DO THIS if you want to know a man's TRUE INTENTIONS

If you are organizing dates, reaching out and texting all the time before HE has a chance to, then you won't know his true intentions.
This can lead to a false sense of interest because a man may simply respond to your effort.
You're doing all of the work so he just goes with the flow.
In fact, if you hadn't been the one moving the relationship forward, he may not have made any effort at all.
So if you want to know whether he is truly interested, give him the chance to court you. He needs the opportunity to be the initiator.
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#datinghelp #relationshipadvice #datingcoach

[@Pierce-xb6vi]

Ladies, as a man, if you hang back and don't CLEARLY communicate what you need from us we are going to assume you're not interested and we WILL move on without a second thought.

[@diveblue]

As a guy, I'll say this advice is terrible. If a woman doesn't show at least equal interest and effort , I will absolutely stop trying and move on.

[@dunyacaliskan7495]

Then he's going to think you're uninterested.

[@fryoungtrad]

Or how about reciprocate and see how he reciprocates? Rapunzel is dead. You have to wake up and grow up to today's world, ladies.

[@SQRH3]

Very well said 👍

[@nordicexile7378]

I disagree with this. A woman who makes me initiate everything before marriage is going to make me initiate everything the whole damn time we are married. There should be a healthy back and forth in the relationship or she's just not worth it.

[@SQRH3]

Yah that's not very good advice. The guy will just think you aren't that interested in him and he will just go and be with someone that is (and who doesn’t play silly games).

[@anthonyrepetto3474]

If you're holding expectations over your partner, in secret, then you are being abusive. You must communicate your needs and intentions yourself, instead of looking for 'signs' and 'indicators' - none of those are accurate measures of a person's character. If you want to know a guy's intentions: ask him. If you don't have enough perspicacity to see how foolish you look, when you 'hope he follows my special, made-up, secret expectations', then he won't want to date you. Consider the obverse: would you want to be with a man who held secret expectations and judgements over you?

[@frankmartinez2987]

Better yet, if you want to know a man’s intentions, you could try asking him? But what do I know? I’m just a guy.

[@Saber_Nico]

women, dont do this. what a man wants is a direct conversation. you ask him. if he's into you, he'll be direct to the point. if not, he'll try to sway the conversation or avoid it all together (or if he's a honest man, he'll say he doesnt see you as a gf or something like that). that's it. don't play these stupid games unless want to win stupid prizes.

[@Saber_Nico]

"are you interested in me?" Well if I wasn't, I wouldnt be here with you now would I? How's is that hard? @jrod7864

[@Saber_Nico]

@jrod7864 "are you interested in me?" Well if I wasn't, I wouldnt be here with you now would I? How is that hard?

[@pandarek5689]

Sounds like relation with a wall which quickly collapses.

[@Burt1038]

Speaking as an average dude... I've never in my life had a woman take the initiative or shower me with gifts to "win" my affection. If this is what your doing, ladies, you are simply trying to date out of your league and you know it hence the extra effort. I'm a bit jealous at how easy life is for good looking guys, NGL.

[@8PZG8]

This is so horrible advise. As a man if I didn't see ad least as much effort and attention as I'm giving to you will just move on. Don't get me wrong. I don't need or want a boss lady I just want equal participation and appreciatiin in relation.

[@Drew-gi5dw]

Men bond through completing tasks and goals with others. We also do not understand indirect or covert communication. We also like to feel high and exalted. If you as a woman are interested in us, ask us what projects or goals we are working on, and become our assistant. Help is complete them. I am not talking about domestic chores, but what we actually are pouring our time and energy into, especially I If it is work or a business or something else. Because then we will have something to discuss that we men care about. If you want to destroy a relationship, do the opposite. Be dominant. Do things on your own without asking us first. Talk about what you’re interested in, which we don’t care about. Don’ wait on our decision to act. The easier you make our lives, the more beautiful you will become In our eyes, no matter your actual physical appearance. The opposite is true the harder you make our lives. It really is that simple.

[@jazzymichael]

Sounds like ur whispering

[@billmacia-0808]

Horrible advice, playing game like this is a HUGE red flag. I will initiate text, planned dates, pay for some meals and compliment her, but I expect the same efforts from her.

[@Diginixx]

lol

[@alastair1955]

Sounds like good advice but it's not. Do what you feel like doing, not hold back, play games etc. Long as the man is not a narcissist or similar he will respond favorably to any encouragement, and be left guessing at lack of encouragement. Just a qualifier, if the guy is a narcissist or some other antisocial disorder then he may just take everything you do and give nothing back. Dump him you do not need someone like that.

[@robertgross9580]

😂

[@PyrrhicSalvation]

This is terrible advice, I would assume she’s seeing someone else or losing interest in me. That would then result in basically asking her what’s wrong, the communication won’t be truthful. This is an excuse for women to do less and get more, while rewarding crappy behavior.