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@raizeleckstein9091 3 сағат бұрын
Wow really amazing talk!! So clearly explained and such good points!!
@lottasiden440 21 сағат бұрын
This is so wonderful Ken. Thank you so much!
@margaritarosa5842 22 сағат бұрын
That is such a comprehensive list..I like your lego block analogy. Many thanks Ken😊
@boo-leeproductionsinc3501 Күн бұрын
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@kimberlygray227 Күн бұрын
This was clearly laid out. Thank you for the explanation so simply and eloquently explained.
@TheIntimacyGram Күн бұрын
Glad it was helpful!
@goodnight.9575 6 күн бұрын
Thank you for sharing this. As an alcoholic this is helping me see where I can grow by facing my fears.
@GoodDay-ox1el 6 күн бұрын
Same
@megadavids1 9 күн бұрын
Great video, thank you!!
@user-lk7vc8kj8t 10 күн бұрын
Very Helpful. Less is more Thankyou.
@justinepavone2370 11 күн бұрын
Are you still with Kaiser? I need therapy dealing with these issues.
@TheIntimacyGram 10 күн бұрын
Yes, I work in the Addiction Medicine Department.
@esperanzavillafuerte9810 14 күн бұрын
Great explanation! When you follow a 12 step program and therapy/group, life changes in a positive way! My quality of life is definetly better!! Thanks doc!!! 7:38
@michaelvaldez4925 14 күн бұрын
Hello Ken. Great video. I thought the three legacies were simple unity "the state of being together" Service "The act of helping" and recovery "the return to normal state" you are broke it down!!! many addicts that first get into recovery don't want that much structure. That's a lot of work!!! But those who are desperate will practically do anything. Recovery is not an overnight thing. Thank you for your video.
@arielmeadow 15 күн бұрын
"not getting butthurt over stupid shit" 😂😂😂😂 that is a tremendous goal
@artician22 17 күн бұрын
I would like to interact somehow. I feel it is too late for me, being 66 and fitting traits of most points on the list. I have doomed myself somehow. What do I do now?
@TheIntimacyGram 17 күн бұрын
Move into The Solution 🎈
@jmm2000 20 күн бұрын
"WHEEEEEEE!"
@justinlena172 29 күн бұрын
You inspire me... thank you
@WillemPenn 29 күн бұрын
Dang! That’s a long ride!
@TheIntimacyGram 29 күн бұрын
It's certainly closer and less challenging than my rides to SeaWorld!
@martinfinnmusic Ай бұрын
Great video. Thank you. :)
@AxelT-ut2no Ай бұрын
The reversed laundry list looks OK to me, to be honest
@chrisrussell8442 Ай бұрын
Wow. Thank you, these points are scarily accurate. To be living so unaware in their shadow is quite the burden, so thank you for promoting the solution!
@TheIntimacyGram Ай бұрын
Life gets easier when we live in The Solution. 🙏♥️🎢🚴🏻
@isabellamaschietto Ай бұрын
I thought it was funny and had pride that I harmed others due to my sexual child abuse and I owe them a living amends
@isabellamaschietto Ай бұрын
What do you mean you can't be vegan theres people who eat vegan out of tubes
@isabellamaschietto Ай бұрын
My sobriety date is August 9th 2021 I will have 3 years soon
@isabellamaschietto Ай бұрын
People really get 50 60 70 years
@isabellamaschietto Ай бұрын
What if I had my last drink then how will I work the steps
@isabellamaschietto Ай бұрын
I don't get why Joe and Charly say the way to work the steps is to drink
@sullivancalgary Ай бұрын
🙏🏻
@isabellamaschietto Ай бұрын
I never understood why a gay man would molest a little lesbian girl
@isabellamaschietto Ай бұрын
Lesbian Ultra!
@isabellamaschietto Ай бұрын
That's why I don't give people shit I already know how to take care of people i struggle with working with others and feel like I'm better off taking care of things on my own but I know it's not true
@danamosser9381 Ай бұрын
Is your July Zoom Boom talk available to hear? I just saw your KZbin videos and would like to hear more. I had the sad experience of an in person LPG group which was simply used to further express early childhood trauma experiences.
@TheIntimacyGram Ай бұрын
I am sorry to hear about your experience. Some wounded inner children have difficulty moving past their identity as a hurt person, and bond with others who they identity with. This is the isolation mentioned in The Solution ("The healing begins when we risk moving out of isolation.") The elevator is busted. Take the Steps. Here is the link to the Zoom Boom recording: kzbin.info/www/bejne/qoOvoJptrM94kKs Or were you asking about the Voices Across America Recording from this week?
@judycole7402 Ай бұрын
Thank you, it's what I needed to hear.
@TheIntimacyGram Ай бұрын
So glad! Strive to be the hero of your own epic journey!
@esperanzavillafuerte9810 Ай бұрын
Was it scary? And will you do it again?
@TheIntimacyGram Ай бұрын
Very scary, but I did it! I tried to write it again, but each time we walked over the ride was down due to the weather. I think I'm ready now for the ejection seat!
@ryanhead1723 Ай бұрын
Thanks Ken, this is very helpful as are all of your recovery videos. I'm coming back to ACA after being away for a few years and hitting a bad emotional bottom. I have been to 5 meetings and have some hope again. Thank you for your offerings. They help a lot!
@TheIntimacyGram Ай бұрын
Thank you! I am grateful for you and your comment! I hope you find peace, self-acceptance and understanding on your road to serenity. 🎈
@stephaniemcguirk1154 Ай бұрын
I’m new to ACA. Are these Bill of Rights yours or in the ACA literature somewhere?
@TheIntimacyGram Ай бұрын
This was the first version. When ACA WSO published their approved version, that changed and added much to this. I prefer this version better. Less is more. Use which ever version speaks to you.
@jl3268 Ай бұрын
Hi handsome❤ you are just too sweet!! Hugs💕
@TheIntimacyGram Ай бұрын
😊 thank you
@victorialukens5632 Ай бұрын
On second viewing I just got " Kenny for Shoes". Takes me back! Love, humour and respect 💗😁🙌
@williammonroe7071 Ай бұрын
AA to me And Treatment is a Joke -a Sponsor can be a Evil Person,,That will Control You. I think that we need a NEW WAY TO HELP EACH OF US,,To Understand How to live a Healthy lifestyle..Tha Way it is Now Don't Work..To much Controlling and if I Fail I am not working tha 12 Step's..A'HO INIT AMEN
@victorialukens5632 Ай бұрын
Thank you Ken and to all your inner family. Love the troll dolls and a big shout out to the inner senior!
@Nocomplaintsatthemoment Ай бұрын
Wow. When he talked about his mother having a panic attack on the mono rail at Bush Gardens, I had completely forgotten about a similar experience when I was a child. My father was sitting next to me on The Scream Machine at 6 Flags. My sister was in the cart behind us and slipped underneath the safety bar and into the floor board. It was a wooden roller coaster. When the father realized he started panicking. Reaching around behind him trying to get his hands on her to hold her down. I can remember his eyes bulging and not being able to reach her. We never talked about it afterwards. I have had a fear of bridges and I know it was that experience that has not been healed. How could it, it was buried. Thank you for sharing. You were heard.
@esperanzavillafuerte9810 Ай бұрын
Love the reframe! I think i finally understand a reframe! Thank you for the positivity!
@benjibenj7 Ай бұрын
The timing of your video is uncanny! I just got stung by a wasp 10mins ago! (my first time!). It's nice to know I'm not alone ☺️ I'm sorry to hear you get stung so often. Thanks for the reframe
@TheIntimacyGram Ай бұрын
Thank you. I'm barely bothered by a bee sting. Hopefully it's the same for you. ♥️
@perryboyce2587 Ай бұрын
😢😢
@TheIntimacyGram Ай бұрын
Tha pain last less than 5 minutes, although it is very itchy today. A wasp sting lasts much much longer.
@egoebb Ай бұрын
12 step and sponsors harm people. 12 Step harms more people than it helps.
@lifewave7347 2 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for creating this resource! This has been really helpful for me
@TheIntimacyGram Ай бұрын
Thank you! I'm always glad to hear when these videos have helped others. ♥️🙏🎈
@Amy. 2 ай бұрын
Wow, what a view! Appreciate your example of a reframe. 😊
@lyn5497 2 ай бұрын
You did it! Beautiful fireworks!🎇 HP all the way! (Fellow traveler/ACA)