Worst advice I could have received, I could have literally killed myself if I hadn't had the courage to start doing more sports, So with that I started going to the gym and starting a diet, it took me out of the dark time that was most of this year and put me in the happiest moment of my life, One thing is someone who is bullied, has a eating disorder, But in my case, I simply couldn't find something that did me a lot of good and took me out of a state that would certainly lead me to depression, this advice may be good but there is NOTHING wrong with Someone who wants to change their body out of pure will and does it in a healthy way, will not cause any harm, on the contrary, it will only do good, someone who takes care of their diet and exercise, doesn't procrastinate, sleeps well and has the courage to seek out a psychologist

The first couple would make you be seen as a jerk

Thoroughly enjoy and appreciate this. Thanks for putting out body neutral content! 🥰

I think what strikes people the wrong way is that youre dismissing comments people make about themselves half of the time. The best response is to proceed and ask them about it or just respond positively instead of dismissing the entire subject 😅

me: watched 2 clips of haikyuu youtube: *covers my feed with volleyball tips, games and highlights*

You’re not supposed to watch the dub version…

she s so sweet

Just yap with her girl she's tryna shoot the shit w you

Highly doubt you even get these comments. you definitely dont know how to navigate out of them. ozempic to oz? crazy work. just be normal and act disinterested or set the boundary firmly.

That’s why we couldn’t be friends.

I get the point you're trying to make but not all of those comments were about your body? Like the change the subject one just would make someone look rude if someone is proud about losing some weight and wants to share that it would make them feel so awful to just have their personal accomplishment spoken over like that without any acknowledgement. It cost you nothing to instead say "I'm so happy you've been accomplishing goals you're proud of- speaking of you're looking great today that color looks great on you" ignoring their personal accomplishments is such a self centered way to have a conversation.

😂this is soo me and my gf😂lmao

The fact that she’s wearing a similar coat to Walter’s 😂

Nice techniques involved, good recipe fr

No cooking time or temperature?? I HATE these incomplete cooking videos!

thats not fresh oregano 🌿 😂

Wtf are you talking about? With that same logic, we can attribute every problem to "societal norms" and "culture" and never do anything about anything. A fit body is both beautiful and healthy, and I speak as someone who does not currently have one, but strives to build it. If one has a health condition and is unable to build a good looking body, then ok. But otherwise, let us not normalize sloth. That would be going from one extreme to another.

Pov: no available wall

They don’t have lemon?

Do you have any tips for digging? I don't get the ball up very well when I practice and I can't keep it up for long.

Being fat is bad

Marry or dont marry, you'll regret it either way. - Socrates. Thank God I'm not married - Me.

Gorgeous!❤

Oh my this sounds like my mom

Why is this so true!!!!!!!!😳😂❤

Kinda chubby

Ummm not understand first comment

Okay slay❤

He was like 2 days why😂😂

if you have a weight problem it is linked to an incorrect diet so yes fat is a problem let's stop this nonsense

Dinner recipe??

Shes fasho rubbing one out after a bottle of wine.

3:22 what?!????!????!!!?

This is the most useful post I have seen

Why say that,? Plaid is gorgeous. Plus there are so many color combinations to choose from.

You keep being you because I think you look great in anything you wear. Do you buddy!

I love all of these except the second one. I would support anyones decision to try new diets because i dont necessarily think diets always correlate to body image issues. Sometimes its health related. Sometimes it just to feel good or better about themselves. Cutting people off about telling someone about their desire to change isnt healthy. Its dismissive and unsupportive. And yea you may not agree with it but its their body and they can talk about their own body or their own health anyway they want. As a supportive friend its not up to you to decide whether or not they can bring that up. If youre getting triggered by them talking about their own body and health thats work you have to do not them. Now on the flipside the rest of the comments you have exampled here are comments about someone elses weight or body image or your own. THats when you can use those suggestions. Any time its about your body or gossip about anothers. Thats a clear boundary yhat can be set. Because you dont have to participate in that kind of conversation. Its negative and demeaning. However the example about the person starting a new diet and cutting out sugar is not a good example since theyre talking about themselves not you or someone else. You cant control how someone speaks about their own life and cutting them off to bring up another subject or dismissing them makes you look like a bad friend. I would be very irritated if i was talking about a new health journey with a friend and they changed the subject. Not every new diet is talking smack about a body. Sometimes its taking control of ones health and life. And if thats the case it should without a doubt be supportive

Travis STOP WITH ALL THE BIG CLOSE THAY MAKE YOU LOOK FAT FAT WHAT WAS WRONG WITH THE WAY YOU DRESSED BEFOR YOU GOT WITH Taylor

Honey, you need a job😢

This sounds a little too forward for me. I feel like I would rather say, “I don’t know how much I weigh, I don’t weigh myself that often” or “I’m not too worried about calories, but I always eat good portions”

This is fantastic, thank you. My daughter just turned 2 and I HAVE to get myself in check, so I will be using these.

Fr, like I took my yiayia to wicked the other day with my dad and she kept saying "Τι είναι αυτό" 😭

Somone asked my younger sibling how much she weights once (she's pretty insecure about their body), and when she said they didn't wanna answer, the other person wouldn't stop asking. I told her that is someone is bothering/bullying them like that she should say: ''Enough to crush you, b*tch, so stfu''. I'm a very proud older sibling 😂

I'm really kind of worried about the way my friends talk about their bodies and especially food. We got some free samples from our university and they instantly looked at how much fat the chips had. They were tester bags. they had like 5 chips in them. I can understand trying to understand food better if you tend to overeat and want to know how much is appropriate. I'm not sure at what point to consider it an ED but I will definitely keep a close I on them. I also struggle with food but that's because my depression makes it hard to take care of myself and my medication surpresses my appetite a bit. I'm glad I only got influenced by the food and body propaganda by small amounts (though it couldn't hurt for me to build more muscle in order to support my weak ligaments a bit more)

Within like just talking with a friend I can see not talking about weight; but sometimes it is a general question for a purpose. you should absolutely weigh yourself; not like everyday but like once a month. That you know your generalized weight it's very important for medication dosage it's very important for a tug of war competition and hundreds of other things that I'm not going to list off. This specific context though it does not need to be discussed

Bro I read “hanging out with my bf and her man” i was so confused

Dude, once I had this lady who was my little sisters, friends mom and like, OMFG. I was at the bus stop, trying to pick up my sister, and she comes up to me and starts talking and asks about sports at my school. I told her I don't do sports and she just went "for someone who doesn't do sports, you're losing alot of weight!" Like it was a positive thing. I just stopped, turned, looked at her and I told her how inappropriate it was and how she's not allowed to say things like that to me and it's not her place to. And she tried to stammer out how its a compliment and I just went "no it's not, dont you say anything about my body like that again." And then she walked away, and tbh, I'm just glad she doesn't talk to me anymore. Lol.

I have a friend that is super obsessed with weight & my weight. Even after I told her that I've recovered from a terrible fear of food which led to an eating disorder, she still wanted to harp on my weight. I found myself starting to go back to my eating disorder times of skipping days from eating and extreme fasting. She couldn't respect my boundaries, so I had to let her go. It's been over a year since e last talked. She called me on Thanksgiving... I DID NOT ANSWER! Love yourself a lil more today! 😊❤

Love this ❤ I think people assume commenting on weight loss is a good thing but it made me feel bad to hear how enthusiastically people spoke of my thinner body especially once I gained some weight back. Everyone who would compliment me each time I saw them and talk about how incredible I looked became nearly radio silent when I gained back the weight. If you think your loved ones don’t notice that you never used to compliment their bigger bodies once they get smaller, you’re wrong. We do notice.

I stopped weighing myself. Don’t even own a scale except a kitchen one for food lol I did weigh myself once recently because I have a physical job now and was a little worried I was slimming down too much. I was right on the money for where I should be, the fat had just started changing to muscle, which was new for me. 98.6 degrees isn’t everyone’s normal temperature and 2,000 calories a day isn’t what everyone needs. Got a lot easier when I started listening to my body instead of comments. I have been loving all these videos of people taking charge of their own weight journeys. Many of the women I know between 45-75 pretty exclusively chat about diets and things at work. Even the weather is more interesting than that.