Why you should DATE someone you’re NOT ATTRACTED TO

[@tomachibald]

Wow, the timing of me seeing this video is perfect, I was with a narcissist for 4 years, and when we stopped seeing each other, i found the love of my life, and because i was trauma bonded, i ended up ruining things but i realized my mistake and did all i could to make sure i got her back.

[@linamoon-mi7wd]

its difficult to let go of someone you love, i am in a similar situation, and i do not know what else do to have him back, i have been dying inside, people actually think i am happy, i am not

[@tomachibald]

I feel your pain , after trying out the no contact experiment that failed miserably, i had to find other means, i had to reach out to a spiritual adviser, it was brilliant idea which i never thought it was, but it worked wonders for me

[@linamoon-mi7wd]

Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach him/ her?

[@tomachibald]

Her name is Shelly renee white , and she is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.

[@linamoon-mi7wd]

Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive

[@DL-cd7ew]

Stay single, fellas

[@MarkLightGroup]

The odler and wiser I become, the more staying single makes makes perfect sense.

[@spartanstrengthskills371]

If I'm not physically attracted to a woman I'm not going to date her. Plain and simple.

[@laikwanstone8929]

I’m feeling this. All of the sick-to-my-stomach, achingly intensely sexually attractive women I’ve been drawn to have either never panned out or ended in disaster. I’m going to take a new tack and look straight to godliness, character, values, and family dynamics. Looks and intense sexual attraction will be fourth or fifth on the list.

[@RuleofFive]

Those butterflies you feel for someone else is really just common sense leaving your body.

[@dansmock656]

You raise an interesting point- and I tend to agree with you

[@Surfclub23]

Just admit that Women don't give two F's about Men

[@jasonsandifer3250]

Personally, I don't want a Woman who has wait for her Attraction to Grow...for Me... I want a Woman who is excited see me, and to Be around me. I don't want a Woman staying with me just because she grew some attractiion grew on her over time.

[@johnnybarnes2120]

That is some very good advice. Women need to listen

[@Shiraz2922]

Good advice in a short video. ❤

[@dehsa38]

Everbody thinks the way to start a relationship is with sex. Even if they don't do it right away. But that turns into a successful relationship less than half the time.

[@jeztickles4361]

If there is no attraction… walk away

[@ozzycortes]

No one is the right person. Just stay single.

[@thetruther954]

God , I hope he doesn’t see this, but my childhood friend, he was obese. He also shrugged off memories of school to be well respected and fawned over at his place of work. He was good at what he did, and finally the qualities which I was always drawn to, started to become aware. However, his fiancé, actually went to counseling to handle that my friend is very overweight, and, you know how women are, “this is who I sleep with.”

[@basantidevi2305]

Yes I’ve dated men I wasn’t attracted to at all and boy a few grew on me. Hard. Men need to learn to slow down and get to know women. Cause y’all ain’t gonna land the top 20% of women. Open your scope. Real women aren’t filtered.

[@Surfclub23]

Women don't give two F's about Men

[@NeoZeta]

Women don't lower their standards and keep going after the top 5% and you're trying to pass this message to men? LOL most men aren't looking for super models, your side is.

[@cammiek3348]

What if guys feel the butterflies for me often, and then become obsessed? Does it mean I’m a bad catch as a lady? 🤔

[@TheEliminator1992]

Yes.

[@jeztickles4361]

Means you’re attracting the wrong kind

[@thewealthywonderwoman]

@@cammiek3348 No, it just means you’re attracting the wrong types of men/for the wrong reasons. “Obsessed” is not a healthy feeling to have in a relationship

[@lookfeelbehealthy6320]

This is not black and white. What you said is correct some of the time, but not all of the time. To make a blanket statement like this is not wise.

[@joshythefreak69]

Are u Russian? Lol