One thing I learned this year is that women are operating is opposite world 9/10 times. My wife just says exactly the opposite of what she wants so frequently I just listen. Then do the opposite and she always loves it. 🤯

That is some very good advice. Women need to listen

I'm writing a book with a female lead, and I happened to come across this video out of curiosity to hear how it resonates with others. I honestly love the topic of emotional regulation and feminine energy, and how it affects everyone around it. The character in my story struggles to connect authentically with herself due to her family's rules and cultural expectations. In some chapters, her husband listens and learns about her vulnerabilities, which adds depth to their relationship. Thank you for sharing this! 💖

This is not black and white. What you said is correct some of the time, but not all of the time. To make a blanket statement like this is not wise.

Truly strong feminine women dress modestly. Because they know there true value.

Everbody thinks the way to start a relationship is with sex. Even if they don't do it right away. But that turns into a successful relationship less than half the time.

Thank you for this reminder! ❤😊

No one is the right person. Just stay single.

Good advice in a short video. ❤

You raise an interesting point- and I tend to agree with you

Thank you 🙏💜 you are so beautiful and explain it so clearly I appreciate you 😊

I’m feeling this. All of the sick-to-my-stomach, achingly intensely sexually attractive women I’ve been drawn to have either never panned out or ended in disaster. I’m going to take a new tack and look straight to godliness, character, values, and family dynamics. Looks and intense sexual attraction will be fourth or fifth on the list.

If I'm not physically attracted to a woman I'm not going to date her. Plain and simple.

Are u Russian? Lol

Just admit that Women don't give two F's about Men

Wow, the timing of me seeing this video is perfect, I was with a narcissist for 4 years, and when we stopped seeing each other, i found the love of my life, and because i was trauma bonded, i ended up ruining things but i realized my mistake and did all i could to make sure i got her back.

Yes I’ve dated men I wasn’t attracted to at all and boy a few grew on me. Hard. Men need to learn to slow down and get to know women. Cause y’all ain’t gonna land the top 20% of women. Open your scope. Real women aren’t filtered.

God , I hope he doesn’t see this, but my childhood friend, he was obese. He also shrugged off memories of school to be well respected and fawned over at his place of work. He was good at what he did, and finally the qualities which I was always drawn to, started to become aware. However, his fiancé, actually went to counseling to handle that my friend is very overweight, and, you know how women are, “this is who I sleep with.”

Those butterflies you feel for someone else is really just common sense leaving your body.

If there is no attraction… walk away

Stay single, fellas

Ladies, if you keep listening to idiots like this one, prepare to live the rest of your life alone.

Pretty sure there has to be a mutual burning desire, and the woman should always love the man more than he loves her. And I refuse to date fatherless women, their lack of respect for men and family is disgusting.

Personally, I don't want a Woman who has wait for her Attraction to Grow...for Me... I want a Woman who is excited see me, and to Be around me. I don't want a Woman staying with me just because she grew some attractiion grew on her over time.

What if guys feel the butterflies for me often, and then become obsessed? Does it mean I’m a bad catch as a lady? 🤔

As women we are SCREWED.The problem is MOST MEN UNATTRACTIVE. So we are forced to ve with men we dont desire. I tried to do it. I been in long term relationships with men. We had a good relationship but the sexual desirablity puece wasn't there. Theres was little sex so they inevitably ended ip cheating. We are screwed , there are few sexually desirable men

Nope it will definitely work 😂 eager is good. In this day and age men don’t even get rejected anymore we just get ghosted. I love a girl with a bit of enthusiasm. I’m not saying that if I cancel I shouldn’t have to do anything it’s on the person who cancelled man or woman to organise the thing.

Thank you. I aways think of this but never started but I'll now

If a man does not want commitment, he will not change his mind for you, no matter what you do.

This is dead on.

You assume the man should worship and chase the woman which may be the case when the men you are dealing with are pathetic. All I hear you saying is how to find someone you can use and manipulate then discard when you find someone else worthy of effort on your behalf.

Well I'm not a woman, please stop doing men a disservice. You are correct for human

Comparing a waste of time because you can’t be another person

Thankyou

Or maybe the women need to stop acting like men

Well done, there's so many tips techniques and tricks that it's sometimes hard to know where to start. But it's not rocket science to get your man shivering with ecstasy just by changing the way you talk. As simple as this sounds, maybe try escalating it a step at a time, go’ogle something like Words of Desire by Celestine Dessike to sneakily crawl into his mind and let it build on from that.

Yes, but the fact is that people are not made to be alone. People are not happy when they are lonely for long periods of time. Love and physical touch, is one of the primary needs of human beings. 🤷‍♂️

If someone cancels a ‘date’ as she rightly says is a sign of someone ‘not interested’ enough (unless of course a genuine medical or other emergency).

Cannot remember the last time I took a woman out , I eat out alone one Man one bill.

Don't listen to this lady. Just text the guy at your natural desire, love is unlimited and truth prevails.

If you’re not screening for character, character and character, you as a woman are asking for trouble. The rest is just window dressing

Advice for failing, if we don't raise each other up, what's the point to be together? I won't be your savior and provider if you don't want to help... Nobody is perfect at the start of a relationship.

Horrible advice, playing game like this is a HUGE red flag. I will initiate text, planned dates, pay for some meals and compliment her, but I expect the same efforts from her.

commitment worthy man... as if its okay to cheat on a man just because of some energy bullshit if you have to tell yourself that to justify your cheating then you have a LOT of work to do on yourself

If you saying housewife role is "box fit or criteria" would you like to marry someone who doesnt provide and make you live in poor conditions? If a women want a man who make her life better so his job is in the outside, in the other way a good man want a woman who can handle her house matters ( give her a house she will make a home) No need for blond or inside of her if she doesnt respect her familly and her commitment perfectly

Tom would says keep looking and searching ,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,, but. but the difficult thing is is to getting closer to make contact and a. A sweet positive conversation. Or might get rejection ^<^<^<^<^<^<^<^<>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡❤❤

Solid advice. 💯 I don’t know why many women don’t know this.

Please stop being insecure about yourself and don't use a filter

Start with talking slower

AS LONG AS ONLY MEN ARE APPROACH, THERE WILL BE EMNITY BETWEEN MEN AND WOMEN. THERE WILL ALWAYS BE MISUNDEESTANDUNG AND CONFUSION ABOUT WHETHER THERE IS MUTUAL ATTRACTION BETWEEN MEN AND WOMEN AT ALL. GAY AND LESBUAN PEOPLE DINT FOLLOW THIS INSANELY STUPID RULE. THEIR BREAKUOS MIGHT NIT BE BETTER BUT AT LEAST THEY KNOW ATTRACTION EXISTS. WOMEN ARE SO DAMN COVERT THAT THEY CONVINCE MANY MEN THAT THEY ARE NOT ATTRACTED TO MEN AT ALL. ITS REALLY INSANE TO EXPECT THE MAN TO ALWAYS BE THE ONE TO APPROACH. THE APPROACH SHOULD BE A SHARED EXPERIENCE.