. I left feeling so much trauma to the point I was thinking suicide. I kept repeating what happened in my mind , playing it over and feeling I should have said things differently. I feel I can't cope and don't ever want to see him again. I feel humiliated. so much shame.